Pearl - August 30, 2025


Modern Women Have Insane Standards Of Living Without Actually Doing Anything


Episode Stats

Length

21 minutes

Words per Minute

165.32835

Word Count

3,507

Sentence Count

264

Misogynist Sentences

95

Hate Speech Sentences

59


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In this episode of Thick & Thin I talk about how to deal with the pressures of being a millennial in today's society, and how to handle it. I also talk about why I don't think Gen Z should get married like their parents did, and why it's not that simple.

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00:00:00.000 These were the women that used to be married to the jock on the football team in high school,
00:00:04.720 but now they're on OnlyFans or chasing celebrity and a lifestyle that is unattainable.
00:00:11.460 Okay, so today I'm going to do a different kind of show a little bit.
00:00:15.540 I actually want to read you guys something I wrote.
00:00:21.820 Wait, I need to click that.
00:00:24.280 And what I was thinking is I would tell you, I was basically writing about if I was going
00:00:31.640 to describe to someone from 100 years ago what's going on today, okay?
00:00:39.640 I wanted to think about how I would tell someone from 100 years ago or even older people like
00:00:46.440 my dad who aren't really on social media or at the events or in these cities what's going
00:00:52.560 on amongst young people.
00:00:54.280 There is a certain cadence talking to an older person.
00:00:57.340 They just don't get it.
00:00:58.800 Why don't you get married like your parents did?
00:01:01.180 Gen Z and millennials tell their parents it's not that simple because again, boomers just
00:01:05.780 don't get it.
00:01:08.080 Modern women have been awarded the lives of celebrities and still are not happy.
00:01:13.720 A few things to understand about female nature.
00:01:17.060 Women have an undying need for attention.
00:01:19.720 Women love excitement.
00:01:20.880 Women hate feeling left out.
00:01:22.360 Women always want to feel like they are dating the best guy that they can and women are selfish.
00:01:28.540 Here's the problem.
00:01:30.080 We have an entire social infrastructure built around making women happy who can never be
00:01:35.100 happy.
00:01:35.480 On top of that, women make 80% of consumer buying decisions even though they do not make the majority
00:01:45.260 of the income.
00:01:47.880 This makes corporations and men in particular enslaved to appeasing women who again cannot
00:01:56.360 be happy.
00:01:57.640 Now on our social media.
00:02:00.620 Social media gives women the ability to monetize their looks.
00:02:03.760 A female doctor who has been practicing for a year can build a bigger following than a neurosurgeon
00:02:08.620 who has been practicing for a decade because she is pretty.
00:02:12.400 Social media has given women the ability to put very little effort into dating, making money,
00:02:17.520 and accessing community, but still get huge results.
00:02:22.220 These are some of the trends that I'm seeing.
00:02:26.340 Trends in dating.
00:02:28.220 Women are moving to major cities to be side chicks to top men and have sugar daddies pay for
00:02:32.860 their lifestyle.
00:02:34.240 An example is something I saw on Twitter, which is a woman talking about her life in New York.
00:02:41.980 Let me share this.
00:02:46.200 So let me do exactly that.
00:02:48.280 Influencers record a day in their life.
00:02:49.440 They usually pick their busiest day to show you exactly what they're doing.
00:02:51.760 So let me do exactly that.
00:02:52.860 Welcome to a day in my life.
00:02:53.900 Started off the morning with some morning sunshine, got a little bloom energy drink in me, and
00:02:57.080 then headed over to hot Pilates.
00:02:58.400 I go to practice room, my favorite studio.
00:03:00.180 I go almost every single day.
00:03:01.360 I have to work out in the morning.
00:03:02.240 It has to be part of my routine.
00:03:03.180 I don't feel right if I don't.
00:03:04.620 So usually I do run practice room or lift weights in the morning.
00:03:07.160 I also didn't really record this class because I feel bad recording in studios.
00:03:09.800 People pay for this.
00:03:10.700 I don't want to record them.
00:03:11.980 You know what I mean?
00:03:12.360 And I immediately went to go get a post-workout smoothie protein shake.
00:03:15.960 So good.
00:03:16.420 Then I had therapy for an hour.
00:03:17.740 Yes, hot girls do go to therapy.
00:03:19.740 I had to get ready really quickly because I booked a studio on Peerspace in Brooklyn.
