Pearl - August 10, 2026


I got kicked out of a are we dating the same guy for posting positive review

Topics
posting positive review
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Doug MPA Terrence Carrie Underwood
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Length

7 minutes

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164.93

Word count

1,190

Sentence count

37

Harmful content

Misogyny

11

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Toxicity

14

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9

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00:00:00.000 All right, what's up guys? I want to talk about are we dating the same guy? So recently
00:00:05.060 I joined the are we dating the same guy group? I'm a nosy motherfucker. I'm a nosy bitch, right? 1.00
00:00:10.700 So I joined it and I felt like the reviews for men were just not comprehensive, okay? So my friend 0.95
00:00:19.040 Doug MPA, he's been on the show, he ghosted a girl I guess after they went to karaoke.
00:00:25.660 They go, they have a good time at karaoke, he ghosts, you know, he's a real ninja,
00:00:29.260 what's he gonna do and um i guess she was upset about that she put it in the page
00:00:35.500 and you know when she puts it in the page you know she's like all mad that she got ghosted
00:00:41.020 and i kept thinking woman he took you to karaoke any any woman that's a singer like myself
00:00:51.820 you know men don't like karaoke it's not really something in general they do like
00:00:57.020 it's kind of like as a woman if a man takes you golfing right you do it you're like yay
00:01:02.540 but you don't really like doing it you just do it for the guy
00:01:06.860 and i thought you put all this trash about him and you didn't even put the positive review that
00:01:11.740 he gave you um the opportunity to go to karaoke women women women so i you know i out of the
00:01:21.660 kindness in my heart decided to start posting positive reviews about the men they were trashing
00:01:27.340 you know because I just felt like it wasn't even so I started putting and to be fair
00:01:33.420 I'd never met these guys I didn't know them but I just I just wanted to make it more even so I'd
00:01:40.000 put like oh best sex I've ever had oh wow he was amazing just because I'm trying to even it out 0.74
00:01:46.580 I'm trying to, you know, do a little karma. I got kicked from the group. You cannot prove I'm not a 0.97
00:01:52.640 big fat slut whore. Why did I get kicked? Why did I get kicked? I should have. They're like, 1.00
00:02:01.460 they're like, oh, you couldn't have dated all these guys. What do you mean? I couldn't have
00:02:04.580 dated all these guys. I could have, it wouldn't have, but I'm thinking I got to put negative
00:02:11.720 stuff to be allowed in this group we can't put comprehensive reviews
00:02:15.340 now i'm kicked i'm kicked for life
00:02:20.240 i'm kicked but this actually got me thinking because um i have a few friends that have been
00:02:30.020 posted on that group about how are we dating the same guy fundamentally has changed dating forever
00:02:36.280 i can't imagine as a woman going on a date and knowing that if i i'm a weird awkward type of
00:02:41.480 gal. Okay. I might do something weird, awkward, stupid. I mean, you know, but if I go on a date
00:02:47.460 and I know the consequence could be me being put on that page, you got to be a real, real ninja
00:02:53.300 to not care and just not give an F what they say. That's tough. That has completely changed the
00:02:58.940 fundamental of dating in this country because you basically can get like snitched on it. You know,
00:03:06.260 you might do something weird or awkward. It just might be that day.
00:03:11.480 so it's like, it's interesting. Okay, going into other stories that have been in the news
00:03:20.300 and the commentary or whatever. There's too many women running around society that have never been 1.00
00:03:28.520 told that we're mediocre, right? These big egos. I saw a woman that she got into a car accident and 1.00
00:03:36.060 she killed a brand new bride. Like this woman got married. She gets killed by a woman drunk driving. 1.00
00:03:41.480 and her father is on the phone with her saying you know honey sometimes bad things happen to good
00:03:48.000 people sir your daughter is the bad person why don't you tell your daughter that you deserve 1.00
00:03:57.800 to go to jail for 25 years which is what she got because of your poor selfish choices this 0.99
00:04:03.920 woman went to like five different bars and was drinking and driving in between 1.00
00:04:07.420 uber is available
00:04:11.820 the last point i want to make today women often talk about what men do when they're down bad
00:04:25.640 right and to be fair there's a lot of down bad men they send money to women on only fans
00:04:31.800 they'll send you essays and texts and they'll just do all this bullshit right and i agree you know 0.78
00:04:42.460 men i tell men you guys got to stop simping stop giving your time attention money resources 0.95
00:04:46.860 stop giving it away for free
00:04:48.620 but we need to have a conversation about what women do when they're down bad
00:04:57.300 you know the cassie and diddy documentary or whatever all the sex stuff that's come out
00:05:04.480 has shown you women when they were down bad she allowed a man to be alone like to loan her 1.00
00:05:11.080 to his friends so when a woman's down bad she'll bang a whole friend group for a guy 0.99
00:05:16.460 you know crash out beg him to get back together you know there was a song in mainstream media
00:05:25.720 by Carrie Underwood that says,
00:05:27.680 I dug my key into the side
00:05:29.260 of his pretty little cooped up four-wheel drive,
00:05:32.180 carved my name into his leather seats.
00:05:35.120 Man, if that's not down bad, I don't know what is.
00:05:38.780 I don't know what is.
00:05:40.140 I mean, what could be more down bad than a guy cheating?
00:05:43.380 Which really, and I've said this before,
00:05:44.920 it's not the worst thing you could do to somebody.
00:05:46.880 It's very hurtful, right?
00:05:48.020 Because we're all neurotic about it.
00:05:50.100 But if we're just being honest here, 1.00
00:05:52.240 he didn't beat your ass, you know? 1.00
00:05:55.100 I know women that have gotten beaten. He just banged another bitch, which, you know, it happens. 1.00
00:05:59.780 So he slipped and fell into some poonanny, which is hurtful, right? I can agree with that. But, 1.00
00:06:05.860 you know, the proportionality, I don't think keying his car really makes sense.
00:06:12.720 And a lot of times when men are down bad, they're so down bad because they've given so much to the
00:06:16.920 girl. And that's kind of why, you know, they crash out. But women will be down bad for men
00:06:23.120 that don't do shit for us, like that do nothing. So I'm kind of tired of women talking about 1.00
00:06:30.300 how men are super down bad, you know, 1.00
00:06:34.480 um, because I think women are way more down bad. Like men will at least walk away if it doesn't 1.00
00:06:43.000 work at some point. Women, um, we won't, we'll, we'll stalk a man to try to get back into a 1.00
00:06:51.380 relationship with him you know so anyways um guys if you want to meet me in your city we're doing
00:06:57.360 private events um dinners where I can hang out with you guys there's 10 slots available so it's
00:07:05.020 literally 10 people at a steakhouse me Doug MPA Terrence are coming and then you guys so
00:07:09.640 I hope to see you there the link's in the description I'll see you next time