Pearl - May 27, 2024


MODERN WOMEN will spend the SECOND HALF of life INVISIBLE


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51 minutes

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7,623

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299

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Misogyny

64

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Toxicity

74

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Hate speech

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In this episode, I talk about why women tend to revert back to religion and how to deal with it. I also talk about the problem with Christianizing women and why it's not a sustainable career. I also give my thoughts on why you should be on a crooked path if you re a Christian.

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00:00:00.000 oh it says I'm live it says I'm live am I live
00:00:16.620 I think I'm already live I see I see myself
00:00:22.160 okay okay what up guys happy memorial day weekend welcome to the audacity network and welcome to the
00:00:35.200 just pearly things youtube channel guys if you want to help a chick out please subscribe to
00:00:42.180 the audacity network.com or send me a venmo just underscore pearly things you know you don't have
00:00:48.940 to. You can just watch, hang out, but it's really helpful. It helps me pay, you know, Jeremiah over
00:00:55.240 here, blessing and love. It helps me, it helps me pay everybody. And, you know, I'm going to have
00:01:00.880 to underpay them this. I don't want to do that. You know, so send it if you can, you know, if you
00:01:08.520 can, I understand, you know, the economy is tough. So today, guys, what I want to talk about
00:01:14.180 is, well, there's a lot of things I could talk about, but I think to start, I'm going to react
00:01:23.100 to a couple videos and then I'm going to go into the topic. So I saw my parody account
00:01:28.280 tweet this Nala chick. Now let's, let's do a backstory on Nala. So Nala is an ex OnlyFans 0.91
00:01:35.640 whore. Yep, whore, slut, skank, hooker, whatever you want to call it, sex worker. And she decided 1.00
00:01:46.580 that she was going to go be a Christian. Now, I know the men have been paying attention for a
00:01:52.720 while. Jeremiah, where's my whiteboard? Did I lose it? I think it's over there. Could you bring it to
00:01:58.080 me if you don't mind? The men have been paying attention for a minute. They said, I think I've
00:02:04.080 seen this film before, and I didn't like the ending. And the reason they said that is because
00:02:13.380 what tends to happen in church, and we're going to go through the whiteboard. 1.00
00:02:19.900 Church women nowadays are worse than the general population. And what tends to happen is step one. 1.00
00:02:27.540 let me write this down be a whore now sometimes women are paid to be whores 1.00
00:02:38.440 sometimes women are not paid to be whores so they just do it 1.00
00:02:46.120 And then step two, do no work and claim to stop being a whore. 1.00
00:03:04.960 Now, this generally happens a couple of years into whoredom. 1.00
00:03:09.920 So, you know, the women, they're not really getting the results they want. 1.00
00:03:13.420 now it could be a husband it could be a relationship it maybe it's just money and 1.00
00:03:19.560 only fans so shit's going south be a whore do no work and stop being a whore so you know 1.00
00:03:26.780 typically when I want to see someone go from not being religious to being religious I like to see 1.00
00:03:32.920 some level of work maybe you go to seminary school maybe you go go by yourself in the desert like
00:03:41.540 Jesus did. I don't know. Maybe you go become a nun. Maybe, I don't, I don't know what you're
00:03:47.200 going to do. Okay. There's a lot of things. So then three, now I got to be honest. I see this
00:03:56.780 pattern with content creators. We love you, Tates. We love you, Sneak Out. But you know,
00:04:03.240 let's just be, it's the same kind of pattern. But this is where we're focusing on the women 1.00
00:04:07.340 right now. So step three, convert and find God. So typically what happens next is they go on a 1.00
00:04:19.140 show or a platform and say that they found God. Amazing. How awesome. I can't call women whores
00:04:28.040 on YouTube? God damn it. Damn it. All right. Sorry, hoes. Now, step four, 1.00
00:04:42.980 tell men to be better. Now, typically what these sorry hoes will do is they then feel they have 1.00
00:04:53.420 the authority to tell men to not watch corn to not have sex and typically these women do this in 1.00
00:05:04.580 their early to late 20s let's just say they find god and um yeah and then the men right when the 0.97
00:05:13.000 men get the power to also be hoes they say don't do that you evil you're not man a real man wouldn't 0.91
00:05:19.120 do that and it's crazy so why can't we super chat because youtube demonetized me go to just 0.98
00:05:29.240 underscore pearly thinks i'll read any venmo requests okay so let's let's watch this nala
00:05:33.820 is so this video is absolutely crazy to me and i'm gonna go in deep on this one just watch 0.53
00:05:39.340 is a not a sustainable career they start realizing oh shit my life might actually be over if i'm not
00:05:47.080 getting paid enough money so what do they decide to do they decide to start reverting to any 0.99
00:05:51.680 fucking religion that they possibly can to try to save so let me set you straight because you're 1.00
00:05:56.760 obviously on such a crooked path here not a sustainable imagine a hoe telling me i'm on a 1.00
