Pearl - April 24, 2025


Modern Women Want it ALL!

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Braille Nice Guy Chad
Shocking Texts EXPOSE Truth？ Modern Women ADMIT to Their Most RIDICULOUS Purchases

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Length

7 minutes

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195.82

Word count

1,438

Sentence count

137

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Misogyny

29

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Toxicity

22

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Hate speech

16

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In this episode, I sit down with author, author, speaker, and author of the new book Why Women Deserve Less and discuss why he thinks women deserve less. We talk about why he believes this and why women should have less.

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00:00:00.000 Why do you think women deserve less? 1.00
00:00:01.420 When I say women deserve less, 1.00
00:00:03.640 there's other aspects too,
00:00:05.440 but that's what I mean as in dating.
00:00:06.860 Don't simp on women that already get everything given to them. 0.87
00:00:09.580 I've seen some of your podcasts and stuff like that.
00:00:11.320 I haven't watched the full thing,
00:00:12.380 but I really just want to know why do you think women deserve less? 1.00
00:00:15.440 Because it's like a controversial,
00:00:17.040 obviously it's going to catch people's attention.
00:00:18.660 Sure, sure.
00:00:20.340 When I say women deserve less, 1.00
00:00:22.660 it's for a multitude of different reasons,
00:00:24.460 but I'll just focus on, let's say dating for now.
00:00:27.060 So guys have this warped ideology
00:00:33.300 that being a gentleman and being super nice
00:00:35.260 and being caring makes you more attractive to women,
00:00:39.060 but the reality is attraction and arousal are two different things.
00:00:43.860 And by being a nice guy,
00:00:45.280 what ends up happening a lot of times is you get stuck in the friend zone.
00:00:48.620 And what I tell guys, and I talk about this in my book,
00:00:51.160 guys got to give women less. 1.00
00:00:52.820 If you look at the cover,
00:00:54.800 I have money there, relationships, social media,
00:00:57.060 and time.
00:00:58.440 And the reason for that is because we live in a deregulated sexual marketplace.
00:01:02.400 And what that basically means is assuming two parties have the age of consent,
00:01:06.920 anyone could hook up.
00:01:08.180 Now, we thought this would be a good idea in the 60s
00:01:11.100 with the explosion of feminism and birth control, et cetera. 1.00
00:01:13.920 But what ended up happening was when you leave women to their own devices, 1.00
00:01:17.420 they date the best guys that they can get.
00:01:19.300 And that problem has been exacerbated as they become more educated
00:01:21.980 and made more money.
00:01:22.580 So it's left a lot of normal guys out of the realm.
00:01:25.740 So what I tell guys is you need a woman that's going to reciprocate that attention
00:01:30.480 because we're in a position now where they have all the leverage
00:01:34.800 and a lot of guys are over here courting and dealing with women 0.98
00:01:37.220 that quite frankly don't deserve it.
00:01:38.440 So when I say women deserve less, you know, there's other aspects too,
00:01:42.940 but that's what I mean as in like dating, don't simp on women
00:01:45.160 that already get everything given to them. 0.90
00:01:48.620 I hope that answers your question.
00:01:50.360 Yeah.
00:01:51.220 Isn't that just like a generalization though?
00:01:52.900 Because I feel like it's case-specific with every person.
00:01:55.220 Like when you say that, it's like you matching one archetype of men
00:01:58.700 with another archetype of women and then you making that the case for everybody. 1.00
00:02:02.820 Well, I think the world operates on generalities, right?
00:02:05.280 There's a reason why Braille isn't everywhere because there's not that many blind people. 1.00
00:02:08.920 That's a great analogy.
00:02:11.340 There's a reason Braille isn't everywhere.
00:02:14.220 That's great.
00:02:15.080 That's really good.
00:02:15.880 So, you know, in general, you know, being a nice guy is going to set you back.
00:02:20.260 Now, are there some girls out there that are, you know, 1.00
00:02:22.020 will reward you and give you sex and a blowjob for being a nice guy? 1.00
00:02:25.680 Sure. 0.99
00:02:26.260 But the reality is being a nice guy typically always puts you on your back foot.
00:02:31.720 And I think in today's day and age where women have an enormous amount of leverage 1.00
00:02:34.680 in a dating marketplace, guys need to kind of go in there with their eyes wide open
00:02:37.900 so they don't put themselves in a bad situation.
00:02:40.380 So generalizations are typically how the world works.
00:02:42.900 Of course, there's always going to be anomalies.
00:02:44.260 There's always going to be exceptions to the rule.
00:02:46.420 But I think in general, men need to operate from a position
00:02:48.920 where they're mitigating risk and not investing too much up front.
00:02:52.300 Because we have way more on the line than women do when we get in relationships. 1.00
00:02:57.240 Yeah, because women can literally ruin your life. 1.00
00:03:00.680 They destroy men. 0.98
00:03:01.480 They do it all the time.
00:03:02.520 Shannon Sharp cooked.
00:03:04.080 He's done.
