Pearl - Men Need Time Alone From Modern Women ｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 hear from you guys if the I need to hear if the audio is okay again I need you guys to bear with

00:00:11.680 me you know okay view on website let's see okay looks like audacity is going

00:00:21.580 i think the only one left to check is twitter so let me let me see how the twitter is doing

00:00:31.180 what is going on with twitter

00:00:51.580 Thank you.

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00:01:51.580 all right

00:02:05.580 All right, just to you know, let the time pass.

00:02:22.780 As you guys know, you know, I love showing my mix tapes.

00:02:28.700 And so whether you like it or not, I am going to be showing you my music.

00:02:36.460 Now this one was not produced, but this was a banger.

00:02:44.060 And hold on, let me get the, this one was a love song.

00:02:52.660 I'm trying to get Twitter going.

00:02:55.080 I've so far gotten Rumble to work, I've gotten, now, okay, now we're gonna, let's make sure

00:03:06.320 this song is going.

00:03:08.080 Also, feel free to get a whale merch.

00:03:12.780 Okay, we're gonna.

00:03:13.820 I've had the world watching for a while now.

00:03:20.660 They criticize my every mood.

00:03:24.480 Okay.

00:03:25.080 now we're gonna go to cam six what it's my iPad not working today no why God hold

00:03:40.860 on let me try it again oh I think it's going now you guys are like pearl if you

00:03:49.980 were a man you'd be able to do this better look I don't know what to tell

00:03:53.280 you now i think cam4 was the one i'm gonna go get twitter

00:04:09.600 all right i'm gonna turn this up a little bit okay so i wrote a song called fallen in love

00:04:14.400 in the dark also feel free to get a whale merch all right listen to my mixtape i'll be back

00:04:23.280 for a while now, they criticize my every move, and maybe I'm going out of style now, but

00:04:44.160 But that's alright when I'm with you And the world don't need to know for a minute

00:04:57.760 But my world's been so much better with you in it

00:05:04.760 I'm probably saying too much too soon, but I know I'm falling for you.

00:05:18.760 We're falling in love in the dark, we're watching the world fall apart.

00:05:31.760 We won't be their heroes, but we're the star of our own show.

00:05:40.760 I'll give you the keys to my heart in the dark.

00:05:48.760 When I'm with you, my heart flutters, you're the type of guy to make me wonder.

00:06:13.760 It's probably too good to be true, but I know I'm falling for you, falling in love in the

00:06:32.760 dark. I'm watching the world fall apart. Oh, we won't be their heroes, but we're the star of our own show. I'll give you the keys to my heart.

00:06:53.760 In the dark, in the dark, in the dark, oh in the dark, the world's been telling us that

00:07:12.880 we ain't just a bunch of no good degenerates and maybe they won't love us

00:07:25.760 back but when I'm with you I'm fine with that I'll give you the keys to my heart

00:07:36.060 We're falling in love in the dark, we're watching the world fall apart, we won't be their heroes, but we're the star of our own show, I'll give you the keys to my heart, in the dark.

00:08:06.060 and you know what? In the dark, in the dark, in the dark, falling in love in the dark,

00:08:24.140 watching the world fall apart.

00:08:27.740 We won't be their heroes, but we're the star of our moon show.

00:08:36.740 I'll give you the keys to my heart in the dark.

00:08:57.740 all right did you guys like my mixtape i want to get that one produced

00:09:21.260 so you know they're like every girl just becomes uh okay let's see did it work on the website

00:09:30.360 let's see am I live streaming now

00:09:33.940 oh yay it's going I think it's finally going yes yes I think anyways yes yes I have succeeded

00:09:51.260 Oh, my goodness. You don't know the toil that I've been through. And now, oh, my gosh.

00:10:03.080 I'm triple streaming Twitter. I haven't gotten to work yet, but now I got Rumble. I got YouTube.

00:10:10.520 I'm switching my camera. I'm playing my mixtape.

00:10:15.600 what a time oh my goodness i might force you guys to listen to one more song

00:10:23.600 anyways i might do i force it

00:10:37.960 let me see was this one

00:10:41.820 no okay I'll torture you tomorrow with another mixtape tomorrow so oh my gosh I was just getting

00:10:59.500 so frustrated I'm so happy all right so I did promise you guys something so to start the show

00:11:05.800 I'm going to read the people that signed up. And I did promise that once I got 10 signups,

00:11:17.480 I would give the Rolo tea. So today I'm talking about my internet lore. Now, many times, you know,

00:11:26.480 people have talked shit about me over the years, and I really haven't ever responded.

00:11:31.200 um I mean now Rolo Tomasi is a phenomenal author I love his work and when I read his work a couple

00:11:45.580 of years ago and I only talk about this publicly because my brother said I could but I have a

00:11:51.100 brother that committed sue or not sorry didn't commit to try attempted suicide like years ago

00:11:58.200 I know it doesn't I don't sound that torn up now it was very sad at the time but you know

00:12:03.380 this was a very long time ago so we've kind of moved on to you know and when I read Rolo Tomasi's

00:12:11.400 book a couple years ago now it really made a lot of stuff like make sense you know

00:12:18.200 Alpha Widow was something that I'd seen something that I'd experienced and that was one of the first 0.85

00:12:27.800 videos I saw of Rolo's. And really, when I got into the space, I wanted Rolo to be my friend.

00:12:36.760 I really did. And unfortunately, he did not accept my friendship. Now, before I get into it,

00:12:44.920 I want to read all of the people that signed up last show that are allowing me to talk about this

00:12:50.000 internet lore. Now, I will give you guys tea because remember, whenever I bring up someone

00:12:55.200 else's name it gives them the ability to create drama out of this react to it like god only knows

00:13:01.040 what this man's gonna do i mean he's done whole spurging sessions on me so i try to keep other

00:13:07.600 people's name out of my mouth but i will do it when i am paid yup yes i will um shaylen thank

00:13:17.200 you for signing up yearly membership matthew another yearly membership um sneed monthly

00:13:24.320 membership um another yearly membership from paschel i think um this is on the last 14 hours

00:13:33.200 too 21 hours ago another one from eric and that's perfect once we get to you know at some point we

00:13:40.320 won't even have to do commercials even though this is our sponsor second link i'm gonna talk about it

00:13:46.240 it later. I do like them. So this isn't even a this isn't even like a forced sponsor. But at

00:13:56.400 some point, if we get enough memberships, I don't even have to do commercials. And I can do a super

00:14:01.780 full I can even have a whole production team in here. But who needs you know, what do we need

00:14:06.900 Anyways, Lady Bird, another monthly membership. Eric, another monthly membership. Robert, another monthly membership. Marquise, a monthly membership. Ivan, another monthly membership.

00:14:26.020 So again, the ideal, um, trying to think of our show costs.

00:14:36.160 Okay.

00:14:36.780 So it's tough to say because the monthly memberships and yearly are different because the yearly,

00:14:42.740 but roughly we get 10 signups a show in six months.

00:14:47.020 My costs are covered and I can move out.

00:14:49.720 I have a lot of guilt in my life.

00:14:52.000 I'm going to be honest.

00:14:52.740 My, my haters will, um, use this against me.

00:14:56.020 I don't really enjoy, um, my dad, he's helping me out. He built me a studio because I can't afford

00:15:03.080 two rents right now, um, to do the show. And I have all this very high production, amazing

00:15:09.720 equipment, but YouTube demonetized me. Right. So it, you know, now I'm home, feel like a loser

00:15:17.920 a little bit. I won't lie to you. Um, so, you know, essentially I'm unemployable, although I,

00:15:24.140 Maybe I haven't tried hard enough, but I really do believe that I'm meant to work in media.

00:15:29.420 It's something that I know a lot of women quit to be content creators, but I have a little bit of success, you know, where it actually worked out for me. 1.00

00:15:42.800 And I just believe, you know, this is something I'm meant to do.

00:15:46.980 and I really want to make a non-gynocentric media company that's my goal 0.67

00:15:54.940 and I really want to bring back 90s humor I'd love to bring back Weinstein

00:16:01.200 now I'd love to I know I can't but I want to give an opportunity to some of these guys that

00:16:10.600 you know got opportunities taken away for no reason um and i really believe that i can make

00:16:18.540 this app very cool i know there's been some issues and i do apologize we're understaffed um

00:16:24.060 but it's getting better um i'm recently this week we're having someone put thumbnails on all of the

00:16:31.560 content on the website and hopefully in the next month we can re-upload all of my old content

00:16:37.720 On top of that, the documentary, we just hired a new team.

00:16:43.740 I don't want to talk about my old team.

00:16:48.020 I made some mistakes in the past year.

00:16:50.020 I'll just say this.

00:16:50.740 I had to find a new one.

00:16:54.080 You know, I feel like sometimes I start these shows just telling you guys about my L's.

00:16:58.660 I don't know.

00:17:00.400 But I'm not, you know, this is what it is.

00:17:04.080 Oh, we got another monthly membership.

00:17:05.820 Thank you.

00:17:06.420 Oh, Steve. He said he donated on the website. Rollo secretly loves you. You're rare.

00:17:15.780 You know, it just is what it is. Now, I will give you guys the tea on Rollo. I'll give you

00:17:21.200 my side of that story because it just. He has been talking shit for years, saying I'm a terrible 1.00

00:17:34.060 person. And I just want to know what was my crime? Now, I could be a better person. I won't lie to 1.00

00:17:42.360 you guys. You know, maybe there's like a level of good people and I definitely would not put myself

00:17:49.260 at the top. You know, I've done some embarrassing things in my life. I really have. Just is what it

00:17:59.120 is. Okay, but I think I read everybody who signed up. I'm going to give a Zoom link to my friend

00:18:08.800 Glenn, who is also been affected by this? Let me see. Let me send this to Glenn. Which

00:18:34.640 one was glenn's number let me text him so it's at the at the top so okay so the one thing you

00:18:41.000 learn in life is you shouldn't meet your heroes and i think i learned this in media because when

00:18:48.200 i joined um what i loved about red pill content and reading red now let me go further back what

00:18:55.220 is the red pill now what the red pill is is a collections of men's experiences online so

00:19:01.420 essentially men got together to solve a problem and this was on anonymous forums like back in the

00:19:08.340 day so and there were some prominent writers during this and one of them was Rolo Tomasi

00:19:15.020 now what Rolo Tomasi did was took all of the experiences of men in the forums and he also

00:19:21.620 and he also had his original ideas and he wrote a book. And Rolo, I got to say, he has amazing

00:19:32.360 work. And when I got into media, I wanted nothing more than to meet and interview him. I loved him

00:19:38.840 and I loved Kevin Samuels. I loved them. I thought they were so amazing. And so much so,

00:19:46.720 but Rolo just was a little bit apprehensive with me. Now I have to say this could have been,

00:19:51.900 there was someone behind the scenes I had a falling out with very early on. And I'm gonna,

00:19:57.600 by the way, I'm giving you what I remember. Some of this has been some time since it happened. So

00:20:02.840 I'm just like, some of this was three, four years ago. I'm remembering this to the best of my

00:20:07.920 ability. Now this girl and I had a falling out, but do you know what's crazy? We worked it out

00:20:15.040 behind the scenes and it never became public. It never became a big deal. We moved on. So maybe

00:20:22.320 this was why he was apprehensive. I also had, um, I'm going to talk about this. Um, when I went on

00:20:30.960 Fresh and Fit the first time, like four years ago, I really had me and Myron had an argument or not

00:20:39.120 an argument, but he, the long story short, there was a miscommunication and I talked

00:20:46.520 about this, like he yelled at me in front of like all these people.

