Pearl - March 13, 2026


How 50⧸50 Custody Is A SCAM


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Length

10 minutes

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192.73218

Word count

1,950

Sentence count

34

Harmful content

Misogyny

17

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Toxicity

14

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Hate speech

13

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Summary

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In this episode, the guys talk about how to deal with abuse in the family and how to avoid it in the future. This episode is dedicated to all the men out there who have been affected by abuse in their family and the ones who are still dealing with it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 your powerful like walk away like i know it sounds bad but kids can be exiled too like i know it
00:00:05.460 sounds crazy you say oh i can't do that see this is where they get you this is where all the control
00:00:09.360 comes from you you have no ability to walk away i talked to someone from europe where they actually
00:00:15.400 get 50 50 custody and he actually said that i should stop recommending it because he got 50 50
00:00:23.500 custody and he said you just become a babysitter for the wife when she wants to hang out with her
00:00:28.860 boyfriend not if you demand 50 50 week on week off and most people don't okay well i'm i'm just
00:00:36.020 gonna i'm gonna let me finish and then he said the woman also is constantly in the kid's ear
00:00:42.940 and trying to turn the kids against you and so they come over and they just don't listen to you
00:00:49.000 because the mother is constantly talking about you and you're not constantly talking about her
00:00:53.880 and it got to the point where he said he gave up custody he said either give me the kids or you can
00:00:58.980 have them and this dude gave up custody because he just said it was like he just wasn't gonna
00:01:04.140 like be a slave to this woman and um yeah i didn't really have any thoughts either way but i was
00:01:10.660 curious you guys's thoughts on that i know more situations look this is the 80 of the time when
00:01:17.280 a man can get alimony and child support he doesn't file for it it's the same thing with saying bad
00:01:22.720 things about your child's mother to your children like there are plenty of guys who should just
00:01:28.720 tear their their ex-wife to shreds and for other children but they just don't do it but women have 1.00
00:01:33.600 no qualms they have no qualms and in fact there's a social infrastructure in place to encourage
00:01:39.520 women to do it pearl sean what do i always say is the female friendly version of the story what is 0.63
00:01:46.080 it or she's the hero and the victim at the same time at the same time and and they'll use any
00:01:52.080 actors to play in that story even the kids your family her family her work everything it's a big
00:01:59.840 movie to make her look like the victim and you the villain the biggest the biggest part about that
00:02:05.920 doug is the majority of people who's gonna do it with her is men other men are gonna sell you out 0.97
00:02:11.360 down the river because they're gonna fall into her goddamn story in the narrative i think when it 0.98
00:02:16.240 comes down to what you just said bro i don't know but like what are you gonna say my my advice would 0.98
00:02:22.560 be try to keep one hand on the wheel and the reason why look at elon musk as an example i'm
00:02:28.240 not i'm obviously it's the far end example but like culture shifted so so much that men have to
00:02:34.160 look at their children as gold children are investment those men having children today 0.98
00:02:39.680 their children will own the future in 80 years and that's how they have to look at it because i'm
00:02:45.040 black i think a little bit differently on that let's go i think i think like oh i was telling
00:02:53.820 somebody yesterday the order is no longer man women kids or god excuse me god man women and 0.97
00:03:01.640 kids and stuff like that right the order is kids dogs cats women god and men 1.00
00:03:08.400 no it's women first it's women first oh you know no no you know women love some dogs and some cats 0.98
00:03:15.520 and some kids yeah but you don't take care of them yeah that's what i'm saying because remember sean
00:03:20.820 okay so let's put women almost 75 percent of of of abuse towards children and the elderly
00:03:27.460 yeah i forgot i forgot women can take out kids too so all right women first dogs cats kids 1.00
00:03:36.240 god man yeah and so and rocks and stones you got to put that in there because you know i would be
00:03:42.160 curious if pearl so net net net your powerful like walk away like i know it sounds bad but 1.00
00:03:50.080 kids can be exiled too like i i know it sounds crazy you say oh i can't do that see this is
00:03:55.040 where they get you this is where all the control comes from you you have no ability to walk away
00:04:00.720 i take your kids from you i take your soul from you so you have to be able to elon musk even elon 0.96
00:04:06.400 musk himself he has the kid that transitioned he just washed his hands there's nothing he can 0.67
00:04:10.960 freaking do he sold all his worldly possessions to not be the evil capitalist and guess what he
00:04:17.360 she it whatever they want to be called that thing said hey look i still don't like you and so at the
00:04:24.320 end of the day the best thing you can do as a man is walk away look at your pops your pops had a
00:04:29.040 second family stop acting crazy he had a whole family on the side so at the end of the day you
00:04:34.800 can have many kids you have the ability to do that so just walk away and wash your hands sometimes
00:04:40.320 here's the thing it's still so bad that like um you know what's one of the tropes i can't stand
00:04:46.160 that still goes on in popular media is it is is the forrest gump war from star trek thing where
00:04:54.560 where um a woman has a man's child doesn't tell him about it tells him about it seven eight
