Pearl - October 29, 2024


Is SOCIAL MEDIA Just A LOSS For MEN？ Is It Any GOOD For RELATIONSHIPS？


Episode Stats


Length

14 minutes

Words per minute

175.75772

Word count

2,567

Sentence count

57

Harmful content

Misogyny

18

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Toxicity

8

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Hate speech

8

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Summary

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In this episode of Pearl Daily, Pearl talks about how women humiliate men in relationships and why they are causing issues for men in their relationships. She also talks about the humiliation rituals that women do to men and how they make them feel bad about themselves.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily. This is the Audacity Network and I am your host, Pearl.
00:00:08.200 We are going to be talking about humiliation rituals and why they are causing issues for men
00:00:15.220 in relationships. Another way that women humiliate men is posting screenshots and DMs 1.00
00:00:22.260 of men that hit on them. You see this all the time on social media. A guy slides into a girl's DMs
00:00:29.680 um i've even had this happen to me where i ask someone and really guys it's a copy and paste
00:00:36.060 message these women think they're so special where you dm them to come on the show and they 1.00
00:00:41.880 post it we have a tendency to use these relationship stories the texts the all of this stuff for
00:00:48.760 content to build a brand right it really just turns into a humiliation ritual for guys where
00:00:56.200 women get together and collectively decide how bad of wives we can be and get away with it 1.00
00:01:02.520 i mean it's like we get together we we get body positivity and we're like how fat can we get
00:01:08.380 guys are you gonna accept this you guys do it there's always i've seen 300 pound fiance
00:01:13.540 what one i don't know who it's gonna be in the chat matthew is it you anthony someone does it
00:01:20.560 the women they get together and think how can we we can't can we get start only fans and be sex 1.00
00:01:26.840 workers and get a husband and they look at the guys and the guys are like well fine and then
00:01:32.940 it's like we get together and we say can we be super old and still can we like go out do whatever
00:01:38.740 we want then get together and then be really old be 40 years old and still get married
00:01:44.000 and we look at the guys and the guys are like look we're desperate i don't know what to tell
00:01:48.900 it we're it's been a year it's been a year yeah fine fine old lady come on good enough i mean this 1.00
00:01:55.460 is this is what's going on and we get together and we say can we broadcast our whole life the
00:02:01.540 men won't accept that and then you know one girl starts and the men are like she's really hot 0.97
00:02:08.100 she's really attractive be so much work to go get a new wife fine i i and i'm gonna show you 1.00
00:02:13.860 what keeps what keeps going then you get the i think men kind of do a cost benefit analysis
00:02:21.700 of how likely is this breakup is she gonna how much will she ruin my reputation if this doesn't 1.00
00:02:28.260 work out is she just gonna do we have a lot of mutual friends okay she might ruin my reputation 1.00
00:02:34.740 in the friend group but they know me i mean we could get through that but the worst is what zach
00:02:41.300 brian is going through rights right now love your music zach great music but zach brian recently
00:02:48.340 dumped brianna chicken fry that's not her actual last name but brianna chicken fry actually dumped 1.00
00:02:55.120 her last boyfriend who was in her friend group obviously because the biggest name in country
00:03:01.320 music asked her to be his girlfriend and she said sorry sorry chad or sorry brian or whatever his
00:03:10.160 name was and she said I'm gonna go date this rock star over here I know you've been great this has
00:03:16.960 been a great year and she got into a relationship with him like two three weeks now I guess he
00:03:25.040 dumped her through an Instagram story now I'm not saying that's the right way to break up with
00:03:32.320 somebody but you know she had no remorse when she left her ex-boyfriend for the superstar and now
00:03:39.180 she's got a breakup video and I just got no sympathy I mean like I say this over and over
00:03:46.140 again I think what did you expect he's a superstar you know I mean they can just do that they can go
00:03:52.940 to another college town get the next 22 year old and boom you're done to Zach posting on his
00:03:59.000 Instagram that we broke up and I had no idea that post was going up uh he didn't text me he didn't
00:04:06.160 call me i just look up to a bunch of texts being like are you okay and i'm like did my dad die
00:04:11.120 and yeah so i'm like completely blindsided by that i also genuinely feel like i haven't
00:04:18.780 like you see how small my face is i've been crying for like five days straight
00:04:22.480 and sorry if this video is going to be a lot of jumping around but i i'm just i'm at the point
