Pearl - Many WOMEN Are Choosing CHEATERS Over LOYAL MEN

00:00:00.000 So today's episode is really going to stay on the theme of lessons I learned in interviewing

00:00:08.200 a thousand women. So as you guys know, I was a normal woman living in Milwaukee selling copiers.

00:00:14.600 I stumbled into PUA content, red pill content, men's rights content, and it really changed my

00:00:23.040 perspective on the world. And I ended up going to England to play semi-pro volleyball. YouTube was

00:00:28.480 just a side thing that I did. And while I was in England, I did a show talking about a lot of these

00:00:35.420 topics to my friends on the volleyball team, or I would meet in London. I didn't know a single

00:00:41.220 person and I ended up interviewing a thousand people. And interviewing a thousand people

00:00:46.060 completely changed my perspective. So I wrote a article about my experience in this. So I'm

00:00:55.220 going to have to read it off of my laptop. I wish we had a teleprompter. We don't yet, but you know,

00:01:00.800 sign up to the website. We might be able to get one. But before we do, I want to show the content

00:01:06.560 that was popular at the time. So at the time I started my channel, this was when Fresh and Fit

00:01:12.680 was blowing up. Kevin Samuels was huge. Andrew Tate was blowing up. And the topic of cheating

00:01:19.260 came up a lot. And there was a Kevin Samuel stream. And I remember watching this with my

00:01:25.860 boyfriend at the time, and it was called High Value Men Cheat. And I was like, no,

00:01:31.860 don't listen to that. I also remember this was one of the first episodes I saw of him.

00:01:37.480 And I'm going to get into that when I read the article. But to start, I want to show you guys

00:01:41.600 the videos. Because we have to have a real serious subject. Real serious subject. And what is that?

00:01:48.260 one high value men cheat they cheat they cheat simply that they cheat they cheat they cheat

00:01:57.280 why well when you're in the top 10 of all mankind from a value standpoint and again understand

00:02:07.000 from a money from a length of money standpoint from being acknowledged by other men that you

00:02:12.100 are of value by having a network of high value men and other people by being visible and having

00:02:18.180 a network of high value men and being useful to others in the group ladies understand what about

00:02:24.360 you makes you think that a man that's that valuable that 90 of the females on the planet

00:02:32.680 would love to sniff his beard what makes you think he's going to go out and slay the minotaur

00:02:40.920 and fight cerberus what do you think he's gonna get out and fight cerberus and do all these things

00:02:45.860 to come home and just be loyal to you oh oh oh oh let's go ahead and dispense with this

00:02:53.380 miss me with god i was raised in the bible belt and i was baptized in five i'm going to have an

00:02:59.900 entire broadcast on the disingenuous nature in which how so much of christianity is marketed

00:03:07.300 today but just go back to solomon how many wives did he have what did david do with bathsheba

00:03:13.300 so oftentimes when this is said and it's tough not to because you know we're raised in a christian

00:03:19.860 country most people are brought up with some sort of religion morality is always applied to it oh

00:03:25.700 well it shouldn't be like that it's wrong it's it shouldn't it shouldn't it shouldn't but we don't

00:03:32.180 live in make a wish this isn't you know a world where you can just wish for things to be true

00:03:38.180 there's a reason that presidents politicians are always getting caught in affairs there's a reason

00:03:45.540 a-list hollywood actors don't really have a reputation for staying faithful okay so i'll

00:03:52.020 keep going a little bit understand something ladies men with power men of value cheat

00:03:58.420 because they should and see a lot of you ladies are gonna like what i have to say but i don't

00:04:03.540 really give a french toast doggone because when you are in the top 10 of men and almost 100 of

00:04:11.540 women want you just like pringles you can't just eat one or ladies or whatever okay so that that

00:04:19.220 content was going viral so i'm just giving you guys a point of view this was another one women

00:04:26.740 women don't respect men with no hoes bro look look up girl look a girl in the eyes and you

00:04:31.380 fuck her. Tell her you're going to cheat on her. She loves it.

00:04:33.800 Bro, man, they don't respect a man.

00:04:35.660 They don't respect a man with no hoes.

00:04:37.360 She goes out of it. She was like, yeah, I ain't gonna lie.

00:04:40.060 You don't got no hoes. I don't want that

00:04:41.360 anyway. I remember watching this

00:04:43.340 three, four years ago when I was triggered.

00:04:45.660 I thought, no, not all women

00:04:47.260 are like that. No, no, no.

