Pearl - August 26, 2025
"Married Men Need To STOP SIMPING" HEATED DEBATE
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss why women have the best outcomes in dating the most popular and attractive men, and why women are hypergamous. We discuss the benefits of being a virgin until marriage, and the dangers of not being virgins until marriage.
Transcript
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i'm not married i'm not taking care of a girl i'm not taking care of you you got breath bro
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who sucked another bit oh my gosh no i don't mind at all welcome to the show
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thank you chick's husband no i wish i was umpaville fun fact though umpaville is a uh is a
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chad and a right winger that's just in the chat sorry what are you guys talking about
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so we're talking about what women got the best outcomes in dating the most popular and most
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attractive men because in girl world that's winning so because women only pick money when
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they have to when women are young they don't pick money so um what strategies they employed and this
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was i thought of this because charlie kirk had a tweet where he quote tweeted a woman saying
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sleep around and then find a guy to settle down with and he said this is going to leave a lot of
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women single and i thought your wife went to arizona state university charlie this worked on you
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i'm not saying it's a moral thing to do but you're not going to convince me you were pure if you went to
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arizona state i mean they were doing spring break at lake havasu let me tell you they were hoeing out on
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those boats oh yeah so and she was happy everybody knows that what lake havasu is the spot and hell
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yeah i don't know i don't know how in touch you guys are with christianity but i could feel a spiritual
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whoredom whenever i go to uh asu and i get it i get like an aroma of stds and just like disgust i agree
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with you no it's a spiritual thing for sure it's totally i think it turns virgins into hoes like it
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you can be the most pure like that place will break you well you know like charlie kirk hates
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college he says college is a scam he tells everybody not to go maybe that's why because his wife wanted
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who knows dude this could be a multi-faceted thing with charlie well because my point isn't what's
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moral but i'm like i think a lot of women do that and it works like i i don't think you can say that
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doesn't work yeah it really comes down to um you know i was a virgin until marriage isabella was not
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um but it really comes down to not giving a i mean like it's always it's always like
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obviously if isabelle's body count was super high i wouldn't go for it but
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um it's like i don't really care um it doesn't really matter to me you're not the main character i am
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and if you don't think i'm the main character and it's about you then like get the out of here
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um you know so ultimately it's kind of a it's kind of like the blacks do this really well when
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they have to stay toxic and they like you know they get on instagram and stuff and they're like
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stay toxic king like go your best friend or whatever um you know it's not necessarily just
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that it's just like a mindset of like uh nobody nobody else matters it's just you yeah it's like
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it's your world it's like you are you are now in my world not i'm in your world yeah exactly i gotta
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push back a bit because i think that if you're not actually one of the best that she's had you can go
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ahead and like boss up all you want she's gonna look at you like a clown well that's right but you
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have to be you have to be the guy though you have to be the guy yeah yeah and you have to know if
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you're the guy and kind of just like move on to something else you just gotta not even worry about
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that you'll never know what it's like to take the dick she's taken and but you're the one that she's
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now so you can assume that she that you're the best well like i said you'll know based on how
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how she treats you yeah she's a guy and that's why i went numerous times it's more it's less about
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the body count it's more about how does she treat you yeah exactly and women are hypergamous it would
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be silly if you didn't think so so i mean keeping your abstinence and abstaining from having sex with
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her until marriage is something that she's just gonna run to she's gonna want that because every
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single guy in the past is if she wanted them she could get them it automatically makes you a one
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your vitality today oh you guys don't know bro you're wrong yeah i gotta disagree i i mean i've never
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you're wrong bro it's been a long time since i was a virgin but i don't know actually i will say i think
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that me it works for a certain guys that already have all the other chad like features or chad like you know status
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and it works for those guys because like i said my friend uh mike mulvaney one of the iron disciples out
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of uh um florida he's in his 30s single and he's dated girls that were on access vegas that were models
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and stuff like that and he wouldn't he would not end up giving the d because he said like they weren't
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worth my d you know like they weren't worthy of it so i was like yeah so high value let's go yeah it's like
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my cock is way too valuable yeah i think men have low self-esteem a lot of times and so they just put
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out and they don't really take sex seriously and i understand why they wouldn't um but at the end of
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the day if you're not a guy who's doing calculations in your head and thinking to yourself like if i get
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her pregnant um you know what does this look like what does my child look like what does our future
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our family look like if you're not making those calculations i mean i don't know what you're doing
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uh it's it's not virtue it's not not every woman is worthy of like carrying your legacy is what you're
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saying exactly yeah and um i grew up in a broken home like i didn't have my biological father around
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and stuff like that uh that's like the last thing i want to repeat is this uh generational kind of
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curse of of broken homes and um just a lack of a strong father figure so that's what's always
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okay bro what if i told you that it's not up to you hey what if i told you you're gay who's it up to
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it's not up to you bro who's it up to you you think that it's up to you but it's not she has control