00:20:51.340 It was really embarrassing because it was like a miscommunication at the time.

00:20:57.040 And I decided to talk about it on the internet and this was just not smart.

00:21:02.340 I ended up taking it down because I was, so I can understand where like the apprehension

00:21:08.420 came about me now this is like five years ago for you i don't remember and me and myron worked that

00:21:15.220 out also behind the scenes where myron i like sing his praises now because in all honesty say what

00:21:22.900 you want about those guys but they're one of the few that i feel like i'm burying myself now

00:21:29.620 whatever i don't care i got nothing to lose anymore i don't care um so you know myron

00:21:36.740 so maybe this was why I don't know but Rolo I think I put on a pedestal a little bit I loved

00:21:44.080 Rolo I loved him I thought he was so smart I thought his book was amazing it made my brother's

00:21:50.180 attempted suicide make sense because I was really mad at my brother for a while about it

00:21:54.280 and it just I was like oh that's why he tried it um it made that make sense it made like you know

00:22:03.340 of failed relationships that I'd had before makes, it all just like made sense. And I was like, wow.

00:22:11.840 I want to interview him. Now I take this to the point where I actually, um, scheduled an interview

00:22:18.900 with him and he ends up like, I move, I, by the way, at the time I'm full-time playing volleyball

00:22:25.060 and doing the media stuff. And I missed a volleyball game to interview this guy. I spent

00:22:30.220 probably two grand extending my trip, moving my flights just to interview him. I was so excited

00:22:37.240 and he cancels on me that week because he claimed he had COVID. Now, I don't know if he had COVID or

00:22:43.480 didn't, but I'll tell you what, I was really disappointed and I saw him on a show like six

00:22:50.740 days later. So I thought after COVID you were supposed to, I don't know. I thought like, you

00:22:58.600 know I think he just didn't like me um I think from the beginning maybe it was something I did

00:23:05.260 early on um that set him off maybe it was because in the beginning there was some red pill ideas

00:23:11.580 that triggered me maybe that's what set him off um but I just think from the beginning he just did

00:23:17.860 not like me I don't know why I feel like I'm a bra I feel like I'm a joy to be around but you

00:23:24.020 know and he would just be on these streams he'd call me autistic which you know they kind of

00:23:29.520 stop calling everybody that I know I'm a bit dorky okay but have you met real autistic kids 0.98

00:23:40.100 like it's a little bit okay now anyways he would call me an idiot which okay I could be smarter 0.98

00:23:49.200 but it's like Rolo what are you and I think his issue was I think for my knowledge on the topic 0.97

00:23:57.280 at the time I just got a little bit too famous too fast where you know I start getting invited

00:24:03.360 on shows he's not invited on where you know he's been doing it 20 years and in my head at the time

00:24:10.680 I felt like well who cares who's saying it let's get the message out there now I could see in

00:24:17.100 hindsight where maybe I could have done a better job on certain shows or I could you know I could

00:24:22.640 have articulated things better but Rolo I don't know like I've had media like people I know in

00:24:33.280 the industry talk about why he's not like more famous but he just doesn't have the most mass

00:24:39.160 appeal likable you know personality I don't think that's what he's in it for because even to this

00:24:46.900 a day I still like the guy you know I really do um but I can't this is a one-sided liking so I

00:24:57.080 guess I gotta hate him now anyways long story short I end up getting very famous and I have

00:25:04.920 like 20 employees and when I'm doing collaborations at the time um guys I would have like three

00:25:13.260 collaborations in a day a lot of people don't believe me when i said that i didn't know who

00:25:18.700 nick was but i didn't have a media company or a team behind me most people are owned by someone

00:25:24.780 if you look into them i was independent completely and i i have no idea how this didn't like

00:25:33.100 show by the people i had on i saw a clip of nick talking about race mixing and that's why everyone 0.95

00:25:39.340 was criticizing me because i had him to talk about the j topic you know um but i had him on to talk

00:25:45.820 about race mixing and while he was there he obviously you know spoke about it and um now

00:25:52.620 anyways before he comes on i say to rollo hey can i invite on other content creators

00:25:59.180 Now, I'm telling you, this was stupid, but in my head, it did not take me near as long

00:26:11.160 as these other people to build my brand and become a big, well-known person. 0.99

00:26:18.700 And I think because of that, I didn't really have the caution that other people had.

00:26:23.660 I was like, who cares?

00:26:24.880 Let's have everyone on freedom of speech, baby.

00:26:27.240 you know and so all I did he had a tweet about vasectomies and so what I did was when I asked

00:26:33.540 him if I could bring on content creators I think he thought I was it was just going to be people

00:26:39.080 in the space or something he didn't specify I don't think it's a big deal so I send the link

00:26:45.540 and I don't know who's going to say yes but at the time I sent the link to this live stream about

00:26:51.960 this. He had a tweet about a vasectomy and how the quickest way to be a high value man is to

00:26:58.360 like get a vasectomy. He didn't say it was the best way or the only way, but you got to admit

00:27:03.900 that does, if we followed family court, if we're being objective here, that prevents a lot of

00:27:08.480 problems. Now, anyways, Rolo ends up going on the stream and I'm just letting anyone on that was

00:27:18.760 talking about his tweet on the timeline. So these were agreeers, disagreeers. And I thought we could

00:27:23.920 all have a nice conversation and come to a conclusion. And by the way, I did invite his

00:27:30.480 friends too. I invited like Bryson Gray, because you know, all the Bible thumpers were very upset 1.00

00:27:35.800 about this tweet. So Bryson Gray comes on and he's Bible thumped in. Now, Nick F also came on

00:27:41.600 and he's Bible thumping. I also invited Myron, but Myron couldn't come. We'd squashed our beef 0.93

00:27:47.500 at that point I'd also invited I also invited who else who else did I invite I invited MLD

00:28:02.360 he he was in Japan Sergio came on yes Sergio I don't remember this was so long ago now

00:28:09.960 like he was a year and a half ago now Glenn yeah it's been actually almost two years now

00:28:16.580 two years ago. So two years, like in March. Yeah, guys, by the way, this is a butchered

00:28:21.600 story. This is what I remember. I am not going back and getting every receipt. I don't care

00:28:26.360 enough about this anyway. So then the way he took it was that I was trying to attach

00:28:33.660 Nick to him, I think. And this was an ambush, even though on the stream I was on his side,

00:28:40.440 I was defending him and I, I don't, maybe I didn't moderate it well enough.

00:28:45.460 Like I think Bryson was kind of talking over him and, oh, reclaim your throne was on there.

00:28:51.360 Who's more red pill, you know?

00:28:53.460 So my, this, my intention was to have a good conversation where we could hash out this

00:29:01.500 debate in real time on X.

00:29:03.080 Now I could see why he would take that as an ambush.

00:29:06.840 I really could.

00:29:07.920 And there's no excuse.

00:29:09.320 I made a mistake. I wish I didn't do that. I apologized immediately. I pulled the stream.

00:29:18.160 I said, sorry, you know, I was so apologetic. I was like, oh, and I don't, yeah. And to this day,

00:29:26.260 so then after that, he has blacklisted everybody that's associated with me.

00:29:31.720 Everybody. I am talking about, I don't, you know, I don't know if I want to say their names,

00:29:38.460 because I'm not trying to bring anyone else into this, but I have one person.

00:29:42.640 Well, yeah, that's what I was going to say.

00:29:45.300 Glenn's one of them.

00:29:47.640 And this is the thing.

00:29:51.080 All I wanted to do was work with this guy.

00:29:54.780 That was it.

00:29:55.960 All I wanted was him to be.

00:29:58.400 And the other thing that happened was I asked him to mentor me.

00:30:01.960 I really wanted him to be my mentor.

00:30:03.840 And then he screenshotted it and put it on Twitter.

00:30:06.520 And I was like, and he was saying that, I don't know, I didn't want to do the work or I didn't

00:30:12.620 want to. And I'm like, I don't know. I like, I have a guitar teacher. You know, I like having

00:30:17.340 mentors. I just, why would I not have someone mentor me? That's like better than me. You know,

00:30:24.620 I thought I, I, to this day recommend his book. You know, it made a lot of things in my life

00:30:31.120 makes sense so glenn i have glenn on the phone and glenn is another person he was one of the i

00:30:39.440 can count three people that were blacklisted and by blacklisted and i think he picks and chooses

00:30:45.980 because i work with myron still and myron still streams with him so maybe it's just like smaller

00:30:52.260 people he blacklists i don't know um but i was very hurt by the way i did a reaction early on

00:30:59.580 um when the first video he started like talking trash about me and i was devastated i was like 0.92

00:31:07.120 i was like this is my hero and then he just you know shit on me and then he just calls me fat on 0.98

00:31:14.420 twitter and which is fine i call a lot of women fat so it's it's totally okay um sis you're 1.00

00:31:20.780 forgetting about that entire summer like remember the entire summer after the whole tweet thing like

00:31:26.680 i'm working behind the scenes because i was working i was rose producer and you were coming

00:31:31.380 to vegas and we were trying to sit get a sit down between the two of you remember that and you're

00:31:36.500 like yeah i'll meet with him off the record you know we could squash this stuff and you're like

00:31:42.160 see what he says and then i'm coming to him with it and he's like keep on wanting like yeah i want

00:31:47.760 Oh, I forgot about the picture thing. Oh yeah. Oh my gosh. I forgot. Holy crap. Okay. So

00:31:57.940 this is what happens. This, this was another part. See, I forget about all this because

00:32:03.780 guys, I didn't, maybe I, I, I don't remember talking about this publicly. I don't think I

00:32:10.660 have. But at this point, I don't care. So what happened with Brittany Venti. So Brittany Venti

00:32:18.480 is a girl who has just been attacking me for years. She has made videos criticizing the way 1.00

00:32:24.200 I smile, criticizing the way I dress. Like, you know, she's, she made a rumor about me

00:32:31.220 that I dated a homeless guy. He was not, okay. I don't know if homeless is staying in five

00:32:40.500 star hotels. Do you know what I mean? Like technically, but I think that's kind of, you

00:32:46.920 know, offensive to people that are actually homeless, right? When it's off of like a

00:32:52.420 technicality, like you don't have an apartment lease, but you're staying in hotel, whatever.

