Pearl - March 28, 2026It's DANGEROUS When Women Think
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Is modern women's curiosity getting the best of us? is it killing the cat, or is it just propelling it forward? In this episode, Doug and Sean talk about the impact of modern women s curiosity on the dating world.
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So all the way from Eve to AI, the curiosity has killed the cat, literally.
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Is modern women's curiosity getting the best of us?
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But I think it's very prominent that, like, women tend to be curious about their exes a lot.
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and it's a very sad one too i'm sorry to say i have this personal experiences and they're not
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new they're like uh my observations are like from 15 years ago or some and it hasn't changed
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can you give me a specific story yeah sure uh uh there was uh there was a woman that i really
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really cherished and we have lived together for uh for a long time and before uh she was
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with me she was with that some other dude who who was actually he was like uh you know
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he was the guy you know he was getting older chicks and and all that but uh i took this
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girl away from him and we moved in another town we lived there for uh for i think it was two years
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but that was a long time ago that's when the economic crisis happened and we had to return
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back home you know and she got right back with him right back to the axe so she was curious about
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what would happen with the axe yeah i don't know and they are now they have a they have a kid
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together all that you know so i lost her basically but i am seeing these trends uh just like uh
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i'm in the passenger seat right now i don't i'm not in the dating world i don't want to be
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i am perfectly fine with being alone you know but i'm seeing this uh this is a trend thanks
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for calling in danny i appreciate it hold on um doug mpa can you cook a little longer i need to
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let my dog out hey that women's curiosity is costing society men children it's costing us
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well we all have to pay for it tax dollars you know uh child support alimony we have to pay for
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women's curiosity student loan debt a lot of it is women's geeky curiosity credit card debt the
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the 85 percent of the financial decisions that women make now it's not for their families it's
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not for their kids it's not for any of that it's for women's curiosity tell me i'm lying guys tell
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me i'm lying and and guys remember men will go back on a lifestyle men will deny themselves
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opportunities for a family for a wife for society women will not do that yeah how many times have
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you seen on tick tock or instagram where women say that that they can't they are unable to deny
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themselves you know uh gifts traveling experiences men the biggest example that men could deny
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themselves like curiosity is the midlife crisis remember the guy it was a whole trope back in the
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of the day the guy gets older his kids get out of the house and then he buys that corvette or he
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does the things he he wanted to do when he was 20 he was always curious that whole time what driving
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a corvette would be like a riding of a harley or something and he waited 25 years huh and you
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already know he's spending like 15 percent of whatever she spent over the years for his curiosity
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Society is paying the bill for women's curiosity right now.
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So what do you think is women's curiosity getting the best of them?
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uh i mean i would say certainly they like their curiosity right like i mean they like sort of the
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emotional ups and downs and certainly my stock portfolio in the you know consumer discretionary
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category is doing quite well i don't know if you guys remember that uh white girl index that came
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out that basically tracks like apple lululemon starbucks alta beauty you just see those stocks
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just go up like crazy right so i think uh social media has really opened their eyes to what's
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possible whether it's dating or whether it's spending on vacations or what you know is kind
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of possible in terms of a lifestyle that they want to buy and i think at the end of the day
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they are getting what they want whether it's debt funded or whether you know they have a job to buy
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it in cash so it depends how you see it right like for folks who are invested in those kind of
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companies they're doing well the girls the way they see it is they get the emotional highs ups
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and downs now maybe on the back end of life they're not as happy but you know they had a good
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30 40 year run I think they're happy with it right so uh you know it just depends on like what stage
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of life that they're currently in certainly you see women as they get into their 50s and they're
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single and or 60s they tend to be a lot more bitter and jaded because a lot of that curiosity
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no longer hits the high that they want uh and I think that's when they become a lot more regretful
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but it's hard to say right people always think the grass is greener a lot of these women may
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have had kids and then they regret not having done all the single girl stuff so i think they're
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going to be bitter either ways either way that's so true yeah like i've never seen women that are
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like 50 plus 60 plus that are just like very happy and bubbly people it's very rare even if they have
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kids it's like the ones that had kids wish they didn't have kids and the ones that had kids wish
