Pearl - September 30, 2026


Feminists Have NO PLAN When Men Stop Keeping Society Running

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Women Having MELTDOWNS Over Completely Normal Dates

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00:00:00.000 So you don't think there's any differences between men and women?
00:00:02.720 I think there are differences.
00:00:03.800 Okay, then how do you think it's a social construct?
00:00:06.100 You socialized your kids for that.
00:00:07.540 You bought him the aggressive toys, you bought her the books.
00:00:10.740 But then why is it that even though there's all these programs
00:00:13.480 to push women into men's things, women still can't do it?
00:00:16.840 What do you mean women can't do it?
00:00:18.480 Women quit when they become doctors, lawyers.
00:00:20.900 A lot of the high-earning professions that women are going into,
00:00:24.040 in STEM they tend to quit after like 5, 10 years.
00:00:27.080 And men don't quit?
00:00:28.400 Not at as high of a rate, no.
00:00:31.740 It's incredible to me that women complain at all, being that men died to build the civilization we're in.
00:00:38.680 You already said your definition of feminism is any woman born in 2026.
00:00:42.140 I'm wondering when exactly did becoming not-feminist or anti-feminist became impossible, in your opinion?
00:00:47.220 I would say 1970, so with no-fault divorce.
00:00:51.680 And I think abortion was around the same time.
00:00:54.060 um so i could make the argument maybe in the 20s but i don't know when women got 100 control of
00:01:01.660 who's born i think that is pretty big power in society so okay um i guess it's like you
00:01:09.200 you disagree with no fault divorce and like you i don't necessarily disagree with it i disagree
00:01:14.500 with the alimony and the child support okay and the custody i think it's got to be 50 50 custody
00:01:20.080 no child support, no alimony. We kind of talked about that before as well. And I guess I'm
00:01:23.640 confused, not confused, but if a woman is not in a relationship, never got married, doesn't have
00:01:29.060 kids, isn't having an abortion, isn't having a divorce, but she still lives in this society,
00:01:34.480 she's still a feminist, even if she disagrees with all the things? I would say yes, because
00:01:39.300 she still can. Okay. So it's kind of like, we need to think of a better analogy, but it's like
00:01:45.240 you're in a war and you're winning and you're saying you're not a part of the winning team.
00:01:48.980 it's like yeah you are you still have all the rights um of the winning side so do you think
00:01:55.720 that like the men's side like the patriarchal side was ever winning at one point and like
00:01:59.620 feminism just took over and like well i think feminism won okay i absolutely think they won
00:02:04.160 they have 100 reproductive power over who's born um they get we get easy jobs and sometimes we can
00:02:10.120 out earn men i think it's a travesty that like human resources officers get paid oftentimes more
00:02:16.060 than like loggers plum plumbers make more but like there's a lot of jobs that are more necessary and
00:02:21.700 i would argue that women are overpaid that's more of an opinion people can take that or leave it
00:02:25.740 well i disagree that women are paid i do agree that like jobs aren't paid fairly like there's
00:02:31.520 like nba stars they get paid millions while the people that actually like make production for
00:02:36.360 society and make it run aren't getting paid enough but i don't think that's a feminist problem i think
00:02:40.400 it's more of like a capitalist system problem no i i disagree because i did women's sports and
00:02:45.320 That's completely unfair they get paid at all.
00:02:47.640 So the men's league, it's fair.
00:02:49.060 I played women's sports.
00:02:50.020 You think it's unfair that women's sports don't get paid?
00:02:52.000 Yeah, because they don't make money.
00:02:52.980 They operate at a loss.
00:02:54.700 No, that's true.
00:02:56.460 I think it's changing, especially with the WNBA.
00:02:58.520 I went to one recently.
00:02:59.800 The stadium was completely packed.
00:03:01.280 They might not make as much as men.
00:03:03.100 They don't make any money.
00:03:04.400 It operates at a loss.
00:03:06.080 The way you're going to see what happens is you're going to monetize beauty to some degree.
