Pearl - Liberal Women Are Begging Men To Return To Dating

00:00:00.000 What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. Today we're talking about liberals are starting to get

00:00:06.100 why men are giving up. So men are giving up on dating and relationships every year. More and

00:00:12.180 more men are refusing to approach and court women and the marriage rate keeps dropping.

00:00:17.200 It turns out that the liberals in the mainstream media are finally taking notice. Let's take a

00:00:22.640 look at the panel of liberals finally realizing how bad men have it in the dating market.

00:00:28.180 Pointing this out to me that there is strong emerging evidence. It turns out that thanks

00:00:34.240 to Anna pointing this out to me that there is strong emerging. Isn't she a lesbian? She should 1.00

00:00:38.660 know. This woman should know how bad men have it. Okay. Evidence Gen Z is indeed less sexually active 0.92

00:00:45.200 dating less compared to previous generations. Yeah. So when they say Gen Z is less sexually active,

00:00:52.020 the men are less sexually active. I know the data will tell you one thing, right? There'll be these

00:00:57.260 studies that say, oh no, like the men, um, they're it's the men and the women. Yeah. What incentive

00:01:06.360 do these studies have to be honest about the women throwing it back? The women, um, now they have 1.00

00:01:12.580 cloud, they have, um, phones and stuff. They just want to get with the most clouded guy. And a lot of

00:01:18.120 guys are getting iced out sadly. Yes. What's going on guys? So many things. Okay. I can't wait to hear

00:01:24.480 what you have to say about this, but first let me, let me set it up and give you the deets. Okay.

00:01:28.640 What's, what's going on. So can we go past the, can we go over? We can if you can, doc. Okay. I'll go over.

00:01:33.380 Yeah. So there have now been multiple studies indicating that, um, young men, and I'm talking

00:01:38.980 about the ages when they're like. Can we do a point by point as you're bringing these things up? Can I

00:01:42.200 address them as you bring them up? Sure. Sure. So let me. Each of these things have a layers to them. They do. They do.

00:01:46.020 So I'm going to give you. Young men first. Let's talk about them. We're going to talk about young

00:01:48.940 men first. And this has to do with their sexual activity. So, um, we need to find young so we 0.97

00:01:52.520 can. Yes, I am. Good point. So let me, let me just, let me do it uninterrupted so I can get it

00:01:56.880 out. Okay. So, um, Indiana university, for instance, did a study and they found in their study of men

00:02:03.700 between the ages of 18 to 24. So we're talking about the time when they like really want to get it on

00:02:08.280 usually. Right. Only one, one in three of them reported, um, no sexual activity in the past year,

00:02:15.960 one in three. So one third of young men in that age group. Yeah. And it's, it's very obvious because

00:02:22.840 most men were not selected to reproduce in a way. And I, in a way, monogamy, um, benefits betas the most

00:02:35.000 because the way the, the way the natural, like the jungle is going to go is women want to share 1.00

00:02:40.700 the alphas. Right. But then the betas get mad. They start to revolt and they're like, all right,

00:02:46.760 this is bullshit. We're running society just for you guys to bang our women. Like we don't get a 1.00

00:02:51.980 woman. And so then there's destabilization. That's bad. So monogamy is supposed to be a contract. Um, 0.88

00:03:00.040 it's kind of like the alphas are like, all right, all right, you can have some women, um, ladies go

00:03:06.520 ahead. And the ladies, they're like, Oh, I don't want to, uh, unfortunately. Right. Um, and that's 1.00

00:03:14.900 marriage. Um, it's, it's, uh, because essentially men want to bang as many women as possible. Women 0.98

00:03:20.260 want to keep going for a higher and higher guy. Um, so this is a compromise. The, the problem is

00:03:25.740 nowadays marriage is only a compromise on the men's part because the women get to spend their 0.98

00:03:31.600 twenties trying to get a higher and higher guy. I'm not saying this is right or wrong. Um, all I'm

