Pearl - Feminist Calls Pearl’s Argument “BULLSH＊T” After She Attacks Single Mothers

00:00:00.000 but the argument is that women are not nurturing that's a really broad claim about half of the 0.98

00:00:04.520 population and your only evidence is oh some dads are better dads than moms that's it that's a bad 0.99

00:00:10.680 argument why do women always talk about what they get instead of what they can give to a man and 1.00

00:00:15.140 their children if women are so nurturing women are not giving they do not care about their kids 1.00

00:00:20.880 and they are the most likely ones to abuse and abort their children there have been two to three 0.93

00:00:25.900 billion abortions conducted since 1960 there's nowhere no more dangerous for a child than being

00:00:31.760 in a mother's womb so zero men have ever killed a child even serial killers don't kill kids

00:00:38.100 dude ted bundy lived with a child did not kill him men kill children all the time the majority of

00:00:45.020 okay that doesn't mean that zero men killed kids is is your whole point this debate just

00:00:51.700 there's exceptions all right so the next prompt is women are not nurturing whoever wants to take

00:00:56.580 the lead okay yeah so how do you want to i guess let's define our terms how do you want to define 1.00

00:01:00.740 nurturing the definition of nurturing is to feed protect support and help something grow and 1.00

00:01:06.100 develop beautiful i'm all for it so why are women not nurturing because they're the most likely one 0.72

00:01:11.140 to kill the child and they've aborted an eighth of the world population so you're not really not

00:01:16.020 legally classified as murder so you can't change the definition of murder for the sake of this

00:01:20.500 conversation so let's exclude abortion and i'm not going to exclude abortion but it's not murder

00:01:25.460 if you want it to be classified as murder you have to take that up with the supreme court you

00:01:28.660 don't just get to decide what murder is well i don't care you don't care about the supreme court 1.00

00:01:32.740 i don't care about your opinion it's not my opinion it's the law well women have aborted an 0.90

00:01:37.620 eighth of the world population but i don't care about at the expense of society pearl do you care 0.94

00:01:42.980 about laws yes or no that is what do you care about the law well you just said you don't care 0.67

00:01:49.460 do you care about the law yes or no i believe that abortion shows that women are not nurturing

00:01:54.660 is that your only piece of evidence yes just abortion abortion and infanticide and abuse

00:02:00.180 okay so um going back to the elder abuse point by the way um we actually don't have the data to say

00:02:06.260 like what gender is committing more cases of elder abuse i tried to find it elder abuse yeah elder

00:02:12.740 abuse specifically but what we do know is that 60 of um elder abuse happens from a family member

00:02:18.420 which is actually pretty fucked up they didn't specify the gender but either way that's kind of 0.95

00:02:22.260 fucked sorry i'm just confused about the elder abuse what do you mean about elder abuse like 0.99

00:02:26.340 old people being abused yeah oh okay yeah there's multiple types of elder abuse there's financial 0.98

00:02:31.140 there's neglect okay there's things like that um there's physical and they're sexual and when it 0.53

00:02:35.860 comes to that we don't have a ton of data to support that one gender is doing this so much

00:02:40.580 more than the other gender this popped up by the way 60 of elder abuse happens from a family member

00:02:45.540 yeah isn't that really sad yeah that makes that's such a bummer to me but here's what i will say

00:02:51.940 to your point humans are and i'll get this word wrong humans are an altricial species do you know

00:02:58.500 what that is okay so an altricial species is one in which our young are born defenseless right i'm

00:03:06.580 not going to harp on abortion i did my 1v20 already let's focus on people that are alive

00:03:11.700 that we can agree our life so humans are an altrucial species which means our young are born

00:03:16.100 defenseless right babies can't do they're really useless zero survival skills same with kittens

00:03:23.060 kangaroos dogs lots of all traditional species out there right so in order for us to survive

00:03:28.900 as a species biologically we have to be nurturing every single adult in this room is evidence that

00:03:34.980 someone was capable of nurturing you at some point it is human nature i would say men and

00:03:40.340 most dangerous place you can be is in your mother's womb i know you're i know you're stuck 0.99

00:03:45.300 on abortion babes but let's let's move on from the womb let's get out of the womb you're born 1.00

00:03:49.220 here you are okay so women are the most likely to abuse kids women are the most likely to bring 1.00

00:03:54.420 another adult around that will abuse them and the children women are more likely to abuse the 1.00

00:03:58.580 elderly women are more likely to kill kids based on neglect women are more likely to do munchausen's 0.99

00:04:03.140 by proxy there's an increase in cases of women killing their children due to postpartum depression

00:04:07.860 and postpartum psychosis and there's a huge uptick in teacher sexual violence and rape which can be

