Pearl - Do Modern Woman NEED A Hoe Phase？

00:00:00.000 good afternoon good evening ladies and gentlemen welcome to another episode of pearl daily here

00:00:19.720 on the audacity network today we are going to be talking about do modern women need a hoe face

00:00:29.880 Now, as you guys know, last week we covered the life cycle of a modern woman.

00:00:37.400 Now, the traditional conservatives will tell you that I just make this stuff up.

00:00:44.440 But this has been collected from years of experiences of men in the field out there dating.

00:00:53.300 The men get together, they tell each other the patterns that women do.

00:00:57.960 and you know this can also be confirmed with what we're seeing in front of our eyes

00:01:04.660 yes so all women go through some degree of these cycles now some women some phases are longer than

00:01:18.260 others now this is the modern woman life cycle so modern women will go to a high-priced institution

00:01:26.560 to get a degree that nobody cares about. Put themselves into a whole bunch of debt that will

00:01:33.620 be a burden to them for the rest of their lives. All they learn in school is how to be disagreeable

00:01:38.960 and how to use men. Now, let's be a little fair to the ladies today. Does every woman get herself

00:01:47.820 into a ton of debt? Now, when I think about the ladies I grew up with, you know, I have one friend

00:01:54.120 and it's it's interesting because this friend is the most frugal woman I have ever met

00:01:59.520 she had a budget every single month in school and you know she was beautiful she was a kind person

00:02:08.020 um did she put herself into a ton of debt even though you know she never had a ton of makeup on

00:02:15.840 no plastic surgery very natural gal didn't have any crazy spending habits

00:02:20.120 but she put herself in six figures worth of debt because we went to

00:02:26.140 a private university now granted she got an engineering degree

00:02:31.480 now I had a different friend from school who she went she also got and I'm friends with a lot of

00:02:38.920 female engineers you know I don't know what it is I know a lot now this one woman who was a female

00:02:44.520 engineer went to a public school it was out of state but it was public so it was a bit cheaper

00:02:50.060 than the one that we went to did she put herself into debt she was a little bit smarter with it

00:02:58.860 she went and got the army to pay it off she did rotc and therefore she was not in a ton of debt

00:03:09.900 different friend of mine went to school didn't finish was going for an education degree dropped

00:03:14.780 out, put herself into some debt, but I think she paid it off with her husband in a few years. It

00:03:24.520 wasn't too bad. Now, again, there are different degrees that the ladies put themselves into debt.

00:03:32.820 It's not all the same, but in general, hey, hey, nobody's divorced yet.

00:03:44.760 Let's not, let's not wish ill, but I mean, I don't know.

00:03:48.660 Okay.

00:03:50.020 Now, did most of my female friends get more feminist as they went to school?

00:03:57.460 Now, I had a little bit different of an upbringing.

00:04:00.140 so my mom took me to Sarah Palin rallies when I was like 12 or 13 years old

00:04:08.360 and I remember arguing you know I've always been a little bit odd you know I

00:04:14.780 I remember arguing about abortion on the playground I specifically remember this

00:04:20.240 and I met Sarah Palin when I was like 13 at a rally that we went to so but even I when I was

00:04:28.820 in school, I think back. When I was in school, it was during the heat of the BLM stuff. Now,

00:04:36.880 did I march? Did I join that group? No. But I didn't necessarily think it was the worst thing

00:04:44.460 in the world at the time. In general, if a woman, you know, if a woman is far right

00:04:55.540 arguing about abortion on the playground in high school or middle school to high school

00:05:02.200 she'll go a little more center if a woman is center she'll go straight left and if a woman is

00:05:10.460 if you know but then you also get the women that are far right you know they're super

00:05:18.000 conservative in high school then they go shave their head in college who's seen it who's seen

00:05:25.140 it i mean i've seen it right you know you had that christian i'm from i went to a catholic school

00:05:30.340 right and you would see the occasional woman she'd be like this innocent nice woman she'd

00:05:36.660 go to school and then all of a sudden she's a lesbian you're like wow okay okay

00:05:49.380 the next step in the modern woman life cycle is modern women feel entitled to a certain

00:05:54.340 lifestyle they begin when they begin their careers and will buy houses, cars that they can't afford

00:06:00.040 or spend their money while ignoring their student loan debt.

00:06:06.560 Now, again, does this mean every woman that you meet

00:06:11.340 goes on trips instead of paying down her student loans?

00:06:19.460 No. But a lot of them do.

00:06:24.340 and generally speaking it's gonna be one or the other the the friends I know that don't have

00:06:31.220 student debt they do like to take trips I mean you know one weekend they're in Barbados

00:06:37.900 the next weekend they're in Dubai you know it's like what are you guys doing

00:06:45.620 and then you guys will be like pearl pearl pearl pearl who are you friends with I'm like the

00:06:54.120 average woman what what am I gonna be alone for the rest of my life anyways so modern women feel

00:07:07.060 entitled to certain lifestyles when they begin their careers and will buy houses and cars they

00:07:11.640 can't afford spend all their money and travel while ignoring their student loan debt I saw that

00:07:16.540 I absolutely you know when we graduated school

00:07:18.960 women got different types of jobs from my school like there was one woman who got a job in supply

00:07:25.960 chain there was another woman I knew she was going into human resources um a different woman

00:07:33.200 was going to be a counselor but I definitely saw you know the men would just kind of drive their

00:07:40.040 old beat up their family's car they inherited but I would see women with perfectly good cars

00:07:45.280 upgrading buying the newest thing why they wanted a new car i mean you see we buy

00:07:53.220 on top of this i would add amazon boxes because that's a big thing we love our amazon also guys

00:08:00.100 please like the video while you're in here please hit that like button so modern women will wake up

00:08:07.940 between the ages of 33 to 37 rush to have kids find a husband or bull

00:08:13.800 you know i i saw i was listening to candace owens today and she was talking about how

00:08:22.240 a lot of friends of hers were having fertility issues my first question would be or were they

00:08:28.540 under the age of 25 rich women have money for ivf a lot of time you know a lot of times it's

00:08:34.680 funny thing that what is the female fantasy right female fantasy is like taylor swift taylor swift

00:08:40.800 waited until 35 to have a children family and a husband we'll see if she has it right but let's

00:08:46.620 assume this travis kelsey guy works out let's say she marries a super bowl champion her getting to

00:08:54.020 do her career wait till 35 meeting her husband getting married and popping out a few kids is the

00:08:58.800 female fantasy with a guy completely out of her league just objectively right

00:09:08.560 now this is not good nor bad this is not right nor wrong

00:09:13.520 this is choices and trade-offs and you can make that choice for taylor swift will it probably work

00:09:18.640 out i'd go 50 50 i mean i think she'll get married and divorced you know but i do think

00:09:28.320 she'll pull off a kid from a guy out of her league i would put money on that

00:09:35.200 next modern women will hit their late 30s and early 40s get pregnant by a loser go through ivf

00:09:43.920 or get a husband with no standards because quite frankly a husband with standards isn't going to

00:09:51.920 date women over 35 i mean they want they want a kid or they're not getting married without a kid

00:10:00.640 or two and you're at high risk pregnancy after the age of 35 then modern women will start on

00:10:09.200 antidepressants and become alcoholics i mean how many you know and why are the ladies becoming

00:10:17.200 alcoholics you know I really think the right and the left both have it wrong when you're treated

00:10:23.680 like a celebrity in your 20s being saddled down with the husband and kid kids is going to be

00:10:30.400 boring to you I mean if you can lock down the man of your dreams sure maybe they're entertained

00:10:38.640 but how many ladies pull that off

00:10:45.060 how many ladies pull that off none and then lastly we buy a dog or a cat and die alone

00:10:59.660 that's it that's the modern woman life cycle but during this life cycle there are a couple phases

00:11:06.420 and i need to fix something in the back really quick like the video while i go fix it please

00:11:13.720 um but and i'm gonna go through the phases and then we're gonna do a call in

00:11:19.480 but there's 312 of you in here let's get to 312 likes give me a second

00:11:36.420 Okay, I'm back.

00:11:48.380 Okay, guys, I'm back.

00:11:50.540 Now, let's talk about the phases.

00:11:52.800 Now, I'd like to say these phases go in no particular order.

00:11:58.680 In general, you know what?

00:12:01.340 Let me correct myself.

00:12:02.400 In general, these phases have a traditional order, but some ladies have them in different orders.

00:12:13.020 So the first phase is the hoe phase.

00:12:15.540 Now, the hoe phase tends to be with the ladies that go to schools.

00:12:21.380 The bigger the school, the bigger the hoe.

00:12:23.680 Now, the reason I say that is because at a big school, you can get away with a lot more.

00:12:28.140 You really can.

00:12:28.860 i mean there's like a there's a million fraternities and sports teams the men aren't going to know each

00:12:36.200 other if she's in a sorority that's times 10 um you can let me know you guys's experience you

00:12:45.200 guys are the ones that date women but this is just what i'm hearing you know next we got the find

00:12:51.060 herself phase. Now we got the Christian and spiritual phase, the health phase, the gym

00:12:59.580 phase, the healing phase, and so many others. Now usually there is some type of event in

00:13:08.180 a modern woman's life that triggers a phase. They find a cause and the phase is the effect

00:13:17.300 from their cause. So we're going to paint the picture. There was a social media couple

00:13:21.500 that really demonstrates perfectly the modern woman life cycle. So Tyler Bergettino and Gabby

00:13:32.620 Gonzalez made the rounds on social media when Tyler met her on the street during an interview.

