Pearl - LA Vlog and Street Interview with @ShivAiyar

00:00:00.000 what up guys welcome to my vlog today we are in los angeles california and i'm going on a podcast

00:00:07.280 tour so for those of you that don't know oftentimes you get a lot of invites to different podcasts

00:00:13.760 when you work in media so what we tend to do is a bunch of them get piled up and we book a couple

00:00:19.280 of days in a certain city and just go from podcast to podcast to podcast oftentimes when you're on a

00:00:24.960 trip you'll have to build a set so this is an airbnb and you basically turn it into um like a

00:00:32.400 podcast set so a lot of people don't know where you shoot on the road you kind of do something like

00:00:36.320 this some people just have like a friend that wants to be famous and holds like a camera some people

00:00:43.440 actual producers um and shiv is new on our team so he's coming on this trip and right now i'm going

00:00:50.080 to jesse lee peterson um tomorrow i'm debating lila rose i'm doing some interviews in vegas next so

00:00:58.240 yeah i'm going to show you guys a day in the life of a youtuber on a podcast

00:01:20.080 all right guys so i just did my interview i'm at jesse lee peterson's um place it was one of the

00:01:32.000 other guys on his network that i did it with and i was just red pilling them on women they all thought

00:01:37.200 they found these special women and i just asked a couple questions like was she in a sorority what 1.00

00:01:41.840 college did she go to and you know did she get what she wanted out of you and you know obviously fell 0.99

00:01:47.840 apart as usual sorry fellas shiv has also come he got he got to meet jesse yeah yeah what'd you

00:01:53.760 think he's like a character character of himself yeah so um we got coffee and i was shiv was giving

00:02:02.400 me because i get i'm gonna read you guys my order a grande cold brew two pumps of sugar-free vanilla syrup

00:02:11.440 one cinnamon dulce um a light of vanilla sweet cream and cinnamon powder we don't have unlimited 0.91

00:02:22.320 time today okay we got shit today what did you get i just got what's called a medicine ball it's just 0.93

00:02:29.200 tea with a little bit of lemonade in it so we're gonna you had a chicago food and we're gonna judge 0.95

00:02:36.560 if la food is better than chicago food it's not but it's going to be more cloudy it's going to be more

00:02:42.480 for the ground

00:02:52.320 Maybe this is it here. 1.00

00:03:11.780 Oh shit, that's fine. 0.99

00:03:13.320 Now I look like such a... 1.00

00:03:14.320 Oh, that's cool.

00:03:15.320 There we go.

00:03:16.320 Sea scallop.

00:03:18.320 Well, thank you so much.

00:03:21.320 Alright, obviously you guys can take some of this.

00:03:24.320 Alright guys, so I'm trying food at the blue ribbon.

00:03:29.320 Alright, let's see.

00:03:35.320 It's pretty good actually.

00:03:36.320 I like the spice.

00:03:38.320 I didn't realize there was no rice in this.

00:03:41.320 Alright, I'm just gonna go right to the best thing here, which is this.

00:03:46.320 It's the fatty blue finotoro with caviar.

00:03:50.320 Can I try it too?

00:03:51.320 Yeah.

00:03:54.320 Alright, let's see.

00:03:55.320 Yeah.

00:03:56.320 That is...

00:03:57.320 That's ripped.

00:03:58.320 Wow.

00:03:59.320 That's good.

00:04:00.320 I reckon...

00:04:01.320 What do you say I wouldn't attack?

00:04:02.320 I give it a steak.

00:04:04.320 I was like, Brian should try this and we record him.

00:04:08.320 I know Brian's a steak guy.

00:04:10.320 No, that got me in trouble once.

00:04:12.320 The underage girl.

00:04:13.320 God, don't say that out loud.

00:04:15.320 I was like, don't.

00:04:16.320 No, no, no.

00:04:17.320 It's a hundred grand a month now for YouTube.

00:04:19.320 Yeah, yeah.

00:04:20.320 Alright, what up guys?

00:04:21.320 Today I'm here with my friend Shiv.

00:04:23.320 What's up?

00:04:24.320 And we were talking at dinner.

