Pearl - February 15, 2024


Marriage is a Bad Deal For Most Men - Is it Sad Or Is It True？ (@CandaceOwensPodcast called me out)


Episode Stats


Length

5 minutes

Words per minute

128.43248

Word count

647

Sentence count

26

Harmful content

Misogyny

5

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Toxicity

7

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Hate speech

6

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Summary

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In this episode, I talk about why I don t think men should get married in the 21st century and why it makes no sense for men to get married at all. I also talk about the dangers of being in a toxic marriage and why women should get the First Communion.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 So, in 2024, marriage is a bad deal for men.
00:00:06.780 And it does not make sense for men to get married in 2024.
00:00:13.960 Now, this statement is simply a fact.
00:00:18.700 It is just a fact.
00:00:21.640 Now, many times when I say this, my critics, my detractors will come at me and they'll say,
00:00:28.760 Pearl. But don't you want to get married? But Pearl, are you just a doomer? And it's so
00:00:40.200 interesting, they make it personal. But facts do not care about the way you feel. So 50% of
00:00:51.880 marriages end in divorce. Okay. And trad cons will come in and say these are made up stats.
00:01:00.500 They're not, but let's just say they are. So let's cut it in half. Let's go down to 25%.
00:01:07.140 If you did a business deal where your partner is paid to leave and in the process of leaving
00:01:16.300 This partner, this business partner has the power to accuse you of assault, to ruin your entire reputation, to fire you, to help make you lose your job, to disparage you on social media, to take half of the money that you've spent 20 years working for, to take your children.
00:01:38.720 even if it was a 25 chance you would think
00:01:46.200 i don't know if i want to sign that deal i don't know if that's a good idea but for some reason
00:01:55.260 with this topic and i just i never understood what it is about this topic trad cons get so emotional
00:02:02.760 and they'll object they'll say well we we need to get married and fight degeneracy and
00:02:13.680 but okay okay one most people aren't religious so
00:02:19.840 putting your like morality and other people isn't going to work that's like me going up to muslims 1.00
00:02:27.600 i'm a catholic and going up to muslims and saying why don't you go get the first communion
00:02:32.880 and then they say well we don't believe that and i say hey go go get get you first communion go 0.99
00:02:41.320 get communion go to confession and they're like what are you talking about you crazy lady 0.94
00:02:46.260 and i just never understood why trad cons are so emotional with this topic
00:02:53.780 If I say an objective fact, hey, it is dangerous for young men to get married.
00:03:01.300 They do not know what they're signing up for.
00:03:04.540 No woman is a guarantee. 1.00
00:03:08.740 There are homeschooled virgins that divorce rape their husbands. 0.99
00:03:14.140 Those are all facts. 0.97
00:03:16.220 And you'll see the same, like, cope that you see feminists use. 1.00
00:03:21.440 Like if I make a generality about women, then they'll say, oh, well, not all women are like that.
00:03:28.260 And it's so interesting because the same way they say that when I say it's like not all marriages are like that.
00:03:39.860 And it's like stating the obvious.
00:03:42.240 And it's so interesting because then they'll use their marriage as like the one we should look up to.
00:03:48.080 And I mean, I'm not, I don't really care.
00:03:50.340 it's not my my deal but why does everybody have to be like you and it almost puts these
00:04:00.460 influencers in a really like god-like state where they say everybody has to live like me
00:04:08.580 i don't think there's anything wrong with a guy that says you know what 0.99
00:04:13.260 there are way too many whores 1.00
00:04:15.580 I'm gonna live like 1.00
00:04:18.120 be a monk
00:04:18.840 in the woods
00:04:20.760 if a guy says you know what
00:04:23.220 women are not worth commitment 1.00
00:04:25.300 I might date some girls casually but that's it for me
00:04:28.260 if a guy wants to
00:04:29.900 Dan Bolzerian it
00:04:31.060 and the chicks are consenting
00:04:32.900 it's not really my problem
00:04:36.180 but I don't know
00:04:39.400 it's just the weirdest phenomenon
00:04:41.440 on that conservatives care about facts unless it goes against marriage then facts go out the window
00:04:52.880 i don't know just thought i had but let me know what you think in the comments
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