Pearl - June 01, 2025LA Vlog and Street Interview with @ShivAiyar
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Summary
In this episode, I go on a podcast tour with my friend Shaviv and we go out to eat and try some Chicago food. We also talk about cheating, celebrity crushes, and how to ask a celebrity crush.
Transcript
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what up guys welcome to my vlog today we are in los angeles california and i'm going on a podcast
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tour so for those of you that don't know oftentimes you get a lot of invites to different podcasts
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when you work in media so what we tend to do is a bunch of them get piled up and we book a couple
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of days in a certain city and just go from podcast to podcast to podcast oftentimes when you're on a
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trip you'll have to build a set so this is an airbnb and you basically turn it into um like a
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podcast set so a lot of people don't know where you shoot on the road you kind of do something like
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this some people just have like a friend that wants to be famous and holds like a camera some people
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actual producers um and shiv is new on our team so he's coming on this trip and right now i'm going
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to jesse lee peterson um tomorrow i'm debating lila rose i'm doing some interviews in vegas next so
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yeah i'm going to show you guys a day in the life of a youtuber on a podcast
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all right guys so i just did my interview i'm at jesse lee peterson's um place it was one of the
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other guys on his network that i did it with and i was just red pilling them on women they all thought
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they found these special women and i just asked a couple questions like was she in a sorority what
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college did she go to and you know did she get what she wanted out of you and you know obviously fell
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apart as usual sorry fellas shiv has also come he got he got to meet jesse yeah yeah what'd you
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think he's like a character character of himself yeah so um we got coffee and i was shiv was giving
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me because i get i'm gonna read you guys my order a grande cold brew two pumps of sugar-free vanilla syrup
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one cinnamon dulce um a light of vanilla sweet cream and cinnamon powder we don't have unlimited
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time today okay we got shit today what did you get i just got what's called a medicine ball it's just
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tea with a little bit of lemonade in it so we're gonna you had a chicago food and we're gonna judge
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if la food is better than chicago food it's not but it's going to be more cloudy it's going to be more
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Alright, obviously you guys can take some of this.
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Alright guys, so I'm trying food at the blue ribbon.
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Alright, I'm just gonna go right to the best thing here, which is this.
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I was like, Brian should try this and we record him.
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We thought of an interesting question to ask women.
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So, if you got to date your celebrity crush, how much cheating would you accept?
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I think they're all gonna lie and act like it's gonna be zero.
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Or maybe they'll say like one girl if he's like overseas.
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But we all know in reality, they'll take a lot more.
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Like what if a girl treated you terrible but she was a 10?
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You know when like a guy gets a girl out of his league?
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The cool part is, you know, guys will answer honestly.
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So, do you have a female celebrity crush that you would consider like a 10?
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If you were dating her and she was going out to the clubs all the time without you flirting...
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Like, what would you accept in order to date her?
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I'm a big proponent of men raising our standards.
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So, if you don't have to compromise on that and you can be supportive, then it's up.
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So, let's say you're dating her for six months and you find out that at month three she cheated on you just once.
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Would you end it or would you keep it going because she's so attractive?
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I feel like some of my friends would say cheat twice, make it right, but I'm not with it.
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If it's three months in, she cheats, maybe I'll use her for three more months for clout.
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Get some, you know, Oscar red carpet out of it.
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Dude, we're talking about a celebrity crush that's a 10, right?
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If you're the average guy, you gotta take that, brother.
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For me personally though, baby, you know what I'm saying?
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She didn't cheat physically, but she flirted with a lot of other guys.
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All these attractive guys are coming on to her.
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You've never caught her physically cheating, but she gets pretty touchy.
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But I can't do like the half in a relationship, half flirt.
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But I'm not a big fan of someone who needs constant attention and validation to feel good
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about themselves, especially outside of a relationship.
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To be honest, I would tolerate it because a basic mid girl is gonna be flirting all the time
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So it's like, if she's gonna be flirting around, getting Instagram DMs and all that crap,
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Does that sway your opinion, thinking about it that way?
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I personally wouldn't date the middie that's going through that either for just me.
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So what is, what is the most that you've put up with in a relationship?
