Pearl - September 27, 2026


Men Are Expected to SACRIFICE Everything for Women

“Single Moms Keep Bringing ABUSIVE Men Around Their Children” @JustPearlyThings

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00:00:00.000 Do you believe that feminism has gone too far or not far enough? 1.00
00:00:04.680 Feminism has gone, I think it's really far. 1.00
00:00:06.800 I think when it started, it was initially a good thing. 0.95
00:00:09.860 But the way it's going now, I see it more as a female supremacy movement. 0.97
00:00:14.660 See, that's the problem. Men always think it was a good thing to start. 0.96
00:00:17.340 This is how it happens. The white men, they're so nice, giving, kind.
00:00:21.780 And the women are like, oh, this is terrible. Our conditions are awful.
00:00:25.600 And the white men are like, oh, well, I'm sorry. Let me make it better for you. 0.98
00:00:29.680 even though they've made heaven on earth and they doubt themselves and they listen to women
00:00:33.900 and then it's cooked just like in adam and eve now then you know just fighting for female rights
00:00:38.740 now females i would argue have even more rights than men and uh you see it in courts you see it
00:00:45.660 all the time like yeah women have rights to their kids men don't everything pretty much even with
00:00:50.320 social media i mean a girl literally gets free treatment just for existing in 2026 and i feel
00:00:56.200 like women deserve less pretty much for that reason do you believe that men today are weak
00:01:02.200 and if so why i do think some men are weak all right this is a chad this is a chad so i bet he's
00:01:07.780 gonna have more of a masculine take let's see um i do think the 50 50 rule is weak it's the
00:01:13.420 incels and the chads that have the same mindset it's the wife guys that are cooked it's the mid
00:01:19.080 men that cook everyone else this this comes from medieval ages being a king and you're having your 0.89
00:01:23.820 queen. The queen was never meant to be 50-50. It was meant to be the king taking control and being
00:01:28.860 the leader in the relationship. I think men today are weaker than our grandfathers were
00:01:33.580 because we were, they're not outside, you know, discovering the basic skills like cutting the
00:01:39.440 grass, working on vehicles and stuff like that. And I think the single mother- Before they had 1.00
00:01:43.720 a reason to learn those skills, now they don't. Epidemic has a lot to do with it because a woman 1.00
00:01:49.180 can't raise a man to be a man did feminism become successful because men stopped embracing 0.94
00:01:56.300 traditional masculinity i mean it's just that men can't say no they love saying yes they can never
00:02:02.300 say no or because traditional masculinity taught men to prioritize women's interests i think both
00:02:10.380 to be honest i think both play a part but i would say that the second one a bit more because we were
00:02:17.340 like taught from a very young age to treat women in a certain way which isn't bad i'm not saying
00:02:22.300 that's bad we should treat women with respect and be gentlemen but in 2026 first of all they
00:02:28.780 want equality right so equality deletes chivalry right because chivalry comes from not being equal
00:02:35.900 you know the man being stronger the woman being if anything women are superior in 2026 not actually
00:02:41.260 in like skill or anything important but in terms of rights and the laws women have way more rights 0.79
00:02:47.180 men have to cater to women women don't have to cater to men a little bit weaker you you know 1.00
00:02:50.620 putting the blanket so the woman can walk over the water you opening the door for her pulling the 0.99
00:02:54.620 chair paying for the first day now all of this i would say you know it's not worth it anymore 0.70
00:02:59.820 because most girls first of all aren't worth it and second of all i just feel like us men now
00:03:06.060 like i said we're being destroyed man masculinity is just being destroyed and i feel like women
00:03:11.500 have everything given to them just like that so yeah how would feminism been a movement that's
00:03:16.940 gain traction without the help of men i don't think feminism has gained traction without the 0.99
00:03:22.020 help of men because most of the politicians are men so if they didn't want feminism to gain 0.99
00:03:27.280 traction they would have passed laws to try to suppress it feminism is fueled because men want 0.91
00:03:32.500 female validation so bad i don't even think it's sex i think men just want women to like them 1.00
00:03:37.580 and they want it so bad that they're willing to throw other men under the bus that's what this 0.94
00:03:42.140 all comes from is men wanting women to love them and instead of realizing that women are sharks and 1.00
00:03:47.160 can never love you for you and you got to focus on yourself because women are big fat slut whores 1.00
00:03:52.820 because of that yeah by women because of that like men will throw each other under the bus 1.00
00:03:57.920 they don't have that mindset um feel by other women who are really pushing other women to be
00:04:03.220 you know a solo a solo wolf a lone wolf in a sense um when that has just never really been the main
00:04:09.240 but weren't men the ones in power who gave women their rights that is fair that is a true message
00:04:14.040 that is that is um that very accurate and it was taken advantage of i believe that that message was
00:04:18.680 taken advantage of in the reality of the world we build things we are stronger and we've created a
00:04:25.220 lot so most men allow things to happen in the world it's not to say that women don't have the 0.85
