Pearl - Megyn Kelly & Ana Kasparian COPE Hard Over Men REJECTING Boss Babes

00:00:00.000 it's just not realistic you know we got to pay our bills and we both have to work but i really do

00:00:04.860 think that's like the biggest cope we have to pay for your expensive habits like that's really what

00:00:10.620 it comes down to i don't think kids are that expensive maybe i think i might be humbled when

00:00:14.820 i talk to the women it's like oh these kids are so expensive when i talk to the men it's like yeah

00:00:20.640 not really what up guys welcome to my reaction series my name is pearl and today i'm gonna be

00:00:27.080 reacting to megan kelly i'm talking to anna kasparian about not understanding why men don't

00:00:35.260 want a working woman so here's the thing women go through life especially female commentators we have

00:00:41.800 a tendency to be very what they call out of touch and the reason we're out of touch is because this

00:00:46.960 is such an easy awesome job that we often think we work harder than we do because a lot of the reason

00:00:53.420 we're at where we're at is because of beauty and a lot of female commentators slept with someone to

00:00:59.560 get where they're at and megan kelly i'm you know did have a sexual harassment lawsuit against fox

00:01:05.500 and you guys know what that means okay so we're gonna watch megan kelly and anna kasparian um talk

00:01:12.460 here viral video i'm sure you saw it going around on the internet i saw it on x but i'm sure it's on

00:01:17.240 instant tiktok and all of them of this liberal woman who says she broke up with her boyfriend over

00:01:22.760 politics and this has engendered so many strong feelings in the comments section wherever it

00:01:31.120 gets posted here's a bit of it in sat 38 so i am obviously like very much everyone knows that i'm

00:01:37.720 a liberal woman my brother's gay all my friends are gay also like abortion rights female rights but

00:01:42.680 anyways so i would like always ask him i'd be like what like what's so again women have a tendency

00:01:49.600 we think that our politics makes us a better or worse person men don't think like that they think

00:01:56.620 your character the way you treat people they don't necessarily think it's your politics right

00:02:00.920 but women we don't want to do the work of being like a nice person and so we have a tendency to use

00:02:07.300 politics to do that what's your politics like what do you who do you where do you lean and he was

00:02:13.320 just like well like socially i'm a liberal but economically i'm a republican fuck that okay

00:02:19.900 fuck this this is my last straw again i'm a very liberal woman i and the guy was probably like thank

00:02:26.220 god she was gonna go nuts if i dumped her he probably was like thank god this is amazing i have to date

00:02:32.240 someone that is on the same page as me because i can't disagree with someone on something that is so

00:02:36.840 important to me for the rest of my life i fully respect republicans i understand that you want to vote

00:02:42.840 that way but for me i don't want to marry you and i don't want to date you so we ended it and no

00:02:48.560 regrets i've been single ever since it was awesome it's been awesome like virtually every man i follow

00:02:53.580 an ex had the same response dodged a bullet there man congrats can i just before we get to the substance

00:03:00.120 of i won't date a guy who doesn't show my politics she's extremely unlikable she's caustic she's smug

00:03:05.940 she's she said there's an arrogance to her like it's my way or the highway i know better i mean

00:03:11.460 you're disgusting because you don't agree with me politically like there's a disdain even though

00:03:15.500 you know half the country disagrees with her politically a lot of really good beautiful

00:03:19.260 people disagree with her politically why is that associated so often with these liberal women who

00:03:26.120 do these posts on on social media well i have seen a lot of posts like that but look i'm just gonna say

00:03:31.680 she seems to know herself and what she wants really well and she's going for it so go for it you

00:03:38.680 know i actually don't have any ill feelings toward her at all because she's determined i'm unwilling

00:03:45.080 to move even an inch on on my politics but i do agree that she might be closing herself off to

00:03:51.980 individuals that would be wonderful for her including her now ex-boyfriend because people

00:03:56.840 change people grow and they shift their positions on issues here and there i i think it's wrong to think

00:04:04.500 that you know someone's political identity can't be fluid i think it's fluid to some extent what i

00:04:10.100 find really interesting is that he agreed with her on social issues and the agreement on social issues

00:04:16.240 it's what's really likely to lead to a smoother relationship you know if he's more fiscally

00:04:22.680 conservative i don't think that's necessarily something that should be a deal breaker i'll tell you

00:04:28.320 something though i'll tell you something right now anna he didn't agree with her on social issues

00:04:31.420 it was a lie probably if he's fiscally conservative he's not in today's social environment maybe like

00:04:37.260 the social environment of 15 years ago where the big thing was like gay marriage um yeah you know

00:04:41.860 you could be like a pro-choice pro-gay marriage republican like a rudy giuliani but there is zero

00:04:47.400 chance in today's day and age somebody who says they're fiscally conservative is actually socially

