Pearl - May 20, 2026


I Hate To Admit It, But I Think Polygamy Logically Makes Sense？ (debatable)


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17 minutes

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2,820

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117

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54

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17

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In this episode I talk about polygamy and why it makes sense. I also talk about how men are not meant to be led by women and how women should be the leaders in their relationships. I also give some examples of different types of men and how they can lead women.

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00:00:00.000 What's going on, my ninjas?
00:00:02.040 Today, I don't have a coffee, but I have a Coke Zero.
00:00:07.460 It's my last one, and then the rest of my fridge
00:00:10.020 is now bone broth, and I hate bone broth.
00:00:13.720 But we'll see if I can make this change,
00:00:17.360 and you'll see me drinking bone broth. 0.83
00:00:20.800 Is this a race?
00:00:22.620 Okay.
00:00:23.960 I have a whiteboard today.
00:00:25.760 So sometimes when I do these coffee thoughts,
00:00:28.300 hold on wait gross okay sorry sometimes when i do these coffee thoughts i have this thought i
00:00:40.700 just cannot get out of my head i can't get it out it cannot leave and this could be you know
00:00:50.460 jesse lee peterson says that the devil sends you thoughts so most of your thoughts are the devils
00:00:56.060 But then, like, apparently you'll hear God's voice.
00:00:59.500 So is this God? Is this the devil? I don't know.
00:01:02.900 But I can't stop thinking that polygamy makes sense. 0.99
00:01:07.000 For the society we're in, polygamy makes sense.
00:01:11.740 Now, this is not something I wish to be true.
00:01:15.800 Again, I grew up with two parents, married young, ten kids in my family.
00:01:21.240 So I think that I would have a hard time with polygamy. 0.55
00:01:26.060 but I can't help but think from a logical point of view, it makes sense. So, all right, 0.99
00:01:32.920 let's say we have Bob here. Now, um, I've noticed with men, there seems to be three types of men.
00:01:41.060 The first type of man, um, naturally can lead women. Now, this guy's a natural player, um,
00:01:48.480 and they can lead women into destruction, right? They can, I mean, the crazy things women have 1.00
00:01:53.860 done for love like they'll kill a they'll kill a bitch for love you know because a man told her to 1.00
00:01:58.080 or it can also be done for good right um men you know there's players that naturally make women 0.99
00:02:05.960 the best versions of themselves because they're so afraid the player is going to cheat they just 0.81
00:02:09.800 go to the ends of the earth to be a good wife for him and it's like the most submissive relationship 0.87
00:02:13.800 that woman will ever be in in her life um I mean you could say the cheating's wrong but okay we'll 0.95
00:02:19.540 we'll, we'll get, we'll get to that. The next type of men are men that naturally have leadership
00:02:28.020 skills. Um, and with the right information, they will change their behavior. They might start off
00:02:33.780 as simps, right? Um, but they get the right information and they stop doing that. And then
00:02:41.880 the third type of men are men that are cooked. Um, they will fold the second a pretty woman gives 1.00
00:02:47.040 them attention. Um, they want to worship women. They want to be led by a woman. Uh, you cannot 0.98
00:02:53.260 help these men. They will, uh, they can talk all the shit they want. Um, they will continue to 1.00
00:02:58.800 simp, cannot be helped. And just their personality, it's how they are. Um, and I was talking to
00:03:07.840 someone recently about how, um, so I don't think all men are meant to lead companies, right? 0.58
00:03:17.020 Like you lead a company and they're not meant to train people.
00:03:21.500 Like when you lead a company and you train an employee, you give them a set of skills.
00:03:26.480 So you give them entry.
00:03:28.880 You say you sit down with them.
00:03:30.840 You slowly teach them something and you either have an obedient employee or you don't.
00:03:35.300 The employee either has the capacity to listen.