00:03:11.220 So they're going to make money off of brand deals.
00:03:12.840 but like social media for women it's like drama it's the fighting but is that feminism that it's
00:03:18.080 like a beauty thing or is that just old patriarchal men things um well number one feminists fought for
00:03:24.540 the only fans let's not pretend feminists are against sex work and men also fought for only
00:03:28.520 fans more more men are paying i'm not anti-only fans okay yeah i'm not that's a need you use kind
00:03:34.920 of like the the loaded gun argument like the reason every woman is a feminist is because they
00:03:39.840 can yeah make feminist you have to give up power in order to not be feminist and women are never
00:03:45.140 going to do that i'm wondering though if that kind of goes both ways and i like saying like
00:03:52.000 if i said like all men are because they have the capability of me is that fair like do you agree
00:03:57.800 with that um well what happens if you you tell me it would be like if what the difference is it's
00:04:04.460 legal but so it would be it would be like if it was legal and then he says like all men have the
00:04:10.080 power to do it you can agree that a lot of men get away with it though right because it's very
00:04:13.780 hard to come up with proof that it happened and so a lot of women don't report a lot of it doesn't
00:04:18.720 even it's so hard to like prove beyond a reasonable doubt that it happened uh no i think more women
00:04:24.440 are lying about it i disagree with those statistics i want a fact check on it yeah but like you're
00:04:31.360 saying like the loaded gun argument like women can do this thing so they're all feminists i can
00:04:35.420 say the same thing men can me so they're all this which doesn't like what happens if they do they're
00:04:40.820 thrown in jail sometimes is the president in jail you're arguing that he's he was found to be he
00:04:48.040 sexually assaulted a woman that was proven in court he goes generally they're not criminally
00:04:51.540 because of how much time had passed and because the law in new york said that forcibly putting
00:04:55.660 your fingers in a woman wasn't in the text yeah but i don't know the ins and outs of that case
00:05:01.180 He raped a woman.
00:05:02.200 Okay, well, I can't.
00:05:04.720 Well, that's what you say.
00:05:05.940 That's what the jury said.
00:05:07.120 In a civil case, right?
00:05:08.620 Civil?
00:05:09.000 A civil.
00:05:09.840 Criminal.
00:05:10.400 Because here's the difference.
00:05:11.220 Civil court, it's not beyond a reasonable doubt.
00:05:14.700 And the Constitution says it has to be beyond a reasonable doubt.
00:05:17.540 That's why family court, they get away with stuff.
00:05:19.260 It just means it's based on a balance of probabilities, which means it's like 51% more likely.
00:05:23.600 And it's up to the discretion of a judge.
00:05:25.140 Okay.
00:05:25.540 Did you see his interview at all where he admitted to it saying like, oh, she said being
00:05:29.620 was sexy like he admitted that to you i don't i don't follow that case i don't know i encourage
00:05:34.640 you look at it because you're saying best will go to jail when that's just not the case we have
00:05:38.920 this as a president yeah is it fair for me to say i'd have to look at the facts of the case i just
00:05:43.260 don't know is it fair for me to say that all men are because they have the capability to one day
00:05:48.500 if that were true but it's not true so it's not true yeah what's not true men can be men are
00:05:55.760 thrown in jail so thrown in jail for abortion states yeah but the constitution you have to
00:06:02.200 prove beyond a reasonable doubt so yeah i'm just i'm trying to really point out like a flaw in
00:06:08.780 this logic but we can i don't want to keep harping on it we can get to another question
00:06:12.240 if two women have completely opposite beliefs about feminism but they still live in this
00:06:17.860 feminist society you think that they're both equally feminist yes even though they one disagrees
00:06:22.780 with it and one agrees with it like me and you right now we're both equally feminist correct
00:06:27.660 yeah interesting yes even though i am okay i might vote different but i mean conservatives
00:06:32.700 still um conservatives vote for women's interests too okay so if for some reason our society decided
00:06:39.500 to take all the women's rights away would you suddenly then be not feminist yeah would i not