00:32:58.160 I don't want to talk about that, but I hate this woman because I mean, she's just, you 1.00

00:33:04.280 know, she's gone after my mother, gone after all this bullshit. Now, mind you, I met another woman 1.00

00:33:12.100 who also was not a fan of her, who had a very similar experience, because that's kind of what

00:33:17.860 Britney does. She just does takedown videos, whatever. And ends up, what ends up happening 1.00

00:33:24.720 is this girl tells me that Britney Venti has nudes on the internet. Now, what these women do 1.00

00:33:29.540 is after like things get leaked or bad things happen, what they do is they make a fake story

00:33:36.000 and like pretend it was all fake. And that's how they like make a smoke screen around something

00:33:41.080 that really happened. Now it's tough because some internet rumors are actually fake and they aren't

00:33:46.140 real, but you kind of just have to use your discernment. And so remember, so Rolo had gotten

00:33:56.840 an anonymous, um, an example where this happened to Brittany before Rolo had gotten an email or 0.91

00:34:04.660 something. I don't know exactly what, but he got wind that Lauren Southern had an abortion of

00:34:10.320 Destiny's baby. And essentially Brittany Venti comes in and makes a, do you want me to chime

00:34:16.260 in on this part? Yeah, go ahead. Go ahead. So Rolo received an email, um, from allegedly from,

00:34:24.480 uh lauren southern's husband out of the country asking for a lawyer to you know that he could

00:34:31.540 point to him to help him out because he was going through some stuff and during that there was

00:34:36.500 allegedly um another email came from uh this guy or this person that worked at this obgyn clinic

00:34:46.140 that saw lauren southern allegedly go in there to get up you know a pregnancy test 1.00

00:34:55.740 and basically he took that and then the rumor of her and destiny together

00:35:01.660 um and put the timeline together like oh well this makes sense yeah this is who's

00:35:08.300 so he kind of ran with that uh story and what did i say to you glenn did i say

00:35:13.980 It sounds credible that somebody would leak an abortion document.

00:35:19.680 What did I say to you?

00:35:24.160 You said no, absolutely not.

00:35:26.520 I said that there's no way this is real.

00:35:31.140 And what happened was, oh, you're cutting out.

00:35:37.380 Okay, he's cutting him.

00:35:38.220 But what happened was Brittany Venti made a diversion. 1.00

00:35:41.540 So I don't know if Lauren Southern was pregnant or if her and destiny were just hooking up, 0.99

00:35:47.360 but that's confirmed now that that happened.

00:35:51.140 And, um, so Brittany Venti, in order to like stop Rolo in his tracks, pretended to send 0.99

00:35:57.000 him an abortion document.

00:35:58.140 Now I said that there's no way this is real to Glenn at the time. 0.98

00:36:04.100 And I guess Rolo still went public and he, and she ended up making him look kind of dumb

00:36:09.920 cause he just believed this random email. Um, but it was true, right? It actually was true,

00:36:17.180 but that's how they like divert from their craziness. Does that make sense guys? Like

00:36:23.000 some, they'll do something crazy or like something that makes them look bad.

00:36:27.660 And then in order to fake it later, what they'll do is they'll, they'll leak something that makes

00:36:35.280 it look like everything's fake but it wasn't fake it was real but they go to extreme lengths to make

00:36:40.520 you believe everything was fake did i explain that right glenn i let's see if you can you cut

00:36:46.740 out a little bit but go ahead um you missed the part that were like the fake news you know

00:36:52.280 what uh britney venti's fake news okay thank you well no the nudes i'm going to talk about next

00:36:58.960 but i'm saying the abortion part that's done right so like there wasn't even yeah so allegedly

00:37:04.240 she had um a miscarriage or abortion and we assumed that that was roller took advice that

00:37:10.800 was destiny's love child that either she um was pregnant that she was pregnant and the baby was

00:37:18.020 born and we didn't know where the baby is or that she had an abortion because there's no baby present 1.00

00:37:24.060 um and she aborted destiny's baby it's one it was one of the two theories that he had but he

00:37:31.480 believe that the um the the ob-gyn uh paperwork that he had was authentic

00:37:42.280 yeah and he was going to like destiny challenged him and like bet him ten thousand dollars

00:37:50.040 that he can't prove it and when we went to no jumper destiny was that no jumper that day as

00:37:57.000 well so rollo brought this paperwork with him uh in case he was gonna run into destiny and thinking

00:38:05.640 that you know by whipping it out that destiny would be able to you know have to admit to it

00:38:11.960 and in my in my head i just thought there's no way that there's someone that's gonna risk their

00:38:17.960 job for some internet clout i mean and i just didn't think it would happen like she could sue 0.70

00:38:24.200 so big time you told me to tell him not to run with it i said i said tell him not to run with

00:38:31.560 that did he listen no he ran with it so even when he's talking about me from my perspective

00:38:39.760 i'm still looking out for his best interest so what happens is now britney venti on top of this 1.00

00:38:48.260 try like she's done a diversion thing to um divert from the fact that she has nudes on the internet 1.00

00:38:55.280 they these are her nudes everybody knows they're her nudes but you know she she's 0.97

00:39:03.640 her face isn't in it so everybody what happened is I guess on 4chan um they would tell women 0.97

00:39:11.120 tits or get the f out and i guess she chose tits so uh you know so at some point just just just for 1.00

00:39:21.840 her you know for her sake they're a nice pair of titties i'm not gonna lie like they're proportionate 1.00

00:39:27.920 you know they're nice yeah i mean look a nice pair of boobs congratulations lady um now somebody 1.00

00:39:37.040 sent me this nude and i send it to glenn and it's on the internet you can google it it's it's really 0.93

00:39:43.840 not hard to find and then rollo is what did he do he like screenshotted that and was like

00:39:51.440 tell the daily wire that um pearl's trying to like solicit under i forgot what the hell he accused me

00:39:58.960 what he did was um you sent me he sent me them and i was like oh i was like man it doesn't show

00:40:07.680 her face though so you know i i don't think we could roll with that you know because it's like

00:40:13.200 and you didn't say like hey you know use this or anything you're like look what i found right like

00:40:19.840 yeah because if you find some internet gossip about your arch nemesis you're gonna send it

00:40:24.080 to your pals like what the hell yeah so so i'm like i show it to him i sent it to him i said look

00:40:33.280 i was like you know um this looks like you know her but it doesn't like we don't see her face in

00:40:39.520 it so be careful you know like i wouldn't you know just wouldn't roll with it and he's like

00:40:44.080 where'd you get it from well i don't lie i said pearl sent it to me you know like she knew that

00:40:49.680 we were going through the with with britney because britney accused rollo of asking for

00:40:54.720 her nudes and her underage nudes at that in an email yeah because again pretended to be yeah

00:41:02.960 britney's trying to divert from the fact that she has nudes on the internet 1.00

00:41:07.120 like that they're on the internet they are real i know multiple people in conservative media

00:41:13.600 who know that they are real and she's gonna make some hit piece now trying to pretend 1.00

00:41:19.360 that they are not real they're real um she was probably then rollo said that um you tried to

00:41:28.640 give underage nudes to me to him right and before i even like checked it like the age on or the date 0.58

00:41:41.360 on the picture that she took because she wrote the date that this uh the titties were allegedly

00:41:48.240 uploaded right and then i looked at that date plus her birth date and then i'm like oh so this

00:41:54.720 chick in this picture is 19 20 years old so they're not underage nudes and i tell that to rollo

00:42:02.560 so he already knew but he decided to spin it as you're trying to solicit underage nudes to me

00:42:11.280 through him and then he starts telling everybody i work for the daily wire because at one point

00:42:17.280 i had a consultant who worked for the daily wire but this was his side business consulting and he

00:42:25.860 quit like four years ago now it would be like hiring an editor as a contractor

00:42:33.120 that like imagine if um my editor in his free time contracted did contract edit work on the

00:42:41.780 weekends. I mean, it's not really the, and if I did work for them, I mean, I wouldn't have a

00:42:51.540 problem saying it, but he ended up getting community noted. Anyway, so that's the, I think

00:42:59.680 that's all the tea, you know, and then, oh, and then he fired Glenn. No, you're missing one part.

00:43:04.800 what did i forget it's it's been so long when we went to when we went to daily wire right um remember

00:43:11.920 he uh james sexton he tried to say like the whole james sexton thing because remember originally

00:43:17.920 the panel was going to be four red pillars oh my gosh then do you know what's crazy he accused me

00:43:25.840 of trying to get rollo off the panel when i suggested him to be on it to begin with

00:43:35.440 i was supposed to have a one-on-one interview nobody else was invited and i said and i knew

00:43:43.760 everyone in the rp was going to complain and say pearl shouldn't get this collab so i'm like hey

00:43:48.960 let me try to get someone else in the door i i also agree there's a lot of great men in the

00:43:54.160 space that i respect a lot let's bring like i don't have a problem filming with anybody

00:44:00.080 let's bring him and then um i forgot how he got some screenshot and was trying to spin it

00:44:08.840 like i was trying to not let him in or um i i don't know what he was trying to do no what he

00:44:17.960 was trying to say was that you were trying to use him to get to james sexton to get james sexton on

00:44:24.720 the show with you and then you had them uh cancel rollo off um as you know as soon as james sexton 0.72

00:44:33.580 would confirm or something like that i don't remember i mean i it was bullshit from my point

00:44:39.280 of view what happened was i on the phone i wish i had it in writing but i don't my assistant at

00:44:46.520 the time she doesn't work for me anymore but she could confirm it i said my assistant's the one

00:44:52.480 that sets everything up and I said why don't you see if we can bring these other people in the door

00:44:58.160 and for whatever reason at one point Sexton was gonna go maybe Rolo sabotage he probably did I

00:45:08.160 don't care it ended up being a one-on-one with Michael Knowles I enjoyed myself I had a good

00:45:14.820 time and I left he can say what he wants but really this guy for years this is why you shouldn't meet

00:45:22.220 your heroes because this guy for years, all I wanted was his friendship and like to interview

00:45:28.440 him and just, I mean, even like Glenn could attest. I didn't even really, I mean, I would

00:45:35.080 get frustrated because I was sick of him like spreading lies about me, but I really never

00:45:41.000 attacked his character. I can even say I understand why he was mad. The Nick thing wasn't my smartest

00:45:48.520 move. I could see why early on that disagreement with Myron maybe would make people skeptical of

00:45:56.780 me. That's fine. Yeah, but that's... Emma says... Let's get down to brass taxes. The real problem 0.98

00:46:10.540 is jealousy. Okay. He believes he shouldn't be where you are. He believes that he put in the

00:46:16.920 work you know for 20 years that he should have the recognition the two million subs that you have

00:46:24.020 that's really what it is sorry to say but that's that's what it is yeah and it's really not fair

00:46:31.000 to some extent i mean as you guys know i've admitted this as a woman it's just easier in

00:46:36.360 media like i don't you know um i could see why it would be frustrating for him but you know i can't

00:46:45.560 if he doesn't like my show he doesn't really have to watch it it's totally fine um and then

00:46:52.920 i just wish he would be flattered he should be flattered i just that you acknowledge his work

00:46:59.480 or that you reference his work oh and this is the other thing whenever you reference someone you

00:47:04.620 never then they still get mad that you don't reference them enough i've come to this problem

00:47:09.760 with like three different people where it's like you'll reference their ideas but then

00:47:14.600 And then they'll be like, oh, I need more references.

