Pearl - September 27, 2026


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Episode Stats


Length

2 minutes

Words per minute

226.33

Word count

475

Sentence count

12


Transcript

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00:00:00 We have lived in three different cities since being married.
00:00:02 And in each of those places that we moved to, we had no friends prior to living there and no family that lived there.
00:00:07 And we partially did this on purpose because what I have found is when you are trying to create a new identity.
00:00:13 What you have found or what he has found?
00:00:16 In three different cities since being married.
00:00:18 And in each of those places that we moved to, we had no friends prior to living there and no family that lived there.
00:00:23 And we partially did this on purpose because what I have found is when you are trying to create a new identity, you are trying to start a new life, you're trying to build something new.
00:00:33 It is much harder to do so when you are surrounded by your old life.
00:00:37 And when you move somewhere new where you know absolutely no one, it does a couple of things.
00:00:41 Number one, it forces you to meet new people and connect with new people and build new friendships.
00:00:46 And number two, it allows you to hyper focus on the vision that you and your spouse want to create.
00:00:52 i think a lot of times the advice is okay once you get married you kind of want to settle down
00:00:56 you want to be near your family you want to raise your kids with a village etc i have fully accepted
00:01:01 the fact that i am not going to have a village when we have children i am not going to have help
00:01:07 right down the street my parents aren't going to live right down the street we may not be able to
00:01:10 go on as many date nights we may not be able to travel as much that's fine i'm going to embrace
00:01:14 that season when it gets here but it is necessary for us to not have that village that's a sacrifice
00:01:20 i'm willing to make because that decision was but do you see the point of this is to bring attention
00:01:25 i'm so awesome it's just so insufferable i'm so awesome because i'm willing to make this look how
00:01:31 great i am i mean required to become the people that we are now it was required for our growth
00:01:38 it was so necessary look at us look at our relationship if i reflect back on the this
00:01:42 divorce is going to be terrible for past two years of our marriage and where we started
00:01:47 to where we are now the number one thing that i would tell someone is move away you and your
00:01:53 husband move move away yeah um i would only say that if they're close to the mother get away from
00:02:00 the mothers it will help you grow exponentially all right let's keep going