Pearl - February 27, 2026When Alphas Cheat
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Summary
In this episode we talk about cheating, cheating on a spouse, cheating in a relationship, cheating after cheating and cheating after a breakup. We also talk about the types of cheaters and how to deal with cheating in the modern era.
Transcript
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but there's other men that are driven to cheat because the wife is just so insufferable
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what up guys welcome to my reaction series on this channel we react to women taking l's
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and most women in my interviews of interviewing over a thousand people i would say most women
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have been cheated on at some point now women are about to complain on the internet about
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getting pumped and dumped and cheated on by chad and tyrone and here we don't you know we don't
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think that society's going to change or anything so we just enjoy it and we're going to have some
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fun my ex-fiance cheated on me and somehow everybody around him decided that i was the
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problem listen to me well i bet you probably were the problem i mean if if everyone's saying it
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like what did you do i mean like what did you do to make him cheat you know every but like
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every single person said you were the problem you might be the problem my ex-fiance cheated on me
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but everybody decided that i was the problem he broke a promise but i'm gonna sit here and i'm
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gonna break the silence because they all choose to protect him i'm i'm gonna i'm gonna need to
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hear the other side of the story i mean ma'am you seem a little bit crazy you got the music going
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in the background like it's like as if we're on survivor or some like real i don't know just asked
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me how i was surviving or surviving i mean that's just an l like i mean how do you survive i mean
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it really doesn't have anything to do with you if they cheat like that shouldn't i mean you could be
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sad but it like it shouldn't impact your day you still got to work it's not like you lost your leg
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or something if i was even doing okay there was no care there was no concern they called it a mistake
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and it was a mistake but he knew what he was doing therefore that is called betrayal for them
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it was easier to forgive a mistake than to accept the fact that he betrayed me let me say this and
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let me say this very gently you're probably so insufferable that everybody was so thankful that
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he like took you off their hands that they're like well one one cheating isn't too bad for
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me to deal with you right being surrounded by people who excuse your behavior doesn't make you
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innocent it just means that you're comfortable and he did not lose me because i was too much
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he lost me because he himself was not there it is yeah they always tell on themselves
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okay so everyone's saying you're too much you probably were just take the l we're not that
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likable of people faithful and he could not be faithful and anyone who protects cheating
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is just teaching you that they themselves would tolerate that kind of behavior not really i mean
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there's different types of elves all right watch me crash that after finding out my ex is proposing
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to the girl that he cheated on me with two months later oh that's a bad one
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yeah i mean sometimes the girl that's cheating sometimes they're better than you in every way
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and they leave you know they don't really talk about this like a lot of times they say oh like
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he'll never leave the wife for you that's not really what i've seen i sometimes if the wife
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is a and the other the side chick is younger hotter and better in every way
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they do leave so you can steal a woman's husband that's absolutely possible these a lot of people
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cope and they say oh if he'll leave her he'll leave you not necessarily if you're more pleasant
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to be around overall and just a better person you know what the
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yeah okay she's gonna cry we'll move on keep crying honey it's all right all right be gratefully
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cheated on you it's probably like the best thing that ever happened to you trust me i am so grateful
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for when my ex cheated on me you know why because people like you and i we work hard we try really
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hard like if something epic didn't slap us in the face and make us shift and come out of that
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relationship i would have still been there i mean there's two types of cheaters right they're the
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cheaters that are going to cheat on you regardless like they just love poonanny and you know it's
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kind of like me i'm going to cheat on my diet eventually because in it i have it in me to be
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a 300 pound obese woman and every day i have to like fight to not be obese there's some people
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their demon is just poonanny that is just the demon they fight there's other men aren't really
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tempted that much but there's other men that are driven to cheat because the wife is just so
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insufferable yeah i would have still been there all with my blind self self trying to make it work
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working on it babe what's like maybe we should wait no no no no cheat on you and then just
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and then it's over sometimes the world works in amazing ways it's literally up in the top five
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of the best things that happened to me because oh my god i could have been there with him still
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trying to oh hello sunshine trying to make it work oh my god imagine my point being i think
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sometimes people you still occupy space in your mind you know that means that means you did love
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them you have to understand the highs and the lows that's real love for women a lot of times
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it's not for men but the more boring types of love women tend to get bored and leave yeah like you
