Pearl - Divorce Documentary Is The Solution to Women’s Emotional Terrorism.

00:00:00.080 What up guys, welcome to my coffee talks. Today I have a sweet cream vanilla cold brew. I don't know if anyone cares.

00:00:08.380 So I just thought I'd do a quick coffee talk to give you guys updates on the divorce documentary.

00:00:14.420 So for those of you that don't know, in 2023 I was labeled the female Andrew Tate.

00:00:19.600 They did label a few females this, so you can take that with a grain of salt.

00:00:24.200 which i thought was funny because um andrew tate i like a good dude um but i think we've

00:00:33.100 lived different lives you know what i mean the the camps that guy's lived a crazy life so just

00:00:40.480 i always thought that was a crazy comparison anyways um in 2023 i started one of the biggest

00:00:47.240 youtube shows in the united states at the time i had a billion views on my youtube channel

00:00:51.780 and um anyways my channel got bigger and bigger and bigger uh until I got canceled uh demonetized

00:01:00.580 and kicked off a lot of platforms I got kicked off of three Instagram accounts probably seven

00:01:05.800 or eight TikToks I lost count um and my YouTube channel was demonetized for two years so over

00:01:13.940 the course of two years um I had no income I went from being on top of the world to uh being

00:01:19.980 unemployed and living at my parents' house. It was ultimately very embarrassing. Very embarrassing.

00:01:25.860 Oh my gosh. And my goal was always to make a divorce documentary. And the reason I wanted

00:01:33.660 to make this divorce documentary is because I didn't understand why men didn't want to get

00:01:39.320 married, right? And so I kind of went on this journey into red pill content and all this stuff

00:01:45.960 trying to figure out why don't men want to get married anymore? You know, a lot of women, 1.00

00:01:48.940 they hear men don't want to get married and they get mad they get angry um and i just kind of was

00:01:53.620 asking the question all right let's let's hear them out and what i realized is society just

00:01:59.220 never hears men out in every situation um i don't know like in a courtroom setting

00:02:06.300 i'm not i'm not like i i think each party has to be able to give their side and the audience

00:02:16.240 can come to a conclusion but the issue is women have been giving their side for so long and we

00:02:22.840 just have never heard men's side of the equation and I realize this is pretty much in all facets

00:02:28.140 of society this is in corporate America women give their side they don't want to be sexually

00:02:32.620 harassed at work and we never hear the men's side when they're like you guys are dressing naked

00:02:37.860 we're being sexually harassed with our eyes not that um not that men mind that all the time but

00:02:44.280 even you know in the education system you know we talk about there's no male teachers but we

00:02:53.580 never hear the men out and they're like hey these young girls can falsely accuse me at any time and

00:02:59.040 I'm gonna lose my career this is not worth it I am not gonna be labeled a pedo right or if there

00:03:05.600 is a rape case we just never hear the men's side and the more and more I started listening to the

00:03:12.140 men's side of things. I'm like, Oh my gosh, they make way more sense than us. Um, and it really

00:03:17.620 made me rethink about situations I've had in my personal life, situations I've heard from friends,

00:03:24.320 um, situations like just over the years, there's so many situations where I'm like, Oh, that like

00:03:32.700 that's what's happening. And the reason was I realized that women go through like a playbook 1.00

00:03:38.620 when they get divorced. It seems like we just can't emotionally, I'm going to give the most

00:03:42.900 charitable, I'm going to give the most charitable interpretation of women today. You could call me

00:03:48.620 pro-woman, right? It just seems like we can't regulate all the icky feelings inside that we

00:03:55.380 get. And we constantly are riddled with like guilt, embarrassment, and wanting to keep,

00:04:03.060 maintain our reputation, right? We just have this. And because we have these feelings,

00:04:07.600 we make everybody suffer so what I realized is when women get divorced they get into a fight 0.95

00:04:13.180 with the husband or he does something wrong in the woman's head he's this evil guy she goes to 0.97

00:04:19.160 all the friends and by the time she files for divorce she's turned the entire friend group

00:04:23.960 against the man and none of them have heard his side and you know how much time it takes because

00:04:28.680 I have a I try not to embarrass anyone related to be on this app so I have a relative that does this

00:04:37.300 to me, I'll just say. And it's like the amount of time it takes to go to each person to tell

00:04:44.820 your side of the story. It's like, and it's kind of a subtle change. And I think a lot of men feel

00:04:51.660 it where the kid or the wife, it's like something's different. Everyone around them is looking at them

00:04:56.760 different, but he can't really put his finger on it. Right. So anyways, I realized that women are

