Pearl - Modern Mothers Destroy Their Childs Relationships With Their Father

00:00:00.000 i don't know why but my grandmother felt she needed to tell me that i was a product of incest

00:00:05.520 mothers lying to their children so when i um when i first got into

00:00:15.520 interviewing victims of divorce grape it actually amazed me um how many children had been lied to

00:00:24.240 about their fathers so welcome to another episode of pearl daily fathers are judged harshly in today's

00:00:32.000 society and all we hear about is how fathers aren't needed they are deadbeats when they are

00:00:37.760 in the house women complain that he doesn't do enough he's like having another child blah blah

00:00:43.040 blah this is a smoke screen to keep society from pointing out the shortcomings of mothers starting 1.00

00:00:49.440 in generation x mothers have gotten worse and worse there are women that put their own interests 1.00

00:00:55.760 above their community their husbands and their families these women lied and gaslit their way 1.00

00:01:01.680 through life without caring about the consequences and outcomes of their actions it's only when you

00:01:07.760 are an adult that you realize how much your mother lied to you and gaslit you your mother lied about

00:01:12.960 who your father was the kind of man he was how much he contributed to the house and the sacrifices he made

00:01:18.400 as a father your mother lied to you about her contributions to the family pointing herself as 0.94

00:01:24.480 some kind of super mom that held the fabric of the universe together your mother lied to you about 1.00

00:01:29.920 her virtue and her purity she lied to you about her career accomplishments and took credit for things 1.00

00:01:34.800 she didn't even do these are the type of things that your mother lied about and told you when you 0.79

00:01:39.840 were young and you believed them it's a good day and a bad day when you figure out how much of a liar 0.89

00:01:44.480 your mother was it's good because you can finally see her for the horrible person that she is and it's

00:01:49.280 bad because your perfect image of her is gone forever you also start to regret some of the things

00:01:54.320 you did when you were little because of her lies and you wonder how different your life would have been

00:01:59.120 with the information that you had back then so we're going to look at some x posts about this

00:02:05.920 the myth the myth that mothers possess an inherent protective instinct to protective instinct to

00:02:15.120 shield their children from harm is a patriarchal fabrication a lie that crumbles under scrutiny

00:02:20.960 especially when considering the treatment of daughters in reality mothers perpetuate the very 0.99

00:02:25.920 misogyny that enslaves them grooming their female children into a lifetime of suffering and subjugation 0.99

00:02:32.400 i asked my own mother about her severe phobia of blood and she recounted her four c-sections in

00:02:38.000 excruciating detail she described the complete paralysis she felt after each surgery the lasting

00:02:44.000 health problems they caused and the psychological trauma she endured yet despite the this litany of

00:02:51.360 horror she concluded with a chilling you will understand all of this when you get pregnant 0.94

00:02:56.000 mothers are as protector protecting and nurturing as a farmer preparing his life livestock for slaughter

00:03:03.200 they ensure that their daughters inherit the same suffering and abuse they endured

00:03:07.280 this is not protection it is a transmission of torture to maintain the dominance of men 0.97

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00:05:01.360 is my mom made me believe i'm actually a useless human being because everything i do for her is not

00:05:07.840 good enough so i stopped doing anything at all every single day she always reminds me of the stuff i

00:05:12.320 didn't do instead of praising me for the stuff i did do i am tired and by the way guys i understand

00:05:18.160 there are good mothers this is not the show for that so please do not call in and tell me that wasn't

00:05:24.880 your experience this was not the call-in show for you i hate it but we're doing a call-in show about a

00:05:30.480 specific topic and they're like well that wasn't my experience like well then why are you here sorry

00:05:36.720 thank you gabe gabriel for the two dollar super chat that's why i wanted to impress someone hoping

00:05:42.480 they'd recognize my effort i just wish my parents would recognize my effort but they always pressure

00:05:46.800 me 24 7 because i'm not doing enough in life they can't use my depression as an excuse i'm just useless

00:05:54.480 mothers used to get away with this all the time but now social media is giving sons and daughters