00:04:26.320 We thought of an interesting question to ask women.

00:04:28.320 So, if you got to date your celebrity crush, how much cheating would you accept?

00:04:33.320 What do you think the answers are gonna be?

00:04:35.320 I think they're all gonna lie and act like it's gonna be zero.

00:04:38.320 Or maybe they'll say like one girl if he's like overseas.

00:04:41.320 So, we'll see.

00:04:42.320 I think they're gonna say something very low.

00:04:43.320 But we all know in reality, they'll take a lot more.

00:04:46.320 Yeah, they'll do anything.

00:04:48.320 Anything.

00:04:49.320 Anything for clout. 0.98

00:04:50.320 We're in LA.

00:04:51.320 We're in the Mecca clout right here. 0.97

00:04:52.320 What are the guys?

00:04:53.320 What would the guys question be?

00:04:54.320 Name.

00:04:55.320 Name.

00:04:56.320 Okay, maybe we do...

00:04:57.320 What if...

00:04:58.320 Like if she was a 10, how much cheating...

00:04:59.320 Like how long...

00:05:00.320 Like what if a girl treated you terrible but she was a 10?

00:05:02.320 Right.

00:05:03.320 How long will you put up with it?

00:05:04.320 Something like that.

00:05:05.320 Yeah, I like that.

00:05:06.320 What's the limit?

00:05:07.320 Yeah.

00:05:08.320 Alright.

00:05:09.320 Like what would you put...

00:05:10.320 You know when like a guy gets a girl out of his league? 0.97

00:05:11.320 Totally.

00:05:12.320 And he knows that she's gonna leave.

00:05:13.320 Right.

00:05:14.320 But it's just like, I'm gonna enjoy it.

00:05:15.320 Well...

00:05:16.320 Yeah.

00:05:17.320 No, I...

00:05:18.320 Guys...

00:05:19.320 The cool part is, you know, guys will answer honestly.

00:05:20.320 You wanna do a street interview?

00:05:21.320 What'd you say?

00:05:22.320 A street interview?

00:05:23.320 A street interview?

00:05:24.320 I don't recognize you.

00:05:25.320 You're super popular, aren't you?

00:05:26.320 Maybe.

00:05:27.320 I don't know.

00:05:28.320 But I got like a logo.

00:05:29.320 Blur the logo on my shirt.

00:05:30.320 Yeah, sure.

00:05:31.320 So, do you have a female celebrity crush that you would consider like a 10?

00:05:35.320 Yes.

00:05:36.320 Alexa Demi if you're watching this.

00:05:37.320 My boy did a movie with you.

00:05:38.320 I'm around.

00:05:39.320 How much would you put up with to date her?

00:05:41.320 Like if she...

00:05:42.320 If you were dating her and she was going out to the clubs all the time without you flirting... 0.85

00:05:47.320 Like, what would you accept in order to date her? 0.99

00:05:51.320 Should I be honest, fool? 0.99

00:05:52.320 All right. 0.99

00:05:53.320 Well, I'm gonna keep it a buck.

00:05:54.320 I'm...

00:05:55.320 I'm a...

00:05:56.320 I'm a big proponent of men raising our standards.

00:05:57.320 We have to have more respect for ourselves.

00:05:59.320 Alexa, I'm a little flexible for you, baby.

00:06:01.320 Don't...

00:06:02.320 Like, come on.

00:06:03.320 Women gotta be them. 1.00

00:06:04.320 Y'all gotta do...

00:06:05.320 Live your best lives.

00:06:06.320 People gotta act in their best interest.

00:06:07.320 So, if you don't have to compromise on that and you can be supportive, then it's up.

00:06:10.320 If you're a 10, it's way up.

00:06:11.320 So, let's say you're dating her for six months and you find out that at month three she cheated on you just once.

00:06:17.320 Would you end it or would you keep it going because she's so attractive? 0.72

00:06:22.320 It's over.

00:06:23.320 It's over.

00:06:24.320 I'm sorry, baby.

00:06:25.320 I know.

00:06:26.320 It's over.

00:06:27.320 I feel like some of my friends would say cheat twice, make it right, but I'm not with it.

