Pearl - April 24, 2025Modern Women Want it ALL!
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Summary
In this episode, I sit down with author, author, speaker, and author of the new book Why Women Deserve Less and discuss why he thinks women deserve less. We talk about why he believes this and why women should have less.
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Don't simp on women that already get everything given to them.
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I've seen some of your podcasts and stuff like that.
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but I really just want to know why do you think women deserve less?
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obviously it's going to catch people's attention.
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but I'll just focus on, let's say dating for now.
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and being caring makes you more attractive to women,
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but the reality is attraction and arousal are two different things.
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what ends up happening a lot of times is you get stuck in the friend zone.
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And what I tell guys, and I talk about this in my book,
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I have money there, relationships, social media,
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And the reason for that is because we live in a deregulated sexual marketplace.
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And what that basically means is assuming two parties have the age of consent,
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Now, we thought this would be a good idea in the 60s
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with the explosion of feminism and birth control, et cetera.
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But what ended up happening was when you leave women to their own devices,
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And that problem has been exacerbated as they become more educated
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So it's left a lot of normal guys out of the realm.
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So what I tell guys is you need a woman that's going to reciprocate that attention
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because we're in a position now where they have all the leverage
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and a lot of guys are over here courting and dealing with women
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So when I say women deserve less, you know, there's other aspects too,
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but that's what I mean as in like dating, don't simp on women
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that already get everything given to them.
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Because I feel like it's case-specific with every person.
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Like when you say that, it's like you matching one archetype of men
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with another archetype of women and then you making that the case for everybody.
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Well, I think the world operates on generalities, right?
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There's a reason why Braille isn't everywhere because there's not that many blind people.
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So, you know, in general, you know, being a nice guy is going to set you back.
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Now, are there some girls out there that are, you know,
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will reward you and give you sex and a blowjob for being a nice guy?
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But the reality is being a nice guy typically always puts you on your back foot.
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And I think in today's day and age where women have an enormous amount of leverage
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in a dating marketplace, guys need to kind of go in there with their eyes wide open
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so they don't put themselves in a bad situation.
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So generalizations are typically how the world works.
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Of course, there's always going to be anomalies.
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There's always going to be exceptions to the rule.
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But I think in general, men need to operate from a position
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where they're mitigating risk and not investing too much up front.
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Because we have way more on the line than women do when we get in relationships.
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Yeah, because women can literally ruin your life.
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Doesn't even matter if he's guilty or innocent.
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Do you think that's the end goal of a relationship?
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Well, it's the main agency that women have.
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What if you don't give them that agency, though?
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If you have, like, different priorities, generally.
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Like, if you don't go into a relationship just expecting to get that out of it,
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If that's not something you really want out of that person.
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So, like, guys will sit there and they'll be taking a girl on her seventh date.
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They've been talking for, like, three, four, five months, six months.
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And they'll sit there and cope and be like, oh, no, like, I'm just building something up.
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But the reality is she's fucking some other guy.
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Yeah, what's the longest you guys are going to wait for a girl that you perceive to be good?
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I think, guys, we'll give you a month, maybe six weeks, if you can really pull that purity card.
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But the women, they just have to have a very gentle voice.
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You are going to, you'll wait longer than an hour.
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And the reality is that men need to understand that women, right, they sell purity, they sell sugar and spice and everything nice.
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But what will happen is they'll open themselves up sexually to the men that they respect and are aroused by and then make the nice guy wait.
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And they're able to kind of double dip doing that.
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So I think with guys, they got to basically push for sex fairly quickly in a relationship to ensure that they're not getting used.
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Because that is their main, I mean, just let's be honest here.
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Like, that is their main commodity, their main agency.
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Like, if women didn't have vaginas, we wouldn't care.
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I wouldn't say that because that's like half the population.
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You just, like, dehumanize and half the population with that statement.
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And it's been this way since the beginning of time.
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The only reason we're able to have this whole, you know, moral situation is because of modernity and the access to technology and how we've progressed.
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But the reality is, you know, in times of, when times are not peaceful, we get closer and closer to our traditional gender roles, right?
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There is no feminism when the lights are off.
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There is no feminism when it comes to preserving society and moving on forward.
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So, you know, the reality is, is that that's why the genders deal with each other.
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That's the face men make when they know something is true, but they can't say it.
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It's like when I had a conversation with someone the other day, and I was like, women spend more.
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And I even said, I said, look, if you made the money I made at one point, wouldn't you have done something better with it?
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Because he was like, well, some women are smart.
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And I'm like, even smart women make dumb decisions.
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I had another person I know, and she was very intelligent.
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She completed the, I think she became like a mechanical engineer, went to grad school.
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She still got like $150,000 worth of student debt and then bought a house.
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