00:04:49.260 Come on. That's not true. No hoes,

00:04:51.580 no me. No woman wants the man

00:04:53.440 that no other woman wants.

00:04:55.760 That is true. So women try

00:04:57.280 this idea of, well, I want a man that I know all

00:04:59.320 the women want, but then he doesn't want them back.

00:05:01.380 that ain't real right so the guys that ain't real so what i'm saying is what will smith did

00:05:05.960 is he put himself in the position where he had no power and he got abused and my point is this

00:05:09.520 when i said that the idea of being with one woman forever is going to be torturous i'm not even

00:05:13.220 talking about the fact that i don't get sexual variety i'm talking about the fact that i cannot

00:05:16.560 see myself five years down the line being in a position of power within my own life and household

00:05:21.280 i want a position of power if someone breaks bro if i'm walking down the street with my chick

00:05:26.240 and someone pulls a weapon and i have to fucking deal with him and i end up getting a fucking

00:05:29.700 manslaughter charge for example i don't want her what she can jump on a new dick and i'm going to

00:05:33.540 sell no i need i need to have a position of power and control and i need to know she's loyal to me

00:05:38.020 for life that's what i want you're not going to have that if you ain't got hoes hey so i'm going

00:05:42.260 to read you what i wrote about how my opinion changed on this okay so there are many people

00:05:49.860 who have made hit pieces on me at this point pretty much every liberal streamer on the planet

00:05:55.460 and liberal woman on tiktok there are a million tiktoks psychoanalyzing me as to why i think how

00:06:01.540 i do it is an interesting feeling be controversial being so controversial because in real life i'm

00:06:07.300 pretty easy going most people are surprised by my work and most people wouldn't have even known i

00:06:12.580 was that conservative but today i am going to tell you why i have the opinions i do because these

00:06:19.140 reaction channels don't one of the first lessons i learned getting into media is that being honest

00:06:24.580 leaves you hated and lying is much easier. That is why we have a demonetized channel and I have

00:06:29.780 to tell you to support my work at theaudacitynetwork.com. I have not watched a hit piece

00:06:34.740 of myself in a long time, but I'm aware of their criticism. One stance I am criticized for fairly

00:06:41.000 often is my stance on cheating. I've said things like women love to get cheated on or high value

00:06:46.500 men cheat. When I first entered the online space, I definitely did not have this opinion. I thought

00:06:52.320 it was detestable actually. One of the first Kevin Samuels videos actually triggered me

00:06:57.880 on the same thing. I was just a normal woman living my life doing reaction YouTube videos

00:07:03.740 as a side project while I worked a sales job. I used to react to rap music when one day someone

00:07:09.160 sent me a Kevin Samuels video titled high value men sheet to react to. Kevin Samuels had a call

00:07:15.520 in show where women would call in and ask him relationship questions. I remember a woman called

00:07:21.240 into the Kevin Samuels show, saying that she had ended her marriage because her husband cheated.

00:07:26.620 Kevin Samuels told her that it was her who messed up. I could not believe it. He was the one who

00:07:32.880 cheated. Why was Kevin Samuels saying that she messed up? I am fairly certain I called Kevin

00:07:38.900 Samuels a douchebag at the time. How could he say that she messed up when he cheated? I fought this

00:07:44.500 tooth and nail. I did not think it was true. I even went on Fresh and Fit and argued with Myron

00:07:49.440 that he was wrong about it. High value men don't have the right to cheat. What on earth is he

00:07:54.700 talking about? Well, why did I think he was wrong? I think I have to give a little bit of my background

00:07:59.600 first. I'm one of 10 children from the suburbs of Chicago, and my dad was a businessman who would

00:08:04.780 have fit Kevin Samuel's description of a high value. My dad is the best person I know, and

00:08:10.240 there's no one I give higher praise to. He's the type of person I wish I was a better person just

00:08:15.820 by being around. He always thinks of others before himself. He never drank, never smoked,

00:08:21.180 and has been married 30 years. When Kevin Samuel said high value men cheat, I thought of my father

00:08:26.980 and like a woman, I took it personal, even if it wasn't about me, and I was convinced he was wrong.

00:08:33.580 But the real world catches up with you fast. Exceptions don't make the rule. I moved on from

00:08:39.800 my sales job and decided to pursue a professional volleyball career in London. I still had my small

00:08:45.720 YouTube channel on the side, and I thought red pill content was so interesting. And frankly,

00:08:50.900 I sought to prove some of the ideas wrong, that I decided to host a panel show with my teammates.

