Pearl - Modern Women REGRET Getting Divorced And They're Paying The CONSEQUENCES

00:00:00.000 and she's pissed because she's like how can he move on so fast i can't even find nobody

00:00:05.180 and he just found someone so quick yep that's called the post-divorce humble because you know 0.99

00:00:11.980 you guys just age well you make more money you get better at telling women to shut the f**k up 0.99

00:00:17.720 and so the wives don't realize is they still see you as a four but then the guys get to be like a

00:00:25.480 seven and she's a five and do you know who the guy dates next between a six and an eight depending 0.98

00:00:31.620 on how good looking what up guys welcome to my reaction series today we're going to be reacting

00:00:37.700 to women that regret getting divorced as you guys know we have a tendency to go on tiktok and talk

00:00:45.160 about every single l we take and divorce is no different let's see the lovely ladies who regret 1.00

00:00:51.240 leaving their husband and also when we go through these i want you guys to let me know would or

00:00:55.760 wouldn't now here's bachelorette number one i caught up with an old friend so this is your hinge date

00:01:02.120 tonight guys recently i caught up with an old friend and she was telling me that she got divorced and i

00:01:09.300 was so surprised because her and her husband were such a cute couple and they had been together for

00:01:13.860 11 years so i asked her like what happened i figured something bad happened she's like honestly

00:01:19.120 i was just bored like my husband all he did was work i was a stay-at-home mom we had three kids

00:01:25.260 and i just oh it's her friend not lonely and bored and she says that when she would bring it up like

00:01:30.560 he would take her out but it was just boring to her like she needed some excitement in her life she

00:01:36.080 just felt like she was just a mom and a wife and her husband just wasn't doing that for her and she

00:01:41.480 had other friends that had you know boyfriends or like they had just got married and they were always

00:01:47.560 going out always going on vacation always partying like going to the club going to the bar hanging out

00:01:52.820 with friends and they had did none of that and when she would bring it up to her husband her husband

00:01:56.600 always tell her like i gotta work like you know they had a big house they had nice things like he

00:02:03.460 was just trying to work so they ended up getting divorced and now you know she's single she lives 0.91

00:02:09.320 alone she's working and she's dating so then i told her oh well that must be exciting like dating and

00:02:15.640 stuff and she's like no i fucking hate it and i was like why she's like because all they want to do is 0.98

00:02:21.100 just have fun we can't win we just want to go to the club they just want to go to the bar they just 0.73

00:02:29.420 want to hang out have a good time and then that's it she said no one wants to help me out like i'm

00:02:35.320 trying to find someone that's going to help take care of my kids she's like i just want someone to 1.00

00:02:40.520 be a provider not just a good time so i was all like well wasn't that what your husband was doing

00:02:47.140 and she's like i know i know and i guess now her ex-husband is dating someone like seriously

00:02:54.940 they have been divorced for a total of three years and he has been dating this girl for two years

00:03:00.780 she has two kids and they're already living together she says that he's fully taking care

00:03:06.300 of her like the girl doesn't work that's the apple mom they haven't had any new kids but they're

00:03:12.360 planning on having kids and she's pissed because she's like how can he move on so fast like you know

00:03:18.860 i can't even find nobody and he just found someone so quick yep that's called the post-divorce

00:03:26.540 tumble right this is what happens so women they meet their husbands at like 20 right let's say 25 0.98

00:03:32.400 whatever the hell you met your first you know it's college high school whatever early 20s and the thing

00:03:39.340 is when they met their husband he's a four right or he's like a five and like the girl's like a six

00:03:44.540 she gave this four or five a chance looks wise let's say and like overall charisma because you know 1.00

00:03:50.260 the older you guys get just the best you guys just age well do you know what i mean like

00:03:55.000 yeah you guys might get a couple more pounds a few more wrinkles but you can't like there's just

00:04:01.560 nothing like a seasoned man let's say okay so what what the wife doesn't realize is that you guys are

00:04:09.320 getting better every year every year you make more money you become more assertive you get better at 0.98

00:04:15.000 telling women to shut the fuck up and so what the wives don't realize is they still see you as a four 1.00

00:04:22.660 but then the guys get to be like a seven and she's a five and do you know who the guy dates next 1.00

00:04:29.420 between a six and an eight depending on how good looking 10 years younger than you i knew someone

