Pearl - Modern Love Killed Traditional Marriage w⧸ @thisisshah

00:00:00.000 in monogamous societies dowry is is what it is and what you see is that in societies practicing

00:00:06.400 that it it actually negates hypergamy and as the people up here start to pair off with monogamy it

00:00:13.920 creates positive assertive matching going down so if you have someone who's high status the only

00:00:20.400 thing you can possibly give him to actually be monogamous is some kind of deal on the other

00:00:25.440 side that's so good that he takes it that's why king henry the eighth uh when his brother arthur

00:00:31.040 died married his brother's widow because she had such a big dowry yes that they were like you need

00:00:37.760 to take this um and you're stupid if you don't do that they were married for 20 years then you get 0.68

00:00:43.120 your anne boleyn story and all that kind of stuff but this is the only thing that can create monogamy 0.94

00:00:48.640 in that so so trad cons are very far off until they accept this aspect of it like i feel like

00:00:54.320 asking them every single time when they they come to young men and they put this

00:00:58.000 inordinate pressure on them I want to ask them how much money have you saved

00:01:01.460 for your daughter's marriage have you even thought about that so how's your

00:01:07.100 daughter if you want your daughter to be the stay-at-home submissive wife why 0.98

00:01:10.700 are we only doing traditionalism halfway do traditionalism all the way but what

00:01:14.960 they'll do is they'll stay with the gaslighting and gynocentrism of the love

00:01:18.860 match of the love marriage none of that is you know particularly religious in a

00:01:24.440 way it's kind of a newer thing in history it's that's not what their

00:01:28.080 dowries were happening all throughout Europe with United Christendom it's

00:01:31.580 happening before that

Pearl - June 08, 2025