Pearl - Laughing At Women Getting DUMPED

00:00:00.000 arguably the coolest thing that a person can do to another text whatsapp snapchat yeah you know

00:00:06.000 getting dumped over text is an l what's up guys welcome to my reaction series uh today we're

00:00:10.880 going to be reacting to women taking l's which we just do very well no matter you know we have

00:00:15.040 dating apps so we can literally choose any man we want and have like pick the litter right um

00:00:22.080 no when no time in history do we have access to more men and we still pick men that um give us

00:00:28.320 selves in life so today we're gonna watch women talk about being dumped also guys i'm doing an

00:00:33.920 event in new york city september 11th and october 3rd in dallas i think um the link is in the

00:00:39.160 description you'll get to hang out with me terrence pop doug mpa and really um eventually we want to

00:00:44.540 make it like fundraising uh dinners right now we're trying to get like the proof of concept you

00:00:48.880 know um but you'll also get to go behind the scenes with me at either a live debate or um 1.00

00:00:54.860 a podcast one depending so anyways all right i'm gonna watch this woman take that l i got dumped 0.99

00:01:01.720 last week except we weren't actually dating but i did get ended with better than a ghost but

00:01:06.940 anyways here are some things i think i learned and i won't be doing next time just because you

00:01:11.740 go on five dates doesn't mean things are getting super serious learned that one the hard way

00:01:16.040 i knew things weren't getting serious though because we never had a conversation about like

00:01:20.640 where things are going if we like each other what's going on we were just hanging out i guess

00:01:26.200 uh nice dinners but that's something i would do differently i think literally second date maybe

00:01:31.360 i'd be like i'd be more love island to be honest i know some demons out there and um they you could

00:01:37.040 be their girlfriend and it's not serious do you know what i mean like i mean honestly there's

00:01:42.020 nothing that means anything anymore you might as well just assume everyone's lying that's kind of

00:01:45.800 the it's kind of the vibes these days about it i'd be like so what are you looking for so why are you

00:01:49.560 single when was your last relationship i'm just trying not to be annoying okay also like didn't

00:01:53.960 want to mess it up at all i also think i need to be more up front with like what i'm looking for

00:01:58.440 in the beginning like i don't date for fun like i'm getting old like i'm dating to yeah see this

00:02:03.260 is why we're more insufferable because when we're young we're like teehee let's see where it goes

00:02:07.360 then we get pumped and dumped and we're like i am looking for a marriage yesterday actually find

00:02:11.980 a relationship we don't have to get married tomorrow like trust me i do not want that i

00:02:15.200 have a lot to do in the meantime but like a boyfriend for like a while would be nice before

00:02:19.340 even thinking about the next step but that's like i'm not looking for like i don't need dinner like

00:02:25.020 i i can cook well i can't cook but you know i can make sure myself okay so just you know establishing

00:02:29.020 maybe that like earlier i think asking earlier what they're looking for because of what they're

00:02:33.160 looking for isn't me like that could have been established on like date three rather than having

00:02:36.580 to go yeah but a lot of times our insufferability is hidden in the beginning so then they date us

00:02:42.240 for longer and they're like oh you're insufferable let me dump let me pump and dump through five of

00:02:46.680 them but I did get fed really well so I'm not mad about that at all I also think maybe like telling

00:02:50.920 them a little bit about me like I don't know why I didn't do this I think I was just trying not to

00:02:54.480 like talk bad about myself or bring in any past relationships into it but I am a very slow burn

00:03:00.080 like I need a long time to feel comfortable with somebody especially to be like fully myself like

00:03:05.140 there's a lot of versions of Deb despite what you think and I told him this at the very end

00:03:09.400 when he ended things i said maybe this is one of the reasons why there wasn't anything there it's

00:03:14.080 because i felt very reserved because i was so in my head about not wanting to mess anything up

00:03:17.940 because i don't date that often and truly dinner dates scare me so badly you never believe it i

00:03:23.980 literally came from a dating show where you go on date dinner dates for some reason there's just

00:03:27.340 so much pressure i get so in my head and then i feel like i'm thinking too much so then i just

00:03:31.140 come across as really stupid because that is my number one defense mechanism my acting teacher

00:03:35.740 one time told me that i am an expert at weaponizing incompetence and i kind of want to get that

00:03:40.320 tattooed on my forehead because it is the most accurate representation of me this is kind of

00:03:43.820 turning into like a vulnerable post i'm embarrassed i also think i need to work on asking more

00:03:48.560 questions about the other person like i just get so caught up in like having a conversation and

00:03:53.000 like the tangents we go on and just like random little things that i forget that it's a date and

00:03:57.140 you're supposed to be getting to know the person but like okay i know where you went to school i

00:04:00.500 know what you study like i know what you do for work like what other what other questions are

00:04:04.460 with your social security number i don't know and then that makes me feel like i'm on love on the

00:04:08.000 spectrum if i have to google like questions to ask on a date but maybe i should go on love on

00:04:12.380 the spectrum anyways i'm back to trying to going on dates so hopefully they go better yeah and