00:06:05.460 crooked path someone that sold sex for money sorry that that got on camera got tag teamed by two dudes 0.99
00:06:16.440 for money is telling me I'm on a crooked path me of all people the F I can't even imagine if I was 0.87
00:06:25.360 a guy what the F did I do career I was making millions up until I quit I'm not joking about
00:06:34.540 that I was literally grossing I don't believe you so let's wait put the thing down for one second
00:06:42.000 okay so we're gonna go average amount of money only fans workers make
00:06:55.680 please put this up oh wait
00:07:01.120 150 to 180 a month
00:07:04.160 yeah okay you're right it's too persistent but this is an example of her making the video about 1.00
00:07:14.820 her saying well I made a lot of money bitch no one's talking about you 1.00
00:07:18.420 most women do not make a ton of money on OnlyFans they do it for fun so much money on OF that it 1.00
00:07:27.480 was what are you bragging like we get it didn't sustain did you donate it i didn't just did you
00:07:34.420 donate it into any religion i don't believe in religion god calls us to believe in a relationship
00:07:39.600 with did you donate the only fans money that's my only question did you donate it christ it is
00:07:47.800 nothing to do with religion at all i'm a non-denominational i do not support baptist
00:07:53.440 catholic methodist like i am not in a congregation like that i believe fully in having a relationship
00:08:01.120 with jesus aka i believe in doing no work i don't believe in studying scripture i don't believe in
00:08:08.960 doing like some seminary school i want to do no work and still get the clout of being a christian
00:08:17.840 who died on the cross for my sins because he was the one who saved me out of all of that turmoil
00:08:25.520 i was at the end of my rope truly mentally what like three months ago
00:08:32.620 that's when you deleted the oh i mean really can we can we be silent for like a year
00:08:39.220 spiritually completely like i had lost everything except for money
00:08:44.620 so donated wasn't about the fact that everything had dried up it was the opposite and i had still
00:08:55.340 felt so empty and lost i was truly a lost sheep at this point in my life it's pretty easy could
00:09:03.240 you be a lost sheep for like 10 million dollars jeremiah yeah
00:09:07.300 it's pretty easy life i had no friends no family all i had around me was materialistic items
00:09:17.760 so let me correct you on the fact that i was not drying up by any means monetarily it was
00:09:25.580 so dry up donate it
00:09:27.380 no donate it why don't you donate it to some men's cause because you were preying on lonely
00:09:38.420 men so why don't you why don't you donate it to a men's rights group i was completely at the end
00:09:46.040 of my rope in life in okay do you see how he said something general and she made it about her
00:09:52.180 narcissist heart in my mind and my soul in my spirit was gone completely imbo see the exact 0.95
00:10:00.200 same shit oh i was just in a bad spot in my life the lord guided me to the light the lord didn't 1.00
00:10:07.800 guide you to shit the money ran out and then you're trying to find a way out stop fucking 1.00
00:10:12.480 lying to these so i have so many scriptures to back up my walk with christ and i'm going to show 0.99
00:10:17.560 she's gonna compare herself to paul she's gonna compare herself to paul i know it i know these
00:10:24.440 women she's gonna compare herself to paul right here so in colossians 3 5 it says put to death
00:10:30.920 therefore what is earthly in you sexual immorality impurity passion evil desire and covetousness 0.62
00:10:37.400 which is idolatry so jesus is specifically saying here to put to death any evilness in your life
00:10:44.120 right now that you're doing saying living whatever it is in your life that is causing you to sin to
00:10:50.360 put it to death literally so you can change your ways and that you can become a child of christ
00:10:57.000 sexual immorality is completely and totally what i was doing on only fans and i do not at all agree
00:11:03.400 with it at all anymore since i am a child of god but the lord did save me no matter what anyone 0.58
00:11:09.640 wants to say could you be saved like privately could it not be a spectacle i know they say pearl 0.87
00:11:18.280 hates god this is why i hate you church people you guys are a lower quality than the rest of the 0.99
00:11:25.640 population i will die on that hill you're not a higher quality you're lower because you guys are 1.00
00:11:31.080 so emotional with your religion that you can't see reality and you make it my problem you're annoying 0.99
00:11:36.600 i find you annoying think or believe i don't care i don't care about what people's opinion 0.76
00:11:42.360 is on my relationship with christ because it's a personal walk with christ it has nothing to
00:11:47.480 do with other people in the world it has everything to do with christ and what he
00:11:51.800 did for me and everyone else but it's my walk with christ and another amazing verse here in
00:11:58.600 colossians 2 13 through 14 says and you who were dead in your trespasses and this uncircumcision
00:12:04.760 of your flesh god made alive together with him having forgiven us all of our trespasses
00:12:10.520 by canceling the record of death right but we need some penance any penance please
00:12:21.640 heidi yeah heidi's weighing into that heidi heidi's back heidi you know she's she's working
00:12:28.120 for a collab we'll see heidi she said she doesn't care otherwise she wouldn't be making this video
