Pearl - August 15, 2025Modern Mothers Destroy Their Childs Relationships With Their Father
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Summary
The myth that mothers possess an inherent protective instinct to shield their children from harm is a patriarchal fabrication that crumbles under scrutiny. In reality, mothers perpetuate the very misogyny that enslaves them, grooming their female children into a lifetime of suffering and subjugation.
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i don't know why but my grandmother felt she needed to tell me that i was a product of incest
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mothers lying to their children so when i um when i first got into
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interviewing victims of divorce grape it actually amazed me um how many children had been lied to
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about their fathers so welcome to another episode of pearl daily fathers are judged harshly in today's
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society and all we hear about is how fathers aren't needed they are deadbeats when they are
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in the house women complain that he doesn't do enough he's like having another child blah blah
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blah this is a smoke screen to keep society from pointing out the shortcomings of mothers starting
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in generation x mothers have gotten worse and worse there are women that put their own interests
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above their community their husbands and their families these women lied and gaslit their way
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through life without caring about the consequences and outcomes of their actions it's only when you
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are an adult that you realize how much your mother lied to you and gaslit you your mother lied about
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who your father was the kind of man he was how much he contributed to the house and the sacrifices he made
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as a father your mother lied to you about her contributions to the family pointing herself as
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some kind of super mom that held the fabric of the universe together your mother lied to you about
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her virtue and her purity she lied to you about her career accomplishments and took credit for things
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she didn't even do these are the type of things that your mother lied about and told you when you
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were young and you believed them it's a good day and a bad day when you figure out how much of a liar
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your mother was it's good because you can finally see her for the horrible person that she is and it's
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bad because your perfect image of her is gone forever you also start to regret some of the things
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you did when you were little because of her lies and you wonder how different your life would have been
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with the information that you had back then so we're going to look at some x posts about this
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the myth the myth that mothers possess an inherent protective instinct to protective instinct to
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shield their children from harm is a patriarchal fabrication a lie that crumbles under scrutiny
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especially when considering the treatment of daughters in reality mothers perpetuate the very
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misogyny that enslaves them grooming their female children into a lifetime of suffering and subjugation
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i asked my own mother about her severe phobia of blood and she recounted her four c-sections in
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excruciating detail she described the complete paralysis she felt after each surgery the lasting
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health problems they caused and the psychological trauma she endured yet despite the this litany of
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horror she concluded with a chilling you will understand all of this when you get pregnant
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mothers are as protector protecting and nurturing as a farmer preparing his life livestock for slaughter
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they ensure that their daughters inherit the same suffering and abuse they endured
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this is not protection it is a transmission of torture to maintain the dominance of men
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is my mom made me believe i'm actually a useless human being because everything i do for her is not
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good enough so i stopped doing anything at all every single day she always reminds me of the stuff i
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didn't do instead of praising me for the stuff i did do i am tired and by the way guys i understand
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there are good mothers this is not the show for that so please do not call in and tell me that wasn't
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your experience this was not the call-in show for you i hate it but we're doing a call-in show about a
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specific topic and they're like well that wasn't my experience like well then why are you here sorry
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thank you gabe gabriel for the two dollar super chat that's why i wanted to impress someone hoping
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they'd recognize my effort i just wish my parents would recognize my effort but they always pressure
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me 24 7 because i'm not doing enough in life they can't use my depression as an excuse i'm just useless
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mothers used to get away with this all the time but now social media is giving sons and daughters
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an outlet to share the lies that their mothers told them this is going to be a call-in show and i want
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you to share what was the worst lie your mother ever told you how did you find out it was a lie and
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what happened when you confronted your mother about the lie hi everybody nanny here somebody asked me
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what was the biggest lie my mother ever told hang on to your hat
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when my mother became pregnant with me she went to my grandmother
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because she hated my grandfather and she wanted him out of the house and
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she thought that would be the way to do it to get him out of the house
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she never told my grandmother the difference my grandmother from that day on hated my grandfather
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but they still lived together because of financial reasons and back then you just didn't get a divorce
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and when i when i turned 15 i think i don't know why but my grandmother felt she needed to tell me that
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and even before i married my husband i told him that you know there could be some abnormal
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and it wasn't until i was in my 30s that my mother confessed that it was all a lie
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she just hated my grandfather and didn't want him in the house anymore because he was
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a drinker and he was drunk a lot and he she did not like him and she he did not always give her her way
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and she didn't realize that my grandmother had told me this
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and that's when she confessed to my grandmother and my sister never to me that it was all a lie
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and for 15 maybe 20 years i felt like i was an anomaly that there was something wrong with me