00:04:50.840 liberal too i don't believe it so she was right that they had vast differences i just find her so

00:04:54.820 just got like just disdainful and unlikable and women like that are giving like my liberal

00:05:01.040 friends a bad name because she she's so nasty and seems to be like playing fast and loose with

00:05:06.500 this guy's feelings like he's a nothing to her just because he has different uh politics all right one

00:05:11.500 more for you on the on the culture front and this is another woman and this is gonna this is gonna take

00:05:16.520 us to a place that i've really been this guy dying to discuss this is a woman named page connell

00:05:20.960 she's a tiktok mom influencer and she decided to post a very long i watched five i give this woman five

00:05:26.880 minutes of my life which i'll never get back that's how i feel after a lot of these it was all

00:05:31.500 about how she's a working mom her husband works too they have kids she's very very unsatisfied with

00:05:37.060 the amount or was of housework and support he was bringing to the home and she really had to lecture

00:05:43.280 him into doing more and then was extremely disappointed when he did not live up to like

00:05:47.680 her expectations let me play what we have of it saw 39 my husband and i had four kids we both

00:05:53.320 worked full-time we had been together for 16 years at this point um and on paper i have an

00:05:58.340 amazing husband but i was incredibly frustrated and burnt out from our marriage and from motherhood

00:06:03.920 and when we have kids women tend to carry a disproportionate amount of the work in the home

00:06:08.980 the work of raising kids and the mental load and about three months after my fourth baby was born

00:06:14.560 i remember looking at my husband and saying i need more i need you to do more and i said okay you

00:06:20.740 know something that would make my life easier is if in the mornings when i came downstairs with the

00:06:24.880 four kids because i do mornings by myself the dishwasher was emptied the dishes were put away

00:06:30.000 and the trash was taken out and so of course he does it but then i have to remind him and then he

00:06:35.420 forgets felt so disrespected and unseen and unvalued at that point in time so we did the work

00:06:43.040 to figure out what equity looked like in our relationship and it can hurt your relationship it

00:06:47.200 can ruin your marriage if you do not participate in an equitable way in your home here's the thing

00:06:52.520 that most men i follow on twitter are responding to on x they're they're offended that a wife would

00:07:00.140 post a diss video about her husband on the internet in any way shape or form yeah look i have i have a

00:07:08.780 broader point to make about that culture and it goes well beyond wives posting about their husbands

00:07:14.900 please stop airing your dirty laundry on social media honestly have a little bit of respect a

00:07:21.320 modicum of respect for the people in your personal life even if you're in the middle of a feud with

00:07:26.080 them how about respect their privacy and work it out privately you don't need a bunch of random

00:07:32.220 strangers chiming in on your relationship i would never in a million years do that to my husband or my

00:07:37.480 friends or to my colleagues which has been done to me many many times i think it's disgusting it shows a

00:07:43.460 lack of maturity have the conversation privately work out your own drama and your own issues privately

00:07:49.060 so that's point number one point number two is look a marriage as i'm sure you know is it's a

00:07:55.640 partnership and i think when you fail to see it as a partnership and you instead kind of like tally

00:08:00.860 who's doing what and whether or not you're you know pulling your weight or he's pulling his weight

00:08:05.060 that's just a toxic environment to function in to have a relationship in and so i learned that lesson

00:08:12.240 pretty early on in my marriage i remember in the very beginning it was like okay he's got his bank

00:08:16.420 account i've got my bank account and he's gonna pay these bills i'm gonna pay those bills for some

00:08:20.800 marriages that works out but i remember you know cenk yuger my co-host and the founder of the young

00:08:26.200 turks he kind of pulled me aside and said you're kind of paving a path to a lot of conflict here you

00:08:33.340 have to see your marriage as a partnership and don't think of it as his money versus my money and

00:08:38.640 honestly that was the best advice i ever got in my marriage and we do really well together and i

00:08:43.860 don't you know he's not keeping track of whether i'm pulling my weight i'm not keeping track of

00:08:47.820 whether he's pulling his weight we have mutual love and mutual respect for each other and we look out

00:08:52.060 for each other that's that's in my opinion a successful marriage it reminds me of um not not

00:08:57.400 your particular example but you know remember the joy club the joy luck club um where one of the

00:09:03.800 four women it's all about these four moms and then their next gen coming up and uh the lives that all

00:09:10.060 eight women are leading and the one daughter of the mom is in a marriage where the guy like makes her

00:09:17.300 write down if she ate the the tub of ice cream that was in the freezer because it's going to come off of

00:09:24.680 her share of the grocery money you know she ate the ice cream and that's four dollars that she now owes

00:09:30.200 it was so i mean it's abusive really is what it is it's it's abuse see there's this is again any