00:12:33.240 that was a great point she obviously cares and what what bothers me above all else guys i hate
00:12:40.600 playing pretend and women it's so easy for us nobody checks us on anything ever that stood
00:12:50.040 against us with its legal demands this he set aside nailing it to the cross so what christ
00:12:57.800 is literally saying here is that every trespass that i was dead in every sinful act behavior word
00:13:04.760 you got tag teamed by two dudes
00:13:13.720 let's not let's not minimize this tag teamed by two dudes for money
00:13:20.040 oh dear god everything that i was doing wrong got nailed to the cross with jesus christ when he died
00:13:30.460 for our sins so when i got forgiven when i was in my living room crying alone that's when i got
00:13:36.900 saved that's when i came to the realization that everything that i was doing everything it's not
00:13:43.200 donate the money
00:13:44.560 donate the money go work at tesco walmart go go get a job there only fans everything
00:13:55.080 that i was doing was wrong and not living for christ so that it was nailed to the cross
00:14:02.520 nailed to the cross with jesus christ you know he
00:14:07.260 has it been tough watching church women do this for years
00:14:11.540 he's nodding you can't just can't see him has it been hard it's been tough yeah yeah 1.00
00:14:20.360 he said it's been tough guys women men see this bullshit they just don't say shit 0.99
00:14:29.380 they're like i'm gonna live my life and then pearl comes gave us of every sin once we ask 0.99
00:14:37.000 and then it's thrown into the sea of forgetfulness with jesus like he for yeah you jesus might forget
00:14:44.540 but the internet does not you got tag teamed by two dudes that's it it's no longer a thing anymore
00:14:50.900 no no it's definitely a thing it is definitely so don't ever let someone like this deter you
00:14:58.420 from following christ someone said pearl why do you get so i'm not bothered i thank her actually
00:15:04.260 it gives me content for the week thank you so much Nala I appreciate you um but I gotta say it
00:15:09.400 how it is and this we just gotta like this is why we get ex corn star preachers if she wants to go
00:15:17.900 to church fine go to the back shut up and stay away from the married men but you guys say let's
00:15:23.220 let's put her on a show and pretend she changed yeah he does accept you he's the one who made you 0.70
00:15:31.460 like how beautiful is that someone who literally created you sell by oh my god i can't stop
00:15:38.280 yeah you know pearl's chilling she's not but i know i think my tweets when i went out because
00:15:49.040 you know guys mind you you guys all have real job sucks i don't so i i you guys you're like
00:15:57.940 Pearl, you tweet so much. I have the time. You guys are reading my tweets. So you're doing the 0.78
00:16:05.560 same thing. You're just reading them. Me, if I think a tweet, I tweet it. I'm a tweeter. I go out,
00:16:11.840 I tweet. I say, yeah, bitch, I have the time. I'll give 10 tweets about why you're full of shit. Why? 1.00
00:16:20.560 It's my job. I have the best job on the planet. Don't hate me because you ate me. You know what
00:16:25.520 I mean so look this is what I call expert level cope and now I'm going to react to four or three
00:16:34.480 TikToks and then we're going to get to the topic today yes we are so okay so today we have girls 0.98
00:16:44.200 gone bible again now girls gone bible is just it's this is all the epitome of church culture
00:16:55.220 sure. It's, it's just a bunch of, okay. We all know makeup is used to draw out sexual emotions 0.98
00:17:04.240 from men. For example, blush. That is that what your face looks like when, when you're having sex.
00:17:10.720 Okay. So it's a little ironic to me when these chicks have caked on makeup talking about God. 1.00
00:17:20.340 do you see the irony i mean guys again men don't care they're like oh she's hot let her go 0.78
00:17:26.340 but they think these things they really do so ask like should i be dating if i'm not ready for
00:17:33.120 marriage and you were like if you're not many ready for marriage like why would you date that
00:17:37.080 doesn't even make sense and you're basically saying that people should not be in these like
00:17:41.480 four or five years you know what i'm gonna go after one you know i want to go through all of
00:17:45.860 my criticisms, right? One of my greatest criticisms, okay, is that I am a boss, babe. All right. All
00:17:58.200 right. All right. And I hear this criticism and, you know, I get it. I get it. I'll say this.
00:18:08.500 this is far more conducive to getting married than what I was doing before I'll just say this
00:18:18.000 okay I used to have to work in sales like 60 hours a week selling copiers I can do this from
00:18:28.680 my freaking kitchen I can go make a sale like this is the best job on the planet all right you know
00:18:38.580 Pearl, you're, I mean, it's not that hard. 0.90
00:18:40.960 Like this, contrary to what these influencers try to make you believe, this is not a hard job.
00:18:46.000 Thank you guys for letting me do it.
00:18:47.300 I love you guys.
00:18:48.640 I appreciate you.
00:18:51.260 This is amazing.
00:18:53.580 And look, look, look, look.
00:18:55.300 It's fair, right?
00:18:56.320 I mean, this is, in my early 20s, I was focused on being a pro volleyballer.
00:19:01.040 I've been really honest with you guys about that.
00:19:02.980 I wanted to go pro.
00:19:06.480 Life is funny, you know?