00:03:36.320 saying is it's not particularly the deal it used to be. Um, but anyways, in a way nature is correcting

00:03:42.080 itself because now, um, women are basically going back to the old days where, um, most men didn't 0.91

00:03:49.940 reproduce. Oh yeah. And before like monogamy, I want to know why like comparison point. Like 1.00

00:03:58.840 what happened 20 years ago? What was the year? Um, 20 years ago. What was the rate? I don't

00:04:02.840 know the comparison 30 years ago. Oh yeah. Published in the archives of sexual behavior. The study is the

00:04:07.120 first to include such a comprehensive assessment of diverse sexual behaviors. The information came

00:04:11.080 from us participants ages 14 to 49 during, uh, 2009 to 49. Yeah. Um, 2009 between 2009 and 2018.

00:04:19.300 So this is a long-term study that they did. And by the way, it's worse since COVID. Yes. Okay. Oh

00:04:24.200 yeah. Completely. So there've been others. I would mess up this panel. I would do so well.

00:04:30.560 I get put, someone put me on, put me on this panel. He's showing that this was even more pronounced

00:04:36.360 after COVID. What's the mechanism there? Really? Before you go, doctor, can I just say one quick

00:04:40.980 thing? Please. I blame feminism. Listen, Tinder just put out, Tinder just put out a... 1.00

00:04:49.300 Everything's more competitive right now. Dating, business, and just life in general. But most

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00:05:19.680 and book your call. Is that who I think it is? Is that?

00:05:27.820 Filter, what I can say about this dating market... Girl, that is not feminism. 1.00

00:05:32.160 Women hating on the short kings is not feminism. But women believing that they should be empowered 1.00

00:05:37.040 enough that they can create their own custom-built men that they deserve. 0.98

00:05:40.280 All women are feminists. So just ignore this when we say this. You know, we all want the same thing. 1.00

00:05:47.020 We all want the hot feminisms, a strategy for women to get with hot guys. And if you want to 1.00

00:05:54.500 see if a woman's a feminist a real way, tell her to marry the guy in her friend zone and look at her 1.00

00:05:59.780 face. We would rather die. And I don't say this in a nice way, but... Sorry, I don't mean this in a 1.00

00:06:08.500 mean way, but it's just how women feel about it. And we can get mad all we want, but it just is what 1.00

00:06:13.940 it is. It's the game. Everything. Don't need to work for anything. Whereas men, they need to 1.00

00:06:18.860 build up their income, their body, their physique, their personal development. That's the one thing

00:06:24.300 they can't build up, right? I just... This dating market is totally great for women. And I think 0.94

00:06:30.680 that's why guys aren't getting laid. Penny Johnson said this to me, and then I'm going to stop talking

00:06:34.600 because I definitely want to hear from Dr. Drew. But he's like, the world was a better place when men 1.00

00:06:37.840 had a harder time seeing boobs. And I kind of wonder. Okay. So remember, women's default 1.00

00:06:44.260 manipulation is using sexuality to get ahead and get resources. So a lot of times when you hear

00:06:52.220 conservative women bang on about corn, it's not because they're really that upset about corn and 1.00

00:07:01.160 really believe... Come on, it's not damaging society the way they're trying to paint it.

00:07:05.660 Okay. They're mad because now when their husband doesn't... When they don't sleep with their 1.00

00:07:10.880 husband, they say, give me my way or no sex. He says, all right, F off. I'm going to go watch 0.99

00:07:16.380 that 22-year-old. That's why the women are mad. It's not morality. Okay. Come on. 1.00

00:07:23.180 Another layer to it. That their managers... Too much more. That is my question.