00:47:17.240 And you're like, okay, I'll give you more.

00:47:18.920 And it just never ends.

00:47:20.680 It never does end.

00:47:22.900 I just wish he would stop, I don't know, making,

00:47:27.820 I understand his position,

00:47:30.220 but I just wish he'd stop making stuff up about me.

00:47:33.000 That's just not true.

00:47:33.980 And I wish he wouldn't have cut off Glenn

00:47:36.980 and these other people just for working with me.

00:47:42.300 i think that it's a little sad but you know i appreciate you glenn you're good friend you're

00:47:49.740 really nice yeah you're a really good friend of mine oh and he also wouldn't come to the fundraiser

00:47:54.600 i did for i was raising i was raising money for his friend um thor for um because thor had brain

00:48:02.380 cancer or has brain cancer and i was raising money here's the thing here's the thing about

00:48:09.080 what did we raise like twelve thousand dollars you got 20 you helped like you had you got like 12 or

00:48:15.320 four fifteen thousand dollars donated yeah just you alone and here's the other thing like we had

00:48:21.000 everybody almost on rule zero come to your live stream to help raise the funds for thor it was

00:48:27.880 like yo let's can we just like put everything aside can we just put everything down and like

00:48:35.080 all the beef whatever we have a friend here that is has a very you know dangerous and you know um

00:48:44.280 you know problem here with the brain tumor and you know we're trying to collectively

00:48:51.240 raise the funds needed so that his family could be at peace and rest knowing that everything's

00:48:57.480 financially covered but you know while he's in um recovering this and instead of being able to put

00:49:04.280 the you know the swords down he's like it no i'm gonna do it by myself i'm gonna do some other

00:49:11.720 fundraiser for him guess what that never happened never never to this day it's been over a year

00:49:19.240 he's never followed through with that fundraiser that he was supposed to help him with so yeah

00:49:26.120 it's just a bunch of and if i remember it right he was telling people not to come to the fundraiser

00:49:31.800 for his friends can't did he do is it my I can't remember this was so long ago

00:49:38.000 this was a year ago we were talking about right now but a year ago he was telling people not to

00:49:44.060 go to the fundraiser wasn't he yeah yeah so he was telling people not to go to a fundraiser for

00:49:50.220 his friend's cancer like you know anyway so that's that's the beef that's the lore I think that's

00:49:59.960 pretty much it um i understand why he doesn't really like me i can understand him not wanting

00:50:06.920 to work with me i wish he would stop punishing other people that don't agree with him um that's

00:50:13.320 really my two cents do you have anything else glenn um no no i think i think it was about time

00:50:22.600 that you actually because i've been trying to get you to do this for a while now um and i'm glad that

00:50:28.120 did it because people needed to hear your side of the story everybody knows there's three sides of

00:50:34.200 the story right there's his side there's your side and then there's the truth um i just encourage

00:50:39.560 people to like examine the individual's character um when you when you when you listen to this stuff

00:50:47.000 because people's character does you know uh reveal a lot about this you know the individual

00:50:55.480 and again i admire rollo's work i enjoyed working for him i'm sorry that he decided he wanted to

00:51:03.340 put me in a position to try to pick between my friends or working with him everybody knows that

00:51:08.880 i will pick my people every day um monies i don't do this for money i don't do this for

00:51:15.880 anything other than you know my people are my people and i'm not going to be bought and paid

00:51:20.940 for you know um and uh that's what it is and you know i think um when you look at this

00:51:29.180 his work is great he's a great writer he did an amazing job with his books but the man himself i

00:51:38.540 have an issue with you know he may not be the the most smartest person pearl in the world because

00:51:45.340 i'm far from hell is not but your character and the way you treat people it does matter it leaves

00:51:53.020 a better impact overall and that means more than honestly whatever words people could put on a page

00:52:01.180 yeah and my offer is still open to him for friendship and reconciliation um i am oh

00:52:10.060 that's gone after this now you know that is over i mean i think it was gone before but

00:52:16.700 you know all i can do is give my side and that's really all i got um anything else glenn

00:52:26.460 nope nope have a good show sis um we're almost at thor's house right now so

00:52:31.340 thanks glenn i'm gonna i'll watch on the on the live sure sure thank you

00:52:36.460 you. We also got another sign up from Paul. So yeah, I mean, that's, that's the lore. I said I

00:52:48.880 would do it. And I will give you lore on other people too. You know, Dane says he cannot defeat

00:53:00.520 you on substance. So he goes with low social shaming, insults, and peer pressure, which is

00:53:05.740 feminine a lot of these guys in the space are like that you know not really most of them are

00:53:10.780 really good people to be honest i've met a lot of really great guys in the space but yeah he might

00:53:16.700 be your hero but like many men in the space he's feminine he's thinking and behavior is feminine 0.78

00:53:21.900 but he just speaks against women he's not intrinsically a masculine thinker steve said

00:53:26.700 he's jealousy or success acting like a 304 anna says rollo needs to embrace change he laid a

00:53:32.700 A lot of foundation for the red pill, but you bring something new to it.

00:53:35.740 There's room for both of you. 0.99

00:53:37.600 Faisal, Rolo is an old effing fart. 0.99

00:53:39.600 Just forget about him. 1.00

00:53:41.060 Nothing in the world is better than a pair of stiff nipples. 1.00

00:53:44.640 Pearl, don't waste time thinking of this fool. 1.00

00:53:46.580 Well, I already did. 0.99

00:53:48.120 You know, I was very, this was something that upset me for a long time.

00:53:51.280 Now I'm over it. 0.99

00:53:53.240 But he made himself look ridiculous. 0.99

00:53:55.420 Yeah, he did. 0.97

00:53:56.920 Steve on the abortion thing.

00:53:58.800 Yeah.

00:53:59.680 Rolo is a bit 304-ish.

00:54:01.320 um perhaps he's scared because he's getting old old fazelle said what's wrong with being homeless

00:54:06.200 i became homeless when while my ex b got crazy yeah and do you know what the thing was behind

00:54:11.960 that situation was all it was was a paperwork issue it wasn't like they make it seem like i

00:54:19.800 got them off the side of the street and i'm not trying to spend a lot of time talking about an

00:54:25.000 next of mine. I mean, this was so long ago, but God, the internet just never forgets.

00:54:32.120 Faisal, I always wanted to read Rolo Tomasi's The Rational Male. Now that he didn't accept

00:54:38.240 your friendship, it's business competition. He sees himself as an OG while you and Tate

00:54:42.860 are trending in the red pill market. Well, you know, I'd still recommend his book.

00:54:49.040 I think asking someone to mentor you shows a lot of humility and respect. He should have

00:54:53.000 been flat that's what i was hoping but you know it is what it is um he seems to have faded from

00:54:58.540 the view recently i haven't heard much about him he's the center of attention issue the air force

00:55:03.820 dude is cool um i think rollo demands too much credit he doesn't appreciate new people

00:55:09.360 adding to the space sugared um and by the way if you want your thing read you just go to the

00:55:17.820 website. We're on both app stores. It would be super great if we could get 10 signups today for

00:55:24.880 yearly memberships. But yeah, you guys are so nice. I'm always flattered that we get any.

00:55:30.540 Masculine operates based on principles. A lot of these guys in the space are feminine. Okay. 0.99

00:55:36.240 Okay. All right. But let's get to today's topic. Let me, let me, I got to switch one thing on the

00:55:45.260 settings. So for a second, I'm going to make you guys listen to

00:55:49.160 my mixtape again. Sorry. I know you're like Pearl. We're done

00:55:53.780 with the mixtapes. I don't care. You know, I got to go fix

00:56:01.900 something. Do you guys want to hear the country? I'll play you

00:56:05.900 don't party. So this is I want to make this a little faster. But

00:56:10.740 this is my we don't party like we used to song and I wrote this

00:56:15.260 about how I've really my whole life parties, everyone's recording and on their phones and stuff.

00:56:22.060 And I kind of wish I was alive in 1992 before it, but I was born in 96.

00:56:27.280 We don't party like we used to. Take me back to 1992. Everybody's acting brand new.

00:56:38.520 We're not looking across the room

00:56:42.260 Everybody is looking down

00:56:45.960 On their phones, no one's around

00:56:49.660 Yeah, we used to tear up the town

00:56:53.340 Now I don't hear a sound

00:56:57.240 People don't dance cause somebody's watching

00:57:02.680 Drink too much, everybody's talking

00:57:06.280 We used to rage like there was no stopping

00:57:10.000 So put your hands up, everybody's walking

00:57:13.680 Put your phone down and get on the dance floor

00:57:17.580 Shake that booty like you never did before 0.91

00:57:21.240 Look real steely, yeah, raise your hands

00:57:24.680 Let's get together and baby just dance 1.00

00:57:36.280 We used to snap a Polaroid

00:57:45.000 Now the whole night's on record

00:57:48.540 I used to know who my neighbor was

00:57:52.640 Now we really don't do that stuff

00:57:56.020 We used to go out and ding-dong ditch

00:57:59.780 Now that ring cam is the biggest snitch 1.00

00:58:04.020 Now all these young kids do a stream on Twitch

00:58:07.340 2020s are the biggest glitch

00:58:10.760 People don't dance cause somebody's watching

00:58:16.600 Drink too much, everybody's talking

00:58:20.120 We used to rage like there was no stopping

00:58:23.820 So put your hands up, everybody's rocking

00:58:27.500 Put your phone down and get on the dance floor

00:58:31.540 Shake that booty like you never did before 0.91

00:58:35.080 Look real steely, yeah, raise your hands

00:58:38.520 Let's get together, baby, just dance

00:58:43.200 Take a shot, baby, get your move on

00:58:50.220 Be like Stella and get your groove on

00:58:54.720 Take a shot, baby, get your move on

00:59:01.280 be like stella can get your approval and there ain't nothing that you can't do

00:59:07.920 we don't party like we used to take me back to 1992 everybody's acting brand new

00:59:20.960 we're not looking across the room okay

00:59:25.600 yeah I will make you guys listen to my mixtape okay Dane says in 96 I was 25 married and I had

00:59:33.680 two kids I thought I was so smart and I was genuinely in love with a beautiful midget 1.00

00:59:38.200 Fazelle said holy f-pearl you're in the wrong business don't gas me up don't do it also guys

00:59:45.060 I am begging my dad my dad is a superhero he is the smartest person I've ever met in my life

00:59:53.080 You guys don't even know what you're missing by not knowing my father.

00:59:57.240 He's so cool.

00:59:59.240 And he built, like, he's just the coolest guy ever.

01:00:04.200 And I've been begging him to do a, he hates media, but I think he would be so good at it.

01:00:13.980 I would love to get a show once a month where he gives his thoughts and everything that's going on in the world.