00:04:30.800 where it's like someone in the chat said she destroyed her future and her present guys can we
00:04:36.520 stop capping let me get this straight you guys wouldn't date her I mean I'm not saying she's a 0.96
00:04:43.120 10 okay I mean she's cute but cute gets you a lot these days American women are fat we're super 1.00
00:04:49.180 overweight so I mean I see rich men ending up with cute women I'm not saying it should be like
00:04:57.580 that. I didn't, I didn't ask the market to be inflated, but no, I mean, her future will be
00:05:03.020 fine. Riley, Riley Reed just got married. I know what you guys are saying. Well, it's not going to
00:05:07.840 be with the men that the women want. Like they're not going to be able to get the men they want. And 1.00
00:05:12.480 guys, we're never happy. We could get the men we want. And then we're still not happy. I mean,
00:05:19.160 Tom Brady just got divorced. I mean, that's going to happen anyway. We just, we like the,
00:05:24.720 the chase i guess the thrill i that's just and you know that'll be available for a lifetime
00:05:30.720 shout out to dating apps now i know it'll get less every time but unfortunately society just
00:05:36.800 allows women to win so yeah matthew says we're done with that type of women i'm sure you are 1.00
00:05:43.200 but that doesn't change the fact that somebody will do it somebody will how can you give someone
00:05:51.200 everything and like love them so unconditionally like through stuff that you shouldn't brianna i
00:05:57.040 gotta be honest i bet your ex-boyfriend thought the same thing and you left him for a superstar
00:06:02.240 i mean look i'm not here to judge you know i mean most women are gonna do the same thing sorry
00:06:08.000 fellas but i mean just being realistic let's when when have we really done the right thing
00:06:13.600 ever sorry but so but that that was what you chose so you said let me go after the highest risk like
00:06:23.860 in terms of risk of everything like risk of getting dumped risk of getting cheated on risk
00:06:30.700 of catching an std i would say rock stars superstars i would put at the top of that list
00:06:37.900 the highest risk it's do we feel bad for the men when they invest in dogecoin and go broke
00:06:45.480 hell no you you think well what did you expect you got a really risky coin you could have bought
00:06:51.140 bitcoin or the u.s dollar not that any of those are not stable these days but you guys see what
00:06:57.900 i'm saying you could go for a more stable one but then what we do is we say let me let me go
00:07:03.240 date a rock star and get surprised when i get dumped because you just love you like you see
00:07:08.620 the good in them like how can you oh this is so embarrassing talking too much the next story that
00:07:17.140 i found online was alex cooper who is now going to be married again talking too much now there are
00:07:25.380 men that will accept things right there are men that will accept a shady past right there are men
00:07:32.880 that will accept previous kids there are men that will accept a lot being overweight being chubby
00:07:42.080 maybe you not doing all of the household chores that happens all the time but do you know what
00:07:46.400 makes it worse when a man is so gracious to accept us with all of our flaws and we brag about it
00:07:53.600 online why so alex cooper is now telling the story of how she contracted an std and had it
00:08:03.280 for four years slept with a bunch of men during those four years by the way she got it at 23. 1.00
00:08:09.920 four years later met her husband still had the incurable std and how he accepted her with it
00:08:16.080 now that was very gracious of him but now you're telling the world and all of his work colleagues
00:08:21.840 are going to know that he is marrying a woman with an incurable std point i really wanted to
00:08:29.180 tell people like i really really did but i had i feel like people will understand this like i had
00:08:34.760 been keeping it to myself for so fucking long like i didn't even know how to talk about it i 0.93
00:08:40.400 didn't even know how to bring it up i didn't want to relive and tell the paris story and then have 0.97
00:08:44.180 to be like i did lie i actually had sex with him and i think i was just scared to vocalize one of
00:08:49.540 my biggest fears, which was the possibility that this mistake I made years ago was going to impact
00:08:56.840 my fertility. And I was extremely emotional because Matt was the first person I had dated that
00:09:03.420 had me realize I even wanted to have kids. I, for a while growing up, like really doubted if I wanted
00:09:09.920 to have children. And Matt was the first person that I was like, oh my God, without a doubt, I
00:09:14.220 want to have children with this man. So a week and a half later, my test results came back from
00:09:19.520 the colopscopy and my doctor called me and told me that she was concerned about the HPV. She said
00:09:26.640 she would recommend that I get a leap procedure. So I immediately googled it and I'm trying to
00:09:35.200 understand like what is a leap procedure? Like how invasive is it? Like will I have downtime? Like I