00:03:38.480 Right.
00:03:38.740 They can pick up on things.
00:03:40.580 Right.
00:03:41.020 Or they don't have the capacity to listen.
00:03:43.500 They can't.
00:03:44.320 They're too lazy, whatever.
00:03:47.020 Um, the other thing employers know is if they train up an employee, um, it has to be a good
00:03:55.260 program. Otherwise the employees will just leave once they become decent. Right. And there are some
00:04:00.700 men that are better at training employees than others. Um, okay. So let's say we have,
00:04:06.180 we have three men. I'm going to put, I'm actually going to re,
00:04:11.920 hold on let me redo this all right I'm gonna have a black marker guy a pink marker guy
00:04:24.420 and a blue marker guy okay
00:04:27.460 okay so let's say we have Bob here and he's just the ladies man right and he can get women um just
00:04:39.920 easily, and let's say he has two women that sign up for his program. They say, you're such a good
00:04:47.160 leader of women that I want to be on your team, right? And he trains these women up, right? He 0.87
00:04:57.520 trains them up, makes them his wives, but woman number two, she just can't be obedient, so she 1.00
00:05:05.520 fails, right? So she fails and she's a single mom now. Boom. We got little, little Johnny. 1.00
00:05:15.520 And then we have a woman over here, which is in the modern economy, right? We have a woman here. 0.99
00:05:22.900 She does not want children. This is a woman that will never have kids, right? 1.00
00:05:28.020 Then we have another woman who, um, I'll make her blue. 1.00
00:05:32.780 you know she's got uh maybe an incurable std um a really bad personality trait 1.00
00:05:41.940 something that makes her a little crazy you know then we got a woman here 1.00
00:05:45.700 um i don't know what could we say about her 1.00
00:05:51.940 no wife skills really old oh no no we'll make her old she's like 40 1.00
00:06:02.720 Okay. So guy number one has the two young hot brides, right? And then one left. Now she's a 1.00
00:06:08.940 single mother over there. So now he's got one wife, right? And girl number two, I forgot which 0.98
00:06:17.760 girl's with. So this is the guy that's the best leader. This is the second best leader. This is
00:06:23.120 a guy that's pretty much cooked, right? So let's say the single mother, she broke obedience to him. 0.99
00:06:28.960 he's done but guy number two comes in and says you know what you can have a second chance I have 0.68
00:06:34.920 a two-bedroom house um I've been practicing my leadership skills you know um I have a wife
00:06:43.920 already let's give him a little a nice like wife there you know maybe he he has a wife but she's 0.98
00:06:49.740 kind of fat let's say like this is a oompa loompa wife because he can't get a hot wife 0.96
00:06:53.600 Um, so he has a fat wife and he says, you know what? I'll take the single mom wife, 1.00
00:06:58.120 but in order for you to enter my household, you need to give custody to the dad. 1.00
00:07:03.260 I'm not taking care of another man's kid. Um, so now this guy's a little single dad. He's got
00:07:11.900 his little Johnny there. Right. Um, and this girl is now on his program and this is far less
00:07:18.740 cocked because he's got his fat wife, right? And yes, he married a single mother, but it's the 0.97
00:07:25.160 second wife. And if she leaves, he has another wife and she can't tell him to stop getting more 0.93
00:07:31.460 wives if he doesn't, you know? And so she can either be obedient or not. Okay. Then you have,
00:07:38.940 now let's say the player guy here has a wife. We talked about the example the other day,
00:07:48.420 right of I kind of understood um I had a caller call into my show and said he would give a woman
00:07:54.300 another chance if she cheated and she was honest and I sort of understood where he was coming from
00:07:59.280 um the other guy was like that's cucked that's cucked that's cucked and I just couldn't help
00:08:04.020 but keep thinking about this like concept because look I know cheating is different for men and for
00:08:11.700 women but I've been cheated on before right and I don't think it's the absolute worst thing you
00:08:16.540 can do to somebody. I think like day to day, I know this is like such an unpopular opinion.