00:09:36.880 behavior women don't like they label as abusive it could be annoying right but i mean ladies let's be

00:09:42.860 honest we haven't done anything annoying that the guys could say is abusive right you know so i want

00:09:49.860 to get to i think there's going to be a clip that's coming in a bit where they talk about men not wanting

00:09:54.560 a working woman so we're going to get to it you said um but i do think there's something happening

00:09:59.180 with men and women in you know on the conservative side of the aisle that's a little upsetting uh to

00:10:07.000 me right now and that is like as as we have bent over backwards as conservatives or you know right

00:10:13.580 leaning people to make clear to women that they don't have to quote have it all that like if they

00:10:18.960 don't want to work outside of the home and they want to be stay-at-home wives or stay-at-home moms

00:10:24.960 to like doing it all that's a totally amazing choice and no one should look down on it it's

00:10:30.640 the most important job in the world it's literally the most important job in the world to become to be

00:10:33.560 a mother and to raise good children but like so many things we over correct we do it on the right

00:10:38.140 the left does it too so when women say we got to meet in the middle that means i want to control

00:10:44.100 the message in the exact way when we say we're going too far now we're going too far to the right

00:10:48.340 that's them tone policing right so they're going to come back and they're going to tone police so

00:10:52.460 next so here's the thing about megan kelly megan kelly had a career at fox news now as you guys

00:10:57.320 know in the female conservative commentator life cycle what they tend to do is they tend to go into

00:11:02.240 a male industry but still demand to be treated like women oftentimes they use their beauty and their

00:11:07.360 sexuality to get ahead sometimes just beauty right you can't be a fat slob and be a conservative

00:11:12.900 commentator not usually anyways um especially a female a guy maybe but a female like i don't think

00:11:18.780 i think chank is is a bigger dude but as a woman no you can't do it but what they happens is the

00:11:24.240 women they get this ego boost right because they think it's their talent and sure you know women are

00:11:30.560 somewhat talented but the both of these women are cute they're both woods right what you know they're

00:11:35.700 pretty for their age like wood right for most men so but they start to think it's how amazing special

00:11:42.620 and awesome they are now megan kelly i believe did sue fox news and um so probably what i would guess

00:11:50.100 happened is she slept with someone there to get ahead and then it was found out now she's got to

00:11:54.720 sue and say it was harassment i don't know i don't know that's that's um my speculation okay speculative

00:12:00.680 but that's usually how it goes when a woman sues okay and what's happening right now on the right

00:12:05.980 to some extent is it's it's morphing into and there's something wrong with somebody who works

00:12:11.620 and the women who work yeah so now the men are so these women oftentimes they've never really heard

00:12:17.980 or cared about what their husbands want and do you know what men it's not they necessarily want a woman

00:12:24.500 who doesn't work because there's a lot of men that don't want the legal risk and you do

00:12:28.420 if the woman earns similar that can be a benefit um i know men that's something that they want like

00:12:37.260 they only want kids with women with money they don't want lifetime alimony they're done but in

00:12:42.960 terms of money it brings nothing to a relationship other than um taking down i guess risk you could say

00:12:51.880 in a relationship for the guy right but a lot of times what happens is the female conservative

00:12:57.780 commentator we're just praised 24 7 like men can pick up garbage off the road they can build the

00:13:03.980 buildings pave the roads you guys never get praise you'll post an instagram of your day you'll get

00:13:08.640 like one like but women we get likes for just existing we get attention we walk into a bar having

00:13:14.860 accomplished nothing we'll still be the center of the attention it just is what it is right but

00:13:19.540 what happens is some women know okay it's just because i'm a woman other women believe it feeds their ego

00:13:27.160 right and so they've never really had to pay attention to what men want right they've never

00:13:32.400 had to do the hard stuff are less attractive and not good partners and and they're also not used to

00:13:39.520 people are starting to see through the bullshit right so if you're a conservative commentator woman

00:13:45.060 and you're going on different shows every other week we all know you're not watching your kids someone

00:13:50.680 else's it's either your husband or someone else that you hired and people are kind of wising up and

00:13:55.720 realizing these people aren't really good parents the kids get older they start talking but the women

00:14:01.660 aren't used to be called being called out on this and so megan kelly um she's kind of gotten away with

00:14:07.820 this her whole career and now it's time where reality is gonna hit also if you choose to work in like

00:14:14.760 your 20s and your 30s and spend a lot of time at the office you're effing up your whole life you're not

00:14:20.680 gonna meet a man and you're not gonna have a kid that's not true at all there's always somebody

00:14:25.080 right i i will i will never i think that women can find husbands at 55 now i know you're you think

00:14:32.320 i'm nuts but i know women that have done it now it's totally the exception it's not the rule but in

00:14:37.780 my opinion it's just because it's like if i if i have a 50 year old woman she still gets so much

