Pearl - January 25, 2025


Modern Women Hate Being Treated As Equals In A Man's World | Pearl Daily


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00:00:00.000 good afternoon good evening ladies and gentlemen welcome to another episode of pearl daily here
00:00:13.040 on the audacity network i am your host pearl and today we are going to be talking about women
00:00:18.800 getting falsely accused but before we start guys if you want to support the show go to our website
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00:00:31.920 by the end of the year. Unless my YouTube rep is watching, then just disregard that. I have no idea
00:00:37.260 what I'm talking about. Okay, so today we're going to be talking about the trend of women getting
00:00:42.100 falsely accused. Normally when you hear false accusations, you automatically associate them
00:00:48.440 with men. Every day, men get put in jail because of the words and actions of vindictive women.
00:00:55.840 And every so often, the tables turn and women have to face the possibilities of being falsely
00:01:01.620 accused. That's what we are going to talk about on the show today. Back in 2022, Jack Wright accused
00:01:08.360 Sienna May of sexual assault. We are going to go over the case and talk about which side you guys
00:01:15.020 are on. Now, Jack Wright and Sienna Mae Gomez starred on a show called Hype House on Netflix
00:01:21.780 based in LA. It was content creators living together, forging brand partnerships and addressing
00:01:27.860 online haters drama. I mean, we've seen the streamer trend for a couple of years now. Now,
00:01:35.120 two weeks after the show premiered, Jack Wright posted a video detailing the SA allegations he
00:01:42.680 experienced from Sienna May. He accused Sienna of non-consensual touching while he was incapacitated
00:01:49.540 and other inappropriate behaviors. After Wright posted his video, Sienna lost upwards of 300,000
00:01:57.660 followers on TikTok, denting her TikTok following of over 14 million at the time. Sienna made a video
00:02:04.540 weeks later denying the accusations and Netflix chose not to include her on the show because of
00:02:10.160 the allegations. Now Sienna's first response was a long form article on medium.com addressing the
00:02:16.360 entire situation. She wrote, I apologize if there were times where I made you feel uncomfortable.
00:02:22.760 I am sorry if I ever did triggering things and you have experienced or had any feelings of
00:02:29.480 discomfort. But anything I did, I did unknowingly as our physical relationship on camera was of
00:02:36.680 closeness and familiarity that I had known to carry on in our real lives. That said,
00:02:45.140 there was a distinct line between that and sexual assault. I'm so sad that this is where we ended up
00:02:50.600 and even more so that I'm now being used in a new and even more hurtful way. The situation between
00:02:59.500 Sienna Mae and Jack Wright fostered conversations about the backlash survivors receive when coming
00:03:05.780 forward and the darker aspects of teenage internet fame. The back and forth between Sienna May and
00:03:12.100 Jack Wright went on for months and more with more accusations of sexual assault against Sienna being
00:03:18.760 levied against her by other male TikTokers that they were both associated with. Sienna May and
00:03:25.220 her lawyer appeared on the BFF podcast along with a forensic expert and expressed the following,
00:03:30.440 There has been no police report filed. There has been no police investigation.
00:03:35.660 There has been no civil complaint filed. Honestly, at the end of the day, it's all
00:03:41.940 just a video online. Ciena May's lawyers spoke about creators' options moving forward,
00:03:50.320 including suing multiple people for defamation. So we are going to go see the original video
00:03:58.120 that jack wright hosted um but before we do today i have a special guest on the show um
00:04:04.360 our moderator doug mpa is actually here in studio welcome to the show doug hey everyone how are you
00:04:11.560 doing how does it feel to be in person see the show live surreal you know i've been a mod on your
00:04:18.200 channel four years yeah yeah since the beginning and i'm actually here so it's kind of a surreal
00:04:25.880 feeling but well thank you so much for coming um so we're going to get into the video but what are
00:04:32.360 your initial thoughts on the situation um on my channel i always say that um feminism okay
00:04:42.440 the world's never going to be fair for men right so if women want equality they're advocating for
00:04:49.080 life to be just as difficult for women as it is for men so you're going to see more of this happening
00:04:55.480 yeah you know this is what they fought for you know uh do you have any sympathy no you know i
00:05:03.320 want to see more women getting having to pay child support yeah alimony you know getting boxed up by
00:05:09.800 the police you know getting judo throw by police when they shoplift you know yeah i want to see
00:05:16.120 you know this is going to have to happen enough to women for them to want change in the laws
00:05:21.480 yeah because there's no benefit of the doubt given to men and it was interesting because when this
00:05:26.520 went down um i was on tick tock at the time that's where i started and i remember i remember just
00:05:35.160 thinking it was kind of bs to me at the time but no one gave her the benefit of the doubt no one
00:05:42.040 else had that thought the public opinion was completely on the guy's side which is so rare
00:05:47.400 that never happens but when we see what he looked like yeah yeah this guy is like super Chad yeah
00:05:54.640 here let's go to three minutes um I was thinking the only other man where the public opinion went
00:06:01.640 on his side and it wasn't even immediately but Johnny Depp where the public and I know it's
00:06:07.980 still mixed but the public is more on his side than normal right no no no no at the time when
00:06:14.460 she wrote that op-ed that was literally you know in the m2 thing so no one really get i mean the
00:06:21.040 people closest to him and maybe some men did but the general public sentiment was against him at
00:06:25.840 the time yeah well i'm saying now because now yeah because now like it's a little bit different
00:06:32.300 than five years ago and he's one of the men i've seen being at least retrospectively given the
00:06:39.400 benefit of the doubt and that was almost unheard of like five years ago i can see that yeah and
00:06:44.420 And I only really would argue that he got that because he's a good looking guy.
00:06:50.240 Yeah.
00:06:51.240 He's a Hollywood heartthrob and he's never really had any negative allegations or anything
00:06:59.360 against him historically.
00:07:00.360 Yeah.
00:07:01.360 Okay.
00:07:02.360 We're going to play the video.
00:07:07.220 I think his video was one of the reasons why I was okay and was able to not come out with
00:07:17.160 like an aggressive statement like her.
00:07:19.820 I was able just to, I knew the truth.
00:07:22.860 I knew what she did to me.
00:07:24.460 Sienna and I met four years ago in high school.
00:07:27.420 She was dating my good friend and basically it did not turn out well.
00:07:33.600 cheated on him two times and it kind of like created this whole problem in our friend group
00:07:39.680 i'm the type of guy that's all for like mind you they were both 18 at the time when this happened
00:07:46.720 two years ago so they're both in their 20s now so everything he's talking about all this
00:07:51.200 foolishness was like when they were in high school yeah crazy yeah second chances of people
00:07:57.040 and i i always try to see the good in people i was in the hype house i was going back and
00:08:01.440 for from LA and Sienna had just gone viral on a couple videos. She reached out
00:08:08.200 to me and basically asked if I want to do an interview with her in LA and I said
00:08:13.920 of course. We hung out, reconnected. I showed her around the Hype House,
00:08:19.380 introduced her to all my friends and I was happy for her and we just had fun
00:08:25.500 hanging out. I just want to clarify that we both knew that we're just friends. She
00:08:31.260 She was singing and talking to other guys in LA all the time and I just thought of her
00:08:38.380 as a good friend.
00:08:39.380 We were making videos, we were making dance trends, we had fun.
00:08:42.760 It was just strictly friends and we both knew that.
00:08:45.220 At this point nothing inappropriate was happening between us.
00:08:48.620 We were just friends, everything was fine.
00:08:51.080 This next part of the video is very difficult for me to talk about.
00:08:54.660 I've been wanting to talk about it for a long time.
00:08:57.880 So the first incident where Sienna crossed boundaries,
00:09:01.440 it was after filming, we went into the room,
00:09:05.720 I was just chilling on my phone on the bed
00:09:07.800 and she got naked, like completely naked, nothing on,
00:09:12.440 and straddled me when I was literally
00:09:15.380 just chilling on the bed.
00:09:16.700 But I didn't know what to do in like the situation
00:09:19.080 because it was just like random and weird.
00:09:21.700 Quickly told her to Sienna.
00:09:23.680 It's the first time I've ever heard a guy complain
00:09:25.840 a woman getting naked in front of him i've never heard that as a complaint in my life
00:09:35.040 so i'm gonna especially like not like she's not ugly you know what i mean like she's a good
00:09:39.040 looking girl but you know but also maybe i don't know if he was this smart but you know if you're
00:09:45.920 working with a girl and your your industry is social media yeah you have to keep those lines
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00:09:56.880 something going with her then she gets scorned and then she rips everything you know then she
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00:11:39.420 discount code get off we're just friends stop they're trying to make out with me
00:11:46.100 you're like just doing a bunch of things to me and I was I kept on saying Sienna
00:11:51.980 stop get off I like I didn't want to like be like aggressive I don't want to
00:11:56.240 hurt her you know so I pulled her off of me and it took like a couple tries
00:12:01.500 because I want to be like too rough and I went out of the room and that was like
00:12:08.520 the end of it the next morning where she was like i'm so sorry for doing that that was i don't know
00:12:16.440 what went through my head i had to clarify again that i didn't like her that way we were just
00:12:21.000 friends she said sorry that was it after that these type of things kept happening she would
00:12:26.920 do something and i would forget okay but it's like why do you keep it's the same
00:12:32.840 question i ask the women why do you keep going back if she's assaulting you all the time
00:12:38.520 I don't know. Do you believe him? What do you think?
00:12:45.520 I think that, I'm going to stick with what I said originally. I think he had a responsibility
00:12:55.400 to keep her off. I don't think that, I think if they weren't in a social media thing, it
00:13:03.760 would have been just normal stuff, but I think he had a greater, so I think that she did
00:13:07.340 come on to him, because before the show I watched some of the old TikToks and stuff,
00:13:12.560 and she looked like she was more interested in him.
00:13:16.100 She did a TikTok called I Love Jack Wright, like straight up, you know what I'm saying?