00:07:27.360 Let me quickly clarify the study. Okay. Because it wasn't a long-term study. My bad. I misread this. So

00:07:31.720 they did the study in 2009 and then they did the same study in 2018. Longitudinal. Yes. So to

00:07:37.220 compare, to compare. And this is what they write. So they say, compared to adult participants in the

00:07:42.480 2009 survey, adults in the 2018 group were significantly more likely to report no penile

00:07:47.800 vaginal intercourse in the prior year, the researchers found. Study participants were also significantly

00:07:53.640 less likely to report engaging in any other sexual behaviors, such as oral sex or, you know, other 0.53

00:08:00.720 things. Anything. All modes of past year partnered sex were reported by fewer in the 2018 cohort. So 0.95

00:08:06.700 it is a growing problem. Oh yeah. And so we know birth rates are plummeting, right? So people are not

00:08:12.260 forming pairs. They're not falling in love. They're not having sexual encounters. There's some data that

00:08:17.400 shows that the apps are leaving a five or 10% zone of men that are having lots of sex and, and they,

00:08:25.620 and they're the ones that are super users and they're actually hurting people. They're hurting

00:08:30.260 women. Any woman that knows what the term super user is. Um, they, there's someone that's been used. 1.00

00:08:38.680 Now I'd like to say, which most women have, don't let these women fool you and think, 1.00

00:08:43.400 Oh, I've never, you know, most women have taken an L at some point. Women always show the screenshots 1.00

00:08:50.640 of men, right? That, um, but they, they rarely show the screenshots of, um, the one, like they'll

00:08:59.960 always show men shooting their shot and they'll, we'll screenshot it, but we never show the screenshots

00:09:04.960 of us simping. Now, the one thing that blue pilled men tend to believe is they believe that the women

00:09:10.600 are being used by the top men. Right. And that's a very blue pill belief. If binogamy wasn't forced 1.00

00:09:17.360 tomorrow, who would be the first ones to revolt? Women, women love being side chicks. It's why 1.00

00:09:23.660 women watch scandal. It's why we love like, uh, Monica Lewinsky, you know, women are bigger fans 1.00

00:09:31.300 of Monica Lewinsky than Melania. And there's a reason for that. And women are, I hear a lot from women. 0.99

00:09:37.160 Where are the men? Where are all the men? Well, you have vilified being a man. You have vilified it.

00:09:44.840 I have been around the Gen Z and the millennials for quite some time. And what I saw was men fearful

00:09:52.120 of being seen as toxic or trying to rape. They didn't, they were just, they just withdrew. And if

00:09:59.800 you, God help you, if you offer a girl a beer, you, you were, can you, I'll take the beer. 1.00

00:10:04.480 I would, I'm a married man. All right. Do you see that again? I'll take the beer. I'm married.

00:10:11.980 And, but we get away with this stuff because men, you know, women, when we are unhappy,

00:10:18.480 we will let everybody know. We cannot go through life unhappy and not say anything. Men just get

00:10:24.780 apathetic. They're, they get indifferent. They just don't care. They withdraw. So men drink two

00:10:31.100 different bars. Are you serious? It's considered predatory. Wow. So men are scared shitless. We

00:10:36.220 don't, they don't know what to do. Then because they're withdrawing so much, they, first of all,

00:10:40.540 don't feel worth, they're being told they're not worthwhile. They're particularly young white men

00:10:44.820 are told they're bad, they're evil. They're the source of all problems. And they don't develop the 1.00

00:10:50.220 skills necessary to communicate, to communicate, to determine what they want to do. And they turn

00:10:56.500 to porn. I was going to ask you that. And the porn gives them unrealistic expectations about everything.

00:11:00.500 Oh yeah. And they're, they sort of take the position like, I'm fine. I got my porn. I'm fine.

00:11:03.900 And for the first time I did a show called After Dark for a few years over at your mom's house.