00:08:58.460 I would recruit women from my team to come on my show after practice and give their thoughts on

00:09:03.020 marriage and relationships. The show grew to be one of the biggest shows in the United States at

00:09:07.820 the time. I interviewed a thousand men and women about culture and relationships. The interesting

00:09:13.340 thing about doing a show like that is you not only see what people say on the show, but you also get

00:09:18.300 to know people personally and see what they do behind the scenes. Again, when I started, I did

00:09:23.620 not think that high-value men automatically cheated. But unfortunately, during these interviews,

00:09:28.780 the real world hit me harder than I wanted to believe. There was a man who came on my show

00:09:33.880 fairly often with typical conservative talking points. Degeneracy is bad, blah, blah, blah.

00:09:39.600 He would tell me that high value men should not cheat. It was wrong. The usual talking points and

00:09:44.780 I agreed. Wow, this guy is great. The thing that I saw that other people did not see on screen

00:09:51.180 was that I would get information about who was dating who behind the scenes. As you know,

00:09:56.960 people talk. And when you come to find out that most of these guys that say that are all cap,

00:10:01.760 cap, cap. Occasionally, there's one that has religious convictions, but usually the men that

00:10:07.040 happen to have religious convictions are not attractive enough to get women. To be fair,

00:10:12.200 this is most men. Women have delusionally high standards, but it just is what it is.

00:10:17.200 The conservative men that were saying these talking points, I find out, are dating multiple

00:10:22.880 women on the show. He's talking about how cheating is wrong, but doing the exact same thing.

00:10:28.040 He would probably say that none of it was serious, but I see this as a workaround.

00:10:31.640 These guys usually casually date multiple women as a workaround so they can still view them

00:10:37.020 as moral. I will casually sleep with multiple women and then shame the men who do it in

00:10:42.120 relationships. I do not want to confuse you guys at all. I am not saying that what he was doing

00:10:47.320 was wrong. I am not saying he was wrong for that. What I am saying is that everything is cap.

00:10:53.240 The lack of information does not show the full story. This was a turning point for me. Myron,

00:10:58.880 Andrew Tate, and the other red pill content creators were the ones being honest and they

00:11:03.500 were crucified for it, where the men who lie were celebrated. Myron was the one telling the truth.

00:11:09.840 From my experience doing the show, who is loyal? Number one, the men who do not have the social

00:11:15.020 skills to attract women. These are men that are maybe good looking, but don't know how to flirt

00:11:20.700 or build attraction with women. Two, the men who are not aware how many hot young women they could

00:11:26.740 attract. These are men that married young, maybe worked a lot, but never experienced the degenerate

00:11:32.080 lifestyle. Usually these men have been in long-term relationships their whole life or over

00:11:36.980 a certain age. Three, the men who have to be and have no other choice. Generally, the men on these

00:11:43.040 shows talking about how men cheating or dogs do not have the social skills to cheat and it's obvious.

00:11:48.920 How does a man come to have multiple women? Ladies, I want to explain something that most

00:11:54.200 men did not start off this way. Let me demonstrate this story with an example from a friend of mine.

00:11:59.240 I have a male friend who I've known for a couple of years.

00:12:02.780 Since I have known him, he has always been a one-woman man, long-term relationships.

00:12:07.740 However, recently he started dating multiple women at the same time, nothing serious but

00:12:13.140 casual.

00:12:14.100 He says this is the best treatment he's ever received.

00:12:17.820 Women treat him better when they are sharing him versus when he is giving one his full

00:12:22.640 attention.

00:12:23.220 In this situation, what incentive does my friend have to be faithful?

00:12:29.240 The second issue we have is that in order for men to keep a woman in 2024, he has to

00:12:34.460 learn how to talk to her, where to meet women, and do a million things in order to be attractive

00:12:41.100 to us.

00:12:41.620 We have no idea the level of work that men go through in order to become attractive and

00:12:47.400 give us the butterflies.

00:12:49.440 He has to go through all of this trouble in order to be able to attract women.

00:12:53.420 The issue you get is men that have acquired the skill of attracting women, which are the

00:12:58.420 men that give you butterflies, are generally not going to stay faithful over long periods of time.

00:13:04.440 Sure, they may do it for a couple years, but at some point they're going to crack.

00:13:09.160 By the way, ladies, unless you're a virgin on your wedding day, you also cracked,

00:13:12.740 so this is not a moral statement, but a probability. If he goes through the trouble

00:13:17.640 of learning those social skills, generally they are incredibly difficult to tie down.

