Pearl - April 24, 2025


Modern Women Want it ALL!


Episode Stats

Length

7 minutes

Words per Minute

195.82388

Word Count

1,438

Sentence Count

116

Misogynist Sentences

29

Hate Speech Sentences

16


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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Why do you think women deserve less?
00:00:01.420 When I say women deserve less,
00:00:03.640 there's other aspects too,
00:00:05.440 but that's what I mean as in dating.
00:00:06.860 Don't simp on women that already get everything given to them.
00:00:09.580 I've seen some of your podcasts and stuff like that.
00:00:11.320 I haven't watched the full thing,
00:00:12.380 but I really just want to know why do you think women deserve less?
00:00:15.440 Because it's like a controversial,
00:00:17.040 obviously it's going to catch people's attention.
00:00:18.660 Sure, sure.
00:00:20.340 When I say women deserve less,
00:00:22.660 it's for a multitude of different reasons,
00:00:24.460 but I'll just focus on, let's say dating for now.
00:00:27.060 So guys have this warped ideology
00:00:33.300 that being a gentleman and being super nice
00:00:35.260 and being caring makes you more attractive to women,
00:00:39.060 but the reality is attraction and arousal are two different things.
00:00:43.860 And by being a nice guy,
00:00:45.280 what ends up happening a lot of times is you get stuck in the friend zone.
00:00:48.620 And what I tell guys, and I talk about this in my book,
00:00:51.160 guys got to give women less.
00:00:52.820 If you look at the cover,
00:00:54.800 I have money there, relationships, social media,
00:00:57.060 and time.
00:00:58.440 And the reason for that is because we live in a deregulated sexual marketplace.
00:01:02.400 And what that basically means is assuming two parties have the age of consent,
00:01:06.920 anyone could hook up.
00:01:08.180 Now, we thought this would be a good idea in the 60s
00:01:11.100 with the explosion of feminism and birth control, et cetera.
00:01:13.920 But what ended up happening was when you leave women to their own devices,
00:01:17.420 they date the best guys that they can get.
00:01:19.300 And that problem has been exacerbated as they become more educated
00:01:21.980 and made more money.
00:01:22.580 So it's left a lot of normal guys out of the realm.
00:01:25.740 So what I tell guys is you need a woman that's going to reciprocate that attention
00:01:30.480 because we're in a position now where they have all the leverage
00:01:34.800 and a lot of guys are over here courting and dealing with women
00:01:37.220 that quite frankly don't deserve it.
00:01:38.440 So when I say women deserve less, you know, there's other aspects too,
00:01:42.940 but that's what I mean as in like dating, don't simp on women
00:01:45.160 that already get everything given to them.
00:01:48.620 I hope that answers your question.
00:01:50.360 Yeah.
00:01:51.220 Isn't that just like a generalization though?
00:01:52.900 Because I feel like it's case-specific with every person.
00:01:55.220 Like when you say that, it's like you matching one archetype of men
00:01:58.700 with another archetype of women and then you making that the case for everybody.
00:02:02.820 Well, I think the world operates on generalities, right?
00:02:05.280 There's a reason why Braille isn't everywhere because there's not that many blind people.
00:02:08.920 That's a great analogy.
00:02:11.340 There's a reason Braille isn't everywhere.
00:02:14.220 That's great.
00:02:15.080 That's really good.
00:02:15.880 So, you know, in general, you know, being a nice guy is going to set you back.
00:02:20.260 Now, are there some girls out there that are, you know,
00:02:22.020 will reward you and give you sex and a blowjob for being a nice guy?
00:02:25.680 Sure.
00:02:26.260 But the reality is being a nice guy typically always puts you on your back foot.
00:02:31.720 And I think in today's day and age where women have an enormous amount of leverage
00:02:34.680 in a dating marketplace, guys need to kind of go in there with their eyes wide open
00:02:37.900 so they don't put themselves in a bad situation.
00:02:40.380 So generalizations are typically how the world works.
00:02:42.900 Of course, there's always going to be anomalies.
00:02:44.260 There's always going to be exceptions to the rule.
00:02:46.420 But I think in general, men need to operate from a position
00:02:48.920 where they're mitigating risk and not investing too much up front.
00:02:52.300 Because we have way more on the line than women do when we get in relationships.
00:02:57.240 Yeah, because women can literally ruin your life.
00:03:00.680 They destroy men.
00:03:01.480 They do it all the time.
00:03:02.520 Shannon Sharp cooked.
00:03:04.080 He's done.
00:03:04.920 Cooked.
00:03:05.800 Doesn't even matter if he's guilty or innocent.
00:03:08.340 One accusation.
00:03:09.360 Cooked.
00:03:09.740 Done.
00:03:11.260 So you say, like, sex.
00:03:13.300 Do you think that's the end goal of a relationship?
00:03:16.240 Like, where do you view that?
