Pearl - How I Got Red Pilled： Pick Up Artists

00:00:00.460 What's up guys? Welcome to my coffee talk. Today I'm in Texas getting steps so I don't have coffee.

00:00:06.800 Although I had like two today. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie.

00:00:11.260 Okay, so I wanted to talk about how I got red-pilled because a lot of people say that I have like crazy opinions.

00:00:20.260 Whatever. And they want to know how I got them.

00:00:23.480 and I can't pinpoint one single moment but there were instances um that really opened my eyes to

00:00:33.700 a lot of situations also um I kind of thought about this because I'm writing a blog about this

00:00:40.520 on my website it's theaudacitynetwork.com theaudacitynetwork.com it's our new site

00:00:45.920 feel free to give um feedback on the site because it's like brand new so if there's any links or

00:00:51.460 anything that don't work put it in the comments I love you guys so okay I was selling copiers in

00:01:00.000 Milwaukee and I was selling copiers during COVID which is a terrible time to sell copiers I wasn't

00:01:07.240 very good obviously I don't know if it was the time or my talent regardless and I knew I wasn't

00:01:14.780 really doing what I wanted to do. And I'd been doing that for two years. And I decided that I

00:01:21.480 was going to pursue a volleyball career. So I quit that. And I think I quit in like September,

00:01:28.680 and I was supposed to leave in October for England. And then my season in England got

00:01:37.440 canceled. So I was all set, I was ready to go to England, and it got canceled. So

00:01:41.620 i basically had like a gap year because of covid where i was unemployed and my dad said that you

00:01:48.840 can um you know if you have a dream why don't you try it you have like at first it was supposed to

00:01:55.040 be six months but then i ended up being a year um but at the time he was like you have six months

00:01:59.560 why don't you try it now i've always loved media right and i've always been naturally a curious

00:02:07.320 person too much. I'm sorry. It's kind of why I'm black-filled because, you know, I just have to

00:02:14.180 know. I got to know everything. I'm such, I'm so curious. And then, you know, you get to the end

00:02:20.000 of the tunnel. It's like, did I need to know this? Anyways. So I'm learning how to edit. I'm learning

00:02:28.400 how to do TikTok videos. I'm kind of doing random stuff. And somebody sends me like a pickup artist

00:02:36.400 video. Um, one of the key moments I remember, this is like five years ago. Remember? And the

00:02:42.400 PUA video, um, is essentially guys that teach men how to be seducers. And it reminded me a lot of

00:02:49.260 sales. This guy, I don't remember his name, but you know, he was talking kind of like prospecting,

00:02:57.000 trying to figure out if the girl's single or not. Um, different way. I'm not going to go into what

00:03:01.220 they teach because it's just not my expertise I don't want to butcher it but anyways so I find

00:03:09.680 this so like it's so interesting being the consumer uh as a woman to hear these guys talk

00:03:16.560 about how to get you because as a woman you don't really know like oh man uh you're not really

00:03:23.480 conscious of why you like the men you like but you know that the men you like are rare I guess

00:03:28.640 but you can't really articulate why you don't like you like one guy you don't like another

00:03:34.020 so learning like I don't know I guess from the PUA point of view how like for example how to

00:03:42.580 display status to women it's not like it's not as if women wake up one day and say oh I want

00:03:48.980 status it's just something we select for um so I end up messaging the guy who runs one of these

00:03:56.420 YouTube channels. And he allows me to go in on like a PUA bootcamp. And that's a bootcamp

00:04:05.220 that's for, um, basically men struggling with getting laid. And there's maybe four or five

00:04:13.660 instructors. So I get on the plane, I hop, I go to Vegas. Um, and the instructors give the men

00:04:21.900 tips and we go out and we try to pick up women and being that I'm kind of on their team you know

00:04:29.860 I'm trying to help the men get laid you know I'm a team player what do you guys need me to say 1.00

00:04:34.460 what should I tell these bitches you know I'm gonna Maxwell it I'm just playing I'm just playing 1.00

00:04:40.220 so they were all we were in bars so all of age whatever and I was pretty sheltered at this time 1.00

00:04:46.120 I don't want to say I'm gonna turn around and head back I don't want to say I never had seen

