Pearl - October 30, 2025
Fat Piggies And Chopped Mids All Have Insane Dating Standards
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Summary
In this episode, we are reacting to women talking about their unrealistic dating standards and what they want in a man. We talk about what these standards are, why they are so unrealistic and how to deal with them.
Transcript
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oh my gosh is she just what is she wearing oh god oh what up guys welcome to my reaction series
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today we are reacting to women saying dumb shit as we do per usual today we are reacting to women
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talking about their unrealistic dating standards and to open doors for me but i won't date one who
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doesn't i don't need a man to open doors for me but i won't date one who doesn't i don't need a
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man to buy me flowers but i will not date one who doesn't i don't need a man to provide for me
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but i wouldn't date one who doesn't and more importantly doesn't want to because if somebody's
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doing these things because they think they should or in order to keep you but they don't truly want
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to do these things further down the line they will resent you they will feel some type of way of having
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to do things or they'll throw it in your face and they'll probably stop doing these things once they
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think they have you once they think they've secured you and you're in their life the effort
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will slip because it wasn't really real it wasn't really what they wanted to do and there are men
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out there that will want to do these things not all of them do and that's fine but you don't have to date
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the ones that don't want to yeah so again it's a modern woman asking for traditional standards some men
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will do it um but it just it tends to be it tends to be the ones that we're not really attracted to
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is the challenge there's actually no such thing as a high standard as long as you can deliver on it
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yourself if you can meet those same standards in your own life emotionally physically mentally
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financially then that's not a high standard for you that's just your standard the issue happens when
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there's a disconnect if you're demanding the world and not showing up for yourself in the same ways
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then it creates an imbalance and vice versa if you're delivering so much energy effort and value
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and your standards now the challenge is usually when women have these talking points they think
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that the stuff we offer should be the stuff same stuff as the men offer so like if you want a high
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earning man you should also be high earning but men don't care they don't care at all about that
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that's a problem as well the key here is alignment and i hate to say this but your standards need to
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reflect what you bring to the table luckily i think us girlies bring a lot more to the table than the men do
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but oh my gosh where it gets tricky a lot of people don't actually know what they bring to
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the table studies show that over 70 percent of women underestimate their skills and abilities in
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both personal and professional settings which means that they tend to set lower standards not because
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that's what they deserve but because they don't realize their worth before you set standards in a
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relationship check on alpha fucks beta books women tend to offer discounts to men that we really like
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but we don't offer those discounts to beta books so what happens is women when we come out at 18
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we don't really know our worth we don't we don't know that we're worth a bajillion dollars although
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with the advent of the internet that is more difficult to hide from women um and so now that's
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why you see the increase in the beta bucks and the sugar dating scene is because women younger and
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younger are figuring out what they're actually worth um so this is women trying to convince other
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women to go for beta bucks which we hate beta bucks self-perception if your standards feel too high
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ask yourself are they actually too high or have you just been conditioned i think she's got lip filler
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it looks like syringe thing just to believe that you deserve less when your self-worth rises your
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standards naturally adjust to match it and that's when you can start attracting the relationships you
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all right what's next um i thought i would share my negotiables in terms of dating and that's what
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i'm looking for i just saw all the crates do this i thought it's really interesting um so i thought i'd
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have a go so first of all must be biologically male and born a male it's her chromosomes first of all
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uh they must be between the ages of i'm pushing it saying 22 which is my own age but really
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25 to kind of 35 pushing it 40 but really 35 they must be on uh absolutely not going with anyone
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who has had it if you know you know too big of a topic to explain they must be right-wing
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not anyone liberal they must also not be woke they need to have spiritual and higher power beliefs
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now preference is being a christian or spiritual and a non-christian like myself ideally they're
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latter for me personally that was such a big thing they must have a deep sense of connection
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to their own light oh no this goes on eight minutes oh we can't watch this i won't do that to you guys
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oh no no no no no no we are not watching that whole thing
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all right she wants oh no this woman has dating it's just never hot women it's because you guys keep
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banging these women with big boobs that's what keeps happening you keep seeing these big boobs you keep
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banging them and then you're like oh why do these women have delusional standards well you guys bang
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them somebody's giving these women a big ego i see men doing this trend so i want to try this trend
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in my way but it's like basically your dating standards so i got my laptop so my first dating like
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it's i can't date anyone who's like like i can't do it i don't like the smell of it
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it's like the slowest thing i think a person can do if you like doing it that's fine for me personally
