Pearl - October 19, 2025


How to Avoid Being a Smug & Annoying Modern Woman


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

122.18311

Word Count

1,238

Sentence Count

149

Misogynist Sentences

22

Hate Speech Sentences

15


Summary

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Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 Now, the issue you get with men is men have a tendency to white knight.
00:00:04.620 They say, oh, you're not being a complete bitch.
00:00:06.600 You know, that's why they all white knighted for Crowder, because even though she was being
00:00:10.160 a disobedient bitch, everybody said, oh, no, the poor wife.
00:00:17.760 So let's talk about something.
00:00:19.780 So yesterday I had a woman on my show, and this woman came on my show, and I begged her.
00:00:27.800 I said, please don't be a bitch.
00:00:29.300 I beg you.
00:00:30.500 I beg you.
00:00:31.320 Just be nice.
00:00:32.400 That's all you got to do.
00:00:33.140 Be nice.
00:00:35.180 Don't be a bitch, and we can have a nice discussion.
00:00:38.920 This is not a debate.
00:00:39.780 Let's have a discussion.
00:00:41.220 And I wonder sometimes, I think women are so unlikable and unpleasant.
00:00:45.920 We have no idea how to be pleasant and unlikable or unlikable, polite.
00:00:51.900 I don't know if maybe you guys just didn't, your moms didn't teach you that.
00:00:55.780 I don't know if, I don't know what the deal is.
00:01:00.300 But, you know, we're going to do a lesson.
00:01:04.320 And men, you can chime in, because the men usually have better, let's be honest, better
00:01:10.380 input than the women.
00:01:11.260 So, let's share my screen.
00:01:20.260 One.
00:01:23.320 All right.
00:01:23.980 So, we're going to make, let's make some big words here.
00:01:25.980 How to not be a bitch.
00:01:34.000 Yes.
00:01:35.560 How.
00:01:38.800 Okay.
00:01:39.420 My dog is letting me know she's ready to come inside.
00:01:41.980 Hold on.
00:01:42.480 All right.
00:01:46.700 Ellie, come on.
00:01:50.100 All right.
00:01:57.560 Now, this is a tough swallow.
00:01:59.300 It's a tough, tough ask.
00:02:00.620 But, I think you can do it.
00:02:06.120 Now, the issue you get with men is men have a tendency to white knight.
00:02:10.800 So, when a woman is just like the bare minimum pleasant, like she has a nice tone.
00:02:16.200 They say, oh, you're not being a complete bitch.
00:02:19.620 You know, that's why they all white knighted for Crowder.
00:02:21.620 Because, even though she was being a disobedient bitch, everybody said, oh, no, the poor wife.
00:02:29.360 Back in 2023, I was put on a government watch list for speaking out about men's issues.
00:02:35.660 The government spent who knows how much money trying to shut me up.
00:02:39.200 And, honestly, to some extent, it worked.
00:02:41.640 I was demonetized on YouTube.
00:02:43.240 I had three Instagram accounts that deleted, seven TikTok accounts wiped out.
00:02:47.300 And, I was forced to delete three years worth of work, videos, interviews, everything.
00:02:52.240 The more honest I was, the harder I was punished.
00:02:54.740 And, eventually, I had to shut down my show, move back home, and completely start over.
00:02:58.720 But, I'm not giving up.
00:03:00.400 This time, we're doing things differently.
00:03:02.380 I've created my own app, a space where free speech actually means free speech.
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00:03:12.980 For just $10 a month, you're not only supporting me, you're supporting a movement.
00:03:17.140 A network that refuses to be silenced.
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00:03:25.520 Now, let's talk bigger picture.
00:03:27.440 Why don't we have true free speech in America anymore?
00:03:31.080 Welcome to the female economy, where women make 80% of consumer buying decisions.
00:03:36.140 Have you ever wondered why women always seem to get their way?
00:03:39.240 Well, here's the truth.
00:03:41.220 Men tend to care about the free flow of ideas.
00:03:44.560 Men can separate an idea from the person who said it.
00:03:47.600 But women, on the other hand, have learned that they can control what gets said by controlling what gets funded.
00:03:53.820 Platforms like YouTube have one goal.
00:03:55.520 They want to make money.
00:03:56.820 And if that means catering to the majority female audience, they will.