00:13:38.260 Tyler is 31 years old, 6'9", and a former basketball player and a successful funds

00:13:45.240 director at fidelity investments so this guy is a chat he's got looks he's you know got a good job

00:13:55.560 he's going places gabby is 21 61 and a former college volleyball player and content creator

00:14:02.360 now we're going to see the beginning of their relationship so we're going to pull this up

00:14:08.520 up. One second.

00:14:27.520 You got to pull this up. Let me text my guy.

00:14:38.520 hold on guys oh here we go okay

00:14:43.260 i'm six four right now but without heels six one oh you got the heels on yeah okay all right so

00:14:51.320 you wear heels yeah of course a lot of tall girls don't wear heels that breaks my heart i think all

00:14:57.620 girls should wear heels why do you think tall girls are like shy sometimes oh gosh i mean we

00:15:02.380 get a lot of attention and so like a lot of girls think of it as negative attention but

00:15:06.400 you just got to embrace it if i'm 6'1 might as well be 6'4 tall girl math tall girl okay what's

00:15:13.760 your ideal height for a guy i care more about who they are as a person but i don't really know if i

00:15:18.840 have an ideal height i've been with men that are taller than me and shorter me and shorter than me

00:15:24.200 and both of them have sucked so it's not really about height okay so she's saying both of them

00:15:29.620 have sucked she's 21 who's she dating right now guys the bad boys now this guy he's clean cut

00:15:36.500 he looks like a genuine guy I mean you don't get really player vibes off of him

00:15:42.880 genuine guy just bad men across the board I don't really care about height but I'd say like

00:15:50.400 six nine is probably good height I like her okay six nine any reason why you said six nine

00:15:58.120 because that's how tall i am oh no way yeah oh wait so so then what's your ideal height in a

00:16:03.160 woman how tall are you again uh i feel like everyone's really picky when it comes to height

00:16:09.500 when in reality like if you're just a good person and you're cool and you're willing to grow with

00:16:13.300 somebody that should be enough i agree completely that's what i'm saying like a lot of girls will

00:16:18.520 think oh shorter men are insecure but a lot of taller men are insecure too so people people will

00:16:22.900 just like hate on people over something they can't even control so hard over height i like that that's

00:16:27.460 going yeah so this is again watching what she says you know that's a good virtue signal no

00:16:32.660 i don't care about height and i just let's let's end this ladies

00:16:40.260 i'm a tall woman i'm six foot

00:16:45.860 height mattered to me like i mean i don't let's not gaslight the men

00:16:50.500 for virtue signaling right let's not play pretend you know it's if we're and i look at and i'll give

00:16:58.180 you guys the real stats so i played with women that were six five six five girl i played with

00:17:04.340 married a guy that was six ten you know what's crazy that woman always had a boyfriend i don't

00:17:08.900 know where the hell she would find him but she always had a boyfriend and he was always taller

00:17:13.460 than her different girl on my team six one married a guy that was six four the shortest i saw it go

00:17:21.700 was one woman was six three and dated a guy that was six one

00:17:27.700 you know height matters i'm not gonna care i'm not gonna cap i'm not gonna pretend i'm not saying

00:17:31.940 it's everything you know like a a six foot guy a strong face card might outdo a six four guy

00:17:38.980 without one but like why why do we pretend let's not like i just don't like the virtue

00:17:46.580 signal like come on okay we're gonna go back to the video

00:17:50.620 gabby all right we have to we gotta do yeah i gotta interview you i interview people too

00:18:00.700 you interview people yeah yeah you're gonna ask me questions yeah i'm passing the mic

00:18:04.940 okay so now everybody was gushing over the relationship even conservatives and this is

00:18:21.260 why i say conservatives don't know what they're talking about they really don't

00:18:26.460 now brett cooper gushed over this relationship she said

00:18:32.060 ah they're gonna get married and stay married this is so heartwarming and they always call us

00:18:39.260 the bitter red pill if i'm looking at that objectively right if i'm looking at that

00:18:45.420 relationship objectively i know that woman is 21. she's gonna have too many opportunities

00:18:53.420 to turn them down and be in a relationship she will not cash out until she's older she won't do it

00:19:01.260 All of the free stuff, the influencer career.

00:19:05.160 Now, you might say Pearl, but Brett Cooper cashed out, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, Brett, but

00:19:14.340 she cashed it.

00:19:15.340 Well, there's a lot of money in that, right?

00:19:18.280 I'm not saying it's right or wrong, but we got to look at the incentives here.

00:19:22.360 Would she have cashed out if the influencer career wasn't there?

00:19:26.640 The conservative trad girl influencer career.

00:19:30.720 good incentive now i want to show you her take and my doomer take but i was right everyone everyone

00:19:38.880 everyone says pearl pearl pearl you're such a doomer i'm right i'm right more than i'm wrong

00:19:44.640 okay let me pull it up or miss one of our comment section episodes all right so there is this guy on

00:19:49.840 tiktok his name is tyler and he goes around and he does man on the street interviews and he is

00:19:54.080 six nine and so he will often do content about how bothersome it is to be that tall like trying to

00:19:59.520 to sit in economy on planes or he'll do videos with like really really really short people and

00:20:03.720 they'll compare and contrast their experiences anyway he is relatively known on TikTok and last

00:20:08.240 week he went to Miami to do some content and he happened to do a man on the street interview with

00:20:12.200 another girl who's also a content creator who is also super tall like she's 6'1 and folks the

00:20:18.000 sparks were flying like if you want to know how to flirt like how to see if there is chemistry

00:20:23.920 you just got to watch this because it is going to reinstill hope that love is out there all right

00:20:29.740 here we go how tall are you um six four right now but without heels six one oh you got the heels on

00:20:36.100 yeah okay friends that are okay I'm gonna skip it because we just watched this but I'm gonna

00:20:41.600 reinstate conservatives do not know what they're talking about they don't they do not I could have

00:20:47.000 seen this coming from a mile away you know I need to predict a couple divorces just so I get this on

00:20:52.200 camera because i'm really tired of thinking these things because i thought this when it came out

00:20:56.760 hailey bieber will divorce in the next five years and so will blake lively somebody

00:21:01.560 time stamp this so i can come back and i'll tell you why hailey bieber drake's ex blake lively um

00:21:12.680 leonardo dicaprio's ex those two guys are the kiss of death it was the kiss of death

00:21:17.480 on giselle it will be blake lively thank you it might as well be six four it's all grown up so

00:21:25.640 sweet like also i have so many friends that are tall and i think guys walk around and they go oh

00:21:30.840 she would never date me she would never date me because i'm shorter than her or they're intimidated

00:21:34.360 by her all of my tall friends and i have a lot of them that are like 5 11 plus they have all dated

00:21:40.200 short guys did okay but then i gotta ask the question now again when i think back to my

00:21:46.520 volleyball teammates sure they dated short guys within reason right i mean i would say two to three

00:21:56.040 inches depending on the height like if a woman's six five she might go down to six two um

00:22:05.160 personally i'm like five ten that's like you know i'd say that's about average now

00:22:10.360 did they marry any of the men shorter than them

00:22:16.600 they didn't who dumped who that's the question who broke up with who

00:22:23.200 let's just be honest let's just i'm not talking about what sounds good that's what

00:22:29.860 this is the thing conservatives they have these and i i don't she's such a sweet one like she's

00:22:36.640 sweet girl right but a lot of times conservatives present what sounds good because their brand what

00:22:44.640 they're selling is christianity right their their brand is god is the answer god will solve your

00:22:53.040 problems and so will being a conservative no it won't no it won't let me pull this back up

00:23:01.760 two of them are actually either married or in serious relationships moving towards marriage

00:23:09.200 with guys that are shorter than them so i'm just saying if you see a tall girl out there

00:23:12.560 do not discount her because i need to know specifics how much shorter

00:23:18.480 how much shorter that's my question two to three inches you got a strong face card

00:23:24.720 I would say let me think the women I knew that dated guys shorter it would be like 6 3 6 1

00:23:34.040 it would be uh yeah that would be like the average if a woman was 6 3 she'd go down to 6 1

00:23:41.320 you think she will not want you she's probably looking for a guy to date because everybody's

00:23:45.580 saying the same thing just saying just putting it out there I don't really now again it's the

00:23:50.840 she's probably looking for a guy to date now

00:24:01.640 do women want to date men are they interested in men at all

00:24:08.520 okay who what where would there be more signups an only fan school or a traditional conservative

00:24:15.960 wife school okay women have the power of dating apps where they get 3 000 matches with one app

00:24:26.120 how many are seriously dating aggressively to get a husband to get married

00:24:34.680 you know the ladies they don't want to be in relationships they just don't we don't realize

00:24:39.400 it yet really care about height but i'd say like six nine is probably a good height i like her

00:24:47.480 guys that was smooth she was putting it out there see that's when you know oh she's into it she