00:14:44.980 male attention from the men in like their 70s or 80s like it just keeps going older now obviously

00:14:51.060 it's less right they get ugly or whatever but my point is like there's always somebody that'll do

00:14:57.660 it now the the challenge is more their personality i mean and looks right you can get away with more

00:15:02.280 the better looking you are um but usually the women will just eliminate the guys for no reason too

00:15:08.300 so it's like you know so i'm i'm not one to say no one will do it um someone will always do it even

00:15:14.980 though that's not necessarily true it's much easier to meet somebody and have a baby in your 20s because

00:15:21.120 you're young and you got your totally golden eggs but so many women have kids in their 30s i mean

00:15:28.180 with it's gonna be the norm right that's where the trends are going it's just gonna get older and

00:15:33.040 older and older but this is kind of how it's gonna go so women are gonna be sold they're gonna be

00:15:37.480 young forever right now we're getting marketing that we can have kids in our 40s right and in a

00:15:42.300 way with money we have beat biology when i found out the ivf stats i couldn't actually believe it

00:15:49.820 because a woman in her 20s every cycle it's like 25 chance of getting pregnant if you shoot up in the

00:15:55.860 club during when she's ovulating i guess during ivf it's 50 so if you have money now the difference is

00:16:04.360 you get 12 tries a year with like a 20 year old with the 35 year old it's money every single time

00:16:11.540 and most of you guys are not cash cows you're not you don't want to spend i think it's like 10k around

00:16:17.000 so who wants to spend um 30k on a kid a lot of men do it right but but for every 10 women that are sold

00:16:26.920 that dream you know maybe three will get it let's say and in their 40s maybe two will get it but the

00:16:33.620 two that get it and it's going to be way more than happened in the past right because there's so much

00:16:39.520 money that's going to be invested in beating infertility so the men are going to know that

00:16:45.300 if i invent technology to make women have kids longer they know there's so much money in that so

00:16:51.920 there's a lot of incentive to keep making the technology better if you if you have the money

00:16:56.100 for it right but the challenge is it most women aren't going to get that and you're going to see

00:17:02.620 women put on a pedestal like for example tom brady's um ex-wife giselle is having a kid in her her 40s

00:17:09.540 well this woman's been thin her entire life and she also has i don't know hundreds of millions of

00:17:16.880 dollars so she can afford to do like unlimited iv you know she's got the money and poor women are

00:17:23.480 going to think they can do that it's not you if you can't you know or women like megan kelly who

00:17:30.100 could do it or anna cat i don't think anna has kids but they could hypothetically do it and remember

00:17:35.420 even rich women take l's um i think jennifer aniston she's one of the ones who kind of took an l on that

00:17:41.660 front so it's not even like all the rich women will get it but you know if you have a

00:17:46.860 hundred women let's say going for kids in their 40s where before grandma was like i'm done i had

00:17:52.900 10 kids already again it's going to be a weird world we're going into weird territory without

00:17:58.760 fertility help and and we've just sort of gotten to this place on the right where the messaging to

00:18:03.820 me is like it's making me really uncomfortable what do you make of it well it's always made me

00:18:09.580 uncomfortable especially because i i think the best possible situation is the situation in which

00:18:15.600 women get to decide right so if they decide they want to be stay-at-home mothers i think it's

00:18:20.960 important to have the economic condition yeah and so again she's saying we should get to decide well

00:18:25.180 you do what is that now you got to decide to do what you're doing but what you want to do is you

00:18:30.380 want to make decisions and have people not judge you for it men understand this is not a possibility

00:18:35.880 right if a guy wants to have five girlfriends he knows the world is going to tell him he's a terrible

00:18:41.660 person like the women will shame him other men will shame him he knows that and he says fuck it

00:18:48.620 i'm fucking these hoes you know he he keeps going with it he's like have you ever guys met like a

00:18:54.000 ruthless player they do not care they don't they've been told they're doing it wrong their whole life

00:19:00.440 they've had girlfriends try to shame them their family the girls family no there is nothing more stone

00:19:07.080 cold than like a a guy that's like juggled a bunch of women but women haven't had to do this reality

00:19:15.040 because the world kind of coddles us for bad decisions because they just bail us out now you

00:19:21.160 know and maybe i'll coddle even further it's not necessarily a bad thing right if you choose to have

00:19:27.800 kids whenever i mean it's your life it's your kid if you raise a serial killer just stay away from my kid

00:19:33.140 you know stay away from my family right but my point is this women aren't used to having

00:19:40.060 consequences like the world judging them but now women are going to be treated like men

00:19:45.000 yep additions that allow for that to happen and i have a lot of respect for stay-at-home moms i agree

00:19:50.320 with you i think that's literally the most difficult job in the world now we got to stop saying that being