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over you because she doesn't it to her no oh the law says that she does though no how did she how
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did she have how does he have or she have control over him once the baby's all over him because of
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once the baby she's saying that you can't you can't sleep around with other with other women
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who said that she has control over you yeah the contract says it what contract yeah the contract
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says that you can't sleep with other women guys she can leave you at any time that she wants brother
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you can leave her it's not up to you you have no control marriage contracts work the same in both
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directions okay what have you been married i guess or worse no and i never i have because i'm not
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stupid i have i'm not dumb and i can tell you they work the same in both directions i'm not this
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and i've got custody of my daughter because since she was two so tell me you're yapping all your victim
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bull you're talking about you're just coping for being a loser wow yeah yeah that's what that's
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what it is brother that's what it is yeah we know that's what it is we know that just because i'm not
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married i'm a loser see that's no it's because you talk like a loser you act right now there's nothing we
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can do oh my gosh women we're the victims we're making those i don't like men now we're gay how are you
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already when you say you haven't even had a bad divorce when you say that you're you have to go
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through a divorce you're a previous other people you can't just look and use your eyes and use your
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brain guys guys hold on let me go fast like the thing with divorce is because here's the thing with
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red pill channels we can say guys don't get married don't get married in my in our lifetime most guys are
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still going to get married and they're still going to have kids it's just the biggest part about it is
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you know what could happen and if you make a decision don't and complain if if it doesn't work
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out well there is there isn't risk there's no reward without risk that's what you choose to do
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my biggest problem is guys who go into marriage and then their wife leaves or they scoot over and they
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act shocked men we can get divorced we can bounce back i've been married before i've been divorced
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i can afford another divorce if i choose to get married again understand i'm saying so like exactly
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the thing marriage is just if you decide to get married which most guys will but there's no excuse
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be like i can't believe she did that why not there are married men out there there are men who
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who get screwed just make sure that you count for all the variables if you choose to do it that's
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all i'm saying but there's ways like there's ways to maneuver things to where that you mitigate the
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risk i agree like you know put all your assets in a trust before you even get married all right an
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irrevocable trust and then put you know i'll get an llc and then pay yourself from the llc
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now the business owns your your finances the trust is secure all your assets are secure in the trust
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so then you get divorced oh well what is she getting i um i want to give because david hasn't
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really had a lot of time to talk so i wanted to give him a little more time to finish his thought
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go ahead i just think if you care about body count you're just you're like you shouldn't even care
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because they're all hoes all women are hoes bro and like a good example is bro who's married up here
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like bro you're married another man had your woman before you you're literally a brother you're a
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i've had other women before her so like what is that what is your plan no i'm talking about dude
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who was a virgin dude who's a virgin until marriage and then he's he got with a woman who had other men
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before him and he's like oh i'm a winner how does that make him you're not a winner you're a cuckold
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bro dude's like how is that you're going to be forever alone i want to know i want to know you
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can keep laughing i'm laughing right now i'm gonna keep laughing okay i just want to know like why what
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definition does that make him a cut is it too soon to ask another man was inside his woman before he was
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but you said all women are hoes right so then therefore you should always assume that there's
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always been another penis insider right and now there's no more penis inside but yours so how
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does that occur because the cuckold is somebody that's raising a child that's not his under the
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impression that it is his so how is he a cuck he's a cuck because another man had his woman before he
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so if he should have only married a virgin so any guy that got with the girl you shouldn't have gotten
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married at all bro we don't i don't tell guys to get married i tell you you sleep with girls do you
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sleep with guys or girls and if you sleep with girls do you sleep with girls who are virgins or
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who aren't virgins and if they're not a virgin do you kiss why do you care why does it matter or not
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why does it what your logic your logic makes you a too no it doesn't i'm not married i'm not taking
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care of a girl who has other men i'm not taking care of you you got dick breath bro bro who sucked
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another bit oh my gosh that means everybody is always going to be a no sir that's wrong because
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i'm not taking care of this woman i might sleep you're appealing for her to get get her in bed with
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you so then you are no i'm not that's your strategy brother that's your strategy i don't know to women
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to get them to sleep with me bro i don't need to do that this is such low iq you said that if another
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man's penis has been inside of your girl you're a cuck that was your logic and then you marry her
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wait wait wait but i don't take care of her i don't take care of her i don't give her anything
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i'm the real winner you're not you're not the real winner if you're not taking if you're not taking care
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of your wife then why are you even married i do that that's a logical fallacy right there like
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that makes no sense you're proving my point for me yeah like you're literally proving my point for me
