Pearl - Men's Poker Face (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 What up guys? Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily. So as you guys know, dating is

00:00:07.920 hard for most men and we know that the majority of men can't get dates and are not having

00:00:12.860 sex. Those who do end up going on dates have to ensure a woman, have to endure a woman just 1.00

00:00:20.360 to get laid. I mean, think about it for a second. A man has to plan a date, take her 0.99

00:00:26.100 to some restaurant that costs way too much money or pay for drinks at a bar that are overpriced.

00:00:31.540 While at the restaurant or at the bar, the man has to listen to a modern woman go on and on and on 1.00

00:00:36.300 about things he does not care about. I want you guys listening and the guys in the chat to think

00:00:42.100 back to all the times you had to sit there and fake interest in what some 304 was talking about

00:00:48.560 on a date. She talks about her education, her career, her ex, her dog, and you just got to sit

00:00:53.880 there and smile. Nod your head. I call this the male poker face. The male poker face is when a

00:01:02.480 man has to keep a calm demeanor and a non-expressive face when a woman is telling some

00:01:07.260 crazy story or talking about something inappropriate on a date. The male poker face is

00:01:13.120 required because a lot of times if you don't have one, you can react negatively to what some of

00:01:21.080 these women are saying and lose your chance at getting laid. This is going to be a call-in show, 1.00

00:01:26.020 so as I'm going through the show today, I want you guys to think about all of the times you had

00:01:31.020 to maintain a male poker face while some woman was telling you something crazy. I want to hear

00:01:36.860 the stories about how you guys went through it. Okay, so we got one girl that was reading her

00:01:46.660 ex-boyfriend's texts on a date. Okay, let's see where this is going.

00:01:54.240 How do I make this a review? All right.

00:02:07.660 Oh, no. Is the internet not working? No!

00:02:10.560 all right let me try the second one let me try this one and see if it's any better

00:02:17.920 you're like the only guy i'm talking to

00:02:20.000 guys just can't handle me guys just can't handle me

00:02:26.340 they just don't want to my ex is completely out of the picture

00:02:31.980 oh his face is so funny i usually never do this

00:02:40.560 yeah you do i'm always on time

00:02:44.320 i can count on one hand how many men i've slept with

00:02:50.140 oh i don't care that you have friends that are girls

00:02:55.740 they're already upset i spent a lot of time complaining about how bad it is dating as a

00:03:03.940 girl in new york but i've got to say ladies my guy friend just called me and told me about his

00:03:10.540 date last night and she talked about her ex so much and then she actually had him read her

00:03:17.740 messages with her ex and analyze what he's saying i'm like girl i mean on one hand hilarious on the

00:03:25.320 other hand like what and then my friend was like hey i just want to you know it seems like you

00:03:31.880 might still be into your ex like i just want to kind of like pulse check there because i'm looking

00:03:35.120 for something serious whatever and she was like no of course not i spent a lot of time complaining

00:03:40.240 about how bad it is dating i can't believe you know some people i gotta respect them because

00:03:49.120 they just have the audacity do you know what i mean like it's kind of like the guy that cheats

00:03:53.900 in front of his girlfriend do you know what i mean like you've seen those like tiktoks at a bar 1.00

00:03:58.560 it's definitely wrong but you're kind of like wow you really had the audacity

00:04:02.940 women tell men he's competing her for her on the first date okay another date and he's never

00:04:11.360 gonna see me again but he asked me a question that kind of made me go he jokingly was like

00:04:18.840 oh so who are these other guys that i'm in competition with and i i had to be like other

00:04:25.920 guys no you're in competition with me you're competing against me because listen i'm great

00:04:35.440 i'm i'm fun i know how to do everything for myself but what is going to make you special enough for

00:04:44.080 me to want to share my life with this man was like a gas because he was just like i was being dead

00:04:50.880 serious you guys have to remember you're great and i think the longer i'm single which i think

00:04:59.120 it's like coming on three oh god it's coming up three years now i there's something else that like

00:05:06.240 i love more than myself i'm very sure of who i am as a person oh men are scared of independent

00:05:13.120 woman like y'all should be like if you are not coming in prepared and sure of yourself then 0.96

00:05:19.600 you're not gay yeah so that's can you imagine she's saying this on a date

00:05:28.220 now we just post everything on social media so all right the next we got this this guy here

00:05:37.920 or this girl too. Okay. I went on my first hinge date and I thought it went fine. I didn't rather

00:05:46.320 like him, but two days later he texts me and goes, I don't think we're quite the right match.

00:05:51.280 So in the month since it has been haunting me and ultimately I decided that I'm the problem

00:05:57.880 and I probably shouldn't have said a few things on the date. So I wrote some of them down

00:06:03.640 insane things i said on date okay so first people who post on linkedin are losers i stand by that

00:06:11.980 um i kept talking about how i want to go to a hockey game and see a fight on the ice

00:06:16.780 kind of a red flag i also i want to see talking about how i got super into fantasy football this

00:06:24.520 year um but like it was a big part of my life and then he asked me like what i do outside of work

00:06:31.720 like what my hobbies are and I was like well fantasy football's over so I don't do that anymore

00:06:36.880 um I guess I started reading recently and like literally the very next day I was playing in a

00:06:43.820 pickleball tournament didn't feel the need to mention that completely forgot that I was doing

00:06:47.700 that oh I told him that it took me six and a half years to finish college which I think that's like

00:06:52.840 a third date thing like I should probably hold off on telling people that I don't know why we

00:06:58.620 just lead with like the worst stuff red flag oh i said even if i was blackout drunk i don't think

00:07:05.660 i could get up in front of people and sing karaoke which yeah never in the past have i done that

00:07:12.700 not that i know of okay so ultimately i decided i need to like pretend a little

00:07:17.740 on the first date like reel them in and be very normal um i just like don't know how to do that

00:07:28.620 Like, I was just trying to fill up silence with jokes that I've already made in the past.

00:07:33.560 Okay, so last month.

00:07:35.300 All right, let's see what else we got.

00:07:39.300 We got this one.

00:07:43.280 Oh, this one.

00:07:44.200 Oh, this one the audio didn't work for.

00:07:46.220 Yeah, I don't know why.

00:07:47.780 Okay, then we got this guy over here.

00:07:52.500 I'm going to turn the sound off.

00:07:54.220 He says, when she casually says something that confirms she won't be my wife.

00:07:59.200 That's the thing.

00:07:59.760 We like talk and then the men just compartmentalize us.

00:08:04.920 Yeah.

00:08:06.400 You know.

00:08:10.480 All right.

00:08:11.160 We got next.

00:08:15.340 She casually confirms that she is not wifey material. 0.99

00:08:21.220 Yeah.

00:08:21.780 It says the website isn't on.

00:08:24.220 Oh, they're making a new one.

00:08:27.700 Sorry, guys.

00:08:30.300 There's a new one that's up.

00:08:32.540 I will read the chat over there.

00:08:34.780 All right, when she says something that makes me completely snap back into reality

00:08:37.940 and realize I've just romanticized the idea of another average woman.

00:08:48.340 Okay, wait, here we go.

00:08:49.400 over heels in love with a girl and then she say something that just proves that she can never be

00:08:54.280 yours i feel like that's more heartbreaking than getting cheated on again because now

00:09:01.160 because now i gotta self-sabotage and move different because if i tell you what you said 0.89

00:09:06.120 you ain't gonna do nothing but gas like me and make me feel stupid so now i gotta self-sabotage 0.80

00:09:11.160 and start being different and moving funny so so you get the hint that i don't want you no more 0.92

00:09:15.800 it was nice it was nice why i lasted it was nice why i lasted it was nice why it lasted

00:09:23.200 but baby girl you gotta go you gotta go yo cooked

00:09:28.800 cooked okay

00:09:32.600 she says something that confirms she'll never be your wife

00:09:39.260 dang

00:09:49.500 if she's constantly telling you about random guys hitting on her and you're the kind of guy 1.00

00:09:57.300 that gets crazy jealous and overreacts i'm gonna be honest you're insecure and she's toxic as fuck 1.00

00:10:02.800 is your girlfriend presenting to this person that they are open and available to be with 0.99

00:10:08.480 because if they are, that's the problem.

00:10:10.860 Of course, there are people out there

00:10:12.260 that no matter what,

00:10:13.720 they are going to flirt with your partner.

00:10:15.180 But is your partner letting it happen

00:10:17.540 because they want it to happen?

00:10:19.680 If your partner were to come home from a club

00:10:21.540 and they tell you,

00:10:22.760 oh, I had these people flirting with me all night long,

00:10:25.500 my immediate first question to them would be,

00:10:27.560 did you tell them that you're with someone?

00:10:29.980 If the response is yes,

00:10:31.880 the follow-up question to that is,

00:10:33.840 did you tell them I'm in a relationship

00:10:35.820 or sorry, I'm in a relationship?

00:10:37.900 if the word sorry is in that sentence they want it to happen if you are happily in a relationship

00:10:44.220 you should never feel sorry for turning somebody away that's just the truth

00:10:47.760 yeah we're cooked

00:10:51.800 so we have a call-in show today and i'm going to look on the website if you guys have any

00:10:59.100 which by the way guys um on the audacity network um next week we're going to talk about mental

00:11:04.980 models doug mpa our moderator has some really good mental models for life maybe when he comes

00:11:10.800 up he can give a little sneak peek into next week but on the on the website we have smart

00:11:16.000 intelligent often non-famous but sometimes famous men giving presentations and we film extra content

00:11:22.660 this weekend um behind the paywall we're gonna have um a special guest teach you how to catch

00:11:28.940 your partner cheating um doug mpa is doing a presentation next week you can ask him questions

00:11:34.980 on the mental models and um i have to figure out next week i have to figure out so i don't have

00:11:43.360 the schedule yet completely so let me i'll keep you guys posted but there is no show tomorrow night

00:11:49.080 because we are um this guest is coming in town all right um is doug mpa on or no

00:11:58.600 Oh, not yet. Okay. Okay. So some examples of men's poker face. Um, I've heard men say that they need

00:12:08.000 to not shame women when they said they did crazy sexual things. So it's like you might feel

00:12:15.920 disgust, but you should have a poker face. That way the women will reveal more. So that way after 1.00

00:12:23.500 the marriage and kids you don't find out it's better to find out before the marriage and kids

00:12:30.240 doug mpa how are you doing i'm good pearl how are you i'm good um tell me what is the craziest

00:12:41.960 thing you've had to hear when um a woman say on a date in a relationship etc that you had to keep

00:12:51.960 on a poker face well so i'm let me keep things general first when you get past 0.98

00:13:00.600 we start dating women in their 30s they are not afraid to tell you how much men suck on the first 1.00

00:13:06.200 date they will go on for 30 45 minutes about how there's piss in the dating pool men are trash and 1.00

00:13:16.040 and they just expect you to sit there and just take it yeah so how does it go do they start 0.97

00:13:23.680 with that or like where in the date do they bring it up it's to the point where i've started a date

00:13:30.540 and then i've ordered a drink or two and then i'll get up and then i'll pay for my drink or

00:13:37.820 i'll pay for my part of the bill and i'll leave and leave her at the table i've done that multiple 0.99

00:13:42.520 times yeah and it's usually women by the time they hit 35 so um you know i'm in my mid-40s

00:13:53.560 so um i know you might say what are you dating women over 35 for

00:13:58.400 hey i don't yeah men like what they like i'm not here to tell you who who you can and can't date

00:14:06.000 go ahead um mine would be uh i've sat and listened to a woman to talk about her toxic ex and she 1.00

00:14:18.080 uh this man stalked this woman she had to move to a different part of the dmv and then uh 1.00

00:14:27.920 she couldn't give out her real phone pretty much her last ex was a psychopath and she had she

00:14:34.240 She couldn't leave the area because of her job, but she had to stay incognito just in case he found her again.

00:14:43.860 I'm like, wait, what?

00:14:45.380 So you should lie.

00:14:47.180 It's time to lie.

00:14:48.020 It's time to not say anything.

00:14:49.840 Actually, she didn't have to lie.

00:14:52.400 She just didn't have to tell you.

00:14:53.660 Why would you say that?

00:14:55.360 Yeah.