00:13:20.680 But I think he just wanted to hold the line and say, I can't, because I mean, especially
00:13:24.840 with a track record.
00:13:26.000 So I think that she did something, and I don't think it was inappropriate, but he had to
00:13:32.620 hold the line, the whole, them working together and stuff.
00:13:37.340 And they're technically co-workers in a house on a show, so that could be...
00:13:40.600 Oh, I see.
00:13:42.360 ...give her, and she said it wouldn't happen again, and we'd go on and make some fun videos.
00:13:47.480 After all those type of things kept on happening, the Hawaii incident happened where I was passed out unconscious almost like the whole night.
00:13:56.600 She got on top of me, took advantage of me, grossed me.
00:13:59.740 I'm so glad they pulled her off of me, and honestly, I'm glad that they have evidence.
00:14:05.580 after Sienna found out about the video she said sorry she said if this got out
00:14:10.680 she would be done that it's horrible and she's working on boundaries and she was
00:14:16.080 seeking therapy. I want to say one thing I there have been an influx of female
00:14:26.040 teachers you know yeah essaying young male students right and I hate when guys
00:14:32.100 are like whoa oh she was hot so uh no miners are are victims under the law yeah and and because
00:14:40.660 and that could extend further out women the if this would have been a man and these allegations
00:14:48.980 were he was cut so yeah he like men have to be able to do the same thing like use the same tools
00:14:56.500 that women use it is fair play now guys this whole thing of men having to hold the
00:15:00.900 Oh, the higher ground?
00:15:02.900 No.
00:15:03.660 No.
00:15:05.540 If a woman assaults you, press charges, guys.
00:15:07.820 Press charges.
00:15:09.860 Don't let these women get away with anything.
00:15:12.660 So the only way they're going to learn is if this happens to enough women.
00:15:15.360 Yeah.
00:15:16.500 The website.
00:15:17.460 By the way, guys, if you want your comment read, you go to the live chat on the website,
00:15:21.740 and then I do read them.
00:15:22.840 Craig says, Pearl's been funny lately.
00:15:24.580 Keep it up.
00:15:25.160 Thank you, Craig.
00:15:26.160 Johnny says, Pearl, no one ever wants to mention the lower rate that women pay for life insurance.
00:15:30.320 can i identify as a female and buy insurance at that rate not equality but by any means equality
00:15:37.360 is impossible in this society in moby dick a preacher gives a sermon that includes this pearl
00:15:42.880 jonah did the almighty's bidding and what was that shipmates to preach the truth in the face
00:15:47.840 of falsehood that was it it's what you do never stop thank you johnny and shortly after there was
00:15:54.400 a party i was taking pictures with a couple other girls we took a picture sienna came in started
00:15:59.280 screaming at me, got mad at the girls, told me to come to a room to talk to me.
00:16:05.120 She started screaming at me and I was like, Sienna, there's no reason for you to be mad when
00:16:11.760 you're getting with other guys in LA. I can't just take a simple picture with a couple girls.
00:16:18.960 That's when she pulled me in and grabbed me and tried to make out with me and I got pissed and
00:16:27.440 told her to leave I want to stay at the party and she kind of had already been
00:16:32.260 yelling at every single person in the party so two friends wanted to take her
00:16:36.740 home and while the car was moving she jumped out of the car for old and said I
00:16:43.280 have to get back to Jack so ran back to the house and I was like hiding from her
00:16:47.660 and I was just waiting for her parents to finally pick her up looking back now I
00:16:52.580 I don't know why I stayed friends with her, stayed around her.
00:16:56.620 I truly thought she was going to change for some reason.
00:16:59.540 I feel like she'd say she'd have so much love for me and she truly cared for me, and then
00:17:05.520 the next night she would do something like that.
00:17:07.980 She knew I had those boundaries, so when I was at my most vulnerable state, like when
00:17:14.840 I was arguing, getting heated, or when I was asleep or passed out, that's when she would
00:17:20.740 She'd take advantage of me because she knew I was in my most vulnerable state.
00:17:25.780 When I'm awake, I hated it.
00:17:27.060 I hated that touch.
00:17:28.140 I hated any intimacy with her because I knew we were just friends.
00:17:32.100 I didn't want that from her, especially with the past couple of things she did.
00:17:40.960 I didn't want anything to do with that.
00:17:43.060 Over the next couple of months, I was stuck in this toxic cycle.
00:17:45.860 was stuck with her crying to all my friends saying that i didn't like her back and why don't i like
00:17:52.100 her back and see right these these social media women guys you gotta avoid women where their
00:17:59.780 industry is content yeah they're the craziest ones uh well minus pearl pearl it's okay
00:18:09.140 i've seen a lot i agree yeah you're saying right so i've seen a lot oh my god i've seen women leave
00:18:15.220 their families for social media yeah who's that one girl that just um she does the interviews
00:18:21.940 with celebrities the white girl bobby alta yeah who smashes all the rappers now
00:18:28.580 isn't she like late 30s and she had two kids and she walked away from her no she i mean she was
00:18:33.380 young okay she was like 26 but she still had two kids and she left her husband to freaking get dug
00:18:39.380 out by a bunch of rappers drake yeah yeah me for not caring about her as much as she
00:18:46.420 she cared about for me but she'd also be doing these things to me and would go see other guys
00:18:54.180 in la so it was like when at all i couldn't get out of this she would constantly come to my house
00:19:00.900 remember my door codes it like it got to the point where i'd like start screaming at her
00:19:04.740 to like get out of my house
00:19:06.600 because I was so sick of her just like
00:19:08.020 breaking into my house.
00:19:09.800 I would wake up and see her car
00:19:11.840 just sitting outside at like 2 in the morning.
00:19:14.940 She would break into my house
00:19:16.120 and when I was sound asleep
00:19:17.900 she'd come into my room
00:19:18.940 and I'd wake up to her hand in my pants
00:19:22.740 and it wasn't like the only time it happened to.
00:19:27.640 I'm sorry.
00:19:28.460 I don't believe him.
00:19:29.680 I know.
00:19:30.240 I know you're saying like
00:19:31.660 press the charges against the women that do stuff.
00:19:35.540 i don't believe the women either though i don't believe anybody like
00:19:41.060 like if she was harassing you then stop being around her the same i'd say the same thing to
00:19:46.340 the women that claim they were abused and blah blah blah but you're with him for three years
00:19:50.580 get out of here so okay a guy like this do you think because a lot of women okay women have beta
00:19:57.700 male orbiters yeah because they like the attention right yeah do you think it goes for guys like him
00:20:03.060 too where yeah they're addicted to the attention and and the reason why they don't cut the woman
00:20:08.260 off is because they know that the woman likes him and and he just wants that yeah no totally
00:20:14.660 but like i i think it's your responsibility like if somebody is true like if somebody's
00:20:20.500 treating you a certain way and you don't like it but you keep signing up i'm like why are you
00:20:26.500 like it makes me think it maybe wasn't as bad as you're saying if you signed up for two years
00:20:33.180 and i think the same with women when they say they were like abused but you were with him for
00:20:38.400 like five years yeah or they were in toxic relationships yeah for like seven and a half
00:20:44.300 years are you serious or it's like was were you doing anything like to make her think that maybe
00:20:50.300 it was more i i don't know like but i i say the same thing to women you know i don't know
00:20:56.500 I was so like used to it. I was so used to it that it, I don't know, it was just like normal for me that I didn't think there was such like a problem at all.
00:21:09.740 like part of me wants to blame myself for being nice and sticking around after so many so many
00:21:16.500 times but now i realize that i was stuck in this like manipulative cycle of her acting like she
00:21:24.580 extremely cared about me and then that night she would do stuff to me and it was just so normal
00:21:30.380 for me i got used to it which sucks i feel what parts of this do i believe i do believe she was
00:21:37.040 hitting on him I do believe that I do think he's over exaggerating I think it's gonna go both ways
00:21:48.280 I don't know maybe I'm maybe I'm a fence sitter today just real quick so how because these people
00:21:53.540 all have a team around them yeah right I wonder how the conversation went before he uploaded this
00:22:00.800 video because he he had handlers like kind of directing him on what to say yeah and then like
00:22:08.100 the timing of it what what do you think motivated him to put this video out well in her video she
00:22:17.060 like she said that it was um she wanted to stop making videos with him that's what she said oh
00:22:25.300 so yeah that's what she said in her video you didn't see it like she said that she wanted to
00:22:30.300 stopped making videos with him because it was too like confusing for her and she just like liked him
00:22:36.480 and like if you don't want to date I'm like I'm done and I think she was going to make a video
00:22:42.600 right and I think saying that they're not going to do content together anymore yeah but I think
00:22:47.300 he maybe was scared that she would claim some of the things he's claiming and so maybe he hit the
00:22:54.780 ground running because when a girl's making a video even if she says it's not going to be mean
00:22:58.720 about you you don't know yeah women are so vindictive so he's like oh she's making a video
00:23:03.920 about me she has the power to ruin my career if she wants yeah because women will air you out
00:23:09.600 yeah let me ruin hers first yeah and you guys remember um women will make a result or say a
00:23:17.840 result so they'll say something happened leaving other women or the court of public of the court of
00:23:25.840 public opinion to try to figure out a cause yeah so she could have said oh we're not doing content
00:23:32.560 together anymore because something's happened between us it's like oh man they're automatically
00:23:37.440 gonna assume that something bad yeah or if a man if a man if a man said it they would just be like
00:23:42.080 okay yeah i feel like no one should have to go through it's real i almost feel like i owed so
00:23:49.840 real quick so do you think that him preemptively putting out this video was a good thing or a bad
00:23:53.920 think at the time good I mean look at this shit this got 23 million views even her response got
00:24:03.020 two million back I mean it's kind of backfiring a little bit now but I don't because here's what
00:24:11.360 I think I think they probably flirted with each other she probably took it too far unfortunately
00:24:19.160 like i kind of think most of those laws are bullshit but they are the laws so i don't know
00:24:27.160 like i think they both probably could have said essay because of how broad that term is
00:24:34.380 does that make sense yeah like that term is so broad that if either of them wanted to they
00:24:39.560 probably had something yeah like if she went if she went to the internet first she could have like
00:24:45.480 because their relationship was so flirty i'm sure there was something and also remember people
00:24:52.360 always remember the first version of the story first yeah and then she's been on defense this
00:24:58.280 entire time which is why there are other people in the space the webbill space let's say if your
00:25:04.180 wife says anything about divorce you know go to the um call for joint custody or you should file
00:25:11.860 first yeah makes sense yeah owed it to her for some reason how could she say essay well
00:25:20.900 i mean there's tons of video like the thing is there's so many videos of them together i am sure
00:25:27.780 there is one out there that exists where she could say it wasn't consensual like the same way blake
00:25:34.260 lively made up a whole thing saying it was not consensual at first the entire internet was on
00:25:39.860 her side but now the tables are turning women can't really do that the way that they used to
00:25:46.340 so i don't know why like i felt like
00:25:50.660 she had this like control like this power over me it was all i don't know i was like i was like stuck
00:26:00.100 um and i feel like you should never have to like worry about like falling asleep and waking up
00:26:08.180 up to one of your good friends, like, touching you, you know?