00:03:18.100 Well, it's the main agency that women have.
00:03:19.700 What if you don't give them that agency, though?
00:03:22.920 If you have, like, different priorities, generally.
00:03:25.720 The man or the woman?
00:03:27.020 The man.
00:03:28.560 Okay, what do you mean by that?
00:03:29.740 If you can kind of.
00:03:31.020 Like, if you don't go into a relationship just expecting to get that out of it,
00:03:34.340 then there's really no leverage there.
00:03:36.520 If that's not something you really want out of that person.
00:03:38.300 Well, a lot of the time, that's cope, right?
00:03:39.980 So, like, guys will sit there and they'll be taking a girl on her seventh date.
00:03:43.380 They've been talking for, like, three, four, five months, six months.
00:03:45.660 And they'll sit there and cope and be like, oh, no, like, I'm just building something up.
00:03:48.880 But the reality is she's fucking some other guy.
00:03:51.080 Yeah, what's the longest you guys are going to wait for a girl that you perceive to be good?
00:03:57.740 To be a good girl.
00:03:59.460 What's your max in 2025?
00:04:03.660 Here's what I've seen.
00:04:05.500 I think, guys, we'll give you a month, maybe six weeks, if you can really pull that purity card.
00:04:15.380 Tell marriage only a simp.
00:04:17.160 She's blown somebody.
00:04:18.620 Sorry, guys.
00:04:21.000 I went to Catholic school.
00:04:22.820 I saw the girls doing this workaround.
00:04:25.140 You know what I mean?
00:04:26.240 Like, they always get you.
00:04:28.180 But the women, they just have to have a very gentle voice.
00:04:32.860 And you guys fall for it a lot.
00:04:35.740 You said, yeah, Troy says a couple weeks.
00:04:38.800 Mr. Nice Guy says one hour.
00:04:41.140 Get out of here.
00:04:42.120 What are you, Chad?
00:04:44.540 You are going to, you'll wait longer than an hour.
00:04:47.920 Come on.
00:04:49.260 Right?
00:04:49.380 And the reality is that men need to understand that women, right, they sell purity, they sell sugar and spice and everything nice.
00:04:59.680 But what will happen is they'll open themselves up sexually to the men that they respect and are aroused by and then make the nice guy wait.
00:05:05.460 Right?
00:05:05.620 And they're able to kind of double dip doing that.
00:05:07.580 So I think with guys, they got to basically push for sex fairly quickly in a relationship to ensure that they're not getting used.
00:05:15.160 Yeah.
00:05:15.640 I think with Joe...
00:05:20.060 Because that is their main, I mean, just let's be honest here.
00:05:22.020 Like, that is their main commodity, their main agency.
00:05:24.660 Like, if women didn't have vaginas, we wouldn't care.
00:05:27.000 No one would talk to them.
00:05:27.800 I wouldn't say that because that's like half the population.
00:05:30.160 You just, like, dehumanize and half the population with that statement.
00:05:33.900 I mean, well, it's the reality.
00:05:35.200 We're put on earth to procreate, correct?
00:05:36.940 So men, our job is to provide resources.
00:05:40.320 Their job is to extract resources.
00:05:42.540 And it's been this way since the beginning of time.
00:05:44.140 The only reason we're able to have this whole, you know, moral situation is because of modernity and the access to technology and how we've progressed.
00:05:51.940 But the reality is, you know, in times of, when times are not peaceful, we get closer and closer to our traditional gender roles, right?
00:06:00.080 There is no feminism when the lights are off.
00:06:01.760 There is no feminism with war.
00:06:03.260 There is no feminism when it comes to preserving society and moving on forward.
00:06:07.600 So, you know, the reality is, is that that's why the genders deal with each other.
00:06:11.880 Men provide resources.
00:06:12.920 Women provide access to sex.
00:06:14.220 That's the face men make when they know something is true, but they can't say it.
00:06:25.740 They get this half smile.
00:06:28.300 It's like, silence, what?
00:06:29.300 It's like when I had a conversation with someone the other day, and I was like, women spend more.
00:06:38.900 And I even said, I said, look, if you made the money I made at one point, wouldn't you have done something better with it?
00:06:45.240 He's like, yeah.
00:06:46.960 Because he was like, well, some women are smart.
00:06:48.620 And I'm like, even smart women make dumb decisions.
00:06:50.540 I know another person.
00:06:53.260 I'm trying to be more broad, guys.
00:06:55.420 So this is what I've had to do in my show.
00:06:58.520 I had another person I know, and she was very intelligent.
00:07:01.880 She was an engineering major.
00:07:04.160 She completed the, I think she became like a mechanical engineer, went to grad school.
00:07:08.820 She still got like $150,000 worth of student debt and then bought a house.
00:07:15.100 We make dumb decisions all the time.
00:07:17.000 All the time.
00:07:17.840 Just is what it is.
00:07:18.720 I'm going to come back.
00:07:19.220 I'm going to come back.
00:07:19.700 Okay, no problem.