00:14:55.660 And I don't know what she literally outlined the entire quote unquote toxic relationship with this guy in about 45 minutes. 1.00

00:15:04.240 and and what i never saw her again after that but i like those crime shows like uh like american 0.99

00:15:10.780 greed and wives with knives and all those so i knew i wasn't gonna see her again but i wanted 1.00

00:15:16.440 all the juice i wanted i got i got wrapped up in the story i was like i kind of want to see how

00:15:22.560 this whole thing plays out so were you entertained at least did you have a good night yeah you know

00:15:28.620 the whole story was crazy and the sad part about it is she had a law degree she had an ivy league

00:15:35.000 undergrad and ivy league law degree and she's messing with this pookie who was literally 1.00

00:15:40.320 terrorizing her what did he do now i want to know do you still have her number can you call her

00:15:45.980 no no this was years ago so what did he do so they he had two kids that he he never really saw

00:15:56.460 okay um he worked a blue collar job and he had a whole lot of time and he's because

00:16:02.460 women that are lawyers are a lot of professional women that they want guys with a lot of time 1.00

00:16:07.940 right so they moved really fast he moved in with her and then just started where are you at who

00:16:16.880 are you with and she's talking about it and one of the best things about you pearls you always

00:16:21.980 ask questions that kind of make the story fall apart because remember guys a lot of women tell 0.98

00:16:27.340 the female friendly version of the story and what is the female friendly version of the story pearl

00:16:33.540 was she cheating we don't know the female friendly version of the story is they're the heroes and 1.00

00:16:40.220 the story at the same i thought you meant like there's a detail she was missing like if he was

00:16:45.180 ask and all i'm like maybe she was cheating i don't know well so but yeah so she's telling me

00:16:52.680 about all this quote-unquote abuse but she stayed with him for like she stayed with him and lived 0.92

00:16:56.720 with him for like two years wow yeah do you think it was over exaggerated or do you think she's

00:17:02.720 telling the truth well uh if she was over exaggerating i was glad because i told you i

00:17:09.020 was totally caught up in the story i wanted to hear the end of it and did she call you back

00:17:14.260 after or did she just want a therapist for the night it was just a therapist for the night

00:17:21.860 men are so funny they're just like i guess this is my role here you guys you guys want a

00:17:28.180 relationship i guess i'm a relationship guy you want a therapist i guess i'm the therapist guy

00:17:33.860 i think that there was a genuine initial attraction but she's so wrapped up in that

00:17:41.540 whole thing and that whole story a lot of people if you want to listen to their story they will

00:17:46.100 tell it to you and i showed eagerness to listen and to hear the whole thing so she outlined the

00:17:50.980 whole thing and now you have great content for the show and the thing about it is modern women 1.00

00:18:00.100 stuff like this all this emotional abuse and stuff like that happens to the women from the bottom 1.00

00:18:08.500 always to the top the poor women the educated women the rich women all of them like toxic men

00:18:15.460 all of them is the zoom in the i don't see it in the youtube chat are we sure it's there

00:18:20.500 yeah i don't think it's there yeah it hasn't been posted in the youtube chat yet

00:18:27.460 uh i want to take this time just to thank everyone that's been in the audacity chat

00:18:33.060 we see a lot of new members omni man rocky lemon dustin our resident chad is in the um

00:18:44.340 the audacity chat so thank you everyone all the new people in the audacity chat

00:18:48.260 pearl i really appreciate it we do

00:18:54.660 thank you guys so much for signing up we really couldn't do it without you you guys really got

00:18:58.740 me through the demonetization and now we're monetized again so and then i'll take the time

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00:19:35.700 yeah i'm trying to think of what other stories men have told me like what is the worst poker face

00:19:42.020 oh so my um i have a brother he's aj's rant and reactions and he went out this is this is a while

00:19:53.460 ago he went out with this girl in the first couple of dates it went really really well but then uh

00:20:00.820 she wanted him to meet up with her friends and she was completely different with her friends

00:20:05.860 no he was the one guy there and she was literally talking down to him in front of all of her her

00:20:14.420 friends literally poking at him jabbing at him what did he do what did he do that was the first

00:20:21.220 time anyone i knew paid for their drink and their food and just left what did she say to him that

00:20:28.260 made him like what was the final straw and how'd she react uh she uh well it was just the constant

00:20:37.780 small jabs of misandry that women expect men to just put up with oh so you know if you keep 0.98

00:20:44.660 talking like that you're not going to get anything tonight or you you honestly think that you can do

00:20:49.060 this you know just she could not have been hot enough for that like yeah because because he left 1.00

00:20:56.740 yeah guys don't be afraid when in situations like that you don't owe women an explanation 0.99

00:21:03.780 you don't owe women closure you just leave 1.00

00:21:09.460 just go yeah it's not like women give men closure

00:21:12.500 there are some people in the the waiting room i think i saw someone do you okay come in

00:21:20.580 i just don't know what

00:21:22.620 oh doug it says he said you can let them in and out oh you're the host host to most give me one

00:21:33.020 second okay i have never let anyone in hold on one second more

00:21:40.120 okay oh ben was in but he he dropped in and out is make sure to hit the zoom call because we want

00:21:52.940 to hear your best first date with poker face what have women said on a first date where or 0.99

00:22:00.500 do you have any topics where if a woman brings it up you just can't stand it and you have to say 0.97

00:22:05.620 something because for me miss angie's one of them if a woman just starts man hating i i can't take 1.00

00:22:13.460 it um there's a couple of other things too have you ever seen any of your friends just put a guy

00:22:22.580 through hell on a first date pearl i've never really been there when women i've oh god i've 0.70

00:22:29.460 seen married women just henpeck the hell out of their husbands oh i saw this one married woman it 1.00

00:22:37.060 was so bad but i haven't seen it on a first date but like this one woman i know she kept like

00:22:44.340 mentioning in front of me that she made more than her husband and i'm just like sitting there and

00:22:49.780 i'm like why do you keep and like she just kept like in front of like almost using me to get back

00:22:56.180 at her husband in a passive aggressive way like calling him messies and i'm like i'm like sitting

00:23:01.300 there and i really like her husband's very nice like i really like him as a guy and i'm like why

00:23:08.580 are you doing this to him and it was just so uncomfortable um god it was so uncomfortable

00:23:15.780 and i was just like and i'm just sitting there because i'm in her house you know so i'm like

00:23:21.300 and she said something to me after and i'm like do you really want my opinion

00:23:24.660 and then she just got quiet like she asked she's like because then she was trying to pretend that

00:23:31.180 he was the one doing something and i looked at her and i'm like do you really want my opinion

00:23:36.640 on this and then yeah then she shut up so i'll never understand the pathology behind women 1.00

00:23:44.640 humiliating their husbands their husband is supposed to be their number one ally and number 0.98

00:23:52.560 one cheerleader and they treat that person look like absolute garbage i don't understand how that 0.97

00:23:57.700 happened or why women think that's okay i think women just don't like men that much and so like 0.98

00:24:03.660 when they women it's like they like the idea of a husband but they don't like the reality of it 1.00

00:24:08.360 and so when they have to like deal with the day-to-day annoyances that the genders have 1.00

00:24:13.440 with each other right because there's things that annoy you guys about us and there's stuff that

00:24:17.860 about you guys that annoys us we just can't like deal with it like our you know um the stress or

00:24:26.300 like like we just like we we just don't do a good job with like discomfort i guess and so then we

00:24:34.140 just start complaining it's also okay for wives to just say horrible things i told you um michelle 1.00

00:24:40.720 obama literally said that she hated barack obama for the first 10 years of their marriage and also

00:24:47.120 there's an article i saw the other day that said after you have your first child you will

00:24:55.020 hate your husband you will hate your husband and of course the comments yeah i understand 0.59

00:25:03.340 yeah yeah yeah why is this okay why that's just like post-nut clarity for women do you see the

00:25:09.820 people in the waiting room or no there's nobody there oh okay guys i know you guys have poker

00:25:16.460 face stories stories of crazy things women have said to you and you had to keep a straight face

00:25:23.160 i know you guys have them the zoom links in the description or in the pinned in the chat

00:25:28.020 come on up guys tell me the stories i know you got them

00:25:32.780 and and then another thing that gets me in trouble is i don't really like small talk

00:25:42.560 you know i don't like talking about pop culture so i'll try to have a serious

00:25:48.360 conversation with some woman and it could go south especially with what i'm interested in

00:25:54.680 you know you you kind of do the feelers with some some slight red toe topics you know i'll bring up

00:26:00.820 like kevin samuels and a lot of women like oh my if they've heard of him oh my god you listen to

00:26:06.000 that guy i'm like yeah the last single mother i dated was a flight attendant you dated a single

00:26:13.360 mother this is you sorry god yeah like four years ago okay she was a flight attendant absolutely

00:26:20.980 beautiful but um i brought up kevin samuels and i said i said i told her i was like i don't know

00:26:26.900 what it would look like me and you and your two your two kids and she's like so i told i listened

00:26:34.220 to kevin samuels and she's like i think that guy is trying to brainwash you away from me because

00:26:39.100 i'm a single mother i'm like see you later he just told me everything that i needed to know

00:26:45.420 we're gonna let dr tran in

00:26:50.380 oh okay pearl reed on the website let's see make sure you mute the um audio did i miss it i don't

00:26:59.020 see the pearl reed on the website dr train are you there let me refresh the chat i am here i

00:27:05.500 cannot believe you guys accepted me i was i know we were just waiting so tell us your poker face

00:27:11.180 story oh my god um what do you mean so the top what is the what is the the worst thing that

00:27:23.900 you've ever had to endure talking to a woman to on a first date to get laid like what's the

00:27:31.180 what's the weirdest or strangest conversation you've had with a woman on a first date or even

00:27:35.740 in a relationship just crazy things that like a woman has said and you've had to keep a straight 0.99

00:27:41.180 face oh gosh okay i don't i didn't realize i'd be so nervous you guys accept me i apologize um

00:27:53.900 you know i i don't have one i'm sorry i clicked on your link because i i i didn't expect you

00:27:57.980 guys to accept me i want to get out of here so i don't read your show i'm sorry that's all right

00:28:01.420 i mean do you have any do you have anything in general that you wanted to ask pearl

00:28:07.740 are you a fan yeah no i mean you know i was uh donating to your show back in the day when

00:28:14.140 you're in london and stuff are you ever going to go back to those uh panel shows it seems like

00:28:17.500 you're sick of them but i do find them more entertaining um i would do more like collins

00:28:22.860 but in studio probably not more than maybe like one-on-one debates but the full panels

00:28:29.180 i can't do them and have a life yeah yeah at the time it was really affecting pearl's health

00:28:38.380 pro we've known each other for almost four years now and we have conversations it's just

00:28:43.100 it's just not good for my health putting up with all the 304s in her apartment so i don't know how 1.00

00:28:48.860 people like myron and these people that do these panel shows i don't know how how they've been doing

00:28:54.300 it for so many years man i don't know how they do it yeah at least um at least on um online i can

00:29:02.140 click mute oh that makes sense i'm sure you know kevin samuels kind of used that to his advantage

00:29:09.980 too but hey i don't have much to contribute i'll let you guys go i'm sorry to you're okay thanks

00:29:14.220 for calling in all right see you guys um i found the pearl read i think my the website was just

00:29:19.660 slow for me women just disrespect their husbands when they feel they had to settle on him and 1.00

00:29:25.420 didn't get the man they wanted it's resentment yeah so we're gonna bring in dustin always a

00:29:34.780 good time with dustin i told him to call it on this one i'm expecting fireworks on this yeah

00:29:40.940 dustin what do you got yeah i still like poker face stories anytime a girl starts off talking

00:29:51.140 about how she sorry how she likes to travel um guys are intimidated by me or i'm not like other

00:30:00.880 girls i'm just like i wish i could hit fast forward through that conversation

00:30:05.580 is there ever anything a girl has said that you couldn't keep the poker face um arneson

00:30:12.780 asks on the website uh like whenever women sorry i'm at work but so it's like whenever women are

00:30:23.980 like 30 and going to cosmetology school i'm like just stop like just domesticate yourself 0.95

00:30:31.360 quit that save some money get your ass in the gym and learn how to cook dude i was like 0.98

00:30:36.640 do not go to cosmetology school at 30. that's funny i i can second that for a massage therapy 0.99

00:30:44.060 school oh yeah bro come on hey man i only want one kind of massage and you don't need

00:30:51.540 much learning about that one are there any things so um what's the worst conversation that you you've

00:31:02.540 had with a woman on a date and you sat through it and it was worth it because you ended up getting

00:31:08.000 laid later okay that's funny okay so uh i picked this i picked a lady up and she was she was a 1.00

00:31:23.460 good looking she was a good looking good looking woman and on the car ride back on the car ride 1.00

00:31:30.420 to dinner she was telling me how two months ago she met some guy online and um she thought that

00:31:41.500 he got her pregnant so she was she was telling me the whole conversation like how she was trying to

00:31:48.940 hit him up and say i think i'm pregnant and all this stuff and this homie ghosted her and i mean 1.00

00:31:56.020 I didn't

00:31:58.420 It was

00:32:00.280 It was a good night

00:32:01.680 But that was a really rough one

00:32:03.260 To even think about sleeping with her after that

00:32:06.300 But yeah

00:32:08.460 That was

00:32:10.140 Maybe not the best decision I ever made

00:32:12.220 Dustin talks about

00:32:16.400 His bad decisions

00:32:18.180 On the show

00:32:19.440 And he owns it

00:32:20.920 That's one of the best parts about Dustin

00:32:22.720 Well thank you

00:32:25.580 it's uh we all i like to be humble but i got you i was whenever a girl says i needed to travel to

00:32:33.320 find myself um you should always i always like to ask them have you been there before

00:32:39.800 because they'll be like no i say well whenever i lose something i always go somewhere i've been

00:32:45.340 because that's usually where it's at so when when do you ever have to go somewhere you've

00:32:52.480 never been to find something you always had you know just really it's really illogical

00:32:57.600 when a woman says that she's going somewhere to find herself she she's wherever she's going 0.99

00:33:04.220 she's getting her back blown out dude it's it's brutally true

00:33:10.620 in fact one approach reactions that she reacted to that woman who went to europe and didn't she

00:33:18.920 catch like 22 bodies in like 10 days oh brutal oh yeah she was in the airport and she was like

00:33:25.780 oh i think i might get one more on the way home that one was nuts i actually do you even think

00:33:33.200 that women know what they want when they travel because like i flew a girl to new york city once 1.00

00:33:38.920 when i was living on the east coast and i bought her up she was supposed to stay with me for a week 0.98

00:33:43.320 and i bought her a plane ticket home four days early because she made me so mad um i took her 1.00

00:33:49.040 to new york city and i had planned like madame tussaud's playing at hollywood and a couple other

00:33:56.060 activities and then afterwards i was like is there anything you want to do over here and she just was

00:34:01.920 like i don't know i don't know and i was like i just flew you here and you didn't think of a single

00:34:08.340 thing you wanted to do while you are in the city with me and um I was so I was kind of like when

00:34:16.440 women say they they like traveling or they want to go places do they even know it's just it just 0.99

00:34:21.800 means drink in that city and let a guy entertain me that's what it means yeah because like women 1.00

00:34:28.760 don't yeah women don't like because when I was a kid we like when we road tripped we really road 1.00

00:34:35.060 tripped and my mom planned the whole thing from like and we it would be like we're going to this

00:34:40.140 national park we're hiking this we're bright water rafting here we're doing this we're doing that

00:34:44.900 they're not doing that they just want to they just want to drink at a bar in the city and flirt with

00:34:51.760 the whatever whatever type they're going for in that city if it's the british men if it's the

00:34:56.920 spanish men if it's the dubai the rich men it's whatever they're trying to get that's what they're

00:35:02.440 these are the uh 80 of solo travelers are the united states are women i know that women say 1.00

00:35:08.520 i don't feel safe but i'll travel to some third world country by myself but i don't feel safe

00:35:17.640 yeah it's crazy man that's a lot of money too too that's a gamble well that's one thing i

00:35:25.640 noticed so modern modern women have traded so like my mother's generation um and then the generation 1.00

00:35:34.040 after that were really obsessed with material things modern women they spend they still buy 0.76

00:35:41.240 material things but they spend so much money on travel man so much money on travel it's insane

00:35:48.520 And the worst part about it is, I talk about student loans a lot on my channel guys, 70% of the student loans are women. And if you saw the new administration is going to start garnishing people's wages starting May 5th for student loans. So a lot of these, they're going to start to take people's tax returns.