00:04:37.680 else he he married a woman around his age and they recently got divorced and he's like 37 38 he's a

00:04:44.400 really successful he works in media too so he's a really successful like commentator i'll say and i'll

00:04:49.560 tell you his ex-wife is pissed because his new girlfriend is hot i met her and i was like holy

00:04:57.700 he he's dating this like model well like she looks like a mom and i was like and that's what happens is

00:05:03.960 they move on they're like i can do better it turns out we can't do better but do you know who can

00:05:10.280 him and it's worse because the men are so much more humble because they don't even know they can do

00:05:16.240 better like men don't really get attention like that right so they go around the world most guys

00:05:20.500 don't know how good looking they are right because like women can find you attractive but still not 1.00

00:05:26.160 want to like you're still a wooden to them but they still find you attractive men every girl that 0.92

00:05:31.640 they find even slightly attractive is a wood so like it's not really the same but so the men don't

00:05:37.760 really know how many women they're attractive to right where women think they're more attractive 1.00

00:05:44.100 than they are because the men are like you know they all would you know what i mean and he didn't

00:05:49.540 even want to give us another try like blah blah blah and i was so confused because i was like okay

00:05:55.220 so you divorced him because he was always working and you were bored so now you are single going out

00:06:02.860 having a good time dating but you don't like that now you want someone to take care of your provider

00:06:08.820 and your ex-husband all he wanted to do was be a provider that's why now he is dating someone who

00:06:15.460 he has no problem providing for her and her kids and she's pissed because she's like why would he go

00:06:23.380 and find someone who has kids like he already has kids why would he want to take on that responsibility

00:06:29.420 and i'm like wait aren't you looking for someone to take on that responsibility

00:06:34.000 i was just giving her a hard time i'm not gonna lie because it was kind of funny to me because i

00:06:38.540 was like i could tell that she regretted her decision i could tell and i've seen a lot of

00:06:44.720 people do shit like this where they get divorced for reasons that are not i'm not gonna say they're 0.80

00:06:51.000 not valid because everybody's feelings are valid but they're fixable problems like i don't know if 0.98

00:06:56.180 you guys have this wrong idea of marriage that is supposed to be like fun and happy all the time

00:07:01.020 it's not i feel like every relationship literally depends on compromise like you gotta compromise

00:07:08.800 something you cannot have everything and to be honest with you like if she was willing to give

00:07:15.420 up on him that quick like maybe she just didn't love him that much because i cannot even imagine just

00:07:22.060 me being like oh i'm bored i'm gonna divorce my husband you know like no you you figure it out you 0.58

00:07:28.660 work it out but i could tell that she's regretting it because what she thought she wanted it's not

00:07:34.600 what she thought she wanted yeah she's like i'm bored i want to get a divorce and the guy's like wait

00:07:39.420 we could have did a date night she's like no no i'm bored didn't work out too well okay next let's see

00:07:49.340 let's see what next what we got on the the hoe l's that's what we could call this series my reactions 0.99

00:07:55.780 are just the l's of hoes so two times two times i've stepped oh my god she talks about this for 0.99

00:08:03.380 eight minutes oh my let me let me sit back oh freaking eight eight on my 20 year marriage two times and

00:08:16.260 i'm not big a kiss here and there i think it was more than a kiss i really do and both times it's caused

00:08:27.940 a separation because when you live in a situation and here's the thing i'm not going to justify

00:08:33.860 cheating i don't think it's justified which is why i've chosen to separate after certain things but

00:08:39.700 at some point whenever you're with somebody and after natalia was with this person for 20 years

00:08:47.380 and for 18 of them he made me beg to be touched okay so when women say that the husbands don't want

00:08:54.820 to sleep with you okay one of two things happen now i'd like to say when when the man does it well it

00:09:00.500 could be three so the reason number one is she got fat okay if you get really fat and your husband 1.00

00:09:07.620 doesn't i don't care if he got fat you're the woman it's your job to be hot okay that's that's 1.00

00:09:12.420 really you got one job as a woman and it's be fuckable i mean do you know what i did street 0.99

00:09:19.540 interviews sorry that was very crass but i did street interviews once and i asked men would you 0.98

00:09:24.180 rather have good food or good head do you know what the number one answer was we can uber eats baby 1.00

00:09:30.660 like that's how important sex is so number two is she's so much of a miserable bitch 1.00