00:06:44.300 be feminist yes i wouldn't be a feminist anymore if this if the government took the rights away
00:06:48.380 a luxury belief correct so the suffragettes and the anti-suffragettes were both equally
00:06:53.260 anti-feminist during a time when there was no rights for them um if the suffer can you ask
00:06:58.300 the question in a different way the women that were fighting for the right to vote who by the
00:07:02.780 way didn't never they died before ever seeing the right to vote come okay you're saying because the
00:07:08.380 society was anti-feminist they didn't have any rights they're both anti-feminist even though
00:07:12.380 one side was fighting for those rights and one side was fighting against those rights they're
00:07:15.980 both the same um no i again i gave you 1970 as the switch okay i'm assuming in 1970 there were
00:07:22.620 probably also women that were fighting against no fault of war yeah i would play after 1970 all
00:07:27.500 women are feminists correct i guess my question is why is it that like do you think that what what
00:07:33.500 is it separating somebody's beliefs from just being influenced by society i don't care about
00:07:39.420 people's words i care about their actions and i care about the power that they have and again
00:07:44.540 Again, if you're going to go for more a traditional worldview, it's that women are subservient to men.
00:07:49.800 I want a more. I'm not saying. I know you do. Yeah, I know.
00:07:53.160 I would agree. You would disagree. But it doesn't matter because if either me or you get into a relationship with a guy.
00:07:58.540 I know you don't go that way, but let's say you do. You would still have more power than him.
00:08:02.200 So the relationship dynamic is still going to be that he has to cater to your whims because you have more power.
00:08:08.560 But technically he has more physical power. Like why? Why is it one form of power that overrides the other one?
00:08:14.240 Right. And that would be true if the police didn't back up the women. But men aren't really believed for abuse claims in general.
00:08:20.920 I would think the women are. If you look up the Duluth model, it automatically assumes that men are the aggressors because they have more force.
00:08:28.460 And the issue with that is even the women that like made the Duluth model, they came out and said women are just as aggressive as men.
00:08:37.520 I'm butchering it slightly.
00:08:39.260 it's okay when you were talking about the duluth model earlier the fact check came up as like
00:08:43.420 contradicted okay and i didn't get the fully report because the camera's 86 confirmed the
00:08:49.420 camera was kind of in the way so i didn't get to read the full thing i mean if i'm when i looked
00:08:53.420 it up it said that it was in all 50 states the police are trained on that so so okay you're
00:08:58.540 saying kind of back to it that actions matter more than beliefs yeah and power so let's say
00:09:04.940 like the action of voting if a woman is voting i i just i hate that we're going in circles
00:09:11.100 with the old conversation republicans are voting for um republicans are the party of women too
00:09:16.780 neither are trying to criminalize paternity fraud do you know how many women are actually
00:09:20.940 represented in the congress for republicans versus democrats it doesn't matter because they
00:09:26.540 women are the biggest swing voters and you need that's why trump was elected white women right
00:09:30.780 probably yeah yeah it's extremely disappointing but yeah yeah but that's both parties have to
00:09:36.200 cater to women because women have the most power they have the most spending power the most
00:09:39.480 political power is that just because there's more of us which which part that there's more women
00:09:43.880 uh yeah it's like 51 to 49 percent yeah well that women we vote more too but yeah okay so men should
00:09:53.340 vote more like it wouldn't matter men don't men don't do things they don't see a point in
00:09:58.180 And so because both parties represent women, you're just going to see, like, all the trends you see with men right now, they're dropping out of marriage, they're dropping out of the workforce.
00:10:07.060 It's all because, like, there's a reason for it.
00:10:09.720 It's not for no reason.
00:10:10.340 And you think the reason is women?
00:10:13.060 Like, women are, like, how I'm interpreting what you're saying, a lot of it is just, like, women are the problem.
00:10:19.040 Like, we're less intelligent.
00:10:20.680 Correct.
