Pearl - June 08, 2025
Modern Love Killed Traditional Marriage w⧸ @thisisshah
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Summary
Dowry is the only thing that can actually create monogamy in modern society, and it is the key to creating monogamy. If you don't have a good deal on the other side, then you need a deal that is so good that he takes it. And the only deal you can possibly give him to actually be monogamous is one that is good enough to make him monogamous. And that is dowry.
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in monogamous societies dowry is is what it is and what you see is that in societies practicing
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that it it actually negates hypergamy and as the people up here start to pair off with monogamy it
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creates positive assertive matching going down so if you have someone who's high status the only
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thing you can possibly give him to actually be monogamous is some kind of deal on the other
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side that's so good that he takes it that's why king henry the eighth uh when his brother arthur
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died married his brother's widow because she had such a big dowry yes that they were like you need
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to take this um and you're stupid if you don't do that they were married for 20 years then you get
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your anne boleyn story and all that kind of stuff but this is the only thing that can create monogamy
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in that so so trad cons are very far off until they accept this aspect of it like i feel like
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asking them every single time when they they come to young men and they put this
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inordinate pressure on them I want to ask them how much money have you saved
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for your daughter's marriage have you even thought about that so how's your
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daughter if you want your daughter to be the stay-at-home submissive wife why
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are we only doing traditionalism halfway do traditionalism all the way but what
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they'll do is they'll stay with the gaslighting and gynocentrism of the love
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match of the love marriage none of that is you know particularly religious in a
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way it's kind of a newer thing in history it's that's not what their
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dowries were happening all throughout Europe with United Christendom it's