00:04:51.080 degeneracy or hookups or any of that stuff like you know I've been to school

00:04:56.080 but it was kind of limited because I went to a small school

00:05:00.720 and I'm going to go through maybe four observations I had the first

00:05:07.560 was that we are absolutely sharing men I witnessed one of the instructors pull

00:05:12.920 three or four women in a two-day period two being on the same day and

00:05:18.180 you know at first I kind of thought they were over exaggerating that we were sharing men

00:05:23.580 but I watched some guys go home with zero women and I watched other guys go home with two women

00:05:29.740 or three women and I just thought to myself holy crap it also made me realize that sometimes

00:05:36.660 when something doesn't work out with a guy it's nothing you could really do because that guy 0.92

00:05:42.260 plowing through those ladies yes he had girlfriends um but he cheated on those

00:05:47.740 girlfriends you know what I mean it's kind of like so those girls probably thought oh no what

00:05:54.200 did I do wrong and it had nothing to do with him he just was never gonna settle down

00:05:59.640 um and it was interesting talking to him because he expressed um a desire for marriage

00:06:08.420 but I kind of learned about men's repulse and even him he was so repulsed by dealing with a

00:06:15.320 woman that had been with other men or a lot of other men um and in a way he almost wished he

00:06:25.660 could be faithful but it seemed kind of unlikely for him it is ladies just so you know um those 0.54

00:06:33.580 guys, they'll be at it forever and they'll cheat forever. Anyways, next thing I noticed was 0.84

00:06:39.220 I would hear about, you know, in my research for this trip, they would talk about how picky women 1.00

00:06:46.000 are. Um, and it kind of caused me to look at my dating choices. I'm six foot as a woman. 0.99

00:06:55.020 You would never, I had never thought about that only 15% of men are six feet or taller.

00:07:01.840 and I had only selected for my height or taller so as a woman you never realize how above average

00:07:09.280 all the men that you're dating are it's not something you're consciously thinking about

00:07:14.080 you're just like oh I like that you know I like that one whatever

00:07:17.600 um and when I started hearing this information and seeing it firsthand because I also witnessed

00:07:25.780 you know fat women reject average men on this trip some of the men um that were there i didn't

00:07:31.960 find them to be overly repulsive in any way most of them were in shape none were super fat they're 0.88

00:07:38.660 all pretty normal guys um that were the students and i would see overweight women reject them and

00:07:46.060 not just reject them, but reject them in the most cruel way possible.

00:07:54.140 So this kind of opened my eyes to the Pareto principle 1.00

00:08:00.080 and women's pickiness in real time. 1.00

00:08:06.200 So the third thing was a lot of people say that red pill guys

00:08:12.160 or manosphere guys are rude or creepy or I don't know they have so many names misogynistic

00:08:18.440 predatory and that was just not what I found at all a lot of the guys attending the boot camps

00:08:23.640 they expressed them obviously there's one of the instructors some of them really just wanted to

00:08:29.740 slay for life but a lot of the guys attending these things did express wanting a wife or a

00:08:35.860 long-term girlfriend but if you ask like the left-wing media or the way they're painted

00:08:42.040 you know it's just men wanting to prey on or run through women the other thing too I saw

00:08:48.580 was none of the women hooking up with the guys um were really asking for commitment or anything

00:08:55.300 like that up front so you can't really say that they're being preyed upon if anything sometimes

00:09:00.780 the women approached the better looking guys in the group so um and my last observation i would

00:09:12.580 say is that honestly the manosphere red pill guys whatever are some of the most respectful group of

00:09:21.160 men that i've ever dealt with in my life they're like the least creepy because a lot of them can

00:09:26.800 get women and when a guy can get laid they do so much less creepy things um I mean that's just you

00:09:37.280 know like when they're not starving when a man's well fed he doesn't beg for food so anyways all

00:09:43.980 right that's um episode one of how I got red pilled and if you want it's free right now

00:09:53.180 the audacity network.com i'm gonna write about these experiences but i think doing coffee talks

00:09:58.280 on them too kind of helps me you know wheel spin articulate a little better so let me know like

00:10:03.960 the video subscribe and i'll see you next time

Pearl - June 14, 2026

How I Got Red Pilled： Pick Up Artists

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