00:26:13.980 I was, like, terrified for some reason, which you should be
00:26:16.460 from, like, a person.
00:26:20.300 One night, she started ripping off my clothes,
00:26:22.460 touching my crotch area, trying to make out with me.
00:26:26.660 I mean, it was just, like, same old, same old.
00:26:28.800 And I'd say, Sienna, stop, Sienna, stop, go back to the
00:26:31.780 couch, Sienna, stop.
00:26:33.200 So I, like, locked the door.
00:26:35.440 She was trying to get in and I literally just slept
00:26:38.640 on the floor and she finally went to bed.
00:26:41.100 It's like very awkward the next morning
00:26:43.860 and she'll say sorry and I'm like,
00:26:46.420 Sienna, this happens so many times.
00:26:49.440 Like, you do not respect boundaries.
00:26:52.960 You just, oh my God.
00:26:55.460 So my dad was born and raised in Hawaii.
00:26:57.760 So we planned a trip to the beach house
00:27:00.880 my dad grew up on in Hawaii.
00:27:03.140 And Sienna's family basically planned the same trip
00:27:08.060 on the same dates.
00:27:09.740 They left a couple days before us
00:27:12.080 and we were supposed to leave on a certain date.
00:27:14.480 But I didn't wanna leave because she already left
00:27:18.220 to go back home and I did not wanna be at home with her
00:27:21.880 because I know she'd find a way
00:27:23.960 to start hanging out with me again.
00:27:26.540 So my mom got a text from Sienna's mom saying
00:27:29.700 that Sienna is on a plane taxiing right now.
00:27:32.420 Hearing that she was coming back, it was like,
00:27:35.340 this cycle is never gonna end.
00:27:37.740 It's gonna be like this forever.
00:27:40.000 That's what it felt like.
00:27:42.200 She was always gonna make her way back towards me.
00:27:45.440 She wasn't respecting my space at all.
00:27:47.900 She knew I wanted my space.
00:27:50.120 There's another time I went to Hawaii
00:27:52.280 with a couple friends for my trip,
00:27:54.700 and she kinda found a way to get on that trip.
00:27:59.660 and we went to a party one night.
00:28:02.860 She got mad that I was talking to some girls
00:28:05.120 and she took me into the bathroom to talk to me,
00:28:09.960 saying that she wanted to leave.
00:28:11.880 She was blocking the door,
00:28:12.840 so I couldn't just throw her out of the way.
00:28:15.720 All I had was stop saying, don't do that.
00:28:18.300 If I come out, she'd scream at me in front of everyone
00:28:22.020 and think that I did something.
00:28:24.100 I mean, I feel like no one believes a male,
00:28:27.180 especially in that type of situation.
00:28:29.220 But yeah, she was on the counter and wrapped her legs around me
00:28:33.200 and sort of, like, let me out of the bathroom.
00:28:35.460 Yeah, just weird stuff.
00:28:37.280 That night, we went home, made sure we had, like, different rooms to stay in.
00:28:40.860 And I got in the shower, and she picked the lock of my door.
00:28:45.640 I made sure to lock the doors, but she picked the lock and walked in.
00:28:51.480 I was in the shower.
00:28:53.020 All I heard was just, like, the door opening.
00:28:56.100 What, Doug?
00:29:00.100 okay what do you believe any of this pearl any at all because i mean maybe some of it maybe i
00:29:06.980 would say i would say it's half true but over exaggerated that's what i would guess i always
00:29:12.900 say look look at things at like a 30 validity rate and see how crazy it sounds it's starting
00:29:18.660 to get to the point where even at 30 this is sounding kind of crazy okay that's when i was
00:29:24.020 I screamed at her, told her to get out, she started crying, she went and slept in my bed
00:29:31.020 and I went to my friend's trundle bed that was upstairs and that's how the night ended.
00:29:39.020 So now we're caught up to when everything went public, when Mason posted his tweet.
00:29:44.020 Since everything was brought to social media, multiple guys came out to me and said that Sienna did similar things to them
00:29:51.020 and
00:29:52.300 to a point
00:29:56.020 she made me really uncomfortable
00:29:58.500 I was drunk sleeping on a couch
00:30:00.440 and woke up to the homies saying
00:30:02.460 what the F because she just got
00:30:04.100 on top of me and was kissing my neck
00:30:06.720 I don't want this to go
00:30:08.580 anywhere but I want to tell you Sienna Lowkey
00:30:10.640 essayed me when I was hella drunk
00:30:12.580 and I was talking to a different girl
00:30:14.300 probably six months ago
00:30:15.780 Sienna Lowkey did the same thing to me at a party
00:30:18.800 that was my house
00:30:19.920 that my house was throwing jack was there i was drunk but and so was she but i was talking to her
00:30:28.220 and she grabbed my face and started to make out with me and i was trying to push her off but i
00:30:33.080 never told her i wanted to kiss her or anything i was so uncomfortable this was before they were
00:30:39.320 even a thing okay i don't want to make it public basically i'll show the text right now i asked all
00:30:47.900 for permission to post crossed out all their names we don't want her to hurt anybody else
00:30:53.020 we don't want anyone to go through that experience at the time it feels humiliating
00:30:58.940 you feel like you have no power you have no no control in the situation you just you feel
00:31:07.740 it's just it's horrible i just want to start off by saying that okay so that's his side of the story
00:31:15.980 How much do you believe?
00:31:18.980 Well, you know, my starting point is, you know, I want to see more women accused.
00:31:24.640 So, guys, mount up, man.
00:31:28.600 So, I'm automatically going to take a side because I think more women need to be made an example of.
00:31:35.640 But I just think that he enjoyed the attention.
00:31:42.220 I think that if he wasn't a super Chad, any regular guy would have liked to have gotten
00:31:48.380 the amount of attention he got from that kind of woman.
00:31:52.060 But then also, she's like, so I believe that something happened.
00:31:57.020 She's pretty, probably has gotten away with most things most of her life.
00:32:01.300 And then she, or has probably gotten most men that she wanted.
00:32:04.660 Then this guy, Jack, right, she likes him and he keeps saying no.
00:32:08.680 And she probably did the whole thing where if I just keep trying harder and harder.
00:32:11.320 So yes, I do think something happened.
00:32:14.620 OK.
00:32:15.080 So after this, she made a video titled,
00:32:21.440 I hope they cancel me.
00:32:23.320 So just real quick.
00:32:24.400 So she didn't come out with a video to address this.
00:32:28.260 She wrote a long form article on medium.com
00:32:31.660 that put the whole thing out.
00:32:33.080 But while I'm pretty sure she went to her handlers,
00:32:37.180 but while they're writing that, she put this video out.