00:04:13.220 found on the news on the regular now women are not more likely to kill children yes they are

00:04:17.700 and they lead in infanticide and if you take well that's just zero to one take what about

00:04:22.820 the rest of the child's dad's women are more likely no that's actually incorrect bro what's

00:04:28.260 your source so here there's a unclear one so partly supported that women are more likely to kill kids

00:04:35.220 based on neglect so partly support but the broad claim is too broad u.s child fatality data shows

00:04:42.260 boys have a slightly higher overall child fatality rate than girls while neglect is a major cause of 0.89

00:04:49.380 child death this does not establish that women are generally more likely to kill to kill than

00:04:54.740 the man the claim needs narrowing and a specific data set if you and you guys are welcome to say

00:05:01.140 whatever you want into the mic if you want to get more clarity okay so none of those claims

00:05:05.700 can be substantiated because they were too broad we don't have enough data specifically on gender

00:05:10.420 because most people aren't trying to in recent child gender war the u.s department of health and

00:05:15.380 human services based on nc ands neglect is present in roughly 70 to 80 percent of child fatalities

00:05:23.060 from abuse or neglect okay so it'll pop up in a second there but you guys should keep let's see

00:05:28.500 so i mean i guess how many infanticides are really happening per year off the top of my

00:05:32.420 head i don't know i'll tell you it's 267 and they're committed by who and they're committed

00:05:36.820 well the majority of them are committed by women but there's so how is that how is that hey i let

00:05:41.300 you talk can i please finish thank you so of infanticides every year there's 267 the majority

00:05:47.300 of them are committed by women yes of babies born there's 3.6 million so to say that all women

00:05:55.060 everywhere the entire half of our species is not nurturing because a 0.007 of cases

00:06:03.140 is really disingenuous that is a major reach right and i could do that about anything you know like

00:06:09.300 95 of those convicted of pedophilia are men not all men are pedophiles that doesn't mean men are

00:06:15.140 inherently pedophilic right like if you want to cherry pick statistics and go with the worst of

00:06:20.180 the worst and then say that that's every single woman ever i kind of think well i could just look

00:06:26.260 at the outcomes of kids raised by mothers versus fathers and when they're raised by fathers they

00:06:31.380 turn out better why does that mean that women aren't nurturing though they're still nurturing 0.81

00:06:35.860 even if they turned out worse they're still getting nurtured that's your argument the kid

00:06:39.940 turns out i mean it's not that much worse though no no you're right you're totally right i'm sorry

00:06:46.980 i can't with the gummy smiles you're triggering me yeah pearl that's a great argument but the

00:06:51.780 argument is that women are not nurturing that's a really broad claim about half of the population

00:06:56.980 and your only evidence is oh some dads are better dads than moms that's it that's a bad argument

00:07:03.300 so here why don't i just read this children and single father households can all outperform

00:07:07.300 children in single mother households one source says single father households are similar or

00:07:11.860 better on some measures including physical health and some aspects of school performance

00:07:16.500 while another notes children and single father families can do about as well or sometimes better

00:07:23.940 in internalizing behavior and academic performance sounds like it's not that much better pearl

00:07:29.780 what are you talking about he just said that it was marginally based on certain

00:07:36.260 this is this is the fact check right here that i was referring to yeah it says just as positive so

00:07:42.820 that sounds like better than single mother households in the context of its cited material

00:07:46.900 though it also notes children in single father households often have poorer outcomes than two 0.99

00:07:52.500 parent households i mean i think we can agree that you ideally wouldn't want a child raised by

00:07:57.460 a single parent will fathers raise better kids than mothers all of the time no they don't you

00:08:03.300 can't say that you don't have enough evidence to support that claim yes i do all around across

00:08:09.140 every measure of success he literally just said it sometimes but not all the time then that doesn't

00:08:13.620 mean that every woman isn't nurturing i'm just gonna stick to pearl you can't claim that every

00:08:18.820 woman isn't nurturing because some parents some fathers are better i'm really just gonna stick to

00:08:24.340 my key points women are more likely to abort the kids they're more likely to abuse the kids

00:08:29.300 if a man does abuse the kid it is a kid brought in by the mother which i would hold her responsible 0.73

00:08:34.820 for on top of that women raise terrible children um and men raise kids that are basically the same 0.69

00:08:40.900 as two parents women raise terrible children what evidence do you have of that well make

00:08:46.340 your case no you made a claim back it up with evidence because if you just make an

00:08:52.180 state an opinion as a fact without legitimate evidence that's just you can't just

00:08:57.780 say women raise terrible children without any evidence based on these stats which the stats of

00:09:03.300 what which say that kids are more likely to go to jail if they're raised by single mothers they're

