Pearl - May 31, 2024


Not All Cheating Is Created Equal


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1 hour and 4 minutes

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8,064

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336

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175

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177

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In this episode, I talk about cheating and why it s so common in our society. I also talk about how women have made it so difficult for men to get a good night's rest and why they cheat.

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00:00:00.000 what up welcome to the pearl youtube channel and welcome to the audacity network let's put a one
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00:01:20.060 please like the video to push this out. So today's a very special day. And what inspired me today
00:01:28.360 was really understanding what's going on in society. So I know we've gone over these concepts
00:01:36.180 a million times, but we're going to go through them again. It says X wasn't working. I don't
00:01:43.020 know if that's true or not, but okay. So we all know right now we have female choice. Now I've 0.89
00:01:50.320 toyed around with arranged marriages as an idea, but unfortunately we're not doing that as a
00:01:57.360 society. So right now we're having romantic love and we said, women date whoever you want.
00:02:03.360 Now as women, we're kind of idiots. I mean, we're, we're dumb, you know? So all we do is we, 1.00
00:02:09.500 We date serial killers, men that want nothing to do with us, drug dealers. 0.99
00:02:18.140 I mean, you want to look at the bad choice, you name it, women have done it.
00:02:23.400 Six, four blue-eyed men in finance and then cry when they cheat.
00:02:28.280 It's like, we want it all.
00:02:29.160 We want the tall guy.
00:02:30.280 We want the hot guy. 0.97
00:02:31.840 We want the guy that makes a ton of money.
00:02:34.380 And so what do we have now?
00:02:35.680 we have these two guys on the top 1.00
00:02:38.980 let's put the women here 1.00
00:02:42.260 having sex with everybody 1.00
00:02:44.980 so what does that leave our society with 0.81
00:02:49.580 we have 1.00
00:02:51.420 basically a bunch of whores 1.00
00:02:54.960 maybe like one or two wives 1.00
00:02:58.000 we have 1.00
00:03:01.020 current single mothers
00:03:02.880 future single mothers 0.99
00:03:04.600 whores childless women and maybe a couple wives here or there not many though 1.00
00:03:12.120 that's on one area for men we have the pimps the simps and the sexless we've gone over this before 1.00
00:03:19.300 we have the men that women sleep with the men that women make weight for sex and then put in 0.91
00:03:26.740 the relationship zone and then we have the sexless the men that aren't sleeping with anybody and all 0.87
00:03:33.560 of this is because women are terrible at choosing and want it all. And we all think we're hotter 0.99
00:03:38.080 than we are because we can sleep with a guy that's a 10 and he doesn't want us. Boo hoo, 1.00
00:03:46.180 cry me a river. So this leads to a lot of people being cheated on. So
00:03:54.900 when I did my show and I interviewed a thousand women. Now, a lot of people discredit this and
00:04:03.680 say, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, you don't know anything. That doesn't mean anything. Okay,
00:04:09.960 bitch, go interview a thousand people and come back to me. Please, please do. And tell me, 1.00
00:04:14.680 tell me you learned nothing. Okay. And what I learned is that many women cap, they cap,
00:04:20.680 cap, cap, cap, cap, cap. They say, I would never accept cheating. And I would always break this 0.94
00:04:26.840 down with a couple of questions. I say, would you, would you date a cheater? And all the women would
00:04:31.200 say, no, I would never. And you know, this is the men used to listen to this before social media
00:04:37.960 came out and we all kept telling on ourselves, us idiots, the men would oblige to us. They say, 1.00
00:04:44.360 oh, you want a loyal, faithful husband? We're going to do it. And then they would look at us
00:04:49.540 and say, why is she sleeping with that guitar player that lives on his mother's couch that 1.00
00:04:57.860 is so much free time that he has sex with everybody in town? 1.00
00:05:04.620 Let me go do that. 0.96
00:05:07.320 And we made it so incredibly difficult for men to get sex that by the time a man figures
00:05:14.120 out how to sleep with us, he's like, this is a superpower.
00:05:17.580 Yeah.