00:32:41.320 I hope you cancel me
00:32:47.120 So I can go be with my family
00:32:49.740 So I can quit wearing this mask, dawg
00:32:53.320 Telling people kiss my ass, dawg
00:32:57.320 I hope you crucify me
00:32:58.740 I hope you put me down
00:33:00.080 I hope you euthanize me
00:33:01.600 I hope I never ever have to go on TV
00:33:04.240 Motherfucker Jimmy Kimmel does not want to meet me
00:33:07.260 I told my manager
00:33:08.620 No more parties in Los Angeles
00:33:10.940 and so right now my job is to lie down i hope you cancel me why so i can go be with my family
00:33:18.940 so i could wear this mask though
00:33:24.060 of the music yeah that's okay what what i mean
00:33:35.820 yeah so then um
00:33:40.940 her youtube channel starts losing a bunch of subscribers
00:33:47.040 her um same with tick tock she didn't post for three years so let's see her most popular before
00:33:57.140 this was 1.2 million views and then before this she was getting like 29k a video so that's a
00:34:08.060 really steep drop off 70k three years ago okay then you got tick tock same thing so she's getting
00:34:16.820 real canceled on this she like loses um trying to go before all this happened
00:34:25.400 like half a million okay
00:34:28.940 okay now here's sienna's and her lawyer at the time girls welcome to the bffs youtube channel
00:34:39.580 make sure you guys tap the bell subscribe vehemently deny and it's been an ongoing
00:34:43.800 people love me people hate me everything this look is unusual i'm going to say that right
00:34:50.080 off the bat because like having your lawyer and i love forensic guy is weird he's a little bit
00:34:55.100 a super simp but i do love him just so you know dave portnoy he had false allegations against him
00:35:00.700 oh really he had to beat yeah and uh i don't know the story i just saw that you know one of the
00:35:05.900 reasons why he wanted to platform her was because he had to he had to face false accusations so
00:35:12.300 that's why they had her on the show never done that but it's your choice but i do i came i came
00:35:17.500 in and i was like holy am i in the right zoom room what is going on i feel you
00:35:25.420 so is this your choice or their choice to be like we want to be on the call with you
00:35:29.340 it's a little intimidating i feel you but no i just i want to talk about my emotional state
00:35:35.820 and like i feel like what i want to touch on is like how i'm doing and like like the emotional
00:35:40.620 questions that i know you guys are going to ask but as for like take a shot whenever she says
00:35:44.380 like guys take your shot whenever she says like so yeah she wants to go over her feelings not the
00:35:52.700 facts of the case and like the so what's going on questions that's for them to answer because like
00:36:00.460 i don't want to i'm i'm trying to i don't want to butcher anything this is all like now it's
00:36:05.260 serious you know like social media yeah along those lines then is there some sort of official
00:36:12.220 legal proceeding going on right now so i'm going to take that hi everyone um thanks for having me on
00:36:20.700 no and that's really not really the point um there has been no police report filed
00:36:27.820 there has been no police investigation there's been no civil complaint filed there has been
00:36:33.180 absolutely but for men nobody cares if there's no case so can we can we talk about that real quick
00:36:39.820 yeah so remember this is the court of public opinion yeah where men get crucified all the time
00:36:48.380 lose everything okay and this lawyer on multiple interviews and multiple made sure to emphasize
00:36:56.700 no civil charges no criminal charges no nothing but this is the court of public opinion yeah
00:37:04.540 you don't need a criminal case to get canceled and this cost her a lot as it you know as it
00:37:11.940 so you know you can't control what happens in the court public opinion she had to find that
00:37:17.720 out the hard way yeah and she was getting like hundred thousand dollar brand deals before this
00:37:22.940 like the at the rate she was at she was probably making a hundred thousand dollars per post
00:37:28.120 at how famous she was before and so it's like you don't get internet money and you don't
00:37:34.260 like and not get what comes with internet money like people always complain about being cancelled
00:37:40.580 when you get to make money on the internet like it's a it's a privilege most people don't get it
00:37:45.940 it's like celebrities that complain about being famous don't make famous money then you know what
00:37:52.100 i mean go lay concrete instead of getting making money on the internet how about that yeah nothing
00:37:59.780 by way of an investigation or any kind of legal proceedings file honestly at the end of the day
00:38:05.380 this is all just a video online right so then though but then that begs the question
00:38:10.820 if there hasn't been a legal issue like why are you here she can't like there's nothing going on
00:38:16.180 she could theoretically answer for herself because obviously there have been allegations made right
00:38:22.420 obviously there have been legal allegations made and at this point after so long of just going back
00:38:29.060 and forth online and it's all just social media talking back and forth it's time to actually bring
00:38:34.340 in some professionals who are going to talk about what's really real and what's real is that there's
00:38:39.860 nothing out there okay i personally again as somebody i think this almost makes it seem like
00:38:46.100 something's real by involving legal when there is no legal but that's just my take like i i always
00:38:52.340 think it's better to hear from the horse's mouth like i get i always get when someone says i can't
00:38:59.460 speak on it there's a legal proceeding going on it'll be used in court but there isn't we're not
00:39:03.220 there so that's my personal off the jump with this i totally understand what you're saying
00:39:09.940 yes but i think that with how like blown out of proportion this has all got it's now like to the
00:39:18.100 point where i just like can't even like deal with this stuff anymore like it's literally just me
00:39:24.580 kind of like focusing on my emotional state and then as everyone's like what's gonna happen next
00:39:30.340 like oh she's 18 now i turned 18 like a month ago she's 18 now like is something gonna happen like
00:39:37.220 i just kind of like all right i'm gonna let my team like just talk about this one and kind of
00:39:42.660 of like take this one because it's just like not even worth it for me to you know yeah and and
00:39:49.460 obviously josh brie feel free i i do think in a situation like this and i'm not and i've watched
00:39:58.420 everything i've seen everything and and we've said in the beginning what we felt and i think
00:40:02.900 we got crucified i tended to be i i looked at it on my side it's like just a little well and it
00:40:09.060 it wasn't even necessarily like because we'd met or spoken I was just no I don't think it was like
00:40:14.720 a favor or anything yeah it was like if my girlfriend did that in a second I would never
00:40:18.680 it's a nothing issue to me like if I'm sitting there my girlfriend climbs on me now there's
00:40:23.620 been all dispute on where this is going back I will say the seriousness of these allegations
00:40:28.960 both ways I think it's kind of disgusting that it's being played out on social media when it's
00:40:34.640 getting that serious because those are serious things and nobody knows what's right and wrong
00:40:38.240 like you said there's there's nothing but when women do it they're not crucified for it yeah
00:40:43.000 and they play out on social media he says that it's disgusting he never would have said that
00:40:47.660 about a man yeah filed so but it has gotten to this point and he laid this is fast forward three
00:40:54.860 years later but he was the one who crucified zach bryan and let that completely play out i don't
00:41:00.980 know if you saw the episode but one of the girls that's on the show later dated a country superstar
00:41:06.720 and on the way out said that he emotionally abused her some bullshit and dave completely
00:41:13.260 simped and like put her on and did a whole episode about how he was abusive and none of them liked him
00:41:18.680 yeah and that's i said i really do like dave but he is a super simp sometimes sometimes he simps
00:41:26.100 even this interview is very unlike bff so we want to treat it delicately yeah um well especially
00:41:32.520 because i feel like i feel like when you just keep bringing this uh attention kind of to the
00:41:36.480 not you necessarily saying i just mean like when people keep bringing the attention to the situation
00:41:40.240 it's just gotta up to people's mental health like you and jack can't be in the greatest
00:41:46.080 mental health place when it's like this stuff is just constantly being brought online and just
00:41:50.480 being talked about and then everyone's giving their opinions on you and what you should do and
00:41:53.920 how you should live your life kind of yeah no for sure like if i'm being totally honest i literally
00:42:00.400 haven't been on my phone the past month like i know that there's been like thousands of like
00:42:07.280 youtube videos tick tock videos about me and just who people think i am and just talking about like
00:42:14.480 just my character and i haven't seen anything and i just know that there's like i don't know i just
00:42:21.680 yeah it's like i i obviously am not doing you know 100 because how could you be when
00:42:30.800 this is a terrible look for her
00:42:34.560 this is she shouldn't have gone on this show well because the thing about it is is men when
00:42:40.480 they have an allegation against them it's a different kind of shock like i'm not saying
00:42:47.040 like not that she's saying like um this is genuine shock where she didn't think this was going to
00:42:53.360 happen men if so many men have been falsely accused that they're shocked at having to figure out how
00:43:01.440 to handle it but she's shocked that this is even happening to her yeah so this is a whole different
00:43:06.480 look on her face and she's just and she doesn't know like men know that their words will be used
00:43:12.240 against them so they shut up yeah yeah and that's the that's the thing because
00:43:19.440 she now is trying to figure out how to talk without having it used against her and she
00:43:24.000 can't figure it out but her biggest hurdle in this and yeah i don't you know is how does she
00:43:30.720 tell her truth yeah while not saying anything incriminating you know yeah when when in in
00:43:38.640 cases of false accusations everything could be used against you yeah there's like just so much
00:43:44.800 hatred you know and like literally just so much cyber bullying um yeah on both parts i could
00:43:50.160 totally you know i got no sympathy for people on the internet who get cyber bullied even myself
00:43:55.920 you know it's just like we we asked to be here nobody's putting a gun to your head and making
00:44:00.960 you come on the internet if you go on the internet you're gonna get hit pieces you're gonna get
00:44:05.840 cyber bullied either deal with it or don't like you don't get to make internet money without the
00:44:12.320 cost of internet money you don't you do not get both you get either the internet money
00:44:18.000 and no criticism in your day-to-day life nobody looking at your personal life or you get the
00:44:24.000 internet money it's one or the other you don't get both do you think do you think like bringing
00:44:28.240 it do you think you bring in the lawyer team and everything do you think that's going to bring more
00:44:31.840 attention to the situation or do you think that's to like kind of quiet people down or it's gonna
00:44:36.560 quiet people down i i think it is gonna quiet people down because it's just like i literally
00:44:40.480 have my lawyer sitting right here next to me telling telling you guys and whoever's gonna
00:44:46.800 see this now that there's nothing being done like you can't just like you can't just like
00:44:55.280 claim with no credible proof because yeah you guys have never had yeah you can
00:45:01.840 See, there's a shock and awe right there.
00:45:04.160 She's literally in shock that this person
00:45:06.520 said these things about her.
00:45:07.740 And the reason why she has her legal team there
00:45:09.700 is because she's getting hit in her pocketbook.
00:45:12.940 That's why.
00:45:13.940 I guarantee you, after this, all the money she shut off.
00:45:17.260 Yeah, she was cooked.
00:45:18.220 So she's wondering, why am I having to pay for this
00:45:21.440 when it's just words?
00:45:24.120 How many men have had to suffer through this?
00:45:26.600 Men lose their whole careers.
00:45:28.480 Yep.
00:45:29.740 Probably never had, or very few, I don't even know, had people being accused of like an actual crime, like an actual.
00:45:37.800 I actually have been in a very similar in which there's no, there's no, I'm actually reverse.
00:45:44.300 Like if people follow me, I'm actually suing.
00:45:47.460 Like it's very unusual because I've been accused of things usually.
00:45:50.680 And it's so untrue that I am now suing the people saying it.
00:45:54.380 There is, I'm the one who initiated.
00:45:56.260 So I get it.
00:45:57.120 I totally get that.