00:03:22.520 So I had to go grab a matcha.
00:03:23.840 Honestly, I don't usually go to blank space.
00:03:26.020 What?
00:03:26.340 Blank space.
00:03:26.980 Okay, Taylor Swift.
00:03:27.760 Blank street.
00:03:28.700 But like, it was just right next to the subway.
00:03:30.620 Like, I don't really like it that much.
00:03:31.760 I'm going to be honest.
00:03:32.640 Studio, I was going to shoot for one brand, but then I found out I had to actually shoot for
00:03:35.620 two brands.
00:03:36.120 So I was trying to like game plan because I only had two hours in the studio.
00:03:39.400 And if I stayed over, then I'd have to pay overtime.
00:03:41.980 Canada's was being sporadic for two hours.
00:03:43.660 I blacked out.
00:03:44.200 I don't really remember what I did.
00:03:45.520 And then left, went to sushi counter immediately because I was starving.
00:03:49.020 Regular there, but you would never know because I don't have my punch card ever.
00:03:51.640 So I'm never getting put on the damn wall.
00:03:53.060 Another coffee shop because, oh my God, how many drinks can Izzy have in one day?
00:03:55.620 I don't know.
00:03:56.420 Don't stay home at all during the work week.
00:03:58.060 I just like to be out of the house at all times.
00:03:59.840 So I always do my editing out of the house.
00:04:01.580 Then I realized it was 7 p.m.
00:04:02.860 Because the coffee shop, it closed.
00:04:04.800 So I went to go grab some groceries, came home.
00:04:06.780 I made this little like watermelon salad situation and then was editing.
00:04:10.640 And then Love Island Reunion turned on.
00:04:12.360 And I was like, I got to watch.
00:04:16.240 Average women are dating celebrities.
00:04:18.560 Women used to marry their high school sweetheart.
00:04:21.460 And that was enough.
00:04:22.780 But why would women settle for their college love when they could shoot for the stars and
00:04:28.200 try to marry or even just sleep with celebrities?
00:04:32.060 I really see three types of women in dating.
00:04:34.900 There's the clueless versus the clued in women.
00:04:38.220 Clueless women are generally less attractive or socially awkward, but not in a cute way.
00:04:43.200 They pacify their need to interact with men for sex and use hobby communities to take place
00:04:50.200 of family and intimacy.
00:04:54.460 What they are into is their safety blanket.
00:04:57.560 Clueless women may not get a chance with celebrities, but usually feel superior at their
00:05:02.140 job, which is generally given to them because they are a woman.
00:05:05.860 They are unable to have sex, but they will try to use purity as a reason to claim superiority
00:05:12.700 over normal functioning women.
00:05:16.400 I think of Riley when, not that she was claiming purity, but when I think of the socially awkward
00:05:24.820 woman, I think of, here, this girl.
00:05:30.620 Riley, I'm 24.
00:05:36.960 I'm from Houston, Texas.
00:05:42.380 Do men deserve to be lonely?
00:05:44.240 That was the center of the...
00:05:45.440 Okay.
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00:07:34.940 Then there's the clued-in women.
00:07:37.240 These are the women running circles around men.
00:07:39.580 They have figured out the game and learned to play it better than other women.
00:07:42.740 They get the benefits of men's time and resources with minimal sexual output.
00:07:47.500 The caveat, they do put out to guys they deem attractive for free, but these are the women
00:07:52.960 with sugar daddies and that are experts at getting time, attention, and resources from
00:07:58.400 men.
00:07:59.140 These women will often have a sugar daddy, a sneaky link, and a guy that pays for their
00:08:03.480 dinner and simp orbiters.
00:08:06.420 An example, these are, maybe they'll use it to start in OnlyFans.
00:08:11.480 Let's see.
00:08:13.040 So like these are kind of the archetype of the women that have figured out.
00:08:16.160 They're in these big cities.
00:08:17.740 I don't want to play the music.
00:08:19.980 These are the girls in the bop house.
00:08:22.560 They go to these big cities and they just run circles around men.
00:08:26.300 Either it's through OnlyFans, sugar daddies, whatever.
00:08:38.160 These were the women that used to be married to the jock on the football team in high school,
00:08:42.920 but now they're on OnlyFans or chasing celebrity and a lifestyle that is unattainable.
00:08:51.180 Then there's the women that have opted out.
00:08:53.080 These are the women that have gone through trauma and have opted out of the dating market.