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what was the biggest lie that your mother told you as a child i have two major lies that my mother
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used to tell us when we were children i know actually one of them is more recently but the
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one we were kids is she used to tell us that she was a good mom and what kind of mom needs to tell her
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children that that's so true good mom unless they're a narcissist so um yeah there's that one
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and we know that's not true now and as an adult this one was very recent actually my mom has decided
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that she does not remember or doesn't want to remember our childhood abuse that's always the
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gaslighting oh i don't remember doing that really how convenient that you don't
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remember all the bad things abuse that she put us in and after many many years of telling her
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she's decided those conversations never happened we are like 99 sure my sister murdered her mother-in-law
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made it look like a self-dilly um so i'm hoping that one day when she passes and sheds that cloak of
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ego and narcissism that we can actually have a healthy decent conversation about what life was like with her
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that your mother told you as a child i was in my 20s my fiancee wanted to postpone our wedding it
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absolutely put me into a tailspin and i was given anxiety medication at the hospital because i had a
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complete emotional breakdown and i had to be transferred to a higher level of care because
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they couldn't take care of me in the facility that i was at and so my fiancee called my mom and asked her
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to please come and see if she could help get me out sooner when i got there my mom told my fiancee to
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go to his motorcycle race and that she would see him on monday i got out of the hospital and my mom told me
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that he did not want me he did not want to get married that he absolutely still wanted to keep
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the wedding called off and took away my phone and moved me back to montana when he came home i was gone
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and i never knew until actually it's been 13 years and i found out last year oh my gosh
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holy there's nobody that lies better than a woman um okay let's see what you grew up
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more conservative and obviously masturbation wasn't something you yeah i was blamed for it
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like i remembered my mom planted a seed for me when i got my first period i got home as a mom
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i think i uh i had a miscarriage were we like 12 yeah because when i was 12 i watched all the chinese
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superpowers of the king and the 20 calcubines trying to get pregnant and then somebody got
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poisoned and then they bleed i said were you having sex i wasn't having sex i didn't know
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as a mom i think buddha put a seed on me so like i'm virgin mary i got pregnant and then someone
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poisoned me i'm now i lost a baby i'm sorry mom and you weren't being funny i wasn't she goes you lost
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the baby did you what i said it's the blood she goes oh you are you have your period what is a
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period she goes that means you are a woman now i said doesn't mean that i'm a slut did you ever have
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sex with them no of course not i i can't do that and she's a it's nobody poisoning you you are a woman
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now yeah look at yourself in the mirror i said yes she goes i always tell you it's not possible for
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to look at uglier but there there is possibilities if you touch yourself you will get uglier yeah
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everything is possible i don't think you could get any uglier but you could masturbate
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okay guys let's talk about it i feel like it's so weird
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because growing up i never okay guys let's talk about it i feel like it's so weird because growing
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up i never realized how my mom used to just lie to me like i remember like when i was younger and
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i used to get money from birthday parties or get money from my grandparents or just anything and my
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mom really used to say like let me hold your money let me put it up for you and keep it in savings
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now i'm 20 years old and i'm like where the hell that money went like where's my money
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i just could have sworn i made over at least two thousand dollars from all the money i made
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up until i was like five i feel like it's like 12. like i could have made a lot of money like where's
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my money yeah they just take it all right let's see
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that your parents ever told me i win i win this one so when i was younger like elementary school i would
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always have this fight every day with this kid and he would argue that i was hispanic and i was
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getting so mad because i was like my my family is italian and polish that's where i like get tanner
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skin and he was like i i don't believe you you're hispanic and i fought this kid for probably four
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years i'm 22 now one year ago one year i was 21 years old i get a dm from this random girl and she's
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like your father is not your father your sister is not your sister um your dad is blah blah blah
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your mom met him when she was living in blah blah blah and it was like general information so i was
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like this is like a trafficking scam like they happen sometimes and i was like whatever not
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falling for it so i told my dad about it and my family drove up to my college town the next day
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turns out i am hispanic for 21 years they lied about my biological father wow
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holy crap oh my gosh let's see this one she'd win the okay
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oscar and remembers exactly how her mother reacted academy when i won the oscar for misery she said i
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don't know what all the excitement about you didn't discover the cure for cancer i forgot to thank her that
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night you know you did think at the end of your speech you think no i did not i did not you go back
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and look at it i didn't we did go back and look and we showed my my family my friends my mom at home
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home and my dad who i hope is watching somewhere
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why did i think i didn't thank her oh what a relief
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why does that mean so much to you because she should have had my life
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when she died i said come into me she'd win the oscar and remember