00:11:08.200 And I started hearing about from young men, something I had not heard all these decades talking

00:11:12.520 to young men, the use of prostitutes. They were starting to turn to prostitutes. Wow. 0.97

00:11:16.060 Wow. Because they had no other option. At a certain age, you got to use a hooker as a guy, 1.00

00:11:22.060 unfortunately. I don't want to say you have to, but like, okay, if men get to like 30-ish 0.97

00:11:31.060 and they haven't gotten laid or 30, 32, 30, they get kind of weird. And it almost gets to the point

00:11:40.800 where like, they get such a deficit in that area, um, that it's very hard to come back

00:11:47.120 from and like date normally. Um, so at some point, I'm not saying use a hooker, but if you're 0.93

00:12:00.500 gonna, if you're on track to be in like a 40 year old virgin, most men, like a woman will 0.99

00:12:04.840 find them eventually. But if you're on track to be in a 40 year old virgin, you're going

00:12:09.100 to be pretty weird and it might not be learnable at that point. And that's the other issue with

00:12:15.280 younger guys is like talking to women is a skill. And so we, they got the legal barriers

00:12:21.040 of women, not, you know, women putting all the legal barriers in the way they also have, 1.00

00:12:26.860 um, technology now women, it's all digital. So a skill that men, you, you know, they used 0.96

00:12:33.620 to get their boys and like, go, I don't know, try to chase down some tail, but now it's DMing

00:12:40.020 on Snapchat. So they don't really learn the skill. And, and so then again, the top 20% of

00:12:45.380 men become smaller and smaller and smaller of the men taken all the, taking home all the 0.98

00:12:50.140 ass essentially. 0.99

00:12:51.180 Because early fans, especially in today's generation, young women are literally getting excited

00:12:58.060 to turn 18 so they can create an early. They are seeing all the women out there,

00:13:03.440 portray this lifestyle. And you know why they're oftentimes portraying it because there are

00:13:08.400 affiliate programs attached to only fans where if you recruit other women, you make a pyramid 1.00

00:13:14.280 scheme.

00:13:15.200 It's terrible. We got to stop again, the way she's framing it, it's women are like coerced or convinced 1.00

00:13:23.960 to do only fans. Women don't do only fans for money. And we got to let this dream die. Women do only fans 1.00

00:13:30.240 because they love the excitement of being naked on camera. Um, again, if corn was banned tomorrow,

00:13:37.840 the first people that were revolt would be women, they would take, no, I must get naked on screen. I 0.98

00:13:44.160 have a right to get naked on screen. They would, they would, it wouldn't even be the men. It'd be

00:13:48.640 the women. 0.81

00:13:50.640 Where are the parents?

00:13:52.640 The prostitution aspect is becoming more and more normalized. And it's not just that they're not only buying

00:13:58.240 these women's pictures, but then their managers are messaging them, building parasocial relationships 1.00

00:14:03.680 with these men.

00:14:04.640 The parasocial relationship thing, it's huge.

00:14:06.640 It's huge.

00:14:07.600 So Dr. Drew, one last question, because I hear you in regard to culture and how that's changed and how that

00:14:12.640 impacts, you know, relationships in America. I am also curious about the impact of social media

00:14:19.040 and how increasingly people aren't actually meeting with their friends in real life, communicating,

00:14:23.600 communicating face to face. So when you don't have that, there's like a difficulty in communicating

00:14:27.840 when you're trying to, you know, seduce someone, um, into a relationship of no experience, no skill.

00:14:34.240 Right.

00:14:34.640 I remember back in the nineties, I used to be the hookup culture was the big thing.

00:14:37.760 Right.

00:14:38.320 That's not, you're not happy doing this. I can tell because you're always drunk when you do it.

00:14:42.480 And I was advocating dating where you just sit down, enjoy time with somebody, learn who you are,

00:14:47.040 learn who to break bread, whatever. Don't have all these expectations on every time you go out

00:14:50.880 with somebody that needs to come back again, that people need to hang out in person, in flesh with

00:14:56.640 people a lot and just enjoy that and develop a skill and start to figure out who you are.

00:15:01.840 Yeah. The problem is, uh, it's a lot harder to get laid when the women aren't drinking. I mean, 1.00

00:15:06.320 that's what you hear from the PUAs. Um, it's like, kind of like your play, like guys are ready.