00:08:56.820 Some have a sneaky link that they'll go to every month or so or a couple of months,
00:09:01.900 but these are the women that can't take an L.
00:09:06.660 They had something bad happen to them or maybe made a bad choice and have stopped trying.
00:09:13.560 A lot of these women get fat, stop accepting dates, and simply do not date for years.
00:09:21.020 Many of them replaced their boyfriend with their friend group.
00:09:26.460 Men are having a harder and harder time getting women's attention.
00:09:30.780 Every year, the difference between the men that have and the have-nots is getting bigger.
00:09:35.380 Learning to simply entertain women has become a part-time job for men.
00:09:38.860 So unfortunately, a lot of men that do the hard jobs in society do not get women
00:09:43.500 because they simply do not have time to entertain these broads.
00:09:46.800 There's a few reasons for this.
00:09:48.680 One, there are more celebrities and average women are dating them.
00:09:52.060 Because of social media, it's allowed more men to be famous while not really doing a hard job.
00:09:59.980 And more women are chasing those celebrities.
00:10:04.960 Average men are not only competing with celebrities, but women's attention being elsewhere.
00:10:14.160 There are events, clubs, and other things that entertain the women on the weekends.
00:10:20.840 Women are treated like celebrities and invited to events that treat them like celebrities.
00:10:26.620 They're either treated like a celebrity on social media, at random events,
00:10:30.600 or getting attractive from young men in hobby groups.
00:10:34.280 This adds an ego that men have no idea what to do with.
00:10:41.840 I'm going to watch this short.
00:10:44.640 So yeah, let's...
00:10:45.840 How is a man supposed to entertain a woman like that
00:11:05.900 and have her be happy with just an average life with an average guy
00:11:10.840 when she's been on yachts, on boats, and at parties with celebrities, streamers,
00:11:16.240 and some of the most successful people on the planet?
00:11:24.860 The other problem is we all know that the more partners a woman has,
00:11:28.380 the less ability she has to bond.
00:11:30.820 Women have the ability to sleep around anonymously through travel and dating apps.
00:11:34.760 Women have taken the power, and enough women have been forced publicly
00:11:38.540 that women's past is not as damaging in the sexual marketplace as it used to be.
00:11:43.100 We're in a society of open whoredom.
00:11:45.660 It's harder for women to hide their past because there are cameras everywhere.
00:11:49.400 Texts will be sent.
00:11:50.960 Nudes are sent.
00:11:52.420 However, women have so much power that they don't even need the ability
00:11:56.200 to be young and pure to enter marriage,
00:11:59.480 with the average marriage being 30 years old and rising.
00:12:02.860 Men get really upset, talking about a woman's body count, of course,
00:12:07.300 in the beginning, but eventually most do adapt and accept it.
00:12:12.060 Now let's talk about the workforce.
00:12:14.320 What I'm seeing in the workforce is men being robbed in real time.
00:12:18.660 Working trends.
00:12:20.360 Women are working useless jobs in marketing, project management,
00:12:23.920 human resources, social media.
00:12:26.580 Usually the women at work have the men do the work for them.
00:12:30.280 So here are the girls.
00:12:34.560 Actually, we'll maybe go back.
00:12:36.460 I'll show you actually some of the examples at the end.
00:12:38.740 I'm going to read through it.
00:12:48.100 Another way women are working is social media.
00:12:51.200 Conservative women are using their husbands and their relationships
00:12:54.280 to build their brands and make money to further have independence from their husbands
00:12:59.420 while claiming that they are not.
00:13:02.820 It's the ultimate form of gaslighting.
00:13:05.140 Women have more power with social media because they can ruin a man's reputation,
00:13:09.720 but that is going to cause a problem.
00:13:15.920 The men that don't adapt will be left behind.
00:13:17.900 I'm not sure if infrastructure jobs will have public social media profiles,
00:13:23.260 but I've seen an influx of men with real jobs starting channels like lawyers, pilots, etc.
00:13:29.460 I don't know if that means the future everyone will have to have a personal brand
00:13:33.180 or how this will pay out,
00:13:34.520 but it seems like the men that opt out of social media do get left behind,
00:13:38.440 whether it's at work, in the sexual marketplace, or other.
