Pearl - Laughing At Divorces That Backfire For Modern Women

00:00:00.000 No, I mean, the men are like, wow, I don't have a wife nagging me. I can do all my hobbies. And

00:00:05.340 then now the woman they're dating is going to nag. It never ends. What up guys? Welcome to my 1.00

00:00:09.760 reaction series. So women file for divorce 70 to 80% of the time. And a lot of times they think 0.97

00:00:15.720 that on the other side of that divorce is going to be men committing to them that give them 0.99

00:00:20.640 attention. You know, the Chad hitting on her at work, the Chad at the grocery store, Chad's,

00:00:25.640 chads chads now um unfortunately for the single mothers out there the options are not going to be 1.00

00:00:32.580 as good as you think so let's play this video this guy has been blowing my phone up i finally

00:00:38.440 was bored today so i was like oh i'll text him back no response did he just fall off the earth

00:00:44.280 why do you mean i like this women do this all the time now what he did he wanted to gauge your 0.98

00:00:48.220 interest and now he's going to pull back and now you're curious um it's working it is so what is

00:00:54.020 he doing hard going from being married to being whatever the hell this is called the land of

00:00:59.560 confusion the land of the lost love it she's so happy look at her she loves getting dicked down 1.00

00:01:04.240 all right let's see this woman these are pretty good looking single moms so far 1.00

00:01:11.340 dating after divorce is the most complicated thing ever there's talking stages there's dating 0.95

00:01:17.960 stages there's such these women that married young they have no idea how good they have it 1.00

00:01:22.320 and how much worse it's going to be on the dating market because they're probably the baddest bitch 1.00

00:01:25.800 at their high school because a lot of the women that married young I mean they were the first 1.00

00:01:29.500 round draft pick in high school but now you're going to be the last round draft pick in the city

00:01:33.060 sorry maybe not last you're decent looking but relationships what is all of this first of all

00:01:38.100 I don't know how to not be a wife I want to cook for you I want to clean for you I want to check 0.99

00:01:41.700 in on you I want to call you all the time I doubt it because you're my man but not my man

00:01:47.440 and i also want to go batshit crazy and yeah um the tyrones and the gavins or they're not going 0.73

00:01:54.680 to deal with all that they don't need you to do that they're like because they know the nice

00:01:57.880 things they that you do are going to be used as weaponized against you later so they're like no

00:02:02.300 no sex and leave please i can't because you're my man but like not my man it's so hard well isn't it

00:02:10.980 the consequences of your own choices now look i understand that sometimes marriages end we're kind

00:02:16.300 fighting biology by getting married like women are kind of meant to be passed around and men 0.92

00:02:20.780 are kind of meant to like bang younger and hotter forever so we're really fighting our biologies

00:02:25.820 doing this um so i get it but you have to understand what like you're signing up for when

00:02:32.380 you divorce thinking yes i've still got it i'm gonna make this right i'm gonna find myself a

00:02:38.300 mature man yeah again because the mature men aren't really going to be lined up for this day

00:02:45.580 sadly you know i have a tear cute when you were young kind of looks like an older version of me

00:02:50.140 i don't like this um but you know now i i see neck roll wrinkle it's just not going to go well

00:02:57.580 for you five horribly brutal truths that no one no one prepared me for a lot of people tried to

00:03:04.940 tell you this but you just didn't listen the amount of men with stds despite the fact that

00:03:10.780 many have been in monogamous marriages for decades because stds don't really affect men the

00:03:16.600 same way they affect women is one in five and men that are divorced they don't want to use

00:03:23.140 protection because they know because they're like look um i look at that age they're like i'm not 0.96

00:03:29.340 wrapping it up for this old broad you gotta you better bow to me bitch using protection in their 1.00

00:03:34.440 marriage. The use of condoms plummets with age, which means your chance of an STD and your chance 0.99

00:03:41.840 of a later in life unwanted pregnancy is through the roof. Not really. We're 100% in control of

00:03:48.100 who's born. I don't think pregnancy is what scares women. STDs, yeah, those, because those can't have 0.97

00:03:52.440 real effects for women. And even a conversation around birth control, it's not going to go well.

00:03:59.360 Yeah, because they view it's not my problem. None of that's their problem. They're going to smash

00:04:05.740 and whatever happens is your problem. I love watching popcorn. No one's monitoring their

00:04:10.300 phone use. They're not worried about their wives walking in on them anymore because they're single.

00:04:15.560 So you're competing with that. That's all I'm going to say on that one. Addictions fill the

00:04:19.980 loneliness gap. So many men at this age and stage have addictions. Whether it's weed, gambling,

00:04:26.100 drinking fitness they're obsessed because they've used these things a fitness yeah again

00:04:31.700 whenever something like men enjoy something women just love to nag at it so they're like a fitness 1.00

00:04:36.980 obsession well join you know what i mean like i mean you have the opportunity to basically have

00:04:42.120 a personal trainer things as a way to cope with their post-divorce loneliness because they don't

00:04:46.420 know again she's using shaming language no i mean the men are like wow i don't have a wife nagging

00:04:52.480 me i can do all my hobbies and then now the woman they're dating is gonna nag it never ends have 1.00

00:04:57.120 real relationships even the high functioning addict looks put together but just watch how

00:05:03.200 they're coping with stress because if every problem is known with one of these things

00:05:07.340 just run emotional availability is just not present you would think having gone through a

00:05:15.320 divorce that they would be doing the work on themselves but most men no they just say i want

00:05:19.720 to be able to manipulate these men i mean that's really what she's saying i want more power and

00:05:25.000 they're not going to give me what i want but you're not entitled to anything and that's really

00:05:29.720 the best attitude to have in dating is i am entitled to nothing nothing um because a lot

00:05:37.320 of times the women that ask for let the least get the most healed they're not doing it they're just 1.00

00:05:41.720 rebounding into other relationships they do everything they can to avoid facing themselves

00:05:45.800 and doing the work just ask them about their last relationship it's going to tell you everything you

00:05:49.240 need to know and the dating pool the pool that you actually want to get into the one that is

00:05:54.200 vacuumed and clean and clear is so itsy bitsy teensy weensy you're going to feel like there's

00:06:00.760 no one out there in the whole world even though everyone around you is divorced and available

00:06:06.360 if you feel like the pool is just the size of a shot glass that's good because that means your

00:06:10.600 standards are no it's not good and and that's what we gotta we gotta end this um idea that high

00:06:17.160 standards help us look i mean men don't want forced sex they don't want sex that the woman's 0.68

00:06:22.680 not excited to have like men would rather take their hand and that's the problem is women are 1.00

00:06:26.440 banged out by chads now they can't be um excited for you know the sex with brad or whatever 0.98

00:06:33.640 and now um they're cooked we're cooked hi do not lower them ever it's so important that you're 0.83

00:06:39.240 aware because i was not and you need to know the landscape i really wouldn't recommend doing it at

00:06:44.360 all all right guys what do you think about this um what do you how do you think how have you seen

00:06:50.680 women fair dating after divorce i think a lot of women nine signs you are are in for a rude 1.00

00:06:55.960 awakening so like the video guys um let me know what you think in the comments and i'll see you

00:07:00.680 next time.

Pearl - November 15, 2025

Laughing At Divorces That Backfire For Modern Women

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