00:19:07.760 it is what it is and now i'm reacting to these videos so let me let me keep going let me keep
00:19:14.180 going somebody asked like should i be dating if i'm not ready for marriage and you were like
00:19:18.520 if you're not many ready for marriage like why would you date that doesn't even make sense and
00:19:22.460 you're basically saying that people should not be in these like four or five year long relationships
00:19:27.760 not getting married okay so she says she said people should not so again this is the example
00:19:34.140 of the Christian woman becoming a Christian and telling men how to date. We look so stupid. I mean, 1.00
00:19:41.880 you've been looking at this for years, right? You're a church guy. Him and Blessing, they're
00:19:46.240 like in the church. They're like loving God. And they see women do this. So again, we went through
00:19:51.300 this last time. And I wish I knew this in my early 20s, okay? In my early 20s, I would look at women
00:19:59.580 that spent four or five years with a guy without a ring and think they were dumb. I really would. 1.00
00:20:04.660 I would think that's stupid because why would he buy you if you're getting the cow for free? 0.99
00:20:10.100 Whatever, the milk for free. That is a fundamental misunderstanding of men. 1.00
00:20:15.320 And that did not hold up to what I saw to be true in the world. Every person I know that's married,
00:20:21.220 it took them a couple of years to get the ring because men are good people. 1.00
00:20:25.440 that's what I was missing women we don't treat men that give us everything well but men I mean 0.72
00:20:33.260 they treat us pretty I mean not not all not all but a lot more men if you give men what they want 0.99
00:20:42.120 will treat you well so again step one talking phase and I'm gonna get rid of the dating because
00:20:48.440 We know that's like a month, but talking phase, this is normal, six months, ballpark, step two, relationship, one to two years, let's say, living together.
00:21:08.200 let's say one year kevin samuels would say it takes a guy six months
00:21:20.080 it takes a guy six months to determine if you qualify but i think kevin samuels was a little
00:21:28.500 bit he was with the old school guys this just isn't how young people do it i'm sorry it's just
00:21:34.080 not I mean the men that tend to get married in a year are men that don't tend to have a lot of
00:21:40.580 options nor do they really understand women okay all right then step four is ring or a baby some 0.99
00:21:51.660 people yeah that's it this is like a four or five year process so you know my thing with these chicks 0.84
00:21:58.840 it's not really up to the women it's up to the men you don't get men get to determine the timeline
00:22:03.940 not women either get married or don't date and ari and i obviously come from like very worldly
00:22:11.260 dating and like we weren't you know dating the way that god intended us to thank you shale for
00:22:17.040 the ten dollars and i have been in four-year relationships three-year relationships five
00:22:22.980 years since i was like 15 years old and now i'm literally like i don't so i want to i want to tell
00:22:29.380 you guys something this is just from talking to the men why do men date us for such a long time
00:22:37.460 now part of the reason they date us for such a long time without marrying us is because marriage
00:22:45.240 is dead and doesn't mean anything anymore and they saw their friends get married and divorced
00:22:49.680 but let's just say a guy marriage is on the table why would he wait longer
00:22:54.900 so many times you know we got the man we got the woman
00:23:04.100 and they're in love now normally it's actually the woman's commitment issues it's not the man's
00:23:16.780 it's the woman's but let's let's say it's a case where it's his there's a couple issues you have
00:23:22.040 sometimes she met him too young he wants to commit at 45 she met him at 25 it's just timing
00:23:28.460 you know you know I mean she just met him wrong time that that's option one okay now reason number
00:23:35.680 two is that sometimes the woman is a little bit loony and he's trying to give her a chance to 0.96
00:23:45.520 stop being batshit insane. So he loves her, right? He's like, well, she's not the worst, but 0.86
00:23:52.780 I don't know if I'd trust her with a kid. I don't know. I see these batshit crazy.
00:23:59.420 I see she's a little insane and I'm going to give her some time to work it out. 0.77
00:24:07.160 So I would say those are in my expertise, which you guys could say is none. Fine. I don't know
00:24:14.900 why the fuck you're here then? I mean, they get the fuck out of here. Um, it's yeah, it's, 1.00
00:24:23.920 they're waiting for you to not be insane or you just met him at the wrong time. Or he's just a
00:24:30.560 guy that some guys never want to get married and have kids. That's getting more common.
00:24:35.200 Ladies, we're so bad. We've driven men out of the marriage marketplace. 1.00
00:24:38.920 did i miss anything why else would there be a long you got anything
00:24:46.540 nothing i covered it let me know in the chat
00:24:49.300 so this idea that men know within six months they sort of do i mean men men understand within six
00:25:01.580 months if you qualify. But every guy, the problem is every guy knows some guy that had a chick
00:25:09.860 that qualified by every possible metric that went batshit insane. They'll look at their friends and
00:25:17.840 say, oh, she had two parents. She wasn't insane. She did. She did everything she was supposed to
00:25:23.880 do and even she went fucking crazy even she left so then that makes you know this guy here 0.87
00:25:31.920 say you know what you know what sorry chica you're now you're gonna have to wait even longer 0.96
00:25:39.720 remember guys the average is three years it's only rising I just I think the younger women 1.00
00:25:45.820 should should actually know like I wish I knew this at 22 right I wish I knew at 22
00:25:51.700 too. It's going to take some time. You got to put in the work, bitches. You know,
00:25:56.920 I was told by many church people that if he wanted to, he would. And if he doesn't want to marry you,
00:26:07.060 that. And don't get me wrong, sometimes it's the wrong timing, but I was told that
00:26:14.040 he should marry you within a year. And I love rest in peace, Kevin Samuels.