00:36:09.980 anyway and so um women will stare down a hundred and fifty thousand dollars worth of student loan 1.00

00:36:16.880 debt they'll just forget all about it and try to live their best lives traveling trying to buy a

00:36:25.420 house we're not not after may 5th they won't yeah i do i remember when i was in college all the

00:36:33.040 girls would be like oh i took out student loans to like go shopping and um like travel here travel 1.00

00:36:39.760 there um i don't know what the obsession is with traveling because if you want an easy life you

00:36:45.480 would be like traveling is probably the last thing you want to do you want to make sure like

00:36:50.640 when you're home you're comfortable and then you're like oh maybe i'll go go abroad

00:36:55.580 yeah but that's curious you think you think passport bros are real if 95 percent of single

00:37:02.080 travelers are women i mean they are they are real it's just there's not many i mean it's not like

00:37:07.380 yeah because you have to think if you really wanted to passport bro as a guy like how are

00:37:13.080 you going to do that you're going to build a connection with a girl to the point you trust

00:37:16.880 her to bring her back or to have a kid there and like what you get two weeks off of work a year

00:37:21.660 that's uh do you know i mean like yeah like how would you like how would you even it's tough

00:37:29.400 enough in like a distance relationship in the same country like out of the country oh

00:37:37.300 good luck and then and then if you bring one home uh she's gonna be around american women 1.00

00:37:45.140 or the worst thing you can do if you bring a woman to the united states is have her go to college 1.00

00:37:51.860 you know that that's true and i um i have a a girlfriend from angola and once she started

00:37:59.060 hanging out with the with the city girls i was like my relationship was over oh she started

00:38:05.540 hanging out with the b-dubs yeah like it was uh you know she's like she's from angola i know she 0.98

00:38:12.420 doesn't just like talk a certain way and then she starts saying like oh this young bull was over 0.57

00:38:16.820 here this john oh my god all right was she from philadelphia because yeah bro that's where i'm

00:38:22.980 from i'm from i'm from i'm from harrisburg and we would go up to philadelphia yeah we say john all

00:38:30.100 the time you'll just john and we we throw the most hood like little these uh just silly parties in

00:38:35.700 the city where like i was just the women are just crazy um uh stories for days dude oh yeah dude 1.00

00:38:46.500 poker face uh if men didn't have them uh women would be even more single than they are now 1.00

00:38:52.740 now yeah that's the thing i don't think a lot of women have any idea how offensive the things that 1.00

00:39:03.220 we say are because men don't react they just like eat it because they want to get laid otherwise you 0.96

00:39:09.060 guys would never get laid yeah i was talking to this when i was working at dairy queen and i was

00:39:15.520 the king of dairy and uh this lady i went i went yeah bro and uh this girl she was married but she 0.99

00:39:26.680 was 17 because it's like ukrainian church type thing they just marry young so i went over to

00:39:32.260 her place and things were going good and then she goes i need to stop and i said why and she was

00:39:38.500 like well you're just you're only five seven and she she kicked me out of her house she invited me

00:39:44.440 to her house and then she kicked me out and i was like not because of that not because of that

00:39:51.320 not because of the husband but because of the five seven yeah she was like i don't know what 1.00

00:39:56.040 i'm doing with you and i was like she's like dude i don't know either man she's like if i'm gonna

00:40:01.000 cheat he's gotta be five yeah wait wait wait so so was this after you hit it a couple times no i

00:40:08.600 i never i never got to i never got to like i got close but i like one is her husband was like a

00:40:15.820 big guy too like he would definitely like murdered me and i was only i was only 19 i was like i got

00:40:21.060 i got a life to live you know so i was a little uh a little worried about that but yeah we were

00:40:27.700 i would go over and watch the bachelor with her maybe that's why i don't watch the bachelor with 1.00

00:40:31.740 married if you want to get late what how many episodes yeah because you're you watch with

00:40:38.400 she's watching she's watching those like six five chads on the bachelor and then she's like

00:40:44.120 she's like what am i i could then she thinks she could get the guys on tv cooked cooked maybe 0.99

00:40:50.260 kicked me out so she could use her vibrator yeah you want to talk about a poker face we'll be 0.83

00:40:55.340 sitting through the bachelor with a woman how did you make it through the whole episode god 0.98

00:41:01.000 She would cook some bomb food, man. 0.67

00:41:03.680 It was like these little Russian cakes.

00:41:07.540 It was so funny.

00:41:09.480 Yeah, that was pretty nuts, dude.

00:41:12.920 I never thought about what I was doing back then.

00:41:18.120 Now I have a kid.

00:41:18.960 I got to be responsible.

00:41:20.560 What's up with that?

00:41:22.300 I can't imagine how you get through.

00:41:26.060 Yeah.

00:41:31.000 uh pearl but yeah someone has a crush on you and someone has a crush on you in the chat

00:41:40.320 antonia she thinks you're perfect and come on shoot your shot antonia no antonia and 0.99

00:41:46.780 i'm five seven man i'm five seven call in yeah antonia call in call in and shoot your shot 0.97

00:41:54.920 i did read some of her comments i i'm assuming it's a girl uh it is she was like uh she was like 0.99

00:42:04.820 my judea king i said goodness pearl quiet antonia i mean don't don't don't pussy out get it get in 1.00

00:42:16.180 here shoot your shot these streets are lonely get up i know yeah you're always gonna wonder what if 0.99

00:42:22.700 if you don't try to shoot your shot are you antonio are you fat just say it 0.99

00:42:29.900 hey that's i was in a latino fraternity back in college and i thought they're 0.98

00:42:37.100 uh women from the homeland they were never uh never too skinny

00:42:42.300 so the only way to work as a passport bro is to work remotely or have some passive income and

00:42:51.320 then stay in another country to raise your kids with her. Yeah. I mean, like, I just don't think

00:42:56.780 it's a feasible option for like most men, you know, um, a good question. Oh, wait, I read that

00:43:04.140 already. Like, cause most guys just don't work from their laptop. I'd like to do how many girls 1.00

00:43:11.240 even respect that. Antonia got offended by the question. She said, bye. Well, I know the answer

00:43:19.300 now adios i am croatian bro well you're one flight away hop on a plane women love being

00:43:28.060 flown out it's your turn he's flown out girls before right yeah but i mean it's uh never again

00:43:36.520 how hot what if she was a nine though would you do it would you fly her out 1.00

00:43:41.740 well it's it's tough because it's like like like you know sex always has the same ending 0.73

00:43:53.740 like uh like if something crazy would happen where that you know it just always ends the

00:44:01.780 same so it's not really worth it you know it's like the juice is never worth the squeeze

00:44:07.060 if you're just doing like a one night stand why would i pay 900 for that i was like i'd rather 0.63

00:44:14.300 just i'd even shag a fat chick before i go spend 900 to get laid one time yeah yeah i can say he 1.00

00:44:22.400 can come here well now you're cooked he's not coming he's got a kid yeah i mean unless it's 0.98

00:44:31.860 like a three-day thing but i'm not croatia where is that even oh he's thinking about it well okay

00:44:36.860 call in antonia hey it's just it's a real quick thought

00:44:40.540 leading is anyone else in the chat with the um stories doug mp no people gotta call in like

00:44:52.620 i thought this would be on fire i thought that people especially with as many people that were

00:44:58.320 calling in yesterday we actually left some extra room for people to call in on the show because i

00:45:04.720 this would be a hot topic i mean what guy who's gone on a decent amount of dates hasn't sat there

00:45:11.600 and just watched some woman just run her mouth for 45 minutes and what do you what sorry god 0.77

00:45:18.720 overpriced food overpriced drinks you know at that freaking cheese shake factory you know 0.85

00:45:26.400 sitting there listening to some girl drone over come on guys i know you guys have been through it

00:45:33.360 but I know I have too many times.

00:45:36.780 What do you guys do?

00:45:41.260 Like when,

00:45:42.320 so when you have your poker face on,

00:45:45.520 do you ever try to get her to stop talking about it?

00:45:48.260 Or do you just let her go?

00:45:50.680 Like,

00:45:50.840 do you ever,

00:45:51.600 like,

00:45:51.780 is she ever,

00:45:52.420 maybe if she would just get off of this topic,

00:45:55.520 you're like,

00:45:55.960 okay,

00:45:56.120 I could salvage something.

00:45:57.400 Or as soon as she starts going and you have to put on a poker face,

00:46:00.480 are you done?

00:46:01.260 Like seriously?

00:46:03.360 I always give five minutes to see where she's going with it because there are some initial ones you're like, OK, OK, where is she going with this?

00:46:11.760 But, you know, you know how a book has to catch your your your attention in the first, like, 15, 20 pages or like a movie has to catch your attention in the first, like, 10 to 15 minutes.

00:46:21.920 That's how it is with women talking. If she's in catchment attention in the first five minutes, I'm just like, no, I can't. 1.00

00:46:31.220 What do you think about women that talk about their animals? 1.00

00:46:35.280 I mean, modern women, come on now. 1.00

00:46:38.500 You have to let women talk about their dogs a little bit. 1.00

00:46:42.640 There's an iPhone in here.

00:46:45.240 Let me see who this person is.

00:46:48.500 I'm admitting that.

00:46:51.080 Your iPhone?

00:46:54.080 Who am I speaking to?

00:47:00.260 hello

00:47:01.780 i guess yeah i hope i hope this this i want to hear this guy's story

00:47:08.520 hopefully you think is he going to connect we'll see

00:47:11.440 iphone are you there still connecting are there any green flag topics on a first date where you're

00:47:18.160 like yes um yeah i mean if they talk about uh if they're

00:47:26.360 if they're a fan of certain sports but they haven't if they're a fan of certain sports but

00:47:34.120 didn't play sports a lot but they're just like a fan that's good if they could talk about a

00:47:40.340 that they're a fan of of guy if they could talk about that they're a fan of things that guys are

00:47:47.860 a fan of

00:47:49.020 that's a green flag

00:47:51.040 if they talk about

00:47:55.800 where they want to go but they haven't been a lot of

00:47:57.900 places that's a green flag

00:47:59.980 the girl I've been seeing always tells me

00:48:05.800 she would tell me how she cooks so much

00:48:07.740 but she was telling me about

00:48:09.340 her dog this morning

00:48:10.920 I just don't know

00:48:15.080 why would a single woman 1.00

00:48:17.000 in her 30s go buy a dog from like go rescue a dog you know like i'm gonna go i have problems i'm

00:48:24.380 gonna go get a dog that has problems she's lonely i just don't understand you know yeah remember

00:48:29.060 women have this nurturing spirit and they'll fill it with a dog women used to have kids with 1.00

00:48:34.720 back one day but they'll fill it with a dog and the worst part about it is kevin samuel said this

00:48:40.940 if you're a single woman and you have a dog you might as well have a kid a dog is a family pet

00:48:46.240 and they're super expensive is it a red or a green flag if a woman fosters kids 1.00

00:48:55.080 like out of the kindness of her heart red flag why wouldn't that be a really kind thing to do

00:49:01.520 i mean no because she's gonna expect you if you get serious with her to take care of a kid that's 1.00

00:49:08.100 not even yours yeah okay fair but what don't they like leave after a while like the foster kids no

00:49:14.120 if you adopt a child or foster a child oh okay they're your responsibility oh i thought foster

00:49:22.020 was like were there i thought foster was like they're there like i thought it was like between

00:49:27.280 they have the adoption paperwork like they get the baby for like a month until the real family

00:49:32.100 gets it i thought that was i've seen foster kids with a family for years and years and years most

00:49:37.840 foster kids they'll they'll find a family and they'll stay and here's the thing if a woman 1.00

00:49:42.920 I think

00:49:43.880 I mean

00:49:46.040 fostering is noble but still

00:49:48.940 if a woman has a child 0.91

00:49:50.880 in her 30s or

00:49:51.780 any way that a woman 0.99

00:49:54.740 has a child by herself

00:49:57.200 in her 30s and 40s

00:49:59.340 she has resigned to being alone

00:50:00.940 for the rest of her life

00:50:01.920 that's true

00:50:04.300 yeah iPhone are you there?

