Pearl - Men Going For High Earning Women Is Pragmatism

00:00:00.000 best men are less likely to want her. And at the same time, she now feels even more entitled

00:00:05.400 to the best men. And that line right there, I think is the most important thing that he wrote.

00:00:10.380 And you'll see a lot of people on social media, specifically on X, doing dissertations on this

00:00:14.240 in the comment section where they say, you know, men would rather date a Waffle House waitress.

00:00:19.060 They don't want a woman who is ambitious or successful. That's ridiculous. I really don't

00:00:23.240 think that's the point. I think that a lot of high achieving men like women who are successful

00:00:27.160 and are intelligent, have degrees, whatever it is.

00:00:29.960 That's because that's what the men trying to bang Brett said to her.

00:00:33.480 So they'll say, oh, I like a woman with the reason.

00:00:35.960 I'll tell you, I'm on the front lines here.

00:00:37.740 So men, if they go for high earning women,

00:00:41.000 there's a few reasons they do that.

00:00:42.640 Men are pragmatic.

00:00:43.740 So one is some men do it to alleviate risk.

00:00:47.720 There's some men that are high earning.

00:00:49.360 They're not attracted to the money.

00:00:51.200 They assume, sometimes right, sometimes wrong,

00:00:54.440 that if a woman earns a lot of money and has something to lose she's less likely to crash

00:00:59.840 out if things go wrong. Sometimes that's a right assumption sometimes it's not. Another reason I

00:01:05.440 did know a guy that went for high earning women because he did not make a lot of money and he

00:01:11.100 wanted somewhere to stay and rent was high in London so that was his strategy. The other reason

00:01:18.640 is three they're just more convenient and there again if a guy is working 15 hours at a finance

00:01:25.600 job or another high earning profession and there's another girl that works in finance

00:01:30.880 and she's there all day um men are you know men like things that are easy convenient and pragmatic

Pearl - October 03, 2025