00:10:21.020 Where the reason society is destroyed.
00:10:23.160 But, like, why?
00:10:23.800 When did that belief for you come?
00:10:25.680 um because i would say that women always vote for selfishly reasons do you think men ever vote
00:10:31.360 selfishly or they're just not in mass not in mass but women in mass vote because men naturally are
00:10:36.720 protective of women i disagree with that yeah have you seen all the social experiments on youtube
00:10:41.000 where it's like they'll they'll have like a woman try to ask for help or like there's a man like
00:10:44.980 actually like assaulting it's for the camera but like assaulting them and like men just walk by
00:10:49.220 and women are the ones that actually step in and push the guy away yeah because women have no um
00:10:54.340 women have no concept of force so again women get into fights because they don't like men from a
00:11:02.540 young age know if they get into a fight they could die and women don't have a concept of force so
00:11:06.880 that's why you get like women that um they get these big egos and they think they can fight a
00:11:11.940 man but he would just rock or shit in general i've fought in men yeah i doubt it you doubt that i've
00:11:17.180 been in fights with men i bet they're what happens is they take it easy and women don't know
00:11:21.840 because men are pretty nice i see it in basketball all the time these girls pumping their chest is
00:11:25.980 so embarrassing i'm sure it might be like embarrassing i'm not sure why it's embarrassing
00:11:29.420 actually but like i've had that it's just they're stronger if men are like the protectors it's like
00:11:33.900 okay personal experience why why have men punched me why have men pushed me why have men spit on me
00:11:38.620 who makes up the police force to save you the police haven't saved me who makes when i would
00:11:45.000 i'll tell you a personal thing when i was abused by my father the police knew him and he didn't
00:11:49.340 get arrested for shit and then the foster system actually made me try to like hug him and to go
00:11:53.280 back because they're all about reconsidering like they they didn't give a crap that like a man was
00:11:57.500 abusive okay well i don't know your personal situation and i'd have to interview both sides
00:12:02.480 because the problem is like what's he gonna say right and i'm not he admits that he did it i do
00:12:07.360 want to just interject here i'm gonna let you respond but uh you also mentioned maybe you wanted
00:12:10.480 to talk about the uh the other prompt as well if you wanted to continue this you're welcome to but
00:12:14.280 if you wanted to move on to that as which prompt uh you said maybe the second one but let me see
00:12:19.040 women are not nurturing oh i mean i i kind of believe that gender is a social contract we
00:12:25.440 talked about that before a little bit i i might agree with that i think some women can be nurturing
00:12:29.940 i think some men can be nurturing i think some are not so you don't think there's any differences
00:12:34.100 between men and women i think there are differences okay then how do you think it's a social construct
00:12:38.560 i think that there's because we are socialized differently like there was a video the other day
00:12:43.720 on tiktok of a woman showing her two kids the boy in the one room the girl in the other and it's like
00:12:47.540 look boys versus girls and in his room he's like playing with the hulk smashing thing jumping off
00:12:51.780 the bed and the girl's like reading a book and it's like you socialized your kids for that you
00:12:55.200 bought him the aggressive toys you bought her the books but then why is it that even though there's
00:13:00.240 all these programs to push women into men's things women still can't do it what do you mean women
00:13:05.020 can't do it um women quit when they become doctors lawyers a lot of the high earning professions that
00:13:10.040 women are going into um in stem they tend to quit after like five ten years and men don't quit not
00:13:16.460 at as not at as high of a rate now i would i would love to see the statistics on that i don't think
00:13:22.640 it's because women are incapable of it like why don't they start fortune 500 companies
00:13:27.380 why don't the women can never found it's like it's one thing to be appointed to it but it's
00:13:32.200 one thing to find a fortune found be in charge of a fortune 500 company from scratch the majority
00:13:37.460 of inventions were men if there's a race going on and men have been racing and physically forcibly
00:13:43.440 stopped us from racing and we are now like trying to catch up but how did they force to like how did
00:13:49.640 they stop you from racing when they died in war to protect you i think war is a horrible thing
00:13:53.800 you've been talking about how like women don't shouldn't have the right to vote because they
00:13:57.280 aren't drafted i think men being drafted you're kind of spoiled because like you're saying oh
00:14:02.400 they they didn't like they held us back but it's like kind of it's screw you you know i have legally
00:14:07.000 they held us back you know but they had more responsibilities you know the first woman lawyer
00:14:12.260 to go to school and actually be allowed to get a law degree was barred from actually practicing as
00:14:16.900 a lawyer because women couldn't be lawyers yeah i'm sure there's an example of something happening
00:14:22.500 yeah but they were physically you know men were okay that's terrible it is however it's far worse
00:14:30.100 to be dragged to die in war i agree yeah i don't think that's like that's that's patriarchy sorry
00:14:36.580 Sorry, sorry.
