Pearl - August 23, 2026


More Men SHOULD Abandon Their Kids


Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

184.39

Word count

1,480

Sentence count

33

Harmful content

Misogyny

36

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Hate speech

32

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Transcript

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00:00:00.680 What's up, guys? Welcome to my YouTube series.
00:00:06.120 Today, I don't have coffee because I already drank it, but I had a thought and I wanted to share it with you guys.
00:00:10.560 So, I think that more men should actually abandon their kids.
00:00:17.120 Now, I know what you're thinking. You're thinking, Pearl, that's so evil, that's so terrible, but hear me out.
00:00:22.580 We have an entire social infrastructure in place that allows women to keep making and enabling bad decisions. 1.00
00:00:31.500 So I'll give you an example. 0.99
00:00:33.720 A woman can be a terrible wife and go to marriage counseling and then be told she's doing great and it's the husband's problem. 0.91
00:00:39.900 On top of that, I know a guy who has his single mother sister living with him. 0.94
00:00:44.720 And he allows her to like boss him around. 0.52
00:00:47.400 so not only is he bailing her out of her bad choice of being a single mother
00:00:51.740 um she he also allows her to boss him around and like men just want to keep the peace
00:00:57.340 and I thought about it and there's this narrative that there's a lot of deadbeat dads out there and
00:01:04.600 the more I did this divorce documentary so for those of you that don't know I interviewed a
00:01:08.020 thousand people and found out that a lot of the things they tell us is true about society isn't
00:01:12.280 and one of those is that most deadbeat fathers are actually deadbeat mothers it's mothers that
00:01:16.560 stole the kids from the dad and most dads I know um actually don't really give a shit about the
00:01:23.040 money all they want is their children and they go to court and they fight and they fight and they
00:01:27.720 fight and I have one friend in particular that is fighting for his kids currently and I told him to
00:01:31.920 stop fighting and just let her have them and when men hear this they they kind of um it's very
00:01:38.040 difficult because I know how much men like love their kids and I'm not saying to not go to court
00:01:43.760 Uh, but I would just accept whatever the court gives you because you're going to spend all
00:01:49.140 this time, all this money fighting for your kids just for, um, her to get custody anyway, 0.81
00:01:55.580 most likely.
00:01:56.480 Right.
00:01:56.780 So why, why even fight? 1.00
00:01:58.180 Let her have them. 1.00
00:01:59.360 Um, and I actually think if more men had this mindset, more women, um, you know, cause women 0.73
00:02:05.540 always say men abandon their kids and they don't, but what if they did? 0.78
00:02:09.260 What if they said, Hey, you made the choice to be a single mom.
00:02:13.120 you broke up the family, you need to accept the consequences is that if you want primary custody, 0.72
00:02:20.100 I'm not going to be involved. You only get me being involved in my health if I get primary
00:02:26.720 custody. And I think if more men stood on that, there'd be more women that actually gave up 1.00
00:02:32.460 custody because the problem is women get to have their cake and eat it too. And this kind of goes 1.00
00:02:37.760 even deeper because the families enable and allow this because a lot of single mothers, the only
00:02:42.060 reason they can be single mothers is because they have their families help with their children 1.00
00:02:46.380 and there needs to be more families that tell their daughter no you are a single mom deal with 0.70
00:02:53.500 it i'm not going to help you fix your house i'm not going to help you raise your kid you made this 0.72
00:02:58.180 choice deal with it deal with it but instead the brothers come in the fathers come in and there's
00:03:04.880 an entire social infrastructure in place to help with the kids and i think it's difficult for
00:03:11.600 people um we do have a lot of empathy because you know the kids are the ones that suffer
00:03:17.760 um but it's kind of the same issue we have in society it almost would be better if we just gave 0.81
00:03:23.120 women all the voting power and men didn't vote at all for the next five years and said you want the 0.65
00:03:27.840 power good luck you want you want to be ceos good luck here you go because it's not until women have 0.78