00:24:52.120 gave a little she's not saying please date me i would like you to take me to dinner but she

00:24:58.040 that was a wink see you just got to break this stuff down because nobody knows how to do it

00:25:02.280 anymore it's like a math equation any reason why you said six nine because that's how tall i am

00:25:07.880 oh no way yeah oh wait so so then what's your ideal height in a woman how tall are you again

00:25:16.200 i feel like everyone's really picky when it comes to height when in reality

00:25:19.560 if you're just a good person and you're cool and you're willing to grow with somebody

00:25:22.680 that should be enough what's your name gabby all right we have to you gotta do yeah i gotta

00:25:27.160 interview you i interview people too you interview people yeah yeah so you're gonna ask me questions

00:25:31.320 yeah i'm so excited oh give me the mic where we're going like you and i

00:25:40.760 i'm so excited i love it i talk about so many terrible yeah and again this is the i hate to

00:25:45.800 say it i hate to say it but conservatives have the like oh my god you know the it's a very immature

00:25:52.040 mindset it's not realistic and i i hate to be the doomer but there's no evidence

00:25:59.080 that anything is coming back at all birth rate going down more women are going to school than men

00:26:08.440 women are getting fatter modern women getting fatter

00:26:18.200 let me just keep going let me keep going terrible things on the show and so whenever i see something

00:26:23.960 cute i'm like i'm like sitting over here like kicking my feet like this is so much fun like

00:26:28.120 guys that was natural it was smooth there was so much chemistry and guys i know your fingers about

00:26:33.160 to be clacking you're about to say brett he's tall and hot yeah i know hold the comment and how long

00:26:38.280 did it last seven months i could have seen this coming why because she took off she got really

00:26:49.800 famous fame has a tendency to keep women single because you get too many choices you do please

00:26:59.640 just for a second we're getting to that just be patient because then they did do another video

00:27:04.840 where she was sort of asking the questions and it just it gets better and we're getting to the

00:27:09.400 point i promise we just got to go on the journey folks we've got another chapter before we dive in

00:27:13.720 to this analysis how's the dating life at 69 i'm single if that's what you're asking oh yeah okay

00:27:20.840 are you single yeah i should have asked that so why are you single then i mean why is anybody

00:27:27.320 single dating life is tough out there i agree for you there we go dating is even hard for a

00:27:33.800 objectively attractive man who could be an nba player thanks to his height just did you know

00:27:41.400 everybody so the red pill is right it's never good enough

00:27:48.040 it's never good enough seven months but he's in the trenches it's not just you everybody is in

00:27:53.960 the trenches not that that makes it better but it's kind of nice to know that you aren't alone

00:27:58.600 you know okay it's yeah very ladies are not in the trenches at all

00:28:02.680 at all the ladies have so much choice it's ridiculous you can download hinge and filter by race

00:28:19.080 height age religion

00:28:26.520 the ladies have a lot of choice no it's not i could say the same thing to you i'm a guy

00:28:32.360 though it's different like people just want to date me because i'm six nine that is true that

00:28:36.760 is very true i have a friend i think he's six five and i mean he walks into a bar he could be

00:28:41.880 wearing a hoodie and joggers okay and women are just like it's like a rom-com guys on tick like

00:28:49.800 yeah right i like that they can be tall together okay wait he's about to ask her out it's like a

00:28:58.520 rom-com guys on tiktok seven months seven months and just to confirm you said you are single yes

00:29:07.080 i am single are and you are right yes i'm single what are you doing tomorrow um nothing you want

00:29:17.400 to get coffee yeah tomorrow yeah yeah oh yay even if people got nothing from this episode and even

00:29:26.840 if i didn't try to like make a broader point about dating i would still want to talk about this

00:29:30.520 because it brings me so much joy this is what i want to see on tiktok it's 11 o'clock at night

00:29:34.600 when i'm scrolling on tiktok this is the kind of content yeah and so this is the this is i love

00:29:39.880 this video because it shows the issue with conservatives somebody gets married and has a kid

00:29:44.840 yay somebody has a positive dating experience yay funny thing happens when for me when i

00:29:53.400 interviewed a ton of people you know I would see the couples that started off as yay and see where

00:30:02.480 they ended up and I would think oh dang you know that couple and you start to see it in your

00:30:09.460 personal life right like um I mean Stephen Crowder I use him as an example a lot Stephen and Hillary

00:30:18.120 virgin wife. They did it the right way. Divorced. If you look at Dennis Prager, divorced.

00:30:27.140 Megan Kelly, divorced.

00:30:34.640 So you see how this stuff ends up. Even the femininity coaches, divorced.

00:30:40.720 we're on rentals we we are not in lifelong relationships all relationships are rentals

00:30:52.180 that is where we're at in society so you know here let me keep going and i want to be fed

00:31:00.460 china if you're listening remember that i get way too many sad crying videos anyway back to the

00:31:06.360 point I am blushing over here I am giggling a three-month free trial of all 6,000 plus prayers

00:31:13.740 and meditations again that is hallow.com slash cooper to redeem that deal everybody got to get

00:31:18.340 to praying because this needs to work out all right so my friend Allie on Twitter who I love

00:31:23.020 and I've told you guys to go follow her before again again this is another Twitter girl that

00:31:26.620 just has the dumbest brain dead takes and she has the most balanced and nuanced takes on dating

00:31:33.220 know she has the stupidest takes i've ever seen in my life so stupid my god it's like the dumbest

00:31:41.380 the in the modern age that anyone i've ever met the dumbest so go follow her but she posted about

00:31:46.340 this whole situation please don't and she said solid flirting in action no pickup lines just

00:31:51.300 relate to her like a normal human being and wait to ask her out until you're getting positive

00:31:55.140 feedback have established you guys can carry on a one minute convo exactly what we talked about

00:32:00.660 okay what what do women know i'm never gonna advise you on how to ask a woman out or approach

00:32:08.500 a woman because i know there's no way in hell i could teach you how to do that i don't approach

00:32:15.220 women i don't date women but what is it with ladies having the nerve to think they have any clue

00:32:22.500 on how to approach women and how did this end after seven months dun dun dun last week's

00:32:30.660 Dating should not be following a girl around a store or a bar and just out of the blue asking

00:32:35.920 her out or asking for her Snapchat. Please God, do not do that. And then getting pissed when she's

00:32:40.620 awkward and uncomfortable and says no, or a girl getting freaked out and just calling the guy a

00:32:44.380 creep because he didn't really do it well. Like you have to lay the groundwork. It is a dance

00:32:49.040 between the man and the woman. You have to gently figure out if there is interest. And this guy

00:32:53.680 figured it out and the girl gave good signals. That's another thing. The girls have to know

00:32:58.440 how to give off those vibes i remember my mom who we all love called one of my friends at one point

00:33:03.840 because she was having just like the worst time dating she was like i feel like i'm giving off

00:33:07.080 signals but i don't know and my mom was like you gotta brush his shoulder you gotta you gotta give

00:33:11.700 him a little touch a little like come on slide and i mean it was like the funniest conversation

00:33:15.720 but it also was up to the woman to give off those signals and of course like okay i think my only

00:33:21.080 point is conservatives are just so naive it drives me like liz wheeler she was responding to me on

00:33:31.540 twitter today and because there is a woman who is naked praying in church she was like half naked

00:33:37.740 praying in church next to some nuns and i said kick her out you know i'm gonna tell you a story

00:33:43.640 when i was 18 i went to the vatican in rome and i'm very very tall i'm six foot

00:33:51.480 and sometimes even now you guys see these arms on these sleeves i get lazy okay i don't feel

00:33:58.520 like going to the tall store i don't feel like getting stuff custom ordered stuff is small

00:34:03.560 stuff is short it's not a good i know i know i know no excuses but that's my excuse okay i'm

00:34:09.560 giving it anyway now when i was 18 i went to these churches in rome and it was so hot and i was

00:34:15.960 wearing i mean shorts like probably halfway down your thigh like i mean they weren't like

00:34:23.720 boot you know but they were short and the priests kicked me out i swear i went into the church

00:34:30.440 and the priests they said get out of here they were like they wouldn't even talk to me they just

00:34:35.720 waved they said why don't we bring that back like and i'm i'm seeing liz wheeler on my timeline

00:34:42.840 let me i'm gonna you know what i'm gonna do a side segment because i just can't stand the

00:34:48.880 stupidity of conservatives it's just driving it's driving me insane i just can't i can't take it

00:34:57.020 anymore i can't like yeah here we go she says i think okay this is this is the video

00:35:06.500 do you think this woman doesn't know that that's inappropriate for a church

00:35:15.300 i'm sorry does she look over the age of 18 to you guys how old do you think she is

00:35:24.020 do you really think she has no idea

00:35:28.620 now what are the what are the church people say this may be the first time this lady is entering

00:35:38.560 a church and i am grateful she is there the lord says come as you are don't expect us all to be

00:35:43.740 perfect and holy to come to mass i know i don't go to mass because i'm holy but i go because i'm

00:35:48.740 a sinner and need it it is we the church to welcome minister and demonstrate mercy to those

00:35:55.120 of us who might be struggling imagine you know what that's fine you don't have to be perfect

00:36:00.240 but the equivalent is to have a coke head come in and be actively doing drugs in church imagine

