Pearl - September 27, 2026


Modern Women Have TOO MUCH not TOO LITTLE community

“Single Moms Keep Bringing ABUSIVE Men Around Their Children” @JustPearlyThings

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

152.97

Word count

1,350

Sentence count

34

Harmful content

Misogyny

24

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Toxicity

13

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Hate speech

21

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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 All right, what's up, guys? Welcome to my coffee talks. Just so you guys know, this
00:00:04.800 upcoming weekend, I have an event in Dallas. We're working on the website. There's a little
00:00:09.840 issue, but if you buy the VIP ticket, it's two days. So basically, Friday, we're going
00:00:15.220 to do tacos and tequila hangout. Small group. Law of self-defense is coming. Saturday, we're
00:00:22.280 going to do a UFC fighter is teaching a class. We're going to go shooting and do a steak
00:00:27.060 dinner that night so if you want to come you know get a vip ticket so anyways all right today i was
00:00:32.780 thinking about how i would do these conservative like female debates over the years so i would
00:00:38.560 like debate these women um and talk about gender roles and yada yada yada and one of the reasons 1.00
00:00:48.360 that women would justify having nannies or help is that women used to have like a village and a 0.99
00:00:54.400 community of people to help them and I always thought that was kind of a stupid argument 0.98
00:01:04.240 because when I thought about my grandma my grandma had nine children she lived on a farm 0.97
00:01:09.740 in Wisconsin and my grandma like what community did she have being out on the farm she had the 0.83
00:01:19.700 other kids she chose to have. Like, her community was her family, right?
00:01:30.240 So, I thought about this even deeper, right? I thought about this even, like,
00:01:37.960 I thought about this deeper. If I go to the gym, there's a way, if I wanted to,
00:01:44.360 I could make the gym my community like I could if I wanted to hang out with a bunch of people
00:01:50.240 at the gym all the time there's a lot of people that hang out there also in my neighborhood if
00:01:57.040 I really wanted to right I'm kind of a loner so I'm a little weird but I could make a community
00:02:01.940 invite all my neighbors over all the time and I could build a community if I wanted to
00:02:05.840 and I thought about it and I'm like do you know what I think right now the issue is there's too
00:02:11.000 much community. You go to church, there's a community there. You go to a dance night,
00:02:15.240 there's a community there. There's so much community that women have too many choices 1.00
00:02:20.560 for community that we keep rotating them. And so when we get divorced, there's a bunch 1.00
00:02:26.160 of communities to pick from. On top of that, I think it's just the female laziness epidemic. 1.00
00:02:34.580 my grandma had a part-time job after the kids got a certain age and she had nine kids 1.00
00:02:42.160 we have one to two and the women are complaining 1.00
00:02:50.280 i think that the issue today is we have a bunch of spoiled women that just love doing nothing and 1.00
00:02:57.480 being lazy and that's really the problem is that the women are just spoiled and everybody spoils 1.00
00:03:05.360 them their families all of these communities coddle them so you know in the past the communities 1.00
00:03:12.600 would check them because if the woman caused too much drama or caused too many problems 0.96
00:03:17.360 the community would say hey what the f right but now the communities can't do that because they're 0.58
00:03:24.740 making money off of the community so they need their money there's no incentive to be honest
00:03:31.700 with these terrorists
00:03:33.060 so in my opinion in my opinion
00:03:45.780 in my opinion 1.00
00:03:48.960 I think women have too much community 0.99
00:03:52.820 not too little community 1.00
00:03:54.800 now I want to see what Twitter because I tweeted this
00:03:56.880 and I'm just kind of curious
00:03:58.000 like I just thought about this even more 0.99
00:04:00.820 I'm like bitches how much community do you need 0.99
00:04:03.060 like every place I go 1.00
00:04:04.980 is trying to sell you community
00:04:07.020 you can even get an online community
00:04:08.920 like you can make friends online
00:04:10.700 and be entertained that way
00:04:12.440 what do you mean we have too little community 0.99
00:04:16.760 it makes no sense oh we used to have a village we're in a city now that is a big fucking village 0.95
00:04:30.980 we were in the cities everything you know these small towns are going away 0.93
00:04:37.800 now we have cities and the problem is cities they enable us that's what it is 1.00
00:04:43.000 they enable the female laziness epidemic because before you were kind of forced 1.00
00:04:49.300 to be a good person right and make friends with the people around you in small communities 0.99
00:04:57.740 otherwise you'd be outcast now there's no consequence because of these big cities
00:05:01.080 and you can just move um from community to community they say they have the whole world
00:05:08.800 at their feet and that's why people are seeing the world going to dogs 0.93
00:05:12.440 someone's saying over socializing what does that mean women results of over socializing 1.00
00:05:27.700 because you know what people always think i'm weird because i don't really have a lot of female
00:05:31.940 friends and i'm like i don't know they just seem to i would tell or someone i used to say this to
00:05:37.500 where he'd be like maybe you should make more female friends and i'm like why what is the
00:05:41.900 upside of this they terrorize you all right over socializing can lead to acute social fatigue
00:05:49.600 emotional exhaustion and burnout and that's what i mean they got nothing better to do so they just
00:05:55.780 socialize. And I've thought about this for a while. Okay. I've thought about this for a while
00:05:59.940 where I'm like, am I weird that I don't want to sit at the pool all day? Why would I want to do
00:06:07.320 that? You're just doing nothing all day. And people like look at me like I'm weird. Like
00:06:19.640 I'd rather go do something. Okay. It says psychological and emotional exhaustive.
00:06:26.440 Cognitive and performative.
00:06:27.840 Also, I feel like I like to give a certain amount of social energy to people when I hang out with them.
00:06:35.460 How can you do that if you're around people 24-7?
00:06:39.200 Physical symptoms.
00:06:40.400 They're saying there's symptoms from being over socialized.
00:06:43.840 Oh, my God.
00:06:48.740 Oh, my God.
00:06:51.100 Yeah.
00:06:51.740 So, I don't know.
00:06:52.700 I don't buy this. 0.98
00:06:53.640 this women used to have a village you had a village of like 10 people
00:06:57.960 you could also make a community around your house right you could learn to cook have some
00:07:08.020 homemaking it's all online you can build like in 2026 it's kind of cool you can build whatever
00:07:14.320 community you want to build truly because nobody has it and like there's so many people in cities 0.91
00:07:20.220 if one person says no you could just keep going if people said no if you were a loser in your
00:07:25.480 hometown you had no choice now if you go to the top people in the cities they say no you just
00:07:32.760 keep going down somebody's bound to say yes i really think that all of these problems are the 0.99
00:07:39.460 female laziness epidemic that's really the issue is that women are so lazy that we refuse 1.00
00:07:46.600 to do anything productive we if we have a goal if we feel lonely instead of doing something about it 1.00
00:07:52.740 we blame it as the reason we can't watch our kids and they say oh well women aren't having kids
00:07:59.260 because the other women aren't having kids and it's like you know the real problem is the men
00:08:03.400 believing this stuff where they say oh you don't have community oh let me help you let me show you 1.00
00:08:08.780 some other bitches instead of what are you talking about bitch get to work stop complaining 1.00
00:08:14.520 because i think that on a biological level or on some emotional whatever women want to be rewarded 1.00
00:08:20.960 for good behavior and punished for bad behavior because men that really love women aren't enchanted
00:08:27.180 by their beauty um because that's like worship in a way then you're just worshiping her for being
00:08:34.220 pretty where if you reward good character that's like better you know anyways all right guys i
00:08:43.220 think we have too much community not too little let me know what you think in the comments like
00:08:46.760 the video and subscribe to the channel and I'll see you next time