00:26:19.360 i come from an upper class community pretty much everybody i know that's married dated three years
00:26:26.560 i i seriously don't know a single person that didn't so yeah okay wouldn't even consider
00:26:33.720 dating someone for i i won't even date somebody unless i think we might get married you know
00:26:37.860 what i mean now that i'm actually walking with jesus there's just not a chance that i'm just
00:26:42.160 in this relationship and possibly i doubt it i don't believe you being married so this is going
00:26:50.400 to be really radical to some of your viewers uh dating as we know and understand it is a very new
00:26:57.040 phenomenon now look he's right dating is a new phenomenon it's either arranged marriages or
00:27:02.400 modern dating pick one because the church is confusing everything by trying to do both
00:27:07.600 if you're going to go traditional fine go get an arranged marriage from your parents
00:27:12.840 and eat and marry the guy even if you don't find him attractive if you don't want to do that then 0.98
00:27:17.680 buckle up chicas you got three dates to put out and you got to put in five years 0.99
00:27:21.740 look at these are the these are the choices very modern about 120 years old and that was right 1.00
00:27:31.020 that's right word was ever used yeah so again these these church women what they want to do
00:27:37.500 is they want to do the best of both worlds. And you can't, you really can't. 0.99
00:27:46.420 So I'm going to skip this one. I'm going to do the third one. We're going to do one more
00:27:49.260 TikTok and then I'm going to get into the topic. I thought this was funny. This chick
00:27:54.720 is obviously very toxic and she tells you to go for men you don't want for money, 1.00
00:28:00.280 but I found her very funny. This was hilarious. Okay.
00:28:03.520 um oh there it is right
00:28:10.600 he cheated on his wife but he couldn't even talk he had a wheelchair and he had to move his eyeballs
00:28:20.580 to type on a keyboard he still cheated with his nurse and ended up marrying her and divorcing his 0.91
00:28:26.720 black they can't even talk so if you say go read steven hawking's story and watch a movie 0.69
00:28:36.000 and see what had happened you can't even talk you have to move your eyeballs left and right 1.00
00:28:43.320 to type on the keyboard you gotta use your tongue your chin to make your scooter go
00:28:49.900 so she said do all men cheat even steven hawking did it he couldn't even talk
00:28:56.720 you know, when I was younger guys, I thought, and look, I'm not, I'm not a perfect person. 1.00
00:29:04.420 I get jealous just like the rest of you hoes. You know what I mean? We're all, we're all some 1.00
00:29:08.600 jealous. Like I'm not, I'm not claiming to be the tip of the top, whatever, you know,
00:29:14.560 there's better women to learn from, as I say, but I think it's important that someone's honest here. 1.00
00:29:19.960 And I just think everyone's lying. I'll tell you a story. So I did a show once,
00:29:24.980 twice actually and on this show i made the claim that high value men cheat
00:29:30.320 and really that they've earned the right to cheat and the reason they've earned the right to cheat
00:29:35.080 is that men that learned how to sleep with women
00:29:38.480 and i don't like i don't even like saying this okay don't but but the men that learned how to
00:29:47.720 sleep with women have gone through so much work that really I don't think women can really fathom
00:29:56.120 how much work men put in to learn how to be attractive to us they get in the gym they learn 0.98
00:30:02.580 how to talk to us it's like a decade of work just learning how to be attractive to women now I'm not
00:30:07.700 saying they should or they shouldn't I'm just saying this is what it is I mean right we can't
00:30:12.640 fathom right can't fathom right you know so when men have that skill it is very difficult for them
00:30:21.780 to just put it away and not use it it's very difficult they're like I just learned this 0.97
00:30:26.720 superpower and now you want me to use it just on you bitch okay so this there was this guy that 0.99
00:30:35.840 came on the show and he said high value men shouldn't cheat that's immoral da da da da 0.99
00:30:41.500 this man was sleeping with three women from the show they actually like they they act like
00:30:48.080 these women don't talk to me i hear the gossip i hear the chit chat people tell me things
00:30:54.920 so that in that moment guys i realized all these dudes are lying
00:31:01.620 and men that that get the option to cheat they really do and all these guys that go on these
00:31:09.340 shows and say it's so immoral. All of these guys, if they get the chance, are doing the same thing.
00:31:18.160 And if they aren't doing the same thing, it's only because they have an audience and they're
00:31:23.420 scared. If nobody was watching, they would do the same thing. Get mad at me. Whatever. I don't care.
00:31:35.340 i don't care because i ate that bowl again in my early 20s i really i thought this was offensive
00:31:43.740 i thought what do you mean that men cheat no no my dad didn't and my dad didn't cheat
00:31:50.420 and i'll die on that hill my dad is such a moral man that he never did and some men don't but the
00:31:57.660 men that don't tend to have met their wives below the age of 25 and they didn't have to go through
00:32:04.740 the same skill process as the rest of the men so they don't really have that same set of skills
00:32:11.680 in picking up women they don't really have it oh my god they said pearl's dad cheated confirmed 0.99
00:32:17.580 what the fuck what do you mean confirmed get the fuck out of here and the other thing is because 0.99
00:32:23.080 my daddy's not on social media most it's very different when men are on social media 1.00
00:32:30.880 it's remember cheating is way easier you can get a dating app you can get instagram
00:32:36.520 it's not like the old days before they had it buckle up fellas
00:32:41.040 buckle up you know this is 2024 i'm just telling you guys what's happening okay so 0.91
00:32:49.640 what i wanted to talk about is i really again i want to talk to the ladies 1.00
00:32:57.160 because I said, Pearl, you can get your point across without your potty mouth. Get out of my 1.00
00:33:03.660 chat. I am a swearer. I've been a swearer from the whole time. If you don't like me swearing,
00:33:09.620 get the F out of my face. All right. Yeah. Boom. Get out of here. It's like, 0.99
00:33:15.420 I hate these people. Sometimes they come to my show and my chat and tell me how to talk.