00:14:37.420 We're not talking about women being nurtured anymore.
00:14:39.080 No, it's fine, no one's excited.
00:14:40.960 All I'm saying is one is worse than the other,
00:14:43.080 so I don't know how they complain.
00:14:45.060 It's incredible to me that women complain at all,
00:14:48.220 being that men died to build the civilization we're in.
00:14:52.100 And men have also killed women and abused women.
00:14:55.160 And it's like, that's being ignored too.
00:14:56.400 Yeah, they die in war, that's horrible.
00:14:57.660 I don't agree with that.
00:14:58.540 I think war is a messed up male thing that keeps happening.
00:15:02.500 Women are getting the brunt abuse of that.
00:15:04.940 And women are not abusive at all.
00:15:06.740 Women could be abusive for sure.
00:15:08.040 Okay, so women are abusive too.
00:15:09.600 Yes.
00:15:10.040 But not at the same rate, if we want to keep talking about rates.
00:15:12.620 Right.
00:15:12.840 Not abusive at the same rate at all.
00:15:14.140 But women just aren't as good at being abusive.
00:15:17.880 So they're also just like not capable of being abusive.
00:15:20.800 Like men are better at being abusive.
00:15:22.100 So men are better at being abusive.
00:15:23.900 Well, yeah, because women, women, I'll tell you what,
00:15:26.740 women, if you look at one-sided abuse, women do it more.
00:15:29.600 Women are more likely to hit the guy and he not hit back.
00:15:32.640 That's true.
00:15:33.020 so we're just not as strong so there's not as much of a consequence but a lot of women hit
00:15:38.300 hit their boyfriends and husbands that have no consequence a lot of men hit their wives and
00:15:42.360 girlfriends and children without no that's not true because if she calls the police he goes to
00:15:47.480 jail what if she doesn't call the police because she's actively being assaulted right but there's
00:15:52.120 nothing stopping her from doing it the man is usually stopping her from doing it over a long
00:15:57.120 enough time frame she can call the cops i it's just yeah i don't i'm really trying to with the
00:16:02.720 you know what i mean with the i don't know if women women like abusive men to some degree
00:16:07.580 because they're written love letters to serial killers i think those women have probably had
00:16:12.020 some horrible trauma that happened to them that messed up what they think love and like a healthy
00:16:17.060 relationship doesn't matter because it does matter it matters because they're doing it well you want
00:16:21.200 to just kind of what feminists do it's always like we always want to blame someone else for
00:16:25.900 choices they're they're doing that because that's what they want what choice have i blamed like what
00:16:30.620 am i blaming and i'm in general you're blaming it on trauma the woman picking the serial killers but
00:16:36.940 it's like i was trying to like make an exclamation i get you an explanation to maybe why somebody
00:16:43.180 would go for that because i don't understand it yeah i'm not that type of person to go for somebody
00:16:47.500 i don't get it either all right women can i ask why you think women's not nurturing i kind of
00:16:52.140 I've tried to argue it, but I didn't ask you your opinion on it.
00:16:53.980 Oh, that's because women are more likely to abuse anything they have power over.