00:09:40.940 just went down a spiral mentally and emotionally and I just started to break down. And I was also
00:09:46.180 just like so exhausted from carrying this information by myself for so long. And also
00:09:50.600 because of the experience that I associated with it. So I remember I got to a breaking point when
00:09:58.440 I knew I needed to go in for the sleep procedure that I finally told Lauren and I just told her
00:10:04.780 everything. We were like having wine one night and I like had like my second glass and I like
00:10:10.040 just fucking started bawling. And I told her everything. I told her about Paris. 0.96
00:10:14.420 i told her how scared i was i told her i didn't know what to do i was terrified about this procedure
00:10:20.460 that like i couldn't fully understand and i was reading online about it and like so many people
00:10:25.040 are saying like i'll be fine then there are so many people that say like it's super painful and
00:10:28.200 like traumatizing like i was just very confused and most importantly i was freaking out because
00:10:33.480 all i wanted to do was tell matt but i was afraid of how he would react and for context hpv does not
00:10:41.620 affect men want to just google something really quick really really quick does hpv affect men
00:10:52.100 most men with hpv don't have symptoms but others may develop genital warts yes cancer hpv is
00:11:00.280 associated with several cancers in men including anal penile tonsils throat yeah so this std she
00:11:08.820 He was going around and sleeping with other guys for four years and potentially giving
00:11:14.080 them cancer.
00:11:15.060 He obviously can carry it, but it doesn't do any harm to them.
00:11:19.200 That's just not true.
00:11:20.380 That is, that's not true, Alex.
00:11:22.420 I don't know why you're saying that to make yourself feel better.
00:11:24.940 Not true.
00:11:26.160 Not true.
00:11:27.120 False, false, false.
00:11:29.100 Oh my gosh.
00:11:30.180 So they're just spreading it. 1.00
00:11:31.560 Like nothing is happening to this man's penis with HPV. 0.75
00:11:34.200 so many men probably have hpv um but it only like actually like medically affects women negatively 0.85
00:11:40.840 so i wasn't worried that matt would be angry that i like gave something to him and i didn't know
00:11:45.640 also if i had actually given it to him like there is like a chance that he didn't get it
00:11:49.080 i was more afraid because oh my gosh this was a new relationship and we had just started dating
00:11:55.720 and it's awkward to be like yeah i have an std and you should go get checked and we were like
00:12:01.560 starting to get more serious so i was like this is like but you see some some men opt into their
00:12:07.960 own destruction this woman lied about an incurable std that could give you cancer he said you know 1.00
00:12:13.480 what let me give her my assets too what i want to do and i not what i want to bring up but i knew i
00:12:19.880 was going to have to be honest about it i scheduled my leap procedure and that night i told matt
00:12:26.120 we were having dinner at his house and I remember like I was so nervous I like
00:12:32.660 went to the bathroom like 10 times like looking myself in the mirror like
00:12:35.120 practicing like how you know when you're doing that though when you're like I
00:12:38.660 need to like I'm randomly bringing this thing up like what's the good in like
00:12:43.400 what's a good time like when he's cleaning okay yeah but you guys get the
00:12:46.520 idea you know she got lucky enough to get a good-looking guy who said you know
00:12:51.320 know what, Alex, I'll accept you. I love you. And that wasn't enough. She had to tell everyone else.
00:12:58.200 No. Why? A woman goes absolutely mega viral on TikTok because she blasted her husband 1.00
00:13:10.140 about his suspected cheating in Vegas, proceeds to throw his clothes over the balcony, and then
00:13:18.020 makes a slew of videos explaining why she did that. So he's claiming nothing happened, but he
00:13:23.560 doesn't remember anything. He was drugged. How dare I question him? How dare I be mad? And he's
00:13:28.820 turning it back on me, telling me I have no compassion. I'm psychotic. Our divorce is going 0.99
00:13:34.680 to be epic. Just, he said the most out of pocket shit to me. An innocent man doesn't act that way. 1.00
00:13:41.940 They just don't. If you're innocent and your wife is throwing your clothes off the balcony because
00:13:47.260 she thinks you cheated you're gonna go well let me let her get this out and then i'll prove that i 0.66
00:13:51.660 didn't no and then finally when her audience her community took action against her husband
00:14:03.500 she came back to the internet with her tails between her legs and it's kind of epic yes it's
00:14:10.700 entertaining but we can take something from this we can learn from yeah so again back to
00:14:19.820 fights on the internet little does he know little does he know she's recording it
00:14:26.940 for the world to see and making a post about his masculinity anyways guys like the video
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