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it's like no i can't deal with people who like sugarcoat things so my second bullet point was be
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blunt um my parents were very blunt with me that's how i grew up as a child and i'm very blunt with people
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so if you like the sugarcoat thing all right you just at your height and weight you just cannot have
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any standards i can barely hear this woman oh my gosh is she just what is she wearing oh god oh
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the next one is location it's not i need you better be able to drive anywhere for a man
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at that weight i need someone to have my location just in case it happens and i also like to do
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shit without people knowing pause one time my lovely fans surprise party however all right um
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kinds of guys that you will most likely date if you are a single mom date number one is the guy who
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thinks simps so he's doing you a favor by dating you in spite of the fact that you're a single mom he
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thinks that you should be it's men that aren't getting women with no kids and they're like they're mad at
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the single moms because that's their only choice on your hands and knees thanking him for giving you
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a shot that's true pass the second is the church guy you know these guys like they'll take you to
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church on the first date you can find a good one church guys love single mothers because they can't
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get the hot women because they have no experience with women so they they're going to get these moms
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on these hot chicks on discount you know turns out they are the most toxic evil men that you will
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ever come in contact with let me tell you you want nothing to do with this guy number three is
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the reason translation he didn't let me go on girls trips he wouldn't let me hoe he wanted me to hoe
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no mo and i wanted to keep hoeing recently divorced guy a guy who's gone through a divorce has been
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married before and let me tell you some of these guys are single and divorced for a reason especially
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if it's a recent divorce or they are newly single hard hard pass hard pass before is the guy who's
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perfect on paper like you guys should be such a good fit like he just makes sense he's a good guy
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he's great he's nice he's got a great job like everything is just telling you that you should
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date this person and he should be perfect for you but unfortunately something just feels off like you
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just don't feel like it and you don't want to settle so you don't end up dating this guy for very long
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but it's for the best last but not least will be your future husband the guy that you meet that you
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finally realize why nothing ever worked out before it just falls into place so perfectly the cleanup guy
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yeah and god sends him directly to your doorstep like sign seal delivered the perfect man for you
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fits right into your family is amazing father figure does all the things he definitely makes
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you understand why none of the other ones worked cleanup guy and shout out to you guys somebody's
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got to do it somebody's got to somebody's got to bang these single mothers and uh marry them
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so they're not a menace to society so i think thank you to all the stepdaddies out there okay
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let me know your thoughts in the comments have you heard of women's unrealistic dating standards
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what have you heard women say that was super crazy put it in the comment section like the video and
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i'll see you next time all right what up guys welcome to my reaction series today we are going
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to be reacting to women being broke so i always say there always is a man to bail women out um
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and women basically have no consequences i would say until women run out of money can't afford the
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botox can't afford the fake nails fake hair and all that stuff that makes you look pretty now you're ugly
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and now you got to rely on your personality which isn't there so did you want to know what i'm
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actually tired of i'm tired of working and still being broke that's why i'm still broke i work all the
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time and i'm still broke okay and every time every time i get a chance to save my car goes to my car
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goes to literal shit i had to fix my brakes now i can't eat i can't eat and i work seven days this is
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a sugar baby ad so she's for sale fellas um her tick tock is the daily w kim offer to send her some
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money in exchange for the gluck gluck 5000 see what she says you never know
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i'm tired all right let's see what we got next uh this is the same link as
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are we all fighting for our lives financially right now or is it just me
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i have a good degree i work three jobs i budget the hell out of my money to an annoying
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like obsession like i'm watching every single penny i'm spending because i'm trying to pay off all my
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student loans but who times are tough right now like man i feel like isn't it kind of crazy that
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in the old days men used to get paid to take on women and now men have to pay
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women's student debt in order to date them the nuts more you work the more you have to pay for
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and it is it's tough out there right now like i think i do well and then i look at my bank account
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i'm like oh my god or i go to the grocery store and i'm like oh wow eggs are ten dollars again
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whoo like man it is tough right now and sometimes i feel like i'm the only one because sometimes i'll
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look and i'll be like oh my god all my all these people no there's a lot of broke women out there
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why do you think the monetized um marketplace is so big you know we're like traveling and buying nice
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things and i'm like wow how is there a secret someone someone help yeah um i love watching women
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take l's it's just funny because in life we don't take a lot of l's young so i do five minutes i do
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think when the l's come it's well deserved do you know what i mean like this is a deserved l so anyways
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