00:33:22.020 It's like how some of you women go to your husband's at his house and tell him how to talk. 0.91
00:33:27.160 Lauren Chen. Okay. So we are going to live to be 80 years old on average. So the average age of 0.96
00:33:45.940 life is 77. That means half of us will kick it before and half of us will kick it after.
00:33:52.240 And sometimes I've noticed that life goes so fast that you forget to slow down.
00:33:58.340 And it almost feels like you blinked for two.
00:34:00.700 I feel like I was in high school yesterday and high school was a decade ago.
00:34:05.420 It's funny how you blink for two seconds and life is pretty much, I don't want to say gone,
00:34:11.800 but it's crazy.
00:34:14.880 And the one thing that I regretted when I got older was I regretted moving around so much.
00:34:21.540 So when I was in high school, my dad, he told me to go overseas, and I wouldn't say I necessarily regret going overseas, but I did regret not prioritizing time with my parents.
00:34:47.060 In my early 20s, you know, I was really about volleyball.
00:34:50.080 I really wanted to get a pro contract, and that was super important.
00:34:53.800 But looking back in hindsight, there was family vacations I missed.
00:34:58.000 And even living overseas for such an extended period of time,
00:35:01.560 you come back and you realize you missed the most important things.
00:35:07.300 And I think sometimes because we don't have a visualization
00:35:12.440 of what the second half of life looks like,
00:35:15.360 we forget. Um, and I think that's, what's happening with us women. You know, we have 1.00
00:35:24.660 so much opportunity in our twenties that it's, it's difficult to turn down. It's difficult to
00:35:29.380 turn down a super high paying job. It's difficult to turn down attention from high status men. You
00:35:36.240 know, I've never been really invited on a yacht like that, but I know shocking. I know, I know
00:35:44.000 you would have thought. But you can imagine that it's tough. I mean, guys, go in our shoes for a
00:35:52.240 second. You're 22 and you get invited on a yacht. Are you really turning it down? Are you really
00:35:59.280 going to turn down that easy, high-paying job? Are you really going to turn down dates with,
00:36:05.080 let's just say, the hottest women in the city? Now, don't get me wrong. Men are better people,
00:36:10.300 so i'm sure they would do much better things with the power and be much more realistic than
00:36:14.100 i'm sure i would bet but you know i'm trying to humanize us a little bit but what i did on
00:36:21.100 reddit yesterday was i saw a thread that said all ask old people advice
00:36:27.280 older women 65 and up do you feel invisible and i'm going to read to you guys some of the
00:36:37.760 the responses oh i'm fat and old super invisible there's the new matlock with time daily who says
00:36:46.800 something i've been saying for years being invisible is a superpower this is very true
00:36:54.020 a neighbor once stole something from another neighbor's garage and i watched the whole thing
00:37:01.100 and i'm thinking to myself i'm sitting here on the front porch i can see you picked him out
00:37:05.520 of a digital lineup and away he went okay I want to read some of the other ones
00:37:13.080 um yes I was a young beauty it takes getting used to and the senior complex where I live the old
00:37:23.840 guys say wow you're probably pretty good looking when you were young go f yourself I saw a picture
00:37:30.620 of my younger self in my locker at work because someone asked if I had another co-worker saw and
00:37:36.960 asked if who it was I said it was me and he said what happened I hate that guy now
00:37:43.400 if we're lucky we get until 50 and remember we live to be 80 30 years is a long time
00:37:54.760 the second half of life we become men we become just like the men and we are invisible
00:38:05.480 I feel it is this is answering the question do you feel invisible I feel it is I was considered
00:38:16.380 very attractive in my youth to go from a person that people stared at for my beauty to being
00:38:21.340 invisible is hard and what's worse is when you are pretty that becomes a huge part of your identity
00:38:26.780 I could be all of those other things smart funny etc but what most people saw and noticed was my
00:38:32.760 looks so it felt defining in a way now without that I'm quite I'm not quite sure who I am when
00:38:39.500 I look in the mirror it's like a knife every time now because I remember my old face and I remember
00:38:46.060 what I should see. And guys, this is why I really don't envy. I would consider myself an average
00:38:52.940 looking chick, right? Average normal chick. I don't envy overly beautiful women because
00:39:00.480 if a chick's lucky, she'll be beautiful till 45. No guy is lining up to fuck a 50 year old woman. 1.00
00:39:10.520 they'll do it I mean the men will do anything but no guy is is lining up so 0.99
00:39:17.080 at 45 that really we're done look I'm not gonna lie to you you know I say the wall is 30 and it
00:39:25.920 is but I mean men are marrying 30 to 40 year old women all the time maybe not if they want kids
00:39:32.080 but it's not I see 30 plus year old women getting married all the time
00:39:35.420 about 40 plus you're basic you're done 1.00
