Pearl - May 24, 2026


I Asked If Catholic Women Obey and The Cops Came….. ｜ It Be Your Own People 😭


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In this episode, I talk about my experience at a Catholic church and how it made me question if Christian women should obey their husbands. I also talk about how women in general have been treated by the church and why I don t go to church anymore.

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00:00:00.000 what's up guys welcome to my coffee talks um today i was wondering if i'm like starving
00:00:05.740 because i was in the sun all day doing street interviews um but i didn't walk any steps i'm
00:00:12.180 like do you burn calories just by being in the sun anyways i'm super sunburned a little spacey
00:00:17.820 i'm trying to catch up on like dehydration because um i did another should christian women
00:00:26.360 obey their husbands so if you don't know you can go to my channel and last or like two weeks ago
00:00:31.620 I went to a non-denominational church um and I asked the people there do Christian women obey
00:00:38.080 their husbands um and for those of you that don't know I'm actually kind of partial to Catholics
00:00:42.640 like I grew up in a Catholic area um I'm one of 10 kids my parents are still married
00:00:47.620 um but I'm not practicing and
00:00:52.140 the reason I'm not practicing is because it's just been like so demoralizing like seeing what's 1.00
00:01:01.620 become of the church and whenever you talk about this the like diehard Catholics like 0.69
00:01:06.200 they try to pretend it's not happening and they try to pretend like it's not real and I'm just 0.65
00:01:13.000 like sometimes there's a part of me that's like maybe I'm over exaggerating maybe I didn't like 0.99
00:01:18.440 see what I saw growing up with um women just like ruling over their husbands in church and like 1.00
00:01:25.060 just a lot of simpy like uh stuff being taught in like catholic schools and stuff 1.00
00:01:31.280 um but today was just kind of depressing because I was just really disappointed like I was hoping 1.00
00:01:41.180 the Catholics would have a better answer. So for those of you that don't know, I have a sign that 1.00
00:01:46.480 says, should Christian women obey their husbands? And I do this sign because it really, in my
00:01:51.200 opinion, dismantles feminism at its core. Feminism is when you make men and women equal. So if it's 0.93
00:01:58.740 egalitarian, that means we have an equal say in choices. But if you believe in the natural order
00:02:02.820 of the world, which I do, you believe that the decision-making process in a family is God, men, 1.00
00:02:09.720 women children I think this is important because I not only see the chaos like in women in general 1.00
00:02:16.100 but I see the chaos spite and evil in myself um so I'm not when I talk about women it's not to 1.00
00:02:23.020 say I'm special or different um or I don't have problems I certainly do but I think from a young 1.00
00:02:29.480 age um men have to notice like something's off I don't know what age it is for you guys 1.00
00:02:36.160 but like women
00:02:38.000 we spend more money 1.00
00:02:42.380 we're very chaotic
00:02:44.100 our thoughts are all over the place
00:02:46.060 we never get to the point
00:02:46.940 it just seems like everything good
00:02:50.300 in society comes from men 1.00
00:02:52.020 and if you like
00:02:53.260 are from the outside looking in that sounds extreme
00:02:56.260 but it just seems like 1.00
00:02:58.140 whenever women get money and power 0.99
00:03:00.180 they're very selfish and evil with it 1.00
00:03:02.400 and whenever men get money and power
00:03:03.940 they're very kind with it, generous
00:03:05.940 Um, and it's like the same thing with kids. Like when women get kids, they use them for selfish 1.00
00:03:10.400 reasons. So, um, going to this Catholic church today, it was kind of crazy because like, it was 1.00
00:03:18.320 like the most hostile that I've ever had at an interview. And like, I've interviewed leftists,
00:03:27.000 liberals, like, do you know what I mean? Like I've interviewed and I'm like, the Catholics are doing 1.00
00:03:32.120 this to be your own people. Um, so I get there and I hold my sign. And the reason I do these like 0.99
00:03:39.740 giant, um, YouTube signs is because I never liked to be the type of interviewer that throws the
00:03:47.860 interview question in your face. There's a type of interviewer and I have mad props to them,
00:03:52.240 but they just go up to people, say the question quick and let them answer. I just don't like
00:03:56.660 throwing a camera in people's faces, even though it's legal. So I do a giant sign and that way the
