Pearl - March 13, 2026


James Fishback： ＂Single Fathers Are Bad!＂ WHAT!？


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5 minutes

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1,205

Sentence count

27

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Misogyny

11

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Toxicity

9

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Hate speech

7

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In this episode, Myron and I talk about single parenting, single fatherhood, and why single fathers are a problem in our society. We also talk about what it means to be a woman in the 21st century and why we should stop comparing women to men.

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00:00:00.000 a single father is always going to be worse than a mom and a dad at home right no no oh my god 1.00
00:00:05.700 being raised by a father it would be peace on earth of course single parenthood is awful but 1.00
00:00:10.840 i'm saying if we compare apples to apples a single mom versus single dad myron myron no
00:00:15.600 don't even concede that do not concede that no let's do better every single time it depends on
00:00:24.560 the father and why he's a single father because a lot of men are single fathers because them
00:00:29.200 Well, it's because you said that fathers do better at raising kids.
00:00:32.040 And I was like, well, really, they don't.
00:00:33.520 That depends on the father.
00:00:34.460 Men are better at that.
00:00:35.860 But again, I think the problem is we are accepting, we're throwing in the towel to the sinful world that we live in that says that 70% of black kids are going to grow up in a home alone with just one parent. 0.76
00:00:47.020 Right.
00:00:47.420 These are things we can actually change.
00:00:49.660 And so Myron does have a point that a lot of this stuff is happening, but it's not necessarily something that's a permanent feature of our society.
00:00:56.800 It just has to be.
00:00:57.380 Right.
00:00:57.780 I mean, look, in the 1970s, there was no Tinder.
00:01:00.800 You probably dated somebody you met at church.
00:01:03.200 My grandmother married my grandfather, a World War II vet, literally after the third date.
00:01:08.680 That would be unheard of now.
00:01:10.360 And that was probably pretty common back in the 1940s and 50s.
00:01:13.820 There was a lot of trauma, though.
00:01:15.400 Yeah, no, but the same women that were married in the 40s and 50s. 1.00
00:01:20.740 Sorry, I do not feel good to them.
00:01:22.840 The same women that were married in the 40s and 50s had the highest divorce rate ever in the 70s. 0.83
00:01:27.780 though men also used to sell their daughters at like 12 for the fattest cow and things like that
00:01:32.560 so that that was not in the 1950s no but like the past is also very toxic oh i'm not saying that the
00:01:38.720 past was perfect but there are literally people who are selling their daughters right now in the
00:01:41.500 middle east i mean like yeah i mean just to because i want to make sure i like so because
00:01:46.480 the whole discussion started with like you know what men are attracted to versus what women are
00:01:49.880 attracted to and women have this false sense like we're attracted to the same things that you guys 0.98
00:01:53.100 are because you mentioned a bunch of when i asked you what what would that guy want you mentioned a
00:01:58.180 bunch of masculine things i make a bunch of money i'm educated you know i'm successful etc you led
00:02:02.560 with masculine traits that men don't really care about that's why i gave you the equivalent hey
00:02:06.400 what about my designer shoes and my wallets you're like uh that doesn't benefit me that's exactly how
00:02:10.200 we feel when women talk about their money in their career but i mean this is based on me being in a
00:02:14.780 i had a relationship for three years 10 years and one year so this is based on my experience like
00:02:20.340 that's fine that's fine but what i'm saying is that men aren't attracted to that in general like
00:02:25.740 uh that's actually not true i think it's i think it's i think mine's right i think
00:02:29.340 only i mean they the only reason they see any benefit to it is you're not spending as much 0.95
00:02:36.100 time whoring but now you can whore at work so what up guys my name is pearl davis i have a 0.97
00:02:41.600 youtube show and i'm a cultural commentator if your wife girlfriend or situationship is acting 0.99
00:02:47.060 up you can hire me to make a personalized video to break the news i can tell her to lose weight 1.00
00:02:52.740 stop being a bitch stop spending too much money get back in the kitchen or stop being a whore 1.00
00:02:57.780 is your buddy simping for an overweight mid i will tell him to stop contributing to hoflation today 1.00
00:03:04.340 find me on shout out for only 2.99 you can put your wife in her place today 1.00
00:03:09.620 and you can get your friends to stop simping the sarah stocks of the world kind of ruined that
00:03:15.460 you know what i mean the men the men that women want the the most desirable men don't give a 1.00
00:03:20.980 about how much money you make at all at all they don't that's not true i just listen that
00:03:26.660 might not be the case with your own personal history but as a society yet men generally don't
00:03:31.060 care how much woman makes they're gonna use you if they do yeah so so going back to what i was
00:03:35.380 saying so we don't we don't care about that right so that's the first thing i wanted to establish
00:03:38.660 second thing i was going to establish was though i know some of you guys don't like you know you
00:03:42.820 You might disagree with the concept of a man having a high body count.
00:03:46.560 What I'm arguing, I'm not here to argue the morality of it.
00:03:49.160 I'm here to argue that if a man has a high body count, he is doing something right and he has higher sexual market value.
00:03:55.580 He's doing something right because it is a skill set.
00:03:57.620 But by our standard of a society, I don't think it's universally true.
00:04:03.540 That if a man is able to have sex with a lot of women, he's doing something right.
00:04:10.040 it depends on the woman that he's having sex with okay let me rephrase this so it's
00:04:15.140 that women don't count i'm saying a guy that has had sex a lot of women is doing something right
00:04:21.960 and has higher sexual market value in something i agree he has higher sexual market value but
00:04:26.700 that's what i'm trying to say yes if if you are in demand and you had sex with more people you
00:04:31.900 by definition have higher sexual market value yes but i think the but that doesn't work for women 1.00
00:04:35.700 is my point but when i think the disagreement we're having here myron is that sexual market
00:04:39.820 value is everything that you can impute all this value from sexual market value and say
00:04:43.820 a guy's entire personality his traits can be summed up by sexual market value well no it is
00:04:50.980 because men we have so for women their predominant trait for their sexual market value is their looks
00:04:56.140 yeah as a man you have multiple traits that go get encompassed your sexual market value because
00:05:01.880 women aren't as well they are kind of shallow but women have far more uh standards that we have to 1.00
00:05:07.300 check off so as a guy if you're able to get a lot of women by definition you have higher sexual 0.91
00:05:11.120 market value because women don't just look about care about looks looks are a component sexual 1.00
00:05:14.620 market value does not make you a better person are you gay i just can't oh my god this is who 0.99
00:05:20.740 we're gonna have making decisions on florida no you have not won me over 0.99
00:05:25.120 Thank you.