00:16:59.140 So infants and the elderly, they're more abusive of.
00:17:01.500 And they've aborted an eighth of the world population
00:17:03.360 and are even pushing to get abortion legalized up to birth.
00:17:07.180 I know you probably wouldn't think that's a kid.
00:17:08.940 I would view that as a kid.
00:17:10.260 I personally don't.
00:17:11.420 Yeah, I understand.
00:17:12.980 Do you understand or is it just you understand that I'm different on it?
00:17:16.580 I understand you disagree.
00:17:18.040 Okay.
00:17:18.880 Do you know the stats on, like, men abusing people, too?
00:17:22.240 Do you have that off the top of your head as well?
00:17:24.100 Well, infants and the elderly.
00:17:26.280 People.
00:17:26.900 Infants, elderly.
00:17:28.360 Like, I know it's 97% of child molesters are white men.
00:17:31.300 I know.
00:17:31.700 Men lead in one-sided abuse.
00:17:33.760 So, again, if you guys are hitting each other, it's a wash.
00:17:37.420 You both are abusive.
00:17:38.880 You both just like abuse.
00:17:40.220 I can agree.
00:17:40.540 One-sided abuse, women are more likely to do to men than men to women.
00:17:44.760 So you think that men are more likely to be abusive?
00:17:47.880 i think women are the abusive gender that's so interesting because like historic history doesn't
00:17:52.680 agree with you now if you look at queens the last 500 years they're more likely to wage war than
00:17:57.160 kings that's not true yes it is let's see the fact check like how many seven percent oh buddy i'm
00:18:02.040 ready for the fact check it misheard me saying women we can go the fun fact 500 it'll come up in
00:18:08.760 a second yeah intimate i just like yeah see okay let me read this queens are more likely than kings
00:18:16.120 to wage war that is actually fascinating and i wonder why but even then kings are also i could
00:18:22.440 tell you i don't agree with that either men are extremely emotionally unstable they just they view
00:18:27.400 that they view like their logic as emotions they view like their emotions is logic that's the way
00:18:31.960 i was trying to say it they view their emotions as logic yeah when they have emotions they think
00:18:36.360 that they're just being logical they usually are yeah men are pretty logical so do you think that
00:18:40.920 that men are nurturing yes so how come men aren't the ones taking care of the kids historically
00:18:45.480 uh well women get custody and again even before it before custody we're talking about like because
00:18:51.300 men had to men had to build maintain and protect civilization protect and maintain civilizations
00:18:56.900 yeah correct they had to they had to build the buildings they had to protect it from who
00:19:01.480 um other other men true okay yeah so how does that prove that they're nurturing because women
00:19:09.340 are more likely to abuse the innocent that's far worse and that's and that includes that includes
00:19:14.660 after birth so if if a kid disappears within the first year like that's why women are also if women
00:19:21.640 are nurturing why do these teachers keep sleeping with students men suck about that too not it is
00:19:26.580 not at the same rate i knew there was actually two at my high school that were men and i didn't hear
00:19:30.680 of any women that did that and it's like it's all horrible we're arguing over like horrible things
00:19:35.240 that that people do and i'm trying to point out both sides can be horrible both sides can be good
00:19:41.260 and you're so stuck on like women are horrible and men are so much better and that's just right
00:19:45.940 and if i saw results that were equal i would agree but i don't you don't like women aborting
00:19:51.280 you understand the population like there's going to be catastrophic effects of the birth rate
00:19:57.580 falling because there's not enough workers to feed the capitalist system there's not enough
00:20:01.320 people to do the infrastructure jobs and men what's going to happen is men are going to keep
00:20:05.820 like what men are going to keep dropping out of civilization they're going to keep like no matter
00:20:10.140 what we debate today men are going to drop out of marriage men are going to drop out of the
00:20:14.040 workforce they're going to stop voting and the issue is feminists have no plan for when
00:20:20.860 civilization starts to collapse so like what is your plan when men stop doing the dirty and
00:20:25.740 dangerous jobs that keep society running what happened when all the men went to war
00:20:30.200 The majority of women didn't work in factories.
