Pearl - How Modern Women Figure Out You're Out Of Their League!

00:00:00.000 yeah again men with choice are just going to move on if they see this level of crazy

00:00:03.760 they're just going to say i'm okay what up guys welcome to my reaction series today

00:00:09.160 women are going to tell us how to know if a man thinks a girl is out of his league now as you 1.00

00:00:15.060 know women are notorious for giving terrible advice and sabotaging each other so we're going 1.00

00:00:20.020 to decide together as a class if we think that the girls are accurate or inaccurate now remind

00:00:25.780 reminder women only like men with choice um the men that have no choice women don't really care

00:00:31.640 what they think so when women are talking it's only they're only talking about men they're attracted to 0.90

00:00:36.100 okay so the number one way to know that he thinks you're out of his league

00:00:42.000 easy easy the easiest way to know this is that he plays games okay probably thinking what does that

00:00:49.380 mean like most people play games people who are not serious play games oh my gosh no okay what women 1.00

00:00:54.900 interpret as games is men having a dominant masculine presence and women because we're so 1.00

00:01:01.220 used to simps like that's kind of the default is just simps that worship us and if they don't worship

00:01:06.500 us then um i don't know we kind of we make these weird rationalizations like um you know is he playing

00:01:14.900 games if he goes to for a few days and comes back because he wants sex it's not really a game he just 0.87

00:01:20.100 wants sex now what i mean by that is that he is going to play games to get your attention okay hear 0.57

00:01:26.820 me out when a guy knows that he can't reach you he can't maintain you okay he can't even access you 0.86

00:01:33.860 women say they can't um a guy who can't maintain you men know that the way we look now is the best

00:01:38.980 they're gonna get um women that are hard to like maintain it just usually means um you know she's got 1.00

00:01:45.700 like botox here all this you know fake hair this might be real but like you get the idea um if he

00:01:52.260 can't maintain you it just means i want you to pay for my poor spending habits and if you don't i'm

00:01:56.820 gonna rationalize that something's wrong with you he knows that you are completely out of his league

00:02:01.540 he's going to play games it's because his ego is going to make him want to usually what women see

00:02:07.460 as games is just men with with choice um that aren't treating them like they're the most amazing

00:02:11.620 thing since sliced bread his ego is going to make him want to be chosen by you and the only way he

00:02:18.260 can get a woman like you is because once men have seen genuine desire for a woman where they really

00:02:24.740 don't have to do anything and the woman will just like basically beg him to be a part of his life 1.00

00:02:30.580 they can't go back it's kind of like when women date a certain standard when men have had a certain

00:02:34.740 standard of woman like into them they don't accept this half-ass they're like my ex slept with me on 1.00

00:02:42.020 the first date she did all this stuff um yeah the number one sign he thinks you are out of his league

00:02:49.860 yeah so um what she's describing again is men that have had that and they're not really going to

00:02:54.580 worship you anymore because they'll go down in looks just to get um a girl that's really into them

00:03:00.420 manipulating you by manipulating you and deceiving you and pulling you into his trap okay this is the

00:03:06.740 only way these kind of men will get access to a woman like you when men know that you are out of 1.00

00:03:11.220 their lee don't think that it's going to make him leave you alone or it's going to make him never go

00:03:16.660 near you no it's going to be the opposite he's going to see you as a challenge he's going to see you as

00:03:22.420 something he needs to conquer now if you want to be the kind of woman who is 10 steps ahead 1.00

00:03:26.820 you need to be able to recognize the gains and deny access as soon as you know that this man is

00:03:31.620 playing a cat and mouse game with you you need to remove yourself from this game and let him play

00:03:36.500 himself this is the number one way you are going to know that a man thinks you're out of his league

00:03:41.380 it's when the games are so obvious to you so obvious he's playing games it's so obvious he's

00:03:46.100 breadcrumbing you he's leaving you undelivered but you can feel it it's not because he's got like a

00:03:49.860 plethora of options no no one's saying hello to him this guy's not getting any attention from any

00:03:54.500 woman but he's playing you and you can feel it when you can feel it you know it's deliberate

00:03:59.460 you know it's premeditated you know it's a calculated move from this guy so when you know

00:04:04.660 that and when you're smart and when you're able to recognize these games you just remove yourself

00:04:09.220 you remove yourself you let him slide down a wall yeah again men with choice are just going

00:04:15.060 to move on if they see this level of crazy they're just going to say yeah i'm okay all right

00:04:20.020 let's see i think the first woman was crazy let's see the second woman three signs you're out of his

00:04:24.660 league everything was going great and then he fumbles you if everything was going really good

00:04:29.140 and then all of a sudden out of the blue it's not remember we become the league so you could be the

00:04:34.660 best like the best looking girl he's dated but now he can date women that look like you because he knows 0.80

00:04:40.340 how he knows like how do i put it it's kind of like once a man knows how to drive a ferrari

00:04:45.940 now he's officially a ferrari driver he can apply for other ferraris or once he has certain