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they or didn't have kids wish they did it's like he'll never be 100 and i think part of it
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it might be just biologically driven like they're just very neurotic bitter people uh like i think
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that's just how god made them and it's unfortunate but uh you know it's just you just have to ask
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yourself how many older women have you met that are just happy very positive people to meet who
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aren't like amish right like they haven't they haven't been able to see all that other stuff
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that's out there they've lived in the mountaintops or wherever right they live in the middle of
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nowhere so there's nothing to envy and even then they're crabby too i mean i've met near amish
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women that are still it transcends i want to add something else so somewhere along the way i think
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this is female empowerment and feminism but women are under this weird idea that they can control
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outcomes so they'll be curious about something and then expect a certain outcome and when it
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doesn't turn out to how they want it they get upset and once again everyone else has to pay for
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it would you agree or disagree i would agree and i can tell you a story about that when i joined my
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latest company one of the like senior vice presidents was very feminist like and she
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would make comments like when she joins a lot of her virtual meetings she likes to count how many
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women are basically joining the call because she wants to measure how diversity is improving
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And then slowly but surely, our company hired a C-level exec who's a female who then hires
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And very quickly, within like six months, the organization becomes very politically toxic
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and our C-level exec is just working people to death like crazy.
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And just last week, you know, we're like on a, you know, a offsite trip and she's just
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complaining nonstop about how, you know, she's being worked like, you know, basically worked
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to death and how she's just miserable doing this.
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And it's like, you know, they will complain about this sort of feminist utopia.
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Like if only a company operated like Bumble and then when everything goes to shit, they'll be the first ones complaining when they get exactly what they want.
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I'm going to drop you and bring up the other Sean.
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Feel free to add in any stories or observations you've had.
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i got a big one all right so hold on man did you see did you see the robot that was just at
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washington like at the white house they had a robot figure eight ai initiative around robotics
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and ai and they had melinda trump millennia trump there no front row and center okay now let's look
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up what she has done in her life to know anything about robots and ai oh yeah curiosity getting the
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best right early beginnings was here she moved to new york she became an entrepreneur because she
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sold jewelry on qvc and she grew and she also sold a skincare line then she opened up a media film
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a documentary about herself then after that she's in this new initiative and in the initiative you
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ready for this this is the curiosity messing it up the core philosophy of it is to free up students
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time and then that purpose will allow kids to be able to play outside in sports and activities
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so we're using and leveraging ai in a way where our students can be prepared so they can go outside
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and finish school very quickly and go play with the flowers and go play with dogs while china is
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probably not doing that you think they're doing that i don't you think they're putting women in
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charge of ai and robotics with zero background and educating the whole entire nation in it
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they're a leading initiative did you see the council it was just women only pearl it was no
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men around the robot was even female ai council let me see it was ridiculous i was sitting back
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like really bruv oh my gosh hold on guys i'm gonna pull this up we just put women in charge of the ai
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for the children for the future generation think about look at that think about all the qualified
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men that are like have been working their whole lives entire lives and are like experts and like
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ai just to watch these random like women get the job has that ever happened to you guys where you
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just watched a woman like take a position you wanted uh facts you know what i might yeah i'll
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put one in private tab but one of the uh instagrams is not a real place coming up is all these female
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firefighters that keep failing the firefighter test in fact i might put one in the they're just
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curious they know for a fact that they shouldn't be there but they're not they can't even pass
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half the test and they keep trying over and over and over again it's curiosity guys curiosity is
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going to get people killed the female police officers they have a 30 for 30 where they want
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30 police officers to be uh women firefighters it's it's all curiosity and it's going to get
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get people hurt and get people killed uh danny here a hug for you pearly you're a nine out of
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k nine out of ten i don't care what clav says good night thank you for the super chat that was
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very kind of you all right guys right now we've gone through all the callers so we're just going
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to do a panel i'm going to bring the other sean back up and we're going to talk about the general
