Pearl - Even Other Non-White People Have Fatigue

00:00:00.000 because i really have moved on from this period of my life they would get mad at me because i

00:00:04.540 would bring too many black women on the show and they would say i was racist because i brought on 1.00

00:00:08.940 too many black women and they would say crazy things and it would make them look bad and i and 1.00

00:00:14.000 i was like so when you give black people opportunities you're called racist if you 0.98

00:00:19.700 don't you're called racist i'm like we literally cannot win hey doug hey how's it going i'm good

00:00:26.180 how are you i love this topic so um are you sure are you sure i'm scared sorry no no 0.92

00:00:33.320 no someone in the chat said doug mpa when did you turn against toxic black culture i said 0.88

00:00:42.120 i was never part of it i was never part of it you know i've had black fatigue for over 40 years

00:00:48.680 when you're a person like me who comes from you know my family wasn't as well to do as pearls but

00:00:54.540 my family was pretty well to do we grew up in a nice neighborhood a prominent white neighborhood

00:00:59.060 and i've had i've gotten it worse from my own race you know you you you talk white you act white you

00:01:07.320 get good grades you you're just white white white white and guys i keep telling you the only person 0.95

00:01:12.900 um that has more black fatigue than white people are hard-working educated law-abiding black people 0.97

00:01:21.620 we're tired of it that's the thing you know it's bad when black people are having black fatigue 0.78

00:01:26.280 100 100 and we're starting to see a shift where white people are speaking up but then you see black 1.00

00:01:34.680 people speaking up too you know this whole um you know no snitching kind of thing where we have to

00:01:40.940 protect the culture no that's over with it's over you have more black people who becoming 0.99

00:01:47.420 will proudly admit to be conservatives on the right voting for trump i think we're finally

00:01:55.840 starting to see a cultural shift finally in my life yeah and it's like you know what it is it's 0.98

00:02:03.580 the black people that don't do that stuff it it sucks they have to be grouped in do you know what i 0.97

00:02:10.060 mean it's like it's like you almost have to go to extra lengths to prove you're not like that 0.98

00:02:15.520 and it's unfortunate it's unfortunate but you can't you're not even allowed to notice

00:02:21.220 i agree it's like um women make up these words the modern day sorcery are the words that women 0.99

00:02:31.940 make up to like redefine reality like um black women have this term microaggression it's the dumbest 1.00

00:02:40.160 thing ever so like they'll consider like if um anything that's based upon a stereotype or something 0.99

00:02:48.960 that is perpetuated by black people any way that white people would respond is to could be

00:02:55.000 likely women will consider a microaggression oh but it's like it's reality you know what i'm saying 0.94

00:03:01.780 like example pearl well i'm not gonna put this on you but the average person it doesn't matter what 0.60

00:03:08.060 your race is if you're walking down the street you see four black dudes standing on the corner 0.98

00:03:13.700 you you're gonna cross the road i first you know what i forgot about how mean black women were to me 1.00

00:03:19.060 when i was in an interracial relationship oh man i forgot it yeah boy i forgot because i was so long

00:03:25.940 ago but they were like there were times where they said things to me in person and it was just like

00:03:33.220 what do you know and same when we would post videos and stuff that would be like the top comments would 0.97

00:03:38.440 be like black women mad and it's just yeah or try being a black guy dating white women oh man black 0.98

00:03:46.080 women hate hate either one it's awful like and then it's funny because they'll praise serena williams 1.00

00:03:53.480 marrying that dorky um uh reddit guy but i had a black woman say that a black man marrying a white 1.00

00:04:02.940 woman is betraying the race but a white man marrying a black woman is a celebration of the black woman 0.99

00:04:09.360 yeah and and the other thing is they think black women think they can sometimes they they're just 1.00

00:04:18.760 not all not all but at times when i was doing interviews i mean they're just so mean like i mean

00:04:27.600 if i was ever all out screamed at it was always a black woman like when britney renner like crashed 1.00

00:04:34.600 out on me and they're saying how i i'm like wrong because i'm privileged and white as they're like

00:04:41.220 screaming at me i'm like do you not see the irony here i'm glad because guys i've been telling pro

00:04:47.840 for years stop trying to be made to feel bad about the fact that your dad worked hard to put you in a

00:04:55.000 position where you didn't have to where you had a head start in life i don't i would hate me too

