Pearl - October 19, 2025


How to Avoid Being a Smug & Annoying Modern Woman


Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

122.18311

Word count

1,238

Sentence count

149

Harmful content

Misogyny

22

sentences flagged

Toxicity

41

sentences flagged

Hate speech

15

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Summary

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How to not be a bitch and still be a nice bitch. Why women always seem to get their way. Why is it so hard for women to have a nice tone? And why is it that men tend to white knight when it comes to women?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Now, the issue you get with men is men have a tendency to white knight. 1.00
00:00:04.620 They say, oh, you're not being a complete bitch. 1.00
00:00:06.600 You know, that's why they all white knighted for Crowder, because even though she was being 1.00
00:00:10.160 a disobedient bitch, everybody said, oh, no, the poor wife. 1.00
00:00:17.760 So let's talk about something. 1.00
00:00:19.780 So yesterday I had a woman on my show, and this woman came on my show, and I begged her. 0.99
00:00:27.800 I said, please don't be a bitch. 1.00
00:00:29.300 I beg you. 1.00
00:00:30.500 I beg you.
00:00:31.320 Just be nice.
00:00:32.400 That's all you got to do.
00:00:33.140 Be nice. 0.99
00:00:35.180 Don't be a bitch, and we can have a nice discussion. 1.00
00:00:38.920 This is not a debate. 1.00
00:00:39.780 Let's have a discussion. 0.99
00:00:41.220 And I wonder sometimes, I think women are so unlikable and unpleasant. 1.00
00:00:45.920 We have no idea how to be pleasant and unlikable or unlikable, polite. 0.85
00:00:51.900 I don't know if maybe you guys just didn't, your moms didn't teach you that.
00:00:55.780 I don't know if, I don't know what the deal is.
00:01:00.300 But, you know, we're going to do a lesson.
00:01:04.320 And men, you can chime in, because the men usually have better, let's be honest, better
00:01:10.380 input than the women. 0.97
00:01:11.260 So, let's share my screen.
00:01:20.260 One.
00:01:23.320 All right.
00:01:23.980 So, we're going to make, let's make some big words here. 1.00
00:01:25.980 How to not be a bitch. 1.00
00:01:34.000 Yes. 1.00
00:01:35.560 How.
00:01:38.800 Okay.
00:01:39.420 My dog is letting me know she's ready to come inside.
00:01:41.980 Hold on.
00:01:42.480 All right.
00:01:46.700 Ellie, come on.
00:01:50.100 All right.
00:01:57.560 Now, this is a tough swallow.
00:01:59.300 It's a tough, tough ask.
00:02:00.620 But, I think you can do it.
00:02:06.120 Now, the issue you get with men is men have a tendency to white knight.
00:02:10.800 So, when a woman is just like the bare minimum pleasant, like she has a nice tone. 0.99
00:02:16.200 They say, oh, you're not being a complete bitch. 1.00
00:02:19.620 You know, that's why they all white knighted for Crowder. 1.00
00:02:21.620 Because, even though she was being a disobedient bitch, everybody said, oh, no, the poor wife. 1.00
00:02:29.360 Back in 2023, I was put on a government watch list for speaking out about men's issues. 0.99
00:02:35.660 The government spent who knows how much money trying to shut me up.
00:02:39.200 And, honestly, to some extent, it worked.
00:02:41.640 I was demonetized on YouTube.
00:02:43.240 I had three Instagram accounts that deleted, seven TikTok accounts wiped out.
00:02:47.300 And, I was forced to delete three years worth of work, videos, interviews, everything.
00:02:52.240 The more honest I was, the harder I was punished.
00:02:54.740 And, eventually, I had to shut down my show, move back home, and completely start over.
00:02:58.720 But, I'm not giving up.
00:03:00.400 This time, we're doing things differently.
00:03:02.380 I've created my own app, a space where free speech actually means free speech.
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00:03:12.980 For just $10 a month, you're not only supporting me, you're supporting a movement.
00:03:17.140 A network that refuses to be silenced.
00:03:19.620 The link is in the description.
00:03:21.080 Join us and be a part of something that fights back against censorship.
00:03:25.520 Now, let's talk bigger picture.
00:03:27.440 Why don't we have true free speech in America anymore?
00:03:31.080 Welcome to the female economy, where women make 80% of consumer buying decisions. 1.00
00:03:36.140 Have you ever wondered why women always seem to get their way? 1.00
00:03:39.240 Well, here's the truth.
00:03:41.220 Men tend to care about the free flow of ideas.
00:03:44.560 Men can separate an idea from the person who said it. 0.60
00:03:47.600 But women, on the other hand, have learned that they can control what gets said by controlling what gets funded. 1.00