00:45:57.920 i don't know that the and i was trying to prove a point so i get the lawyer i read through all and
00:46:03.040 we'll get to all this stuff a lot of it seemed like things you already said but even backing up
00:46:06.960 because i haven't heard you say it what the the strangest part of this to me i guess is like you
00:46:16.240 and jack like when you were on with us you guys seemed like two peas in a pod the original it
00:46:21.040 seemed like you guys were like dating and everything had like a relationship going so what
00:46:25.520 like do you have if you look back on this are you at any point like oh I should have seen a red flag
00:46:32.840 there there that something was off with this relationship or are you totally caught off guard
00:46:38.060 and were you guys actually dating or never actually dating no so we never actually dated
00:46:43.480 um and was I sorry you asked if I was like it was like it obviously I don't my guess is you
00:46:52.020 didn't see this coming so when you look back were you like maybe i should have seen a red flag in
00:46:56.380 this relationship somewhere that alerted that something was drastically off between you two
00:47:00.900 when all this dropped on back in 2021 whatever i was literally in shock like i was literally
00:47:09.980 so just surprised that like what what was being said because it came from from nowhere in in my
00:47:19.400 opinion i was like this this is literally just pulled out of thin air um and how many men feel
00:47:26.420 like that yep and once again we have to assume that everyone's going to believe the woman and
00:47:32.420 figure out how to do damage control yeah um chat pearl reed love you pearl you need guests you are
00:47:39.940 a fantastic debater johnny says history is reminiscent of jody arias you know who that is
00:47:47.080 and travis alexander jody rice jody was not going away quietly who's that there was a
00:47:53.720 case involving jody arise i don't know the whole thing but it was a case like a couple years ago
00:47:58.280 okay pearl once pandora's box is opened the hunger will never die hazel another round of
00:48:04.680 guys with no balls what a shocker can't wait for the next soy boy to come forward and wine
00:48:09.880 kyle all i know is in a certain predict is in this certain predict predicament is that it's
00:48:18.100 a simp that fails to realize his mistakes and a woman who who is a straight-up whore who cannot
00:48:23.520 see she might as well open up an only fans do you guys find her attractive can you put a poll
00:48:30.860 poll in the chat if you find her attractive and it was put would or would it it was literally
00:48:37.600 just as shocking to me as it was to everybody else on the internet what was your initial reaction
00:48:44.320 jody arise is a woman who was convicted of deleting her ex-boyfriend travis at alexander
00:48:50.480 2013 so i guess she took him out while he was in the shower oh yeah oh she was convicted of first
00:48:57.920 degree oh wow and got like got life in prison without parole tell you guys women they're
00:49:05.280 advocating for life to be just as unfair so you're gonna see more women getting worse prison
00:49:09.600 sentences getting all that yeah this is what they asked for reach out to him what did you say what
00:49:14.720 was that conversation there was nothing so i actually no i haven't talked to him and literally
00:49:21.360 since our last trip to hawaii together we the last time i literally saw him was before i got on my
00:49:27.280 flight and we haven't talked since so what was the delay between that video what when did that
00:49:34.880 incident the first when the like quick rope supposedly when did that come out first when it
00:49:40.860 happened wait i don't understand what you're saying like so that video that video when was
00:49:45.940 that film like what day like when in the year was that film verse when it was posted so that was
00:49:51.340 filmed in november of 2020 and the claims or the tweet was posted in june of 2021 and then now it's
00:50:02.780 February 2020.
00:50:03.700 Okay.
00:50:04.140 So we get that.
00:50:08.020 I want to move on to her response.
00:50:14.680 Let me see.
00:50:15.660 Where do we start it?
00:50:18.500 Start it from the beginning?
00:50:20.820 Yeah.
00:50:21.220 Okay.
00:50:23.100 And this response was literally like five days ago.
00:50:26.220 Yeah.
00:50:26.580 So her YouTube channel was quiet for like two years.
00:50:29.980 And then she comes out with this.
00:50:31.520 Wow 62% of you guys don't find her attractive I thought it'd be higher than that no I mean the look you got to factor in the craziness I know but I've seen you guys you know how women will cap about the men that are interested in them men cap about the women they wouldn't
00:50:50.520 they're like no i would never think about this pearl you look at five drinks in on a slow
00:50:57.420 tuesday he might i think you know but we know once again like sometimes i've seen guys and
00:51:03.940 they'll show me like women they've dated or whatever and i'm like you did that i'm like
00:51:09.620 she's like 40 pounds overweight what are you doing like you know i assume that the you know
00:51:14.740 I've been moderating the chat a long time, and I assume the best about the chat.
00:51:21.500 There's a lot of intelligent men in there, and most of them are cost-benefit calculators.
00:51:27.040 You're talking about what you smash, but they're thinking about what I smash and have
00:51:31.800 to deal with the consequences afterwards.
00:51:34.520 That's why I think it's at 62%.
00:51:37.700 I'm deep in the red pill, so no, she's not attractive.
00:51:40.400 See, there it is.
00:51:42.400 Hi.
00:51:43.400 this video we're just gonna chat and um i've been thinking about making this video for
00:51:52.100 like three years and basically what i'm gonna do is summarize my last three years
00:52:00.200 being canceled the trials i went through my relationships my basically trauma and
00:52:12.640 shit that happened to me there we go you knew it was coming pearl i knew you'd catch that
00:52:20.320 but my trauma you know it's men when they have trauma it's always like they tell you guys you
00:52:29.040 ask them what they're going through and they'll tell you the most depressing story you've ever
00:52:32.640 heard ever and women it's the people on the internet don't like me they left me in comments
00:52:38.560 where i got dumped yeah i had someone told me a story the other day about how they got like
00:52:44.720 ran out of their home country like it was insane and okay we'll keep going and talk about it and
00:52:53.440 talk about my i guess story and my testimony and i think for a long time i avoided this because
00:53:03.440 it's it's really it gets hard especially when you live it and you feel it so heavy
00:53:08.880 you don't want to like talk about this i mean i do talk about it but with like my boyfriend my
00:53:15.520 parents my family and my closest friends like for the most part i want to you know be a happy
00:53:22.720 person be a positive person try to see the light in the world and the light in people
00:53:28.000 but i also believe that for my situation especially i haven't addressed anything
00:53:36.340 um on social media and i think that in absence of me vocally like just talking about it casually
00:53:46.920 people have made up stories about me people post stuff about me that is just like it's just kind
00:53:54.120 of honestly would you give her credit for going dark pearl because you could
00:54:01.260 argue that if she would have been talking this whole time it could have
00:54:05.520 just made it worse because she went dark for like two years do you think that was
00:54:09.420 a good idea or a bad idea I think she should have did a video you know what
00:54:15.300 okay so what I found when it comes to social media is everyone wants you to
00:54:22.200 shut up right and that's kind of what you try to do but i actually think dave portnoy has been
00:54:28.640 really smart every time he has an allegation he pulls up his phone gives his side of the story
00:54:34.240 moves on business as usual that's probably what i she's canceled pretty hard though um
00:54:42.220 no i think it would have been better if she just did this video didn't get the
00:54:46.860 lawyers involved set her side of the story and moved on let people argue about it
00:54:52.200 and then just ate all the opportunities leaving I mean I guess they would have she would have lost
00:54:58.280 and got canceled anyway but the the problem is when people are famous for just existing
00:55:03.500 they don't have a business as usual to get back to 100% true that's true so like if if she was
00:55:11.360 let's say like a political commentator I would have just given like responded moved on Dave
00:55:18.380 it's like he does celebrity gossip whatever so when he's in the news he says look this is the
00:55:24.240 allegation that's not true believe what you want I'm moving on business as usual Crowder same thing
00:55:29.740 when hit the divorce stuff came out he said look this is it but I have my show these people are
00:55:35.600 just famous for being famous yeah so I'm gonna amend my I'm gonna say for her that probably was
00:55:44.260 the best situation because she had no talent. She just did dancing videos on TikTok.
00:55:49.340 The best example of what you're talking about was when those allegations came out
00:55:55.180 against Kobe Bryant, the Lakers, he kept showing up to basketball games and he was just winning.
00:56:02.820 They went on a win streak and that's how he dealt with it. He just won the whole time.
00:56:08.260 So he had basketball and he was able to do his craft while he was going through it. But
00:56:12.640 right like what what could she possibly do if she gets canceled off of tick tock yeah like
00:56:19.520 i guess for her it's a little different but if she had some sort of show or something she was
00:56:25.360 doing like i don't know even if she starts she used that to like start a podcast or something i
00:56:35.600 i don't know i would have just given a statement and moved on like i think i think the longer you
00:56:40.160 weight the more it drags out so would you said that even if she lost all of her brand deals
00:56:45.600 she should have made a statement and then just kept posting and tried to rebuild after that
00:56:49.040 yeah okay sounds like a good plan to be you think i mean i feel like that didn't go in dark for two
00:56:56.160 years right i don't know like um but the problem for her she didn't have anything other than
00:57:01.600 existing like that's that's why i'm getting stuck in this because she doesn't have anything to go
00:57:06.880 back to because her her fame it was a hype house it's like reality tv yeah when you're cancelled
00:57:12.800 on reality tv what do you do and then also i mean because the best argue argument you could make for
00:57:18.000 her going dark is she was young and like social media women talk too much anyway yeah but you
00:57:24.320 imagine if she were just britney rendered it and said her truth the whole time it would just
00:57:29.040 gotten even worse i'm sure it was better for her mental health but i was just thinking
00:57:32.640 it's tough because you don't want to say anything that makes it worse but
00:57:38.540 i've found in social media that the quicker people respond at least you can get the response
00:57:44.240 and then people are arguing like for you you know what i'm saying like where like his like
00:57:49.820 if she did this three years ago then both sides would have been art like does that make sense
00:57:54.880 like where now it's kind of blown over i'm not even angry but you guys can let me know
00:58:01.980 actually make it a poll in the chat make it a poll should she have responded back then yes or no
00:58:08.880 I'm just like okay like it's just kind of like that's what you think like you don't you don't
00:58:16.220 know but Pearl whenever a woman says literally a lot with long pauses in the sentence lying and
00:58:22.020 women speak literally means I'm not lying whenever someone's vocabulary tells you that they are not
00:58:27.520 lying they're definitely lying i guess my point in talking about the last three years and how i
00:58:37.280 got to basically where i am today is for somebody watching this that is depressed is anxious is
00:58:48.120 going through something and feels like they're alone because i felt like i was alone so so
00:58:57.340 many times the past few years and i felt like nobody could understand me really and nobody
00:59:04.580 could really understand my situation but as i listened to more podcasts and as i listened to
00:59:10.760 people's stories people's like documentaries and oh my god get to it lady i kind of realized that
00:59:18.420 So, in 2020, I was a sophomore in high school, and this was when COVID was kind of starting,
00:59:30.220 but also nobody knew if it was like a big enough deal yet, like everybody still kind
00:59:34.160 of thought we were going to go back to school.