00:05:19.540 I just learned this set of skills. 1.00
00:05:22.180 I had to watch all you bitches get banged by those guys. 1.00
00:05:26.340 Then I learned how to be those guys. 1.00
00:05:30.000 Yeah, I'm fucking. 1.00
00:05:32.620 Try and stop me, bitch. 1.00
00:05:36.460 So, you know, I wanted to talk about, they said unemployed men get the most women. 1.00
00:05:44.600 Now, to be fair, they probably do because they have the what time.
00:05:49.540 men with jobs. They're like, you, you guys have to learn how to talk to these bitches. 1.00
00:05:55.880 Screw that. I'm just going to go get rich instead. Okay. So you guys get it. You guys get it. So 1.00
00:06:01.820 what do we have? When I would interview these women on the show, I would ask like three basic 1.00
00:06:07.300 questions. And what I found out, I would say, have you ever been cheated on? Yes. Then the woman, 0.93
00:06:11.800 her face would light up and she would say the most, like, it was like she was talking about 0.71
00:06:19.540 I don't, it was, it's a weird thing when women, we talk about our cheating stories. 0.65
00:06:25.860 Even though it's like a negative thing, if you, like, if you took a picture of our face talking 0.97
00:06:32.140 about these stories, we're really happy telling them. I don't know why. And I came to the
00:06:38.100 conclusion, people thought I was crazy, but I thought to myself, do we like being cheated on?
00:06:43.740 and i came to this conclusion for a couple reasons 0.99
00:06:50.980 the number one reason i came to this conclusion what i was i would ask the women a couple 0.98
00:06:58.520 questions and one of them was when you caught him cheating did you leave 0.91
00:07:03.220 and i found they never did now sometimes and i think maybe this is women switching from an alpha
00:07:13.000 to a beta, right? We get hurt by the alpha guy. I hate these words, but we're going to use them. 0.99
00:07:18.100 You guys, the pimps, I'll say the pimps. We lock down a pimp, but pimps do what they do.
00:07:25.540 They fuck everybody. So we say, okay, I got to get out of this. I got to go find a simp. That 1.00
00:07:31.820 hurt my feelings. I think it's going to keep hurting my feelings. I'm going to go find a simp.
00:07:36.240 And what I would find, if the women left, she would do it around six months later. 1.00
00:07:46.460 But it was always when he stopped cheating.
00:07:52.140 So, you know, it wouldn't be like while he was cheating, she said, you know what, I'm done, I'm gone. 1.00
00:07:58.920 Bye, bitch. 1.00
00:08:00.120 She would stick around. 1.00
00:08:02.760 And then I would say, okay, so when you broke up with him, was he cheating then?
00:08:07.520 Well, no.
00:08:12.220 And then she goes and finds a simp. 0.62
00:08:16.180 And she always dumps the simp.
00:08:18.000 The next guy, it's always dumped, dumped, dumped, dumped, dumped.
00:08:21.360 Okay.
00:08:22.360 So.
00:08:26.900 Okay.
00:08:27.380 Okay.