00:05:05.220 kind of emotionally terrorizing men and men are afraid to talk about it because of the retaliation

00:05:12.000 from women. And so I just said, I'll do it. So I decided I'm like, I'm going to put out a divorce 0.80

00:05:18.820 documentary asking the question, what's in it for men? And it's interesting because I felt lied to

00:05:25.640 by conservative media. So I was an avid Ben Shapiro, Daily Wire watcher. And the past five

00:05:31.680 years, I've crashed out of them a lot because I did feel very lied to because they would say

00:05:36.260 things like we're going to have the pendulum swing back. Traditionalism is going to come back. We're

00:05:40.800 all going to have these amazing families and it's just going to be awesome. And when I realized that

00:05:46.740 none of them are religious or care about religion because none of them believe in the natural order

00:05:52.060 of the world, which is God, men, women, children, I realized these people are just using religion

00:05:57.280 for clout um none of them can tell their wife no and it's very obvious um and none of them demonize

00:06:03.680 female sin this is kind of a whatever it's a little off topic but whatever and I realized um

00:06:10.500 so I would go on these shows and I would ask the question like what's in it for men and I just

00:06:15.080 witnessed the most absurd pandering I've ever seen in my life like Michael Knowles said divorce was

00:06:21.840 wrong even if the guy found out the kid wasn't his i'm like ninja please and by the way they debate

00:06:32.200 me on this because they could never say that to a man like they're weak men a lot of them like

00:06:38.000 noel's weak guy um and it's because they could never bring on like terrence pop a three-year

00:06:43.400 war veteran right or a three a war veteran and tell him ninja your divorce was wrong you're an 0.99

00:06:51.980 evil guy because you got divorced he's like this bitch killed my dog do you know what I mean 0.99

00:06:57.440 sorry I'm laughing this is really serious stuff so I do apologize if if you take the laugh as 0.99

00:07:03.500 disrespect I don't mean it in that way but it's um I'm laughing because of the absurdity

00:07:09.100 and the last few years it's like i i go in all these i actually have been more frustrated with 0.98

00:07:15.460 conservatives than liberals because liberals the women say what they are they're like we're only 0.96

00:07:20.380 fans whores baby let's get it where the conservatives uh they just say the man has 0.99

00:07:26.780 to be a slave to his wife no matter what in many words you know and i think they're um pain i think 1.00

00:07:34.460 they're ignorant and i would actually say they have blood on their hands in a lot of ways because

00:07:39.080 they're recommending men have a traditional wife and i've seen the worst the worst of i was talking 0.99

00:07:47.800 to an attorney about this yesterday during the divorce doc the guys that get it the worst are

00:07:52.360 the men making like above average money um that don't have the skill set to really work for

00:07:57.640 themselves because i'm the father of a daughter of an entrepreneur i think you either have the skill

00:08:03.560 to manage people you have that type of personality or you don't um so when they have a stay-at-home

00:08:09.960 wife uh she can take everything and oftentimes she does this i mean i've talked to guys that

00:08:15.080 are on lifelong alimony that uh like one guy talked to he's um he was uh what do you call it

00:08:23.960 one of those guys at jails that make sure none of the jail people kill each other one of those

00:08:28.840 guy corrections officer um and this guy had a stay-at-home wife this girl took everything

00:08:36.520 and now he's on lifelong he's never going to retire and it's like these rich it's like these

00:08:41.560 elite men telling these middle class and average men they should just man up and get married

00:08:47.880 and just when i i kept doing these interviews and it kind of disproved everything i thought about

00:08:56.040 women like i thought women were nurturing when i went into this and um it made me realize that

00:09:03.800 women are are emotional and really domestic terrorists to some degree i've interviewed 0.56

00:09:09.800 guys living out of their car because of a woman i've interviewed got like it it's it's like right

00:09:17.000 in front of you and you don't see it until you see it okay so i really wanted to make this

00:09:23.240 documentary but it just seemed like the more I wanted to get this documentary out and the more

00:09:28.440 I started being honest about these concepts uh the more my life sort of like you know

00:09:34.500 started falling apart in a lot of ways like I got demonetized um I would get these like ambush

00:09:41.500 interviews like I'd go on h3 and I'm like hey do we not care about these guys not getting access

00:09:47.960 to their kids and it's just like this crazy gaslight or it's like the conservative men saying

00:09:56.160 um that the men aren't doing enough and I'm like I don't know I interviewed this guy who spent

00:10:02.960 three hundred thousand dollars trying to get his kid back the other day uh Michael he goes to your

00:10:07.840 church like do you not know we're just going to ignore that no nothing even to the point there's