00:39:40.580 and um when you have kids how much time do you get to spend with them
00:39:49.660 and that's why you know we make jokes about these buzzer beater babies you know 1.00
00:39:53.540 but really these women did not plan their lives out very well because 1.00
00:39:58.120 they're going to be 60 at a kid's high school graduation 0.96
00:40:01.560 and i don't think as women we
00:40:09.640 think about the second half of our life 0.90
00:40:16.060 and see this is all the women that they're like coping i'm in my 30s and i notice older women all 0.97
00:40:23.080 the time. Yeah. Okay. They say beautiful women die twice. It's bittersweet at 46. I'm in the 1.00
00:40:35.560 twilight of my attract. Oh my God. They're so delusional at 46. I'm in, or maybe this is a guy
00:40:44.320 I'm in the twilight of my attractiveness to the opposite sex. I won't miss it, but it's kind of 0.98
00:40:48.600 staggering when you think about how invisible we become when men don't see us as useful when we get
00:40:53.740 older i get the more apparent patriarchy woven into the fabric of anything so when i worked in
00:41:00.320 my sales job there was a time where the upper management was just helping me a lot they treated
00:41:07.340 me super well they gave me um it was like charger bullet company merch basically like every month
00:41:15.200 and they were just super, super helpful. And I made more than the guys in my floor and they
00:41:20.800 gave me the best territory. And I remember one time a guy said to me, well, it's because you're
00:41:27.680 a girl. And I thought, no, I'm a hard worker. I'm enthusiastic. And these things are true. I am a
00:41:34.040 hard worker. I am enthusiastic. And I, and I did, I didn't do bad, but hindsight 2020, he's probably
00:41:41.940 right. I probably did. So this isn't, you know, when I say 35 year old women are hotter than 25
00:41:49.540 year old women, you know, guys, there's women that truly believe they're better looking in
00:41:54.140 their thirties. And it's, it's sad. It is the saddest looking. I'm 27. I was, I'll say I was
00:42:02.280 hotter at 16. I know you guys want to, ah, Pearl. I mean, look, it just is what it is. You know,
00:42:07.420 i think i think i've aged pretty well you know whatever but but guys it just is what it is but 1.00
00:42:14.580 there's women that they have these filters on they have so much plastic surgery done 1.00
00:42:19.100 and because the our our photo apps naturally smooth out our faces now 1.00
00:42:24.960 they forget what's in the mirror and it's an old wrinkly hag
00:42:30.200 but it's really it's really sad you know and these were conservative christian commentators 0.95
00:42:39.380 telling me like tweeting their selfies at me to prove their hotness because they don't want to
00:42:45.800 deal with the reality that one day at 65 really over 50 they will be invisible i only know one 1.00
00:42:52.780 woman that got married over the age of 50. I really do. And it's a sad existence. And the
00:43:04.500 funny thing is I will see nice women become so crazy in their 50s. And I'll think about these 0.92
00:43:13.560 same women when they were younger and when they were kids and they're like full of life. But by
00:43:17.240 the time they're 40, 50, they get bitter guys. And it's sad because most of the time they're
00:43:22.840 not bad people, but they were given bad information. I mean, oftentimes they're
00:43:29.060 selfish and I'm too high of standards, but mind you, this isn't in the normie world. Most women 0.99
00:43:35.500 don't know we're going after 20% of men. I mean, we're retarded guys. I mean, we're idiots. 0.99
00:43:41.780 and you know when we do we still do you know i'm not trying to i'm not here to give excuses to 1.00
00:43:48.400 women i'm not but i'm crucified for giving correct information
00:43:54.500 where people will clap their hands for ben shapiro matt walsh all of these guys
00:44:03.660 giving bad information that doesn't work in 2024. Ladies, the church that tells,
00:44:11.840 make men wait for sex when you're not a virgin. Good fucking luck. Go ahead. Let me know how that 1.00
00:44:18.620 works for you. Good luck. Good luck. That is leading women down the path of destruction,
00:44:24.880 saying, oh, he has to marry you within a year. Okay. That might be true for you guys. That is 0.97
00:44:30.800 not who I see getting rings. I see the women that waited out get rings. And that's what's hard for 1.00
00:44:40.900 me is I'm trying to give the correct information because I wish I had the correct information when
00:44:47.200 I was younger and I'm crucified for it. But women that give bad information that have buzzer beater 1.00
00:44:57.300 babies, that don't like their husbands, that will push not being attracted to your husband. 1.00
00:45:12.760 You know, they're praised. 0.51
00:45:14.380 I get 11 plus streams on me because I said men don't like older women, they don't like 0.94
00:45:20.260 fat women, and they don't want women with children. 0.92
00:45:23.480 and i'm crucif i'm crucified 1.00
00:45:27.800 so you know and i just i just think it's important to all right i'm gonna old women
00:45:36.760 let me see if there is a video version of this
00:45:42.660 okay dr phil i am please don't copyright me 24 years old
00:45:53.480 Hello? Yeah, me.
00:45:55.480 Yeah, see, that's some of the problem right there.
