Pearl - Modern Women Quit Being Doctors When They Actually Have to Help People

00:00:00.000 what up guys welcome to my reaction series today we are talking about modern female doctors are 0.57

00:00:06.340 quitting as you guys know modern women go to these high priced institutions to go into fields they 1.00

00:00:12.700 don't plan on staying in for a lifetime one of those is medicine women become doctors and then 1.00

00:00:19.900 quit really half the time their goal is to marry a doctor but then they get in and they realize

00:00:27.240 it's not like gray's anatomy so it's too hard and too stressful 30 of female doctor doctors are 1.00

00:00:34.140 infertile because of the stress of the industry or getting raw dogged in the in the hospital who's to

00:00:41.220 know which of the woman the women quit with a bunch of debt and no way to replace them this is part of 1.00

00:00:46.960 the reason why there is a health care shortage in this country let's look at some of the female 1.00

00:00:51.700 doctors that are quitting their jobs and by the way guys even if women don't practice very long they

00:00:56.960 still consider themselves those things because women men care about getting stuff done women care 0.55

00:01:03.780 about awards so that that's the challenge you get women get the doctor award and then they're like 1.00

00:01:10.440 the work i don't know about that i just graduated residency and i'm quitting medicine at least for

00:01:17.500 now i've gotten such mixed reactions about this some people hate the idea they think it's ridiculous

00:01:23.380 to take any time for yourself because in this field you're taught to give everything when you're in training

00:01:29.200 so work becomes your whole life the medical field attracts a lot of overachievers also a lot of ego

00:01:36.540 i'm honestly just burned out by the politics of a system that rewards cutthroat ego more than it rewards

00:01:42.200 honest hard work and yes i know it's better as an attending but i've gone straight from grade school to university

00:01:47.380 to med school to internship to residency i've literally never taken a break and this is my final chance

00:01:55.200 i know that not everyone has the opportunity to take time off like this this is a tremendous privilege that i do not take for granted

00:02:02.980 i love dermatology and taking care of my patients so this is probably not forever but for the foreseeable future i'll be getting to know the world as just a human getting to know myself outside of the system

00:02:14.380 she's gonna have a slut phase she she's resentful because she didn't get to hoe it out when she was younger because she was too busy you know doing all the doctor stuff so now she's like i gotta make up for a lost time and it's time it's time to get to hoeing 0.99

00:02:27.380 and who i am outside of my career seeking out joy allegedly whatever form it may take it's a little spicy in whatever form yeah she's saying i want to have sex with hot guys we all do right it's that's the female psyche you know it's just 0.97

00:02:43.380 you know it's just it's so funny because i'll listen to guys say we got to fight feminism i'm like all feminism is is women trying to get with the hot guys 0.81

00:02:53.380 and i'm like you can't

00:02:57.380 you can't keep the women away from them i'm telling you they'll have you ever seen um i think i had like a bouncer on here once or a guy that did security and he told the story about doing security for some of these like celebrity men and women will sneak into their hotel room

00:03:12.380 like we gotta we gotta think about the way women throw themselves at celebrities 1.00

00:03:19.380 that's feminism women are like we are not doing this mom bullshit for a normal guy i am having sex with that that hot guy over there for her maybe it was the doctors then she realizes the doctors weren't what she regret what she wanted now she's gonna go into something else 1.00

00:03:36.380 taking it slow and just enjoying the company of my loved ones there's some pretty epic plans coming up and i cannot wait to take y'all with me 0.99

00:03:45.380 all right let's see who's next

00:03:48.380 let's face it our generation is in a testosterone crisis thanks to modern lifestyle poor diet and environmental toxins low testosterone can sabotage your health and vitality reclaim your edge and bring your levels back to where they belong so you can live stronger healthier and with purpose

00:04:08.380 that's where man's edge from neutronics labs comes in the powerful formula combines four clinically proven ingredients

00:04:15.380 fenugreek igf1 and o2 and tongue cat ali to ignite your body's own testosterone factory studies show fenugreek along with igf1 and other clinically backed ingredients in man's edge can help boost your testosterone up by 46%

00:04:30.380 plus man's edge patented liposome delivery has up to 98 absorption far better than your typical powders or pills so you can actually feel the difference right now you can save 50% on all orders when you auto ship and use my code pearl get the edge today and don't settle for anything less visit getmansedge.com and reclaim your vitality today

00:04:59.380 my job as a medical doctor took a healthy sounds contradictory let me explain i was really interested in plastic surgery not cosmetic but treating burned patients and trauma patients love working with my hands so detailed work being in surgery sounded really cool then i started realizing the lifestyle that the doctors were having themselves not only surgeons like all types of doctors they couldn't live the healthy lifestyle that would be the best for