00:13:41.980 I wonder if the entertainer class will out-earn the infrastructure class forever
00:13:47.720 because it seems like it's going that way right now.
00:13:51.600 Conservative commentator women have their husbands take the risk
00:13:54.960 that generally men would take.
00:13:57.040 Nick Fuentes took the risk,
00:13:58.820 and he is the one who took the consequences of freedom of speech,
00:14:01.960 but we have women like Candace Owens, Brett Cooper,
00:14:04.500 admitting that their husbands took that consequence.
00:14:07.720 That's what you see a lot in social media.
00:14:09.800 A lot of women taking the risk for freedom of speech or making content,
00:14:14.140 and they're men picking up the pieces.
00:14:17.040 They're men having to clean up the mess.
00:14:20.020 Corporate America.
00:14:21.340 Many women have useless jobs in corporate America.
00:14:24.140 The men at work do most of the work,
00:14:27.320 while the women gossip by the water cooler,
00:14:29.520 and oftentimes they use the men to solve their problems.
00:14:32.600 The men are not unhappy, per se, to help them.
00:14:35.020 Men are helpful beings,
00:14:36.040 but women tend to be a distraction at the workplace,
00:14:40.680 and the real ego hit comes when the male employees
00:14:43.360 do their boss's jobs and get paid less.
00:14:47.360 I see average women replacing men's jobs
00:14:49.780 and being given positions they don't deserve
00:14:51.760 and speaking with authority they don't have.
00:14:54.220 Being on camera used to have a high barrier of entry,
00:14:56.740 and now every other woman is doing it
00:14:58.600 and speaking in front of people.
00:14:59.840 Here is an example of a woman I see doing that all the time.
00:15:05.400 I'll show you guys quick.
00:15:06.340 We have entered the era that I call
00:15:14.400 the death of the modern-day girl boss.
00:15:16.860 Hear me out.
00:15:17.280 When you picture a girl boss,
00:15:18.460 you picture a girl walking around in a pantsuit,
00:15:21.060 stressed out, her calendar's stacked.
00:15:23.220 She walks in a room, she's working with all guys,
00:15:25.260 and just overall, in her masculine,
00:15:27.380 very stressed out, right?
00:15:28.300 Well, this is just simply not the case.
00:15:30.980 See, your modern-day girl boss,
00:15:32.320 she's walking around at 2 p.m. on a Tuesday,
00:15:34.240 just got out of Pilates.
00:15:35.200 Not only are women taking men's money,
00:15:40.640 but they're also throwing it in their face.
00:15:43.720 Drives a nice car, makes a lot of money,
00:15:46.140 but somehow does it online.
00:15:47.640 And you're like, how does this girl live such an amazing life?
00:15:50.480 She's not really that stressed out.
00:15:51.900 Like, her work-life balance is insane.
00:15:53.980 This is just simply the reality of a lot of the women
00:15:56.440 that are making money nowadays.
00:15:57.920 Yes, they're in their girl boss masculine when they're working,
00:16:00.980 but they work so that they can build their soft life
00:16:03.660 around their work-life balance.
00:16:05.400 But the key is, like,
00:16:06.780 they're giving their lifestyle to themselves
00:16:08.460 because they work so hard.
00:16:09.620 And they don't go in the office,
00:16:11.040 they don't have a boss,
00:16:12.140 they're just, like, vibing.
00:16:13.260 You're like, what the hell is it?
00:16:14.800 Well, I full-heartedly believe that high-ticket sales
00:16:17.080 is bringing about the debt.
00:16:22.600 It's not necessarily that these women are doing anything wrong,
00:16:26.040 but we're in a society where women speak with authority over men
00:16:31.360 without the skills to back it up.
00:16:36.340 In a way, men are modern-day slaves
00:16:38.760 because no matter what they do, women rob them.
00:16:41.800 They get a lower paycheck in corporate America
00:16:43.920 and have to do the woman's work.
00:16:46.400 Men get robbed in divorce if they fail in love.
00:16:49.080 Men get robbed through their taxes.
00:16:51.960 Here are some society trends that I see.
00:16:54.340 I see online communities being more consistent
00:16:57.140 than real-life communities.
00:16:58.840 I personally have never had a community
00:17:00.720 where I lived till after middle school.
00:17:04.560 I personally have never had a community
00:17:06.640 where I lived since middle school.
00:17:09.700 It seems like mean girls will stay forever.
00:17:12.480 When I was in middle school,
00:17:13.700 I remember the catastrophic effect it had on my life
00:17:16.880 after social media was introduced.