00:09:09.300 more likely to have mental problems they're more likely to have emotional pro like every stat

00:09:13.540 that is a problem in society comes from single mother homes but that's single parent homes as

00:09:18.340 well single fathers have similar issues single parent homes you're just gaslighting i'm not

00:09:24.180 actually made a point that made perfect sense so why don't you make congratulations i'm glad you

00:09:28.340 made one but i'm not gaslighting you make your challenge what's your okay make your case where's

00:09:33.700 your evidence my case where's your evidence that women are nurturing make your case you own a dog

00:09:39.060 if your single father households have higher incomes than single mother households and lower

00:09:43.460 poverty rates peer reports that single fathers on average have higher incomes and far less likely to

00:09:49.780 live at or below the poverty line than single mothers this supports the financial comparison

00:09:55.460 not a blanket claim about all child outcomes i will say that part of that too is that um fathers

00:10:00.820 are more likely to legitimately abandon their kids so some of these single parent single mother homes

00:10:06.340 are not because they planned on being single parents but because they were abandoned by their

00:10:10.660 other partner whose fault is that who picks the dad the parent who picked the father pearl why

00:10:16.340 are you not holding men accountable for their actions? Why are you not holding men accountable

00:10:20.180 for their actions? So, why don't you hold men accountable for their actions? But it's the

00:10:26.420 man's actions of abandoning his family. You're responsible for who you have a child with. And

00:10:34.260 you're responsible for who you have a child with. Why don't you make your case for women not being 1.00

00:10:39.540 nurturing i'm not claiming that women are not being there why don't you make your case for

00:10:43.780 women being there yeah i think that humans are in my case it makes perfect sense it it doesn't

00:10:48.900 it really does that absolutely girl disagreeing with you is not gaslighting gaslight evidence

00:10:54.500 come on yeah evidence is human right no give me the human species is inherently nurturing

00:10:59.540 do you have a dog yes or no you just talked about him okay that is nothing okay do you raise your

00:11:03.860 dog do you help your dog grow why don't you cite no no no i'm sorry you asked me to make my case

00:11:09.380 okay so you have to stop talking you have to stop talking in order for me to make a question pearl

00:11:13.860 you have to stop talking in order for me to make a case thank you okay you have a dog you feed your

00:11:19.140 dog every day you help your dog grow that's nurturing you're a woman actively nurturing

00:11:23.460 i have two cats i help my cats grow that's nurturing human beings the fact that you are

00:11:28.420 alive today as a functioning adult someone along the way nurtured you it doesn't have to be a

00:11:34.660 gendered discussion humans are nurturing the end and those that are not are statistically

00:11:41.060 completely outliers the one example that's legitimate that you gave is infanticide

00:11:46.420 which is still only 0.007 percent of cases so your full case yes humans are nurturing

00:11:54.420 women have aborted an eighth of the world population so if women were so nurturing

00:11:58.580 then a third of women wouldn't have had abortions it's actually higher it's 25 or lower it's not

00:12:04.660 the next prompt no i'm i would love to continue this conversation because i don't understand

00:12:09.540 why do you want to see women as unnurturing like what is the no i mean i guess like what

00:12:15.220 is the point of your prompt what are you trying to prove to be accurate to be accurate about what

00:12:22.340 that the world is full of cold and unfeeling women that hate you my goal is to be as accurate as

00:12:28.100 possible that's it then why won't you hold men accountable when they choose to abandon their 0.51

00:12:33.940 families you blame women for that if your goal is accuracy yeah why not hold men and women

00:12:39.620 accountable they're not nurturing because they abort their kids they abuse kids and they bring

00:12:43.620 stepfathers into the kids lives um that ultimately also abuse the children but if a stepfather is

00:12:48.820 abusing a child why is that the again why are you not forcing that person to be accountable 1.00

00:12:54.260 for their actions yeah so again i believe that women are not nurturing because they make very 1.00

00:12:59.540 selfish decisions including uh bringing stepfathers into the kids lives that ultimately 0.75

00:13:05.700 um can't abuse the kids they also aborted an eighth of the world you know i'm repeating myself

00:13:09.940 so i don't really know you're repeating yourself but i wish you could i wish you could actually

00:13:13.860 elaborate in a substantive way because again like can we do closing statements on it because it

00:13:19.780 seems like you you made your point yeah i mean i guess that you can't prove that people aren't

00:13:25.300 an entire like half of the population isn't nurturing because of a very very very small

00:13:31.620 percentage of that population and it would be unfair of me to do so on the other side right

00:13:36.980 like the vast majority of violent crimes are committed by men but i'm not going to run around

00:13:41.700 here and say all men are evil and violent because that would be disingenuous the entire prompt to me