00:45:58.140 It's that invisibility factor.
00:46:00.020 I went from somebody that could get service at the store
00:46:03.100 to them calling the people behind me.
00:46:05.880 They really don't see you anymore.
00:46:08.360 You're not old enough for people to say,
00:46:10.140 oh, you're so sweet.
00:46:12.720 And you're not young enough to go, oh, you are smoking.
00:46:16.640 You don't get any of that.
00:46:17.380 So again, you know, this is the clock we're ticking.
00:46:24.260 And by the way, a buzzer beater baby is better than this.
00:46:29.460 I'm going to make a hierarchy. 0.99
00:46:31.200 I'm going to make a hierarchy of L's. 1.00
00:46:34.960 This is a hierarchy of female L's. 1.00
00:46:38.480 Okay. 1.00
00:46:38.900 The top hierarchy of a female L. 0.99
00:46:46.280 Broken alone. 1.00
00:46:49.300 Die broken alone. 0.91
00:46:51.020 Yep.
00:46:51.200 That's the top hierarchy.
00:46:52.600 Okay. 1.00
00:46:53.480 The second hierarchy is single mother. 1.00
00:46:59.940 At least you have a kid, right? 0.99
00:47:01.880 Single mother, you know. 1.00
00:47:03.300 The third L, miserable marriage. 1.00
00:47:11.160 These are typically be the buzzer-feater baby women, you know. 1.00
00:47:15.420 I mean, they might not be miserable. 1.00
00:47:16.980 Once they get the kids, they'll be miserable.
00:47:18.660 And then three. Oh, I should have just put a loan after, but you guys get the idea.
00:47:28.640 I'll say old divorced where I think gray divorces, I mean, they're not the same as single mothers. 0.96
00:47:36.420 OK, you guys hear me out. If a chick was married for 30 years and then divorced. 1.00
00:47:43.580 20 like a gray divorce is it really a failed marriage 0.99
00:47:48.960 i think it's just you know do you know what i mean like i think it's different than a woman
00:47:57.700 who is just a single mother like a woman who's older and divorced with the family
00:48:03.520 like her husband still like kind of likes her but they just didn't work out um
00:48:07.860 I think it's different I think it's just it's just the marriage ran its course as opposed to 0.68
00:48:16.820 the single mother who started there that's just a bigger L you never had it like yeah I just in 0.90
00:48:24.180 the end then at the bottom obviously because these are just L's what would be at the bottom I have to 0.98
00:48:29.340 think about it I don't know but this is my this is going 0.98
00:48:35.280 so okay let's keep going on this video overnight you become invisible
00:48:42.140 here's another one that's got a great sense of humor and very creative i was laughing when i
00:48:49.520 watched you take a picture that's 54 year old terry who says between her throat waddle uh age
00:48:56.460 spots wrinkles everywhere and bifocals it's impossible to look in the mirror she wasn't 0.99
00:49:01.880 fat, she wouldn't be completely invisible. I mean, she'd like get some old men like, I mean, 0.99
00:49:06.880 like ladies, let's just, okay. If men, if men like younger women, how can we use that to our 0.98
00:49:13.220 advantage? Older men, they're always older men. You're 50, go 70. I know you're like, 0.67
00:49:22.280 I don't want a 70 year old. Well, you're 50 bitch or 65, you know, and feel good. 1.00
00:49:31.880 Really? 1.00
00:49:33.640 Really.
00:49:35.220 Seriously, I picture myself as I was probably in my 30s
00:49:39.760 because that was probably my happiest time.
00:49:41.760 Now I look in the mirror and I'm like, oh.
00:49:45.220 I go out, it's a different reaction.
00:49:47.420 Like you both said, social media, I love social media.
00:49:51.100 I love to put, but I will not be in that.
00:49:54.440 I will do anything, but if you look at some
00:49:56.900 of my Instagram stats, I'm always in the corner
00:49:58.940 of the picture so you only see the cute part.
00:50:00.840 Yeah. Yeah. Not kidding. It's, that's how it is. And it's because of this self-love,
00:50:06.600 self-being, you just feel beaten down. But you say you feel beaten down. Are you beating
00:50:11.740 yourself down or are other people beating you down? Well, yeah, but myself I do. But
00:50:16.000 also, like I say, it's that invisibility factor. Yeah. So her results in the world are changing.
00:50:24.360 and again again we know these women can tweet me their selfies at 35 but at 45 you're done
00:50:33.020 35 is like last it's like last last call you know and by the way last last call used to be 26 it
00:50:41.020 keeps going older you know women we keep pushing it up but yeah you know so that's really all i
00:50:51.000 wanted to talk about today. Please guys, if you can send me a cash app or go to the audacity 0.86
00:50:58.120 network.com. Um, yeah, over, I would say twenties, ton of attention, thirties, dwindling attention,
00:51:10.720 forties. If you're in good shape, you might keep it going, pushing, but fifties, you're done.
00:51:16.120 you're done so like the video on your way out subscribe to the channel bring that notification 0.93
00:51:22.740 bell and stay mad chicas i don't give a shit if you're mad that i swear i don't care either 0.91
00:51:28.560 and stop telling me to get back to the into the kitchen because i'm in it 0.98