Pearl - December 08, 2025


INCREDIBLE： A Women Says Not To Get Divorced. Beta-Bux Pipeline？


Episode Stats

Length

7 minutes

Words per Minute

202.12813

Word Count

1,526

Sentence Count

34

Misogynist Sentences

15

Hate Speech Sentences

6


Summary

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In this episode, the ladies are talking about why you shouldn t get a divorce after 7 years of marriage. They talk about the downsides of being a single mom and why you should leave your partner. They also talk about why divorce is a bad thing for your kids.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 see that's a woman that's had a canon event you can like tell when a woman's had a canon event
00:00:04.480 what up guys welcome to my reaction series so i almost never hear women say anything that makes
00:00:10.080 sense but today women are talking about why you shouldn't get a divorce so let's let's tune in
00:00:15.680 and see what the ladies are saying for all those mamas who are thinking about leaving their partners
00:00:21.040 and getting a divorce here's some things that you probably haven't considered i don't want to
00:00:24.800 to preface this by saying if you're in an abusive relationship or I mean if you have real reasons to
00:00:31.160 leave leave like this video is not for you okay but if you're like one of many women who get to
00:00:37.360 like the seven-year mark or you're in the early child rearing years and you are just fed up and
00:00:43.480 you're starting to resent your partner for everything and you don't feel like you're in
00:00:46.820 love anymore you're thinking my life would be so much easier if I was just alone here's some things
00:00:51.840 you should know first you get to do all the housework now and I know you're thinking I
00:00:57.120 already do all the housework now that's the whole reason I'm resentful I cook I clean I take care of
00:01:02.100 the kids I bear all the emotional labor well guess what when you're a single mom you really do have
00:01:08.740 to do all the work yeah because women don't notice the stuff men do for us we just kind of count what
00:01:13.900 we do for them I mean honestly women that say I did everything for him it's just usually I keep
00:01:19.060 score. Every load of laundry, every pair of sock that needs to be put away, everything that needs
00:01:25.180 to be scheduled. It's all on you and only you when you have the kids. And guess what? You don't do
00:01:31.420 everything. Are you cleaning the gutters? Are you changing light fixtures? Are you fixing the
00:01:37.460 plumbing? You are now. That's the thing. Women don't really notice the physical labor that men
00:01:43.540 do if you are or you have to you have to pay kudos i wasn't and guess what i live alone now
00:01:49.740 and now i have to do all that shit number two financially it's gonna suck for you i don't have
00:01:56.320 any real support for this but i heard somewhere so it must be true that women are financially
00:02:01.180 worse off when they divorce because we're not good with money it's not like a lot of times we'll make
00:02:05.240 more money because we have child support and a job but we're not good we spend too much partners
00:02:11.780 it prevents you from being able to take other positions in your company or maybe even other
00:02:16.180 jobs because nine times out of ten you're the primary care ticket for your kids so you can't
00:02:21.460 take that job that has you traveling you know even three times a year because you have to work that
00:02:26.900 out in your child care schedule so most women have lateral moves and takes them a lot longer to
00:02:32.820 financially get where they would be if they stayed married number three this goes along with it
00:02:38.340 you're going to spend more money i just let my kids buy the movie gran turismo on amazon
00:02:45.380 because it's the second day i have them out of a four-day stretch and i feel like i haven't
00:02:49.620 connected with them and i feel bad for leaving their father so i'm just spending money so that
00:02:54.100 they'll love me i'm also now single-handedly paying for a mortgage yeah like women don't
00:02:59.140 do the math on this stuff and men oftentimes are kind of giving us input on things we shouldn't buy
00:03:06.900 and they help us rein in our spending habits.
00:03:09.580 But when we're by ourselves, yeah, it's just...
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00:04:06.320 Keeps adding up.
00:04:07.360 House that I probably can't afford, but would have been rolling in the dough if I was sharing
00:04:12.920 this with their father.
00:04:14.240 And that gets rid of generational wealth for the kids.
00:04:16.400 Now you have nothing.
00:04:17.940 Number four, dating.
00:04:20.160 Dating sucks.
00:04:21.940 Now listen, I have a boyfriend and he is amazing and he has kids and I have love in my heart
00:04:26.680 for his kids and he has love in my heart for my kids.
00:04:29.440 But you know what?
00:04:29.960 He's not their dad.
00:04:31.720 He's not their dad.
00:04:33.040 And he's never going to be their dad.
00:04:35.140 even if yeah you can't you can't replace their father get married and he was to be a stepdad
00:04:40.140 he is never going to give them the love that their own father has and i'm lucky to even be
00:04:46.520 in a relationship because when you are single in your late 30s early 40s it is slim pickings
00:04:53.400 and number five is just the soul crushing guilt that you feel every day for disrupting your
00:04:58.200 children's lives and look the reasons i got a divorce are really none of anybody's business
00:05:03.260 and I know that there is no evidence that my life could have gone any other way than the way that it
00:05:10.060 has gone. But I will never know what would have happened if I tried harder. And that guilt keeps
00:05:20.600 me up at night and it pays my therapist really well. Oh, and she's got a therapy bill. And you
00:05:25.880 could say, but it's so much healthier for your kids to model better relationship behavior. You're
00:05:30.100 gonna have different problems with different people kids don't want to grow up in a household
00:05:33.700 where their parents are fighting either well you know they don't want they don't want to commute
00:05:38.100 back and forth between parents every single week they don't really want that either turns out so
00:05:42.820 listen i'm exactly where i'm supposed to be my ex is exactly where he's supposed to be we're healing
00:05:48.980 we're happy but ladies think about these things if you're thinking about getting a divorce see
00:05:54.260 that's a woman that's had a canon event you can like tell when a woman's had a canon event um
00:05:58.980 where she actually felt the consequence and there's a maturity that comes with it and that's
00:06:03.060 what men hope to get from older women but a lot of times they just don't get it like if men date
00:06:08.180 older they expect some more maturity and that's just not the case with most older women for all
00:06:14.500 those moments let's see the next one i got one piece of advice if you're married and you're
00:06:20.420 struggling in your marriage stay in that like do not divorce i made the mistake of divorcing after
00:06:26.180 14 years thinking there was something out here that you know maybe will be like my yeah she goes
00:06:31.380 out and gets pumped and dumped um but again it's the marriage to get for resources she didn't get
00:06:35.620 the tingles for him divorce tried to find the tingles couldn't lock down the tingles because
00:06:40.020 didn't have the qualifications told me no there ain't no no i'm actually considering calling his
00:06:47.300 ass back because dating out here is rough i got one piece of advice yeah so a lot of women are
00:06:55.700 going to get divorced and they do see the consequences of their actions but i don't see
00:07:00.420 a lot of women actually regret it i don't i don't really buy it when they say that because i've never
00:07:05.860 seen a woman beg for a man back i've seen men beg for women back but never women begging for men
00:07:10.820 all right whatever um single mothers keep taking your l's so i can keep reacting i love you guys
00:07:17.140 keep up the good work and keeping me employed forever um i really like the first woman i thought
00:07:22.420 she had some good stuff to say and i barely ever say that about single moms so thanks for watching
00:07:26.980 guys like the video and i'll see you next time