00:08:24.160 But I just don't think it's the absolute worst thing you can do. Because I've been in like
00:08:29.660 relationships where the guy's really mean to me. And that's something you have to deal with every
00:08:33.320 day. You know, the cheating, that's like your problem. No one, no one really understands. But
00:08:38.600 okay, so he has this young faithful wife that never left. That's his first wife. Now, 0.50
00:08:43.100 this girl comes in and she's honest. She says, look, I'm so sorry. I cheated on you.
00:08:47.980 And he says, you have a path to redemption right now. You're a whore. You're going to have to wear 1.00
00:08:53.320 a scarlet letter for two years. Um, you're not your wife. Number three. Now I'm actually going 0.99
00:08:57.840 to get, I'm going to take in this girl here. She's, she's added to my harem. Um, and if you 1.00
00:09:04.840 give me 10 years of obedience, then we can, we can mark it off for five years. Do you know what
00:09:09.780 I mean like whatever it is um because you know this girl struggles with that this girl struggles 0.99
00:09:17.040 with her weight maybe this girl struggles with being a bitch um but he there's a reward and I 0.98
00:09:25.040 think that's women's deep down like um desire is to be rewarded for who they are as people and not 1.00
00:09:31.480 their beauty um because I think let's one in the chat one in the comments ladies have you ever been 0.97
00:09:37.840 frustrated as a mid watching a beautiful woman treat a man terribly and him still pick her i
00:09:44.320 think as a mid this is an experience a lot of us you know a lot of us have gone through
00:09:50.880 so um you know this this way if you're a mid um it's kind of honest it's like up front he's gonna 0.94
00:09:56.880 pick the hot girl but if the hot if wife number one is on bad behavior then wife number two the 0.97
00:10:03.680 mid right or my wife this could also be by looks or like personality you know the midwoman can work 1.00
00:10:10.320 her way up because women are going to leave right even the even the chad you know i mean the women 1.00
00:10:16.020 are going to say no this is too much and then they're going to go to the second guy 0.97
00:10:19.260 or you know maybe there's a new guy that comes into town and he's got a new program over here
00:10:26.200 but this way um there is a path forward to redemption for all the harpies um maybe this
00:10:33.840 woman had an only fans whatever because um you know let's say the woman's 40 30 or 50 they're 0.99
00:10:41.300 gonna have another 50 years on the planet and if there was it would almost make more sense to have 1.00
00:10:47.440 an incentive for good behavior so i'm gonna just go into so now let's say guy number two
00:10:54.540 um man number two he works his way up to a point where women really trust him he's got a program
00:11:01.780 now a program is if you know and let's say he's got three wives he's got wife number one
00:11:07.380 who's given him two kids okay wife number two who's given him no kids 0.99
00:11:14.520 um but let's put her as a lawyer so she's a lawyer um wife number three 1.00
00:11:21.400 who okay so imagine right this woman gives him two kids right that's wife number one wife number two 1.00
00:11:30.320 um she doesn't want kids that's just not who she is and we don't want to force women 0.98
00:11:35.280 to have kids they don't want to have but this guy's a good leader of women maybe he's like you
00:11:41.360 know a smooth talker really attractive but you know his earning we all know men that don't make 0.97
00:11:46.860 a lot of money but are good with women she can bring in like 50 60k to the household 0.98
00:11:56.300 and if they're all under one roof 1.00
00:11:59.460 it's still contributing in a way girl number three um let's say she's old you know she's 1.00
00:12:08.760 past her prime she can't have any kids sad maybe she wanted kids but she fucked up her life in 1.00
00:12:14.260 somewhere. Well, the old woman can help babysit. Maybe this girl wants a, wants a night off, you 1.00
00:12:20.640 know? Um, she can help babysit these kids, right? Um, she can, um, be responsible for sweeping the 0.99
00:12:34.000 floors, right? You know, there's stuff like a guy that's a good leader of women and good at giving 1.00
00:12:40.080 instructions will find things for these women to do, to feel useful or to be useful actually, 0.99