00:08:29.600 they say you lock down a pimp. You're trying to change him. It can't be done. Well,
00:08:37.940 pimps get locked down every day. So this idea, and I don't, okay, I don't like this idea. And
00:08:44.940 it's just not, it's simply not true that pimps never get locked down, but I'll show you what
00:08:49.260 happens okay so a pimp so this is the man who's a pimp okay and he's a very happy man obviously 0.90
00:09:00.360 because he's he's fucking men are very happy when they're fucking right so what he does is he's 0.99
00:09:07.060 banging this chick and let's say he's got a rotation of three i've heard from men that's 0.99
00:09:15.980 like the perfect amount of women. So I've heard, this is, this is what I've heard in terms of 0.76
00:09:21.260 women you want to juggle. So, well, I've heard five is the perfect, but it kind of goes like 1.00
00:09:26.920 this sort of. So apparently this is like the top girl. Now this is the girl that's the most wifey,
00:09:33.140 right? And he sees her maybe twice a week, I guess, if he has a rotation, he's got to juggle 0.99
00:09:40.580 these hoes right close to every day every other day top chick right now the second chick is someone 1.00
00:09:46.340 that's like the runner-up so for some reason this girl's better could be that she's hotter right 1.00
00:09:52.260 that's one thing maybe she's better in bed she does that thing you know maybe she's just like 1.00
00:09:58.920 this girl's got a sleeve tattoo and he's like nah you know whatever it is this girl's winning but
00:10:04.000 she's not far from this girl but something disqualifies her from being this girl right 0.98
00:10:09.580 now this is the girl sometimes it's the fat chick that does some good stuff in bed never wants to
00:10:17.240 see her in public right or kind of ugly my friends can't know but you can come over at 3 a.m 1.00
00:10:23.880 and then I've heard but they're actively getting dates with other chicks so there's four and five 0.91
00:10:31.700 who like they'll they'll go on a new date meet a girl in a coffee shop whatever that can always 1.00
00:10:36.480 vie for these positions but the pimp does settle down he'll take let's just take veronica here
00:10:43.320 they do eventually settle down but it has to be one the right time he has to want to 1.00
00:10:49.100 and he's probably still gonna fuck 0.99
00:10:52.280 you know what i mean like he worked so hard to become a pimp look he's very happy 1.00
00:11:01.420 and maybe when he's like 50 he might stop he'll be like all right I've had my half a century of fun
00:11:08.840 I guess we can just cut these off but if she starts acting up guess who's ready to go or he
00:11:16.660 has that skill right so you know dating the pimps are you guys ready for pimp problems
00:11:24.140 you know um so i know they say you're trying to change i mean i've seen i see pimps settle down
00:11:35.220 every day you know there's a girl um from my hometown who her dad was um not gonna give too
00:11:43.180 many personal details in case anyone he was a very good he was very good looking right now i was a
00:11:50.260 kids. So it wasn't like that, you know, for me, but I, all the other moms would talk about how
00:11:54.740 this guy was super attractive and he was attracted or he was married to the super attractive Italian
00:12:00.140 woman. This woman was beautiful, but everyone knew in the town that he was a cheater and it 0.76
00:12:09.000 was kind of a win-win, right? I mean, they got their hot kids. Their kids are gorgeous. So, 0.93
00:12:15.240 and they're all pretty good people to this day but she had to she was you know she was here
00:12:22.500 she married here and she still had to deal with these but she's got the title he's rich right I
00:12:31.240 mean this just is what it is pick your poison pick your point yeah she might be beautiful but 1.00
00:12:41.080 if she's boring, right? Maybe, you know, and sometimes, you know, second chicks, you know, 1.00
00:12:46.900 sometimes the hottest chick, you know, I've heard guys say that eight to 10 women tend to come with 1.00
00:12:52.740 a lot of problems because they're so hot. They've never had to be useful or not terrible people. 1.00
00:12:58.820 I've heard that. And so sometimes, right, you know, I had a different friend. He was juggling
00:13:05.220 these three women. And this woman was, his number one was like a 19-year-old chick. This one was 1.00
00:13:12.400 like a 35-year-old divorcee. He ends up going with a 35-year-old because the 19-year-old was
00:13:17.580 just too much of a terrible person and lazy. And he said, fuck that. You know, guys are kind of 1.00
00:13:24.700 like problem, they're just kind of practical. They're just like, which one will be the most
00:13:29.940 useful to me. Give me sex and whatever I want. Maybe they want sex. Maybe they want a hot shot. 1.00
00:13:36.320 I don't know. But looks get you the furthest. Don't let anybody tell you different.
00:13:43.740 Look, one or two points, there's some discrepancy, right? A man might pick a six over an eight.
00:13:50.700 A man might pick a five over a seven. A man might pick a six, you know, a seven over, I don't know,
00:13:59.500 right there's discrepancy but don't let any the greatest sin that we can do is be fat
00:14:06.160 that's the greatest sin there's nothing worse that we can do to men okay looks and attitude yeah but
00:14:13.940 like let's let's just not let's not play pretend here
00:14:20.260 you got to be over their attraction floor but once you're over their attraction floor then
00:14:26.900 then there's some discrep. Anyways, this is just the insight I've gotten from guys
00:14:33.180 that I don't know. I can get, I get stories out of people. They'll tell me about their rotations.