00:05:29.360 themselves and be able for them to show up the best way as like being a doctor and provide proper patient care i just didn't get why no one really had this conversation with the patient of the not only the importance of healthy lifestyle but how they can make it work for them because let's be honest you know you need to eat vegetables you know you need to move your body every day you know sleep is important you know all those things like unless you've been sleeping under a rock which you probably haven't you're on tiktok you know these things but you just don't know how to make it work

00:05:59.340 work for you because you keep setting these really high goals really high health and fitness goals and you like really try to like hold on to them and like stick to them and they're so hard and you show up for an hour workout every day we've never been working out before and for three weeks you're completely exhausted something happens at life event you get busy at work you have a breakup you have a holiday and you never get back to it

00:06:18.960 and you are like this doesn't work you give up and then you're right back where you started and it's not fun it doesn't feel easy and it just doesn't have to be that way you can make healthy lifestyle habits work for you know what works best for you because no one is the same everyone has a different genetic makeup like everybody lives in a different environment you have all these things that you need to take into consideration

00:06:40.960 so i felt it was my mission to be able to help people to find what healthy habits work for them how to make them sustainable meaning they can do it for a long period of time because you can tell me everything but like doing something for 30 days and never get in your life is probably not going to create big changes and the other thing is healthy lifestyle can be fun easy and effortless you just don't know yet how to make them so this is a former doctor work for you so that's why i'm here that's what i'm all about

00:07:10.940 and i can't just i'm so excited to share everything wow

00:07:14.980 it's just we spend so much money before we realize something was a mistake or waste so much time that's the challenge with us men kind of get burned and then they move on right but we just tend to keep burning ourselves till we almost die and then we're like oh

00:07:39.080 so now i'll learn the lesson it's francis may harden i'm a 33 year old ent surgeon and i'm leaving medicine for good no one would ever become a doctor with the intention of leaving medicine even see this model for us where surgeons operate well into their 70s and even then somebody has

00:07:57.180 okay let me start my name is francis may harden i'm a 33 year old ent surgeon and i'm leaving medicine for good no one would ever become a doctor with the intention of leaving medicine

00:08:14.680 yeah but yeah it's because here's the thing we're just very attention based so we get the attention for graduating medical school we get everyone calling us smart

00:08:26.200 and we we love that attention but then it wears off and things are boring like don't feel bad that we leave you guys

00:08:33.060 all right we leave everything social groups social settings neighborhoods cities families education we just love we're leavers you guys are stayers we're leavers all right

00:08:46.440 even see this model for us where surgeons operate well into their 70s male ones usually and even then somebody has to pry the scalpel from their hands 0.96

00:08:56.760 but for me over the past 10 years in training and in practice the disillusionment with medicine has been too great

00:09:04.420 for me to stay all of us know what it's like to be in the wrong situation the wrong job the wrong relationship

00:09:10.020 and so many of us stay really a lot longer than we know we ever should have because it's hard it's scary

00:09:17.640 and i had an inkling that this was not right for me when i was a junior ent resident

00:09:23.560 but the thing is that back then i was not brave or creative enough to leave oh i just see that's what

00:09:31.100 i mean we just we're like this isn't working and we just keep doing it down and i finished training and

00:09:37.700 went on to become an attending the thing about becoming a doctor is that by the time that you

00:09:42.620 realize it might not be the right fit for you you've already put several years so much time and effort and

00:09:48.540 sacrifice into the career it's very hard to leave i'm making this announcement for every person who's

00:09:55.940 ever felt guilty for even for a moment questioning or doubting their profession and i'm excited to

00:10:02.620 announce that i've changed i'm brave and creative enough and so i'm leaving well how is she going so

00:10:12.560 she's trying to be a now she's a farmer okay well i wish you luck lady all right who's next

00:10:21.660 we got this woman this is why i just quit my job as a doctor and moved to mexico city i know that if

00:10:30.280 you've been following me for a while this may come as a shock because it would seem that i really liked

00:10:33.780 my job and i did this has nothing to do with not liking my job men it's just interesting because we can

00:10:40.000 like our job make a lot of money and still quit men would never they would never it doesn't have

00:10:47.440 anything to do with burnout i have experienced burnout before it's very unpleasant and it is

00:10:52.460 rampant among physicians that's not actually why i left my job it has been something that i've been

00:10:57.340 thinking about for a while i was at my role at an academic hospital for about seven years as a faculty

00:11:04.380 hospitalist there working with the residents doing a lot of teaching i loved it it was super fun