00:04:17.940 she's complaining but she'll have pick of the litter i mean you know you can't believe this

00:04:22.160 stuff me but i just got jumped last night so it is official so if you look like that and you're

00:04:27.380 quite attractive especially in america so it's probably your personality hate to say it me and

00:04:33.680 because we are not anything anymore this was decided last night um but i still have a life

00:04:44.860 to live so i can't just do what i feel like doing which is laying in bed and just doing nothing

00:04:53.220 i honestly have never been dumped before so i don't really know like how it works the worst

00:05:01.660 was waking up this morning and obviously i feel like you can tell by my eye bags i didn't really

00:05:06.640 get a lot of sleep but it's okay we didn't end on bad terms or anything like it was just a

00:05:16.520 conversation a little bit awkward now i wonder if they know who he is she's like crying and he's

00:05:21.860 like hey guys how's it going i'm obviously not gonna go into like crazy detail because i want

00:05:26.680 respect him i've been crying like all morning and this is like the first time so this is what men

00:05:33.800 have to deal with um you know they're like men take that l in peace they could never just cry

00:05:38.920 on the internet but we can cry on the internet i did that once it was kind of embarrassing i'm not

00:05:43.640 crying and i don't even know like what to feel right now like i said we did end up on good terms

00:05:50.200 so we still were following each other but i decided that like that wasn't healthy for me

00:05:57.800 um and i also blocked him but i did fold and i did text him this morning just kind of like telling

00:06:04.360 him like how i felt about the whole situation i didn't even give him like the chance to reply

00:06:11.240 because after talking to my mom i texted him goodbye and um i blocked him i think that's why

00:06:19.240 i'm totally calm and i'm not crying anymore because like i just feel like happy with my choice

00:06:28.920 of like blocking him and cutting him out even though i did she's gonna unblock she's gonna

00:06:34.860 unblock it's gonna happen yeah we care about him and i didn't obviously want this to like happen

00:06:41.180 like i care about myself way more i'm not gonna that's why you're single like decide when they

00:06:48.500 want to talk to me or not yeah she is gonna let him absolutely decide when he wants to talk because 0.99

00:06:53.520 when women of genuine desire i mean we'll let a ninja do anything anything i mean he you say jump

00:07:04.360 he says jump you say how high it just is what it is like it's either you do or you don't if you

00:07:10.360 don't then you don't it doesn't mean like i feel negative towards him or anything it's just like

00:07:16.580 I'm simply protecting myself because I obviously care about myself way more and I just woke up this

00:07:22.460 morning I would just check my phone and it's like there was like no text from him I think that's like

00:07:29.100 the worst because then you realize everything like everything's not normal and okay I'm kind

00:07:37.500 of starting to feel it right now like it's coming back and it just like comes in like waves like

00:07:42.800 i feel fine and then like i just get like a wave of sadness and like i'm feeling that

00:07:49.140 right now and the worst part is thinking like does he even care too like that's like

00:07:56.860 like this here now she's drinking even miss me like this he doesn't at all so i'm like that's

00:08:05.640 what's messing at the end of the day none of that matters because he didn't choose me so i'm not

00:08:11.560 gonna choose him i'm obviously choosing myself that's why i blocked him and everything because

00:08:16.160 it's like obviously i'm sure you were insufferable in some way you probably deserved it myself more

00:08:21.060 than anything the last night was my last time ever seen him obviously didn't want to like

00:08:26.460 unfollow each other he wanted to like keep contact and he was telling me so he could because so he

00:08:32.880 could hit whenever he wants attacks and all that last night he wants to have sex with other girls

00:08:37.560 and you so i was really so vulnerable and i was crying but he was crying too so like i guess he

00:08:44.680 did that um to maybe make it so you didn't crash out on him that makes me feel better and like i

00:08:51.180 just wish like i did and it worked obviously it worked you know yeah yeah so oh him like i never

00:08:59.980 met him. Like, it's not worth it to me. So if you guys have any tips on how to not feel

00:09:08.160 the way I feel, please give them to me. And like, this is the biggest thing I have going

00:09:13.420 on. So like, I'm pretty okay. Yeah, that's what I mean. We wouldn't crash out so hard

00:09:18.120 if we were like working on a farm or something, you know, let's see this one. And I thought

00:09:22.400 having my big day I got dumped I got dumped on my birthday and I thought having my big day taken

00:09:30.900 from me was the worst part but it wasn't because life isn't based on big moments it's built on the

00:09:38.540 small ones when I reached for his hand and it slipped from my grasp when he pretended to be

00:09:44.320 asleep because he knew I was crying when I reread our old messages just to remind myself he used to

00:09:50.540 care those are the moments I won't allow to be stolen anymore so take the birthday take the cake

00:09:58.760 take the wishes yeah see all this is so performative because we all know if he if she was 0.88

00:10:03.680 really into him and he texted her she'd be right I mean put it in the comments what a woman was

00:10:07.940 saying online while doing for you like what was she saying about you or sub tweeting you know 0.98

00:10:13.160 what was she saying she would never do and then doing I don't need them because the biggest thing

00:10:18.960 you ever took from me was my smallest moments yeah this is so sad ladies we gotta stop doing 0.99

00:10:25.160 this so i just got dumped i just got dumped by someone who i actually liked uh he canceled two

00:10:35.160 hours before our fifth date and look i'm sure you've canceled did he hit that's a question did

00:10:41.640 he hit when did he hit and i was supposed to cook dinner and we were gonna go to walk on the beach

00:10:45.680 but I fed, cooked dinner by myself, and I'm walking on the beach.