00:59:36.420 As we started to do online classes and stuff, I had a lot of free time, obviously, because
00:59:41.900 I was no longer in dance since COVID was happening, we were doing online dance classes, which
00:59:47.300 took up like 99% of my free time otherwise and I also didn't have school so I had a
00:59:53.720 lot of time to just kind of do whatever as did everybody during this era she
00:59:58.920 gets to it faster and go to her YouTube page and go to the go to the nine minute
01:00:03.540 video because she gets right to it okay the nine minute the first one yeah so
01:00:09.740 the talking about the jack right okay last week I posted a video about what it
01:00:15.660 like to be canceled as a teenager and honestly that video was one man could never make a video
01:00:21.340 like that what it was like to be falsely accused or he would just get too much backlash and the
01:00:27.100 thing about it is if you because she put this on tick tock talk and youtube and people were like
01:00:31.020 oh my god she was innocent it's like wait what so she's actually getting sentiment now yeah through
01:00:36.940 the comments yeah most important and vulnerable videos that i've ever shared always wanted to
01:00:43.740 address the situation with jack right and all of those allegations that were made because i think
01:00:49.900 in absence of me ever like verbally talking about it there have been so many narratives made up about
01:00:56.540 me um i took like six months off of social media during that time and i mean people thought i went
01:01:02.700 to jail there were literal newspaper articles that i had killed myself um the craziest the
01:01:10.780 craziest things and i think i can speak about it much more gracefully without like defensiveness
01:01:15.980 and anger because i was i was a teenager at that point i felt so frustrated at all of these people
01:01:22.860 at all these narratives that were basically claiming my truth for me so today i'm going to be
01:01:28.140 debunking some of the things that people comment on my account and just clearing things up i have
01:01:34.620 never really defended myself on my platform but i have worked so hard for this platform and i want
01:01:41.580 to stand up for myself honestly i also just posted like a 45 minute youtube video explaining the
01:01:48.380 whole story time with jack our friendship before any of the allegations what actually happened
01:01:54.300 after and like during that time and then my testimony to jesus and you knew that was coming
01:02:01.020 to you knew it was coming of course the god phase
01:02:08.620 just how i honestly came back from that and how i've found resilience and
01:02:13.420 built my brands and yada yada okay i've said this since the beginning when all these allegations
01:02:19.500 were made when i was 17 until now i've always been innocent um i've never been to jail i've never
01:02:26.700 spoken to a police officer about the situation i've never been on any kind of registry list and
01:02:34.060 people like to really argue that i went to jail at some point but public arrest records or arrest
01:02:39.580 records are public and i can promise you i have not get why people bring up the video the proof
01:02:47.180 but i think you can manipulate anything to be out of context so i'm gonna explain the whole
01:02:53.260 video for you this video was taken seven months before jack and i's friendship ended before they
01:02:59.260 made those allegations before he put out their tweet whatever we were friends for another seven
01:03:04.540 months afterwards so the video was filmed on snapchat by his brother james so they're talking
01:03:11.660 about the where he's supposedly laying on the couch and yeah yeah he's touching i mean i dealt
01:03:16.700 with a guy who was accused of rape and had two kids with the woman after and they gave the woman
01:03:22.220 custody because she claimed she was raped on the first night.
01:03:26.700 And she proceeded to have two children with him.
01:03:29.460 If a woman makes an accusation against you, it has to be over right there.
01:03:35.000 If you're with a woman and she calls the police to your house, it's over right there.
01:03:39.980 You have to stop it right there.
01:03:42.180 No ifs, ands, or buts.
01:03:44.340 Stop what?
01:03:45.340 The relationship.
01:03:46.340 Oh, yeah.
01:03:47.340 Yeah.
01:03:48.340 Oh, my God.
01:03:49.340 Because there are lines, there are certain lines that if they're crossed, if it's out of the bottle, it can never be put back.
01:03:56.200 If you're married and the woman says divorce, even if you're just saying that, it's over.
01:04:01.580 You know what?
01:04:03.340 There was a guy in London I knew who was married for like 20 years, and I would tell him about the red pill stuff.
01:04:10.120 And he didn't really, he's like, I don't really know what you're talking about.
01:04:14.420 His wife falsely accused him of rape.
01:04:17.880 so he had he was married to a lawyer he was like he was a he was um one of the trainers at my gym
01:04:23.620 and he was married to a lawyer uh-huh kids are older she starts working and she falsely accuses
01:04:31.100 him of rape because she thought that he was cheating turns out he has a twin brother like
01:04:37.300 he literally has a twin brother and the person that like their mutual friends saw him the twin
01:04:43.060 brother with what it was like she they thought it was him but it was his brother what yeah yeah
01:04:49.860 and so yeah you're you're yeah i'm a twin yeah so imagine if they saw your like imagine that you
01:04:56.020 you in your white like you you're married to a woman and there's a mutual friend who says i saw
01:05:02.660 your husband with this woman and she thinks she has no reason to lie and she seems very convincing
01:05:10.180 now obviously the false accusation bad but like but that's not the point of the story so she um
01:05:18.580 yeah so then the the friend tells the wife and the wife believes the friend the
01:05:21.940 the husband's like no i'm not doing that turns out it was the brother on a date
01:05:31.060 so how'd that situation get resolved so she dropped the charges and they were trying to
01:05:35.140 work i don't know how it is now because i haven't talked to him in like two years but
01:05:39.460 last like they were trying to work it out she went to the police and said she lied
01:05:44.260 like she did the charges and then she went back and said she lied and i guess you could do that
01:05:49.060 in london because there are times where they have it now especially with a lot of dv laws
01:05:55.380 where it's not the person doing the charges it's the state doing the charges yeah it is because
01:06:00.980 i had a friend uh was younger he made a single mom and then they had two kids and um though
01:06:09.460 the the child that wasn't his was a daughter when she was 15 she she's messing around with this
01:06:14.900 with this older boy and she's like i'm gonna go see him and he's like no you're not no you're not
01:06:18.660 no you're not she's like i'm gonna call the police and say that you you know that you did something
01:06:22.420 to me so she did she he's like do what you gotta do but you ain't leaving the house because you
01:06:26.420 i want to protect you so she called the police because she just thought that the police were
01:06:30.820 gonna scold him and say you can't keep it here no they put handcuffs on him and took him to jail
01:06:36.020 and she couldn't believe it's like wait wait wait i was lying i was lying they're like oh honey
01:06:39.540 it's okay you're safe now so the the daughter went to the judge multiple times and said that
01:06:46.260 she was lying but he had to go through the whole process so they kicked him out of his house
01:06:52.260 he was he was the sole breadwinner so he he had to get a apartment and so pay rent there
01:06:58.740 pay for the mortgage there and it took about 11 months for the case to get resolved he couldn't
01:07:03.860 didn't go to his own house and the daughter was telling the judge multiple times i was lying but
01:07:08.540 they had to go through the whole process because the state made the charges not the not the girl
01:07:12.080 yeah i think um i think at that point like they dropped it somehow i don't know but i know they
01:07:19.940 dropped it and the last i talked to him she was basically begging him to not divorce her and like
01:07:25.960 she was like he's just he just said yes she has been on like like like very good behavior like
01:07:33.400 the bat like because she was yeah that's the same thing with this guy he said the only good thing
01:07:38.360 that happened with his stepdaughter before she did that she treated him like absolute garbage
01:07:43.400 but then afterwards she was a complete angel yeah that's what he said he said that like because he
01:07:48.520 was a muslim and that she what yeah no he was muslim she was muslim too yeah why no that's why
01:07:56.200 the muslims let's say like they don't have the same problems i'm like oh i lived in i lived in
01:08:00.840 a muslim area that was a like and they married super young too so but that was like when the
01:08:07.400 kids were like teen i think his youngest was like 16 or something like older but she um said he could
01:08:15.240 get a second wife like she wanted him to stay so bad she's like look at you can go get a younger
01:08:19.720 like you can get a second wife just please don't divorce me do you think i don't know you should
01:08:24.520 have stayed with her what do you guys think or what do you guys the chat think i don't know
01:08:28.040 because she could always do it well i think she could do it again because once she crosses that
01:08:32.440 line she could do it again yeah yeah what do you guys in the chat think i don't know you stayed or
01:08:37.720 should you have gone i think last i checked they were in separate like living situation and that
01:08:42.920 was it was interesting because he said i have no idea what you're talking about like he was so
01:08:48.120 blue-pilled and then it was interesting too because he started dating after that like he
01:08:52.920 started dating with a wife yeah because he was muslim so like his wife said you can go get a
01:08:58.520 second wife and he's like i will oh okay and so he's like like i will yeah and i was explaining
01:09:04.280 to him how like like the women are different now and it was funny to like watch him go through it
01:09:10.280 because he would he would date like women he was maybe 40s 50s he would date women closer to his
01:09:16.440 age like 30s and he would talk about how their standards would be so much higher and they'd be
01:09:21.240 so much worse than like a 19 year old he's like the 19 year old's just happy i'm there yeah
01:09:28.600 give me some shish kebab and they're happy yeah i know in november of 2020 again seven months prior
01:09:35.400 to them ever posting anything about me or using that as their proof we had just gotten back from
01:09:40.280 like a bigger party and we were at another party with people all around us and we were both drunk
01:09:47.560 and making out the entire night he was introducing me as his girlfriend at the party we were like