00:04:30.980 strength or the ability to do so it's just see again women don't have the strength or the ability 0.86
00:04:35.880 to do so see it's still that they're still coddling us fundamentally the way we were built 0.99
00:04:40.480 we lead things and when we allow things to happen we also are our own detriment aren't men expected
00:04:47.520 to be self-sacrificing leaders that always put women first most of the time yes uh and in western
00:04:54.320 culture but that's not for every culture you know in other cultures the man is is the most
00:05:00.660 important and his needs are served wouldn't putting women first also put men last yes yes i
00:05:07.700 mean but sometimes and they act like being a servant the president you have to men have to
00:05:12.660 put themselves first because you can't you can't put anybody else first if you don't care about
00:05:17.780 yourself you know so it just is what it is you know if you're putting the woman first and she's
00:05:23.220 you know with the kids and that's in a way you're putting men first because if she's taking care of
00:05:27.860 of the kids and and taking care of the boy and raising them up right then the way you're putting
00:05:31.940 men first by stepping out the way and not putting yourself first men are self-sacrificing leaders
00:05:38.340 but a lot of some women don't uh deserve that self-sacrifice wouldn't putting women first
00:05:45.440 also put men last no because in order to be a leader you have to know how to be a follower
00:05:52.520 and that's not true listen and take advice from people that need you so yeah but you don't take
00:05:59.540 advice like that's stupid because you can't lead a company and also follow your employees that'll 0.99
00:06:05.380 leave i've done that that leads you to hell on earth no the men will always be the decision 1.00
00:06:11.020 makers but sometimes it's good to step back and let somebody else go first and let me tell the men
00:06:17.140 out there you do not spend a dime on video games or sports games or things for yourself
00:06:23.240 rest in peace charlie but you were a super simp until your wife does not have to worry about
00:06:27.460 finances you come last in the family when it comes to finances period that is your job that's 0.99
00:06:33.220 some bullshit that's as his wife has and you know it teaches women to be complete brats because 1.00
00:06:38.940 look even you know she's got a frozen face her hair i'm guessing is fake heavy makeup the latest 1.00
00:06:46.080 fashion that's a frivolous lifestyle and honestly you're happier as a person when you don't live 1.00
00:06:51.360 like that um but women we have a tendency to want that and when men give women unlimited money it 0.88
00:06:57.200 teaches us to be brats with the money your wife gets whatever she wants whatever she wants when
00:07:02.880 a man always pays always protects always provides why do we call that leading rather than serving 0.62
00:07:09.680 because at the end of the day that is leading you're taking control you're taking control of 0.99
00:07:12.560 the finances a lot of these women want to be stay-at-home moms who has no they don't to take 1.00
00:07:16.900 control at that point has to be the man the man has to make the money the man i guess he's simping 1.00
00:07:20.840 to pay the bills the man has to go to work at the end of the day i don't want my kid you know in a
00:07:25.480 daycare from yeah but you can work from home as a mother and if they're not homeschooling then what
00:07:32.980 is she doing all day nine to three i want my my mother being the one that is watching my child 1.00
00:07:38.540 who gets to determine which women are deserving of chivalry men in a reality sense it should be 1.00
00:07:45.900 based off of characteristic traits but what ends up usually happening is just the hottest women
00:07:51.900 default answer of all women should be respected and treated as if they're high quality if chivalry 1.00
00:07:58.700 and male protectiveness helped expand rights and protections for women did those same values leave
00:08:05.580 men politically disadvantaged i would say yes and no at the same time i mean chivalry like i said
00:08:12.140 before comes from the woman being weaker than the man and i feel like nowadays it's given the women
00:08:20.140 i don't want to be correct with my words here i feel like because of chivalry women want it's
00:08:26.220 using men's protector instinct against them so men wanna they're protective of women they don't
00:08:31.660 want us to suffer but you have to let women suffer in order for women to not be brats you have to let 0.73
00:08:38.620 women fail and have consequences for our choices to be treated as females and also at the same time 0.97
00:08:44.940 be treated as men if you know what i mean and i feel like because of that you can't you can't be 1.00
00:08:51.420 chivalrous to a woman anymore because they expect treatment as a man and as a woman and it just
00:08:56.940 doesn't work i think chivalry still exists for you know certain level of of women i think it's
00:09:05.020 been uh taken advantage of and expected you know like if you pass by a woman that you know has a
00:09:11.580 heavy suitcase she packed the suitcase but she would expect a man to help her with that suitcase
00:09:18.380 well who gets to decide which women are deserving of chivalry the men if the men uh they should vet 1.00
00:09:25.100 women properly instead of just going on how their bodies look and ask the proper questions
00:09:32.240 and have the proper conversation to see if that woman deserves his chivalry or not. 1.00
00:09:36.920 What are the proper questions?