01:00:19.940 and I want to put it just on the website because he doesn't want to be like public public you know

01:00:25.100 or even audio only if you would buy it or if you would sign up if he did that remember he's a guy

01:00:32.280 who had 10 kids a bajillionaire not really but like he did really well in business and um

01:00:40.240 I even want my dad to write a book he's so cool so anyways um Pearl's dad is amazing I met him

01:00:49.660 in person he's everything pearl says he is that's doug he did meet my dad um pearl you were two

01:00:55.440 years old when stella got her groove back did you write all of this i wrote the lyrics and then i

01:01:00.080 hired a production guy um get him on the show i he would never but i think we could do it on the

01:01:10.360 website pearl you need to play the song with you and bryson gray the one we did and i had my guy

01:01:14.980 work on next show i'll do that as my intro um okay we're gonna get into the actual topic today hold

01:01:24.820 up i'm kind of hot i know you guys are thinking pearl this is a mess look this just is what it is

01:01:37.220 okay so

01:01:39.700 all right so recently we talked about women not having hobbies and not liking video games

01:01:49.120 and again you know these shows really make me think about the differences between men and women

01:01:55.240 and how they like to spend their free time many of men's hobbies can be done alone and not in the

01:02:01.440 physical presence of others, you know, fishing, video games, and other activities that can be

01:02:06.620 enjoyed alone or with another person. You know, most female activities usually involve a social 1.00

01:02:13.100 setting with others requiring talking and adherence of social rules. You know, in the context of a

01:02:20.460 relationship, men tend to have more introverted tendencies, wanting to have alone time or just

01:02:25.880 spending time with their significant other, where women tend to be more extroverted, wanting to 1.00

01:02:30.020 spend time with their friends, um, you know, wanting to go to social gatherings and activities

01:02:35.520 in, you know, like wine dates, coffee activities, festivals, et cetera. And the difference can

01:02:45.580 cause friction in a relationship because women want to go out. They want to be around people 0.99

01:02:50.460 where men, they just want to stay home. We know the trope that after a long week at work, men

01:02:55.120 just want to play football, watch video games, while his girlfriend or wife wants to drag 0.99

01:03:00.340 him to a bunch of stuff he doesn't care about.

01:03:02.740 And if he decides not to go, he has hell to pay, and she will hold it against him for

01:03:08.320 a long time.

01:03:08.980 She might even talk to her friends negatively about the man.

01:03:12.420 So why do men tend to need more alone time to recover, and women want to be around people?

01:03:19.880 The concept is a social battery.

01:03:21.660 A social battery is a term for how much energy someone has for socializing.

01:03:26.880 It can be depleted by social interactions and recharged by restorative activities.

01:03:31.360 Extroverts get their energy from social interactions where when their battery is low, they will

01:03:36.780 choose to spend time with others to recharge.

01:03:39.200 Introverts expend energy from social interactions. 1.00

01:03:42.960 They feel low in energy and they will choose to spend time alone.

01:03:47.820 Unfortunately for guys, modern women always perceive that their way is the correct way 1.00

01:03:53.580 in a relationship, leading to women constantly trying to make the men do things he doesn't

01:03:58.440 want to do and attacking the men for his hobbies and not giving him any alone time.

01:04:03.380 Studies have shown that men need alone time.

01:04:05.480 You've heard stories of men who get home from work and sit in their cars for 15 minutes

01:04:11.260 to an hour to recharge.

01:04:12.460 And the man that stops by the bar to get a beer before he goes home to see his family.

01:04:19.300 Because conversations about norms in society and relationships have been controlled by

01:04:23.560 women, there's a general lack of understanding as to why men need their alone time just to

01:04:28.240 unwind after a long day to restore their social battery.

01:04:32.700 So we're going to watch a video for us talking about the real reason men need their alone 0.95

01:04:39.140 time.

01:04:40.140 Cam 4. Tell me if this is going.

01:04:43.400 It becomes harder when we don't have this natural stimulation.

01:04:47.020 It's like it used to be hard for me to listen to my wife.

01:04:49.740 I learned listening to a woman stimulates this hormone. 1.00

01:04:53.360 All you have to do is don't fix it.

01:04:55.440 That's what we always want to do.

01:04:56.540 We want to stop. Stop the problem. Solve the problem.

01:04:59.940 Because when you're a man, if you can solve a problem, dopamine goes up.

01:05:04.300 That's for a man. 0.96

01:05:05.140 When a woman, when she feels someone hears and cares about me and I'm not alone, 0.98

01:05:09.760 Not only does oxytocin get produced but dopamine gets produced women want that wow and for men when oxytocin is produced we get sleepy

01:05:17.740 That's right, and we get sleepy because oxytocin tends to lower testosterone

01:05:22.900 Okay, like once you have children if you're a man your testosterone levels will take a huge drop and why is that because you love them unconditionally?

01:05:29.500 Whenever you're loving unconditionally oxytocin goes out right so the fact that so I've read I've read that hugs

01:05:35.740 produce oxytocin, kids produce oxytocin because of how you love them, but what

01:05:40.860 you're saying is testosterone in a man is gonna go down when he becomes a father

01:05:44.740 because he has these like bundles of joy continuously hugging him and being

01:05:48.640 close to him. He cares so much about them and so what a man has to do if he's

01:05:52.900 married you have to compensate for that, you have to have ways to raise your

01:05:56.020 testosterone. So how do you rebuild testosterone if you're a man? Again men 0.97

01:06:00.820 don't know this and so what happens is even even before all these new challenges came about there

01:06:06.740 were rituals and relationships at the end of the day men would just sit around with men

01:06:11.140 and women would be with all the women and the men would relax and the women would stay busy 0.98

01:06:15.780 and you go now today women are going well that's unfair you should be busy like me and doing all 1.00

01:06:19.620 these things but we've never been that way and there's a reason we're that way and nobody

01:06:23.540 understands it the reason for that is men need to make at least 10 times more testosterone most men

01:06:29.620 40 times more testosterone than the average woman women need at least 10 times more estrogen or 40 0.98

01:06:35.140 times more than men so you've got this in this complementariness now i certainly have estrogen

01:06:40.260 certainly a woman has testosterone but if i'm a man i'm working hard i'm facing challenges to keep

01:06:45.300 my stress from building up i have to use up my testosterone i'm solving problems solving problems

01:06:51.060 is is using up testosterone at the end of the day i've run out how do i rebuild my testosterone

01:06:57.220 the way you build rebuild your testosterone is to forget your problems and relax okay so we have

01:07:04.420 them talking about how from a scientific perspective men just have different needs

01:07:12.500 socially than women now next we're going to talk about 0.99

01:07:19.540 a social battery and what it is so the term social battery describes the amount of energy a person

01:07:26.660 has for socializing. People with a full social battery have plenty of energy for social interactions

01:07:32.300 whereas those with a low social battery may feel that it needs recharging. The concept of a social

01:07:39.440 battery is a metaphor helping people describe how socializing affects them. The size of a social

01:07:45.780 battery varies among individuals and different people prefer different activities to recharge.

01:07:51.440 Some people such as extroverts get their energy from social interactions therefore when they feel

01:07:56.640 low in energy, they may choose to spend time with others. In contrast, introverts expend energy

01:08:03.960 during social interactions. They may need to recharge by spending time alone. Other people

01:08:09.740 who may need to do this include autistic people and people with social anxiety.

01:08:15.260 The social battery is not a medical concept, but it is a popular and convenient way for people to

01:08:21.420 explain how social activities affect them. Read on to learn more about social battery.

01:08:27.340 The social battery is a metaphor for explaining how much energy a person has for socializing.

01:08:34.600 A small or short-lasting social battery means that a person has less energy for socializing

01:08:41.260 overall. It may be that they find socializing tiring, stressful, or overstimulating. As a

01:08:47.520 small social battery drains quickly, these people need to recharge more often. A larger or longer

01:08:53.180 lasting social battery suggests that a person has a lot of energy for socializing. It may take a long

01:08:58.540 time for them to feel tired, so they do not need to recharge that frequently. In fact, they may get

01:09:03.620 energy from socializing. Many things can affect how a person's social battery lasts, including

01:09:11.180 their personality the type of social interaction the quality or ease of the interaction external

01:09:17.980 stressors internal stressors and anxiety introversion and extroversion are measures how

01:09:24.220 people respond to external stimuli including social interaction extroverts tend to focus on

01:09:30.300 the external external world gaining energy from social interactions introverts are more focused

01:09:36.780 on internal factors and may find social interactions draining. Using the social

01:09:41.360 battery concept, extroverts have longer social batteries and a lower tolerance for spending time

01:09:46.480 alone. In contrast, introverts have a shorter social battery, but still solitary or quiet

01:09:53.440 activities energizing. It is important to note that introverts can still enjoy socializing and

01:10:00.160 find it fun. The fact that social interactions use up their energy does not indicate shyness

01:10:08.880 or lack of social skills, just a particular type of temperament. What depletes someone's

01:10:14.840 social battery? What depletes someone's energy depends on their personality and how they

01:10:19.240 experience social interactions. A very extroverted person may not feel as though their social

01:10:23.920 battery ever drains. For those who eventually find socializing tiring, the following may

01:10:29.580 have an effect, the people they socialize with, the type of interactions, the size of a group,

01:10:34.400 the duration, the power imbalances, or the stress. Signs of having low energy for socializing include

01:10:43.280 being weary, stressed, or burned out, less interested in talking than they were before,

01:10:47.740 a desire to go home, or the desire or the need to do something quiet, such as reading or watching a

01:10:54.720 film. Signs of having a smaller social battery include feeling the need for a lot of quiet time,

01:11:00.600 the tendency to focus on the inner world, getting frustrated or tired by social situations,

01:11:06.600 and feeling overwhelmed by crowds. How to recharge the social battery? Scheduling regular phone calls,

01:11:14.040 joining online communities, joining local interest groups or clubs, and avoiding living or working

01:11:22.240 alone do you guys find like when you i don't know when you haven't socialized in a while um

01:11:33.680 it's almost like a skill okay next we're going to talk about women talking about 0.99

01:11:39.760 a video of a woman talking about how men deal with stress differently men and women deal with

01:11:45.040 stress very differently women typically feel better after talking through her problems while 0.98

01:11:49.520 men typically feel better after some alone time and here's why men need 30 times more testosterone

01:11:55.280 level than women to be highly functioning so imagine him as a smartphone in the beginning of 0.82

01:11:59.840 the day his battery is at 100 and as he experiences stress he burns through his testosterone so by the

01:12:06.080 end of the day his battery is pretty low one way that men recharges the testosterone level is by

01:12:11.600 doing something simple and mindless you guessed it playing games and watching tv he is temporarily

01:12:17.520 switching off so that he can plug in and recharge his battery so ladies it's important to not take

01:12:23.440 his alone time personally because 99 percent of the time it's got nothing to do with you

01:12:28.240 they just have a biological need to switch off and rebuild their testosterone to a much higher

01:12:33.680 level than women okay we got the next one which is a man outlining why he needs his alone time

01:12:47.520 Third thing men want but don't ask for is time alone.

01:12:54.020 Men need time to be alone and reflect on their lives and thoughts.

01:12:57.600 This time allows them to gain a sense of control and clarity in their lives and recharge their

01:13:01.340 mental and emotional energy.

01:13:03.560 It can also help them to feel more connected to themselves and their goals.