00:17:18.940 I got a Facebook and realized I was not invited
00:17:21.340 to a lot of things the quote-unquote
00:17:22.960 popular girls were going to.
00:17:25.220 But I was never bothered because I had no idea.
00:17:30.000 However, kid me was very devastated to find out
00:17:33.600 I wasn't invited to a lot of stuff.
00:17:36.880 It seems like that is going to continue
00:17:38.980 into adulthood with women.
00:17:40.700 I see women posting their hangouts and get-togethers
00:17:43.480 in a way social media has continued high school forever,
00:17:46.900 with women always looking for communities
00:17:49.320 where women are always looking for communities
00:17:57.160 where in the social hierarchy they can be the popular girl.
00:18:00.800 Keeping up with the Joneses used to be confined
00:18:02.960 to your neighborhood.
00:18:03.820 Now it's global.
00:18:04.480 The next trend I see is I see women in the middle class
00:18:13.380 and even lower class doing things that were meant
00:18:15.720 for upper class people or high class people 10 years ago.
00:18:19.240 And I have seen an uptick in higher class people
00:18:21.840 opting out of those things.
00:18:23.420 The first thing I see is eating at restaurants.
00:18:25.920 When I was a kid, my family did not even eat out
00:18:28.720 because we were one of 10 and it was too expensive.
00:18:30.940 Pretty much nobody I knew ate out on a regular basis.
00:18:35.300 Now I see women eating out probably every other day.
00:18:40.580 Concerts used to be for rich people.
00:18:42.520 Meeting celebrities used to be for rich people.
00:18:44.940 International travel used to be for rich people.
00:18:48.220 Name brands used to be for rich people.
00:18:50.740 I, being a homeowner used to be for rich people.
00:18:54.560 Sports cars used to be for rich people.
00:18:57.140 Now women can get a sugar daddy to pay for it
00:18:59.780 or run it out.
00:19:00.440 Super fashionable clothing used to be for rich people.
00:19:04.020 Society has become a popularity contest
00:19:06.880 that no one has time for.
00:19:08.700 And only women can afford because they're stealing men's money.
00:19:13.060 Privacy has now become a thing of the past
00:19:14.960 because women have brought cameras into everything
00:19:17.260 and use those cameras to bring their,
00:19:19.880 to build their personal brand.
00:19:22.680 Female gossip is not new.
00:19:24.160 In small towns, it's known that grandmas
00:19:26.920 knew all of the gossip.
00:19:29.460 However, social media has given women so much power
00:19:32.320 that they have a list of pretty much,
00:19:34.960 they can have a list of pretty much every person you know
00:19:38.680 and can upload information about men.
00:19:41.480 Where does this end?
00:19:42.960 Families are not the norm anymore
00:19:44.520 and are pretty much going to be gone forever.
00:19:49.020 Women are going to thirst trap forever.
00:19:51.260 Single motherhood is skyrocketing
00:19:54.360 and it's going to keep going up.
00:19:55.680 Prostitution is going to be out in the open.
00:19:58.320 The birth rate will keep dropping
00:19:59.740 and marriage is dead.
00:20:01.400 Women are going to have kids older and older,
00:20:03.580 leading to more kids being special needs.
00:20:06.820 The end game, and for women in our society,
00:20:09.160 is divorce.
00:20:10.580 If the woman is still married,
00:20:12.560 generally the woman is overweight
00:20:14.200 in a sexless marriage
00:20:16.180 and half the time they are separated.
00:20:19.180 Or never married.
00:20:20.580 You're going to see an influx of older women
00:20:22.740 living together in apartments
00:20:24.260 or living communities,
00:20:26.240 nursing homes,
00:20:27.060 and retirement communities.
00:20:28.700 Women now can live the life of a celebrity
00:20:31.280 even as a sex worker.
00:20:35.440 Playboy has turned into extreme sex acts
00:20:38.920 on OnlyFans.
00:20:40.440 It could be,
00:20:42.000 and marriage is a death trap for many men.
00:20:44.380 And MissingWater.
00:20:46.320 I see how the winter earth is growing.
00:20:47.500 It could be,
00:20:49.140 and therefore living this life
00:20:49.520 or trib deutschen daughter.
00:20:51.620 But I'm coming to my face
00:20:52.720 in the middle of a wedding.
00:20:53.900 I think I'm going to see
00:20:58.000 why the noodles
00:20:59.440 would love her brother
00:21:00.900 but she's a woman.
00:21:02.100 I'm not going to be friends
00:21:02.840 because she's a man.
00:21:05.200 I'm the mother is a woman.
00:21:07.360 So it's got a theme
00:21:10.760 and see where theโ€Œ