00:50:08.240 okay I guess not

00:50:09.440 well guys

00:50:10.880 I went on a date with a chick that 1.00

00:50:12.600 fostered kids but she was in portland so she wasn't fostering like normal kids you know

00:50:18.400 she was fostering kids that had plenty of issues and uh she loved telling me about how she thinks

00:50:25.480 she's helping them and i was like dude she's a one dinner kind of woman 1.00

00:50:29.840 guys send um click the link in the description and tell me your poker face stories

00:50:37.640 so this is stories for the people that just tuned in these are stories where women have said crazy 1.00

00:50:43.700 stuff and you've had to keep a poker face okay i'm gonna get rid of iphone here since

00:50:50.060 they're not talking so i guess uh i'll give people a preview of my um oh yeah do that my

00:50:59.920 thought process series here so my mental models so um

00:51:07.760 if you guys don't know you know i'm doug mpa i have the mpa comes from i have a bachelor's

00:51:13.760 and a master's screen policy i have my own channel and i've been supporting pearl since

00:51:18.880 the very beginning i became a mod on her channel right around which she had about i think about

00:51:24.560 15 000 subs and we've talked a lot uh outside of youtube the last couple of years and uh you know

00:51:33.280 i was able to share a couple of my thought processes and mental models with her and she

00:51:37.760 convinced me to share some so um one of them is and i said this on multiple sheets before i'll

00:51:46.240 say it here guys every so often you got to put a t-chart on a piece of paper and you got to put

00:51:54.560 my problem and not my problem. Put my problem on one side and not my problem on the other side

00:52:00.580 and take all the issues in your life and put what is your problem and what's not your problem

00:52:07.560 because people, especially modern women, want to make their problems your problem, guys. 0.79

00:52:14.240 Don't deal with problems that are not your problem. And here's the thing, a lot of guys,

00:52:19.040 we are benevolent and we're givers men accumulate resources and money for the sake of others

00:52:27.160 you know wives children community family you know and men that are givers women try to take 1.00

00:52:37.040 advantage of us either overtly or uh or separately by making their problems your problems single

00:52:46.000 mothers you know the they the leads off the system they want you to take care of their children they 1.00

00:52:52.660 try to say a real man will take on another man's kids they're trying to make their problems your 0.78

00:52:57.980 problem guys always be aware of what's your problem and what is not your problem

00:53:04.720 so i'm gonna go over more of these next weeks so make sure you tune in okay i'm gonna bring in

00:53:11.920 and they're really good guys they're they're really helpful that's why i convinced doug mpa

00:53:16.880 to do a show on them because i'd never heard anyone have like mental models like this and

00:53:22.100 it was just really helpful so um who are you bringing in i'm gonna bring in ron

00:53:27.160 ron are you there yeah you know i'm sorry i was having a little difficulty with my phone

00:53:36.600 you're okay um so the question is what is the craziest thing you've heard a woman say where 1.00

00:53:43.640 you had to keep a poker face it's always everybody else's fault

00:53:48.300 they don't take any accountability so is this is this a girlfriend first date like what's the

00:53:55.560 what's the scenario um well honestly when they start talking about their uh ex exes and how bad

00:54:03.160 they are it's like to me it's a no-brainer to get out of there real fast what are the common things

00:54:10.220 that you hear and is this usually first date second day like when do they bring it up usually

00:54:15.100 the first they're trying to like make a narrative on their own to make themselves look like they're

00:54:19.540 in the right and what are the common yeah sorry go ahead oh that well they've been abused they're

00:54:25.760 uh he doesn't pay attention to me he doesn't do anything for the kids he's uh you know out of

00:54:31.780 or just everything that you can make the guy look like he's the worst person ever instead of like

00:54:37.340 trying to fix what they had they go and think he's going to jump out of this situation and go

00:54:42.640 find somebody else in the world at a different time in their life where everything is like a lot

00:54:47.280 less you know from back when they started dating when they dated in the beginning they're all over

00:54:54.160 each other it's like a smoking mirror rack then they all of a sudden get amnesia that you're part

00:55:00.440 the family. Classic. No, right? I mean, pretty much. And then when you're sitting there,

00:55:07.580 they get mad at you for everything. You get told you're not worth anything. And then at

00:55:11.780 the end of the day, you check out. So my advice to anybody is if you're dating somebody,

00:55:18.120 look at the parents. If they're toxic, the father's teaching the son how to treat women

00:55:22.920 and the mother's trying to teach the daughter how to treat men. If the mother's always badgering 1.00

00:55:27.500 the father or vice versa get out of there because if they're not on the same page and they embarrass

00:55:34.300 each other in front of other people that's what you're dating and then when your girl or guy is

00:55:39.420 in a bad situation they're going to stick up for their kid and they're going to team up on you

00:55:44.700 so i would assume with you ron that if you're if you're dating a woman and she finds out that she

00:55:50.540 didn't have a dad or she came from a single mother home that's an automatic red flag for you 1.00

00:55:54.460 listen i know there's mothers out there that raise their kids and have no help

00:55:59.640 all power to them but nowadays all i see is a lot of fathers that want to be a part of their

00:56:05.280 kids lives but have to be told that you should fight for them why do you have to fight to be

00:56:10.280 a father they don't have to fight to be a mother

00:56:11.640 shouldn't it just be like their right to be a father and then honestly it's just the court

00:56:18.800 system's all like in the in the backwards uh from 1950s they're gonna really like update this thing

00:56:23.760 they want equal rights but they want they want to you know take the money

00:56:27.680 out of the father's paycheck but nothing from their side i i've always hated that term why

00:56:33.680 don't you fight for your kids more the the woman who's creating the fight is telling the father to 1.00

00:56:41.080 fight for his children so she's creating the fight right and telling you to fight harder

00:56:47.140 and a lot of it's insane to me they get people to trip in their ears like it's going to be some

00:56:51.260 fantastic world when they get out of here and then when they get out there

00:56:54.540 they're like wow the amount of people that are out there that are divorced

00:56:57.660 themselves or are able to be like you know dating

00:57:00.400 material a very small portion of them are nice

00:57:03.440 people the bunch of them are all messed up

00:57:06.380 yep

00:57:10.440 yep no lies and then it's like everything's on like recycle

00:57:14.160 they start recycling the guys and the girls they just start dating everybody

00:57:16.980 next thing you know you oh you finish with her you finish with him they just

00:57:20.180 start recycling the guys and girls yeah um someone says come on pearl you have to put the live link

00:57:26.260 it's in the chat guys it's in the it's pinned and now they all look like muppets

00:57:30.920 oh with the like surgery yeah yeah they put their lips so much with the injection they touch their

00:57:36.760 nose they got their butts a lot of stuff they do there you could like put a beer can on it and

00:57:40.380 then their stomach's touching their back from ozempic i know we're so good once once they have

00:57:46.140 a generic ozempic on the market it's done i know it's done and the poor people that have diabetes

00:57:51.240 can't get it no honestly i think it'll be great i'd love to see less fat women oh yeah that would 1.00

00:57:57.780 be good i'm on the page with you then yeah i mean like sure it might i mean it might give them side

00:58:03.500 effects but so does being obese so i might as well have something nice to look at well the side effect

00:58:09.300 is you know you might have a guy look at you still yeah that's what i mean i'm like i don't i don't

00:58:13.840 if i think it's a bad thing no i know like well i'm always wondering oh i'm sorry go ahead no

00:58:20.800 you don't go go ahead i'm always wondering because nothing's free right so you have people losing

00:58:29.040 weight without doing work but there's going to be some kind of cost nothing is free there's no

00:58:36.720 miracle drug so the odds are there's going to be some kind of long-term damage right or

00:58:44.240 you have a bunch of undisciplined people skinny i i don't or they overdo it they don't know where

00:58:51.840 to stop the check is gonna come due we just don't know how it's gonna come due no it is but it's

00:58:57.840 gonna come due like anyways so i might as well get to see them thin until the side effects what

00:59:03.440 you're a pisser with that but you get the people from being fat to like being a skeleton like

00:59:08.140 almost jeff dunham's a puppet i mean i'd rather like i'm just thinking about me here not really 0.98

00:59:14.640 them so it's like if they're already big and like like the other day i was on an airplane and this

00:59:22.740 woman was spilling over i kind of wish she took some ozempic you know oh yeah and they charge you 1.00

00:59:28.640 more for your two pounds over on the luggage yeah i know and i'm like this woman's 50 pounds over 1.00

00:59:34.480 on the scale but they don't they don't put that in so i'm like now i'm sure they'll have side

00:59:42.440 effects later i personally wouldn't take it but you know what it is some people that aren't

00:59:47.700 disciplined enough to do the diets and follow them they can use that it'll help them get there

00:59:52.560 but they're taking this stuff the wrong way it's prescribed if the doctor's trying to take this

00:59:57.560 amount so many people like oh i'll take a little more i go faster that's what they think in their

01:00:01.160 head so they're overdosing themselves and that's where i think the problems are coming from

01:00:06.440 can you overdose on olympic yeah because they're supposed to do micro dosing and the doctors are

01:00:11.240 only telling them to do it once a week so they should really be splitting up this dosage in

01:00:15.080 half so if they tell you to take 20 millimeters you should be taking 10 in the beginning week

01:00:20.280 and 10 at the end of the week this way it's not a spike in your system it just keeps you plateaued

01:00:24.520 okay oh i know that you you taught proline something well you know what it doesn't make

01:00:32.940 sense like if the guys go on testosterone replacement and they go see the doctor every

01:00:36.740 two weeks after they get their blood work done they're doing it legitimately they get a testosterone

01:00:40.720 shot at the doctor's office they spike up and the testosterone the doctors are giving them

01:00:44.900 last 14 days in your system so now by the time you get back in two weeks you're crashing so

01:00:50.420 instead of saying split in half take it half on one week half on the next week and keep you level

01:00:55.600 that you're up and down you're up and down okay i didn't know that doesn't make a little sense

01:01:02.100 yeah makes sense but well we're gonna we have a couple of other callers so

01:01:09.120 all right thanks for calling ron i told you guys it was great great great show

01:01:14.840 Thanks for calling in.

01:01:16.660 Call in any time.

01:01:17.700 Thank you.

01:01:20.460 Guys, I'm putting my big water bottle in the shot.

01:01:23.280 I know it's ugly.

01:01:24.180 I'm doing it.

01:01:25.120 You can bounce me out.

01:01:26.040 Okay.

01:01:27.260 Let me do that.

01:01:37.000 Okay, I'm going to let in 10 sworn.

01:01:44.840 I'm doing it.

01:01:46.180 You can bounce me off.

01:01:47.100 Okay.

01:01:47.960 Tense Warren, are you there?

01:01:49.480 Nope.

01:01:51.200 Can you hear me?

01:01:52.480 Yeah.

01:01:52.860 I can hear you.

01:01:53.360 Make sure to mute the...

01:01:55.160 I got you.

01:01:59.220 Yeah, so what was the question?

01:02:02.280 What is something crazy a girl has said on a date or when you were in a relationship 0.63

01:02:07.400 that was absolutely insane but you had to keep a poker face for?

01:02:12.200 so i don't really go on much dates like that because with me i think like relationships are

01:02:19.260 like a scam for my age group because i'm 23 but you know when i talk to women the thing that kind 0.97

01:02:25.420 of like makes me look at them funny is like when a woman says like you know when we have a 0.98

01:02:32.620 conversation about men and then she's pretty much like talking down on like decent quality men

01:02:39.160 And then, you know, her main excuse to why she dates, like, these terrible men is like, oh, I don't date nice or decent men because they usually put on a mask.

01:02:52.120 And I'm like, in my head, I'm like, I mean, that's a good point because sometimes that does happen.

01:02:57.900 but i look at them funny because it's like you rather pick this drug dealer this gang member

01:03:02.900 this like you know this guy who's definitely not going to give you commitment over the guy that

01:03:08.760 could possibly give you commitment so you know my main issue with women is like when they talk 1.00

01:03:14.980 about men you know the main thing that makes me like look at them funny is just like the way they

01:03:19.200 talk about you know they try to like let's say how could i phrase this they pretty much uplift

01:03:24.980 the terrible men and they kind of like downplayed a decent quality man and i i don't understand why

01:03:30.820 it's like that so in my age group i'm 23 so it's pretty common here especially like with black 1.00

01:03:36.740 women because i'm a black man yeah i kind of figured you were you're a black pro i am too

01:03:42.900 and you yo man like you yeah i feel bad for you y'all for you ym's man you guys got yeah it's 0.92

01:03:50.900 only gotten worse i i thought that my generation was bad but you guys got it bad bro yeah man and

01:03:56.980 like the last girl i was messing with right i try to like you know i try to like do something with

01:04:02.420 her but she wanted this one guy and then she didn't want like me because she said i wasn't 1.00

01:04:09.380 toxic enough or like good enough and i'm and i'm like and this girl too she wasn't like like if you 0.96

01:04:14.900 were to like talk to her she doesn't come off as like the type of black woman to like be in that 0.92

01:04:18.740 involved in that but like it's like even the normal type of black women like they're into 0.99

01:04:22.820 that stuff too and it's like you know i try not to put all black women in a group but i do that's 0.98

01:04:28.580 the that's the main thing i kind of see dog i honestly don't blame you because i've been to

01:04:34.180 like that point where i might have to because that's the main thing i've seen in this culture

01:04:39.300 like we kind of infant i don't know how to say the word but infantilized yeah we kind of uplift

01:04:46.500 the terrible men and then when it you know the main trend when you hit 30 years old

01:04:53.460 it's time to go to the decent man like when you get the decent man like you don't even treat them

01:04:58.180 the way you they want to be treated like they have to wait for sex while this guy who's like 0.98

01:05:04.340 like like i was talking about a drug dealer no goals gets the sex off the rip like well so 0.94

01:05:09.860 So I'm gonna give you a little bit of advice. 0.69

01:05:14.240 Is that okay, bro?

01:05:15.740 Yeah, you can give me some advice, man.

01:05:18.740 So first off, it's not you, bro.

01:05:21.320 It's not like when, because myself and my brother, you know, if you're worth something 0.99

01:05:31.980 as a black man, you're going to catch hell from our women. 1.00

01:05:35.540 If you're ambitious, if you're educated, if you're trying to do something with your life, 0.99

01:05:39.720 are going to catch hell if you treat women right you just got to hold on until you're until you're 0.93

01:05:44.920 35 man so you you got to keep your head down you got to grind get a highly valued education

01:05:51.080 highly valued skill highly valued trade because when you hit 35 all of a sudden and none of them

01:05:57.320 care care about that stuff yeah and i agree because i'm out to graduate in like a month from now from

01:06:02.920 college and i'm graduating with like a like computer science degree there you go man they

01:06:07.800 my own business too so i'm pretty much in a good direction so i'm just trying to really

01:06:12.680 see what state are you in i'm in new york city that's like yo move yeah move out of new york

01:06:19.240 city i recommend seattle yeah um uh texas yo bro once you get your degree move away from new york

01:06:27.960 city they don't deserve you there they don't it's like the worst place like even like you know even

01:06:35.000 when trump was in office like you know during the whole november 5th thing like everyone else voted

01:06:40.680 for him but only in new york it was is where people were you know having riots and like all

01:06:47.000 these so i'm like you know the mindset here is kind of like i don't kind of feel with the wavelength

01:06:51.640 so yeah i'm gonna say it again it's not you because you know i went through a time in my

01:06:58.920 mid-20s where people questioned my blackness so much that I went through a short period where

01:07:06.760 where I questioned my own blackness and I can't change who I am you know like I've always liked

01:07:13.800 Star Trek and intellectual things and you know and you know I used to skate when I was younger

01:07:19.560 you know I grew up in Seattle in the 90s so you know you know I listened to Nirvana and Soundgarden

01:07:24.200 and all you know i'm into grunge rock and stuff don't compromise who you are man and there i have 0.92

01:07:30.760 80 percent rule 80 of black women aren't worth the dating but you can find a black woman if you want 1.00

01:07:36.840 to be with a black woman you can find them you're going to find them at like anime conventions 0.99

01:07:42.200 you know pick up tennis or something like that where the ratchet ones don't don't congregate 0.98

01:07:49.400 because do you want to have a family one day of course do you want them to to be black 1.00