00:09:38.180 that he just hates be like he doesn't even want to have sex with her because she's so mean and 1.00

00:09:41.940 miserable three he's gay i mean that does happen i'd say like that's the minority but sometimes 0.99

00:09:47.220 they're so mean and miserable that she literally drives him to men okay 0.95

00:09:53.380 the problem is that we get along really well friendship wise but romantically it was very very

00:09:58.660 very very very painful um to be unwanted and unloved that way yeah do you see that double chin

00:10:07.700 that caused her marriage to end that was the real ending right there put the donut down ma'am put it 1.00

00:10:14.660 down friendship wise we got along we were into the same thing so that helps but twice i've been approached

00:10:22.500 by blonde-headed coaches and you'd think that i would pick up on that it's like here here's your lesson 0.95

00:10:27.780 so i learned my lesson the first time the second time it smelled a lot like the same and so it

00:10:34.100 probably was wanting an entourage of women to follow behind them the first one definitely wanted an 1.00

00:10:41.620 entourage and the second one definitely was a coward but then watched after you know stalking me and dming

00:10:50.020 pursuing in your kind when they take that as flirtation you get so angry in that in that situation where 0.94

00:10:57.620 you're not being loved where you have to beg for any kind of affection guys tell me in the comments my i i bet

00:11:02.900 she got fat and he didn't want to sleep with her anymore but if you if you want to put the real what

00:11:07.140 you think the real story is in the comments put it in the comments that you're not thinking straight when it comes to

00:11:13.460 allowing someone else to admire you and so that's what you do you let them admire you i threw it back

00:11:22.420 i'm i'm gonna be like the translation i let him admire me translation we did it in missionary we did

00:11:30.660 it in doggy we did it that you see that's that's what she what she said versus what she meant 0.71

00:11:37.140 it was only a kiss it was more than a kiss

00:11:46.500 gosh it's like women just get to it tell me how you're a failure can you just get to it which is 1.00

00:11:52.340 what it is but um at this point i am choosing me over any relationship where i'm choosing me translation

00:12:01.540 i'm insufferable to be around i compromise nothing and i resent my husband for everything

00:12:07.380 he did for me so i'm going to choose me because nobody else is choosing me not my friends or my

00:12:15.140 family i have slightest temptation in that direction i would rather be alone than have that because when

00:12:23.700 you're in a relationship with somebody you should never feel so desperate for attention we're women 0.98

00:12:33.140 we're always desperate for attention okay can we just can we just be honest you should never feel

00:12:39.540 desperate for attention in a relationship well don't you ever miss him like don't you want him to work

00:12:45.540 i do think your your marriage is done on both sides if you're not sleeping together unless she's willing to

00:12:50.100 get on the treadmill she's probably not so you're kind of done um no coming back naseki nada sorry guys

00:12:58.420 you should have somebody on your side you should have somebody okay i don't need to watch her

00:13:02.260 rational i mean can we skip the rest of the i'm gonna i'm not gonna watch her rash rationalize this

00:13:08.820 for eight minutes if you're gonna give me an eight minute video at least be entertaining do you know what

00:13:13.380 i mean like i mean it's like okay i guess this is women are regretting they put up their 0.93

00:13:19.700 divorce videos and then they delete them because they're like f the comments are like you're a

00:13:25.140 terrible person and they're like ah let me delete it honestly really sad right now if you can tell

00:13:31.940 um that's like the weirdest thing about grief is like didn't cry for two days was good for two days

00:13:39.220 and now i'm by myself and it's just like the hurricane like it just it's here again you know it's

00:13:46.340 it's the tsunami is back like it's just so hard and like i'm frustrated because

00:13:55.380 i you know got my whole world got disheveled and i feel like he has moved on and he is

00:14:02.900 see this is again this is the the post divorce humble right she thinks he can't do better and he not

00:14:10.340 only does better he does a lot better they're only crying like if if his if her ex-husband was

00:14:16.900 dating some whale she would not be crying like this but she's younger hotter and better than her in 1.00

00:14:22.260 every way this is the thing women ladies whenever we say like you could have an ugly ex-boyfriend or 1.00

00:14:29.860 ex-husband right please don't make the mistake of saying that he can't do better than me because he will

00:14:37.060 do better like there's no if it's when because if he could date you he could date someone better like

