Pearl - August 30, 2025
Modern Women Have Insane Standards Of Living Without Actually Doing Anything
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Summary
In this episode of Thick & Thin I talk about how to deal with the pressures of being a millennial in today's society, and how to handle it. I also talk about why I don't think Gen Z should get married like their parents did, and why it's not that simple.
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These were the women that used to be married to the jock on the football team in high school,
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but now they're on OnlyFans or chasing celebrity and a lifestyle that is unattainable.
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Okay, so today I'm going to do a different kind of show a little bit.
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I actually want to read you guys something I wrote.
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And what I was thinking is I would tell you, I was basically writing about if I was going
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to describe to someone from 100 years ago what's going on today, okay?
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I wanted to think about how I would tell someone from 100 years ago or even older people like
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my dad who aren't really on social media or at the events or in these cities what's going
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There is a certain cadence talking to an older person.
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Why don't you get married like your parents did?
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Gen Z and millennials tell their parents it's not that simple because again, boomers just
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Modern women have been awarded the lives of celebrities and still are not happy.
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A few things to understand about female nature.
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Women always want to feel like they are dating the best guy that they can and women are selfish.
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We have an entire social infrastructure built around making women happy who can never be
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On top of that, women make 80% of consumer buying decisions even though they do not make the majority
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This makes corporations and men in particular enslaved to appeasing women who again cannot
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Social media gives women the ability to monetize their looks.
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A female doctor who has been practicing for a year can build a bigger following than a neurosurgeon
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who has been practicing for a decade because she is pretty.
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Social media has given women the ability to put very little effort into dating, making money,
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and accessing community, but still get huge results.
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Women are moving to major cities to be side chicks to top men and have sugar daddies pay for
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An example is something I saw on Twitter, which is a woman talking about her life in New York.
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They usually pick their busiest day to show you exactly what they're doing.
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Started off the morning with some morning sunshine, got a little bloom energy drink in me, and
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So usually I do run practice room or lift weights in the morning.
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I also didn't really record this class because I feel bad recording in studios.
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And I immediately went to go get a post-workout smoothie protein shake.
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I had to get ready really quickly because I booked a studio on Peerspace in Brooklyn.
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But like, it was just right next to the subway.
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Studio, I was going to shoot for one brand, but then I found out I had to actually shoot for
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So I was trying to like game plan because I only had two hours in the studio.
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And if I stayed over, then I'd have to pay overtime.
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And then left, went to sushi counter immediately because I was starving.
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Regular there, but you would never know because I don't have my punch card ever.
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So I'm never getting put on the damn wall.
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Another coffee shop because, oh my God, how many drinks can Izzy have in one day?
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I just like to be out of the house at all times.
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So I went to go grab some groceries, came home.
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I made this little like watermelon salad situation and then was editing.
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Women used to marry their high school sweetheart.
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But why would women settle for their college love when they could shoot for the stars and
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try to marry or even just sleep with celebrities?
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I really see three types of women in dating.
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There's the clueless versus the clued in women.
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Clueless women are generally less attractive or socially awkward, but not in a cute way.
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They pacify their need to interact with men for sex and use hobby communities to take place
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Clueless women may not get a chance with celebrities, but usually feel superior at their
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job, which is generally given to them because they are a woman.
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They are unable to have sex, but they will try to use purity as a reason to claim superiority
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I think of Riley when, not that she was claiming purity, but when I think of the socially awkward
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As most of you know, I have been fighting on the front lines of the simp epidemic for years,
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but I need to tell you about a quiet weapon being ratcheted up against men that is rarely
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These are the women running circles around men.
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They have figured out the game and learned to play it better than other women.
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They get the benefits of men's time and resources with minimal sexual output.
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The caveat, they do put out to guys they deem attractive for free, but these are the women
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with sugar daddies and that are experts at getting time, attention, and resources from
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These women will often have a sugar daddy, a sneaky link, and a guy that pays for their
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An example, these are, maybe they'll use it to start in OnlyFans.
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So like these are kind of the archetype of the women that have figured out.
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They go to these big cities and they just run circles around men.
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Either it's through OnlyFans, sugar daddies, whatever.
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These were the women that used to be married to the jock on the football team in high school,
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but now they're on OnlyFans or chasing celebrity and a lifestyle that is unattainable.
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Then there's the women that have opted out.
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These are the women that have gone through trauma and have opted out of the dating market.
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Some have a sneaky link that they'll go to every month or so or a couple of months,
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but these are the women that can't take an L.
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They had something bad happen to them or maybe made a bad choice and have stopped trying.
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A lot of these women get fat, stop accepting dates, and simply do not date for years.
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Many of them replaced their boyfriend with their friend group.