00:06:30.320 I'm not with it.

00:06:31.320 If it's three months in, she cheats, maybe I'll use her for three more months for clout. 1.00

00:06:36.320 For clout.

00:06:37.320 For clout.

00:06:38.320 Yeah.

00:06:39.320 You know?

00:06:40.320 Yeah.

00:06:41.320 You know, I'm not taking her seriously.

00:06:42.320 Get some grand pics out of it.

00:06:43.320 Get some, you know, Oscar red carpet out of it. 1.00

00:06:45.320 And then dump her ass. 1.00

00:06:46.320 Actually, may I add something to that? 1.00

00:06:47.320 Yeah, yeah, go ahead.

00:06:48.320 I forgot.

00:06:49.320 Dude, we're talking about a celebrity crush that's a 10, right?

00:06:51.320 Yeah.

00:06:52.320 If you're the average guy, you gotta take that, brother.

00:06:54.320 I'm sorry.

00:06:55.320 It's your come up.

00:06:56.320 You're like, she has different options.

00:06:57.320 We gotta stop acting like...

00:06:58.320 We can say Braun can do what he wants.

00:06:59.320 It's like, yo, she's up.

00:07:00.320 Yeah.

00:07:01.320 So, it's different.

00:07:02.320 It's not equal out here.

00:07:03.320 Okay.

00:07:04.320 For me personally though, baby, you know what I'm saying?

00:07:05.320 That's not how I rock.

00:07:06.320 I get down.

00:07:07.320 You see me out here moving, but...

00:07:08.320 What if she was...

00:07:09.320 She didn't cheat physically, but she flirted with a lot of other guys. 1.00

00:07:13.320 So, you know, she's at work.

00:07:15.320 All these attractive guys are coming on to her.

00:07:17.320 You've never caught her physically cheating, but she gets pretty touchy. 0.95

00:07:20.320 I'm gonna keep it a bill.

00:07:22.320 I've always had a soft spot for that.

00:07:24.320 I'm not a big fan of...

00:07:25.320 I'm not...

00:07:26.320 Because I'm not like that.

00:07:27.320 I'm a friendly guy.

00:07:28.320 I'm warm, charismatic.

00:07:29.320 I'm from the South.

00:07:30.320 But I can't do like the half in a relationship, half flirt.

00:07:33.320 Like, you have to be likable.

00:07:35.320 I get that.

00:07:36.320 But I'm not a big fan of someone who needs constant attention and validation to feel good

00:07:40.320 about themselves, especially outside of a relationship.

00:07:42.320 Not my fault.

00:07:43.320 To be honest, I would tolerate it because a basic mid girl is gonna be flirting all the time 1.00

00:07:47.320 anyway behind your back. 0.71

00:07:48.320 So it's like, if she's gonna be flirting around, getting Instagram DMs and all that crap, 0.97

00:07:53.320 make her hot and famous. 0.55

00:07:54.320 Why?

00:07:55.320 A mid girl's doing that anyway. 1.00

00:07:57.320 I see why he has the mic.

00:07:58.320 You know what I'm saying?

00:07:59.320 I feel it.

00:08:00.320 I feel it.

00:08:01.320 Does that sway your opinion, thinking about it that way?

00:08:03.320 Or do you feel the same?

00:08:04.320 I personally wouldn't date the middie that's going through that either for just me.

00:08:09.320 But I see what you're saying, bro.

00:08:10.320 You gotta, you know, it's an embargo out here.

00:08:12.320 You know, everybody gotta pay the tariff.

00:08:14.320 So what is, what is the most that you've put up with in a relationship?

00:08:18.320 Oh, I was gonna say her name, but I'm not gonna do that.

00:08:21.320 Right now.

00:08:22.320 You know who you are. 1.00

00:08:23.320 It's been a vibe, but you're crazy. 0.99

00:08:25.320 You're playing too much. 1.00

00:08:26.320 I'm not with the silly, immature stuff. 0.90

00:08:28.320 I'm gonna put this on the album too.

00:08:30.320 Yeah.

00:08:31.320 You, you look, you watch and I DMed it to you.