00:11:09.980 it was seven years and i was feeling the itch to do something a little bit different not that i

00:11:15.080 disliked it i still had moments with patients that were so fulfilling they would bring tears to my eyes

00:11:20.260 literally but i felt like in a lot of the aspects of the job i was going through the motions and i

00:11:26.140 wasn't necessarily being challenged in new ways i was also feeling this really big urge in my personal

00:11:30.900 life to shake things up as a lot of you know i am not married i do not have children i felt really

00:11:36.100 untethered i'd been living in the same city for seven years and i felt like i wanted a change of

00:11:41.440 pace i wanted to mix things up i really wanted to she was into hispanic guys so she moved to mexico 1.00

00:11:46.100 city it's it's it's so simple when you realize

00:11:49.980 what we tend to date is the industry that we go into

00:11:55.720 now i'm not saying this is a conscious thing but i i think what happens is women are like 1.00

00:12:01.940 oh that guy's hot oh i like what he's doing i want to do the same thing it's why it like

00:12:06.560 you know it's why no offense to the engineers on here but there aren't a lot of female engineers 1.00

00:12:14.560 because you guys aren't really known you're not known for being these like stud hot you know but

00:12:21.340 you have a lot of female musicians female models female doctors but for some reason the engineering 1.00

00:12:28.100 that just wasn't going accountants the women are like have a new adventure i wanted to experience 1.00

00:12:35.460 a new city and i also wanted to experience the personal challenge of living in a different country

00:12:40.780 where another language is spoken i've been decent at spanish for a long time but i really wanted to

00:12:45.660 just bring it to the next level so i decided that i wanted to live in a spanish-speaking country

00:12:50.580 i wanted to live relatively close to the united states and i wanted to live in a big city because

00:12:56.040 i love cities so i chose mexico city this is not a permanent move i am planning to come back to the

00:13:00.780 united states again to see patients in person again here i'll be doing some virtual medicine but i want

00:13:06.660 to go back and see patients in person again whether that's as a hospitalist a primary care doctor or

00:13:12.220 some other primary care specialty i have yet to figure out but i am just ready for a big change 0.99

00:13:18.720 her slut phase her slut her hoe phase that's what she's ready for 1.00

00:13:23.820 i'm the only one that's being honest with you guys you know i would 1.00

00:13:28.200 i need to start lying i need to i need to start getting on that train because that would just

00:13:36.700 make my life a lot easier and so that's what no she's doing it to find herself guys 1.00

00:13:43.980 this is i think a lot of the reactions it's my cat to people she's going to find her type

00:13:49.420 by riding a lot do you know well who were working at my hospital other people that i know who are

00:13:55.400 doctors was that they were really surprised that i would do something like this it's very out of the

00:14:00.220 norm for someone who is on a physician academic track especially to just say hey i'm gonna leave

00:14:06.980 this all without a great no females leaving without a future plan that's like on par for us 1.00

00:14:14.840 plan for the future just to like experience another lifestyle in another city or another country i'm

00:14:21.100 like you know why the hell not this sounds fun i'm super untethered and if i do become tethered and

00:14:27.260 have kids one day that won't be an option then so now it feels like the time i'll still be making my

00:14:31.860 usual content on what it's like to be a doctor health wellness medical related news my thoughts

00:14:37.760 on current events etc but i'll also keep you posted on what my life is like here what the hell i'm doing

00:14:42.960 and figuring out along the way and feel free to let me all right let's see who we got next oh that's it

00:14:50.580 okay well i do wish the female doctors the best of luck in their hoe phases um that's you know the women 1.00

00:14:58.180 they got to do that so i do wish you guys i know i know you guys are thinking this is the difference

00:15:06.780 between guys i guess that get it and guys that are either opting out not in and i don't mean this in

00:15:14.780 a mean way because i think there's a lot of reasons for men to like opt out i think i totally there's herpes

00:15:21.440 there's there's there's women false accusation there's so much but i can tell the men that are

00:15:29.860 going after the young poonanny because when they hear hoe phase they hear something they could be a 1.00

00:15:35.260 part of but when guys hear a hoe phase and they get disgusted it's usually because they're not a part 0.98

00:15:43.320 of it like if a girl's like oh i just got out of a breakup a guy that's like getting the getting the

00:15:48.460 the ladies are doing well he's like yes he's like it's my time you know anyways um let me know what

00:16:00.060 you guys think in the comments please like the video on your way out and subscribe to the channel

00:16:03.900 make sure you ring that notification bell and thanks for watching as usual i'll see you next time

Pearl - July 19, 2025

Modern Women Quit Being Doctors When They Actually Have to Help People

Episode Stats

Summary

Transcript