00:12:46.160 because women can be useful under the authority of a guy. 1.00
00:12:55.900 And so then again, then maybe you have an 18-year-old girl in the mix. Now the problem 0.57
00:13:00.840 with 18-year-old women is 18-year-old women really don't put in the time to be wives. So 1.00
00:13:09.580 an 18 year old girl comes in or maybe 20, whatever it is. She can come in, be trained, right? By the 0.86
00:13:18.400 other wives, be trained on how to be a wife, live in the house. And if she wants to stay under this 1.00
00:13:23.800 man's authority, she can, or she could leave later if she wants to go do better. No harm, no foul to
00:13:29.420 this guy. He loves her, but you know, he knows 18 year old women just want to, you know, go off and 0.99
00:13:34.580 run into the distance or whatever. And it's just, you know, less cocked because, um, again, he's got
00:13:42.960 three other bitches. And again, um, the 18 to 25 year old woman, they want to go to brunch with 1.00
00:13:49.040 the friends. They want to go out in Miami. And he's like, you know what, as long as you don't
00:13:54.020 bang other dudes, flirt with other dudes, talk to other dudes, you can do that. You can live under
00:13:57.600 my roof, under my authority. We'll train you on how to be a wife. Uh, but if you don't want to 1.00
00:14:01.320 kids yet, you can just chill. You can, you know, do all that. Anyways, I can't get this out of my
00:14:07.880 head because I'm like, in the society we're in, it makes perfect sense because we have men that
00:14:15.280 are like at an extreme deficit in leadership skills that are never going to come back from it.
00:14:20.400 You can't, over a certain age, I just think you're kind of cooked. Like if you didn't learn it by now,
00:14:25.180 you're never going to learn it. And we also have a bunch of harpy women that have nowhere to go. 1.00
00:14:29.940 and we want to incentivize good behavior and I do think men are representatives of God on earth 1.00
00:14:35.700 and God does offer paths to redemption and he is loving right and the women are not entitled
00:14:43.780 to redemption but I think men would be more open to it if they don't require all of the man's time 1.00
00:14:50.700 and attention you know I mean you can have your OF hoe she's just number three and the OF girl 1.00
00:14:57.120 right? Maybe she's an OF girl. She can teach all the other wives to gluck gluck 9,000. 1.00
00:15:03.360 Because really, um, and think about how much easier the cooking and cleaning would be in this 1.00
00:15:11.380 house. Like seven days a week of hot, fresh meals, let's say you want. Um, you, it's divided between
00:15:19.740 three women. Like, yes, there's more people to feed, right? Uh, but women don't want that many 1.00
00:15:26.560 kids so we mostly have adults that can help clean up after themselves um and under the authority of 0.95
00:15:35.540 the guy he can it would also be good for single mothers to give up custody and you could have a
00:15:42.900 second chance at love because it's a lot less cucked if he's taking on you and not your kids 0.97
00:15:48.360 anyways I don't know if that's a stupid thought it might be you could put it in the comments but 0.97
00:15:55.080 i can't get it out of my head i don't want it to be true i don't wish like i'm not even saying i 0.79
00:16:02.600 could sign up for that but i have to just admit that it logically kind of makes sense it kind of 1.00
00:16:10.760 the muslims kind of have a point um i think where it gets annoying is like when you're like a young 0.99
00:16:19.000 woman and you're like i've done nothing wrong why do i have to have a second wife right so if wife 0.95
00:16:25.960 number one is like well i didn't whore out like can i have i think if she doesn't do that like 1.00
00:16:32.200 if she's a virgin she could be entitled to monogamy um and if she's obedient like if she does nothing 0.97
00:16:38.760 wrong and follows his order orders like then she could be entitled to monogamy but if she doesn't
00:16:46.920 than cooked so i don't know um they say that it's wrong in the bible to do that but i think it kind
00:16:55.380 of makes sense if you look at like the order of any everything anyways guys like the video subscribe
00:17:00.240 and let me know what you think in the comments if you think i missed something let me know