00:36:08.120 imagine a coke head is sitting on the pew snorting his cocaine and just snorting it do you think the

00:36:18.340 coke head knows that's inappropriate for a church it's the same same thing do you think that hooker

00:36:24.220 knows that she shouldn't be naked in church i'm not asking for much but my god i mean give her

00:36:33.040 one of these you know there's a button-up shirt like come on

00:36:36.240 craziness guys hit that like button please hit the like button also if you want to support my

00:36:45.000 work go to the audacity network.com we need eight to ten um signups a day to be youtube free

00:36:51.360 so if one of you gets a yearly membership it covers the whole thing we need to do this for

00:36:55.780 three months um you get a yearly membership now Lauren I thought it was Liz Wheeler

00:37:03.020 who the hell is this isn't this it Liz Wheeler

00:37:08.100 I totally oh this is another woman oh my gosh I thought this was Liz Wheeler

00:37:16.260 they have like the same profile picture oh she's a catfish too my god she's not as bad as the other

00:37:25.400 ones though okay sorry lauren witzke she says i think she it depends she is a newcomer trying

00:37:33.420 to come and repent for her sins and seek christ or has she been to church before and knows better

00:37:39.620 than to show up like this you guys are idiots not you guys in the chat you guys you guys in the chat

00:37:45.800 know what's going on. But these ladies are dumb. Oh, by the way, what you get with the membership

00:37:56.700 is I read your chat on the website. If you want me to read your chat, put Pearl read and I will

00:38:04.300 read it on the website. And then she goes, yeah, having grace is one of those pesky traditional

00:38:12.820 values okay can we think about this that's what she said having grace is one of those traditional

00:38:17.300 values think about the coke head coming into church now it would be one thing if he comes in

00:38:25.540 as sober as he can be and he starts praying says this is my rock bottom i'm praying

00:38:31.780 and he's respectful he sits at the back he doesn't draw a lot of attention to himself

00:38:36.260 or he goes into church and starts doing coke

00:38:41.660 okay pearl jacob says i got financial aid in college and many of the girls in the same program

00:38:56.580 as me were driving new cars to campus yes now let's talk about you know tyler again he's a six

00:39:04.960 nine gigachad he's got everything going for him charisma he's successful top five percent of men

00:39:13.440 how long did they last seven months

00:39:20.800 let's pull this out now again because a lot of you guys think it's just the only fans hoes

00:39:27.840 not all women are like that but by all means she she doesn't dress super promiscuously does she

00:39:32.960 look like a she doesn't look like a 304 to me i mean she looks like a your girl next door she looks

00:39:40.720 beautiful but the streets were calling i don't know what to tell you guys

00:39:48.400 let's see and this is what tyler says

00:40:03.080 abby and i broke up

00:40:05.980 we had a lot of different beliefs and the distance not only physically but where we were at in our

00:40:15.120 life i think just ended up being too much and that's okay that's okay

00:40:24.800 so you can tell he's really torn up about it he's sad you can tell

00:40:32.080 breakups suck you know and the public eye breakup is new for me and it's definitely something that

00:40:40.080 that amplifies everything.

00:40:44.760 I just wanted to let you guys know

00:40:46.020 because you've been involved

00:40:49.020 from the very beginning in Miami,

00:40:51.180 and you've cared for us, and you've supported us,

00:40:55.620 and I wanted to let you guys know,

00:40:57.200 and I know you all wanted us to work out, and so did I.

00:41:03.660 This isn't gonna be one of those toxic

00:41:04.880 type of social media breakups.

00:41:07.180 I want y'all to know that.

00:41:10.080 uh we're not picking sides we're not we're not doing that i wish her nothing but the best i

00:41:17.600 wish her happiness i hope she finds everything that she's looking for

00:41:21.720 the story that we had was amazing the stars aligned

00:41:27.300 i mean everything falling into place as perfectly as it did

00:41:33.880 not neither of us can take credit for that like nobody can take credit for that that was one of

00:41:41.500 those god things and just please keep us in your prayers y'all this is not an easy route to

00:41:51.280 navigate but i just want to say

00:41:54.740 that there's still love out there and there's love out there for me there's love out there for you

00:42:06.140 your person's out there no that's true there is love out there but love is a rental you can't buy

00:42:12.900 it it's not lifelong it's rental just because it didn't work out with her and i doesn't mean

00:42:18.980 those random encounters that lead to a spark and lead to love don't exist love is real

00:42:24.020 and it's out there for you it's out there for me

00:42:31.060 love y'all and don't get me wrong he'll do better he'll do better and hotter and she'll get

00:42:38.660 probably get passed around i mean

00:42:41.740 let me pull up hers gabby breakup

00:42:50.640 um gabby tyler go

00:42:57.060 uh here we go here's her hey guys i just wanted to come on here and address the fact that tyler

00:43:07.120 and i are no longer dating and i need to make this video before i can close out this chapter

00:43:11.500 of my life because we did choose to make our relationship extremely public i want to start

00:43:16.300 off by saying I wish him nothing but the best he just is not my person and I'm not his and that's

00:43:22.660 okay love still exists love is everywhere everything's going to be okay um and I also

00:43:28.740 want to say that this was a very real relationship so Tyler and I started talking back in May we knew

00:43:35.760 we liked each other instantly and once we filmed that video we didn't even want to post it because

00:43:41.100 we were so scared about if social media was going to ruin it if we did start dating like we thought

00:43:46.460 we would and it ended up being the best decision ever you guys were so supportive i've never seen

00:43:52.320 so much positivity on social media genuinely like towards our relationship and i'm very grateful for

00:43:56.560 that however this is also a very real breakup and we are two human beings that are going to need to

00:44:05.460 heal from this and personally i like to heal in private i don't want to be talking about this

00:44:10.280 i don't want to have to make any other videos about this i just want you guys to be aware

00:44:15.260 that i'm moving on he's moving on and you're not going to be seeing him on my page anymore

00:44:20.280 and everything will be okay i'm going to be healing in private growing um and still sharing

00:44:26.180 my life with you guys i was a content creator before i'm going to keep doing that after and

00:44:31.480 that's pretty much it so i'm very grateful for all the experiences that we've had together

00:44:36.340 but i am excited to just move forward with my own path and wish him nothing but the best again now

00:44:43.540 we got to think of the incentives here what's her incentive she can go be a mega influencer

00:44:50.080 get her pick of guys be worshipped or

00:44:55.020 be saddled down with a normal guy who's a giga chad but like still now let's see how she's doing

00:45:04.940 she's had to have posted since this right guys leah and i just had the craziest nope hey guys

00:45:11.500 i just wanted to come has not let me look at some of their date nights we decided to stay in tonight

00:45:16.620 yeah we have been out and about on the go non-stop what you'll notice is people that use their

00:45:22.220 relationship for clout like post it make a couple's page usually the relationships on her terms

00:45:28.940 not his because men don't typically want to make that part of their life public and we've just been

00:45:34.060 craving a movie night at home well at a hotel in this case and we wanted to watch fly me to

00:45:39.500 the moon so i'm a big space guy i'm a big rom-com girl we both love rom-coms yeah i know beta you

00:45:46.300 but you can tell he has a beta mindset it's not really the it's that it's not about looks

00:45:55.660 necessarily it's the mindset i love channing tatum and i love scarlett johansson and they

00:46:01.660 sent us this really cute box like tyler made us drinks yeah with the rocket ship shaker i was so

00:46:07.260 excited about the moon cheese i had never had moon cheese before this that's crazy i know and

00:46:11.100 the popcorn looked good the drinks were amazing i'm most excited to watch the actual movie i'm a

00:46:15.900 big film guy and we're surrounded by the most iconic theaters here in hollywood right now i

00:46:20.220 know but we're still choosing to stay in and watch this on apple tv plus and you guys can watch it

00:46:25.260 with us okay

00:46:31.660 now hey guys I just wanted to come on here and address the fact that Tyler and I are no longer

00:46:39.480 dating sorry okay so again what's my take she wanted to go crazy now what is a hoe face let's

00:46:50.160 say I mean what what is it Pearl every girl doesn't have a hoe face and

00:46:54.880 that's true right i mean you can't say a hundred percent of women have ho faces

00:47:01.580 some are worse than others but let's talk about the things that make a ho phase a ho phase

00:47:11.980 number one casual sex with a lot of men

00:47:15.900 number two abortions tattoos piercings stds trauma concerts fun events a fun job excessive attention

00:47:34.920 so this is why you'll notice conservative commentators they never have kids below 25

00:47:40.420 they always push it off as long as humanly possible that they can keep that we can keep

00:47:45.380 our brands right now our whole phase is necessary let's ask the ladies what do the ladies say

00:47:54.520 is there necessary for girls absolutely why everybody goes through at least one

00:48:03.640 during college they're fun sometimes yeah they can be friends sometimes only for some people

00:48:10.060 though it depends on the person you're trying to find yourself there's one ok let's keep going

00:48:19.740 you think there are any benefits to having a whole phase after a breakup

00:48:23.100 i think it's fun and it's good to get attention when you weren't given it from someone you got

00:48:26.700 like was supposed to give you attention do you think there are any benefits to having

00:48:30.140 a whole phase after a breakup i think it's fine and it's good to get attention when you

00:48:33.980 weren't given it from someone you thought like was supposed to give you attention

00:48:37.260 It's kind of like an ego trip, I think, that people go on after, like, yeah, like, shit doesn't work out.