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and me we just work hard and try hard and it's not about that in other news i heard tiktok's
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getting banned in america sorry guys but good news is i'll post the same content on my insta
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and i have a youtube channel and a mail list for everything i'm coming up with so well take that
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all right we got a redhead here redheads we are a little crazy i got i'm a redhead i know a crazy
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bitch when i see one all right was that my ex literally slept with my best friend that literally
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oof that's pretty bad it's like a different level of diabolical when they do it you know what it is
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it's so easy for people to cheat with friends because usually like in friend groups people get
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close right and you spend a lot of like two-on-one time like you know if i i've had a best friend
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right she hopefully never did that but like when i was younger if i had a boyfriend he would come
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she would come we would all hang out together so i mean it's like right for cheating you know
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that's like the next you know that's why women hop on they homie hop men bitch hop but it is
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the most brutal if you get cheated on like it's worse if it's um with someone you know the entire
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time that i thought he was cheating on me it just so happened to be her so a little backstory i've
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been dating my ex for probably four years at this point and my best friend and i have been best
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friends since childhood not anymore oh man i had to get a weird feeling about him because all of a
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sudden the vibe changed we weren't hanging out as much he didn't want to hang out with me he was
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making a lot of excuses he just didn't want to be a part of my life particularly long story short i
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found messages in his phone from a question mark question mark question mark and they were all
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sexual all weird so obviously he was cheating on me but i didn't know who this person was
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text dated back literal months i was in shock number one because i never thought he would do
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something like that to me. Like on paper, he was a perfect boyfriend. So it was, it was kind of
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strophic for me at the time. So anyways, of course I went to my best friend about it. I,
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she consoled me for months. I found out I did not tell him right away. I waited probably four days
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before I had the courage to just text and just be like, you know what? I found this. Okay. You had
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the courage to text him. That's crazy though. Diabolical where the woman is consoling her
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friend as she knows she's been throwing giving him the poonanny text messages were done basically
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that was it but we were together for a long time so this was just a long drawn out breakup process
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the kicker is when i found messages in my best friend's phone over at her house one day and she
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went in the shower she left her phone out and she got a call from this guy we'll just call him chris
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and this was my ex's name so i just i found that weird was maybe it's a different chris whatever
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but i knew her passcode because we're best friends so i was like yeah i'm a little curious so let me
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just let me just double check i went into her phone i went into chris and it just so happened
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to be my boyfriend um so i scrolled up and saw all of the messages and you can use your imagination
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they dated way back to when my boyfriend had been cheating on me so that's when i put two and two
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together and realized that question mark question mark question mark was actually my best friend
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and she was two-faced the entire time got out of the shower i chucked her phone in her face i picked
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up all of my shit and i walked at the door um and i blocked her and then those two probably had
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great sex after that and then who knows who the problem was out of the two and then he'll
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he'll either regret it and come back or think wow i i dated the crazy friend thank god i got the
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good one any of you been in a love triangle let me know everything but that is not where the story
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ends a week later i got an email from her because again i blocked her on everything that's the only
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way that she could contact me and literally the subject line was i am so sorry let me explain let
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me explain what is there to explain girl sent me a link in this email let me show you what it was
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yeah you're hearing this right look she made a song not her sending me a song
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it's rich hey that's incredible i think you you get the point so we heard it here folks
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yeah not even a good song either wow that was a great story she did send me a song that she made
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on on suno i guess to explain herself as though it was a good excuse and blocked her email and i
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have not talked to either of them since thank you wow it's kind of crazy because this used to be
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just like the gossip in the town but now it gets on tiktok and there's a digital footprint of the
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gossip i didn't really it's the craziest excuse you got for cheating i didn't really cheat she
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was too tight and I can't wow all right well I think your breakup was bad she got cheated on
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with his mom what my ex okay I'm starting to think she might be making this up all right well who
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knows anyways guys have you ever been in a love triangle have you ever been cheated on or have
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you ever cheated with the friend and what happened I actually know one person that was the she did
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exactly what happened in this TikTok. She slept with her best friend's husband and she stole them
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and they're married happily. So if that's not the red pill for you, I don't know what is.
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