00:14:39.560 I don't know why, but you know, whatever. So, okay. Now this made me start thinking about that
00:14:52.400 not all cheating is created equal. And I think many times, and what I found is that women, 0.99
00:15:05.420 I was asked on a show once, right? I said, cheating is like a handshake. 1.00
00:15:10.280 And I was, for men, and I was crucified for this opinion. They said, Pearl, Pearl, and Lauren Shen
00:15:17.500 got very triggered over this opinion. She said, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl. It's not like a
00:15:22.760 handshake. Me, me, me, me, me, me, me. These bitches. Sorry. It's not just her, but like,
00:15:27.900 God, these women sometimes it's like they're, they grasp at straws. What do you guys think 1.00
00:15:33.160 I meant by that? A man having sex with a stripper is not the end of the world 0.72
00:15:42.220 because not all cheating is created equal. Some cheating is worse than others. So 0.88
00:15:51.940 what I wanted to do today is go through the worst types of cheating to the not so bad types of
00:16:07.200 cheating and I wanted to ask the chat what cheating could you get over and I'd like the 1.00
00:16:14.860 with the two women now I saw this lesbian in the chat again this isn't for you because you like 1.00
00:16:20.560 women this doesn't well I guess maybe for women but I want to know which cheating can we get over 1.00
00:16:29.140 and what cheating is a deal breaker and I'd like I'd like I'm going to start with male cheating
00:16:35.560 and I'd like the women not the men to input in the chat maybe there's like two here 0.89
00:16:44.280 I'm a real woman Jana thank you Jana Gina thank you okay so the worst male cheating
00:16:52.460 I was trying to think of what cheating would I be so mad about now I'm human right let's not
00:17:00.480 I'm not going to pretend that I'm somehow special or different. Now, it's not really my temperament
00:17:09.260 to slash tires, right? That's not really like, I dug my key into, remember the country song?
00:17:15.020 You know, she slashed his tires because he was cheating. Us women are so, it is so crazy. We, 1.00
00:17:20.000 we excuse anything just for us being mad. Like, why are we slashing his tires, Carrie?
00:17:26.180 but that was a very good song that was a very that was a good song it was catchy I'm not gonna
00:17:30.780 lie to you so okay what cheating would offend me the most where I just I just I don't know if I
00:17:41.760 could get over it there's some cheating you just arguably can't get over
00:17:48.280 i think if i found out there was a second family i think that would be the worst type of cheating
00:17:58.440 if i found out one day dude had a whole a whole nother family now it would be one thing right
00:18:08.600 and i we got to talk about what's worse and what's better right if i found out dude had a family on
00:18:15.400 the other side of town and they were a public couple I think I would die it's one thing let's 1.00
00:18:27.780 say he gets a side chick pregnant and he says bitch here's some hush here's some shut the fuck 1.00
00:18:33.300 up money here is some go away money I'll come see you as much as I can I mean you would be offended 1.00
00:18:43.820 it, but it would be like the level of, I want to kill somebody would be from here to here. 0.72
00:18:57.080 Okay. Number two. So second family is different than getting another girl pregnant. That is the 0.92
00:19:03.660 second worst. And if I was in London, I think it's, this is too, I don't think I could fit
00:19:09.480 it on this whiteboard, but if I was in London, I would draw this on the big whiteboard. 1.00
00:19:13.820 getting another girl pregnant. Now there's two types of getting another girl pregnant. Cause 0.90
00:19:20.600 I think when men cheat, there's, there's different types of cheating, I think. And you guys can
00:19:25.340 correct me in the, in the chat. I don't know. You guys are, you, I mean, I'm sure some of you
00:19:31.900 are getting laid some, but you know, so if men cheat with a likable whore, like he's like, 1.00
00:19:43.660 she's not so bad to be around but this woman i could never take her in public 1.00
00:19:47.640 obviously a whore he kind of likes her but like never wants to go in public with her 1.00
00:19:52.640 is different than a side chick that he has feelings for now who remembers tiger woods 1.00