01:13:07.500 From a psychological perspective, this need for time alone is important to men as they

01:13:11.020 often strive for autonomy and self-sufficiency.

01:13:14.280 His time alone can also help them to differentiate their own thoughts and feelings from those

01:13:17.920 of others, enabling them to better regulate their emotions.

01:13:22.100 Three other examples of this could be, number one, encouraging him to set aside a few hours

01:13:26.000 each week to focus on personal projects.

01:13:29.100 Number two, suggesting he take a day to go out on a solo trip in nature to refresh himself.

01:13:34.840 Or number three, finding activities, hobbies, and social groups you enjoy as well.

01:13:39.780 okay what do we got next women says men need their cave time let men 1.00

01:13:49.760 let men have their cave time this might seem like i'm an advocate for men but this is for

01:13:56.900 purely selfish reasons so ladies listen up and need their cave time just as much as we need our 1.00

01:14:01.680 me time and self-care time when we give them the space they need for themselves they come back to

01:14:06.500 us more loving and nurturing, time is like their charging port. And that time of independence

01:14:11.440 actually produces a hormone, testosterone. How much testosterone in a woman can stress her out, 1.00

01:14:16.900 but men need that replenish for them to de-stress. If we don't press him while he's in that state,

01:14:22.320 he'll recharge faster and come back to us faster. And we need to not take it so personally. It's not

01:14:27.100 like he doesn't want to spend time with you, but it's his own body telling him that he's out of

01:14:31.180 balance and he needs to regain that balance. Sometimes it can be difficult for us to understand

01:14:35.980 the importance of cave time but maybe that's because we don't understand the value of me time

01:14:40.140 for ourselves so that's why i always say self-love first and then we can get back to loving each other

01:14:48.380 okay so next okay so today we're gonna do a call-in show

01:14:54.380 if god is willing and this equipment succeeds god please let this work i i beg you

01:15:06.040 i know it's my own fault um my producer's out of town for another week

01:15:11.880 god please god please let this work so the questions are going to be

01:15:17.600 And I'm going to tweet this, too.

01:15:21.100 I'm going to tweet this on Twitter.

01:15:25.480 So people doing a call-in show on YouTube for these questions, the link is in the YouTube

01:15:42.240 chat.

01:15:43.240 Okay, now that's done.

01:15:57.580 Next I'm going to go get the zoom link and I'm going to force you to listen to my next

01:16:05.740 mixtape while i go get the zoom

01:16:15.740 yes the answer is yes

01:16:27.500 oh wait not that one that one wasn't too good

01:16:34.220 okay i'm gonna fix now i need to go get the zoom

01:16:57.500 I'm myself calling you, saying babe come over, let's do this over, come beat my shoulder to cry on, life really ain't been the same since you been gone, cause you're addictive, side effects include missing you, loss of appetite, sleepless nights and trust issues, you're

01:17:27.500 I'm a love addict. This feeling is fatal. Mentally unstable. You should have come with a warning label. You should have come with a warning label.

01:17:54.500 You should have come with a warning label.

01:18:01.060 You're in bed with someone else saying you miss me.

01:18:06.420 And I'm crying on the bathroom floor wishing I didn't leave.

01:18:11.540 This love has expired but I still desire a refill.

01:18:19.460 A refill.

01:18:21.220 Cause your addictive side effects include missing you

01:18:27.800 Loss of appetite, sleepless nights and trust issues

01:18:33.620 You're high risk, I'm a love addict

01:18:38.840 This feeling is fatal, mentally unstable 0.79

01:18:44.780 You should come with a warning label

01:18:50.880 You should've come, with a warning label

01:18:56.560 You should've come, with a warning label

01:19:02.220 You should've come, with a warning label

01:19:07.940 It's been three years now and I'm married with a diamond ring

01:19:13.180 You're with some random girl but still in love with me

01:19:18.720 I won't admit it, but I see you in my dreams

01:19:24.740 I wonder, are you the one who's supposed to be next to me?

01:19:31.680 Okay, on my way home, he says, this is awful.

01:19:35.300 Alright, we don't need to, you can keep your opinions to yourself.

01:19:39.680 This was too auto-tuned. This was like one of my early moments.

01:19:42.900 okay you on website here we go

01:19:58.740 Um, I did write this, um, but I want to redo it because I don't know, it was just a little

01:20:19.000 bit too much AI or I wasn't, I'm a better singer now.

01:20:23.800 so I think I would you know okay so now I'm going to join on my laptop but I need to turn the sound

01:20:39.240 off I'm going to try something to see if I can control it from my laptop and I don't have to get

01:20:50.300 up because I bet I'm gonna test something this may go south okay join oh

01:21:05.480 okay now I'm gonna test speaker and mic I want it to be muted but whatever I'll

01:21:12.860 they want to get in hold on guys okay

01:21:42.860 okay now let me

01:21:58.240 okay sorry guys okay you can join with computer audio

01:22:11.760 we're going to mute this and then okay doug can you unmute and talk i want to see if i can hear you

01:22:24.320 doug

01:22:27.200 let me text him yeah can you hear me like can you hear me yeah i can hear you oh heck yeah now let

01:22:33.680 me make my laptop one of the owners of the meeting so i can you do the admission room hold on

01:23:03.680 yay all right the zoom has been figured out in two days every day so tomorrow today i figured

01:23:16.520 out all aspects of zoom and now i can see the zoom tomorrow i will be able to stream on twitter

01:23:24.740 tomorrow i will figure that out and maybe facebook too um okay so now i'm a host so i can

01:23:33.660 if i want oh you know what i can do

01:23:39.240 that doesn't work does it well

01:23:44.580 interesting let's see if any of these work you had it the first button you pushed it showed

01:23:54.520 everyone's face really just i don't have my camera on i don't think so it gets rid of mine

01:24:00.000 because okay you see that okay well you know it's one day at a time it's it's okay we can just do

01:24:07.120 audio today okay guys the links are in both of the um chats doug's who's doug doug's been my

01:24:14.080 moderator for three years and he helps me out right doug yeah um so what do you so we're going

01:24:27.360 to repeat the topic just to remind everybody because I know I made you guys listen to my

01:24:35.040 mixtape. Okay. So the questions are, what type of social battery do you have? Do you need alone time

01:24:42.520 in a relationship? Has there ever been a relationship where the person you were with

01:24:47.140 wouldn't give you any space or let you recharge your social battery? Any comments, guys,

01:24:52.780 personal stories I really love that you've had. This isn't about right or wrong. It's just more,

01:25:00.940 you know, what is like, what is your experience, Ben? So Doug, why don't you get us started today?

01:25:10.220 I'm an extrovert and I'm also a twin. So I've always gotten my energy from other people and I

01:25:17.660 had to learn how to um how to how to be alone because now i now that i'm in my 40s i really

01:25:25.020 appreciate my alone time but i was a social butterfly when i was young and i come from a

01:25:30.460 family where my family liked to be left alone my parents had no friends and they really enjoyed

01:25:36.460 each other's company i couldn't have friends over most of the time i used to wonder why they were

01:25:39.900 like that but now as i've gotten older i just want to be left alone and um uh but i've always been

01:25:50.060 in a relationship with the context when you're an extrovert and you're a guy

01:25:55.180 you tend to attract women who were introverts uh or like i had that problem and then they get

01:26:01.740 really jealous of you giving your attention to everyone but them and it causes problems

01:26:06.700 So there's a lot of women out there, especially the really pretty ones who want to find, they're 1.00

01:26:12.860 attracted to a guy who has social skills, who's extrovert, but then they want to be able to put

01:26:18.580 him in a cage. He'd be the one that can say when he goes out, when he can go out to play, when he

01:26:25.280 can do all that. And I have no idea why women get off on that. I have no idea. Do you think that 1.00

01:26:30.460 introverts are better together? Or do you think it's better that one person's introverted and

01:26:35.500 one's person's extra because in my experience it can go like both ways because the the con is if

01:26:45.220 you're two extroverts you're both talking over each other you know it's you know but the the

01:26:51.480 problem with um extrovert and introvert if it's like one or the other there's a disagreements on

01:26:57.360 like events that you might go to or not go to you know so I'm just curious your thought on that

01:27:04.120 i think that third wave feminism messed up the relationship between men and women when it comes 1.00

01:27:09.880 to one being it because an introverted woman used to be able to complement a man's extrovertedness 1.00

01:27:15.560 you know what i'm saying or be there and stand in the background but now modern women whether 1.00

01:27:20.760 they're introverts or extroverts want to try to stand next to a man instead of behind a man 0.91

01:27:26.760 so that whole so i would say before the 2000s a man being extrovert being with an introverted

01:27:34.600 woman was good but introverted women and extroverted women still are on this the social 1.00

01:27:40.360 contract has been messed up okay so your answer is neither and if i can say one more thing about

01:27:48.840 the social battery on social media um guys a lot of people they don't want to especially a lot of

01:27:56.680 women they don't want to do the work to be actual friends like men make honest to goodness friendships 0.66

01:28:02.440 but women really don't right and so you have this trend where when women do talk about a social 1.00

01:28:08.760 battery it's it's an excuse to be lazy when it comes to social interactions and social relationships

01:28:14.200 with people. So you see, oh my God, my social battery is depleted. So I just have to go home

01:28:18.760 today. Or my friend called me, but my social battery is depleted. So social battery has been

01:28:24.440 another term co-opted by modern women as an excuse for bad behavior. So that's true. I feel like 1.00

01:28:37.900 women are more extroverted nowadays than men, but it's interesting because women have always 1.00

01:28:43.040 been the more social creatures so what do you think that is say that one more time women have 1.00

01:28:49.180 always been more social than men would you agree with that or no i would agree um would you say

01:28:55.800 that women used to be more introverted but they were more social but now they're more extroverted 0.99

01:29:00.800 i think that women have always been more extroverted but the remember men and women

01:29:12.480 used to never really hang out until like the 30s oh that's true that's true so this whole men and

01:29:21.620 women hanging out together still is rather new for like humankind so maybe that's where the 1.00

01:29:27.800 whole thing it's messed up but i think that um i think in certain situations women are are less 1.00

01:29:33.400 are introverted more but but we still have a bunch of women around women are infinitely more 1.00

01:29:41.220 extrovert around each other than men are men will just sit there and watch a football game and not 0.66

01:29:49.740 say a word yeah i'm saying or so yeah uh when it comes to men and women hanging out i still i would

01:29:58.640 to answer your question i would say that women are still more extroverted because they like people 1.00

01:30:02.960 and men are more likely to gather around and you know and be obsessed with things so answer your

01:30:09.720 questions simply i think that women are still more extroverted especially if you include social 1.00

01:30:14.000 media do you consider social media extrovertedness do you know what i thought about this the other

01:30:19.720 day like me and you talking now does this count as a social interaction i would say yes

01:30:26.840 so because that that's a question is i've the older i've gotten the more normal it's been

01:30:32.520 to get your social interactions from social media right but it's different than a real

01:30:38.520 life interaction you know yeah yeah i agree that's why so many people just talk trash

01:30:46.840 on the internet if you said that to the person and realized that they'd knock your teeth out so

01:30:51.560 yeah i agree guilty sorry okay um the okay guys um you're the only caller right now so we could

01:31:05.560 let me see guys um if you want to call in and talk about it the zoom link is in the chat too

01:31:12.600 So yeah, the questions are, what kind of social battery do you have? Are you introverted and

01:31:21.720 recharge your social battery being alone? Are you extroverted and recharge your social battery

01:31:27.640 being around people? Have you ever been in a relationship with a woman that just doesn't 0.98

01:31:32.760 understand that you need alone time to recharge your social battery? Have you been one of those

01:31:38.040 guys where before you get home after work you have to sit out in your car for 45 minutes and

01:31:43.720 like read the newspaper or listen to some music before you go into the house and with your wife

01:31:49.560 and kids have you been one of those guys because i know a lot of guys doing that and also remember

01:31:54.200 guys women control the narrative when it comes to intersexual dynamics between men and women on 1.00

01:32:00.600 mainstream tv so how many times has your significant other or your wife or something

01:32:06.200 just not understood that you just need alone time it's not you just leave me alone then they

01:32:12.040 get all upset and start yelling and screaming at you and stuff and trying to make all

01:32:16.280 all these accusations has that ever happened to you guys guess what percentage extroverted i am

01:32:23.320 What's that?