00:19:55.560 a mother is the most difficult job in the world okay it's really not all right when men do you know it's

00:20:01.440 funny when men when i hear about like being a parent from men and women i'd like to say as a

00:20:07.200 rule of thumb when women say something is really difficult and hard i can almost always guarantee

00:20:12.180 it's not that difficult or hard like that's that's my rule of thumb right but men if you ask them about

00:20:18.660 having a kid they're like it's great it's the best thing ever i get so much joy out of fatherhood it's

00:20:23.160 not that i thought it was going to be so hard it wasn't like that's the that's the feedback i get but

00:20:29.920 from women again it's the same rhetoric it's the most difficult job really like a coal miner

00:20:35.480 let me get this your job is more difficult than going under the ground and getting coal right

00:20:44.120 your job is more difficult than those guys that clean windows right and they're like on the side

00:20:50.480 of a building cleaning a window risking their life right loggers that's the number one cause of death

00:20:57.620 in the midwest being a logger your job is harder okay watching a five year a baby crying is more

00:21:05.680 difficult than the men risking their lives to build this country okay delusion i mean this is and this

00:21:14.540 is the thing we say these things all the time but there's no pushback because hell has no fury like a

00:21:20.000 woman scorned so we can just say dumb shit like 24 7 and nobody pushes back on us because they don't

00:21:28.040 want to i mean they don't want to deal with women right i mean it's like the nagging oh the nagging

00:21:33.760 the crying the lawsuits it's like god damn it just never ends and uh it's important for for kids to

00:21:41.660 have that close relationship with their mother growing up especially in like the formative years

00:21:45.620 but i do think that it's possible for mothers to work and still be great mothers okay it is

00:21:53.580 possible but let me give you the caveats here are jobs where i think it's possible um i do think it's

00:22:00.140 possible i actually do think youtubers can do it biased right but it has to be at home you cannot be

00:22:07.160 going on these like when i see youtubers that say they're good moms and they're going on these media

00:22:11.520 tours like you're going on all these different shows traveling who's someone else is watching

00:22:16.560 your kid it's not you teachers i think that you can do it not when the kid's young but like i don't

00:22:21.860 see why you couldn't be a good mom and be a teacher you have the same schedule as the kid

00:22:27.020 right there are work from home jobs but everyone knows that's not what you mean

00:22:33.460 like do you know what i mean because if you guys were actually doing it all you wouldn't have to

00:22:39.520 rationalize it like megan kelly going in every day at fox news and going on all these big shows

00:22:46.760 and being gone 10 hours a day if your kid's not coming with you where are they do you know what i

00:22:52.240 mean like like tv's at night so like i mean when i went on pierce morgan i went on at like

00:22:58.060 eight o'clock at night so when the kid's like under five who's watching it you know like teenagers

00:23:04.080 are a different story right i mean teenagers don't even want to hang out with their parents

00:23:08.260 i mean teenagers are like they want to i mean i don't want to hang out with my parents so i was

00:23:12.940 like i'm too cool right now i begged them to hang out with me it's like oh the tables have turned

00:23:18.740 but you guys see what i'm saying but the women that are rationalizing it it's because they get this

00:23:26.500 criticism from their kids and that's why they're mad because you never hear men rationalize doing it

00:23:33.260 all right and there's a lot of really great single dads out there i mean single father homes turn out

00:23:38.600 the same as two parent homes pretty much so what does that tell us the men are doing it all that's

00:23:44.840 that's the hilarious thing men actually figure out how to do it all because they have a job they watch

00:23:51.680 the kid and they figure out how to do it all but the women have to keep marketing to everyone that

00:23:57.180 they're doing it all so if you have to tell me it's like if you have to tell me you're rich are you

00:24:01.620 really rich do you know what i mean like if you have to tell me that you're making a lot of money

00:24:07.460 like i should just be able to tell and it's the same thing with these mothers if you have to tell

00:24:12.080 me that you're such a great mother then why are you raising criminals right why are your kids on

00:24:16.720 only fans right i mean these stats are coming from the women not the men the thing is a lot of women

00:24:22.460 don't even have that choice you get what i'm saying i especially yes for an economy with inflation

00:24:27.260 so how many women said hey i'm okay with living in a a small apartment i'm okay with not living in

00:24:35.260 the best neighborhoods not going to the best schools i'm okay with working part-time just so i can be

00:24:42.440 home with the kids right i'll get a job from my laptop i mean guys there's so many dumb jobs that

00:24:49.400 like you don't do anything at i mean can we just be honest here can we be honest

00:24:54.100 and every company 20 of the people do 80 of the work right every company that's how it is

00:25:01.560 so you could be one of the 80 of the people doing pretty much nothing there's jobs available and i'm