00:15:12.240 Have it on hard mode and it just makes it harder.

00:15:15.440 One of who other people are.

00:15:16.800 But, but this vilification of the young male has gone out of control and they're pissed.

00:15:23.120 Yeah.

00:15:23.600 I'm worried when they come out of it that they're going to be.

00:15:25.440 I have a confession.

00:15:26.240 Adam said the same thing.

00:15:27.200 Like a big confession.

00:15:28.160 Okay.

00:15:28.560 So look, every woman is different. 1.00

00:15:31.360 So I don't speak for all women.

00:15:33.520 You don't.

00:15:33.920 I don't, but, but I also have a problem with like

00:15:36.640 some women, you know, who have engaged in that, you know, rhetoric in regard to men 0.99

00:15:44.080 kind of speaking on my behalf, because I'll just, I'll just talk about my preference.

00:15:48.560 My preference is masculine men, like traditionally masculine men.

00:15:53.120 That's what I'm just attracted to.

00:15:54.480 I can't explain why it just is what it is.

00:15:57.360 So this like push to make men meek is unfair to women who don't want meek men either. 0.98

00:16:04.080 I don't know any women who truly want that, Dr. Drew, in fact, from an evolutionary portion. 0.68

00:16:08.160 No, women do want that, but for the beta bucks side of hypergamy, right? 1.00

00:16:12.720 Women want, you know, cause there's the guy women want to sleep with. 1.00

00:16:17.360 And then there's the guy women want to tell their problems to cry with, um, be friends with,

00:16:26.640 um, and do all the girly stuff.

00:16:29.280 So just so you know, the more you listen to our problems, unfortunately, the more you're in the,

00:16:34.400 beta bucks side. 0.92

00:16:36.400 So the guy that women like to bang. 1.00

00:16:39.040 Yeah.

00:16:39.360 He doesn't have to do any of that.

00:16:41.920 It doesn't make sense.

00:16:43.120 The masculine guy thing.

00:16:44.000 I remember like if I'm on a train or if I'm on the metro and there's someone who's threatening my

00:16:48.640 safety and there's a bunch of men there and they just kind of sit back and let it happen. 0.83

00:16:52.880 That's a freaking problem. 0.95

00:16:55.680 There's a huge demographic to your point who does celebrate, um, wife guys, right? 0.97

00:17:01.280 Like, remember how they elevated Doug Emhoff because he was all feminine and happy to 0.96

00:17:05.680 behind, be behind Kamala Harris. 1.00

00:17:07.360 Do you remember that?

00:17:07.920 Well, they do have some women. 1.00

00:17:09.040 No one's hot from Doug Emhoff.

00:17:10.640 Yeah.

00:17:12.720 And women do like wife guys at a certain period of their life. 1.00

00:17:16.480 You know, the biggest, like here's the problem with marriage and men that believe in marriage

00:17:21.360 in a way, they don't realize women were designed to be passed around.

00:17:26.560 And I, this is not a fun reality, uh, but women want different things at different points in their 1.00

00:17:33.200 lives.

00:17:34.160 The challenge you get is with marriage, uh, women have to fight that urge and we're paid 1.00

00:17:41.520 to not fight that urge.

00:17:42.880 So most women don't, um, like, you know, when women are in their twenties, like under 25, let's

00:17:49.760 say women don't care about money at all or the wife guy at all. 1.00

00:17:54.000 But we hit 32 and then all of a sudden that becomes a priority.

00:17:59.440 That's a sigh off Doug Emhoff.

00:18:01.280 I mean, look at one is hot for Doug Emhoff.

00:18:03.520 That's not what I'm saying.

00:18:04.240 That's what they're celebrating as the architect.

00:18:06.320 And Dr. Drew, since you're here, I wanted to get your, I want to bring a medical component

00:18:10.480 into this and that's the use of Propecia and finasteride.