01:09:53.080 holding hands it was like i was so confused i go in more into that on my youtube video about like
01:09:58.120 the what were we what weren't we and how he kind of used me for clout and didn't actually want to
01:10:02.840 date me in the youtube video i'm not really going to go into that here but he this is one of the
01:10:08.840 nights where he decided that he was my boyfriend and we were making out and whatever so his brother
01:10:13.320 James filmed it on Snapchat and this is what I mean by the context thing he filmed it on Snapchat
01:10:18.120 and he sent it to a friend group with the caption like the bar whatever that was like oh they're so
01:10:23.180 annoying like making out again or whatever they're so cringy he sent it as like a oh they're so
01:10:28.040 annoying they're making out again mind you this was his brother that filmed it and I don't know
01:10:33.340 how more people don't think about this but if I genuinely was like sexually assaulting him in this
01:10:39.060 moment why would his brother film it they're both like six foot two six foot three like they're big
01:10:44.740 guys 180 pounds i'm five two and way less than that if they wanted to come remove me off of him
01:10:51.780 he would have but like that didn't happen it wasn't until they needed proof multiple months yeah but
01:10:57.720 the the law protects them so they can't necessarily remove you yeah yeah and you know what hey a
01:11:05.100 consent is consent you know he could he could withdraw consent after the fact
01:11:10.020 that they then had narration over it they made it out of context and they
01:11:16.660 basically just made me look like a bad person when the initial feeling or vibe
01:11:22.260 of the video was like oh my gosh they're making out again this video was
01:11:27.040 manipulated to make me look a certain way and after all these years I've just
01:11:31.500 realized the people who want to see the truth and want to hear you out will and the people who just
01:11:36.780 want to hate me they will and i'm i'm not i can't convince everybody also my my lawyer hired um an
01:11:44.620 independent i don't know i think if she did this at the time it would have been better because this
01:11:50.660 is gonna get like two million views i think tops his got 23 million if she posted this three years
01:11:58.800 ago and just said these are the facts believe what you want these are the facts it would have i think
01:12:05.440 it would have done a better job defending herself than like three years later she she probably could
01:12:10.320 have made a case a better case based upon what she's talking about now when it first happened
01:12:14.640 yeah now it kind of sounds like i don't know yeah video forensics expert and basically we were like
01:12:22.880 would this hold up like would this hold up as proof in a sexual assault case if we ever had
01:12:28.400 to take it to legal justice system the guy literally laughed and he was like absolutely
01:12:34.800 not like this is this is not proof of a sexual assault i think once again women have got have
01:12:41.120 used less and gotten more and and what is it that judge i mean it was like a story from 25 years ago
01:12:49.440 the Supreme Court Justice oh yeah was it Neil Kavanaugh yeah remember she the
01:13:00.400 Court of Public Opinion doesn't need evidence it doesn't need to make sense
01:13:03.320 it doesn't need to be based on anything credible you suffer the consequences
01:13:07.800 regardless and she's talking about oh yeah would it have stood up in court it
01:13:11.780 doesn't it doesn't matter in the court of public opinion and if the lawyer is saying if my team of
01:13:20.100 lawyers is basically saying like no this will not hold up as proof i think that is that is in itself
01:13:26.360 enough i mean it doesn't really matter if like the 13 year olds on tiktok disagree i get this
01:13:32.760 question a lot about why did i not sue for defamation and there are two main reasons why
01:13:38.680 The first one, it takes years to resolve defamation cases, and also on top of that, in the state of California, it is extremely, extremely hard to win because a lot of times...
01:13:53.460 What she's missing out on is it costs money.
01:13:56.020 Yeah.
01:13:56.680 She didn't have the money.
01:13:57.820 I think that's part two.
01:13:58.900 Yeah.
01:13:59.380 ...can argue free speech.
01:14:00.800 The second reason why is because it can cost hundreds of thousands of dollars to go through with these cases.
01:14:07.680 and in all honesty i i could not afford that so that's what they said about johnny depp
01:14:12.920 johnny depp probably spent more on his case than he got anyone it was literally the principle of
01:14:19.760 it we do believe that the truth has a way of surfacing and when you live in the truth and
01:14:25.420 when you live in light and i think i've lived a life of growth and i think resilience is the
01:14:32.580 best proof of who i am and of what happened to me ultimately honestly this was always just about
01:14:39.920 the court of public opinion for jack he never had the intention of addressing anything legally
01:14:45.200 and when my legal team reached out to his after he posted his video they literally had no idea
01:14:50.920 that he had even posted this video honestly the sad truth is that anyone can say anything online
01:14:56.660 without proof yeah and you're right that this is the only way that it's gonna stop
01:15:00.900 is because now she's saying what the men are saying 100 she's saying hey anyone can say
01:15:06.760 anything online without proof you know that's why oh my gosh i get so irritated with the trad
01:15:11.740 cons when they're like when when really the solution to feminism is more feminism that is
01:15:16.880 the only solution you can't repeat like there's no repealing the 19th and if a youtube rep is
01:15:22.940 watching i wouldn't even want that i would not i would not want that at all
01:15:33.420 there's no removing women's rights and i wouldn't want to
01:15:39.020 see youtube growth yeah really i'm like but the conservatives will always say like no you can't
01:15:46.860 do any of it back to them like be nigh you know but you're right now she's complaining it's going
01:15:53.740 to get way more attention than if a man complained yeah remember the tried and proven thing is um
01:15:59.500 i've seen plenty of women where they they're all for these female tactics and stuff until it
01:16:04.860 happens to their brother or their son or a woman will will will find a good guy to marry but he
01:16:12.860 already had kids and he sees what he goes through with his baby's mom like oh my goodness yeah or
01:16:19.660 they have to warn their son about women like them yep yeah proof and people will believe it and
01:16:25.820 especially with like ai now things can be doctored and narratives can be changed and they can make
01:16:31.340 screenshots of anything and it's honestly just really scary people made this out to be a crime
01:16:37.260 there was no crime ever committed and this only lived on social media. America's justice system
01:16:43.660 is founded on innocent until proven guilty. But I've noticed that a lot of the younger generation
01:16:50.300 likes to think that it's guilty until proven innocent.
01:16:53.500 Who does she sound like right now? Man.
01:16:59.180 Yeah, there you go. Yeah. People just like a good story. I've seen a lot of people mention
01:17:03.420 about like what tana said a couple months ago regarding like jack's character and how he kind
01:17:09.100 of is like a different person online that than he is in person to be honest i've always hoped
01:17:14.380 that people would see through those eyes and that it's not always what is presented on the outside
01:17:21.900 that is true i try to have as much grace as possible here especially when talking about him
01:17:27.340 but if i'm being honest even when we were friends he's always been very strategic he's always been
01:17:32.060 very calculated he's a manipulative person he is very self-serving like he he climbed me he climbs
01:17:39.660 people to get to the top to get more clout to get more views to get whatever he needs from them
01:17:44.620 and uses them while he can and then discards and that's exactly what happened to me but i didn't
01:17:49.660 stand for that i was like i'm not gonna let you walk all over me like this and i'm done with our
01:17:55.340 friendship and that's why he had his friend post the initial tweet about me and they shot first
01:18:01.020 i addressed that in the youtube video way more in depth how he used me and i was like his fake
01:18:05.980 girlfriend and his cover and then i decided that we were no longer friends and that's how this
01:18:11.500 whole thing started he literally told me and i included screenshots sorry sienna it's not good
01:18:16.780 for the brand to end our friendship and i was 16. thank you for remembering these videos after he
01:18:24.300 posted all of his allegations and made everything about me he deleted his entire all of the tiktoks
01:18:30.620 with me to basically sway public opinion and make it seem like it was super one-sided i was posting
01:18:37.500 all these videos with him meanwhile he had nothing up but i included a lot of these videos in the
01:18:44.060 youtube video that i just posted and it is genuinely insane even i forgot how affectionate
01:18:50.700 he was to me and vice versa on camera i was like how when you take away context or manipulate what
01:18:59.500 people see it's a lot easier to tell your side of the story in that way since this happened years
01:19:04.700 ago i received like thousands of dms currently 22 and went through something similar at 16 and 19 to
01:19:11.500 the point i deleted all my social media and have scar makeup that are visible enough i covered them
01:19:16.460 up with tattoos my life is messages from people girls specifically who are going through something
01:19:22.620 in their life that they don't feel like they will get out of and if i somebody who went through this
01:19:27.740 so publicly can speak about it and offer encouragement of like you will come back
01:19:32.540 and this is not the end of your story then and that's that's what i'm here for yeah but for men
01:19:37.340 it usually is the end of their story it takes them down in the um in the long form video yeah
01:19:43.980 she had you don't have to worry about it but she actually says that she regretted that that one
01:19:49.260 video that she posted because it um it minimized what was going on with essay victims and stuff so
01:19:55.340 So she took accountability for that cringe video
01:19:57.740 that she posted.
01:19:59.200 We dropped Sienna Swim
01:20:01.500 on June 11th of 2020.
01:20:03.300 I want to see the videos of them together.
01:20:06.400 Oh, no, that's the new.
01:20:07.280 Is that the new boyfriend?
01:20:08.580 I think that's a new boyfriend.
01:20:11.400 If you go to her TikTok and her YouTube,
01:20:13.760 if you go far back enough,
01:20:14.920 you can find it.
01:20:16.640 But you got to go back like two, three years.
01:20:19.080 Sure.
01:20:19.360 Okay.