00:13:23.300 So pick your poison, ladies, a man who does not give you butterflies or a man who does

00:13:27.900 not cheat.

00:13:28.960 Most women can't get both.

00:13:31.480 Now, when women hear this, I tend to get three responses.

00:13:34.860 One, I don't like cheaters.

00:13:36.860 Two, shaming men, calling them bad in some way.

00:13:40.640 Or three, I am not like that and I am different than the other girls.

00:13:44.540 Many times women will come on the shows and say that they like nice guys and that they

00:13:48.480 do not date cheaters.

00:13:49.500 I hate to inform you, but generally these women are virtue signaling.

00:13:53.920 I am a good person because I do not date cheaters.

00:13:56.620 In reality, most women have dated a cheater.

00:13:59.700 Usually though, when I would ask a couple more questions, I would find out that the

00:14:04.120 women, the women who said that they did not like cheaters tend to dump their non-cheating

00:14:09.180 boyfriends.

00:14:09.980 The women who stay with their cheating boyfriends until they stop cheating.

00:14:15.400 Usually this would be about six months after they catch them cheating.

00:14:18.360 Or three, they say things like, I knew he was cheating, or my female intuition told me he was cheating.

00:14:25.360 Well, then I ask the question, why were you with him, if you don't like cheaters?

00:14:30.260 So what am I supposed to conclude, fellas?

00:14:33.280 A good proportion of women love to be cheated on.

00:14:37.300 I would suggest that it is the majority.

00:14:40.700 Sure, there are unicorns and exceptions, but they do not make the rule.

00:14:45.280 So what did I know? What did I learn from this experience? The men saying cheating is wrong

00:14:50.820 usually can't get women or are lying or are afraid of their wives. The women that say they do not

00:14:57.680 date cheaters have stayed with cheaters. Everyone is lying. The men that tell the truth are crucified

00:15:03.320 for it. And maybe both genders just like to be lied to. So, you know, is that, guys, let me know

00:15:09.320 on the chat is that unfair and the issue is a lot of times when you grow up thinking one thing is

00:15:16.920 true and i'm confronted with another reality what am i supposed to do am i supposed to change my

00:15:23.740 opinion or just believe what i believe regardless of what people are telling me don't disrespect the

00:15:29.420 player i don't here's the problem i don't know why you ladies believe as though if you want a

00:15:36.300 high value man ladies you're going to have to praise him publicly respect and accept you're

00:15:43.920 going to have to in that a you're going to have to accept that you ain't gonna be the only one

00:15:47.720 you may be the you may be the number one but at best you're number three he's first his purpose

00:15:54.420 is second you're third let's get into it ladies let's get into it because now the scales have

00:16:00.340 been removed from some of your eyes to where you understand that there are no perfect men

00:16:05.500 and the higher up a man goes the more options he has and it is natural and human to want

00:16:14.180 to exercise those options i said it men who sit around talking about they walk this moral path

00:16:21.120 are lying to you guys I am telling you I promise I promise they are lying they will I guys I have

00:16:31.960 heard them they will say it on shows they will do this whole speech and after I I can see them

00:16:38.500 oh we were just saying that I'm not saying it doesn't exist right I'm not saying there aren't

00:16:44.420 high value men or men in the top 10% that don't cheat. What I am saying is that generally their

00:16:52.240 social skills are so bad that they can't, or they're lying. Occasionally you get a religious

00:16:58.520 one, but I've even seen the religious ones crack over time. Forever is a long time. Forever. I mean

00:17:05.680 what? We're going to live to be 80. Did you guys know that the number one place STDs spread is

00:17:10.700 nursing homes you're going to be fighting off women until you're in the nursing home you know

00:17:14.880 so again i'm not saying it doesn't exist but what i am saying is that it's the exception it's not

00:17:22.580 the rule more often than not there are men who choose to abstain from relations with other women

00:17:34.880 but understand it is a choice but it is crazy for modern women to think those men should

00:17:42.000 have to do it if you have to have a man that's loyal to you get an average man or actually get

00:17:49.220 a below average man but if you want the tippy tippy top the best of the best be prepared to

00:17:54.620 share my question is this why did women of the past openly accept this why do women of the past

00:18:00.920 openly accept this because they understood that I would rather live in a stone fortress with plenty

00:18:09.080 of meat and vegetables and protection than live on the plains with that other guy.

Pearl - September 10, 2024

Many WOMEN Are Choosing CHEATERS Over LOYAL MEN ｜ Pearl Daily

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