00:05:59.120 an outlet to share the lies that their mothers told them this is going to be a call-in show and i want

00:06:03.600 you to share what was the worst lie your mother ever told you how did you find out it was a lie and

00:06:08.560 what happened when you confronted your mother about the lie hi everybody nanny here somebody asked me

00:06:21.760 what was the biggest lie my mother ever told hang on to your hat 1.00

00:06:27.360 when my mother became pregnant with me she went to my grandmother

00:06:36.560 and told her it was my grandfather's

00:06:41.200 because she hated my grandfather and she wanted him out of the house and 0.99

00:06:50.240 she thought that would be the way to do it to get him out of the house

00:06:53.200 she never told my grandmother the difference my grandmother from that day on hated my grandfather

00:07:01.760 but they still lived together because of financial reasons and back then you just didn't get a divorce

00:07:08.240 and it ruined their marriage

00:07:13.120 and when i when i turned 15 i think i don't know why but my grandmother felt she needed to tell me that

00:07:20.160 i was a product of incest which devastated me

00:07:27.600 and i felt like i was a freak

00:07:31.840 and even before i married my husband i told him that you know there could be some abnormal

00:07:38.640 children involved because of the dna issues

00:07:42.080 and it wasn't until i was in my 30s that my mother confessed that it was all a lie

00:07:54.640 she just hated my grandfather and didn't want him in the house anymore because he was 1.00

00:07:58.560 a drinker and he was drunk a lot and he she did not like him and she he did not always give her her way

00:08:04.320 so she ruined my grandmother's marriage 1.00

00:08:11.040 and she didn't realize that my grandmother had told me this

00:08:14.720 and that's when she confessed to my grandmother and my sister never to me that it was all a lie

00:08:22.400 it was all a lie

00:08:23.680 and for 15 maybe 20 years i felt like i was an anomaly that there was something wrong with me

00:08:39.760 but that's the biggest lie my mother ever told

00:08:42.000 what was the biggest lie that your mother told you as a child i have two major lies that my mother

00:08:58.640 used to tell us when we were children i know actually one of them is more recently but the

00:09:01.920 one we were kids is she used to tell us that she was a good mom and what kind of mom needs to tell her

00:09:06.320 children that that's so true good mom unless they're a narcissist so um yeah there's that one

00:09:14.880 and we know that's not true now and as an adult this one was very recent actually my mom has decided

00:09:21.280 that she does not remember or doesn't want to remember our childhood abuse that's always the

00:09:26.320 gaslighting oh i don't remember doing that really how convenient that you don't

00:09:32.880 remember all the bad things abuse that she put us in and after many many years of telling her

00:09:39.440 she's decided those conversations never happened we are like 99 sure my sister murdered her mother-in-law

00:09:45.520 made it look like a self-dilly um so i'm hoping that one day when she passes and sheds that cloak of 0.57

00:09:53.040 ego and narcissism that we can actually have a healthy decent conversation about what life was like with her

00:09:58.880 um okay let's see what's next

00:10:07.600 what was the biggest lie

00:10:11.600 that your mother told you as a child i was in my 20s my fiancee wanted to postpone our wedding it

00:10:18.320 absolutely put me into a tailspin and i was given anxiety medication at the hospital because i had a

00:10:24.080 complete emotional breakdown and i had to be transferred to a higher level of care because

00:10:29.920 they couldn't take care of me in the facility that i was at and so my fiancee called my mom and asked her

00:10:36.560 to please come and see if she could help get me out sooner when i got there my mom told my fiancee to

00:10:41.760 go to his motorcycle race and that she would see him on monday i got out of the hospital and my mom told me

00:10:48.240 that he did not want me he did not want to get married that he absolutely still wanted to keep

00:10:53.680 the wedding called off and took away my phone and moved me back to montana when he came home i was gone

00:11:00.560 and i never knew until actually it's been 13 years and i found out last year oh my gosh

00:11:07.600 holy there's nobody that lies better than a woman um okay let's see what you grew up 0.99

00:11:22.480 okay 0.99

00:11:25.840 more conservative and obviously masturbation wasn't something you yeah i was blamed for it