00:04:51.140 qualifications he can apply and he's not scared to go get those jobs most men are actually over

00:04:57.380 more qualified than they think i was talking to this girl the other day and um they were saying

00:05:02.020 that her exes were out of her league and i looked at them and i'm like no i think they were actually or

00:05:06.660 sorry she was out of her ex's league and i looked at them i was like let me see pictures no i think they

00:05:11.140 were perfectly in the league like i think it was i i think they those guys were in your league you

00:05:17.380 know probably missing pieces of the puzzle aka he spiraled the more you try to avoid this and carry

00:05:22.660 the ball for our boy here he will always fumble again it's just science he's hesitant or shy or 1.00

00:05:27.700 kind of like embarrassed feeling again we always go back to looks um if you're too much of a bitch 1.00

00:05:33.700 men will try to get you to break up with you like or to break up with them 1.00

00:05:37.700 men will like um they'll they'll be they'll like cheat and hope you find it so they can just be

00:05:45.540 the villain and they're like oh no you're right i'm terrible oh no to introduce his friends to you

00:05:55.300 not embarrassed for you to be around them but he's a little embarrassed that you just might judge him

00:05:59.300 for them number three you find that you're having to teach him too many things and sort of up level him

00:06:04.740 he just doesn't understand the basics you know there's a lot basics of what like sex a lot more

00:06:09.380 where that came from so let me know if you guys want a part two of okay i haven't seen a good one

00:06:14.740 yet all right let's see this woman none of these women are hot enough to release it like they're kind 1.00

00:06:18.980 of mids and mids are like in the league with male mids so i haven't seen any eight pluses here

00:06:24.980 unpopular opinion but i think in order for a relationship to work he needs to think that you

00:06:29.940 are just a little bit out of his league just a little bit but he can't resent you for it he has

00:06:36.500 to praise you and use you as his means otherwise he's going to resent you and try to bring you down

00:06:42.500 a notch but i genuinely think for a relationship to work he needs to be on his toes just a little

00:06:48.420 bit and think that you're just like just a little bit out of his league like not too much to where he

00:06:53.460 feels inferior but just enough to where he knows not to play with you

00:07:01.620 yeah again that's translation for i want to simp okay let's see the next one

00:07:06.100 i 100 date men that i am completely out of their league okay i call it charity you have a ring no

00:07:12.980 wonder or it's good because when women go down in attractiveness they get married fast she's pretty 1.00

00:07:19.060 good looking this is this is probably the prettiest girl i've seen here on here can't tell if the boobs 1.00

00:07:24.180 are natural i'm not a good i'm not like a boob connoisseur you know you guys are boob connoisseur 0.84

00:07:29.220 you've seen the boobs you felt the boobs i just kind of i'm like a glancer i'm like okay those are big

00:07:35.620 but i'm not like gonna watch the way they jiggle but the men they want you know so maybe those are fake

00:07:41.140 i don't know the economy it's good karma i've dated people who are well below fives giving him self-confidence

00:07:48.500 they're never actually below fives but and by the way once they've dated her that's their least

00:07:53.140 it's making his future wife have a more confident man and you know what they say what comes around

00:07:58.580 goes around so i do it all for my good fortune it worked i'm now anyways let me go here so so people

00:08:07.780 move so so weird when they know they don't deserve you to begin with the thing is with men as well they

00:08:15.940 really love an actual chase they really love men love the chase when they're naive but they don't

00:08:22.900 love the chase once they've figured us out and they realize that women offer discounts to men they like 0.91

00:08:27.220 and if she's making you chase they don't i mean if she's making you chase she just doesn't like you

00:08:32.500 like that but it takes a while for men to realize that so naive men um yeah i mean they they do like

00:08:39.620 the chase i'm not going to pretend they don't to feel like they've earned something and the reality

00:08:44.180 is if you're way out of a man's league and you're just kind of giving him the benefit of the doubt

00:08:49.540 and he's just sticking around and seeing what happens he knows that you don't actually respect

00:08:53.620 him because he didn't put in enough work to get you in the first place and his own demons be eating

00:08:58.820 him up in the mind because he sometimes if you lower your price too much the men are wondering what's

00:09:03.860 the catch and a lot of times there is catch so it's fair you know fair wonder knows that he did

00:09:08.900 not work to get you he knows that you deserve way better and he's gonna find absolutely any way to

00:09:15.620 fumble that entire situation well i mean because again once you're in the ferrari league you know

00:09:21.380 you can get other ferraris and then the ferraris start flirting with you and you're like eh now all

00:09:27.060 of a sudden your first ferrari doesn't matter too much because you can get a bentley or you know

00:09:31.780 what other whatever sport i'm not a car person so i'm probably the wrong person to use this reference

00:09:36.580 but you get the idea anyways ladies um if you're curious feel free to go to the audacitynetwork.com

00:09:42.180 and book a session with me ellie answer any questions you got um otherwise i have a monthly

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00:09:52.660 i'll see you next time

Pearl - November 18, 2025

How Modern Women Figure Out You're Out Of Their League!

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