00:05:01.200 years later and then society is going to critique how he is a father and tell him he needs to be a
00:05:07.120 father and how to do it when the woman kept the kid from him for seven to eight years facts
00:05:13.280 why is that still a trope why does that still happen on sitcoms and comic books on movies it's
00:05:19.600 it's it's still the same and we still actually i got one better for you because it's it's evolved
00:05:24.560 from that trope into a new trend where women are just killing their own kids and that's what i was
00:05:29.800 gonna ask pearl if she was gonna do a video on that because like that's happening almost a weekly
00:05:35.460 basis we're getting new articles of like women just unaliving their kid because the dad finally 1.00
00:05:41.140 got 50 custody and it's just like it blows my mind it's just hard to wrap my head around it yeah
00:05:46.860 and the woman that put her kid in a dumpster and then went and did a play she literally killed her 1.00
00:05:51.580 kid and then went and performed in a school play or the one that like sent her husband to the store 0.98
00:05:56.540 killed her two kids and then like tried to off herself and failed it's like it's it's getting
00:06:02.300 it's it's becoming a trend because it's happening so much wait pearl doesn't in most of households
00:06:09.260 in america they have fathers majority i didn't okay but but don't think you don't think you lost
00:06:17.180 because of that what i'm trying to what i'm trying to point at is if right now in society we say men
00:06:22.140 are in a weak position right and we often say that you got to realize whether your father was at home
00:06:27.580 or not the guys who had a father at home mostly like their mom was still in chief and commander
00:06:32.940 yeah they were still controlling the household like that is literally almost a marriage like a
00:06:38.700 A woman usually controls the power inside the household. 1.00
00:06:42.360 She is the one in charge, the commander in chief.
00:06:44.760 So when you're like, oh, I didn't have my father.
00:06:46.900 It's like, bro, you would have saw your father get cut to shreds,
00:06:50.200 death by a thousand concessions.
00:06:52.200 You would be hailing to the queen.
00:06:54.160 That's what I saw with my dad.
00:06:56.420 Exactly.
00:06:57.100 All dads are like that.
00:06:58.380 So what example is he leading?
00:07:00.820 So in the world, we have mostly simps and white knights
00:07:03.880 because they learn from their dads to be compromised.
00:07:06.620 his dad got on his knees and begged the woman so he could pay for and die for her like what kind 1.00
00:07:13.320 of shit is that that's another thing women women are mad right right now women are mad that men 1.00
00:07:18.640 aren't like chasing them but men realize like we're not gonna pay your bills we're not chasing 1.00
00:07:23.940 you to pay your bills even if we catch you i'm you're gonna good luck getting money out of me
00:07:29.160 good luck i'm a cheap bastard i don't think they're really mad neither they're just chatting 0.88
00:07:35.320 and they're always just propagandizing the airways. 0.94
00:07:38.320 They're not really mad.
00:07:39.040 They really don't care.
00:07:40.300 They're propagandizing the airways.
00:07:41.800 Bro, they don't care about young boys.
00:07:42.820 Life's getting more expensive, though.
00:07:45.080 No, they don't care.
00:07:46.140 They don't care about young boys being homeless,
00:07:48.320 and they are children.
00:07:49.580 They don't care, period.
00:07:51.520 Y'all guys keep thinking they really care about you.
00:07:54.060 They do not.
00:07:55.720 In any ways, they'll use the state in order to do a supplement against you.
00:08:00.180 They really don't care about that.
00:08:01.220 I think that's coming to an end.
00:08:02.600 Within 18 months, I guarantee you that's coming to an end.
00:08:05.080 good luck i'm gonna say one thing about the father and the mother thing so uh i was not gonna pearl
00:08:11.160 about this earlier what you see in society is women have inflicted emotional mental monetary 1.00
00:08:19.320 trauma on men children and society right and women think that they can control the outcomes 1.00
00:08:27.960 it's like if i were to punch sean in the face i'd never do it because he's my boy but say sean
00:08:33.160 i hit you in the face and say sean don't get mad and don't hit me back right if most households like 0.94
00:08:40.280 women not literally but are are figuratively punching their husbands in the face hitting 1.00
00:08:48.200 them multiple times and the husband loves the wife so much that he doesn't do anything back
00:08:53.320 she gets to control the outcomes of inflicting trauma upon her husband and the children that's
00:08:59.240 what a lot of children see they see their dad just getting abused and he loves her so much that he
00:09:05.240 doesn't do anything about it that's what i'm saying there needs to be like in school like at
00:09:10.040 a young age there needs to be training for women and men separately just that's the only way we're 1.00
00:09:16.520 going to bring it back because it took 30 years for them to break the culture down it's going to
00:09:21.240 take years to bring it back it's just not going to come back sorry yeah i'm about to say that
00:09:25.480 ain't coming back no man like i think that a low point could be reached where women realize you 0.98
00:09:32.440 know i'm not it's trying to be a man stuff isn't for me but that's going to be long long
00:09:39.800 here's the thing the low point will be when enough men say you know what 0.91
00:09:43.880 fuck this we're changing the law and they start repealing stuff yeah but that legislation that's 0.98
00:09:50.040 20, 30 years, but still, that's still 0.99
00:09:52.140 within our lifetime. I don't know.
00:09:53.780 I don't think so, dude. Those guys
00:09:56.060 won't even be saying they guys. They'll be wearing dresses.
00:09:58.640 I know. One of us might
00:10:00.080 have kicked it by then. You never know.
00:10:02.020 And here's the thing. When you started
00:10:03.940 having Muslim feminists, 0.98
00:10:06.200 we're cooked, dude. 0.95