01:07:57.240 like like well i mean if you have a children with a white woman they're going to be black 0.97

01:08:02.600 but you know like do you want them to be like yeah full black so your two major responsibilities 0.79

01:08:10.600 right now don't get married to have any kids until you've reached at least the 35 and then 0.95

01:08:17.560 find a black woman who has has had your similar experience of just not fitting in with black

01:08:23.080 culture my father's a uh uh he he's very successful and he told my brother and i and my sister

01:08:30.680 the if you're if you want to be something in the black community if you want to be ambitious if you

01:08:35.080 want to uh leave this whole black nation thing behind man oh yeah what up brother uh what up 1.00

01:08:41.480 sister no leave that behind man there is no cohesiveness amongst black people so this whole 1.00

01:08:48.280 black nation thing it's it doesn't exist yeah man that's some solid advice so yeah i wish it wasn't 1.00

01:08:54.840 that way but yeah that's my main poker face just when i when i talk to women you know so when they 1.00

01:08:59.960 start bringing up like the thought like the hood stuff and saying you're not like you know even

01:09:04.840 the the decent like looking quality that you wouldn't even expect to be doing that they're

01:09:09.320 into that too so it's like you know i kind of like you know kind of turns me off when i talk to women 1.00

01:09:14.360 and like you know and i know how to kind of find a way to kind of you know identify these type of

01:09:19.720 women like when they talk about oh men are always having kids and i'm like i don't even know i don't

01:09:24.520 even know men that have kids myself so how do you know 54 of black men have no children yeah 54 0.73

01:09:30.200 how do you know so many men that have kids so that kind of like you know i kind of use stuff

01:09:34.920 like that to kind of see okay yeah she's she's probably messing with those type of men i just 1.00

01:09:39.880 just by myself and just keep it a buck but yeah that's some sort of advice man yeah and and here's 0.79

01:09:46.360 the thing yeah you're probably you're going to be a little bitter towards you know the black community 0.97

01:09:52.200 black women because they just keep they keep rejecting you and like hurting you over and over 1.00

01:09:57.560 and over again but but you can and those it's valid but all you have to do is find your one man 0.99

01:10:05.880 even if you have you know there are a lot of women out there you can hate men all you want but all

01:10:10.280 you have to do is find your one and that's the same thing with women there are modern women out 1.00

01:10:15.320 there they're single mothers they you know they they do all this crazy stuff but all you have to 1.00

01:10:19.560 do is find you would despite your views on women all you have to do is find your one so make sure 0.99

01:10:25.160 just to to leave if you want to have a family just make sure to leave room in your heart to find that

01:10:30.040 one yeah that's some sort of advice man yeah man i thank you for that but yeah let me let you get

01:10:35.640 on to the next caller i'll probably call in tomorrow but yeah uh y'all have a nice day

01:10:40.120 yeah thanks for calling calling anytime do you want to let glennon

01:10:45.640 how many people are in the waiting room there's two cool including glenn glenn what's going on man

01:10:55.160 Glenn. I think he's hold on. Let me remind him. You are on screen. Glenn. What is the craziest thing a woman said to you that you had to keep a poker face?

01:11:24.180 this could be a first date relationship whatever the craziest thing

01:11:29.280 oh man okay so um let me this is this requires a story okay and um craziest thing was that 0.99

01:11:41.020 i had my dick imprints on the counter 0.99

01:11:44.500 Wait 1.00

01:11:47.360 That she found 1.00

01:11:51.020 The outline of my dick 1.00

01:11:53.680 On the counter and she wanted to know 1.00

01:11:55.660 Who the fuck I was fucking 1.00

01:11:57.220 Was there 1.00

01:12:03.100 Was there someone you were

01:12:04.940 It's like

01:12:09.100 For what it is

01:12:10.080 I don't know what's worse

01:12:12.740 the questions i want to ask glenn or the questions he'd give or the answers he'd give us

01:12:19.260 go ahead go ahead just go ahead i'm ready i i've been through this i am a pro at answering these 0.99

01:12:28.240 questions so how does one put an imprint of her dick on a counter like how does how does 1.00

01:12:34.200 and it wasn't just on the counter it was on the glass door you know the the porch just like 1.00

01:12:40.160 so they thought that i was like fucking all these bitches when they went to the store 1.00

01:12:49.860 and were you well no i was working and stuff okay um but they forget like i was fucking 0.99

01:13:02.080 them on the counter and them all over the place but here's a funny thing it was actually it wasn't 0.95

01:13:12.700 even a dick imprint okay like it was not even as much like i look at it i'm like that that doesn't 0.62

01:13:17.760 do me justice okay because like wait come on now like you know you know what you're working with 0.75

01:13:27.060 and you know what you're not working with and you're just like that is not me like that's not 0.98

01:13:31.480 even so what was it it was just a smudge it was her dildo 0.82

01:13:36.760 and pearl you know who i'm talking about so i'm just gonna leave it everybody's name 0.92

01:13:43.580 i already know i know what you're talking about wow so it was a wow yeah yeah and i'm sitting

01:13:51.700 here like this like she came to me with that i'm like hmm hmm really okay let's investigate this

01:14:00.560 I'm not even trying to make fun of you yet.

01:14:04.480 I'm going to investigate this with you.

01:14:07.300 So when you guys figured it out, how did she react?

01:14:11.620 Well, she went in her room, closed the door, and then cried. 1.00

01:14:18.420 Classic.

01:14:19.740 And I stayed in the living room like this.

01:14:27.160 Try not to laugh out loud.

01:14:28.600 That was it.

01:14:31.520 but imagine having to be asked about these smudges on the window

01:14:36.640 and on the counter as if like like you did something like what the hell like

01:14:42.800 i know there's some people doing some freaky things like that but like i don't recall just

01:14:47.200 putting the meat on the on the counter i guess where we eat it's the breakfast bar

01:14:54.240 is there anything you got any other stories i feel like this can't be the only one

01:15:03.280 oh i mean there's the one time when like they tore up my office because they thought that i

01:15:09.720 had someone hiding underneath the desk

01:15:11.520 that was they thought that you had someone hiding underneath the desk

01:15:19.180 can you elaborate more on that like how did this

01:15:27.120 yeah so um i was uh so there's a website called um we audition and it's a place where actors go

01:15:35.560 and when they have an audition coming up they need to rehearse their lines they get with other

01:15:39.140 actors to rehearse lines with each other right so i'm in there rehearsing the line for the movie

01:15:44.140 token choked them when i ended up landing and um she heard she heard this woman talking right and 1.00

01:15:52.780 she started freaking out and she had my brother who was at the house at the time like guard the 0.95

01:15:58.960 outside window is like don't let that bitch come out the window and my brother's like what the 1.00

01:16:05.960 fuck so he's outside guarding the window for her he's texting me he's like yo bro i'm outside your 1.00

01:16:11.660 window i don't know why but i'm outside your window and um i go take my dog for a walk this 0.99

01:16:18.400 is when i had my english um and uh so i come back and then i walk in there and the whole

01:16:25.280 office is tore up like everything's a mess everything's moved and everything i'm like

01:16:30.120 what are you what are you looking for and she's like i'm looking for this stand i found it i'm

01:16:37.380 like it's a it's a tripod i'm like but that's not your tripod that's my tripod wait wait what do you

01:16:42.540 need my tripod and she's like well i just wanted to make sure it wasn't mine and it was yours i'm

01:16:50.500 like well it actually says my my name on it but you know um and then she confessed that she thought

01:17:00.580 there was this like person

01:17:02.560 in the room because she heard

01:17:04.480 a woman talking and I'm like

01:17:06.400 hmm

01:17:06.780 so

01:17:09.460 he tore up the office

01:17:11.580 like moving

01:17:14.120 furniture

01:17:16.140 around to find this

01:17:18.420 and

01:17:19.680 you didn't find what you're looking for

01:17:22.040 I made a whole skit about it

01:17:24.860 I made a skit like me portraying her

01:17:26.680 and me playing me

01:17:28.000 it's on YouTube it's really funny

01:17:29.960 that's insane was she always like this like thinking you're cheating all the time 1.00

01:17:37.040 um yeah because i've come to find out that that's what she was doing so what most people do is they

01:17:43.220 they project yeah they project yeah that's 100 true they'll be cheating like you're cheating on

01:17:48.760 me yeah they're cheating on you yeah people tend to project what they're doing especially when it's

01:17:55.280 guilty when they're guilty of it you know but you know it's like it's funny because now i could sit

01:18:02.860 back and laugh about it because i think it's hilarious and what if she what if she had a guy 1.00

01:18:07.760 like hidden behind a door or something well then you know cool like so i mean maybe that's why she 0.98

01:18:16.680 was looking for one that like she had someone hidden in the house at the like at a time

01:18:20.640 i mean good luck i mean like i had security cameras everywhere so i always saw what was

01:18:28.460 going in and out still do that now like it's just a thing i was gonna say nate brassfield is next

01:18:36.680 and then there's a person that's under owner and then julian and then fight sports talk okay go

01:18:42.140 ahead glenn yeah like no i just like i have security cameras everywhere even right now like

01:18:48.000 i'm at i'm at thor's house and i have security cameras all over the place well thanks for 0.96

01:18:53.280 calling in glenn a pleasure as always we got to get to the next caller okay yeah yes um no dick 0.92

01:18:58.400 imprints on counters okay remember that's where you guys eat um glenn's saying be civilized for 0.98

01:19:06.000 christ's sake yeah there'll be a bunch of neanderthals all right buddy all right guys take it easy

01:19:12.640 please all right okay

01:19:20.320 nate are you there be civilized for christ's sake yeah

01:19:26.160 you have the youtube on in the background so turn that off

01:19:30.560 got it got it what's up guys hey so tell us your poker face story

01:19:37.440 yeah okay i've been watching for a while i got man i got all sorts of thoughts um

01:19:47.520 poker face you will so for me the thing is about me and my personality

01:19:53.620 i actually have a damn good poker face but i don't always like with women and dates i 0.94

01:20:02.200 really don't feel the need to use it like i'm just i talk very straight to them especially 0.62

01:20:07.460 if they say something ridiculous that they're used to just sliding by so i don't do that that

01:20:16.800 much i don't just let it slide i'm like okay what was that like what do you mean why did you say

01:20:22.340 that but i have a couple i have a couple i remember when i was really i was young i was in my 20s

01:20:30.740 and it was kind of it was more of like a group thing but it was still you know how it is when

01:20:39.000 you're younger like you're still kind of trying to talk to a girl she was cool she was really

01:20:46.340 pretty i was like you know i'm i'm interested in her so we're hanging out we're having a couple

01:20:53.060 of drinks and she um she started going into this like story about uh these bruises and like

01:21:04.200 how it happened from the last guy that she had sex with so she had bruises on her arms oh my 1.00

01:21:13.880 yeah she told you that on a first date well so yeah basically i mean it was more of a group thing

01:21:22.380 like there was i think there was four of us total i think it was like two guys two girls

01:21:27.100 the vibe was kind of you know like a double date thing she's pretty i'm like trying to figure it 0.95

01:21:35.340 out see i'm kind of trying to pursue her you know and she said that and i was just like

01:21:42.860 i am so not i'm done i am not interested you know i just couldn't believe the audacity did

01:21:56.920 you say it to her or no did you just on the date no at that point um i just like felt i was younger

01:22:05.720 like i said i was in my early 20s i just had that like internal shock like you just think like what

01:22:13.180 is their point what are where what is their angle um you can't you know you can't tell you're like

01:22:21.560 is this what are you trying to gain here you trying to show some sort of confidence or dominance or

01:22:32.160 what are you doing or you just so are you person are you just really nervous and you don't know

01:22:37.600 what to say or do but yeah i remember that one vividly because my my heart kind of dropped into

01:22:44.360 my stomach and i was just like i am i'm i'm good what else on that topic no like um where you said

01:22:54.840 you had a couple stories so what else yeah yeah on that topic so i had i have a more light-hearted

01:23:01.180 version too that was more recent in the last few years where i sort of like i met this woman

01:23:10.840 we were in the same line of work she seemed really um she seemed really kind she seemed

01:23:18.580 really virtuous she said that like god was her number one priority in her life i'm like great

01:23:25.840 you know this is this is really good um and we were friends for a while but she was like dating

01:23:33.860 someone so I kind of left it alone for the most part but I was always attracted to her

01:23:38.400 and then over some time she she ended up moving she broke up with her boyfriend her and I started

01:23:48.680 talking more messaging more then we were started like we started a message a lot like almost every

01:23:56.720 single day and i'm like wow okay so i think this is actually going somewhere and then i had family

01:24:04.780 that lived out in the in the same state that i wanted to visit it's the same state that she had

01:24:12.600 gotten a job at and moved to so i'm like perfect i'm gonna go out there visit fam visit her

01:24:19.240 and like pretty much as soon as i started to make plans to go out there after we're talking

01:24:28.800 every day not like messaging voice memos like all basically almost like we're dating

01:24:34.840 um she kind of like pulled back and i was like okay that's whatever you know whatever women 1.00

01:24:44.220 not a big deal and then when i got there she kind of perked back up and she was like hey you know

01:24:53.120 like you're getting an airbnb maybe like i'll spend the night where you're at i'm like okay

01:24:57.400 cool perfect so we're back on the same page um and then i go out there and she just was like

01:25:06.560 just kind of awkward about it like standoffish like not not super chill about everything

01:25:16.280 everything seems to be calculated she's not sure you know how long she's gonna stay or like

01:25:23.380 all this stupid stuff and then and so finally like i'm just like all right i'm gonna press 0.85

01:25:28.060 through it whatever i'm not gonna get bothered next day i'm like we plan to go to the beach 0.98

01:25:32.700 let's go to the beach um we go she's like intentionally creating distance i'm like all

01:25:43.060 right this is weird whatever i'm not gonna then we get we get in my car we're leaving

01:25:48.920 and she's telling me these stories about how she's been going out how she's been going out to the

01:25:55.120 club how she's like laughing about like having guys buy her drinks and giving her number out 0.96

01:26:03.780 and I just was like what what is are you are you so I straight up asked her I was like so are you

01:26:14.380 just are you just interested in me as like a friend or something and she got that feeling man