00:03:35.920 the power and fail with it that you know people start giving up response like the power that 1.00
00:03:42.400 comes with it but the issue is that too many women get to have their cake and eat it too 1.00
00:03:46.560 i think that's why people hate e-girls right because candace owens for example is a woman 1.00
00:03:52.240 that has her cake and is eating it too um you know she because it's one thing to be a career woman 1.00
00:04:01.360 and not have kids that's kind of like the consequence right it's another thing to be a 0.99
00:04:06.860 career woman like that and have children it's selfish right you're putting yourself and your 0.96
00:04:11.540 needs and your wants and your dreams above your kids um because now they're going to be the ones 1.00
00:04:17.620 that suffer when you're going through all these bullshit like lawsuits and stuff
00:04:21.540 um you know i think if you reach a certain level of ambition as a woman you really shouldn't have 0.63
00:04:28.700 kids. Uh, that's just my, my opinion. If you, if you get to a certain level, I think you forfeited, 1.00
00:04:37.500 you need to eat like, and that's what we're seeing in societies. All these women like running for 1.00
00:04:42.520 Congress, uh, becoming doctors, uh, like doing all this stuff. And it's like, okay, either get 0.99
00:04:49.440 a stay at home husband, which women aren't going to do, um, or don't have kids, but then you have 1.00
00:04:56.240 women that want their cake and they eat it too they want their rich husband and they want to not 1.00
00:04:59.900 have kids and they want or and they want kids and they and they want the career 0.99
00:05:03.340 so and then they'll rub it in our face and say that they're doing it all it's like we know you're
00:05:13.520 not you know and I guess I can kind of speak to this as the daughter of a queer woman like I grew
00:05:18.280 with nannies and um yeah it was terrible i mean like my mom
00:05:32.600 i gave us with these look my mom gave us with these random caretakers that would just rotate
00:05:39.960 in and rotate out and it's like you either you either hate the caretaker you love the caretaker
00:05:44.760 And then if you love them, they, they, you get, you've done, it's like your, your mother leaves every two years. And it was because, you know, my mom wanted to do it all. And then the kids suffer. Right. And yeah, it's just, yeah, the people that suffer are the kids because we have all these random people in and out of our house.
00:06:05.180 so anyways that's my trauma right um but that's the problem the biggest problem in this society
00:06:14.880 isn't necessarily the women it's the enabling of the women it's the husbands that pay like
00:06:20.380 you know it's the husbands that pay for the nanny it's the it's the husbands that say yes yes yes 0.99
00:06:26.380 or that allow it like i don't know i think if a woman wants to be a bitch you need to divorce her 1.00
00:06:31.620 i think if a woman like yeah if a woman is a bitch to you and is terrorizing you and the children 1.00
00:06:39.300 leave divorce her let her let her have like i want to see more men divorcing their wives that 1.00
00:06:45.720 are being bitches because like women are never going to learn the only thing women respond to 1.00
00:06:51.540 is power so i want to i want to see more men leaving their children women keep calling men 0.99
00:06:57.640 deadbeats anyway women will call active fathers fighting to be in the kids lives a deadbeat
00:07:03.160 so it's as far as i'm concerned you might as well be one go be a deadbeat and leave the kids
00:07:08.580 and tell her to deal with it and raise the kid herself and if she wants your help then to give 1.00
00:07:14.420 you custody that is the only thing that women respond to is power if women are going to trash 1.00
00:07:19.220 you online trash them right back women are have done way shadier stuff than men so if a woman is 1.00
00:07:26.280 going online and saying all these terrible things about you, do it back. I think more men need to
00:07:32.460 just be the villain. She's going to make you the villain anyway, King, because these women are 1.00
00:07:38.500 torturing everybody involved, everybody involved. So anyways, I would love to see an increase in men 1.00
00:07:47.300 abandoning their kids and leaving these kids because, and I would like to see a decrease
00:07:52.440 in fathers and families enabling their daughter's behavior.
00:07:56.480 So I love you guys.
00:07:58.400 Thanks for watching.
00:07:59.180 Like the video, subscribe to the channel
00:08:00.600 and I'll see you next time.