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you're taking care of a woman who's had so what is your strategy now are you going to what is my
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strategy yeah going forward looking at the rest of your life are you going to why do you care about
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me so much this isn't i'm curious about you we're on a panel we're talking about each other i want
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to know what your plan is what oh what my plan is yeah what are you going to do are you going to
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cook it up or you can grab it alone that's my plan i don't have any other plans outside of that
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i didn't hear what you said my plan is to get filthy rich i don't care about women bro i don't
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try to appeal to women all right let's say you reach that level what is that what what does that
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get you what does the filthy rich get it gives me everything i want bro i get a warm bed to sleep
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in i get food bro all right so i have all that and your legacy dies that's embarrassing because
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like let's have the quorum guys okay let's have the quorum let's have the quorum here everybody
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let's have the forum bro let's have a little bit of a chill yeah let's have the quorum go ahead
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um yeah like you're a millionaire you already hit that goal you're filthy rich how does that how does it
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have solved all your problems it doesn't you just have more problems i think i think what he's
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trying to say though is like you can't you're not in control of your bloodline because if you have a
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kid the odds are your kids aren't going to have kids like because the birth rate's like 1.6 right
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now and it's not going to get better like there's people born i think it was bach he had 10 kids he has
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no living descendants 200 years later so you're not even in control of that right i don't really like i don't
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really i don't from you at any moment she can just wake up one day oh i don't love him anymore
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yeah yeah but if you but my point is more like i'm gonna just i'm gonna just back him up a little
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bit here and the other thing is it's very much up to the discretion of the judge because i've had
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interviews with guys and like i mean there's nothing they could do they got a feminist judge you should
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interview me sometime i had a fantastic divorce sure i'm also confused about this dichotomy is that
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supposed to be like a selling point to men my guy is that supposed to be something that like
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manners you could have you could have you could have had a really good divorce but it doesn't
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really minimize the guys that like lose their kids my point my point is that there's no there's always
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in any divorce there's going to be a loser and it seems to be the attitude of like douchebags like
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this that it's always the guy but it's not always the guy it's majority of the time it is though it is
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yeah no the whole point is that i've gotten destroyed like yeah and i still got the question
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why do we why do we draw this dichotomy of that either you got to get married or you're going to
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be alone forever like yeah bro i hate that i've been in mostly long-term relationships
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a lot of which have lasted longer than some of my friends marriages so so i i when i when i ask about
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marriage when i speak about marriage i guess i'm assuming that long-term life you know relationships
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does count whether or not you got the piece of paper in my mind ltrs ltrs because flow is an ltr
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yeah i would advise not to get married on paper um do it through the church like like um this dude
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up here said covenantal marriage have your money and trust you know uh there was this guy i talked
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to when i was 15 he was an architect in california and he told me he got a divorce and uh she owed him
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money even though he was a uh a well-off architect in la because he his mom owned owned his business
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and he lowered his pay um and he kept low pay listen guys there's tons of ways to hide your books there's
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a lot of different ways you can do it um this is how you beat the system and uh there's a lot of
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successful men who have done it and the women can't really touch them and mess with them it seems like
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they can but uh i've seen a lot of times they can't hey brother i'll say i'll say this brother
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i'll say this i kind of feel bad for you because i i really predict uh uh like you know i've been
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quiet overall pro just listening i really predict bro you're gonna have a crash out uh divorce man
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you're gonna be in bad shape in two three years bro i feel really bad for you i really really do and
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i'm not joking man based on based on everything the way he's talking about i feel i feel really
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listen listen yeah i've been quiet i've been quiet but uh yeah we're gonna have a really
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really really really bad time brother but hey man that's that's your decision that's what you made
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most men want that they want to be wrecked they want right it takes two divorces for them to actually
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wake up because they yeah they want to be lied to they want to believe i agree this woman that's
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had other dudes before me she's going to be loyal to me and only love me especially once i give her
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this thing and i give her the kids the guy with that you know isabel louis husband you just have to
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realize that like you're i'm not saying anything bad about your dynamic but the fact that you were a
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version and your wife wasn't that's kind of that's not conventional so there's always going to be
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some kind of respect i think it's good that you because i think that kids should be born in the
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context of a marriage i think that you're better to have had a kid in a marriage and gotten divorced
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at least you're trying to raise a child in the best context of having children if i were to i don't
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want children but if i if i were to ever have children i would try to get married to have children
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at least give that a chance so like but you have to understand that your dynamic is uncommon and
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unconventional i'm not saying it's bad or good but like you know because everyone knows knows about
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the male dating strategy and and how men will want to sleep with a bunch of women but then
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women want to lock down it's just that whole dynamic and your dynamic is just so unconventional