00:13:49.540 is deeply disingenuous and is only furthering the divide between men and women can i give you a

00:13:55.300 minute all right so the definition of nurturing is to feed protect support and help some someone

00:14:00.660 or something grow and develop i would argue that men are more nurturing on all fronts a woman's

00:14:04.660 role is in in the development of a child is needed in the first eight to ten years of life

00:14:09.220 a man prepared his children ages 10 and beyond to live and function in the real world because

00:14:13.140 as a historical provider and protector he is better suited for that role this statement is 0.99

00:14:17.700 proven by the tragic effects of children raised on single mother homes if women are so nurturing 0.98

00:14:22.020 then why do they cripple their children's future by removing the father from their lives why do 1.00

00:14:25.860 women drag their ex-husband through divorce court and destroy his reputation with accusations 1.00

00:14:30.260 and lies if women are so nurturing why do they post their kids on social media for attention 1.00

00:14:34.340 when that comprises children's safety and happiness if women are so nurturing why do they complain 1.00

00:14:39.220 about what about kids ruining their bodies and rack up over 2 billion abortions since 1960. 1.00

00:14:44.420 nurturing in essence is to assist life along so it will thrive not murdering the unborn out of 1.00

00:14:50.100 convenience if women are so nurturing why do single mothers raise raise such terrible children women 1.00

00:14:55.140 are incapable and filling the role for a father and a father's ability to get his children ready 1.00

00:14:59.300 to live in the real world why do they complain about how much they have to sacrifice and lose 0.84

00:15:03.380 for a family i hope that nobody was raised by a single mom that is so insulting to them why do 0.99

00:15:08.900 women always talk about what they get instead of what they can give to a man and their children 1.00

00:15:12.820 if women are so nurturing. Women are not giving, they do not care about their kids, and they are 1.00

00:15:18.420 the most likely ones to abuse and abort their children. There have been 2 to 3 billion abortions 0.55

00:15:24.440 conducted since 1960. There is nowhere more dangerous for a child than being in a mother's 0.91

00:15:29.480 womb. Women are the most likely ones to bring a child around an adult who will abuse them. Women 1.00

00:15:33.340 are the most likely ones to kill based on neglect and participate in Munchausen's by proxy. Women 1.00

00:15:38.640 are more likely to kill their kids during postpartum. Women have the choice to leave a 1.00

00:15:42.460 baby at a fire station and still choose to throw their babies in a dumpster or a toilet so i'm just 1.00

00:15:48.100 going to read this fact check i'm going to give you 20 seconds to retort uh what she just said

00:15:52.120 so children raised in single mother homes have tragic effects or are generally worse off research

00:15:57.180 shows children and single mother families often have worse average outcomes on some measures but

00:16:03.900 multiple studies also find much of the effect is explained by income maternal mental health and

00:16:10.780 other factors than family structure alone so if you want i'll give you 20 30 seconds yeah i mean

00:16:17.260 there's a few other fact checks we could go over i mean there's nowhere more dangerous than being

00:16:21.980 in a mother's womb yeah i mean i guess i don't really understand the issue with safe haven laws

00:16:26.940 i think it's impossible to generalize and categorize an entire half of the species as

00:16:32.940 to whether or not they're nurturing the quality of helping something grow and develop we are all 0.99

00:16:38.780 capable of it's human nature i don't understand why you're trying to divorce women from an inherent

00:16:45.260 human nature i don't know why you keep trying to pit women as these monsters when you're looking

00:16:50.780 at a very very very small percentage of all women out there i don't know i i mean i have to guess

00:16:57.340 that this is coming from something personal but i hope that you can relinquish your personal

00:17:02.540 vendetta against women because you will find a lot of us are quite nurturing and lovely and we aren't

00:17:08.380 really out to get you pearl or anyone else if you have anything to say 15 seconds yeah women's 1.00

00:17:15.020 nature is not to nurture it is to destroy and they destroy everything they touch and including kill 0.90

00:17:21.020 children and society so do men everyone does that that's just not true all right really men don't

00:17:27.260 kill people ready we're gonna move to them you know that the majority no we're not gonna move

00:17:31.900 to the next one because she doesn't want to bring up that statistic you know that the majority of 1.00

00:17:35.180 homicides are committed by men women are the only ones that kill the innocent the no girl no

00:17:42.620 so zero men have ever killed a child even serial killers don't kill kids dude ted bundy lived with

00:17:50.140 a child did not kill him men kill children all the time the majority of okay that doesn't mean

00:17:55.900 that killer zero men killed kids is is your whole point this debate just there's exceptions

Pearl - September 16, 2026

Feminist Calls Pearl’s Argument “BULLSH＊T” After She Attacks Single Mothers

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