00:03:04.920 Cooked.
00:03:05.800 Doesn't even matter if he's guilty or innocent.
00:03:08.340 One accusation.
00:03:09.360 Cooked.
00:03:09.740 Done. 0.96
00:03:11.260 So you say, like, sex.
00:03:13.300 Do you think that's the end goal of a relationship?
00:03:16.240 Like, where do you view that?
00:03:18.100 Well, it's the main agency that women have. 1.00
00:03:19.700 What if you don't give them that agency, though?
00:03:22.920 If you have, like, different priorities, generally.
00:03:25.720 The man or the woman? 0.99
00:03:27.020 The man.
00:03:28.560 Okay, what do you mean by that?
00:03:29.740 If you can kind of.
00:03:31.020 Like, if you don't go into a relationship just expecting to get that out of it,
00:03:34.340 then there's really no leverage there.
00:03:36.520 If that's not something you really want out of that person.
00:03:38.300 Well, a lot of the time, that's cope, right?
00:03:39.980 So, like, guys will sit there and they'll be taking a girl on her seventh date.
00:03:43.380 They've been talking for, like, three, four, five months, six months.
00:03:45.660 And they'll sit there and cope and be like, oh, no, like, I'm just building something up. 0.99
00:03:48.880 But the reality is she's fucking some other guy. 0.97
00:03:51.080 Yeah, what's the longest you guys are going to wait for a girl that you perceive to be good? 0.99
00:03:57.740 To be a good girl.
00:03:59.460 What's your max in 2025?
00:04:03.660 Here's what I've seen.
00:04:05.500 I think, guys, we'll give you a month, maybe six weeks, if you can really pull that purity card.
00:04:15.380 Tell marriage only a simp.
00:04:17.160 She's blown somebody. 0.99
00:04:18.620 Sorry, guys.
00:04:21.000 I went to Catholic school.
00:04:22.820 I saw the girls doing this workaround. 1.00
00:04:25.140 You know what I mean?
00:04:26.240 Like, they always get you.
00:04:28.180 But the women, they just have to have a very gentle voice. 1.00
00:04:32.860 And you guys fall for it a lot.
00:04:35.740 You said, yeah, Troy says a couple weeks.
00:04:38.800 Mr. Nice Guy says one hour.
00:04:41.140 Get out of here.
00:04:42.120 What are you, Chad?
00:04:44.540 You are going to, you'll wait longer than an hour.
00:04:47.920 Come on.
00:04:49.260 Right?
00:04:49.380 And the reality is that men need to understand that women, right, they sell purity, they sell sugar and spice and everything nice.
00:04:59.680 But what will happen is they'll open themselves up sexually to the men that they respect and are aroused by and then make the nice guy wait. 0.98
00:05:05.460 Right? 0.59
00:05:05.620 And they're able to kind of double dip doing that.
00:05:07.580 So I think with guys, they got to basically push for sex fairly quickly in a relationship to ensure that they're not getting used.
00:05:15.160 Yeah.
00:05:15.640 I think with Joe...
00:05:20.060 Because that is their main, I mean, just let's be honest here.
00:05:22.020 Like, that is their main commodity, their main agency. 0.99
00:05:24.660 Like, if women didn't have vaginas, we wouldn't care. 1.00
00:05:27.000 No one would talk to them. 1.00
00:05:27.800 I wouldn't say that because that's like half the population.
00:05:30.160 You just, like, dehumanize and half the population with that statement.
00:05:33.900 I mean, well, it's the reality.
00:05:35.200 We're put on earth to procreate, correct?
00:05:36.940 So men, our job is to provide resources.
00:05:40.320 Their job is to extract resources.
00:05:42.540 And it's been this way since the beginning of time.
00:05:44.140 The only reason we're able to have this whole, you know, moral situation is because of modernity and the access to technology and how we've progressed.
00:05:51.940 But the reality is, you know, in times of, when times are not peaceful, we get closer and closer to our traditional gender roles, right?
00:06:00.080 There is no feminism when the lights are off. 1.00
00:06:01.760 There is no feminism with war. 1.00
00:06:03.260 There is no feminism when it comes to preserving society and moving on forward. 1.00
00:06:07.600 So, you know, the reality is, is that that's why the genders deal with each other. 1.00
00:06:11.880 Men provide resources. 0.99
00:06:12.920 Women provide access to sex. 1.00
00:06:14.220 That's the face men make when they know something is true, but they can't say it. 0.99
00:06:25.740 They get this half smile.
00:06:28.300 It's like, silence, what?
00:06:29.300 It's like when I had a conversation with someone the other day, and I was like, women spend more. 0.99
00:06:38.900 And I even said, I said, look, if you made the money I made at one point, wouldn't you have done something better with it?
00:06:45.240 He's like, yeah.
00:06:46.960 Because he was like, well, some women are smart. 1.00
00:06:48.620 And I'm like, even smart women make dumb decisions. 1.00
00:06:50.540 I know another person. 0.99
00:06:53.260 I'm trying to be more broad, guys.
00:06:55.420 So this is what I've had to do in my show.
00:06:58.520 I had another person I know, and she was very intelligent.
00:07:01.880 She was an engineering major.
00:07:04.160 She completed the, I think she became like a mechanical engineer, went to grad school.
00:07:08.820 She still got like $150,000 worth of student debt and then bought a house. 0.98
00:07:15.100 We make dumb decisions all the time. 0.98
00:07:17.000 All the time. 0.99
00:07:17.840 Just is what it is.
00:07:18.720 I'm going to come back.
00:07:19.220 I'm going to come back.
00:07:19.700 Okay, no problem.