Pearl - Modern Women HATE That Young Women LOVE Single Dads

00:00:00.000 what up guys welcome to the just pearly things youtube channel and welcome to my reaction series

00:00:04.920 today we're talking about dating as a single dad dating as a single mom is an l but what about

00:00:10.620 single dads studies have shown that it is easier to date as a single father than a single mother

00:00:15.940 women will see a man as a women will see a man with a child as differently than a woman with a 0.98

00:00:22.880 child and there has been a rise of men in society saying they will not date single mothers but the

00:00:28.820 same has been said on the women's side let's look at some single fathers talking about their

00:00:34.180 experience dating okay so i am a 22 year old single father and i want to talk about dating as a 22 year

00:00:42.500 old single father um it's difficult everyone loves to fetishize fatherhood they love to be like oh

00:00:50.320 so you're actually a daddy you're a real life daddy or you can take care of someone else so that means

00:00:56.760 you can take care of me one no i cannot okay i can take care of my four-year-old because he is 1.00

00:01:02.720 four and he is everything to me i cannot take care of your silly trifling ass 1.00

00:01:07.340 i can't take care of your silly trifling ass people have to be like oh like let me be step 1.00

00:01:15.820 mommy let me be step daddy that's crazy don't say that to people that is weird like freak also 1.00

00:01:22.500 people assume just because i have a kid i have the maturity of like a 30 to 40 year old no girl

00:01:28.080 i am 22 i'm still a young man i am still trifling i'm still wild i'm working on it but like come on

00:01:35.260 common sense look at me young

00:01:38.380 okay let's see who's next we got this one

00:01:45.220 this guy okay all right i'm gonna go ahead and list some green flags that i uh i find in women when 1.00

00:01:53.500 uh considering dating as a single parent

00:01:57.380 they go to the gym they know how to cook right

00:02:03.400 outdoors hiking someone who's open-minded and willing to grow

00:02:09.920 someone who's good nurturing and good a good parent all right let's see so that's what he's

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00:03:33.620 single and apparently that's the right way to start a video in the last video i made i asked for some

00:03:39.240 advice on how do people meet people especially at my age um it doesn't really seem to happen

00:03:46.080 organically in the world and the dating apps are a dumpster fire um a lot of comments and a lot of

00:03:52.320 messages and all um a handful of interesting offers landed in my box on tiktok um ultimately

00:04:01.220 though i was told quite a few times that um people don't meet people and i'm not doing it wrong

00:04:06.300 that's just how it works i don't quite know how to feel about that um i just does it make me feel

00:04:13.120 more um sane because i thought i was missing something and i'm not um i think kind of makes

00:04:19.800 me sad for humanity maybe uh i'm not sure i guess he's having a tough time there's got to be some

00:04:27.180 single moms at preschool all right let's see who's next it's harder all right dating as a single dad 0.62

00:04:34.820 to be in a relationship with single mom or single father i'm gonna have to say single father so i've

00:04:40.400 been a single father for 13 years okay and i mentor many single fathers and i know that in a lot of

00:04:46.940 cases women think that coming into a relationship with a single father she has to i think it depends 0.99

00:04:53.960 on the custody right because a lot of dads only have every other weekend so it's four days a month

00:04:59.740 that doesn't really affect your relationships um if you it's closer to 50 50 that's a different

00:05:05.000 thing or he has full custody but that's not really normal be the kid's mother right because the mom's

00:05:09.940 not involved it's kind of what this comment is insinuating right when when a single father brings

00:05:14.560 in a new girlfriend he might not expect her to step in financially but she has to do the chores 1.00

00:05:20.600 household duties etc and like i said in the comment like no that's not expected at all and with them

00:05:28.160 and i mentored like they don't expect anyone to come in and be a mother yeah that's the diff that's

00:05:33.640 another difference too is yeah you know what that's true that's really true see because when a man has 0.86

00:05:41.800 custody his kids is usually drug abuse problems physical abuse problems mentally just honestly isn't

00:05:48.820 capable of raising a kid or all three like in my case it was all three and in a lot of cases it's all three

00:05:55.500 so the last thing any man is expecting any woman to be is their mother especially when the kids

00:06:01.300 don't have a good image of what a mother is that's why i make it clear from the beginning like look

00:06:07.440 just be a friend nothing is expected of you to do anything and just to clarify i cook way better than

00:06:15.200 all my exes i'm like when it comes to my level of cooking i'm like at my grandma level of cooking like

00:06:20.680 i surpassed my mama now i'm at my grandma level of cooking i'm that good and i own a residential 0.91

00:06:26.840 and commercial cleaning business so i don't really need anybody to clean for shit because i could 0.83

00:06:30.400 literally pay somebody yeah all right let's yeah that's that's the other thing you know men start 0.95

00:06:37.860 being single dads and realize that being a parent isn't as hard as they were told if you're considering

00:06:42.500 dating a single dad you need to hear this because here are some insights that could well guide your

00:06:47.200 decision so whether you're on the verge of this journey or just curious understanding the

00:06:52.060 following pros and cons are going to prove useful so let's start on a high note with the pros number

00:06:58.040 one commitment many single dads are not just dating to date they're looking for a stable long-term

00:07:03.600 relationship so if you're seeking something serious and not just a situationship then this could

00:07:09.460 be a big plus for you too i will say yeah that's true that's from what i've seen the single dad

00:07:16.340 single dads are always i don't know why they're always rushing to find wife number two i don't

00:07:21.680 know what it is caring nature they could have gone through the ringer and they still want wife number 0.99

00:07:26.620 two parenting nurtures a wonderful capacity for care so imagine a partner who extends this nurturing

00:07:32.540 to you and potentially your children too number three empathy and sensitivity through his role as a

00:07:38.740 father he likely understands emotions deeply and strives to be a comforting presence to those around him

00:07:44.680 and number four responsibility a single dad has to think about his and his children's futures which

00:07:50.800 often makes him more mature and reliable in his decisions now for the cons number one kids approval

00:07:58.020 his children's feelings might influence how quickly or seriously your relationship develops

00:08:02.960 it's crucial for you and them to connect if this relationship is going to go anywhere

00:08:08.880 spontaneity challenges spur of the moment adventures might be rare

00:08:13.580 single dads have to plan around their custody schedules and parenting responsibilities and

00:08:18.760 finally dealing with an ex most single dads maintain some form of relationship with their

00:08:23.400 child's other parent so this means communication and co-parenting are part of the package so are

00:08:29.400 you ready to consider dating a single dad or maybe you're already walking this path i'd love to hear

00:08:34.560 your thoughts and experiences so drop a comment and let's start a conversation about the beautifully

00:08:40.960 complex world of dating a single dad all right what have you ladies dated single dads what was that

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00:08:54.980 ring the notification bell and did you date a single dad what was your experience or if you are a single

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Pearl - July 25, 2025

Modern Women HATE That Young Women LOVE Single Dads

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