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Oh, I was gonna say her name, but I'm not gonna do that.
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What was the things you were putting, what did she do?
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I say she's a girl who likes to be very entertained, even at the expense of something that's a good
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So the worst thing that's happened, I would say disrespect in a way that I don't think certain
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people are gonna view it as because her reality is so different than mine.
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Actually, her and another girl did the same thing where it's like, you can't think that
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highly of me or a better way to say it would be you're used to a certain level of treatment
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So anything higher or different, maybe I should say, is foreign.
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So I would say a good example would be if my man was Josen her in the green right there.
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And what would like, do you like to take trips?
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Have you been to like Ojai, Solvang, Santa Barbara, anything like that?
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Okay, let's say you went out there and I don't know, you're gonna link up with her for drinks
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To me, that's a deal breaker, especially in LA where you have to drive two and a half
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So I would personally like to date a girl who would be like accommodating or communicative.
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I think it's a little past flaking in this scenario, but yeah, I guess so.
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You're not mad if she, if she messages you earlier in the day, like, Hey, something
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But like, obviously if you get stood up, that's disrespect.
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So I think it's like a matter of, yeah, it's just like, for me, I have a weird thing of
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like in public, if you're on my friends or my business partners, my crew and you disrespect
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If I don't see it, I'm not saying cheat, but like, if she's going to be whatever, like,
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if you want to be annoying outside where I don't have to see it fine, but don't do that
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Is there something is, what do you think of the phrase cheating respectfully?
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Like a derivation and a sentence, like a spelling bee.
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So like, like for me, like kind of the deal I'm trying to work right now is if I go
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out of the country and I cheat, Hey, no one's going to know.
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You have a great taste in your list of countries.
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I would say a lot of the men that I'm around are loyal to the soil.
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You know, I personally don't believe in cheating.
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I'm not saying that you can go do whatever you want and just be like, hey, baby, I did
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But I think people tell her she's not going to freak out.
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I think I would like to be with a girl that I can say who I am and what I'm going to do.
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And if that's what she wants, then or she's willing to accept, then she'll accept it and
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Cheating is like doing something that voids your agreement.
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And it's I think the reason why so many people are hurt is because they feel lied to or manipulated.
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But if you're up front and like, yo, look, women think I'm attractive.
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There are going to be times where I may do this, but this is where we'll always be.
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Who's the woman that you would say is near perfect, nearly a 10?
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I don't know why I call them perfect, but I do think I throw it back.
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And, um, what would be the most amount of disrespect you would tolerate from her?
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Was there ever a time where you did tolerate disrespect?
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And I just, uh, stayed with the girl and she kept lying.
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And so you think you'd be able, you didn't stay with the girl.
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You didn't stay with the, you stayed with the girl before who is like a normal chick.
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And the 10, you think you're going to have more willpower with.
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Because I learned a lot from that situation and I'm not putting myself through that again.
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Lied about where she, you know, lying, lying, saying, like what, what happened?
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I would say she just would lie about like, uh, like where she will be, who she was with.
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I don't have any concrete proof that she, uh, did anything with anybody else.
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But, uh, I mean, if you lie that many times, you know, so it was just a pattern that kept, you know what I mean?
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So I think for me, um, I think for me it's Ben Shelton.
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So if you guys got the chance to date them, would you be okay with cheating?
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What if you never, what if it was just in other countries and like not where you live?
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He's the perfect guy, but just on trips sometimes.
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Have you guys ever, um, been in a situation where a guy cheated before?
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So I think the biggest thing that we could conclude from that interview is that women
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I mean, the thing is, the men were being honest, right?
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And like, what I liked is when I, when I like countered with like, Hey, even a girl you
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don't like when you're not around is going to be flirtatious.
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Like, I think that the reality is, is like the thing about girls is they don't want to
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Like, like if Blake Sheldon just travels and he tours the country and he comes back,
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the girls, you know, don't ask questions, right?
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Like I feel like girls like intuitively they're like, did it happen?
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Like if women want to figure it out, like, I mean, women will find the other girl.
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However, it's more, I mean, watch what they do after and it's never leave.