00:20:00.520 that his wife remember she was going to work through all of the side chicks 1.00
00:20:06.580 until she found texts of him saying to his side chick that he was going to leave his wife for her 1.00
00:20:14.660 and divorce his wife and he was texting this in the other room bitch ran a car into a tree can 1.00
00:20:21.160 you blame her yeah we can we're with female accountability here but I heard there was 1.00
00:20:28.440 group chats I heard there was like hundreds of women with Facebook groups that slept with this 1.00
00:20:34.640 man you know so if he got a whore pregnant 1.00
00:20:47.760 that he didn't really want to be with I wouldn't be so offended but if there was an 1.00
00:20:58.100 I actually liked her baby and I had feelings and it just happened
00:21:01.800 now i'm not a tire slasher it's not my nature
00:21:07.740 but that would that would hurt you know what i mean i that would humble me
00:21:14.800 that would truly humble me now 1.00
00:21:17.920 if this happened and you were being a terrible wife now we all know that average wives are 1.00
00:21:26.280 pretty terrible if you were fat and this happened don't really feel too bad for you if you weren't 0.99
00:21:33.780 sleeping with him and this happened okay I don't really you know men are problem solvers this wife 0.96
00:21:38.160 isn't sleeping with me I hate this wife but I want to keep it going let me just go start another
00:21:42.660 family over here they're solving this problem okay my wife isn't sleeping with me let me go 1.00
00:21:49.400 fuck this whore here. I mean, men are just, you know, solving problems. They said Pearl is more 1.00
00:21:58.180 of a rat poison type. Okay. That's rude. That's rude. Well, I'm just kidding. Okay. So now three
00:22:10.600 next on the hierarchy. And I want to know from the women, would you be madder if a guy got a 1.00
00:22:16.800 blowjob from another girl or sex? I want to, I'll say my answer and I want to know if you agree. 1.00
00:22:24.640 Personally, I would say sex would offend me more.
00:22:35.120 I'm going to say sex, but I want to, I want to hear from the women in the chat. 0.83
00:22:39.260 any women the two women 1.00
00:22:45.860 yeah jenna jenna agrees with me she says sex would be more offensive
00:22:52.440 corinna okay she agreed i wanted to double i wanted to make sure okay they said these are
00:22:58.420 men larping as women i don't know but i okay i wanted to i wanted to confirm with the with the
00:23:03.300 women. Now, who he cheats with is going to depend on how offended I am. Yeah, yeah, they said there's
00:23:14.020 three women in the chat. I know, it's tough out here for this red-pilled women. This is a lonely 1.00
00:23:18.640 crew. Who he cheats with, they said cheating is cheating. Not all cheating is created equal,
00:23:25.060 And I'll die on this hill. 1.00
00:23:26.960 Now, for me personally, and I want the women to agree or disagree, the most offended that 0.89
00:23:40.080 I would be is an ex-girlfriend. 0.96
00:23:46.080 If he's cheating and he's cheating with an ex-girlfriend, that would be my number one
00:23:54.100 offense.
00:23:55.060 because it's like what do you still love her now you might say well he doesn't still love her men 0.99
00:24:02.940 sex can men can separate that stuff and I would to that I would say they can but that's a woman 0.99
00:24:10.360 he loved what the fuck I'll fight this chick so I think the number one offense for me 1.00
00:24:16.660 would be an ex-girlfriend 1.00
00:24:19.600 wait actually 1.00
00:24:22.880 I just thought of another one that actually would be worse I just thought of another one
00:24:31.160 one of my family members or my friends I think would I would that would be worse than an ex-girlfriend
00:24:38.900 I think yeah I think that would be my number one what okay what do you guys think ex-girlfriend 0.96
00:24:47.640 one of your friends or relatives i've heard about chicks getting cheated on with their mom
00:24:53.200 god these streets are crazy what's worse hey what about the mom i know 0.99
00:24:59.200 i think yeah a friend i i saw sisters fighting because the husband's yeah
00:25:07.700 okay kids under it we're not going in the underage conversation that's obviously the
00:25:13.700 worst, but we're not, we're not going there. We're not. Yeah. The relative. Okay. We're,
00:25:17.800 yeah, we're on the same page ladies, but it would be worse. Imagine 1.00
00:25:21.620 a relative you hate.