01:32:25.320 Yes.

01:32:26.320 I took the Jordan Peterson test.

01:32:30.320 Go ahead.

01:32:31.320 75%.

01:32:32.320 97.

01:32:33.320 Isn't that insane?

01:32:34.320 I was like, but I've always dated guys that are a little more introverted.

01:32:40.320 Yeah.

01:32:41.320 Because we were, I told you before the nineties, it was always good for an extroverted person

01:32:49.720 be with the introverted person and the introverted person understood their role like they would stand

01:32:54.440 behind the extroverted person yeah now you just have women that just want to beat in front of a 1.00

01:32:59.160 man whether they have social skills or not yeah i'm gonna read the chat really quick guys call

01:33:05.960 in call in or we have beef tell me about your social battery okay um in the chat on the website

01:33:13.560 which if you guys want your chat rad remember you go to the audacitynetwork.com also i will take a

01:33:18.840 second to say chad mode if you guys want to be the ultimate alpha male you're tired of simping

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01:33:51.080 discount code pearl for 20 off okay as a quick so kenny on the website he said introverts do

01:33:59.560 not understand extroverts i'm going to bounce off that real quick kenny you are 100 correct 0.73

01:34:05.000 we live in this world especially with social media where people are giving this platform to

01:34:09.320 bitch and moan about everything that introverts think that it takes more energy to be introvert 1.00

01:34:14.640 than it does to be an extrovert and that's not true extroverts connect people you go if you're 0.99

01:34:21.760 sitting in a room full of people that you don't know most people will just sit there staring at

01:34:25.920 each other but the extroverts have them they make the effort to connect people you know i've i was

01:34:31.540 a person at work that would plan happy hours and do all these things you know i've connected people

01:34:36.280 that are friends for life i've connected people that just by um meeting them or different groups

01:34:43.740 of friends mixing dudes of friends who have been dating and some have gotten married because i've

01:34:49.300 introduced them you know at you know at a social event and that takes energy and these actually

01:34:55.320 these introverts oh my god life is so tough as i just have to sit there it's like no extroverts

01:35:01.760 are the ones who connect the world and make the world go around. It takes more energy

01:35:06.080 to be an extrovert than it does to be introvert. And I don't know what crazy clown world we're 0.94

01:35:11.980 living in where people that are introverted, all you have to do, what do you have to do 0.96

01:35:15.940 to be an introvert, Pearl? Just sit there. 1.00

01:35:20.280 Maybe you could be a good listener, I would say, to be an introvert. That's something

01:35:24.640 that I think introverts are maybe better at than extroverts. They're usually better listeners.

01:35:31.760 Yeah, I guess you can try to look on the bright side that way.

01:35:36.140 I'm just saying, I'm like, okay, Dane says all of this introverse extra, extra, Dane, if you're here to hate, this is your warning number one.

01:35:46.580 If you're here to hate, I'm gonna, we don't need to, if you don't like the topic, I don't know why you're on the website.

01:35:53.360 Okay, Kenny, 80% of humans are introverts.

01:35:56.140 Anna, I'm very introverted by nature in a social situation.

01:35:59.940 I can switch it on and off and be very sociable, but it exhausts me.

01:36:04.800 Social society is designed for introverts.

01:36:07.360 Extroverts have to bite their tongues because we need to say it, hear it, and let it bounce and let it regurgitate. 0.99

01:36:16.120 All right.

01:36:16.380 Yaakov says social absolutely simply stated when roles and family were important, men face out a requirement to defend and hunt.

01:36:26.240 Women face inward to clan and family. 1.00

01:36:29.200 Kenny says the population has been moving away from family.

01:36:32.080 So many one-parent households, you can't teach family well.

01:36:37.680 Fazelle said I'm a loudmouth extrovert, but I haven't been tested on any personality skills.

01:36:42.560 I just did Jordan Peterson's a while ago.

01:36:46.380 and you know it's funny because it's something i'm sometimes insecure about i talk a lot

01:36:51.180 but now i get paid to talk so look who's laughing now mom you know okay pearl about your sponsor i

01:36:58.060 spent years with joint and muscle pain no my energy i literally thought i was dying my life

01:37:02.620 was to do anything i found out i had t levels of an 80 plus year old um steve says i have a

01:37:09.820 homestead got like 90 days of food here um i need a lot of alone time groups exhaust me

01:37:18.060 do you think there's you could be an extrovert if you don't like groups is that possible i don't

01:37:25.740 think so i don't think so at all another uh pro what do you think of people that say i'm an

01:37:34.860 introverted extrovert or extroverted introvert do you think that's just an excuse

01:37:39.820 I think women always like to say in the middle. 1.00

01:37:47.460 So they'll always say it depends or I'm sort of in the middle.

01:37:50.700 They don't like to take a hard stance.

01:37:53.700 Does that make sense?

01:37:54.700 So that sounds like something women say when they don't want to admit it one way or the 1.00

01:37:59.080 other.

01:38:00.080 Does that make sense?

01:38:01.300 That's what I think.

01:38:02.300 What do you think?

01:38:03.300 Yeah, I agree.

01:38:04.300 I agree.

01:38:05.300 um the it's like i hate when women say the word partner because um the partner is so vacuous and 1.00

01:38:12.820 nebulous and vague that the person that's that establishes that says they want a partnership

01:38:20.020 usually reserves the right to be able to control the inputs and outputs of that partnership but

01:38:25.540 that's the same thing with i'm an introverted extrovert they want to be able to control all

01:38:29.300 the inputs and outputs of a social interaction with somebody on twitter some people responded

01:38:36.980 to me so i was just going to read what this said um someone said i um i posted the questions on

01:38:43.220 youtube which are what type of social battery do you have do you need alone time have you ever been

01:38:48.180 in a relationship where the person you were with wouldn't give you any space or let you recharge

01:38:52.580 your social battery this guy said i was and if i wanted to do anything go see my friend it would

01:38:58.580 be days of underhanded comments and slowly she would throw out whatever grenade she could 0.67

01:39:05.140 to think of justify to justify treating me like and i couldn't sit in a car

01:39:11.700 while she went into the gas station for cigarettes 15 feet away has that happened to you doug what

01:39:18.500 what kind of underhanded comments um would do women do so men don't like do social things 0.96

01:39:26.580 have you experienced that or no the shame insult guilt and the need to be right

01:39:31.860 they shame you first can i have an example just for this situation something they might say

01:39:37.460 you know so so they'll shame you and try to say that you um example i i've been with a woman who 0.99

01:39:45.060 didn't want me to go to the gym as much so they try to uh tame you usually by saying oh you know

01:39:53.700 you want um the you want to look good for somebody else or you know or or that they project because

01:40:03.060 maybe so go to the gym with him sorry you know it's just insult guilt need to be right you know

01:40:10.340 they they um the or if if you play video games oh kids play video games

01:40:16.340 oh aren't you a grown man you know and then they'll yeah it's just they literally go in order

01:40:24.000 shame insults guilt and then they start needing to be right about everything so they go down the

01:40:28.520 list why do you every guy in the chat has had a woman that tried to stop him from doing his

01:40:35.080 hobbies and the biggest problem with that is that if anyone if any woman tries to stop you

01:40:40.740 from your hobbies it's because they don't have a hobby if they want to stop you from doing 0.97

01:40:44.580 something ask them what are you doing why are you always up my ass why don't you find something to 0.94

01:40:50.800 to do and then tell her guys i was playing video games or i was going to the gym or i was working 0.99

01:40:56.240 on on cars long before you i'm going to be doing it long after you're going have you ever tried to

01:41:02.120 give women something to do to leave you alone um i tried to get them interested in a hobby

01:41:10.300 I actually had a friend that was naturally ranked in Madden back in the 2000s, like late 2000s, and he actually, him and his girl, they fight about Madden and football because he was a Cowboys fan and a Seahawks fan, so he'd watch football and he'd play it, and she'd bitch and moan and complain.

01:41:29.300 well he sat her down and explained to her the rules of football because she complained because

01:41:35.460 she didn't understand football but she had the humbleness to be able to start from okay this is

01:41:40.580 a football that's a quarterback that's a uh a wide receiver and when she learned football she didn't

01:41:47.300 bitch as much but that that took a certain amount of humbleness and humility that most modern women 1.00

01:41:52.020 don't have guys love explain like i ask sometimes i ask my brother about his video games and to 0.98

01:41:57.460 explain to me them and they get sometimes guys get so excited

01:42:01.780 because no one asks them about their hobbies like ever.

01:42:05.260 Yeah, you wouldn't go do it. Don't input. Why do you still

01:42:09.400 hang out with your friends? Are you a little kid was an

01:42:12.020 example someone put in the chat?

01:42:18.220 Have you had that one?

01:42:20.260 Yeah. Yep. All of them. I've heard them all.

01:42:24.700 Let's see.

01:42:27.460 let me see what else we got here steve says women are still angry even if women are angry if we are

01:42:34.660 happy women have become very selfish they need hobbies other than banging other guys kenny 1.00

01:42:40.260 introverts will get mad at extroverts president trump is an extreme extrovert that is why he says

01:42:46.660 things and restates that introverts have an internal way to filter richard introverts are

01:42:54.340 are more passive aggressive on the whole fizzle we need to bring back shaming no you know i actually 0.98

01:43:01.520 i think we should just let them be who they are if they want to be whores at least now you can 1.00

01:43:05.720 see it right you don't like now the women don't even have to pretend to not be whores like they 1.00

01:43:11.600 can just be a whore and you can just not date them kenny introverts easily gang up on extroverts 0.99

01:43:17.140 because they are the majority because they think extroverts think the same way you do sorry glenn 1.00

01:43:23.360 I was going to say, you're talking about women being whores, you can't even call them out anymore or you might get sued. 1.00

01:43:33.220 Oh, yeah. Tomorrow I'm going to update my lawsuit. 0.94

01:43:38.200 But the last, I'll tell you the last, the last thing Nala said to me was, let me find this.