00:09:38.700 Can you cook?
00:09:39.920 You know, how-
00:09:41.020 That's all you got to do is cook.
00:09:42.940 Is your view of a family dynamic?
00:09:45.760 But there's no way to know.
00:09:47.200 How were you raised?
00:09:48.460 You know, were you raised in a two-parent household?
00:09:50.820 What's your relationship with your father?
00:09:53.020 What do you think men-
00:09:54.160 none of that matters like i think it's more temperament rather than anything else because 1.00
00:10:00.400 there's a lot of women that can cook and are absolute to be around and suffer you know 0.74
00:10:06.800 staying in the dynamic of families why do men feel obligated to provide women a better life 0.97
00:10:13.680 and why do women still resent men despite this i think women resent men because they
00:10:19.360 a lot of women nowadays believe that they have to be a provider when it used to be the men's 0.99
00:10:25.760 job to be the provider the male is doing this yeah but women want money to have sex with hot guys 0.98
00:10:31.520 so no i mean i think actually women like spending money on men i think women like getting money 0.92
00:10:36.000 from betas either from work or for wherever to spend it's in a relationship and that's how it's 0.98
00:10:41.360 going to be there shouldn't be another half the the female should not be the one leading the 0.99
00:10:45.440 the relationship there should be no 50 50 um there should be no should but this is like what is you 0.99
00:10:51.980 know hi everyone 70 30 you know it's 100 0 and the woman is there as a trophy for you if it's wrong
00:11:00.560 for the government to impose one religion on everyone why should one religion's definition
00:11:05.900 of masculinity be treated as the standard for all men well because there's one god and one word
00:11:12.440 in a multicultural society shouldn't masculinity be open to debate rather than dictated by any
00:11:19.540 single faith again there's one god one word conservatives say ladies first feminists say
00:11:26.700 the future is female what's the difference i honestly don't see no difference in that statement
00:11:31.720 so then why do people think that conservatives are any better than feminists i really don't know
00:11:37.000 on that one say the future is female because because without men yeah because real conservatism 0.76
00:11:44.120 is men go first men lead women follow not ladies first right real conservatism is god men women
00:11:51.560 children but conservatives they don't worship god they worship money i found out the other day
00:11:55.720 the speaking fee for conservatives it's like a hundred thousand dollars or fifty thousand dollars
00:12:00.280 and i just can't believe the greed of these people that is so much i can't imagine charging
00:12:07.680 that much money some people are just greedy they just want to see how much they can get out of you 1.00
00:12:11.840 and then they lecture you about morality go fuck yourself women will be lost and without women 1.00
00:12:20.360 men cease to exist why didn't conservatives push back harder against early feminism 1.00
00:12:26.920 but push back strongly now there's more money because the pendulum has swung too hard because 0.76
00:12:32.620 i think originally there was a lot of things that women didn't have like you weren't able to vote 0.60
00:12:37.680 they weren't weren't going out and working there was a lot of things that that we thought you know 0.88
00:12:42.820 maybe that's messed up maybe you know they should need to have this chance they have they should
00:12:47.240 have this and this but once something starts going too extreme then there's usually pushback
00:12:53.400 and and it goes back the other way and it might swing back to other extremes i don't see any
00:12:57.880 indication it's going to swing back to women not so much working anymore and women being more homely
00:13:03.960 and i think the new extreme is going to be further if women become housewives they're going to be
00:13:08.200 housewives with a boyfriend which we kind of see already so women might get tired of that and it
00:13:13.800 swings too much that way and it and it goes back so i don't think it always just stays one way i
00:13:19.320 think through time we go to these left or right of extremes if society expects men to protect
00:13:27.400 everyone else who's expected to protect men when their interests conflict with societies well i
00:13:34.520 guess they they expect men to protect themselves you know pretty much no one yeah it's women and
00:13:41.160 minorities job to protect men especially white men not the other way around because no one really 0.74
00:13:47.400 cares about men that's the thing we've always put women women and children first which again is
00:13:52.680 that's the male essence that's what we're supposed to do we're supposed to put women and children