00:48:44.500 It's like, I don't know.

00:48:46.000 I feel like people's confidence wavers, and they need to find something or someone to tell them they're pretty

00:48:53.720 and say all the things they need to hear, and people do it, whatever, you know.

00:48:59.080 But, I mean, how can a woman really benefit from getting railed by multiple dudes to try and fill an emotional void?

00:49:05.000 It depends what you define as a hope.

00:49:06.260 how do men how do men get by with railing multiple girls for no emotional feel

00:49:12.500 i feel like the host age can be taken differently though like that's like

00:49:16.580 okay that's another let's keep going there are a couple things that i feel like we need to chat

00:49:25.360 about jc your hoe era do you want to expect i feel like there are a couple things that i feel

00:49:31.160 like we need to chat about JC your hoe era do you want to explain this to the

00:49:36.500 circulars if they don't know the hoe era is essentially me reclaiming how I

00:49:43.460 want to dress I grew up Mormon I grew up very religious and I grew up dressing

00:49:49.340 very modestly quote unquote this year is about reclaiming my power and becoming a

00:49:55.460 now does this look like a ratchet girl is this just a miami girl i mean this girl grew up mormon

00:50:06.980 but the conservatives will say well not all women are like that

00:50:12.740 no one said all but enough and when i say ho am i gonna go like be hooking up with people

00:50:20.580 no because i'm happily married right so i'm gonna show my shoulders my legs and my midriff and maybe

00:50:26.820 some chest and like neckline situation as well if you're feeling up to it yeah whoa whoa let's slow

00:50:33.540 down we'll go one step at a time now she'll get excess attention for that how will that end

00:50:40.020 how do we see that ending badly okay next one thing about me though is i will support a hope phase

00:50:48.340 the whole hoe phase i don't care what happens after a breakup after a divorce

00:50:53.540 after you know what you just feeling like being a hoe go be a hoe let's start from the beginning

00:50:58.920 one thing about me though is i will support a hoe phase the whole hoe phase i don't care what

00:51:04.280 happens after a breakup after a divorce after you know what you just feeling like being a hoe

00:51:08.840 go be a hoe for me my only thing is do it safely as your fairy smut mother i would prefer you

00:51:16.120 to text me saying here's my location i've had friends send me lift locations so i can watch

00:51:22.580 that she got to and from work safely i will be that friend okay if you live five states away

00:51:28.560 from me and you still want at least somebody you trust to have your location let that be me

00:51:32.840 okay i will not judge you for your hoe i will not judge you for how many

00:51:36.360 eggplants you you stick on how many tacos you eat i will not care are you happy

00:51:43.120 bomb-tastic are you being safe wonderful you learned something new about yourself

00:51:48.220 fan-fucking-tastic okay stop judging people for their whole face just support them okay

00:51:54.260 i know the chat says roll out the std videos next all right so the question really today

00:52:04.120 i'm gonna put this link in the chat

00:52:06.960 is how many likes do we have on this video let me refresh this

00:52:12.660 The question we have today in the chat is, I want to know a couple things from the men

00:52:19.280 and the women, okay?

00:52:21.040 And I want to know from your personal experience, if you're calling into my show, please do

00:52:27.860 not say you don't want to go personal.

00:52:31.020 Then why are you calling?

00:52:33.740 Don't say that, oh, that's too ... These are the questions that I'm going to be asking

00:52:42.040 you. Number one, do women need to have a ho face? Number two, have you dated or been a woman in a

00:53:01.520 ho phase? Three, it depends if you're a guy or a girl. If you're a guy, what was it like

00:53:11.460 dating a woman in her ho phase? Or if you're a girl, what was your ho phase like?

00:53:27.840 what do you consider a hoe face these are the questions today

00:53:37.360 now I'm going to put this link in the chat so let me please have your cameras on

00:53:48.860 please have your cameras on and um hold on how do I share this

00:53:54.560 and i can give you the option to not be on camera totally fine if you have a story and you don't

00:54:04.340 want your face to it totally fine i need to say see your face though at first on the screen

00:54:11.160 and i'll first ask is it okay if you're on camera hear that producer don't put them on

00:54:20.120 until I get a yes or no um but the reason I need you guys to show your face to me is we have had

00:54:27.180 issues with trolls one day I was traumatized with some gross stuff and I just don't I don't need

00:54:33.840 that in my life so okay let me share I had it earlier what did I do

00:54:50.120 um purchase oh copy invite link okay we're gonna put that in the chat

00:54:58.920 okay

00:55:05.800 yeah i was traumatized traumatized sorry i i was traumatized because somebody somebody put some

00:55:15.080 corn on the screen and my producer didn't see it at first and so i'm like hey hey

00:55:25.320 i want i i'm like being forced to watch this disgusting oh yeah so you guys i don't know

00:55:32.360 who did that but you guys ruined it you ruined it for everyone um now i'm gonna put this in the chat

00:55:41.160 and we're going to pin it I'm also going to send this to somebody who said they

00:55:47.880 wanted to call in

00:55:54.780 where the heck is

00:56:03.060 wait where

00:56:06.060 hold on I got to find one more person

00:56:09.620 oh here we go there we go

00:56:15.660 okay so now we have we're gonna we're testing a new way to do the zoom

00:56:22.920 so I have a little more control over it there might be a hiccup okay there might be we're

00:56:27.620 gonna see how this goes

00:56:28.560 um

00:56:36.060 let's see uh chris i need your camera on you're not on the screen now but i do need

00:56:48.960 to see that you're an actual person craziness guys hold on let's see if this works

00:57:05.120 um okay can you hear me chris

00:57:10.360 it covers the whole thing we need to do this for three months

00:57:16.200 um you get a yearly membership now lauren one second i'm trying to fix something

00:57:23.280 uh it looks like i have something playing i don't know what

00:57:27.280 is it the zoom or is it do you are you playing you're not playing my video if you are could you

00:57:38.760 mute it it might be you god ipo she's not as bad as the other ones though okay sorry lauren witski

00:57:48.520 she said i think she it depends where is this coming she is a newcomer hold on give me a second

00:57:54.440 it's not you where is this coming from um where is it

00:58:08.760 I don't see any tabs open saying I'm playing my live stream,

00:58:19.620 but I don't see any tabs open.

00:58:21.700 That's why I'm confused.

00:58:23.600 Let me take him out and for a second,

00:58:27.440 and then put in waiting room.

00:58:30.400 Let me try it again.

00:58:33.280 Now see, it's gone.

00:58:35.840 Let me see.

00:58:38.760 it must have been his thing okay we're gonna try one more time view the waiting room because i think

00:58:46.680 it must be him uh let me go back respectful he sits at the back he doesn't draw a lot of attention

00:58:56.600 i gotta have you turn off your um oh it's off now i think are you playing my live stream

00:59:03.320 uh no okay better better now i can how are you okay pearl jacob says i got financial aid in

00:59:13.940 college and many of the girls in the same program as me were driving new cars to campus

00:59:18.560 yes now let's talk about put in the waiting room it goes away when i i get rid of him

00:59:26.480 so i don't i'm going to try someone else and see if it's just the

00:59:33.320 No, I'm not.

00:59:38.440 I'm going to try someone else and see if we have the same problem.

00:59:47.640 Hello?

00:59:57.400 Hello.

00:59:59.560 Let's see if that works.

01:00:01.640 I think it's working.

01:00:03.320 okay wait hold on i want to make sure it doesn't echo wait hold on i want to make sure it doesn't

01:00:07.240 echo it's echoing i'm sorry i didn't mean to root i don't have it playing

01:00:29.560 okay guys um

01:00:33.320 I guess maybe I could do a Twitter space.

01:00:39.940 I think it's going to have to be my option.

01:00:43.560 Okay, I guess we're going to do the Twitter space again

01:00:45.960 because the Zoom isn't working, sadly enough.

01:00:52.340 Okay.

01:00:52.860 let me all right do women need a hoe phase all right you guys are gonna have to go to twitter

01:01:12.040 I'm sorry

01:01:12.940 it said Pearl needs to hire more staff

01:01:22.280 well okay then sign up for my website

01:01:24.400 I don't know what to tell you

01:01:25.440 the Pearl needs a hoe

01:01:28.700 does women do women need a hoe

01:01:32.660 phase

01:01:33.360 let me set up this Twitter

01:01:41.960 space. One second. No, how do I do it?

01:01:50.400 live here we go start a space okay do women need

01:02:11.520 a ho phase

01:02:15.680 call in show

01:02:21.100 okay I'm gonna turn this down for a second now I'm gonna have to tell the people on Twitter

01:02:35.500 give them a little intro to the background of the talking point

01:02:39.280 I said Pearl sorry I'm ready now no it's not you guys's fault it's we just don't know how

01:02:46.960 to we're having issues

01:03:04.040 okay I'm about to give the people on Twitter the background

01:03:07.380 but I'm gonna wait one second I had to close out all my tabs so I need to go back

01:03:13.000 oh and I'd love to know what happened to the former hoes that you know

01:03:22.140 you know what did you know a lot of times we have this fantasy in the

01:03:28.280 rp of these women living terrible lives the rest of their lives but I'm gonna be honest guys

01:03:34.840 some hoes have happy endings there's one woman i knew in school i'd call her probably the biggest

01:03:42.800 hoe on my team i mean she was with everybody the other day i looked her up she got a boyfriend

01:03:49.660 senior year she's still with that guy that's a longer relationship than some of the prudes had

01:03:54.280 You know, okay.