00:08:32.320 Yeah.

00:08:33.320 Yeah.

00:08:34.320 What was the things you were putting, what did she do?

00:08:37.320 That's a great question.

00:08:38.320 Was she jealous?

00:08:39.320 She's a girl.

00:08:40.320 Not jealous.

00:08:41.320 I say she's a girl who likes to be very entertained, even at the expense of something that's a good

00:08:49.320 thing or moving in alignment.

00:08:51.320 She has other priorities.

00:08:52.320 So the worst thing that's happened, I would say disrespect in a way that I don't think certain

00:08:57.320 people are gonna view it as because her reality is so different than mine.

00:09:00.320 Actually, her and another girl did the same thing where it's like, you can't think that

00:09:05.320 highly of me or a better way to say it would be you're used to a certain level of treatment

00:09:10.320 and being able to give that.

00:09:11.320 So anything higher or different, maybe I should say, is foreign. 1.00

00:09:16.320 So I would say a good example would be if my man was Josen her in the green right there.

00:09:22.320 And what would like, do you like to take trips?

00:09:25.320 Yeah, I travel a lot.

00:09:27.320 You travel a lot?

00:09:28.320 Have you been to like Ojai, Solvang, Santa Barbara, anything like that?

00:09:31.320 All of them.

00:09:32.320 Okay, let's say you went out there and I don't know, you're gonna link up with her for drinks

00:09:36.320 and she didn't show up.

00:09:37.320 To me, that's a deal breaker, especially in LA where you have to drive two and a half

00:09:40.320 hours to go to a crappy spot.

00:09:42.320 Yeah.

00:09:43.320 Yeah.

00:09:44.320 So I would personally like to date a girl who would be like accommodating or communicative. 0.97

00:09:48.320 Just be like, you know, take some or not.

00:09:50.320 So it was flaking.

00:09:51.320 That's what you're saying.

00:09:52.320 I think it's a little past flaking in this scenario, but yeah, I guess so.

00:09:55.320 Okay.

00:09:56.320 Can I put it this way?

00:09:57.320 You're not mad if she, if she messages you earlier in the day, like, Hey, something

00:10:00.320 came up, whatever.

00:10:01.320 But like, obviously if you get stood up, that's disrespect.

00:10:04.320 Cause now you're wasting my time.

00:10:05.320 Yeah.

00:10:06.320 So I think it's like a matter of, yeah, it's just like, for me, I have a weird thing of

00:10:09.320 like in public, if you're on my friends or my business partners, my crew and you disrespect

00:10:13.320 me, that really rubs me the wrong way.

00:10:16.320 But like you go travel.

00:10:17.320 If I don't see it, I'm not saying cheat, but like, if she's going to be whatever, like,

00:10:21.320 if you want to be annoying outside where I don't have to see it fine, but don't do that

00:10:26.320 in front of my atmosphere.

00:10:27.320 You know?

00:10:28.320 Yeah.

00:10:29.320 Yeah.

00:10:30.320 Yeah.

00:10:31.320 He's flexible ladies. 0.58

00:10:32.320 Go take that Miami trip.

00:10:33.320 It's up.

00:10:34.320 Just come back and show him some loving.

00:10:35.320 Is there something is, what do you think of the phrase cheating respectfully?

00:10:42.320 Can you, can you give me some context?

00:10:45.320 Like a derivation and a sentence, like a spelling bee.

00:10:48.320 So like, let me flip it.

00:10:50.320 Like the guy cheats.

00:10:51.320 Right.

00:10:52.320 So like, like for me, like kind of the deal I'm trying to work right now is if I go

00:10:55.320 out of the country and I cheat, Hey, no one's going to know.

00:11:00.320 We're just going to look the other way.

00:11:01.320 We're not going to talk about it.

00:11:02.320 I'm in Romania.

00:11:03.320 I'm in Japan.

00:11:04.320 I'm in India.

00:11:05.320 Who cares?

00:11:06.320 I come back.

00:11:07.320 You're exclusive to America. 0.75

00:11:08.320 What?

00:11:09.320 Your passport exclusivity.

00:11:11.320 He's local.