00:04:01.820 person coming up they know the topic and they can like opt in to if they want to be in the interview
00:04:07.040 right and if they don't like it they can just keep walking I'll never um like put someone on camera
00:04:12.740 that just like walks by do you know what I mean like um anyways that's just my personal when I do
00:04:19.120 interviews and I'm always very respectful I never throw in anyone's faces and today it's like I go
00:04:25.240 to this catholic church and this super simp comes up to me and he's like asking me to leave and I'm
00:04:31.500 like well what's wrong with my sign because i'm like should christian women obey like what's wrong
00:04:35.720 with the word obey and um he's like well that's controversial like you're missing the point of
00:04:41.240 merit like and i'm just like huh like i just don't understand like why don't the churches
00:04:47.780 have the courage anymore to like say what they believe and it's just it actually makes me so
00:04:54.120 mad like i'm gonna get a little heated because it's like you guys are supposed to worship god
00:04:59.700 like Jesus Christ and you take people's like offerings you take hope from people and you
00:05:05.860 worship money and your reputation because you're so afraid to say what's in the Bible which is that
00:05:11.420 women should obey men and it's like I come from the position of a woman who understood on some
00:05:19.200 level that like I would no one was ever honest with me my entire life and when you get into a
00:05:25.840 relationship later you have to unlearn so many bad habits which different problem different day
00:05:32.020 whatever um but so I go to the church and they bring out and I'm like thinking like dude I'm
00:05:40.400 Catholic uh like you guys anyways so they bring out three people to stand in front of my sign and
00:05:47.120 I'm asking them like hey do you have a problem like what's the problem with the sign and they're 0.98
00:05:51.820 like um oh like it like they're too afraid to say what they think and they're just like trying to
00:06:02.260 interfere with my my interview right and it you know again it'd be one thing like it would be one
00:06:08.580 thing if I'm getting to people's faces but I'm like peacefully just standing there you know so
00:06:13.240 anyways um super simp and this fat woman and this other super it was like one was okay one he was 0.55
00:06:21.460 just fall in orders but there's like a fat woman a super simp and they're like too afraid to say 0.99
00:06:26.120 what they think so anyways the woman in me i'm telling you this is why i know women are spiteful 0.96
00:06:31.480 because the woman in me i'm like i'm gonna come to this church every week i'm gonna you just earned
00:06:38.200 another 10 and i'm not gonna do it but that's what i was thinking at the time so then they go
00:06:43.260 get the cops and me like again i love the police i actually i have no problem with the police being
00:06:50.940 there i'm like they're these this dude is like too afraid to say what he thinks and look bad and
00:06:58.360 it's like but you're willing to go get the cops so anyways i get the i talk to the cops and i'm
00:07:03.800 like isn't it my first amendment right to be here and they said yes but you can't be on church
00:07:08.500 property so it was funny because this super simp just sends me across the like i have to go across
00:07:14.180 the street but it actually made it a little easier because then people could actually see the sign
00:07:18.920 better they couldn't stand in front of my sign anymore but I don't know like some of the answers
00:07:26.180 were okay like some people did say that you should obey like your husband or whatever but
00:07:32.080 it's always like with a grain of salt you know like it's it's never just listen to whatever he
00:07:40.360 says it's listen to him but only if he loves you like Christ loves the church it's like
00:07:44.760 why do we even have to say that why can't even we just tell the women to listen um because i think
00:07:51.580 as a woman like from a young age you just see how the world is terrorized because like men don't tell
00:08:00.140 women no and you watch these like beat down husbands that are just so afraid of their wives
00:08:05.920 and it's like when you're the daughter you're the kid your mother terrorizes you like your mother
00:08:11.160 emotionally like gossips on you talks about the dad like emotionally terrorizes you and as a kid 0.84
00:08:18.580 like you know you kind of look to your dad and you're like why don't you tell this woman to shut
00:08:21.860 up you know um and then you go to school and it's like these women are terrorizing you like these
00:08:29.120 women are being complete like and then you you know other women terrorize you 0.99