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Men are having a harder and harder time getting women's attention.
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Every year, the difference between the men that have and the have-nots is getting bigger.
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Learning to simply entertain women has become a part-time job for men.
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So unfortunately, a lot of men that do the hard jobs in society do not get women
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because they simply do not have time to entertain these broads.
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One, there are more celebrities and average women are dating them.
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Because of social media, it's allowed more men to be famous while not really doing a hard job.
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And more women are chasing those celebrities.
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Average men are not only competing with celebrities, but women's attention being elsewhere.
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There are events, clubs, and other things that entertain the women on the weekends.
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Women are treated like celebrities and invited to events that treat them like celebrities.
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They're either treated like a celebrity on social media, at random events,
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or getting attractive from young men in hobby groups.
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This adds an ego that men have no idea what to do with.
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How is a man supposed to entertain a woman like that
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and have her be happy with just an average life with an average guy
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when she's been on yachts, on boats, and at parties with celebrities, streamers,
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and some of the most successful people on the planet?
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The other problem is we all know that the more partners a woman has,
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Women have the ability to sleep around anonymously through travel and dating apps.
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Women have taken the power, and enough women have been forced publicly
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that women's past is not as damaging in the sexual marketplace as it used to be.
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It's harder for women to hide their past because there are cameras everywhere.
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However, women have so much power that they don't even need the ability
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with the average marriage being 30 years old and rising.
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Men get really upset, talking about a woman's body count, of course,
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in the beginning, but eventually most do adapt and accept it.
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What I'm seeing in the workforce is men being robbed in real time.
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Women are working useless jobs in marketing, project management,
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Usually the women at work have the men do the work for them.
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I'll show you actually some of the examples at the end.
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Another way women are working is social media.
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Conservative women are using their husbands and their relationships
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to build their brands and make money to further have independence from their husbands
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Women have more power with social media because they can ruin a man's reputation,
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I'm not sure if infrastructure jobs will have public social media profiles,
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but I've seen an influx of men with real jobs starting channels like lawyers, pilots, etc.
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I don't know if that means the future everyone will have to have a personal brand
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but it seems like the men that opt out of social media do get left behind,
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whether it's at work, in the sexual marketplace, or other.
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I wonder if the entertainer class will out-earn the infrastructure class forever
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because it seems like it's going that way right now.
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Conservative commentator women have their husbands take the risk
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and he is the one who took the consequences of freedom of speech,
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but we have women like Candace Owens, Brett Cooper,
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admitting that their husbands took that consequence.
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A lot of women taking the risk for freedom of speech or making content,
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Many women have useless jobs in corporate America.
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and oftentimes they use the men to solve their problems.
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but women tend to be a distraction at the workplace,
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and the real ego hit comes when the male employees
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Being on camera used to have a high barrier of entry,
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Here is an example of a woman I see doing that all the time.
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you picture a girl walking around in a pantsuit,
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She walks in a room, she's working with all guys,
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And you're like, how does this girl live such an amazing life?
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This is just simply the reality of a lot of the women
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Yes, they're in their girl boss masculine when they're working,
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but they work so that they can build their soft life
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Well, I full-heartedly believe that high-ticket sales
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It's not necessarily that these women are doing anything wrong,
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but we're in a society where women speak with authority over men
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because no matter what they do, women rob them.
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Men get robbed in divorce if they fail in love.
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It seems like mean girls will stay forever.
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I remember the catastrophic effect it had on my life
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I got a Facebook and realized I was not invited
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But I was never bothered because I had no idea.
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However, kid me was very devastated to find out
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I see women posting their hangouts and get-togethers
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in a way social media has continued high school forever,
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where women are always looking for communities
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where in the social hierarchy they can be the popular girl.
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Keeping up with the Joneses used to be confined
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The next trend I see is I see women in the middle class
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and even lower class doing things that were meant
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for upper class people or high class people 10 years ago.
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And I have seen an uptick in higher class people
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The first thing I see is eating at restaurants.
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When I was a kid, my family did not even eat out
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because we were one of 10 and it was too expensive.
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Pretty much nobody I knew ate out on a regular basis.
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Now I see women eating out probably every other day.
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Meeting celebrities used to be for rich people.
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International travel used to be for rich people.
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I, being a homeowner used to be for rich people.
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Now women can get a sugar daddy to pay for it
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Super fashionable clothing used to be for rich people.
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And only women can afford because they're stealing men's money.
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because women have brought cameras into everything
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However, social media has given women so much power
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they can have a list of pretty much every person you know
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Prostitution is going to be out in the open.
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Women are going to have kids older and older,
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You're going to see an influx of older women
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Women now can live the life of a celebrity
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