00:04:00.440 That's why being a conservative creator today feels impossible.
00:04:04.020 This isn't just about me.
00:04:05.200 It's about the future of online speech.
00:04:07.460 With the Audacity Network, me and my community will never have to worry about being silenced again.
00:04:12.660 Oh, no.
00:04:15.480 You can have a nice tone and still be a bitch.
00:04:17.640 So, one is coming in bad faith.
00:04:23.580 That's number one.
00:04:25.520 So, if you come in and you are assuming the other person is a liar or a bad person, my question is, why are you dating someone that you believe that about?
00:04:37.000 Or, why are you talking to someone that you believe that about?
00:04:47.180 I just wouldn't have the conversation.
00:04:49.200 But women love to argue.
00:04:52.560 So, that's one.
00:04:56.040 Nagging.
00:04:57.100 No nagging.
00:04:58.100 Do you have an opinion about how I should do things or run my show?
00:05:04.340 Well, shut the fuck up.
00:05:06.420 Start your own show.
00:05:09.860 Three.
00:05:10.980 And Doug MPA.
00:05:12.420 Feel free to type.
00:05:13.500 I know Doug MPA has access to this document.
00:05:15.680 So, feel free to, feel free to, you know.
00:05:20.220 And I'll read it if you type it.
00:05:21.760 No nagging.
00:05:28.440 Oh, sorry.
00:05:29.020 Come in, come in, I need to put come in good faith.
00:05:31.720 My bad.
00:05:32.040 Come in good faith.
00:05:40.300 Smile.
00:05:43.300 Come in smiling in a good mood.
00:05:51.760 Yeah, no over-talking.
00:05:55.960 When you're in a conversation with somebody.
00:06:01.380 And you're coming on to somebody's show.
00:06:05.520 Anybody with a basic level of respect knows you let them lead the conversation and you don't interrupt them.
00:06:13.720 Now, again, I know that's difficult for you guys.
00:06:16.300 When you are wrong, admit it.
00:06:24.280 Sometimes we get carried away and you interrupt and you do something.
00:06:31.600 But, you know, you just say, I'm so sorry.
00:06:34.720 And change the behavior.
00:06:38.040 Yes.
00:06:44.020 Thank you, Doug MPA.
00:06:45.020 That's a great one.
00:06:46.340 Listen to understand instead of just waiting for your turn to talk.
00:06:51.880 You know, here's another one.
00:06:55.040 Ask questions that are not just source.
00:07:00.060 Coming in and saying, and it's very, again, these women are so unlikable.
00:07:05.520 If you're in a debate format, that format, it's let's rip each other apart.
00:07:10.500 But in conversation, saying source every five minutes is just a way to derail the conversation.
00:07:17.380 You'll bring up your sources.
00:07:18.780 I'll bring up my sources.
00:07:19.920 We'll both say each other's sources are bullshit.
00:07:21.720 Let's just have a conversation.
00:07:23.840 Let's just have a conversation.
00:07:23.900 No eye rolling.
00:07:47.340 This one.
00:07:48.340 This one.
00:07:51.760 Yes.
00:07:52.360 If you disagree, you could say you disagree.
00:07:59.040 No personal attacks.
00:08:00.960 Yeah.
00:08:01.300 Thank you, Doug.
00:08:01.820 That's about to, I just thought of that too.
00:08:06.820 Personal attacks are for a time and a place.
00:08:10.580 They can be used.
00:08:12.060 But generally, you know, I, but generally, being mean to somebody for no reason is, is being
00:08:23.620 a bitch.
00:08:24.120 Yeah.
00:08:24.600 Well, oh, that's a good one.
00:08:45.720 Thank you, Doug.
00:08:46.240 Respect the larger platform and appreciate the opportunity.
00:08:49.580 Sorry, that was, I wonder why it's doing that.
00:08:56.320 A lot of you women are nobodies.
00:09:01.180 You have 500 followers.
00:09:02.960 And out of the graciousness of my heart, I say, you know what?
00:09:05.300 We could have a reoccurring show where we do this weekly.
00:09:07.860 If you can just learn to not be a bitch.
00:09:14.700 And they can't do it.
00:09:16.260 I'm offering them the opportunity of a lifetime.
00:09:19.580 And they just, it's too difficult for them to do it.
00:09:28.240 It's like, it's like impossible.
00:09:31.680 Say, wait, let me, hold on.
00:09:47.120 Let me go back down here.
00:09:48.920 Say, please, and thank you.
00:09:53.540 All right.
00:09:54.200 I think that's pretty much it.
00:09:56.700 You know, I mean, we could add more later, but I think, I think that's the basics.
00:10:01.160 So Candace, if you're watching, um, lady from yesterday, Ash, if you're watching, that's,
00:10:07.320 that's the basics.