00:14:42.100 that's how it is with men if they get you congratulations you've officially given him a

00:14:48.820 license to go one to two points higher congratulations because it's like the ariana grande effect

00:14:55.700 when when she left p davidson he can and did do better like he went on to date like every hot woman in

00:15:05.060 hollywood what your friend group your hometown it could be even your sister your mother your aunt

00:15:10.980 your best friend like do you know how many men have come to me and told me that they like after 0.98

00:15:15.700 post-divorce they banged like three of their wives friends fucking we hate each other okay so that's the 0.97

00:15:23.060 thing there's no like we don't get this revenge fantasy of oh sometimes the women do better too right 1.00

00:15:30.580 they go on to richer you know or they go on to hotter but not usually not usually i mean i have

00:15:36.500 seen it like for example bezos's new wife i mean she went from nfl player to i mean she really i i got

00:15:47.060 to admire her on some level as a woman because she bagged an nfl player then she bagged a guy worth a

00:15:52.500 hundred million now she bagged a billion so that could be you but you gotta you need a boob job or 1.00

00:15:59.860 something you gotta you gotta up your game or become a better person um anyways my point is this

00:16:05.860 there's no revenge fantasy for us there really isn't it's just an l like it's it's now he can officially

00:16:13.460 date you're the bottom of what he can do god i hate life sometimes being a woman i mean there's definitely

00:16:20.580 pros of being woman a woman like right like we get life on easy mode but the con is you can't ever be 0.87

00:16:27.060 like oh he can't do better than me he will do better than you he will healed and moved on and doesn't care

00:16:33.540 about me which i don't want him to come back into my life but it still just sucks you know i can't

00:16:40.740 imagine you know thank you guys for sharing stuff like stories that you've been like you've gotten

00:16:46.660 through this and it's been however many years because i could not imagine that i can't imagine

00:16:53.620 being with someone for a really long time and going through this you know sorry if you can hear my cat

00:16:58.900 literally playing in the background um look yeah now it's time i it woman i'm gonna advise you if you 0.98

00:17:06.340 want to move on you're officially damaged goods and on sale it's time to have a slut phase it's time to 1.00

00:17:12.660 give this out for free that's the only chance you got that's it no stuck up and you got to pretend to 0.58

00:17:20.020 be a different person for the first like four years you're together that's my solution for you

00:17:25.620 want husband number two step one give it away for free step two um become a different person obviously

00:17:34.740 it's an act so do that for two to four years i was only with him for four and a half years one year

00:17:40.580 married yeah see she did it the first time right she did it the first time i could not imagine though 0.99

00:17:50.980 being with him for longer and this happening but it's just it's just so sad sometimes and it's like

00:17:59.220 so hard to have to learn how to do life by yourself again like you know you don't have that person to call

00:18:09.220 all the time or that best friend to go do things with and that's what scares me i've never truly

00:18:15.380 been alone and worked on myself and i'm terrified of it not me crying on the internet more but i just

00:18:24.900 want to share all of it the good and the bad you know so that i have this to look on a year from now

00:18:32.740 and know that i did heal but also to help anybody else who's going through heartbreak like heartbreak

00:18:38.580 sucks it sucks so bad you like physically feel the pain emotionally mentally everything and again i had 0.88

00:18:47.380 two really really good days did not cry at all those two days and then you know as soon as i'm by 0.97

00:18:55.060 myself or as soon as you know okay six minutes look i gotta end it on that because i mean this is just

00:19:01.140 ridiculous could you cry and get to the point like that's that's what is the point do you do you want

00:19:06.260 him back because if how could i don't know i don't know if you can ever get an ex-husband back you know 0.90

00:19:13.860 i know some people do reconcile but i don't know once a guy hits the done point i think it's tough to

00:19:20.740 get him back and if you have a kid you i guess you could real now again what would be my first step

00:19:26.740 give it away for free i mean that's always step one right that's that's gotta be

00:19:34.580 now and become a different person i think it's the same step-by-step process

00:19:40.340 um anyways guys let me know what you think in the comments and let me know did your wife divorce you

00:19:45.220 what reason did she give and did you do younger hotter and better let me know in the comments like 1.00

00:19:50.260 the video subscribe to the channel and i will see you guys on the next video bye

Pearl - April 18, 2025

Modern Women REGRET Getting Divorced And They're Paying The CONSEQUENCES

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