01:03:58.060 Now, all right, hello to Twitter.

01:04:04.040 Twitter, this is a combination show from my show on YouTube.

01:04:08.420 We had issues with the Zoom, so I'm accepting Twitter spaces.

01:04:12.580 But just know, when you call in, you are also live on YouTube.

01:04:17.900 Now, today we spoke about the modern woman life cycle.

01:04:24.280 now i'm going to tell you guys the modern woman life cycle to start one go to some high-priced

01:04:30.040 institution to get a degree no one cares about to put themselves into debt barely learn anything

01:04:35.400 except how to use men for things number two get a job that's too stressful and doesn't care about

01:04:42.200 you in reality the job is not hard or stressful but we do convince ourselves it is you know it's

01:04:48.200 not like we're plumbers out there or electricians we're working in as assistants and human resources

01:04:57.960 you know what i mean um three ignore the student debt buy a house travel and get a luxury car

01:05:04.600 wake up at 33 to 37 rush to get a husband kids are both hit late 30s and early 40s try to get

01:05:10.440 pregnant by some loser or an IVF start antidepressants at 40 maybe love the child but have to settle

01:05:20.920 and last buy a dog or a cat and die alone now i talked about that last week

01:05:29.240 this week um i was talking about the different phases that women go through

01:05:34.440 Now, the first is the ho phase. Now, this often happens in college, but don't you worry. Some

01:05:41.560 ladies marry young and get a divorce later. You know, there's a reason the divorce rate under 25

01:05:50.040 getting married is lower than after 25. It's because some ladies felt like they missed out.

01:05:56.280 You know, the find yourself phase, the Christian spiritual phase, the health phase, the gym phase,

01:06:01.960 the healing phase. There's many others, but today we focused on the ho phase.

01:06:06.920 Now, what is a ho phase? A ho phase is casual sex with lots of men, abortions, tattoos, piercings,

01:06:13.400 STDs, trauma, concerts, fun events, fun jobs, excessive attention. Now, I showed some videos

01:06:20.680 on my show of the lady saying, yes, yes, we need a ho phase. And today I don't want to hear about

01:06:26.760 your morality or the way the world should be i don't care because this isn't a wish list show

01:06:33.160 it's really not this show i want to hear about your personal experiences so i want to hear about

01:06:43.160 have you ever dated a woman in her hoe phase like you can comment on any of these topics so if you're

01:06:49.480 a guy have you ever dated a woman in her hoe phase or that wanted to be in her hoe phase what was that

01:06:55.480 like or on the on the contrary have you ever dated a woman that didn't have a hoe phase

01:07:02.760 and it impacted the relationship like maybe you wish she did um

01:07:09.800 and what do you consider a hoe phase what is it how many what's this i want to get specifics here

01:07:18.280 now please if you're trying to argue today this just isn't the show it's not a debate

01:07:23.640 i want to know from your personal experience like i want stories of who you've dated

01:07:30.600 or why you have that opinion not you know religion or anything like that or history

01:07:36.720 i want to know in real life what have you seen now to be fair i'm going to give you guys

01:07:41.920 two stories about two women i knew i'll give you i'll give three women i knew

01:07:51.100 so I spoke about this on Twitter the other day there was a woman on my volleyball team in college

01:07:56.980 the biggest toe the biggest you know she hooked up with my brother once I was really mad at him

01:08:01.520 for that I really was I just felt like it was it was rude you know what I mean whatever and um

01:08:13.340 and I recently looked her up the other day because I was curious this woman had been in a

01:08:18.440 seven-year relationship I never would have thought ever never would have thought I was like wow

01:08:22.740 that's longer than some of the women that weren't hoes you know but then there's another girl that

01:08:28.240 was a hoe she's been perpetually single ever since there's one girl that was a prude that's married

01:08:34.120 now there's one girl that's a prude that's by herself you know um so and the interesting thing

01:08:43.800 is when you interview a lot of people you do see women that didn't have hoe phases you see them go

01:08:50.360 crazy later then you see women go too far in their hope like i've just seen it all i've seen both

01:08:56.520 sides i if i wanted to i could make a compelling argument either way because i've met so many

01:09:02.120 people in my life but this isn't for me to make an argument i want to know your experience

01:09:08.760 okay YouTube I think Twitter's caught up I gave them a recap so now I'm gonna accept speakers

01:09:17.100 again the questions are do women need to have a ho phase from your dating experience

01:09:24.780 have you ever dated a woman who's been in her for ho phase maybe she stopped it maybe she never had

01:09:31.200 one she left you to go have one I don't know what was it like dating a woman in her whole phase or

01:09:36.660 before she had one, what do you consider a hoe face?

01:09:39.900 You can comment on any of those topics.

01:09:42.820 Okay, I'm gonna start with Ben.

01:09:54.420 Hello, Ben, welcome to the show.

01:10:00.460 You can unmute your mic.

01:10:06.660 I've found your perspective enjoyable. Let me say it that way. I don't agree with all of it, but I agree with a lot of it. I think you're very brave to make the statements you make.

01:10:20.660 uh i have dated women in a hoe phase as you would call it uh in england we probably don't

01:10:29.140 have a word for that yet um but by the time i was 18 i dated three girls who were bisexual

01:10:39.940 um and one of them became my long-term partner for a while

01:10:44.660 and I don't think that anybody needs to have a phase in order to make other people feel

01:10:56.260 a certain way about them I think people have phases and if I look at I'm 42 if I look at

01:11:05.040 sexual relationships of which I've carried on since the age of 14 you know various people

01:11:13.500 are at various stages of their own sexual development, their own enlightenment, whatever

01:11:20.460 it is. And I found people, people don't need that. You know, it's easy to unlock the, and I'm going

01:11:30.540 to put this in your words, in quotes, the whole type in somebody who's never had that kind of

01:11:37.540 relationship if you connect with them in that way and that doesn't mean that

01:11:42.880 translates the rest of the relationship that just means it's it's a specific

01:11:47.200 thing but equally it's not necessary and it can be developed inside a

01:11:54.220 relationship and that's that's the point I would like to make

01:11:58.960 and what would you consider a hoe phase a hoe phase would be over sexualizing

01:12:06.820 new appearance um putting yourself in positions i'm not going to say in risky positions men and

01:12:15.040 women both do that um but putting yourself in positions where you're more likely to have

01:12:21.540 a man come on to you um and i listened to what you said about alpha and beta males and

01:12:29.320 frankly i think that's something that gets sorted out between males females don't have a

01:12:33.800 part of that and alpha male he literally bears his canines every four years and everyone bows

01:12:40.680 to that um but ultimately i think a whole phase is open-mindedness and wanting to go with the flow

01:12:50.840 and i think the opposite is a closure of the mind and wanting to go in a specific direction

01:12:59.240 i don't think either is bad and i think without both you're not going to be as well-rounded a

01:13:05.640 human being i appreciate i've talked for a while so so how old are you 42. the women that you knew

01:13:14.840 that were the biggest hoes are they married today are they like where are they now because

01:13:21.160 you've had the perspective of time right uh actually if you ask the question with the

01:13:30.600 exception of one i won't talk about if you ask the question not in as good a place as the ones

01:13:36.920 who didn't really not and i and what i mean by that is um you know as i mentioned on my previous

01:13:46.360 channels and developmental psychologists so i i you know when i see people no you don't get to

01:13:52.440 lie to me really very easily um but yeah the ones i've seen go through the whole phase

01:14:00.040 i can still see going through the whole phase at like age 36 or 38 and that at that point

01:14:07.720 it does become sad no matter who you are so um so you didn't have um so the majority

01:14:15.480 do they have are they just single and alone do they have drug problems alcohol

01:14:22.200 yeah the latter actually um i find that women that go through the and usually it's the whole

01:14:28.600 phase i'll call it for my placeholder um the pleasing men phase um and women you go through

01:14:38.440 the pleasing men phase for too long to me end up alone with a much smaller pool of men

01:14:47.640 to please and a much greater desire to please them so the phase that you're talking about

01:14:55.000 can get stronger tighter and less lenient over time um i've known plenty women go through the

01:15:04.680 hofays and you know marry in their late 20s early 30s and just forget about it you know it's part

01:15:11.000 of their old life but the ones who've kind of stuck with it possibly have an internal belief

01:15:19.320 that if they're more sexually not necessarily promiscuous but approachable then that

01:15:27.800 that kind of soothes their ego but it doesn't seem to match out to to the way that they lead

01:15:33.400 their lives and i would say that that's probably not the optimal way to look like

01:15:38.920 well thank you very much for sharing your experience it's a pleasure thank you thank you

01:15:47.800 okay thank you oh i don't know what he was saying um um add as a speaker

01:16:03.400 Hello.

