Pearl - September 20, 2026


“Marriage Is a BAD DEAL for Men” @JustPearlyThings

30-Year-Old Women Are Getting a BRUTAL Dating Reality Check Drunk Mom Drives Her 3 Kids Around With DRUGS in the Car

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Length

2 minutes

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212.65

Word count

483

Sentence count

11

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Misogyny

5

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Toxicity

3

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Hate speech

2

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00:00:00.000 So I believe that marriage is a bad deal for men
00:00:02.160 because of the incentive structure that's at place.
00:00:05.580 Men are more likely to pay child support,
00:00:07.120 they're more likely to pay alimony,
00:00:08.840 and they're more likely to lose access
00:00:10.620 to their children, the house.
00:00:12.680 So because of that risk, I don't think it's a good deal. 1.00
00:00:14.800 I think it's favorable to women. 1.00
00:00:16.960 So then don't get married, die alone. 1.00
00:00:19.040 Yeah, you can. 0.99
00:00:20.080 Okay.
00:00:20.920 So basically-
00:00:22.400 And that's what's gonna happen more and more.
00:00:23.740 That's why the marriage rate is declining.
00:00:25.260 So what's your solution?
00:00:27.400 Is it just like, don't get married?
00:00:29.080 is it how should we change marriage so that it's um i would like it to be no child support no 1.00
00:00:34.440 alimony 50 50 custody okay i think if um feminists want to be equal we need it to actually be equal 1.00
00:00:40.680 so let's paternity fraud should also be illegal that's one thing that i would like to add 1.00
00:00:44.600 okay wait child so child support alimony no child support no alimony because everyone has access to
00:00:49.720 get a job there's nothing holding you back okay so yeah so let's start let's start with child
00:00:54.120 support and then we can go down the list how about that sure okay so with child support um
00:00:58.280 i guess my thinking about that is it actually has nothing to do with marriage like people still pay
00:01:02.600 child support even when they're not married it's about you know supporting your child right the
00:01:07.880 purpose of child support is if you have a kid you should be financially responsible for supporting
00:01:13.480 that child regardless of your marital status so i mean i don't see what the issue with you know
00:01:20.040 making sure parents are held accountable to have their children be closed fed yeah and if there
00:01:25.000 was legal measures in place where they require it spent on the children but it's just not the way
00:01:29.240 it is today um you can uh you're also the the way that child support is calculated it's based off of
00:01:35.720 how much time the dad gets with the kids um so there is incentive to limit his access to the
00:01:41.800 kid in order to get paid more and there's no structure that requires that the mothers spend
00:01:46.440 it on the child no it's fraud yeah it's illegal to spend child support funds on things other than
00:01:52.040 your children is already illegal no but it's not enforced there's nobody that's thrown in jail for
00:01:56.200 child support but then why does that make child support inherently a bad thing shouldn't we be
00:02:01.560 advocating for more enforcement that child support be spent on children instead of just zero child
00:02:08.200 no because i think if you're equal if you want to be equal then be equal no child support no
00:02:12.840 alimony. I think you should be responsible for the decisions that you make.