00:18:14.800 Yeah. 0.99

00:18:14.960 I was going to ask you that crap. 0.99

00:18:17.840 It's interesting. 1.00

00:18:18.560 The most liberal woman is the most soft spoken. 1.00

00:18:21.200 And I want you guys as I'm spitball it here.

00:18:23.680 Sometimes I think liberal women are better to date than conservative women because it 1.00

00:18:28.080 shows they're easily programmable.

00:18:30.640 So if she's programmed by society, if you, if you hit it right, maybe she could be programmed

00:18:35.600 by you too.

00:18:36.480 You know what I mean?

00:18:38.400 You know, we gotta, I don't really see a difference between conservative and liberal women. 1.00

00:18:42.960 It blocks androgens, which I'll let the doctor do this.

00:18:48.560 So Propecia and all these medicines do drop testosterone and they drop libido. 0.99

00:18:56.320 And in about 20% of cases, it never comes back.

00:18:58.960 Oh God.

00:18:59.600 So when that was documented about 10 years ago, I had to call all my patients on Propecia

00:19:04.320 and say, do you still want to contain?

00:19:05.680 Most of them did.

00:19:06.400 But what about this?

00:19:08.560 What about this piece?

00:19:09.360 There were some reports that when women take birth control, it actually ulters the type

00:19:16.640 of men that they are attracted to.

00:19:18.080 Yeah.

00:19:18.240 So what happens from my understanding, I'm not a doctor, women don't ovulate. 0.97

00:19:24.400 So we want different, that's the problem. 1.00

00:19:26.960 We're such whores. 1.00

00:19:28.880 We want different types of guys based on where we're at in our cycle. 0.99

00:19:33.520 So when we're ovulating, that's when we want the muscle men. 1.00

00:19:36.800 And then when we're not ovulating, that's when we want the, the wife goggles guy or whatever,

00:19:42.800 wife, Jack guy.

00:19:45.280 So birth control takes away ovulation.

00:19:48.480 So then women don't want that type of guy during that period. 1.00

00:19:54.000 So then we only like the wife goggles guy, wife, Jack guy.

00:19:58.480 They are attracted to more beta feminine males. 0.68

00:20:02.800 Tell me how to fix this finasteride problem.

00:20:05.200 I need to know.

00:20:05.920 Because you do hair transplants, get off the finasteride.

00:20:08.720 No, but what if they're against it?

00:20:10.240 TRT.

00:20:10.880 Trust me, I've gone down.

00:20:12.000 You can't do the TRT because then they go bald.

00:20:13.680 You see, if they have a problem, then you do TRT, but they will go further bald.

00:20:18.000 I've researched this extensively and one solution that was presented was topical finasteride.

00:20:23.760 But what if they have hair currently?

00:20:25.360 So, so the high dose Rogaine with finasteride and a steroid is a very effective topical agent.

00:20:30.960 Some of it is absorbed still.

00:20:32.960 And so, but, but that is an alternative.

00:20:34.880 But you have a bigger problem with crashing testosterone and we don't know why.

00:20:39.200 It's all the above.

00:20:40.160 Plus obesity, testosterone down, estrogen up.

00:20:44.640 You know, there's so many reasons our testosterone levels are down.

00:20:47.360 We need to get back resistance training to be part of our daily life, everybody.

00:20:52.400 And, uh, it just, we are unhealthy weight management.

00:20:56.160 Okay.

00:20:56.720 So I think we got the gist.

00:20:58.480 Yeah, guys.

00:20:58.960 So now even, even the liberals are conceding that masculinity is being vilified.

00:21:06.320 So anyways, let me know what you guys think of the comments.

00:21:08.560 Make sure you like the video, subscribe to the channel.

00:21:10.960 Um, and let me know, do you guys prefer liberal women or conservative women? 0.91

00:21:15.360 And I'll see you next time.

00:21:16.400 Bye.

00:21:16.560 Bye.

Pearl - August 01, 2025

Liberal Women Are Begging Men To Return To Dating

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