01:16:04.400 Hello.

01:16:05.400 Pearl?

01:16:06.400 Hi.

01:16:07.400 What's your name?

01:16:08.400 Hi.

01:16:09.400 It's Mankos Mash.

01:16:10.400 Mankos?

01:16:11.400 What's your age and where are you calling from?

01:16:24.400 Los Angeles and 45.

01:16:27.400 Okay.

01:16:28.400 Cool.

01:16:29.400 What are your thoughts on the topic?

01:16:30.400 In LA, I'm sure you have a lot to talk about.

01:16:32.400 yeah and i did i did my male hope phase in la over the course of about five years like

01:16:40.440 2007 through 2012 um and i've been in a relationship since then but you know when

01:16:47.820 people talk about hope phase what they're really talking about is just the carousel

01:16:52.300 um you can't say like naughty words right you're on stream

01:16:56.560 um yeah i mean nothing too crazy but you can swear it's fine

01:17:01.920 you know the the kind of carousel is the one with the rooster uh yeah yeah okay so that that's

01:17:09.100 basically just what it is it's women who are having casual sex who are out of their league

01:17:13.740 for relationships they can't get relationships from these men so the only way they have access

01:17:18.720 to these men is just by offering these men up casual sex like costco samples they're just

01:17:25.840 throwing it out they're just giving it up for free and um i had a lot of i had a lot of women

01:17:31.920 that i dated when i was dating and then i wanted to understand women better so that i could find

01:17:37.300 like figure out who my my perfect woman was so i made friends with a lot of the women that i um

01:17:43.900 formerly dated and talked to them a lot about dating and i knew a lot of women who some women

01:17:49.240 had done this like had ho phases and most women did not and women don't need to do a ho phase to

01:17:57.020 learn not to do a ho phase because the vast majority of women that have any sense they

01:18:02.320 already intuitively know that it's dumb to just be promiscuous and sleep around and they already

01:18:09.300 know that like these particular dudes are never going to offer them commitment so why are you

01:18:15.380 wasting your time adding bodies for this you know what i mean so the women that you had your whole

01:18:21.040 phase with would you say they were like less attractive um in terms would you say that was

01:18:26.800 the dynamic for you guys where you were out of their league it really depends because i wasn't

01:18:33.900 like such a giga chad where i was just uh like talking like i was doing it before tinder tinder

01:18:41.400 wasn't so big when i was meeting up with women it was through like myspace and then plenty of fish

01:18:46.080 and okcupid it was during that time frame and um the vast majority of the women that i slept with

01:18:53.900 it was because we were in like some sort of a dating relationship we weren't just like having

01:18:58.740 them come over and hook up because if that did happen on rare occasions and yes any woman who

01:19:06.020 does that there's going to be a value issue there because no woman who really respects herself is

01:19:11.520 going to act that way with men um it they weren't necessarily ugly although i would say on average

01:19:17.960 you're going to be dealing with less attractive women but like for example in two cases where that

01:19:23.880 did happen where i was like supposed to date the woman and then she just was like skipped the date

01:19:28.440 we just got right to it it was because they were rebounding out of uh they were mad at their ex

01:19:34.860 boyfriend and this i was like i was the one who was their revenge sex so outside of that though

01:19:41.820 i think guys who do do hookups usually the women are substantially lower quality and yes that's

01:19:47.400 that's the sacrifice that's being made but the vast majority of the time i was doing it in dating

01:19:52.980 relationships and i would usually go like if the woman was not willing to get physical within like

01:19:59.840 three dates i would just figure she wasn't interested enough but most of the women

01:20:03.920 you know we did date and it was through that it wasn't just like hookups if that makes sense

01:20:08.800 and did you find that the women did they want to keep it casual um i've just heard feedback from

01:20:15.920 guys that like when they're casually dating a lot of them don't want something serious

01:20:21.040 is that your experience too or did most of them want something serious yeah no that's not my

01:20:27.680 to experience it all i know that's that's uh like nuclear's experience i think it depends on the

01:20:34.240 energy that you're putting out there because the best if you if you have a very like if you're

01:20:41.580 giving out a lot of player energy and you have that kind of like baller stuff like with your

01:20:47.120 pictures and whatever else like that's the persona you're projecting you're going to attract a lot

01:20:52.900 more women who are looking for casual things you're not going to attract women as much that

01:20:59.120 are looking for relationships but that's really unusual that's like less than 10 percent of guys

01:21:04.200 the vast majority of guys including me virtually all women want relationships and when i ended up

01:21:12.220 in having like sex friends with women it was always because we started dating they liked me

01:21:19.860 enough and then i was like i don't i don't want a relationship with this girl but instead of

01:21:27.020 ghosting her if you if you do it properly like if you basically reject her in such a way where

01:21:33.540 she doesn't feel bad about it where you're just like ah we just you know i don't think our

01:21:36.940 personalities work out whatever you some whatever excuse so she doesn't feel bad about it if she

01:21:41.940 likes you enough or she's attracted you enough sometimes he'll be like oh well can we still

01:21:46.320 hang out though and then now you have a sex friend but and women and that's always temporary

01:21:52.180 like the longest I've ever had that last is maybe a year or something like that because

01:21:56.780 those women they always ultimately they want a boyfriend you're just keeping their feet warm

01:22:01.800 until they find one and when you think about women that you knew that were like the biggest

01:22:09.300 hoes what happened to them there's it's kind of strange there's so there there are

01:22:16.260 rare women that are they have a man mentality when it comes to sex like there's not as very

01:22:22.980 small percentage of women but there are some women who they're promiscuous the way men are

01:22:27.460 like they just are really into being sexually aggressive and stuff like that um they usually had

01:22:35.380 uh pretty pretty unstable relationships uh because they would cheat on their their boyfriends or

01:22:42.900 husbands they would eventually get bored and they would eventually cheat kind of like how you think

01:22:47.060 a man was yeah um so that would happen on their end but then you have the other high body count women

01:22:55.140 and there are there are women who do like a hoe phase obviously it's not ideal for the woman to

01:23:00.580 have a hoe phase at all but there are some women who they start to do it maybe because they see

01:23:06.020 their their friend group like the women around them are doing it and they kind of like women

01:23:10.100 love to follow the pack and then they learn very quickly this is not for me and they stop

01:23:15.780 and then they never do it again so those women are fine they go they get relationships it's

01:23:20.880 totally fine but then you have the women who don't learn and they just keep doing it and they get

01:23:26.880 themselves in this cycle where they cope and like all this other stuff and it's it's all bad that

01:23:32.760 those women are the ones who end up being a total mess ending up with high body counts they're the

01:23:38.620 women who end up doing stuff like you'll have these women where the woman is on her best day

01:23:44.580 of five out of ten and she will potentially have be able to date a dude who's like a seven out of

01:23:50.840 ten and she'll look down on him and act like he is trash that is beneath her and reject him

01:23:58.440 because she can go into the nightlife scene and like a dude who's an eight will smash her

01:24:05.940 and she thinks that makes him better her better than the dude who's actually a seven who's

01:24:10.720 actually like she's super lucky that this guy's willing to date her and i saw that happen too and

01:24:16.080 that's just a downward spiral and then those women end up in their 30s and they don't really have

01:24:21.280 they don't really have good options and did you see those women um

01:24:26.400 was it more that they would have boyfriends and they would dump them or would it just be strictly

01:24:32.800 one night stands and they weren't looking for something serious or were they just aiming too

01:24:36.920 high combination of both just curious are you talking about the one talking about the last

01:24:42.560 group yeah the last group yeah who like their heads got way too big for their bodies and stuff

01:24:48.460 yeah because yeah they couldn't get relationships they couldn't because they were so hypergamous

01:24:53.880 and they were so looking upward and they were only so they thought like because they could

01:25:00.560 they could pull sex from there are dudes who are really good looking and they'll have sex with

01:25:05.840 ugly women as long as the women make themselves convenient enough yeah and and so these women

01:25:12.100 they get into that and then they won't like they can smash dudes that are eight or nine sometimes

01:25:18.460 and then they'll go on a regular date and they'll just be they'll just look down on the guy and be

01:25:24.620 not interested and so they can never get relationships the best they'll ever get

01:25:28.600 if they impress one of their sex partners enough is they get like a situationship where they might

01:25:34.820 lie to themselves and tell themselves they are in a relationship when they're really not so for

01:25:40.780 example one example is there was this woman who she was uh recently divorced and she ended up

01:25:49.420 dating me because you know i i happened to fit her profile at the time because i was lawyer and i had

01:25:55.260 abs and all that kind of stuff so i was worthy of dating her or whatever but she was older she was

01:26:00.280 in her 30s she was recently divorced she showed me pictures of her before she got divorced she

01:26:05.360 was a whale she was huge she was super fat she was korean after she got divorced shortly after

01:26:10.960 she got divorced she became like a personal trainer got super into fitness had abs got big

01:26:16.300 fake titties like she went the whole nine yards and completely transformed herself and she became

01:26:21.980 up and became a huge hope well i i like kind of knew her for a while and she was such a mess

01:26:28.720 that i kind of kept in touch with her because these women like this are great for stories and