00:03:53.820 Platforms like YouTube have one goal.
00:03:55.520 They want to make money.
00:03:56.820 And if that means catering to the majority female audience, they will.
00:04:00.440 That's why being a conservative creator today feels impossible.
00:04:04.020 This isn't just about me.
00:04:05.200 It's about the future of online speech.
00:04:07.460 With the Audacity Network, me and my community will never have to worry about being silenced again.
00:04:12.660 Oh, no. 1.00
00:04:15.480 You can have a nice tone and still be a bitch. 1.00
00:04:17.640 So, one is coming in bad faith. 0.99
00:04:23.580 That's number one.
00:04:25.520 So, if you come in and you are assuming the other person is a liar or a bad person, my question is, why are you dating someone that you believe that about?
00:04:37.000 Or, why are you talking to someone that you believe that about?
00:04:47.180 I just wouldn't have the conversation.
00:04:49.200 But women love to argue. 1.00
00:04:52.560 So, that's one.
00:04:56.040 Nagging.
00:04:57.100 No nagging.
00:04:58.100 Do you have an opinion about how I should do things or run my show? 1.00
00:05:04.340 Well, shut the fuck up. 1.00
00:05:06.420 Start your own show. 1.00
00:05:09.860 Three.
00:05:10.980 And Doug MPA.
00:05:12.420 Feel free to type.
00:05:13.500 I know Doug MPA has access to this document.
00:05:15.680 So, feel free to, feel free to, you know.
00:05:20.220 And I'll read it if you type it.
00:05:21.760 No nagging.
00:05:28.440 Oh, sorry.
00:05:29.020 Come in, come in, I need to put come in good faith.
00:05:31.720 My bad.
00:05:32.040 Come in good faith.
00:05:40.300 Smile.
00:05:43.300 Come in smiling in a good mood.
00:05:51.760 Yeah, no over-talking.
00:05:55.960 When you're in a conversation with somebody.
00:06:01.380 And you're coming on to somebody's show.
00:06:05.520 Anybody with a basic level of respect knows you let them lead the conversation and you don't interrupt them.
00:06:13.720 Now, again, I know that's difficult for you guys.
00:06:16.300 When you are wrong, admit it.
00:06:24.280 Sometimes we get carried away and you interrupt and you do something.
00:06:31.600 But, you know, you just say, I'm so sorry.
00:06:34.720 And change the behavior.
00:06:38.040 Yes.
00:06:44.020 Thank you, Doug MPA.
00:06:45.020 That's a great one.
00:06:46.340 Listen to understand instead of just waiting for your turn to talk.
00:06:51.880 You know, here's another one.
00:06:55.040 Ask questions that are not just source. 0.83
00:07:00.060 Coming in and saying, and it's very, again, these women are so unlikable. 0.99
00:07:05.520 If you're in a debate format, that format, it's let's rip each other apart. 0.73
00:07:10.500 But in conversation, saying source every five minutes is just a way to derail the conversation.
00:07:17.380 You'll bring up your sources.
00:07:18.780 I'll bring up my sources. 1.00
00:07:19.920 We'll both say each other's sources are bullshit. 0.99
00:07:21.720 Let's just have a conversation. 1.00
00:07:23.840 Let's just have a conversation.
00:07:23.900 No eye rolling.
00:07:47.340 This one.
00:07:48.340 This one.
00:07:51.760 Yes.
00:07:52.360 If you disagree, you could say you disagree.
00:07:59.040 No personal attacks.
00:08:00.960 Yeah.
00:08:01.300 Thank you, Doug.
00:08:01.820 That's about to, I just thought of that too.
00:08:06.820 Personal attacks are for a time and a place.
00:08:10.580 They can be used.
00:08:12.060 But generally, you know, I, but generally, being mean to somebody for no reason is, is being 0.99
00:08:23.620 a bitch. 1.00
00:08:24.120 Yeah. 1.00
00:08:24.600 Well, oh, that's a good one.
00:08:45.720 Thank you, Doug.
00:08:46.240 Respect the larger platform and appreciate the opportunity.
00:08:49.580 Sorry, that was, I wonder why it's doing that. 0.76
00:08:56.320 A lot of you women are nobodies. 1.00
00:09:01.180 You have 500 followers. 0.87
00:09:02.960 And out of the graciousness of my heart, I say, you know what?
00:09:05.300 We could have a reoccurring show where we do this weekly. 0.99
00:09:07.860 If you can just learn to not be a bitch. 1.00
00:09:14.700 And they can't do it. 0.99
00:09:16.260 I'm offering them the opportunity of a lifetime.
00:09:19.580 And they just, it's too difficult for them to do it.
00:09:28.240 It's like, it's like impossible.
00:09:31.680 Say, wait, let me, hold on.
00:09:47.120 Let me go back down here.
00:09:48.920 Say, please, and thank you.
00:09:53.540 All right.
00:09:54.200 I think that's pretty much it.
00:09:56.700 You know, I mean, we could add more later, but I think, I think that's the basics.
00:10:01.160 So Candace, if you're watching, um, lady from yesterday, Ash, if you're watching, that's,
00:10:07.320 that's the basics.