01:43:46.700 apparently um

01:43:52.300 otherwise retain counsel i mean apparently they're taking me to court so this will be a very

01:44:02.320 entertaining court case i guess the things i do for you guys the things i do i will not bend to

01:44:10.140 the will of this porn star i mean you're gonna have to rob me legally that's what you're gonna

01:44:16.160 have to do because speaking of social battery so that uh remember men and women mixing uh casually

01:44:26.720 and socially is a newer thing and i don't know if you remember that cartoon the flintstones where

01:44:33.200 they used to go to that lodge that's what men used to do like women will go to rotary clubs 1.00

01:44:38.140 and men will go to lodges but this is back when men had male spaces before women and women invaded 0.86

01:44:44.640 them all and destroyed all the male spaces yeah yeah and that's one of the reasons why guys play 0.79

01:44:51.440 video games because playing video games online i i don't really play video games online i like the 0.57

01:44:57.280 the quest based ones but it's one of the last places where you can you know talk trash leader

01:45:03.680 boards see who's the best where else in society can you do that women always a person women always 0.99

01:45:10.560 invade yeah women kick down the door you change everything around you ruin everything it's always 1.00

01:45:16.960 men make a cool thing and then women ruin cool thing but then they feel entitled to have their 1.00

01:45:23.040 own spaces too so so women can have their own spaces but men can't have theirs women don't 1.00

01:45:28.400 even want their own spaces they want their own spaces with hot guys no have you seen women only 1.00

01:45:35.600 gyms they always fail like you see the the women's only bar and i think it was in sydney australia 0.87

01:45:43.600 the that it was women owned women only and showed women's sports and it failed yes here they want

01:45:50.240 women only spaces but they just want jacked guys so like they want like a members club that's like 1.00

01:45:58.320 a perfect place for women members club with hot rich guys like country club i think country clubs 0.99

01:46:07.200 are for women i know men sign up to them but my theory is that they sign up to them to either

01:46:12.800 please their wife or to um get women let's say the best couple one of the best couples is a guy that

01:46:25.360 plays a video game and a woman though that likes to read because you could both sit on the couch

01:46:30.240 and spend quality time together he's playing video games and she's reading your book carlos

01:46:36.400 from the chat says i dated a woman once who hated to see me silently reading my crime novels

01:46:41.680 she would find any excuse to interrupt me and she would never admit that she hated it

01:46:47.280 what is nala basing her lawsuit on because if it's slander she has nothing 1.00

01:46:58.200 oh i'll counter sue guys don't look at i hate fake trad con women i hate them i grew up around 1.00

01:47:11.800 women like this. In the media, the last decade, I've had to deal with women like this. You 1.00

01:47:20.280 and this bitch wants me to give her $300,000 for defamation or she'll take me to court. 1.00

01:47:27.360 Take me to court, you dumb. This is the woman claiming to be a born again Christian. If 1.00

01:47:36.040 If anything, this further shows, well, what happened to turn the other cheek?

01:47:40.480 You know what I mean?

01:47:41.680 Anyways, take me to court and sign up to the audacity network.com to help me find it because I will, I will go.

01:47:51.820 I'll read the, I'll actually read it back and forth.

01:47:54.700 I think I'm, I was debating, can I get in trouble for showing a whole lawsuit on live stream?

01:48:00.720 Yeah, I'd avoid it.

01:48:03.160 I don't know.

01:48:05.100 a little advice from your content guy i don't know i might i might live stream i think if i

01:48:10.940 go to court i'm live streaming it i got nothing to hide that's one of the ways you know now is

01:48:19.200 fake is because she hasn't okay that's one of the biggest problems with social media especially

01:48:24.860 modern women they think that they can get out of college and become an entrepreneur and 1.00

01:48:28.720 and open a business back in the day like if i wanted to open a restaurant i'd get a job at a

01:48:34.980 restaurant at 18 and then i'd work like 78 years 10 years restaurant get to management learn how

01:48:41.500 to cook and stuff and then open my own restaurant i became an engineer i'd work at an engineering

01:48:46.760 firm for seven years and then open my own a law too but women think that they can open a business 1.00

01:48:52.680 with no experience at all it's like what skills do you have and that's the same thing with these 0.99

01:48:57.600 reformed whores who want to become religious. This religious study, you're supposed to study 1.00

01:49:04.920 this stuff before you start running your mouth and telling people how to act and what to do.

01:49:12.540 Women want all the respect without doing any of the work. None of the work. Fazal says, 0.98

01:49:18.660 I've said this before and I'll say it again, women have the power of the pussy and we have 1.00

01:49:22.480 the power of the purse. Not really, because women find a 1.00

01:49:26.080 way to get your money. Sorry. You come counter Sue, she has a 1.00

01:49:31.360 lot more to lose. P Damien introverts and extroverts are

01:49:35.380 only on the surface. Public persona, the private persona is

01:49:39.160 closer to the actual person. Kenny, they want a woman's only 0.99

01:49:42.820 space that men pay for. They had it at strip clubs, then they 1.00

01:49:46.100 effed it up. Dane, if I had to agree with everything you were

01:49:50.440 Doug. Okay. Dane. Okay. Women are angry if we are happy. Women have become very selfish. They 1.00

01:49:57.980 need hobbies. Okay. We read that. What do we do now, Doug? No one's calling in on this topic.

01:50:04.260 Well, I would probably think because, you know, I would say most of the guys in the chat,

01:50:09.380 maybe 80% know exactly what we're talking about. Easily relatable topics could be a thing where

01:50:17.220 people don't really call it a clinic. I know for a fact that you guys know exactly what Verona

01:50:21.400 are talking about, man. Come on. Especially if you've had a long-term relationship or you've

01:50:26.060 been married before. Oh my God. The first thing a woman will do when you put a label on it is put 1.00

01:50:33.180 herself in direct contention with your alone time and your hobbies. Yeah. I want to hear about how

01:50:39.620 have women disrupted your alone time? Because you've talked a little bit how they disrupted

01:50:45.840 your extroverted time but how did they interrupt your alone time well i've never really well okay

01:50:53.360 so once i had to learn how to how to be alone and uh i cherish it now but it took me a while and um

01:51:03.280 it's mainly just i like taking at least one day on the weekend to have some alone time and it's

01:51:11.840 they start to see when that time is and try to hold you to something during that time it's like

01:51:18.400 when a guy wants to watch a football game by himself the game comes on at 1 35 and a woman

01:51:24.800 will literally intentionally plan something she'll she'll check it's like she checked the tv schedule

01:51:30.000 to see when the game is and then plan a brunch right when the football game starts and then like

01:51:34.240 make you make a choice it's like do you want to be alone or go with me somewhere it's just like

01:51:41.840 why are you even putting me in that position in the first place right and it's just like yeah so

01:51:49.740 that's what happens with my alone time now it's like i make sure that the women know that this is

01:51:54.420 you know this is what i want to be alone or this is why i want to do a hobby

01:51:57.800 whatever and that time is literally walled off like like on outlook you know put the little

01:52:03.360 meeting meeting invite thing to block some time off and they'll go ahead and plan something anyway

01:52:07.720 yeah yeah that makes sense well i'm sorry i'm sorry dean you you're gone sorry dane i guess

01:52:18.520 you gotta go i gotta i gotta i gotta we can't yeah we can't have the spurging out we're trying

01:52:26.600 to have a cool chat um thank you for i'm seeing a lot of new names in the chat on the website

01:52:34.680 and also in the chat on YouTube.

01:52:37.020 Guys, Pearl's chat is the best

01:52:38.760 chat on YouTube and thank you everyone

01:52:40.560 for being there. That's one of the reasons why

01:52:42.280 I try to greet everybody because

01:52:44.140 you guys are

01:52:46.280 hilarious and

01:52:48.220 you guys, you stayed

01:52:50.560 through all the technical difficulties. I've seen

01:52:52.480 people who've been here since the beginning

01:52:54.440 so I

01:52:56.560 want the energy to see him

01:52:57.960 on YouTube and on the website.

01:53:00.500 So thank you guys for being a part of the chat on the website

01:53:02.580 and on YouTube.

01:53:03.620 Doug and PA really appreciates it.

01:53:05.780 Yeah.

01:53:06.780 And also if we get enough people on the website or on the app, I've actually just spoken to

01:53:12.140 someone who builds out like schools.

01:53:14.860 So maybe someday we could open like a finishing school or something, you know, or like turn

01:53:22.380 some of this stuff into like programs, you know, like end and end simping school.

01:53:28.980 I don't know.

01:53:30.380 the I have some really cool ideas for the website or for the app if we get enough people on so

01:53:38.300 I appreciate you guys you know I know how

01:53:41.220 it takes a lot to download an external app from YouTube but we've put a lot of effort into it

01:53:50.060 into the design and it kind of looks like Netflix to be honest the layout at least so

01:53:56.500 you know you got any other thing to add about the app

01:54:00.620 the app itself yeah yeah it it mirrors the website pretty well you you get all the notifications

01:54:10.940 that you do on the website on the app you you can chat the same you can watch the shows you

01:54:17.440 have access to to the archives all that stuff so if you don't have that on your phone download it

01:54:22.360 It's in the App Store, and it's on Android.

01:54:25.520 Cool.

01:54:26.280 Well, I think we're going to close out the show.

01:54:28.260 I guess this topic wasn't, you know, people didn't have anything to add.

01:54:31.840 But it's okay.

01:54:32.920 We can always do it a different day or see who calls in tomorrow.

01:54:37.440 Also, this is a little later than I normally do, guys.

01:54:40.360 So if you like this time slot, I'll consider it.

01:54:46.020 I will consider it.

01:54:47.200 I promise nothing.

01:54:49.160 Thanks so much for tuning in.

01:54:50.940 do you have any final thoughts doug um a lot of modern modern women use social battery as 1.00

01:54:59.780 excuse to to control friendships like talking to people when not to so watch out for that and guys

01:55:06.880 if you you got to be in command of your time no matter what you know if you're busy if you're

01:55:14.400 paying the cost to be the boss if you're if you're grinding if you're on the way up

01:55:20.080 you're entitled to some time alone guys you you need it men men we are problem solvers

01:55:26.160 and you need time to kind of shuffle things around put things through your logic process

01:55:31.040 and you can't do that with some broad yapping in your ear 24 7. so asking for alone time is not 0.87

01:55:38.880 too much of an ass guys it's not you don't let these women tell you that it is well thanks so

01:55:45.280 much doug i'm gonna end the zoom and thank you guys so much for watching um like the video on 0.98

01:55:52.880 your way out and subscribe to the channel and i think tomorrow i'm gonna cover these ashley st

01:55:59.360 claire stuff i try to stay away from the news cycle but hey like the video subscribe and i'm

01:56:06.000 going to go on the live stream now thanks so much for watching and go to the audacitynetwork.com if you can

01:56:36.000 Thank you.

01:57:06.000 Thank you.

Pearl - February 25, 2025

Men Need Time Alone From Modern Women ｜ Pearl Daily

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