00:25:08.840 trying to work with these women here but they want the high flying careers they want to go on all the

00:25:14.920 shows they want it just is what it is i would love to live in a world where i could be a stay-at-home

00:25:21.140 you know housewife i know but you you still have to could you would you give up your botox ladies we

00:25:26.380 know you wouldn't and i'm not saying you should right what i'm saying is you can't accept the cost

00:25:32.300 men will accept that they're like i have to work night shifts i'm not going to be around this is

00:25:37.240 just what it is sorry kid and they don't try to rationalize their behavior because they know

00:25:42.080 they're doing what they have to do but women have like they rationalize it but it's just not

00:25:47.700 realistic you know we got to pay our bills and we both have to work but i really do think

00:25:52.460 that's like the biggest cope we have to pay for your expensive habits like that's really what it

00:25:59.040 comes down to i don't think kids are that expensive maybe i think i might be humbled i may be humbled when

00:26:04.740 i actually have a kid but this is just my experience from talking to men versus women about their kids

00:26:11.280 when i talk to the women it's like oh these kids are so expensive when i talk to the men it's like

00:26:17.800 yeah not really when i talk to the guys i mean they say it's a couple hundred bucks a month

00:26:25.240 because they're not really their kid doesn't ask they they can send their kid to public school

00:26:29.920 they're okay with them not doing the club sports going to the best schools living in the best

00:26:36.200 neighborhood they're like i'll just raise the kid to be a good person and navigate this

00:26:39.900 but the women it's like they don't want anything to go wrong raising the kid so they feel like or

00:26:46.280 they just want to look really good for their friends i think we know which is more likely but

00:26:49.840 let's give them the benefit of the doubt so what they do is they need the most expensive of everything

00:26:55.160 and then they claim they need this now again this is just my interpretation if we had that economic

00:27:02.980 situation in place a lot of women would choose to be stay-at-home mothers no they wouldn't like that's

00:27:08.140 the biggest they don't want to watch their kids i mean let's just we have every indication we said

00:27:14.320 women do whatever you want you're free of your husbands you're free to do anything go do it they

00:27:18.700 said we're gonna abort we're not gonna have kids we're gonna push off motherhood as long as possible

00:27:23.380 and throw my kids in daycare i mean we only are having to one to two kids so hypothetically if you

00:27:30.920 wanted if you really wanted to as a woman right if you want to have a kid in your 30s you have a decade

00:27:38.420 to save money you have 10 years to put that in a fund and here you go now you can be a stay-at-home mom

00:27:47.140 or at least country you know part-time something and it should be their choice i don't think it's

00:27:52.480 anyone's place to judge uh the decisions that are made again so this is i want to make a choice

00:27:58.020 that's better for me and not the kids but i want nobody to judge that choice uh by any family right

00:28:03.400 it's up to that family to decide what works best for them and whether or not they could afford the

00:28:07.520 setup that they want to pursue but here's what's happening on the right young women i and i talk to

00:28:13.380 young conservative women all the time about their lives and their goals and you know the things that

00:28:17.220 they want and what's happening is they can't find men who are maybe more conservative usually

00:28:25.740 they're looking for somebody who is yeah so again they can't find chads there's a ton of simps just

00:28:30.420 go to church they're dying to give you their money okay they're dying i mean just go to any christian

00:28:35.240 church there is a group of men dying to give their money to subpar women i mean it's just i've been

00:28:41.120 alive too long for this right but here's the catch-22 they want men that are out of their league to

00:28:47.920 commit that's what they're saying religious you know like they're a lot of conservative women tend to

00:28:52.500 be god god loving uh conservatives and when when it benefits them right because that's that's the

00:28:59.460 catch it's women christian women love god when it benefits them so they love all the verses that say

00:29:05.200 they can do whatever they want and control their husband or they twist the words around to say that

00:29:11.060 so they obey when it's convenient right they can't find a lot of young men who want to marry a working

00:29:17.500 woman now this is an actual person that's coming up on the right and to me it's so sad because it's

00:29:23.280 like how did we get to the point where we were now telling yeah no i mean if you have a guy saying that

00:29:30.980 he doesn't want to date you because you're working guys don't care i mean if anything some guys are

00:29:38.140 going to view that as it's better than you being in the club right at least she's doing something

00:29:42.140 but it's that we've made the career our identity right so the guy's gonna look at that and say

00:29:50.920 where's the time for me are we gonna hang out when are we gonna what are we gonna do you know

00:29:56.940 and yeah that's the challenge young conservative amazing women that they're not attractive if they

00:30:06.760 also work if again it's the traits that you get from working right it's not oh you're unattractive

00:30:13.860 if you work right it's the traits and thinking it means something and the ego it gives us we just

00:30:20.360 think we're so awesome because we got the easy female money if they choose to let's say do what