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topic um however if any of you would like to call in um feel free if you have a story and i'll give
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you the stage or whatever um but until then uh we're just going to bring everyone up so sean
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welcome back okay well oh yeah yeah he's there somewhere i'll wait i'll wait till you he comes
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back but yeah um i have a story i told you so like curiosity women's curiosity has rewritten
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history to paint women as these victims that could have would have should have and in my life
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you know i know so many women where their wife no the the mother was married to a man of value
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or you know a good man they taught their daughter to be independent and these mothers curiosity
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they lived vicariously through their daughters and now their daughters are out here alone and
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i'm sorry guys but there's not there's a reason why these women didn't leave their husbands
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because they understood that there's nothing that their husband could have put them through
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that would have been as bad as being out here alone and now their daughters are out here alone
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with no relationship skills no prospects no ability to get married and coupled with a man
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and yeah it's actually incredible um how many women from you know quote-unquote traditional
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country said that to me when i was doing my interviews like nigeria i would say was the
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number one place i heard that from yeah like the nigerian immigrants to the uk they would all say
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their mom told them not to be housewives like they were exactly this is why you can't blame
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feminism brev it's just women like there was no feminism around when eve did it so all the way
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from eve to ai the curiosity has killed the cat literally and we keep just propelling it it's
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ridiculous at this point oh here we're gonna react this firefighter that's like the final stage of
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red pill it is it isn't feminism it's women oh wait hold on there you go right all right let's
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Now, imagine this woman saving you from a fire.
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can you imagine her pulling you out of a burning guy
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i'd be upset we only have to watch like the first like 50 seconds of it
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and she's gonna get the full pay of a firefighter full pay full benefits take your time look at
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she said take your time insane that's incredible that's incredible i mean women it's just so
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embarrassing like i'm just embarrassed to be a woman sometimes because this is just like it's
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embarrassing it's like what are we doing guys and then like just bl click on the second link
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to the that one's shorter okay black women what are you guys doing oh my god look at i mean at
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white women we have our problems too so i'm not even trying to judge but like it's just
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embarrassing it's like the white women are transitioning their kids the black women like
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maybe why don't you just think i can't do it do you know what i mean like men will go into a career
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field and realize they suck and just say do you know what like i'm not smart enough to be a pilot
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Or I'm not, you know, I just don't have it in me to, you know, they'll realize they suck.
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Someone will tell you long, as a man, someone will tell you long before you have to realize it.
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Imagine Doug MPA is trying to be a firefighter and he's failing.
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okay i'll sit down um so so sir how's it going good good good how's the wife how's the kid how's
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the girlfriend whatever you got uh you know i live alone sir and um hey but but my cat is my cat and
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my dogs are doing really well though yeah yeah that's good i would live alone if i was you too
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so shout out to that so let's get straight to it doug your performance has been whack
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But if you say a guy's performance, say the problem, and then give a timeline and a solution, most guys won't even talk back.
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it's good don't worry about it man i got a solution we got everything you know it's been
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the 30 days so i'm gonna go straight to the chase all right it's been 30 days what do you think
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about your performance in the last 30 days um i i know that i've improved since our last meeting i
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know that for sure yeah there has been some level of doing better right remember yeah yeah you're
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doing better but you're not doing where we need you to be all right doug that's been the biggest
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issue and so what exactly do you mean by need say it again one more time so you said that i'm not
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doing what you need me to do so define what you mean by me yeah the team needs you to bring
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the ladder outside the truck if you can't do that doug we have some problems right now there's a lot
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of other things that you can do in supporting us and volunteering at the fighter fights but you
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cannot be a fighter fighter if you can't pull that ladder out of the truck people lives hang
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in the balance so this is what i'm gonna do for you you're not gonna be working here no more that's
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for sure but we still have an opportunity for you to volunteer we still need great people in
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administration and logistics and that's you that is your superpower that's where you actually
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bring supreme out of the rest of the team so if you like to do that i got the rest of the team
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But if not, we got you some actual good contacts