00:04:59.800 why do you feel bad about people yeah i'm so tired of people holding that especially in the black 0.90

00:05:06.500 community like hood culture is supposed to be the culture if you didn't struggle if you weren't from 0.73

00:05:11.760 the hood if you were dodging bullets and and run away from the police well then you're not black 0.99

00:05:16.820 it's garbage do you know what the other thing they would do i'm i kind of moved on from this but 0.98

00:05:21.940 the news was giving me flashbacks because i really have moved on from this period of my life they would 0.99

00:05:28.000 get mad at me because i would bring too many black women on the show and they would say i was racist 0.99

00:05:31.700 because i brought on too many black women and they would say crazy things and it would make them look 1.00

00:05:37.000 bad and i and i was like so when you give black people opportunities you're called racist if you don't

00:05:44.420 you're called racist i'm like we literally cannot win you can't let me tell you guys what would be the

00:05:49.920 perfect demographics for you like and and the thing is they would always ask me why i'm like they wanted

00:05:55.580 to come on the show black exactly black people love podcasts like they love doing interviews and i think

00:06:03.180 they're better at it if i'm being honest they're way funnier like yeah go ahead and honestly so guys

00:06:09.600 i've moderated every single one of pearl's um panel shows you can go to pearl's website

00:06:16.020 theodacitynetwork.com and become a member and watch all of our old shows so go over there we'd love to

00:06:20.880 have you over there it's it's ten dollars a month so go over there and um she would have a recruiters

00:06:28.820 just recruit whoever wanted to come on the show and who is the most likely to come onto a podcast with 1.00

00:06:35.260 people that they don't know and show their ass and act like complete morons who black women that's who 1.00

00:06:43.880 so you wonder why there are so many black women on pearl's show is because they can't wait to get 1.00

00:06:49.120 in front of a camera and act a damn fool that's what what it was yeah um i don't know when i did not 0.99

00:06:59.260 i swear i it's not like i didn't notice race but i never really paid attention or obviously and it 0.98

00:07:07.840 wasn't that was such a canon event for people don't understand how upset i was like i'm sorry

00:07:15.460 sarah mtr you are on my shit list forever forever forever forever because it was just like 0.97

00:07:26.760 it was just so crazy because we were hanging out with both of them the week i remember when like when 0.99

00:07:33.420 sarah had his interview his video scheduled about me and it was the craziest video ever

00:07:39.500 it accused me of like taking footage to hold over black people's head that was the accusation that i

00:07:46.460 was a col i had a colonial mindset and i was we were taking footage at at my birthday party to hold

00:07:54.360 over black people's head and you know it's crazy he took footage from that party and posted it on the

00:07:59.560 internet yeah and i was like this is so crazy and i remember seeing the video scheduled and it said 0.86

00:08:07.000 the truth about pearl and i remember thinking oh he would never it's going to be something positive

00:08:14.020 he's going to stand up for me i remember thinking this i said this on the phone in my with my dad

00:08:18.960 and my dad's like are you sure and i'm like no he would never do me like that i was devastated

00:08:26.980 i was devastated yeah i remember because i remember you you couldn't even watch the video

00:08:32.440 first because remember you called me and said hey can you watch this and tell me how bad it is

00:08:39.740 because you didn't even want to watch the video at first i remember and it and what they don't

00:08:45.380 understand is that traumatizes a person like i mean now look i i judge people on a case-by-case basis

00:08:53.620 obviously like we're friends you're black like it's not like that but you you just don't know

00:09:00.720 who's gonna do it and i feel the same way about women actually yeah this pro always says

00:09:05.860 it must be hard being being a successful educated black man sometimes because of

00:09:11.840 of what some black people do and i say well i feel the same well about you being a woman

00:09:16.860 how are you how can you stand being a woman sometimes i know i and that's why when people

00:09:25.240 like make generalizations about women when i interviewed a thousand i mean i i just saw what 0.97

00:09:30.840 they were talking about um yeah guys let me tell you so pearl's not having to show pearl's not in

00:09:42.940 any kind of denial that other races have issues we were talking about um when you saw that that

00:09:50.180 shooting at that church what race white guy white guy conservatives yes yeah um the guy that tried to

00:09:59.660 take out trump the guy that took out charlie kirk they're all so each race has has its issues but 0.66