00:10:50.460 That messed down.

00:10:52.380 This was maybe the first time in, like, 20 years that I've been dumped.

00:10:58.300 And I just gotta say, it's terrible.

00:11:01.100 It's awful.

00:11:02.440 Yeah, because you probably were dating simps, and this was a real ninja.

00:11:05.580 Real ninjas dump you.

00:11:06.640 I'm laughing because I'm in so much pain.

00:11:09.960 The feeling of rejection is just awful.

00:11:13.080 um but you know i'm very in tune with myself and universe and and i believe that whatever

00:11:22.480 has happened this happens is meant to be um he wasn't the one you're gonna see how freaking cool

00:11:29.540 i am i didn't see that i did it and see this is you're always women always say you're gonna find

00:11:39.760 someone better when in fact a lot of times you don't find someone better you find somebody worse

00:11:45.240 you find somebody worse um and that's kind of an l we have to eat but it just is what it is you know

00:11:51.220 we had a date like a few days ago and he asked me like oh on a scale of one to ten like what

00:12:01.940 would you rate this and i rated it a 10 because it was amazing and then he's like oh i'd rate it

00:12:06.700 11 how do you go from rating a date to an 11 to totally balancing two days later

00:12:14.380 all right let's keep going let's see this crazy dummy yesterday and he was like i don't know i

00:12:29.900 just didn't know i wasn't going to be ready for a relationship and i totally that's easier to say 0.77

00:12:35.780 that then you are insufferable and i don't like you and you have traits that i just could not

00:12:41.080 that are so terrible to deal with that i don't want to men are nice you know get that i mean

00:12:45.900 it was honestly unfair of me to expect him to be in touch with his own emotions because like

00:12:50.520 you know like this is why this is so sad this cope men know um you know when we dump them it's

00:12:57.440 like yeah i i found somebody better in every way and i could replace you where women um it's this

00:13:04.480 is such an l because that's not why he dumped you that's just what he said like boys get surprised

00:13:10.800 by their own emotions like a baby gets surprised by a fart you know they just don't they're like

00:13:16.180 ah what's happening they cry they just don't get they don't know and like it and i honestly so

00:13:23.060 that's on me that's on me because i oh i asked too much of him oh so anyway i think i'm gonna 1.00

00:13:33.760 to go to europe my boyfriend dumped me yes all right let's see what's yeah women do travel to

00:13:38.420 have sex and get over men arguably the coolest thing that a person can do to another text whatsapp

00:13:44.620 snapchat yeah you know getting dumped over text is enough facebook message happen to the best of

00:13:50.220 us chica worst thing you can do is complain online i'm not even gonna lie to you that is the absolute

00:13:55.980 worst thing you can do in this situation i'm telling you dumping someone in this way what 0.59

00:14:02.020 hell is wrong with you nobody likes to dump someone it's not a nice experience but you know

00:14:06.100 what's worse being dumped and if you're not dumped in a nice way as in you explain why you don't want

00:14:11.380 to be with that person why you why you're ending the relationship men don't do that because they

00:14:15.540 don't want you to argue with it because then they'll say this is why like they would rather

00:14:20.020 be the villain and make you dump them and just be like oh like i love you so much and then have you

00:14:24.820 dump them then say you were so insufferable that i don't want to be with you anymore and here's all

00:14:30.660 your negative traits like they'll never do that in a mature and nice and kind way then you shouldn't

00:14:36.820 have been in the relationship in the first place anyone who has ever been dumped by text by text

00:14:41.300 message will know how awful it is like literally the bottom i mean i do think you are kind of a 0.97

00:14:46.660 if you don't dump in person but you don't have to women dump men over text all the time so you 0.84

00:14:53.140 know we started this they're finishing it stomach just drops to the floor and you literally feel

00:14:58.260 like you can't breathe you feel like you're gonna be sick it's just it's the worst thing and you

00:15:03.860 can't convey emotion over text so when you break up with someone by text it's gonna feel even more

00:15:09.540 impersonal you're not gonna understand why you're gonna have so many unanswered questions and it's

00:15:13.780 just cruel don't even get me started on one of my friends who actually got dumped from a marriage

00:15:19.140 got dumped by text from her husband like how do you even get over that let me know in the comments 1.00

00:15:24.340 have you ever been dumped by tech what did yeah all right all right ladies keep taking l's and

00:15:29.140 putting it on the internet because i need a job so i love you guys thanks for watching 0.61

00:15:33.180 like the video and i'll see you next time

Pearl - August 24, 2026

Laughing At Women Getting DUMPED

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