Pearl - November 16, 2025


Do Men Bond through Sex more than Women？


Episode Stats

Length

7 minutes

Words per Minute

141.94916

Word Count

1,072

Sentence Count

81

Misogynist Sentences

28

Hate Speech Sentences

13


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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Okay, so I always hear about how women are the ones who bond through sex and women don't want to sleep with a ton of men.
00:00:11.060 But if that were true, why is it when women have the most choice, we sleep with like three dudes at a time?
00:00:18.680 You know, like, what age are women known for whoring?
00:00:23.420 It's like 18 to 23 at college.
00:00:26.180 But, um, so it's kind of, that's what you see women pick when they have the most choice.
00:00:36.120 And I was thinking about this even further.
00:00:39.080 I think men bond more from sex than women do.
00:00:45.460 Like, a man will have a situationship or like a hoe that he knows she's a hoe.
00:00:51.480 And, you know, he knows that's not his girl, right?
00:00:56.980 She's for the streets, whatever.
00:00:58.700 But you can kind of hear in the way he talks about her.
00:01:01.400 It's like, you know, yeah, she's a hoe.
00:01:07.100 But that's my hoe.
00:01:09.760 You're like, you'll see that like a girl will come up and be like, she's such a whore.
00:01:13.460 She's this, this, and this.
00:01:14.460 And the men will defend the hoe that's like sleeping with everybody.
00:01:20.280 The men getting laid anyways.
00:01:22.140 The men that don't get laid are pissed because they're like, that's my future wife.
00:01:29.580 And I was thinking, because I'd always hear Myron say on his show that women don't want to sleep around like that.
00:01:35.320 And I'll just think, and I like Myron.
00:01:37.660 But I'm like, Myron, everything you've seen in Miami would indicate that women do in fact want to sleep around like that.
00:01:47.060 And if women bonded, like, let's say, let's go with this hypothesis that women bond like through sex.
00:01:54.360 Why do we treat our ex-husbands so bad?
00:01:57.020 I mean, who beat the dog, who busted down more than the guy you were married to 10 years?
00:02:05.340 And in divorce court, women do not act like they bonded at all with their husbands.
00:02:16.620 Yeah, and I was, I was really thinking about this even more.
00:02:20.100 And I'm like, if women didn't want to whore out, why do we fight so hard?
00:02:24.300 I mean, we had a slut march.
00:02:27.020 We had a march, like, saying to men, hey, I want to bang as many guys as possible.
00:02:33.360 And I want to kill the kid if anything happens.
00:02:36.580 And yet we still say that women are, like, the nurturing gender.
00:02:40.820 We still say that women are, like, the ones that are, switch hands.
00:02:44.840 Sorry, that's way too close.
00:02:47.100 We still say that women are the ones that are, like, used and abused in relationships.
00:02:52.940 But I don't know.
00:02:53.900 It seems like, to me, women have the desire to sleep with multiple men.
00:03:01.920 And women don't bond as much as we thought during sex.
00:03:06.500 And I have a couple analogies.
00:03:08.680 So I know four girls that lost their virginities.
00:03:11.460 And I think virginity is phrased as this really bonding, like, experience for women.
00:03:19.840 And for me personally, that was my experience.
00:03:25.020 However, that was not the experience of most women I knew.
00:03:29.560 Like, one woman I know, knew, I mean, she lost hers in a frat house with a guy she didn't really care if she saw again.
00:03:39.040 And to her, she just wanted to, like, get it over with.
00:03:42.060 Right?
00:03:42.240 And this is, like, the virgin girls that men idealize.
00:03:45.560 Um, there was another one.
00:03:51.880 I'm trying to remember the other one.
00:03:55.360 Hi.
00:03:57.020 There was another one.
00:03:59.400 It's a cute dog.
00:04:01.900 Who, she, um, she lost it to her boyfriend.
00:04:09.720 And she dumped her boyfriend to go get banged out at school, you know, for two years and then found her husband.
00:04:18.420 Like, whatever.
00:04:19.700 But, again, if it was this really bonding thing, why is it the most attractive women don't seem to care about it that much?
00:04:30.240 Because those are the women with the most choice.
00:04:32.120 I've always been a certified mid.
00:04:33.740 Um, and it seems maybe more bonding for the mids, but the beautiful women with a lot of choice, the choice to get, you know, go through the highest quality men.
00:04:49.680 Now, the other two girls I knew that lost their virginities were two situationships that didn't pan out.
00:04:56.980 And one of them, when it didn't pan out, I mean, then she went buck wild.
00:05:09.140 And, again, you know, she was sleeping with these guys, and she really did not care.
00:05:14.700 And I know a lot of, a lot of, um, people will come at me, and they'll say,
00:05:18.380 Pearl, it's just these crazy girls on your shelves.
00:05:21.220 And I'm like, no, these are all pretty normal women.
00:05:22.940 None of these women were, like, particularly slutty, if that makes sense.
00:05:30.700 Um, like, I guess comparatively, like, they all were responsible people, good jobs.
00:05:37.140 Um, and they, they're all, most of them married young, actually.
00:05:39.780 Most of them married by 24.
00:05:41.180 So, anyways, I don't know if, my, my whole point is, I don't know if virginity and sex to women is as bonding as we think.
00:05:59.000 I actually think it's more bonding for men.
00:06:01.880 Because men will, in their 40s and 50s, remember women they hooked up with and still speak favorably on them.
00:06:10.040 Um, where women will forget about guys they hooked up with.
00:06:15.840 I've heard women say they just want to, like, hook up with him to get it over with.
00:06:20.860 Like, men don't usually disqualify women if they're bad in bed.
00:06:27.240 Unless they're, like, really seasoned players, but just in general.
00:06:30.240 Women do that all the time.
00:06:31.460 Um, and I think women trick men into thinking it's this bonding thing.
00:06:39.240 So, they get more resources.
00:06:41.420 And they don't have to be as nice and as good of people.
00:06:44.480 And all they have to do is just say, oh, I'm really bonded to you from this thing that they're not really bonded through.
00:06:51.460 And then get more resources.
00:06:52.940 That's really what I've seen.
00:07:02.020 But, anyways, guys, I could get kicked off of YouTube any day now.
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00:07:25.240 And if I get kicked off again, I might actually have to retire.
00:07:28.500 So, anyways, guys, make sure you like the video, subscribe to the channel, and I'll see you next time.