00:30:25.400 i'm doing and what you're doing and like yeah see they're gonna make it about them because they're

00:30:29.260 offended get their voice out there but i'll stick with me just because i think conservatives listening to

00:30:33.960 this will like the thought of another megan kelly voice up megan you've been married like three

00:30:39.340 times like this is what annoys me okay like you could point to your life and as an example of why

00:30:48.680 we're marrying a working woman doesn't work you know what i mean like and i'm not i'm not faulting

00:30:53.740 her look we've all had failed relationships like it just is what it is but if anything like you're

00:31:00.140 saying this is how could this cause any problems but you were married three times been coming

00:31:07.080 well why wouldn't we want that why would we take somebody who's talented in this field and really

00:31:13.080 wants to make a difference and have the message because to raise the kid like it's so simple it's

00:31:19.800 like you can't it's just what's the priority is the priority you or the kid to her be you're really

00:31:26.780 not that valuable unless you give it up and go into the home and only have a family and only

00:31:32.640 could you just like could we could you get two years out of you can we get two years where you

00:31:37.820 don't and you just you're gonna live to be 80 two years isn't the end of the world two years to watch

00:31:44.560 your children tough sell right tough sell you raise a family and and not only were you sending her that

00:31:49.880 message but young men are actually believing that yeah so again women think because our preferences

00:31:56.400 can be like programmed right like we'll date a guy because it's trendy like we'll do it men's

00:32:01.660 preferences are not programmed so she's seeing this the way a woman would see it because you know like

00:32:08.140 women will start dating like a certain type of guy and then like women date pete davidson then

00:32:13.080 everyone's dating pete davidson or his lookalike right men aren't like that they like young hot busty

00:32:19.540 women big tits big boobs and a symmetrical face it's really not it's really that simple right

00:32:25.720 obviously they want the niceness but that's got to come second there's too many of you fellas in

00:32:30.740 divorce court where you completely overlooked all of the personality part you know so you're not

00:32:36.100 going to convince me that looks are that you guys pick character get out of here there's a reason women

00:32:45.380 are flying to mexico to get some bbl from some doctor that's on sale you know what i mean they're

00:32:51.260 actually believing especially on the right because like the trad mom has gotten so popular and it's

00:32:56.280 like yeah i mean the trad moms are just cosplaying like they can't really be trad no if we do that

00:33:01.680 we're not going to have any strong conservative or right-leaning women to provide a role model for

00:33:08.740 younger conservative women who and there's nothing to apologize for here don't necessarily want to

00:33:17.100 spend all their 20s and their 30s getting married and and having kids or can't they just weren't able

00:33:22.880 to meet somebody and definitely don't need to be yeah so again when we say we weren't able to meet

00:33:27.040 somebody and i had this i'll be honest in my early 20s i had this thought and what really was happening

00:33:33.980 was i wasn't prioritizing it we don't right and because if we really wanted to meet this is what i know

00:33:41.460 if a girl's if a girl thinks she's above dating apps i know she's not serious about meeting somebody

00:33:48.040 okay because really you got three choices as a woman men aren't really going to approach you

00:33:52.440 men do approach but it's in the right environments right but you have to send the signals first

00:33:57.720 because the men we've scared these guys right it's never been normal in my lifetime for men to approach

00:34:03.520 in the daytime so you either got to make going to the club and the bar is a priority now the trad cons

00:34:08.600 will say uh you'll never meet your husband there that's so not true like a third of the people i

00:34:13.620 know met their significant other at a bar like the alcohol is going you know so you either pray but if

00:34:19.880 you're not a drinker that can also get you fat then you got to get the dating apps you know there's

00:34:24.300 some girls that just do coffee every day till they meet a guy they like um some girls do or some women

00:34:30.760 do dinner but you know the guys again you gotta you're gonna have to weigh this out because you don't

00:34:37.400 want to get fat and the dating going on too many foodie dates is the best way to get 20 pounds i'll

00:34:42.980 tell you that or you you start dming guys or you start posting third like there has to be some

00:34:48.140 strategy and the easiest way is the dating apps every dating coach that actually helps women gets

00:34:53.320 married will tell you that because you know most women are socially awkward they're not really going

00:34:58.600 to have the balls to approach like men or you start going through your friends and family and asking

00:35:03.240 around but again like women don't want to take the ego hit of having to do work or we don't want to do

00:35:09.060 the work or like we don't want to miss brunch to go on a date with a guy right that's really what's

00:35:14.100 happening women want to hang out with their college friends on the weekend instead of downloading hinge

00:35:18.940 going on a dating app or does that make sense and like you're not really going to meet a guy going out

00:35:23.780 in a group like i mean you can it's just not really like dating coaches for men will tell men to avoid

