Pearl - Modern Women Slept with Devestated Man’s Closest Friend

00:00:00.000 Do I tell him that I've slept with two of his closest friends or do I not mention it and hope

00:00:05.100 they never bring it? Lie. Yeah, that's what I would tell you. Yeah, lie. Yeah, because if he

00:00:09.580 finds out you're cooked. I left my boyfriend and I've been traveling for 10 days. Oh, shoot. Hold

00:00:14.820 on. You got to be kidding. Okay, hold on. I got to put the confirm. Wait, no. There we go.

00:00:22.900 All right. And I've slept with 22 people in that 10 days. My goal was 20 and I just hit 22 this

00:00:35.040 morning. It's 1 p.m. now here in Paris and I need to check out because I'm going home. I really doubt

00:00:41.660 I'm going to get another one on the board, either on the plane or like on my layover. So I think 22

00:00:48.780 is where we're going to cap it out. Yeah. So again, we have incentive to lie. Assuming she's

00:00:54.000 telling the truth, that's love of the game, man. That's love of the game. The idea that you shouldn't

00:00:59.020 sleep with someone, particularly men, on the first date because they might not respect you or see you

00:01:03.700 as like wifey material is antiquated. It's stupid. Yes, there are men who say and think this, but they

00:01:08.720 just don't respect women, period. So irrelevant. For the most part, sleeping with someone on day one

00:01:13.820 doesn't really impact your chances with them. I personally have had many relationships and a

00:01:19.860 couple of proposals with guys that I like slept with before really like dating them and like on

00:01:25.140 the first day or even like before the first date. And I dumped all of them. The relationships did not

00:01:30.280 work out. And this is why I think you should not sleep with someone on the first date or the first

00:01:35.840 few dates. It's not because I think they're going to see you differently. It's because I have dated

00:01:40.760 people that I would never have dated if I had taken the time to go on a few dates with them

00:01:45.820 and get to know them better before I slept with them. Like I be getting digmatized. Do not make

00:01:52.140 my mistake. Not have sex with someone until you know that you fundamentally like them and are aligned

00:01:56.340 with them. I have slept with two of his closest friends. Don't worry about it. I matched with a guy

00:02:03.800 from my area on Tinder, also 22. And we messaged for a little while. I did the usuals, doctor's

00:02:11.120 Insta, and I saw that we had a lot of mutuals. And he had pictures with not one, but two other

00:02:18.240 boys that I have slept with in the past. Okay. It's funny. She's put blankets when I was in my crazy

00:02:24.960 girl era. I have been on many dates with this guy and we frequently stay to the places. And I am

00:02:31.140 really starting to see him as someone I want and see in my future. But in getting to know him,

00:02:37.380 I have found out that these two boys that I've slept with are actually very good friends of his.

00:02:42.680 I'm stuck between, do I tell him that I've slept with two of his closest friends or do I not mention

00:02:48.600 it and hope they never bring it? Lie. Yeah. That's what I would tell you. Yeah. Lie. Yeah. Cause if he

00:02:53.720 finds out you're cooked, so you have two choices here. This is what I tell her. And I'm not saying this

00:02:58.160 based on morality. I'm saying based on outcomes, right? If you want a good outcome, um, I would

00:03:03.020 lie. And, um, yeah, that's, and hope now you will have to prepare cause they might tell him they

00:03:11.300 probably will tell him, but, um, I would avoid the friends. Like maybe say they like, be like,

00:03:19.540 you know what, honey, have your boys tonight. I don't want to go, you know, you, you deserve to be,

00:03:26.700 and he's like, don't you want to meet my friends and be like, well, you know, why, why ruin what we

00:03:30.760 have? That's what I would tell her to do. You know?

Pearl - April 17, 2025