00:20:32.260 But what happened?
00:20:32.960 Did society keep functioning because women went and did the jobs that needed to be done?
00:20:36.700 Or did society fall?
00:20:37.860 Did America lose the war because our country fell?
00:20:39.860 The majority of the factory workers were still men.
00:20:42.160 Do you know why?
00:20:42.780 One of the biggest reasons why Nazi Germany lost is because they kept the women at home versus our country.
00:20:48.320 We made them work.
00:20:49.280 Yeah, I doubt that.
00:20:50.420 Go read about it.
00:20:51.700 I doubt it.
00:20:52.420 Go read about it, please.
00:20:53.400 I'm not trying to argue.
00:20:54.180 Go read about it.
00:20:54.680 I doubt it.
00:20:55.440 but again like what what are you guys gonna do when men stop doing the police work when they
00:21:01.760 stop being firefighters when they stop get like trucking is one of the number one industries for
00:21:05.920 men and women are not doing it i think actually we're gonna have a huge issue with ai coming i
00:21:10.960 think that's a much bigger issue than feminism at this point uh taking jobs and you're talking
00:21:15.440 about like oh men are gonna stop being police are they are men stopping being firefighters
00:21:21.280 shortages because because why because feminism yeah well because what's going to happen is
00:21:26.280 feminism wants to have men build maintain and protect the civilization for nothing in return
00:21:32.460 they say you don't get a wife in return you don't get a kids you need to do all of the work and get
00:21:37.140 nothing before they got a family and they had a reason to do it they had a wife and kids i'm not
00:21:41.420 saying they're not entitled to that though i don't disagree with you but it's going to what's going
00:21:46.260 to happen is men are not going to be motivated to keep doing these jobs so you know feminism says
00:21:53.100 we don't we don't want to be married and have kids fine but now they're not going to do the
00:21:58.920 infrastructure so now what this is like it seems like a hostage situation and it's like there has
00:22:03.680 to be a better solution than just reverting back to what the past was which wasn't good it wasn't
00:22:09.260 good it's like a nostalgic uh thing that happens with people looking at the past they don't i'm
00:22:13.360 not saying the past was good or bad. I wasn't alive. What is your solution? Can I ask what you
00:22:17.100 think the solution is? No child support, no alimony, 50-50 custody. This is just for the
00:22:22.060 small percentage of men that are getting divorced. The vast majority of men are not divorced. What
00:22:27.120 is the solution? I know, but do you really think it's a minority? Yes. 40% of marriages end in
00:22:32.880 divorce. That's half of marriages. That's less than half. So the issue with a lot of these stats
00:22:38.220 is they don't include people that will get divorced. So people that are like on year five,
00:22:43.140 year 10 and you're also including people that are like they got married before and the world
00:22:49.300 has changed a lot so i would i would predict it's going to get worse in terms of divorce rates
00:22:53.980 it's getting better though the divorce rate is dropping marriages are succeeding longer the
00:23:00.060 marriage rates dropping also so like i mean that's why you see people dating for a decade
00:23:04.600 the survey group is of marriages not of people that aren't i know but i guess what i'm saying
00:23:10.160 is it's more common than you think let me uh go ahead we're almost at time if you have a closing
00:23:14.260 or anything would you write any thoughts i did actually write something down just because i'm
00:23:18.980 really bad at remembering things oh i understand you get it i get it where did i put it all right
00:23:25.920 if an anti-feminist woman can oppose women voting oppose divorce support male authority
00:23:31.200 reject feminism and pearl still decides to call her a feminist simply because the state gives her
00:23:36.000 rights anyway then feminist is no longer describing an ideology it's describing just being a woman in
00:23:42.160 a better society than the past which is different which is a different claim than all women in the
00:23:45.920 west are feminist your response for you um i kind of agree yeah all right final concession again