00:11:30.160 like i remembered my mom planted a seed for me when i got my first period i got home as a mom

00:11:36.160 i think i uh i had a miscarriage were we like 12 yeah because when i was 12 i watched all the chinese 1.00

00:11:44.000 superpowers of the king and the 20 calcubines trying to get pregnant and then somebody got

00:11:49.280 poisoned and then they bleed i said were you having sex i wasn't having sex i didn't know 0.51

00:11:55.200 as a mom i think buddha put a seed on me so like i'm virgin mary i got pregnant and then someone 0.95

00:11:59.600 poisoned me i'm now i lost a baby i'm sorry mom and you weren't being funny i wasn't she goes you lost

00:12:05.040 the baby did you what i said it's the blood she goes oh you are you have your period what is a 0.99

00:12:10.080 period she goes that means you are a woman now i said doesn't mean that i'm a slut did you ever have 0.99

00:12:16.160 sex with them no of course not i i can't do that and she's a it's nobody poisoning you you are a woman 0.97

00:12:22.480 now yeah look at yourself in the mirror i said yes she goes i always tell you it's not possible for 0.99

00:12:27.760 to look at uglier but there there is possibilities if you touch yourself you will get uglier yeah 0.99

00:12:35.360 everything is possible i don't think you could get any uglier but you could masturbate 1.00

00:12:41.920 oh my god 1.00

00:12:47.920 let's see what else

00:12:51.760 okay guys let's talk about it i feel like it's so weird

00:12:57.760 because growing up i never okay guys let's talk about it i feel like it's so weird because growing

00:13:03.360 up i never realized how my mom used to just lie to me like i remember like when i was younger and 0.99

00:13:08.000 i used to get money from birthday parties or get money from my grandparents or just anything and my

00:13:13.440 mom really used to say like let me hold your money let me put it up for you and keep it in savings

00:13:18.080 now i'm 20 years old and i'm like where the hell that money went like where's my money

00:13:22.320 i just could have sworn i made over at least two thousand dollars from all the money i made

00:13:26.160 up until i was like five i feel like it's like 12. like i could have made a lot of money like where's

00:13:33.600 my money yeah they just take it all right let's see

00:13:41.360 what's the biggest

00:13:45.040 that your parents ever told me i win i win this one so when i was younger like elementary school i would

00:13:50.640 always have this fight every day with this kid and he would argue that i was hispanic and i was

00:13:56.640 getting so mad because i was like my my family is italian and polish that's where i like get tanner

00:14:04.560 skin and he was like i i don't believe you you're hispanic and i fought this kid for probably four

00:14:11.360 years i'm 22 now one year ago one year i was 21 years old i get a dm from this random girl and she's

00:14:19.600 like your father is not your father your sister is not your sister um your dad is blah blah blah

00:14:24.560 your mom met him when she was living in blah blah blah and it was like general information so i was

00:14:27.600 like this is like a trafficking scam like they happen sometimes and i was like whatever not

00:14:31.200 falling for it so i told my dad about it and my family drove up to my college town the next day

00:14:36.240 turns out i am hispanic for 21 years they lied about my biological father wow 0.61

00:14:44.160 holy crap oh my gosh let's see this one she'd win the okay 1.00

00:14:54.400 oscar and remembers exactly how her mother reacted academy when i won the oscar for misery she said i 0.90

00:15:02.240 don't know what all the excitement about you didn't discover the cure for cancer i forgot to thank her that

00:15:07.680 night you know you did think at the end of your speech you think no i did not i did not you go back

00:15:14.640 and look at it i didn't we did go back and look and we showed my my family my friends my mom at home

00:15:21.760 home and my dad who i hope is watching somewhere

00:15:32.160 what do you think of them thank you

00:15:37.840 why did i think i didn't thank her oh what a relief

00:15:40.960 why does that mean so much to you because she should have had my life 0.99

00:15:50.640 when she died i said come into me she'd win the oscar and remember

Pearl - August 15, 2025

Modern Mothers Destroy Their Childs Relationships With Their Father

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