01:26:33.420 then you learn stories about them and you can tell these stories when you're on dates with other

01:26:36.600 women so anyway she calls me up and we're talking one day and she says she has a boyfriend and she's

01:26:43.360 telling me about her boyfriend and she says you know what bothers me about my boyfriend

01:26:48.840 is i've never had sex with him one-on-one and i'm like wait what are you talking about and she's

01:26:55.380 like yeah it's always like threesomes or foursomes or even fivesomes i've never actually been alone

01:27:01.300 with him for sex and i'm like oh my god wait you you think he's your boyfriend and it's yeah

01:27:09.420 this was a dude and she's like oh yeah he's a partner at a law firm he makes half a million

01:27:13.320 dollars a year he drives this and that it was some like high status dude and she basically just

01:27:19.700 joined his harem and she thought she was his boyfriend his girlfriend wow

01:27:25.260 is she is she fat again now or is she still thin i i mean i haven't talked to her in a long time

01:27:33.920 because i've been in a relationship so i don't like i'm not in that world uh but for the years

01:27:40.780 that i did know her no she was always she was always grinding she was always trying to find

01:27:45.260 dudes she was um like she stayed in shape but i'm sure had she ever found a guy we already know

01:27:52.400 from her history she's gonna let herself go if she thinks she could get away with it yeah

01:27:58.120 i was wondering because i always say women make some bad decision and then have a gym phase

01:28:05.640 like slash health phase it's either getting it's either getting fat or trying to clear an std

01:28:12.400 i saw many times women that were recently divorced would massively go into their looks like they

01:28:22.580 would hit the gym they would get in really good shape they would get really skinny they would get

01:28:26.440 plastic surgery especially a lot of these women getting divorced like in their 30s or maybe 40s

01:28:32.060 and you know this is la obviously too so that maybe plays a role and um there were i i met a

01:28:40.500 number of women that were like this like they were not attractive when they were married they let

01:28:46.020 things downward spiral because obviously like the woman will stop putting in the effort to look good

01:28:51.000 in the marriage the man won't crack the whip on her and he'll let it happen and then he'll just

01:28:56.600 stop putting in effort too so then the marriage falls apart and she's the one who started it but

01:29:01.820 she doesn't see it that way and then she blows up the marriage and then she leaves and she's like

01:29:06.400 oh i need to get hot again to attract another man and then they go into massive hoe phases and they

01:29:12.880 they actually can get super hot like some of these girls that i saw but you know they're only doing

01:29:18.880 it because they're trying to reach an objective which is to get another commitment and then as

01:29:23.720 soon as they get secure again they're going to just let themselves go again because that's who

01:29:27.300 they really are yeah well if they're trying to yeah last thing is trying to roll the dice again

01:29:33.540 like it's easy to do when you're 20 to 25 but when you're like 38 and you think you're going

01:29:39.060 to do that again like the results are not going to be as good as they used to be yeah very few pull

01:29:45.700 it off i cover the women that do sometimes it's actually kind of interesting like that 42 year

01:29:53.920 old woman that just married the owner she had to go to 70 though he was like 70 something

01:30:00.380 yeah that does tend and here's the thing is that and this is like why they were dating me right

01:30:07.540 yeah i was in my late 20s when i was dating these chicks like they weren't trying to get dudes in

01:30:13.180 their 50s they were they wanted like the young hot stud guy and they're like oh but you also have to

01:30:18.860 have like a high status career and you also have to have money all these other things like that's

01:30:23.200 what they were going for which is just wildly unrealistic yeah yeah well thank you very much

01:30:30.020 for telling me your experiences I find I find them really interesting so I appreciate you calling in

01:30:35.760 thanks for having me on bro I move from okay now who's next the

01:30:44.140 all right we got Tyler I think I'm gonna do is there any women asking to come up

01:30:53.920 uh i don't see any women i'm gonna do tyler out as a speaker

01:31:03.200 hi tyler

01:31:08.400 hello gotta unmute your mic hey pearl thanks for having me uh first off how old are you

01:31:15.840 and what part of the country are you in 32 i live in texas okay what what part dallas houston

01:31:25.520 i just left austin right on the outskirts of san antonio now

01:31:29.840 i've heard austin's a great place to date for men was that your experience

01:31:36.720 depends what you're looking for i think there's a higher there's a there's this guy i follow on

01:31:42.000 Twitter, Playboy, something, and he seems to think Austin's in the top five.

01:31:46.980 Depends what you're looking for, I think.

01:31:51.160 You know, it's a blue city.

01:31:53.220 So it's a lot of liberal women.

01:31:55.100 Oh, my God.

01:31:56.100 It's the only thing I can tell you.

01:31:59.320 So what is your thought on the topic?

01:32:01.840 Do you think women need to have a hofes?

01:32:04.500 Have you dated women in their hofes?

01:32:12.000 you know i think we're trying to like put a name on something that can't necessarily be

01:32:16.560 quantified like like the whole phase is is it really i'm not there's a genuine question i don't

01:32:22.240 know but is it really like a whole phase where they're just kind of on an adventure or is it

01:32:29.340 kind of pope that you know they're trying to be cool but like kind of whole culture if you will

01:32:37.520 what they're really trying to do is get a man i think they just out out um out price themselves

01:32:44.680 with the market you know does that make sense yeah but i'm asking you know specifically women

01:32:53.880 will talk about their hoe face they describe this on tiktok where they have

01:32:57.900 you know a bunch of men that they're talking to you know they try to date like men

01:33:04.680 yeah um have a rotation of you know this is they talk about it openly on call her daddy

01:33:10.480 and the girl from call her daddy just got married i'm not saying it'll last but i more just want to

01:33:17.020 know like what happened to the women you know that have that had hoe phases were they long

01:33:22.940 did you date them i'm just curious your personal stories yeah i'm happy to get personal uh in

01:33:30.140 terms of like whole phase like i don't know that any other women what do you call a whole phase you

01:33:35.280 know i've had five i've had five term long-term relationships and basically all five of them

01:33:42.160 they decided to end the relationship all five of them came for you know in some form of attempted

01:33:49.700 coming back you know getting getting back into a lot of relationships so when they left was that

01:33:54.500 a whole phase sure um you know uh have i dated women that are in a whole phase well yeah i mean

01:34:01.600 i've gone downtown and went home with some 304 a couple you know back in the day when i was still

01:34:08.360 doing that you know yeah you just you know they might even ask the question is this like a short

01:34:15.660 term thing is this like you just take or we just having fun or what's going on um you can just like

01:34:22.080 not answer the question with some of them they still tag along so i i don't i don't i don't

01:34:27.520 really know how to answer that question like they're all in our phase until they find somebody

01:34:39.520 that they think is the best they can get virtually all

01:34:43.360 and did you find that the women that did extreme hoe phases do you did any get married now did

01:34:53.440 any i don't like the women you knew in high school college that maybe were known for sleeping around

01:34:58.920 did they are they married today are they still single what happened to them

01:35:03.640 yeah okay so well one of them that i would just this is mostly a small town

01:35:13.140 high school small town texas uh high school in texas but you know one just sent me a facebook

01:35:19.440 request two two to four weeks ago she was probably one of the hoes of the high school

01:35:25.900 and you know when i look at her facebook now i'm like oh my god i remember being in high

01:35:33.840 school and thinking like she was cute and hot or whatever now she's just completely

01:35:37.240 was selling apart you know she's 35 or something does break my heart when you mention that you know

01:35:45.080 they just they just go through a whole phase and then find some poor simps that thinks that

01:35:51.080 she like actually loves them but who doesn't the highest caliber man she could get was at 24

01:35:59.060 or you're just you could never live up to it and so they did get married that's interesting

01:36:08.120 they did yeah i don't i don't think that's an issue for women i think all that's going to happen is

01:36:13.700 if they don't get with a what they perceive as a high caliber man when they're young they

01:36:19.300 they turn 28 30 hit the wall or whatever and then um they they just depends on their culture

01:36:27.060 and where they from but they can settle down that's just how the marketplace is is for women

01:36:34.420 i mean we see it all the time with logan paul's shape or whatever yeah you know

01:36:40.680 yeah it's like what it's like what do you even have like you're logan paul like

01:36:46.060 a million followers you can get a virgin girl that like actually you know yeah okay

01:36:52.640 okay well thank you very much for calling in you bet bye-bye

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01:37:46.140 always want to look up to slightly in a man's eyes um even conservative women use dumb terms

01:37:53.980 like vibe just read her mind bro pearl read i okay wait wait i see lots of single mothers at

01:38:01.420 my gym fitness is definitely a thing yeah fitness phase always comes after some poor life decision

01:38:07.980 so it's either an std they're trying to heal naturally overweight or divorce it's never like

01:38:14.860 a good life decision and then i got into the gym it's not necessarily good or bad you know i mean

01:38:21.820 a lot of men go to the gym because of a heartbreak

01:38:25.820 but anyways i'm gonna end the twitter space we're gonna try to get the zoom to work next time so

01:38:30.940 anyways guys like the video on your way out subscribe to the channel and i will see you guys

01:38:37.260 tomorrow. Bye-bye.

Pearl - January 07, 2025

Do Modern Woman NEED A Hoe Phase？｜ Pearl Daily

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