01:26:21.500 that's usually what it is yeah and she was like oh no no no actually the first thing i said no no

01:26:28.440 actually before i even said that i was like can i ask you something she's like yeah what i was like

01:26:34.660 do you like talk to people like every day and message them and send voice memos and oh no

01:26:43.200 and she was like um yeah yeah like what do you mean and i was like okay and she and she was like

01:26:51.780 well i mean now that i think about it i mean like you're probably like the only guy that i do that

01:26:56.260 with i was like okay okay and then and then i was like okay let me ask you something because at that

01:27:04.900 point i was so caught off guard like i was so i was just like screw it i don't even care i don't

01:27:11.220 care about game i don't care about strategy like i'm just human being at this point so i was just

01:27:17.200 like let me ask you like are you do you are you're are you just like feeling like you're my friend

01:27:23.760 because that's not my feeling what'd she say she goes oh she goes oh yeah yeah i just no we're just

01:27:34.660 friends okay so how quickly did you end this whole thing um i ended it pretty much there i i was like

01:27:44.940 i was like oh um oh okay you know like in that case then we don't need to be

01:27:51.900 communicating like this you know like on a daily event she was like oh my god i'm so sorry

01:27:57.760 i'm oh i'm so sorry she was not sorry at all no no no right right i know yeah okay

01:28:05.080 i was like oh my god like what are you actually doing you really is is it do you really need

01:28:12.980 attention like is that a lifeline like i don't care if someone texts me on a daily basis modern

01:28:18.780 women man attention is their currency it's so weird though it's so it's sort of like a mental 1.00

01:28:24.640 illness because like realistically and logically like what does that actually do for you other than

01:28:29.680 a dopamine hit like it doesn't do anything but just you can't explain it man

01:28:34.620 the worst thing you can do is try to understand it right no so

01:28:41.000 it was crazy because i heard that younger guy call in

01:28:45.580 and you could tell i could feel his pain because i don't know how like if you guys paid attention

01:28:53.440 of this part but he said one like at one point he was talking to the woman and she literally

01:28:58.880 spelled it out she was like it sounded like this that she was literally like you're not quite like

01:29:07.900 gangster you're not quite you're not quite like toxic so what hit me so hard i'm older than that

01:29:16.080 guy i remember having conversations with young younger women you got you get one more minute and 0.98

01:29:25.360 because we have a couple of other calls but go ahead yeah no i just i remember having

01:29:30.680 conversations with younger women when i was in my 20s and i could like sense them in you know

01:29:38.380 insinuating things and it's just but i was like what are they really saying and it was basically

01:29:44.400 like something similar and now the culture has progressed where people are literally just 0.55

01:29:50.300 comfortable saying overt blatant ridiculous things like she's like she that woman to that 0.97

01:29:58.900 young man literally had no shame she literally was perfectly comfortable saying you're not a 0.90

01:30:08.760 criminal and i'm not turned on and that's the experience that i'm imagining these younger

01:30:15.400 guys in their 20s are actually dealing with it's just it's just sad really

01:30:24.520 okay yeah okay so how much money did you spend on that weekend

01:30:31.720 oh i mean you know i don't know i mean it wasn't that big of a deal

01:30:37.320 for me but probably i don't know a couple thousand dollars i mean i was visiting my family that were

01:30:44.040 down there too but um but you wouldn't have gone if she wasn't there right come on yeah

01:30:54.920 i probably would have at some point because my mom my mom were living there but no like 0.62

01:31:01.160 yeah that that was a part of it yeah okay well thanks for calling in nate call back anytime okay

01:31:07.960 will do take care guys bye okay bye so there's a person and it just says owner

01:31:18.280 yeah uh make sure you pause the youtube video okay

01:31:27.160 yes to catch up it just says owner are you there

01:31:32.200 yeah right here oh it's uh tom ryan hey how's it going hey what's up girl so what's your poker face

01:31:42.420 story oh boy this one was this one was i think it was the last time i ever made this mistake

01:31:47.880 but um i had i was uh i've been like a long time um so i'm with a girl you know we're making out

01:31:55.760 and she starts i you know i realized later on like i'm like oh she seems like the perfect girl

01:32:01.640 she seems perfect for me and i realized later on no it's just borderline personality disorder

01:32:05.480 um that's all that was and so she tells me like i think of um i like like the guy she finds

01:32:12.920 attractive which you know who she's attracted to and like one of the first guys that comes out of

01:32:17.240 her mouth is freaking vladimir putin and i'm just like oh the genocide guy the journalist murdering 0.84

01:32:24.520 guy right the like guy from hell is who you're attracted to you know and of course that's my 0.98

01:32:30.280 reaction and like this one hit me because that was so hard to stay quiet about that like i did

01:32:36.360 i swallowed it i got laid and it wasn't worth it um it was just you know oh you know i'm never doing

01:32:44.760 that again that was kind of the beginning of my uh you know red pill journey i just i refuse to

01:32:49.160 keep something you know i don't even know what the word is but i refuse to keep being innocent

01:32:53.160 To your being who I think when we want to because I just felt so gross 0.98

01:32:59.920 Dang so with the sex wasn't good 0.66

01:33:04.840 No, it wasn't even good now, you know, there's just a real connection. So it's

01:33:10.160 She was a one she this is the word. This is the other thing she said to just drop by Josh. Oh my god

01:33:17.020 You gotta get a little closer to your microphone. Yeah, sure. She said really hard to hear you

01:33:23.160 She said, she says, oh, my God, I haven't had sex in a week and a half.

01:33:26.280 Like, it was the longest stretch she'd ever encountered in her life.

01:33:29.300 A week and a half?

01:33:32.260 You said that she didn't have sex for a week and a half? 0.95

01:33:36.360 She didn't say a year and a half.

01:33:37.780 Oh, a year and a half.

01:33:38.780 Okay, cool.

01:33:39.140 A week and a half.

01:33:42.440 Yeah, no, she said a week and a half.

01:33:43.960 And I'm saying, from my perspective, it's like, yeah, well, that could just as easily be three years or whatever.

01:33:48.880 I'm a normal guy.

01:33:49.560 don't really you know um yeah so that my jaw sort of hit the floor and i was like this one's trouble

01:33:55.320 yeah the whole experience just left me feeling so negative on you know just dating and stuff

01:34:00.520 i kind of like i was after that starting your content pearl actually right yeah i think you're

01:34:04.920 one of the first people starting soon nice um wow that's a week and a half

01:34:12.040 You just

01:34:14.920 Doug mpa you got anything

01:34:17.960 Nope sounds like all too for a familiar story these days. Yeah. Thanks for calling in. Okay

01:34:28.680 Hey, haven't had sex in a week in a 0.98

01:34:32.920 At least you didn't say haven't had sex in two days. That'd be worse, right fight sport talk my brother from new zealand. How you doing my friend? 0.97

01:34:40.120 i'm doing good can you guys hear me okay yeah what's your poker face story fight sport talk

01:34:47.360 yeah um mine was a long time ago with a girl i was dating uh i was still a teenager and throughout

01:34:57.300 my 20s it led to well well before i got i turned 20 it led very directly to uh being red pilled

01:35:05.400 quote unquote which leads to stories that you know i brought up last time i was on of you know being

01:35:11.560 called a misogynist and stuff because i didn't i didn't even have the patience really for a poker 0.98

01:35:17.160 face i just thought no um women when they're uh crap for a lack of better words not gonna listen 1.00

01:35:24.520 to that and um i mean it was just a very very simple story of just um a girl who ended up ended 0.99

01:35:33.720 up going uh going um homosexual in the end um years later she she there were some times where 0.75

01:35:44.900 you know conversations were very good etc but when she got opinionated it was it was to the

01:35:50.780 absolute max and i just out of just general knowledge i thought well if i i'm the man here

01:35:58.600 if I yell back, it's going to be received differently.

01:36:00.840 So I didn't, and that led to me having a very short temper

01:36:04.740 with girls being extremely opinionated later on in life, 0.80

01:36:08.860 whether it was girls at work, university, excuse me,

01:36:13.340 pretend professors, lecturers being just absolutely abysmal

01:36:19.380 at their jobs, managers at work who were females

01:36:22.560 just didn't have any patience for what they would say 0.99

01:36:26.720 when it was just again just female garbage and it led to being called a misogynist a lot 0.98

01:36:34.320 the stories you brought up pearl and um i think one of the callers did earlier of women coming 0.98

01:36:40.880 out with abuse years later after they've been in a relationship for a long time this is extremely

01:36:47.360 prevalent in mma and not just the one people are familiar with with the conor mcgregor story but

01:36:54.800 there are a ton of situations where women say years later oh this happened that happened so

01:37:01.200 why didn't you bring it up back then so um i can elaborate on the story or other stories i've heard

01:37:06.880 other people give yeah if you can give like a a like a two-minute version of my personal story

01:37:16.880 or other ones i've heard of your story yeah um uh when it's when it's actually actually very simple

01:37:29.760 simple dating stories of a woman woman saying i would like to do xyz and then you go and do it

01:37:38.240 and all she has is is complaints afterwards or actually no during saying well this isn't what i

01:37:45.280 wanted etc etc and i would bring up stories and this isn't just me it's close friends of mine as

01:37:51.040 well of cases where look i wanted i suggested we do this this this and that instead and you

01:38:01.680 specifically say i don't want to do it but you wanted to do another thing i've done that for you

01:38:06.480 we've gone to this place and you're still unhappy what is it and very simple it would be it would

01:38:13.280 would lead to the conclusion a lot of women don't actually know what they want and it's like well 1.00

01:38:19.280 this is just confusing but they weren't or a lot of them weren't happy to just talk it out back and

01:38:27.660 forth it would be zero to 100 very quick and again as a man i'd say well this isn't good and it led

01:38:35.120 to me being not even extreme in the other direction but very strongly thinking well this isn't stuff 0.82

01:38:42.320 that i want to deal with damn mpa you got any other questions for him uh all this i'm telling 0.94

01:38:53.400 you it's just you women talk and they have no idea the suffering that they put men through 0.98

01:39:02.180 it's like you really have to do the cost benefit analysis because all it is is what are you willing

01:39:07.860 to deal with to be around certain kinds of women and it just sounds like you have a really good

01:39:13.080 idea as to what you will and will not put up with when it comes to talking to women so good 0.99

01:39:16.980 job fight sport talk good job oh thank you man yeah and yeah just while i'm on the edges very

01:39:22.320 quickly one of the one of the worst stories i've ever heard is one that happened one that came out

01:39:28.320 30 years later after the child had grown um similar age to what i am turns out the turns

01:39:34.040 out the wife knew all along if i just if i just get this get this guy to get me pregnant then i'm 1.00

01:39:39.720 going to be financially secure and leads led to very was not a good mother at all but it was

01:39:49.720 but it was all planned yeah years in advance and if i had been able to call in yesterday i would

01:39:54.360 have said i would have brought this up the story that myron gains gave about how his his mum actually

01:40:00.280 taught him a lot of this it was a woman who gave me a lot of a lot of advice on you know women 0.99

01:40:07.240 working women uh v-o-t-e sorry pearl for bring that up um last time i was on the show and it's

01:40:16.440 and it led to me when i when i was again getting into the workforce i thought well okay a woman 0.71

01:40:22.440 taught me this a lot of women will know this and it's not the case it's uh very few but appreciate

01:40:27.880 you guys having me on and love to call in again all the best thanks for calling in how was it

01:40:33.080 talking to you hey we're letting um steve m said do women who enjoy cooking and cleaning 0.98

01:40:42.600 and helping on the homestead exist anymore obviously not steve let's try smarter question

01:40:48.280 i'm just kidding i'm just kidding steve okay karen uh karen karen karen yeah unmute

01:40:57.880 Karan?

01:40:58.880 Hey, Doug, can you hear me?

01:40:59.880 Yeah.

01:41:00.880 All right.

01:41:01.880 Hey, Pearl, how are you?

01:41:02.880 I'm good.

01:41:03.880 How are you?

01:41:04.880 Good.

01:41:05.880 Thank you for asking.

01:41:06.880 So I'm Indian, and I immigrated to the United States back in 2019, so I'm fairly new to

01:41:27.440 the red pill space uh we don't have anything like you guys do have in the u.s um there's

01:41:34.860 not really much of uh freedom of speech uh in india so it's just like you know small corners

01:41:45.060 uh where conversations like this uh happens usually uh you know private spaces so what's

01:41:53.540 your poker face story what's the craziest thing a woman said and you had to keep it yeah on a 1.00

01:42:00.220 date in a relationship and you had to keep a straight face um it wasn't a date or relationship

01:42:06.700 but um it was back in i think 2017 when i joined my first corporate job uh in india and there was

01:42:14.900 this girl um my age um she was really promiscuous um and she used to uh tell me stories about you

01:42:25.040 know guys that she was sleeping with and like in graphic details and i was a virgin at that time

01:42:29.180 um so it was really rough for me to hear all all those stories and you know try to keep up

01:42:38.400 the face uh and eventually eventually uh what happened was uh I I told her that you know I

01:42:48.140 don't want to listen to all this um and I I got to know this from uh one of my uh peers that she 0.92

01:42:57.740 wanted to have sex with me too and I was like hell no like if you are sleeping with so many men and 0.82

01:43:03.860 were just you just described everything in front of me like what you did like it's not gonna work 0.97

01:43:10.420 out right so it was like really rough so i feel like how many wait can i ask one question first

01:43:19.300 how many men did she describe having sex with and like in what time period at least five

01:43:28.100 while i was working there i think i worked there for about um a year and a half

01:43:32.420 about five like in office and um couple of them were like her friends common friends wow

01:43:43.700 i mean it was really rough like when when a woman is telling you sexual stories at work 1.00

01:43:50.340 this is it's either one of two things she sees you as a friend or she wants to sleep with you and 1.00

01:43:57.460 there's no in between and there's no real way to tell what the circumstances understand i'm saying

01:44:04.420 unless someone else tells you or she blatantly comes up and tells you but before that happens

01:44:09.940 you're just like why are you telling me all this like what is going on exactly and in one of the

01:44:15.620 conversations you know um she admitted that she wanted to sleep with me and i mean at that point

01:44:23.940 i couldn't react because i was a virgin right what i'm what am i supposed to do

01:44:29.460 like how am i supposed to react because i have never been like you know sexually active with

01:44:34.100 anyone uh so i couldn't react to it that's so uncomfortable yeah did you ever say anything to

01:44:45.380 anybody oh yeah did you work like yeah did you go to like your supervisor about it or anything

01:44:52.100 no no i just stopped and she actually stopped or did no no she actually stopped she stopped because 1.00

01:44:57.620 i i i could i could i mean she was friends with me and i stopped being friends with her and like

01:45:03.460 she knew that this guy is not going to be friends with me anymore so it's okay so i just you know

01:45:09.860 kept quiet did the rumors kind of go through the office like were you the only one she was telling

01:45:14.180 at work or was she doing it with a lot of people uh i think she was sleeping around with other two 1.00

01:45:21.540 that i know of but i mean i think everyone knew in the office but no one dared to speak i don't know

01:45:27.700 why i mean it's uh so i'm working uh in corporate united states now and i know things here are on a

01:45:39.380 much different level and there have been folks telling me that you know uh like in their previous

01:45:47.060 job they try to get off this girl and they slept with this person and that person and 1.00

01:45:51.780 that's where i knew that you know this thing is very common in uh corporate like people do that

01:45:58.260 and even married folks it's not just a single guys or girls yeah well we got to get to the

01:46:03.540 next caller but thanks for telling your story kharan thank you very much i don't know if i

01:46:08.180 said it right but kharan thank you thank you okay we have two more people so i'm gonna let in yeah

01:46:16.100 outlets Dan Dan are you there what's going on Dan what's your poker face story I know you got a

01:46:28.860 good one you're on mute on mute there you are hey what's up guys Dan yeah yeah um Dan are you there

01:46:43.120 I'll make sure you mute the YouTube video in the background. Good one. Can you guys hear me?