00:10:13.980 one conservative commentator I won't say his name he's on the show talking to me about how

00:10:19.680 men don't fight for their kids enough he doesn't know his driver his like the guy that picked me

00:10:26.920 up from the airport to go on his show hasn't seen his kid in like two years and is basically

00:10:32.640 enslaved to this I mean this guy was telling me a story and I'm like what like it's like these

00:10:38.260 high status and elite men that make a bunch of money they have a they have enough money for a

00:10:44.220 divorce are telling the average guys with average incomes or more average incomes that they're not 0.98

00:10:50.860 doing enough and i'm like this is the biggest bullshit i've ever seen in my life this is 0.95

00:10:57.080 actually ridiculous um and a lot of time from my interviews it takes the guys at least a decade to 0.98

00:11:04.580 recover. At least some of them never do financially. Um, so anyways, trying to get this

00:11:12.140 divorce documentary out in a way has been hell on earth because number one, um, you're trying to,

00:11:19.700 there's people that just actively try to ruin your life all the time when you do this issue.

00:11:28.020 Um, now you could, there probably is an argument in the case to be made that maybe

00:11:32.080 there's certain times when I haven't done it perfectly right when I could have been

00:11:36.060 uh like you know conveyed the message in a better way etc etc uh but like the things that have

00:11:45.560 happened to me in the last few years have just been ridiculous when I'm just trying to say hey

00:11:51.720 I think these guys need their kids it's pretty important right um like ambushes on shows I've

00:11:59.160 had so many friends crash out on me and just I mean I'm almost traumatized making friends with

00:12:08.420 a woman because I don't know it like in two years are you gonna learn a bunch of stuff about me 1.00

00:12:14.920 and then make a video and the least charitable like women never leave balanced reviews it's 0.74

00:12:23.200 never like oh she did this that was good it's always just like a list and you know what's 0.83

00:12:27.380 crazy about them you'll say something in the midst of a conversation and it's like they'll take it

00:12:34.660 out of context and just make it make videos about about it the least charitable interpreter i mean

00:12:41.120 this happens all the time whatever but i had like a friend of 20 years crash out on me um

00:12:48.100 and it just never ends like it just uh so anyways when i got demonetized for two years i had to

00:12:57.040 stop making this doc. Um, I got kicked off a bunch of platforms and long story short,

00:13:05.740 I was trying to raise the money for the stock and I finally did. I finally did after two and a half

00:13:10.840 years. Thank you, Jesus. And now we're on the second, I, today's the third day, but yesterday

00:13:17.740 was the second day of interviews. And, um, I've interviewed a divorce lawyer. I interviewed a guy

00:13:22.060 who got his kid transitioned. I interviewed the daughter and the son of a mother that turned them

00:13:29.880 against the dad, right? And they actually woke up and figured it out later. And they talk about the

00:13:35.080 damaging effects it had on them. So I think this doc is going to be awesome. And it's really just

00:13:42.860 me taking, you know, going through the questions like, what do men get out of marriage? And if

00:13:50.360 anything i matter at the conservatives for lying about this shit you guys are liars um matt walsh 1.00

00:13:58.620 michael knowles all of these guys literally have blood on their hands because they're pushing 1.00

00:14:04.640 an institution that in this country kills people it does so many men um i mean one of the guys

00:14:15.360 talked about i think two of the guys i've interviewed talked about close friends that

00:14:20.940 um actually committed suicide because of this system um we had another guy that almost committed

00:14:27.080 suicide and was really close to doing it like a lot of men don't know what they're signing up for

00:14:32.000 and conservatives just aren't honest about it so if they're not going to be honest i guess i will

00:14:36.620 um anyways terrence is we're interviewing terrence today so i think that'll be a great

00:14:42.640 interview. Thanks for sticking with me through this because I can understand as a viewer,

00:14:48.800 it's probably been so frustrating to be talking about this divorce doc for so long. I'm like,

00:14:53.400 you guys, I'm like, I swear I'm not lying. This is coming. I will, this will be finished. I will

00:15:00.120 do this doc. So anyways, like the video and subscribe. People have asked how they could

00:15:06.320 support it. You can email me just pearlythings at gmail.com. Otherwise there's a GoFundMe link.

00:15:12.640 uh i'll put it in this description there's going to be an app where you can do larger donations

00:15:19.540 and get involved but it's just our app's not done it's probably going to be in the next two weeks

00:15:24.320 three weeks so anyways guys like the video subscribe and i'll see you next time

Pearl - May 01, 2026

Divorce Documentary Is The Solution to Women’s Emotional Terrorism.

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