00:13:57.400 first but like you like you just said no one is going to protect us men we're always going to be
00:14:03.320 in the front lines we're always going to be the ones uh sacrificing ourselves for the greater good
00:14:07.560 that's that's about that's a pretty much being a man you know sacrificing yourself for women and
00:14:12.360 children now the thing is though no women and children should be sacrificing for you because
00:14:17.880 if you don't succeed then nobody succeeds when men win everybody wins so that's how it should be it's
00:14:22.360 not how it is that's why we're in hell on earth women will never ever do the same for us men 0.93
00:14:27.720 because they always think about themselves they always think about me me me they never think about 1.00
00:14:31.480 how you have to demand it what can i give what can i do it's the same thing with women in
00:14:35.800 relationships from a young age their parents teach them what to expect from a man but not how to treat 0.59
00:14:41.560 a man and when they get older like i said again they expect all this treatment but they're not
00:14:47.000 not what to give so to answer your question no no one's going to protect men no one cares about men
00:14:52.040 pretty much yeah how can people say that society hates masculinity at the same time they expect
00:14:59.000 men to perform society needs masculinity because men get things done we build the world that
00:15:05.800 society uses we're always expected to perform just because we're men and and and we are the
00:15:12.440 so-called stronger sex so it's it's expected i don't think it's respected though do you believe
00:15:19.800 that masculinity is something that is supposed to be freely chosen no i think masculinity is
00:15:25.400 something that's passed down from far it's something that all men have in them but it's
00:15:29.880 beat out of them but a son grandfather the grandson uncles to younger men because you know
00:15:36.340 there's there's a lot of men that i know that don't even know how to change a tire
00:15:39.740 should men have inherent duties to society simply because they're men or should they have the same
00:15:47.300 freedom from gender-based obligations that women increasingly have no i think men should be men
00:15:52.600 i feel like we should be the ones protecting and providing and sacrifice yeah see men love being
00:15:59.020 enslaved this is what i mean men love being enslaved to women it's like you'll tell men
00:16:04.180 that things are a bad deal and they still just got to do it anyway seeing basically because that's
00:16:09.960 our job we're men at the end of the day but if a woman doesn't deserve basically you protecting
00:16:16.500 and providing go away and most women say they just don't deserve it so yeah i think men have 0.59
00:16:22.760 an obligation to society because we're well men are obligated because without them society doesn't
00:16:28.360 exist, but men are going to stop doing it. So we're the leaders and we're the more rational
00:16:33.340 thinkers. So someone has to reign everybody in. Do you believe that masculinity is something
00:16:40.000 that's supposed to be freely chosen? No, I feel like you have to be. Yeah, that's what I mean.
00:16:45.480 See, men want other men to be slaves too. Especially in today's world, you have to be
00:16:51.260 so masculine, man, because nowadays, like you said before, most men are weak. So you need to be
00:16:57.440 the most masculine version of yourself because here's the thing if you're a masculine man right
00:17:02.800 because most men are weak you're going to separate from the others drastically it's so easy for you
00:17:08.080 to separate and to be more masculine than most most men so like i said i feel like most men have
00:17:12.500 to be as masculine as they can because once we remove masculinity from the world the world's
00:17:18.300 gone that's just how it is if so why are men's departures from traditional masculine norms
00:17:25.460 often treated as moral failures rather than simply different choices well because that's
00:17:31.800 just what society is uh portraying to the world because society hates masculine men because
00:17:36.320 society the elites want you're gonna be the villain anyway guys put yourself first
00:17:41.540 the world to be run by women because women are more emotional and because of that
00:17:46.640 masculinity is just dying all right guys all right guys shout out to it's complicated uh
00:17:52.660 link his video in the description yeah i i think he raises some good points where conservatives
00:17:58.660 actually want low status men to be slaves for the high status men and keep society safe for their
00:18:04.900 children even if you don't have any so they don't they're not really in it for men anyways guys let
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