01:20:22.600 She literally has a video called
01:20:24.760 i love jack right is it on tick tock or youtube i think it might be on youtube
01:20:33.720 oh no it's on tick tock i think okay let me see
01:20:41.880 what do you guys think in the chat is she innocent or guilty can we do a poll
01:20:48.040 i like the polls innocent or guilty let me read the chat on the website she is young horny and
01:20:55.780 got shit for brain pearl would you sue if your siblings were smearing your names with your
01:21:00.940 relatives for 50 years causing them to stop talking to you without asking your side
01:21:05.280 would i sue um no because i know that's like obviously what men go through but
01:21:13.820 like lawsuits are just so expensive because I mean I there was even a point where I considered one
01:21:20.360 with some people that said stuff that was untrue about me but it's like the amount of time that
01:21:27.140 you have to go through to do it and money and and to get well especially if they're broke like what
01:21:32.160 are you going to get money that they're never going to pay um yeah I guess you could clear
01:21:39.860 your name but i mean conor mcgregor just got guilty in civil court of rape you don't even
01:21:47.220 know if that's going to happen i'm trying to see the old videos at the bottom of the document i
01:21:56.740 Oh, it's at the bottom. Okay. Oh, there it is.
01:22:18.740 And then the YouTube video below that.
01:22:26.740 the eyes and the words are so icy oh but she burned like
01:22:48.300 oh she was saying too when he said she broke into the house
01:22:56.940 she was saying that it was actually that there was a code that everyone had so people would
01:23:02.780 just go in and out like all because that's kind of how the hype houses are
01:23:06.940 I'm fast and angry as she can be. I walk my days on a wire. It looks ugly, but it's clean. Oh, mama, don't fuss over me.
01:23:27.440 The way she tells me I'm cursed and she is mine
01:23:33.700 Open hand or closed sister would be fine
01:23:38.960 The blood is rare and sweet as cherry wine
01:23:45.600 She's cooked forever.
01:23:49.960 Whoever dates her after she's cooked.
01:23:51.720 This is way too much excitement around a relationship and attention.
01:23:55.820 Well, she's with a guy right now.
01:23:57.440 Yeah, but it's going to be cooked.
01:24:00.100 Calls of guilty thrown at me all while she sings.
01:24:07.420 The wheels of some other thrown at me so powerfully just like she grows with her.
01:24:19.240 It's a crime.
01:24:21.640 Could this go back to the fact that women don't know how to take rejection and don't know how to take L's?
01:24:26.440 because i i do believe that he said multiple times look you know i don't like you like that
01:24:32.340 and she just kept trying and trying yeah and i bet sometimes you know he kind of gave in and was
01:24:38.960 like making out or whatever because you know if this was a guy trying to say well he was showing
01:24:44.480 they'd be like whoa you should have known better man yeah like if she no means no yeah she's not
01:24:53.220 around most of the time the way she tells me
01:24:59.380 open hand or close
01:25:05.140 my 11 year old nephew sings better
01:25:09.880 okay well um i mean i think that the government really shouldn't be in those relationships i
01:25:20.160 it's kind of an over exaggeration but since women asked for this we got it congratulations we're
01:25:25.520 treated like men do you think the court of public opinion is always going to be a thing
01:25:30.880 what can make it better no i think now i think now it's getting harder like i think the truth
01:25:38.000 is coming out more now than ever where you see like influencers being found out for being fake
01:25:43.840 you see like even like the top comments on the nala woman for her
01:25:50.480 tick tocks are a lot of men like calling around yeah i mean i think people are smarter than they
01:25:57.200 were in the past and because women talk too much our tricks have been revealed um but
01:26:06.560 i don't know i think it's just going to be more male and female content so the women will believe
01:26:11.040 the women and the men you know yeah i think it's just going to keep what what would you
01:26:15.680 what would, I guess, just for a conversation, definitively, what would you, if a man were
01:26:24.900 to be falsely accused, what do you think would be his first couple of steps? Would you recommend
01:26:30.740 that, what would you recommend? And then... After getting falsely accused? Yeah, so let's say
01:26:37.520 you're like a social media personality and false accusations come out. And he would say,
01:26:42.640 Pearl I'm being falsely accused what should I do what would you think what would you say to the guy
01:26:47.680 I want to say this is my opinion this is not advice this is my opinion you can take this or
01:26:55.440 leave it um I think men should defend themselves and bring out the receipts I think it depends on
01:27:07.800 the situation and what evidence you have but you need to be compiling evidence as you're dating
01:27:13.660 women that everything was consensual so I have a friend who balanced a lot of women in London
01:27:18.980 and the way he avoided false accusations is he'd always get a text the day after
01:27:23.980 saying I had a good time he's like you have to make sure you like call them back because
01:27:29.400 you have to understand the psychology of women that women tend to falsely accuse when their
01:27:35.180 reputation is on the line so a lot of times when women get caught cheating
01:27:38.420 they falsely accused when women look like sluts they falsely accused so you
01:27:44.340 want to feel like they're gonna lose something like not get called back so if
01:27:48.920 they feel like they're gonna lose the career their kids something significant
01:27:52.580 to them yeah so you have to like kind of play into that psychology and I mean I'd
01:28:01.220 even recommend if you want to ghost a woman instead of ghosting her cry in front of her to
01:28:05.700 get her to leave no because if she gets mad like you don't know what she's gonna do so it's kind
01:28:13.540 of better to get her to leave rather you know than don't and i think men kind of figure this out on
01:28:19.300 their own um but and i and i think you should defend yourself you know i like bring out the
01:28:26.900 text bring out the receipts if she's you know if she's if she's willing to throw you under the bus
01:28:32.260 and go public like i say do it back and then if if a female content creator that you were friends
01:28:39.620 with came to you and said pearl this person could be men or women is falsely accusing me
01:28:44.820 of something what would you say to her i'd say the same thing i think i think defend yourself
01:28:52.260 let the facts come out and do it right away and move on that's all you can do i'm not saying i'm
01:28:57.780 right i very well could be wrong i know a lot of lawyers will tell you not to talk but i think dave
01:29:03.700 portnoy like he always would say that all the lawyers would tell him to shut up don't respond
01:29:09.300 don't respond and he would just give the facts and go back to his show i think that's the best
01:29:14.180 you can do it's the best you got so so you say the david portney method were when it first came
01:29:21.620 out you literally turn your phone on and try to get your story out there along with the initial
01:29:27.060 narrative yeah as fast as you can smart you have to think through what you're gonna say but
01:29:33.780 there was actually a a kid that was a drum major at um jackson city university and he was he was
01:29:40.580 in target looking for a lamp for his um for his his dorm room right and this girl turns on a video
01:29:50.420 and says, this guy is following me, he's a creep. And the guy's like, she's like, why
01:29:55.560 are you following me? He's like, I'm trying to get a lamp. She's like, you've been following
01:29:59.980 me for all these different aisles or whatever. And he's like, she's like, leave me alone.
01:30:05.740 So then he, okay, he turns around. And so she puts that out there and then right away
01:30:11.440 he makes a video and he's a respected drum major at JSU, so the whole community defended
01:30:16.800 him yeah I had to take it take everything down but he he put his identity out there like right
01:30:21.360 away and his whole support group like the whole school and everything came to defend him and it's
01:30:26.980 better too like I would always get dirt on women that you're dating that she knows she doesn't
01:30:32.580 want to come out you know I mean like there has to be some secret that she does not want to be
01:30:38.940 public you don't even have to say it but if she knows you have it she's gonna be less likely to
01:30:43.320 do it if she knows something like and you got to be non-judgmental too like you can't like
01:30:49.020 ask her personal questions don't be judgmental but if she knows you know she's going to be a lot
01:30:54.060 less likely to do it women get upset and they don't think about the future when they get upset
01:31:00.760 though well I mean that's when you go and defend yourself you know I mean that's all I'm not saying
01:31:06.980 it's foolproof like you might not win that's just that's the best based on what I've seen
01:31:12.100 that's the best you got but
01:31:14.000 I mean life isn't
01:31:16.200 fair you know
01:31:17.020 um
01:31:18.260 okay anyways um
01:31:21.640 do you have any final thoughts for the show I think that's
01:31:24.180 really all I got today I'm gonna sum everything
01:31:26.220 up guys I want to see
01:31:28.180 more cases like this I want to see
01:31:30.200 more women paying child support
01:31:31.660 more women paying alimony more
01:31:34.080 women falsely accused I want to see
01:31:36.180 more police judo throwing
01:31:37.920 women around and putting cuffs on them
01:31:40.120 everything that men had to go through historically that women put them through,
01:31:44.200 I want to see the same thing happen to women.
01:31:46.260 This is what they asked for.
01:31:48.480 This is probably the fourth time I've said it.
01:31:51.080 Things will never be fair for men.
01:31:56.940 Equality with women means them facing everything a man has to go through,
01:32:01.100 their lives being as difficult as men.
01:32:03.440 Guys, press charges.
01:32:06.140 I'm just, press charges, and enough women have to go through this for them to realize that.
01:32:12.300 Yeah, you're not fucking around.
01:32:14.660 Kenny says, consent document checklist.
01:32:17.700 I mean, we had a PI on the show, and he makes women sign a document before hooking up with them.
01:32:22.980 He says, nope.
01:32:25.080 He said, I'm not playing.
01:32:27.360 Kenny says, this is not financial advice, just my opinion, how financial people on the internet protect themselves.
01:32:33.420 look i'm it's i don't want anyone to come back and say pearl this didn't work look this is my
01:32:40.300 best that's my opinion yeah she only said it because i asked not because the anyone solicited
01:32:45.980 her for advice it's just like hr wars i had to learn too late whoever goes to hr first wins so
01:32:52.060 any report on weird behavior of women to hr if you're a man do not wait and fight for yourself
01:32:58.620 yeah that's my ex-wife took 19k and i kept the house because i was going
01:33:03.500 to take alimony from her fight fight fight yeah i mean there's the first
01:33:12.780 um but if you guys want actually um terrence pop sells a course called administrative violence on
01:33:18.060 how to use the justice system against women that they use on you he says it's immoral but not
01:33:23.580 illegal anyways like the video on your way out guys thank you so much for coming today doug and
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