00:11:12.320 Yeah.

00:11:13.320 Citizenship exclusivity. 0.73

00:11:14.320 100%.

00:11:15.320 I definitely believe I'm a world citizen.

00:11:17.320 You have a great taste in your list of countries.

00:11:19.320 I would say a lot of the men that I'm around are loyal to the soil.

00:11:22.320 Shout out to food.

00:11:23.320 Shout out JT.

00:11:24.320 You know, I personally don't believe in cheating.

00:11:28.320 I think communication is everything.

00:11:31.320 Like I said earlier.

00:11:32.320 Is it?

00:11:33.320 Yeah.

00:11:34.320 We're not all equal.

00:11:35.320 So.

00:11:36.320 Really?

00:11:37.320 You communicate and it solves the problem.

00:11:39.320 Truly.

00:11:40.320 More taught.

00:11:41.320 Really?

00:11:42.320 I'm not saying that you can go do whatever you want and just be like, hey, baby, I did

00:11:44.320 it.

00:11:45.320 It's up.

00:11:46.320 But I think people tell her she's not going to freak out.

00:11:49.320 I think I would like to be with a girl that I can say who I am and what I'm going to do.

00:11:54.320 And if that's what she wants, then or she's willing to accept, then she'll accept it and

00:11:59.320 won't say that she doesn't feel a way later. 0.99

00:12:01.320 But I think cheating is like you're crazy.

00:12:04.320 Cheating is like doing something that voids your agreement.

00:12:08.320 And it's I think the reason why so many people are hurt is because they feel lied to or manipulated.

00:12:13.320 But if you're up front and like, yo, look, women think I'm attractive. 0.87

00:12:16.320 There are going to be times where I may do this, but this is where we'll always be.

00:12:19.320 And they accept that.

00:12:20.320 They accept that.

00:12:21.320 I've seen my OGs do it.

00:12:23.320 Yeah.

00:12:24.320 And that's that's what I think I'm cut from.

00:12:28.320 Hopefully you too.

00:12:29.320 You know, you do your thing in Japan.

00:12:31.320 I'm with you in Romania for sure.

00:12:33.320 I'm with you in Romania.

00:12:34.320 Well, thanks so much.

00:12:35.320 Yes, ma'am.

00:12:36.320 Thank you.

00:12:37.320 I appreciate it.

00:12:38.320 Okay.

00:12:39.320 So do you have a celebrity crush?

00:12:40.320 Um, not really.

00:12:41.320 No, he lied.

00:12:42.320 What?

00:12:43.320 Come on, come on. 0.99

00:12:44.320 Who's the woman that you would say is near perfect, nearly a 10? 1.00

00:12:47.320 I don't know why I call them perfect, but I do think I throw it back.

00:12:51.320 Morgan Traylor back when she was a monk.

00:12:53.320 It's a vibe.

00:12:54.320 She's not perfect, but a vibe.

00:12:55.320 So if you were dating her.

00:12:56.320 Okay.

00:12:57.320 And, um, what would be the most amount of disrespect you would tolerate from her?

00:13:03.320 Very little.

00:13:04.320 I don't do it.

00:13:05.320 I don't deal with disrespect.

00:13:06.320 So yeah, if she disrespect me, it's a Ravsky. 0.98

00:13:08.320 It's too many beautiful women. 1.00

00:13:09.320 What is a time where you did tolerate?

00:13:13.320 Was there ever a time where you did tolerate disrespect?

00:13:16.320 Yes, there definitely has been.

00:13:18.320 Um, what happened?

00:13:20.320 A lot of lying.

00:13:21.320 Yeah.

00:13:22.320 And I just, uh, stayed with the girl and she kept lying.

00:13:24.320 And so you think you'd be able, you didn't stay with the girl.

00:13:26.320 You didn't stay with the, you stayed with the girl before who is like a normal chick. 0.97

00:13:30.320 And the 10, you think you're going to have more willpower with.

00:13:33.320 Oh yeah.

00:13:34.320 Because I learned a lot from that situation and I'm not putting myself through that again.

00:13:38.320 What happened?