00:08:35.300 and it was just kind of demoralizing because I was hoping and expecting to go to this Catholic 1.00
00:08:43.080 church and get like better answers. Like more of the men, there were many women that signed
00:08:48.060 up to talk to me. I don't know why, but I just sort of thought that, um, I would, there would
00:08:55.020 be more men like at a more traditional church that had the courage to like be honest about this
00:09:01.320 stuff. And I even, I couldn't even believe it. There was like a deacon, a guy that worked for
00:09:06.080 the church who told me that women should listen to their husbands. I'm like, Oh my God, you can't
00:09:13.940 make this shit up. Oh my God, you can't make this shit up. Oh, be your own people. And I was thinking 1.00
00:09:21.460 just like how crazy it is that out of all the interviews I've done, I have never had somebody
00:09:27.720 try to file a police report against me like never in my life because I'm not adversarial
00:09:34.200 I'm always respectful I don't throw the camera in people's faces I don't I don't it's not my style
00:09:40.860 um and the one place where I'm like I'm Catholic that's what you guys do so anyways but it was
00:09:49.820 actually kind of funny because then this other guy came in and um it was a little bit funny
00:09:57.480 though I will say it was funny because by the end then the other like I don't know I guess there's
00:10:03.220 like a little infighting between the simp and the other the older guys and the older guys then at
00:10:08.780 the end were telling people to come do my interview so it wasn't all bad it wasn't all bad I'd like to
00:10:13.420 say like it's so funny um but but I'm like I don't know I just kind of am a little disappointed 1.00
00:10:25.000 because i was hoping that the catholics would step up but it turns out that men are gonna simp 0.80
00:10:35.000 no like i'd have to say today was more men because there weren't many women that answered
00:10:38.880 but like that men are just gonna simp wherever they go
00:10:43.160 and you know what the more i'm doing this the more i'm like okay this is the men like men
00:10:52.720 why like I even asked a few I'm like do you think it's okay to tell your woman to shut up and they're
00:10:58.080 like well you can't say it like that I'm like why not it would save us all from torture
00:11:04.980 because it's like if you don't get your wife to shut up we all have to deal with it we all have
00:11:13.720 to deal with it oh my god and it's like yeah so anyways um you know because I just think as a man
00:11:28.440 and maybe this is me being a woman maybe I shouldn't think this at all but as a man it's like
00:11:33.800 that woman represents you can you please tell her leave the kids I know you love these kids
00:11:42.200 believe them leave them okay then at least they know their father wasn't going to stand for jack 1.00
00:11:50.260 shit leave them and tell the wife get in line or i'm leaving yo ass white guys you got to learn 1.00
00:11:56.540 from the black guys please oh my god so anyways um 1.00
00:12:04.900 a little demoralizing um the cops were cool the funny thing was the cops were cool like i'm like 0.86
00:12:17.200 i actually was happy they were there right i mean i was kind of salty i'm like why is this super
00:12:22.940 simp trying to get a police like isn't that a little extreme but then i'm like where can i
00:12:28.720 legally stand and then they showed me and i'm like all right
00:12:32.520 one officer was a woman you know 0.99
00:12:38.000 I'm like no wonder it's here on church duty because that's got to be the easy 0.99
00:12:48.740 you know I mean they can't they don't want to put you with like the criminals so anyways
00:12:55.500 but oh my gosh do you know what makes it worse I'm in Texas don't stalk me 0.99
00:13:02.000 i'm in texas oh my god if this is the catholic churches in texas we are done
00:13:08.800 oh my god it's over and even like i knew some catholics and they were like
00:13:15.980 oh like i don't know about doing these interviews and i'm like
00:13:19.900 okay okay if your church is teaching the wrong thing wouldn't you want it exposed so you guys
00:13:27.560 could correct it they don't want it exposed they want to be right that's the thing they want to be
00:13:34.120 right so bad that they don't want like it to be open that they gloss over the parts of the bible
00:13:44.560 that talk about women being under lesser not as good as men
00:13:49.920 so anyways all right i'm done my rant is over i'm a little heated because
00:13:57.760 it be your own people it be your own people but anyways um ellie's here hello like the video
00:14:05.100 subscribe um and i'll see you guys probably tomorrow i'll stream again i'll see you tomorrow