01:46:48.600 I'm mute. I'm mute. There you are. There you are. Yeah, can you guys hear me? Hey, what's up, guys?

01:46:55.800 I can hear you, but you're echoing. Yeah. Oh, shit. You gotta turn YouTube off in the background.

01:47:01.740 Make sure you mute the YouTube video. Okay. Good one. Can you guys hear me? I'm mute.

01:47:07.320 yeah i'm turning off the uh okay i turned the youtube off okay good i can hear you normal now

01:47:15.240 what's your poker face story dan um i actually really like this topic because i feel like

01:47:22.860 modern dating is like constantly doing this um the first thing that comes to mind i remember

01:47:29.840 going on a date when this is really simple but um the girl was like telling me about how she

01:47:36.180 was in the marathons and how she was gonna you know run a whatever a 5k or something 1.00

01:47:40.860 and i was just like dude you're overweight like wait did you say that look did you say i didn't

01:47:49.840 say it okay okay no but i'm just like it does not look like a marathon oh no you'd be so you would

01:47:57.160 be surprised there were some i read a marathon like six months ago there are some fat people

01:48:02.560 that run it like you would be surprised you would be you can't it doesn't mean you run it fast it

01:48:09.340 just means you run it because when i when i think poker face i think of a lot of women they say 1.00

01:48:15.140 things that are like designed to be like impress you but then you're just like what the fuck 0.96

01:48:21.140 um and to to talk about like a little bit like what the indian guy was talking about 0.98

01:48:29.020 i've had women tell me about crazy like sexual stuff on like early dates where it's like why 1.00

01:48:35.020 are you even telling me this like i had one girl talk about like um she was like a really successful 0.91

01:48:42.780 lawyer in the bay area and it just something came up she was like yeah i had a threesome with like 0.85

01:48:48.540 two of the partners and it was like the greatest night of my life i was like dude why are you

01:48:53.740 telling me this wait so wait how did you read like i need to hear like well you've turned on your

01:49:01.580 camera because it'd be kind of funny if you showed us the face no i don't want to oh you don't want

01:49:05.740 to be public okay okay but what did you like okay so she said that what was your response 0.73

01:49:12.140 um well that was like after we had had sex so

01:49:19.100 okay i just like went to grab some orange juice or something i was like okay

01:49:23.740 this is weird um but i've had other girls i had one girl tell me like of the that like we had

01:49:33.680 really great sex that was amazing that it was like i had sex yesterday and it was like it was 0.57

01:49:38.360 totally not the same and i was like dude why are you telling me that you just

01:49:42.200 thanked another guy like yesterday true they really know how to make you feel special don't

01:49:48.200 yeah and um i i have a few written down but there's there's one more that's kind of funny

01:49:56.780 um like a lot of this stuff it's weird now that i'm actually talking it through it's like post

01:50:02.520 coital i don't know what like we were out to brunch i was out to brunch the the next day

01:50:09.460 after staying over at this girl's house and um she had this like trump derangement thing where 0.84

01:50:17.540 she saw like some navy veteran in a red hat and she got triggered she's like oh my god i thought 0.99

01:50:22.240 he was wearing like a maga hat or something it's like fuck i hate men i was like dude why are you 0.98

01:50:28.080 telling me this you know it's just like at that time especially like when the whole trump thing 0.99

01:50:35.140 was going on a lot of women had this like weird fixation with it where it was like it would come 1.00

01:50:41.540 up all the time without like you bringing it up you know and i just thought that was funny like

01:50:48.320 she got clearly like emotionally distraught over somebody just wearing like a red baseball cap

01:50:55.200 and i had to sit there and be like yeah that's yeah you know it's like did you get did you get

01:51:01.320 laid after uh no i got laid the night before we were at a brunch oh okay the next day well

01:51:07.480 I just went, did it continue?

01:51:08.960 Did you keep hooking up with her?

01:51:11.240 John Barry, if you put, you took her out to brunch and right when he put that,

01:51:17.040 he said, oh no, I got laid the night before I took her out to brunch afterwards.

01:51:22.240 The only good reason to take a woman out to brunch, I guess, is when you 1.00

01:51:25.560 smashed her the night before.

01:51:27.560 Yeah.

01:51:28.120 You know, maybe I was simping.

01:51:29.480 We went out to brunch and she wanted to watch wonder woman.

01:51:32.160 So, you know, maybe I'm part of the problem.

01:51:37.480 but um actually there's one more that you might find um funny doug it's like a non-dating but it

01:51:47.940 relates to black women um i had a supervisor once and actually this is probably the craziest thing

01:51:55.920 i've ever heard a woman say um she was like talking about how she lived with their daughter 1.00

01:52:01.300 single mother and they they like really like ice cream and ice cream sandwiches and she's like

01:52:07.800 oh my daughter likes the outside part and i like ice cream so we get ice cream sandwiches and i

01:52:15.220 just scrape out the ice cream for myself and i give like the the sandwich part to my daughter 0.98

01:52:20.600 i was like what the fuck is that like i've never heard that before that's crazy that's crazy 0.98

01:52:29.160 yeah i yuck i used to work in like um i shouldn't say which city but like a predominantly black 0.99

01:52:37.120 city and um atlanta with a lot of black no no worse detroit worse 1.00

01:52:45.880 that was my next guess memphis yeah

01:52:52.120 and i have no i thought this lady had something against me you know like she would always like 1.00

01:53:00.220 give me bad performance reviews and stuff and i thought like it was like a whole reverse racism

01:53:04.300 thing but then i found out she was like sabotaging her own half brother in the workplace and i was 1.00

01:53:10.360 like oh okay like this whole trope is true like black women sabotaging like black men i i don't 0.98

01:53:16.200 know i'm not trying to speak on it but um i just thought that was the craziest man i'm like oh my 0.98

01:53:23.760 god yeah i'm telling you in my experience uh in an academic and professional setting my worst enemy

01:53:33.580 is always another black person always i could see that man i could see that it's like women 1.00

01:53:42.720 women always talk about the patriarchy and men but 80 of workplace bullying is women bullying 0.99

01:53:47.360 other women and most women will tell you the worst person that's done the worst to them has been

01:53:52.160 another woman yeah that was um that lady was the worst person that i've ever worked with like just 1.00

01:54:00.640 very like mean-spirited nasty um and i'd go out to lunch with her brother and you could tell he was

01:54:07.280 was just like defeated like this guy is like he was in a career where the person like controlling

01:54:14.000 his like ability to be promoted was somebody in his family that hated him sounds about right

01:54:20.980 so but i mean the last thing i guess i just wanted to say and maybe get your guys general

01:54:27.500 thoughts is like a lot of these women that like overly disclose their sexual past and it's it's 1.00

01:54:36.980 like a turnoff you know like on you know early dates or whatever and i don't feel like guys do

01:54:43.100 that as much or i don't think i do like i've never gone on a date and be like oh wow yeah i just

01:54:47.600 you know smashed out like two sevens last weekend what'd you do

01:54:52.060 you're the third girl this weekend it's also a thing where you hate that they do it but then

01:55:01.820 you're glad that they're doing it too because you would really want to know you know yeah

01:55:08.060 because people say oh yeah you're never going to know a woman's body count because she's never 1.00

01:55:12.460 going to tell you she's never going to tell you directly but she will tell you indirectly if you

01:55:17.260 just listen yeah and it's like these like and if you date a woman long enough it's like it starts

01:55:22.700 to add up you know it's just like wait a minute you were just you were just talking about like

01:55:27.580 the spanish guy like two weeks ago that i didn't i knew about the previous boyfriend

01:55:33.900 and it's like oh wait what about the oh the guy from dubai like i i hadn't heard about him before

01:55:39.420 so i'm like okay do you know what so there's a study right that says that women if they're over

01:55:46.140 a certain body count um that they like don't get married right so it's like over five you're cooked

01:55:52.380 over 10 you're really cooked over 50 you really really cooked right right so basically the study

01:55:57.840 and I thought about it and I'm like well do you know what when I interviewed women on the show

01:56:02.980 and we would ask body count like they're a bunch of liars so I was like what like and I thought

01:56:08.960 about this more and I'm like even the women that said they were virgins like I maybe believed one

01:56:16.040 maybe and then I thought about it more and I'm like what if the conclusion of the study is that

01:56:21.840 women that lie about body count are happy or married because because hear me out but i want 1.00

01:56:32.640 to give my two cents this isn't me trying to like be in defense of the whores right but i just two 0.99

01:56:37.960 cents a woman's only going to disclose that in my opinion if she doesn't fear losing you 1.00

01:56:43.640 because why would she tell you that if she feared losing you

01:56:48.660 and either that or like uh like mental disorder but well yeah but so so i thought about this i

01:56:58.320 thought this more and i'm not what i'm not arguing though i'm not arguing that like obviously the

01:57:03.720 more the more cooked like obviously but i i thought about it and i thought about like

01:57:09.400 hoes I knew like 10 years ago and I'm like some are more married than the prudes if I'm being 1.00

01:57:16.080 honest like if I if I did like 10 hoes 10 prudes I'd say more 10 more of the hoes are married with 1.00

01:57:22.280 kids and I'm like hmm it might just be that like the women that are like lying on these surveys 1.00

01:57:30.780 they know to lie to their husband and it leads to a happier marriage because at least she knows 0.60

01:57:37.520 place i'm i'm not this is just this is just a working theory i'm not saying i'm right it's

01:57:42.840 just a working theory well and doug you say like well how can you tell you you'll never know it's

01:57:47.420 like dude if you if it's like you know parking a volkswagen and an airplane hanger then that you

01:57:54.820 know you've got some some sense of i don't um okay if you know what i mean yeah i think it's

01:58:05.240 how intelligent is the hoe me and doug were talking about this the other day it's like 0.99

01:58:10.380 is she a smart hoe or a dumb hoe dumb hoes get herpes smart hoes smart hoes or jeff bezos's wife 1.00

01:58:18.320 you see what i mean yeah or well here's the thing some of the the dumb hoes a lot are the ones with 1.00

01:58:24.540 the like advanced degrees it's like inverse there's a certain level of comfortability that 0.93

01:58:30.020 woman has to feel well i don't know well if a woman's not a complete and total 304 1.00

01:58:36.580 uh she has to quote unquote feel comfortable around you to share certain things right and

01:58:43.460 i don't know what to when a woman says oh i just felt so comfortable around you

01:58:48.500 i'm able to share you know my deepest darkest thoughts and stuff it's just like

01:58:53.780 is that a good thing or a bad thing you know how am i supposed to take that well it's gotta be a

01:58:59.220 a bad thing as a compliment like to me at first i take it as a compliment and then when they start

01:59:04.320 telling you those things you immediately regret it yeah well it has to be a bad thing because

01:59:10.380 like i just can't imagine like if a woman like okay because i i know a woman right and i wouldn't 1.00

01:59:18.140 even say she was like on the scale of hoe i'd put her on a one to ten give her like a four i'd say 1.00

01:59:25.540 she's like a little below average but like not a not a prude by any means but you know 1.00

01:59:31.160 i'm being honest she like she's married now and she told her husband every little thing

01:59:38.460 like she told and she felt like she was doing it in the name of being honest and i just thought

01:59:42.920 does he want that honesty like does he want that he married her anyway so i guess maybe it wasn't

01:59:50.520 too bad but i'm like do you really want to know every single dude that dug your girl out before

01:59:56.780 she met you i i kind of and and that relationship is sort of like like she kind of runs it right

02:00:05.980 and that's just what i've noticed when women can like tell the guy every little thing 1.00

02:00:10.620 do you know what i mean it's kind of like complaining to your boss about all your

02:00:16.480 previous like bosses yeah well you'd only do that with a job like you don't care about losing

02:00:22.440 like the thing that doug said about like the t chart or whatever it just like becomes like okay

02:00:29.880 that like this stuff may be in your past or whatever but it's kind of like not my problem

02:00:36.000 and i i like don't want to hear about it you know it's um so i don't know like i'll i'll jump off

02:00:43.560 but i just want to get maybe your guys thoughts on like it i don't know obviously there's no

02:00:48.840 solution to a lot of this stuff but like where did this come from and like is there a way or like

02:00:55.980 are women ever going to realize that sharing all this stuff no is like a turnoff it's no no do you 0.95

02:01:03.660 know this like asking women to give up our power to be whores is like asking you guys to give up 0.93

02:01:10.080 your biceps like if you work really hard to get like biceps i'm not even asking that i'm asking 0.93

02:01:15.020 just don't tell us about it you know no but it's like it's like a it's like a victory lap right

02:01:23.360 because they're basically saying like i can get a man and have like now officially corn on the

02:01:29.460 internet the sad part about it is what they say in person is actually filtered compared to what

02:01:37.580 they say online so yeah we're never going back man i always say there are things that women of 1.00

02:01:46.900 the past would take to their graves and these women aren't smart enough to do that so they're 1.00

02:01:50.920 going to share it all online it's sad or or on a date so but i think there's as a proactive thing 0.99

02:01:57.760 i think there's a way for guys to um like listen pretend like they're listening to this shit and 0.91

02:02:06.260 like kind of tune out and just listen to the intonality of a woman's voice and then like kind 0.97

02:02:10.780 of know when she's done with the story and then you can like mentally like reground yourself

02:02:15.820 because you know like when when a woman starts telling these like crazy stories or whatever that 0.96

02:02:21.020 you know you have to keep a poker face just like okay i'm just gonna go to my happy place for like

02:02:25.720 three minutes wait for the story to be done and then like reground myself so i don't know if any

02:02:31.500 other guys have that similar

02:02:32.840 experience.