00:10:06.940 we're talking about black fatigue right now and the past that a group of black people always get is 1.00

00:10:14.240 it's about the racism and the white supremacy and all this crap one of the biggest problems with 0.98

00:10:21.380 the black community in my opinion is that we're still so concerned with how we got here 0.98

00:10:27.080 that we don't want to figure out what we're going to do about it so when i was young i'd come up to my

00:10:34.500 dad and i'd say hey dad you know this happened this happened this happened and my dad would say okay

00:10:39.140 okay okay okay okay now what are you going to do about it because the work doesn't start until you

00:10:45.340 ask yourself with that question and there's too many blacks in america that want to talk about 0.65

00:10:50.280 the the slavery and the jim crow and how racist white people were were in the past and even if you

00:10:58.420 accept all that what are you going to do about it how are you going to get on the field to

00:11:04.200 to score a touchdown how are you going to be successful well this is we're blocked with 0.95

00:11:10.280 too many black people where they don't want to figure out what they're going to do to move forward 0.99

00:11:15.620 and get ahead and win go ahead well the other thing so we were always beat over the head with 0.96

00:11:23.080 we always beat over the head and just said that we were these slave owners and when i found out that

00:11:31.660 most white people didn't even own slaves because my whole childhood they made it they would all the 0.95

00:11:38.700 media all the targeting was that white people were these slave owners that just ruined black people's

00:11:46.100 lives pretty much now i'm not saying there's not some truth to that but when i found out like it was

00:11:52.460 one percent of the white people that are in america today that are descendants of slaves

00:11:57.140 i was just like why why would they tell why would they paint that picture like that go ahead well

00:12:04.660 it's just like this whole thing oh yeah black people built america new york city chicago 0.65

00:12:10.980 uh boston was not built by slaves i'm sorry it wasn't i'm i'm saying i'm so tired of this whole

00:12:21.060 because black women have created i'm sorry go ahead no no i'm so sorry go ahead go ahead i was 1.00

00:12:27.420 saying black women have created this thing well women take credit for for everything that doesn't 1.00

00:12:32.060 really belong to them well they try to take credit away from men but like black women have created 1.00

00:12:37.260 this narrative that like black people just made everything just how women try to say that they try to 1.00

00:12:46.280 take credit away from men black women try to say oh yeah there's always a black person responsible 1.00

00:12:51.800 for all sorts of different stuff no there wasn't sorry no well the other thing too i didn't know the 0.65

00:12:57.720 first slave owner was a black guy he like came from africa and that was the like it wasn't as racial

00:13:06.520 historically um as they taught us in schools and it's not like i'm trying to downplay it obviously that should

00:13:15.560 never have happened but you can't even talk about the historical context without like you can't even

00:13:22.200 talk about the historical context of slavery and like the specifics about what happened without people

00:13:28.680 getting mad at you and i just think it's like why can't i investigate what happened you know they just

00:13:35.240 get mad i'll do you one better guys everyone in the chat everyone on the audacity site it is okay

00:13:44.440 to be proud of who you are and where you came from it is proud for you to advocate for your group if

00:13:50.600 if you were a white guy and say i want white guys i want to try it i want to help as many white men

00:13:57.400 succeed as possible well good for you if you're a white woman you want to um you want to help with 0.55

00:14:04.200 white women get ahead you don't owe any other group outside of the demographic that you belong to 1.00

00:14:11.160 anything at all it's just like black people if you want to just help help black people and get black 1.00

00:14:18.440 people to have more power to you but it is okay for everyone to be proud of who they are where they 0.96

00:14:23.800 came from and advocate for their group and their group only i don't expect anything from white people

00:14:29.880 and it's funny because um that whole oscars is so white thing the last first off who watches the oscars

00:14:38.200 anyway but second up there's this campaign where like um black people wanted to see 50 of the oscars

00:14:47.880 being won by black people like the expectation is that uh because there's black people and there's

00:14:53.240 white people that everything has to be 50 black when we're only 13 of the population so anyway they 0.97

00:14:59.240 have this oscars so white thing right so they studied all of the oscar wins and found out that throughout

00:15:06.440 the history of the oscars 13 of the oscars have been won by black actors and actresses

00:15:13.480 which is the same percentage of the population

Pearl - September 30, 2025

Even Other Non-White People Have Fatigue

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