00:35:29.720 that to only go for women in sets of twos those are the real hoes you know so again but i can tell

00:35:37.000 women aren't serious if there's no strategy there's no thought process put into the type of guy they

00:35:42.300 want like men if they don't meet a woman again they might not have put the time women are delusional

00:35:47.960 so it's that but they also might not have put the time into like meeting like going out and meeting

00:35:52.700 women approaching date like i mean it's like impossible but you guys get the idea but women won't do what

00:35:58.880 men have always done like men will be like oh all the hot women live there i'm gonna get an apartment

00:36:03.620 there men will be like oh all the all the hot women are there are they like men that are skaters let

00:36:10.780 me buy a skateboard but women won't put on a dress right it's like we'll get tattoos and make ourselves

00:36:16.820 uglier instead of cuter right shamed over it yeah i mean look i totally agree with you i'm i'm of two

00:36:23.200 minds of this though because if you are a young man and you know what you want and you think you

00:36:29.220 have the earning power to literally carry the entire family financially well then i guess wait

00:36:35.120 around until you find the right woman for you but i think most women not all but most women even

00:36:41.320 conservative women think it's important to have some level of financial independence right i mean you

00:36:48.020 never know if your marriage is going to go perfectly well things could fall apart and if you

00:36:53.080 haven't been in the job market at all for a long time it's going to be difficult for you to get back

00:36:58.240 in so i look it really depends on the the guy and if he really has a problem with his wife working well

00:37:05.860 then that's on him and i think he's actually going to have some difficulty finding a partner but there's

00:37:12.260 so many factors to consider including the financial difficulty of living in a single uh income

00:37:18.880 household where you're again translation i have a lot of expensive habits i want equinox membership i

00:37:26.940 want i want botox i want heavy makeup i want my haircut done and i won't i expect you to pay for it yeah

00:37:35.600 trying to raise kids and look i also think whether these guys want to believe it or not when you have

00:37:41.960 a stay-at-home wife i've seen too many instances of this resentment building because for whatever

00:37:50.080 reason guys tend to think that oh well she's staying home she's not out there working as hard as i am

00:37:56.400 she's just home raising the kids we're not right that's it's pretty much that's true yeah kids she

00:38:01.860 has a comfortable life i'm providing i mean that's like because a lot of housewives are lazy because they

00:38:06.200 get the clout of being i know you're like pearl you're you're attacking everybody i come for

00:38:11.460 everybody but there is there is a category there's good housewives right but there's a category of

00:38:17.860 ones who are kind of lazy because they don't want to work for example hillary crowder on paper was a

00:38:22.960 housewife that had a nanny working 60 hours a week what was this bitch doing do you know what i mean like

00:38:28.460 what what were you doing with your time for her this like resentment starts to build and i've seen it

00:38:35.900 all over the place it's usually only building if you're lazy right that's that's the i've seen it

00:38:40.860 in context like my own family like men don't want lazy women right they don't want career women but

00:38:46.700 they don't want a woman that just does nothing all day because we just get up to shit when we're bored

00:38:51.820 i've seen it you know outside of my family and so i i think they don't really know what they're asking

00:38:57.760 for here but i could be wrong who knows and i agree with you i think that it is important to have

00:39:02.680 strong female voices on both sides of the political is it i mean i know this is hypocritical

00:39:08.360 but who cares what women have to say do you know i mean like do we really care as a society what

00:39:12.740 women have to say it's like shake the tits ladies i know what you're here for i'll and i think they

00:39:19.880 could really be hurting the conservative movement by essentially you know back to tone policing

00:39:25.700 banning women from taking part in conservative media i mean again translation i want the benefits of

00:39:32.340 having an awesome media job without the criticism that comes with it look i have three hour hit

00:39:37.840 pieces made on me i have three hour essay videos dedicated to criticizing every part of my life

00:39:45.340 and do i complain no because i get to talk for a living this is awesome you're one of the strongest

00:39:51.180 conservative voices you know female voices out there so if you didn't exist i don't know i just don't

00:39:58.020 think the conservative message would be as powerful well thank you for that um i think they'd be fine

00:40:02.020 but i do think that there's a strain especially of young women who appreciate seeing a strong

00:40:07.300 conservative woman who's who's had a who's had a voice in this lane okay well you guys get the idea

00:40:13.380 so again i like megan kelly i i kind of like anna casparian but this is a lot of cope right c-o-p-e

00:40:20.960 cope and it is what it is i don't really have a problem with women working but i don't really think

00:40:26.660 we need this whole i can do it all culture because if you're really a good mom you wouldn't really have

00:40:31.700 to convince us you would just be it right we would see through your actions anyways let me know what

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Pearl - April 19, 2025

Megyn Kelly & Ana Kasparian COPE Hard Over Men REJECTING Boss Babes

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