02:02:35.340 We've all done it, my friend.

02:02:37.600 All done it.

02:02:39.360 All right. Well, I appreciate

02:02:40.960 the work you guys do, man. It's actually helped

02:02:43.440 me a lot with

02:02:44.300 realizing

02:02:47.760 that it's not

02:02:49.460 like anything we're

02:02:51.520 doing wrong necessarily when

02:02:53.660 women 1.00

02:02:55.520 rewrote the rules

02:02:57.520 of society in the 20th century.

02:02:59.280 and the 21st century is going to be men responding to it so so all you're doing is just responding

02:03:04.960 to the rules that women said yeah true words true words my friend all right well i'll let the next 0.97

02:03:12.160 next caller jump on appreciate it guys okay thanks for calling in calling anytime we have two more

02:03:17.920 people cool cheers i'm gonna bring them both on that's fine and we'll do we'll give them both a

02:03:23.120 couple minutes to tell the story so lost boy okay and and minar i'm gonna read the website while

02:03:30.480 they get on um make sure you guys are muting your youtube in the background so no that's not simping

02:03:36.560 after you got laid the night before that's after care that some women need in order to not feel 1.00

02:03:41.520 like a whore yeah if you don't do that hello can you hear me trouble sure one second hold on um let 1.00

02:03:49.200 me double i can't hear you at all uh well i can hear you um okay i think that's all the supers 0.99

02:03:58.240 right now go ahead pearl reading the website um yeah i'm done so why don't we do minar first

02:04:10.160 so actually last boy was waiting first oh that's fine we can go first last boy off mute

02:04:19.200 okay well i guess we'll let me i think he's unmuting oh is he yeah there he goes last

02:04:25.680 one are you there you can you hear yep all right okay so my uh queer face story 0.82

02:04:34.960 was uh i was dating a girl just very short time like the last week we hooked up a few times but

02:04:43.840 she wasn't something that i said as a permanent girlfriend so i was desperate to figure out am i

02:04:50.160 gonna get out of this and i didn't want to hurt her feelings and all that stuff so

02:04:56.480 we were in the car just talking real serious and i had to figure out how to break up and then

02:05:04.880 all of a sudden she says um you know you know andrew there's a guy named andrew that we knew

02:05:10.000 a mutual friend and she said that andrew andrew tells us to me not to date you like you he he

02:05:17.680 said that you're not a guy and blah blah blah and all this stuff and i was like really and i thought

02:05:23.040 oh man this is my opportunity so i said you know what i go he must be in love with you because um

02:05:31.920 you know if he's telling you don't date mike then uh then we we should we should honor that and we

02:05:39.120 should break up because and she was like what really and i was like yeah because

02:05:45.600 he's our friend we i said we can't do that to him can't do that to andrew

02:05:52.960 are you still laughing keep going and so um finally she's like okay like i felt that she

02:06:03.520 completely convinced but it made sense logically like we can't hurt and like the two of us and so

02:06:12.240 so we broke it off and it and it kind of worked but she showed up to work the next day but

02:06:19.600 but i was able to say no no i had to remember like no this is this we can't we can't stand

02:06:27.040 like this like this so messed up like we could do that so that's the basically the story and

02:06:35.340 and weirdly and like 10 years later her mom became friends with me on facebook somehow

02:06:42.900 and then and we were we were talking being friends and i was like it's the same it's

02:06:49.600 all of that girl and her audio is cutting in and out for some reason uh all i was saying was uh

02:06:59.840 the funny ending up to the story that i somehow became friends with her mom

02:07:05.920 on facebook like 10 years after the incident which was very weird and awkward so you this

02:07:14.480 that what was the person named andy who was telling her not to date you that's what's called

02:07:18.960 dirty mackin i didn't i don't know the name of it when you have a guy that tries to snake you like

02:07:28.080 that and tell a woman that you like who's interested in you not to date you it's called

02:07:32.480 dirty mackin and that's that's one of the worst things a guy can do to another guy it was i felt

02:07:38.320 really betrayed because i thought he was my friend i didn't know that he even knew her i didn't know

02:07:44.400 that there was like a mutual connection there but i was like that's messed up that he's like

02:07:50.720 yeah like you said it was like dirty man like yep dirty mackin yep and guys will snake each other 0.99

02:07:58.080 and actually women are worse at dirty mackin than guys though oh god women are the worst at it 1.00

02:08:04.800 oh man i got a dirty mackin that a girl did so so i was i was hanging with this 0.99

02:08:12.320 really be stripper girl and I like her and then we had a mutual friend that was 1.00

02:08:19.640 a lesbian and the lesbian said oh I heard hanging out with so-and-so yeah she 1.00

02:08:25.980 goes well you know she goes and then later she said oh I took to the

02:08:31.560 screen I go what she doesn't want to be she she told me she doesn't like you and 1.00

02:08:36.940 And so I believed the lesbian, but then years later, everyone told me, no, man, like, you're stupid because she wanted to be with a stripper. 1.00

02:08:49.660 And so she messed your chance at it because everyone once said, oh, the stripper girl was always wanting to hang out with me. 1.00

02:08:59.260 like because i considered her like my best friend the stripper girl and i didn't i thought that he

02:09:06.400 didn't like i thought oh it's just tonic but then when i looked at memory i was like wait a minute

02:09:12.800 no because i call her at three in the morning to just hang out and she was yeah yeah she's so happy

02:09:18.440 and i thought about it i was stupid and foremost that i knew after the fact that so

02:09:27.020 so the animals wasn't being mad to me in that situation okay well we're gonna move on to the 0.92

02:09:36.540 last person no no but i want to know i want to know from law school you're you seem like such

02:09:40.620 a handsome young man uh you know with the gray hair maybe not so young still you have a lot of

02:09:46.060 years to live sure you have a huge body count like um why are you worried about that single person

02:09:52.300 you know what i mean like why are you not moving on what do you mean moving why not i will be not

02:09:58.860 let's let's say if somebody upsets me at the you know if i'm having a problem with my friend

02:10:03.980 you know i'm looking at my friend right now i'm having a problem with him hey are you gonna pay

02:10:08.300 for the drinks he says no i'm gonna look at i'm gonna turn around look at this one and be like

02:10:12.620 what about you are you paying why are you not doing that why are you not doing this switch around

02:10:16.780 and moving on you know what i mean why are you like i don't i don't understand

02:10:24.300 okay wait wait wait we're not we're just kind of trying to get stories from yeah because we

02:10:30.060 you're the last two so we're gonna move on to menar what's your what's your um male poker

02:10:36.540 phrase story what's the worst thing that you've heard a woman say on a data that you had to sit 1.00

02:10:41.820 through the worst thing a woman has done or said or done on the first day in a relationship a lot 0.57

02:10:50.540 of things and i can tell you guys about a lot of things you know for example i can tell you guys

02:10:56.140 about how when my dad uh quote unquote beat my mom and all it was was my mom literally yelling

02:11:03.580 in his face shouting really loudly and if i'm getting beaten i wouldn't be yelling in somebody's

02:11:08.460 face shouting so i'm saying that and then when you're a young kid and then your mom is yelling

02:11:15.060 your dad's yelling and then later on you go to her friends and she takes you to her friend's house

02:11:20.460 and then the friends are like are you not ashamed of yourself how are you not are you not man at

02:11:26.660 the age of 10 and they tell you are you not a man to defend your mom while she's getting beaten by

02:11:32.260 her dad and really you don't even remember anybody getting beaten up it's just your dad kind of like

02:11:36.700 raising his hands to kind of like push the affliction backwards so something like that

02:11:43.840 you know i mean i guess you could say there's a lot of these stories i could tell you but really

02:11:48.080 i'm more interested i know you don't want to give prescriptions on anything pearl but

02:11:55.400 i want to know why why because you know so much you are basically the only connection we have

02:12:04.020 two women they will never listen to a man they kind of had i don't know what kind of propaganda

02:12:08.420 maybe you can tell us a little bit more about that that they have that they cannot every time 0.96

02:12:12.580 we talk to them they kind of get me i don't know if it's penis envy they kind of get upset they 0.59

02:12:17.860 shut us down and they like shut down completely there's like a defensive mechanism immediately 0.63

02:12:22.740 activated it doesn't activate such so hardly with women except when they hear a certain tone 1.00

02:12:27.860 so here's my question if you are the only hope we have and you're telling us we can't rely on you

02:12:35.900 who can we rely on in america for example and then another thing if you are going to start

02:12:41.240 giving prescriptions are they going to be christian prescriptions are going to be are

02:12:45.420 they going to be religious prescriptions or are they going to be just whatever your whims and

02:12:49.380 desires which are you reading based on the statistics and what you believe the outcome

02:12:54.000 oh the statistics say that do you just do you just usually like call into shows and decide the topic

02:13:00.400 i'm just asking a question yeah i i just i have a it's my story you don't want to answer anything

02:13:07.360 yeah well it's it's just a bit rude when you're coming into a show and you have a topic when we

02:13:13.660 run a show a certain way so what do you what do you mean you're not like you don't actually dive

02:13:21.300 you don't actually well well we're talking about we're talking about poker face and you're bringing

02:13:26.020 up a completely different topic i know yeah i'm actually bright brightening up the conversation

02:13:33.700 a little bit and asking you a constructive question about the future of you and what

02:13:39.940 you actually represent yes you're right is it is it terrifying for you to answer something like that

02:13:45.220 it's not really terrifying i just think it's a bit rude so oh it's rude yeah okay that's fine you

02:13:51.860 want to hear my magic story that's better better for you oh yeah a little bit more entertaining

02:13:57.940 yeah um can you just thank you yeah um yeah he's gone yeah it's not it's been two hours

02:14:09.060 Oh last boy. Hold on then. Hold on one. No, it's not even that it's just I can't stand it when people come on and I have a topic

02:14:17.240 And we read this like you write this whole show around the topic and then people just decide what they want to talk about it

02:14:23.740 And then questions like that guys

02:14:27.180 Pearl Davis has been doing this for four years 0.99

02:14:30.380 She's been a prominent figure for that long if you don't know her platform what she stands for 1.00

02:14:35.980 for the i don't know what else to tell you like there is no good answer to that question i mean

02:14:45.280 the youtube is a big space pearl's not a one-stop shop i mean i mean i don't like wait

02:14:54.720 of course i can't save you it's your life like what does he mean i'm your only hope

02:15:00.120 and one thing pearl doesn't tell men what to do not once that's not her lane yeah i mean i just

02:15:10.600 think it's rude like if if doug wants to date single mothers fat ones i mean doug i'm not saying

02:15:16.500 you do but like i'm saying hold up now no no but i'm just saying like if guys want to do something

02:15:21.780 it's your life man you know so anyways but um i think that's pretty much all we have for today

02:15:29.560 it's our last caller right yeah um you got any other thoughts on the topic doug um final thoughts

02:15:39.600 guys um have a list of things that you won't tolerate hearing from women but then a lot of 1.00

02:15:46.180 times if you don't listen to them you could talk yourself out of getting laid so um have that poker

02:15:52.440 face guys a lot of times all you have to do is just hold on to that poker face for 35 40 45 minutes

02:15:57.700 and then you're home free and also like i said in the last couple scenes and just have

02:16:01.900 keep her talking about her guys women love to talk about themselves 0.99

02:16:05.560 cool well thanks doug mpa it's a pleasure as always um i'm trying to think okay schedule i

02:16:17.300 i do apologize guys um we we had to make some changes so tomorrow we have someone coming in

02:16:25.300 I don't want to tell you guys who, because I think it's going to be a cool interview.

02:16:29.900 But we're not doing a show because we are going to film that.

02:16:33.740 Next week, I filmed extra reactions.

02:16:37.640 I'm going to post this interview and one other one I did.

02:16:41.920 And so we're going to have a bunch of extra content.

02:16:44.780 If I have time, I will do a show, but I'm not positive I will.

02:16:49.140 So let's plan for no shows next week.

02:16:53.220 and if I end up being able to do one, we'll be excited.

02:16:58.520 Yeah, that's all I got.

02:17:00.700 If you want to support me, go to theaudacitynetwork.com.

02:17:03.900 That's theaudacitynetwork.com.

02:17:05.580 The link's in the description.

02:17:07.080 It is the second link.

02:17:08.800 This person that's coming is going to do a course on how to catch your partner cheating.

02:17:13.540 So if you want to make sure your girl is loyal before you put a kid in her,

02:17:18.580 before you put a ring on her, 0.99

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02:17:28.280 honest with you sign up now because the price is going to go up fairly soon and you guys want to

02:17:34.260 get it first um doug mp any final thoughts nope all right nope but i can i can just vouch the

02:17:43.660 the person that is coming into town to hang out with pearl and do content with is going to be

02:17:48.740 quite the is uh it's gonna be quite the watch guys so stay tuned yeah it's gonna be quite the

02:17:56.180 watch and like who better than this person that could make a course i'm catching cheating there's

02:18:03.260 nobody better it's gonna be hilarious um okay guys please like the video subscribe and i will

02:18:10.700 see you guys maybe next week but i promise nothing um otherwise i'll see you guys on the interview

02:18:17.000 that we record tomorrow.

02:18:18.300 So I'll see you.

02:18:18.940 Bye.

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Pearl - April 25, 2025

Men's Poker Face (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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