Pearl - August 01, 2025


I Hope The Birth Rate Goes Down Not Up ｜ My Worst Takes Coffee Talks


Episode Stats

Length

7 minutes

Words per Minute

148.9691

Word Count

1,091

Sentence Count

66

Misogynist Sentences

15

Hate Speech Sentences

9


Summary

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Transcript

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00:00:00.320 What up guys, welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to my coffee talks.
00:00:06.820 So, I've been recently doing updates about things I changed my mind about over time.
00:00:12.520 It's kind of embarrassing because when I was younger, I got famous kind of fast on the internet.
00:00:20.980 But, um, and when I was younger, I would always, I hated the criticism.
00:00:31.360 She has no life experience.
00:00:32.780 Like, I hated when people said that to me.
00:00:35.540 And then I got older and I was like, well, dang, they were kind of right for like the stuff I was talking on.
00:00:45.320 And at times, I was like, I don't know why I was so confident in that opinion.
00:00:50.980 Um, so I want to give clarification or maybe nuance to one of the opinions I had about single childless women.
00:01:00.580 Um, and I guess I had this idea when I was younger, um, that there was like these women at 50 and they're like divorced, single childless, and they just have terrible lives for the rest of their lives.
00:01:13.220 Now, as I got older, I observed more mothers and I kind of started to retrospectively look back at like my, me, my friends, and just like the people I knew from my hometown and the people who had kids.
00:01:34.740 Uh, and the unfortunate thing is I realized that most women actually don't get joy from children.
00:01:42.640 And I don't know why this wasn't obvious to me because women are killing their kids.
00:01:50.480 Like there's no tomorrow.
00:01:51.660 Like, I don't know why we have this idea that women are like nurturing and born to be mothers, uh, because I'm fairly sure it's 28% of Gen Z that was aborted by women.
00:02:05.460 So, women aren't as nurturing and wanting to be parents as much as we originally thought.
00:02:16.840 And what I realized in like watching women with their kids is most women, they don't care about the kid being their own person and they don't care about like the actual kids.
00:02:28.440 What they care about is the reputation they get from the child.
00:02:32.360 So, when a woman has a kid, she's like higher status, um, and women almost use their, you know, and Ryan Stone has like a, a phrase called fuck trophies for clout.
00:02:42.880 And it's basically making fun of all these parents that like use their kids to build their reputation.
00:02:49.200 And when I was a kid, I was plastered all over Facebook.
00:02:52.780 Oh my God, it was so annoying.
00:02:54.180 Um, and it's a lot of pressure to put on a child, like, um, that you're responsible for your kids, your parents' reputation or your whatever.
00:03:07.720 Um, and that's what a lot of these mothers are doing.
00:03:11.520 They don't like love the kid.
00:03:13.300 They love themselves.
00:03:14.380 And the kid is just a way to make themselves like feel better.
00:03:19.380 Um, and almost like use the kid for clout.
00:03:24.200 And to be honest, the more I observed like women, especially women that were coming on my shows, uh, the more I saw how most of these parents, these mothers have no love for their kids at all.
00:03:37.280 Um, because you, you, you, you'll see women, like, for example, I'll just use her cause she's a public figure, Lauren Southern, uh, Candace Owens, like all, all the trad con women.
00:03:50.900 Um, and you can tell what's most important to them is their reputation because they use their kids to build their brand.
00:04:01.100 Even though, you know, there's a lot of creeps on the internet and stuff.
00:04:05.040 And who knows, maybe I'll eat these words someday and change my mind.
00:04:09.320 I don't know.
00:04:09.960 But I think about things deeply, right?
00:04:16.900 And I don't think I've met one mother that loved their kids more than they loved the clout from their kids and building their reputation.
00:04:27.040 I don't think I've met one.
00:04:28.260 And so I actually hope the birth rate falls to zero because I don't think most women deserve kids.
00:04:41.920 And when I was doing the show, these women, oh, sorry, the famous women too.
00:04:46.940 You, you see them going like, you know, I did a collab sort of thing with Candace Owens and it was like a month after she gave birth.
00:04:54.720 And I'm like, you're flying to Amsterdam, you know, she was nice enough, but it's like, do you know what I mean?
00:05:01.900 It's like, you'll see these women going on all these shows flying all over the country.
00:05:05.300 And I'm like, who's watching the children?
00:05:09.440 And I grew up with nannies.
00:05:10.960 Those aren't great for kids.
00:05:13.000 I mean, you could still turn out okay, but, you know.
00:05:18.500 Anyways, so I actually hope we have less kids because I don't think most mothers deserve children.
00:05:25.600 I think most mothers are far too selfish and self-centered to have kids.
00:05:31.420 And you're not really going to see society turn in the men's favor.
00:05:35.480 You're not going to see any, like, family law change until men start withholding their seed.
00:05:40.240 That's really the only leverage they have is, you know, who they have a child with and their time.
00:05:47.560 Um, I think that when dads have a child, they really want the kid to be their own person.
00:05:57.660 And they often, like, you'll see this with religion, let's say.
00:06:01.620 It is when a child leaves a church, right, when you have a very religious mother,
00:06:07.120 and the kid says, I don't believe this, I don't want to be a part of it.
00:06:10.460 It is hell for the kid.
00:06:12.720 Um, the kid, you know, has to go through bloody murder screaming in order to break away from the church.
00:06:23.020 Where the dad will respect the kid's opinion, right?
00:06:26.320 The dad, you know, and that's why you almost see, like, in the religious community,
00:06:30.800 a lot more, like, neurotic people that are always living in fear, right?
00:06:35.220 Um, like, you'll see a lot.
00:06:41.400 If there's, if there's a dad that doesn't respect it, it's usually high in neurosis.
00:06:46.820 That part doesn't matter, sorry.
00:06:48.300 But, yeah, so, I get older, and I really, I don't think most mothers deserve children.
00:06:56.140 I really don't.
00:06:57.680 I don't.
00:06:58.980 I want to see less women having children until we figure out how to not be selfish, ungrateful women.
00:07:08.060 So, anyways, guys, let me know what you think.
00:07:10.440 Maybe I'm wrong.
00:07:11.500 Um, these are just my observations living in this society.
00:07:15.080 So, I don't know.
00:07:16.060 Like the video on your way out.
00:07:17.440 Subscribe to the channel, and I'll see you next time.