00:13:39.320 What did she do? 0.80

00:13:40.320 Oh, she just lied.

00:13:41.320 Let's just leave it at that.

00:13:42.320 Okay.

00:13:43.320 Lied about sleeping with other people.

00:13:46.320 Lied about where she, you know, lying, lying, saying, like what, what happened?

00:13:53.320 I would say she just would lie about like, uh, like where she will be, who she was with. 0.93

00:13:59.320 You know what I'm saying?

00:14:00.320 I don't have any concrete proof that she, uh, did anything with anybody else.

00:14:04.320 But, uh, I mean, if you lie that many times, you know, so it was just a pattern that kept, you know what I mean?

00:14:10.320 Yeah.

00:14:11.320 And I really liked her at the time.

00:14:12.320 So I allowed that to happen.

00:14:13.320 How old were you when you did that? 1.00

00:14:15.320 Shit. 1.00

00:14:16.320 When was that night? 1.00

00:14:17.320 Uh, I was like 24, 23.

00:14:18.320 So you were young.

00:14:19.320 Yeah.

00:14:20.320 Yeah.

00:14:21.320 So do you guys have a celebrity crush?

00:14:23.320 Um, three sevens.

00:14:25.320 So I think for me, um, I think for me it's Ben Shelton.

00:14:29.320 Okay.

00:14:30.320 So if you guys got the chance to date them, would you be okay with cheating?

00:14:35.320 No.

00:14:36.320 No?

00:14:37.320 No, I wouldn't.

00:14:38.320 No.

00:14:39.320 What if you never, what if it was just in other countries and like not where you live?

00:14:44.320 He's the perfect guy, but just on trips sometimes.

00:14:48.320 No, I wouldn't be okay with that.

00:14:51.320 No?

00:14:52.320 No.

00:14:53.320 Have you guys ever, um, been in a situation where a guy cheated before?

00:14:57.320 Not really.

00:14:58.320 Not with me.

00:14:59.320 No.

00:15:00.320 Okay.

00:15:01.320 Well, thank you guys.

00:15:02.320 Thank you.

00:15:03.320 Thank you.

00:15:04.320 So I think the biggest thing that we could conclude from that interview is that women 1.00

00:15:08.320 lie.

00:15:09.320 Yeah.

00:15:10.320 Yeah. 0.95

00:15:11.320 Like they're, they're liars.

00:15:12.320 I mean, the thing is, the men were being honest, right?

00:15:15.320 He was like, I'll tolerate a lot.

00:15:17.320 Yeah.

00:15:18.320 Yeah.

00:15:19.320 And like, what I liked is when I, when I like countered with like, Hey, even a girl you

00:15:23.320 don't like when you're not around is going to be flirtatious.

00:15:28.320 He was like, yeah, fair enough.

00:15:29.320 Like, I think that the reality is, is like the thing about girls is they don't want to 1.00

00:15:37.320 be told it.

00:15:38.320 I think you just have to do it.

00:15:40.320 Like, like if Blake Sheldon just travels and he tours the country and he comes back,

00:15:49.320 the girls, you know, don't ask questions, right? 1.00

00:15:53.320 Like I feel like girls like intuitively they're like, did it happen?

00:15:56.320 Did it not?

00:15:57.320 But how are you going to verify it?

00:16:00.320 That's why guys kind of have to cheat.

00:16:01.320 Like they can't be upfront.

00:16:03.320 Yeah.

00:16:04.320 Well, here's the thing.

00:16:05.320 Women will find a way to verify it. 1.00

00:16:08.320 Trust me.

00:16:09.320 Like if women want to figure it out, like, I mean, women will find the other girl. 0.95

00:16:15.320 They'll get like, there's apps.

00:16:18.320 Trust.

00:16:19.320 Trust me.

00:16:20.320 However, it's more, I mean, watch what they do after and it's never leave.

00:16:29.320 Sometimes they might cheat back.

00:16:31.320 Yeah.

00:16:32.320 But leave.

00:16:33.320 Hmm.

00:16:34.320 Hmm.

Pearl - June 01, 2025

LA Vlog and Street Interview with @ShivAiyar

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