00:25:27.840 I can't think of anything worse.
00:25:31.700 Okay. So that's going to be the number one. I'm going to, I'm going to add that higher in my,
00:25:37.700 in my thing. So yeah, second worst person to cheat with where I would personally be the most
00:25:43.480 offended, is an ex-girlfriend. Yeah, because, what, do you love her? Do you want to be with
00:25:52.580 her over, you know? Guys, guys, I mean, if you, can you cheat with an ex? Because this is what
00:25:59.860 I've heard from guys. Women, if we like an ex, there's one ex we like, right? There's one guy
00:26:08.280 we really really liked 1.00
00:26:09.620 and that's why women don't 1.00
00:26:12.260 really like their husbands right 0.98
00:26:13.520 maybe two I don't know
00:26:16.120 men I hear they just kind
00:26:22.260 of always
00:26:22.900 like men have much more
00:26:26.020 positive looking back
00:26:28.160 on with a lot of their exes I heard
00:26:30.140 they always kind of like her to some
00:26:32.080 degree kind of I don't know 0.93
00:26:33.960 once a guy likes a girl
00:26:35.580 I don't know I don't know
00:26:38.280 my husband's first wife cheated on him while he was deployed wow
00:26:43.940 okay but three the most offended 1.00
00:26:56.920 a new girl 1.00
00:26:58.520 that is better than me in every way 1.00
00:27:02.880 now if i saw a chick and i thought huh like let's say let's say i found out i got cheated on i look 1.00
00:27:13.340 at this chicken better looking bigger butt bigger boobs not a whore 1.00
00:27:20.720 that would just be an l do you know what i mean like i 1.00
00:27:26.180 that would be you know it's one thing if each if i if you see a chick right and she's got 1.00
00:27:35.180 a big tattoo sleeve i her ass is all over and through okay but if i look at it i say huh 1.00
00:27:43.540 that girl looks like a semi-classy i mean obviously the cheating's not classy right but 1.00
00:27:51.020 if that's a chick I would deem that the guy would date 1.00
00:27:55.600 yeah I might I might that would be more offensive to me 1.00
00:28:03.140 it would be an L it wouldn't be an L if she was insufferable okay guys but I'm saying yes she 1.00
00:28:13.780 would be even maybe even more pleasant I was like damn that chick looks like she doesn't talk much 1.00
00:28:22.120 I don't know a cheerleader look I that would be an L that would be an L okay 1.00
00:28:32.580 the next is cheat sex with a stripper whore or ugly chick like that's an L right that that is 1.00
00:28:41.880 definitely an L, but it's not, you're like, it's less of an L. It's less, you know, you're, 1.00
00:28:52.500 you're thinking, damn. Coworker, I was debating where to put this. I think how the coworker 0.97
00:29:02.580 looks actually i would put co-worker above the stripper whore whatever okay 0.99
00:29:10.060 now the other question i have what's worse a guy having a booty call 0.98
00:29:19.860 or a guy taking someone on a date what women two women in the chat what would you be more offended
00:29:30.140 by this is important i i didn't know personally i think i would be more offended by the booty 0.91
00:29:39.840 you wouldn't think right but if it was a date and they didn't hook up i personally i would
00:29:46.760 be less offended but i've heard the argument that since he's spending money then we should 0.53
00:29:51.540 be more offended I don't know Emily says date we must defend Pearl from this grossness I mean 0.96
00:30:04.200 guys I interviewed a thousand women I've interviewed complete whores I just 0.99
00:30:09.300 Jana you said yeah exactly my point the date okay the women overwhelmingly don't agree with me 0.99
00:30:19.220 okay so the date would be above the other girl wow okay i'm gonna put that as number three 1.00
00:30:25.580 taking another girl on a date so we have second family getting another girl pregnant taking 1.00
00:30:33.940 another girl on a date sex with another girl a blow job getting a blow job from another girl 1.00
00:30:39.360 it's the effort okay you know fair enough 1.00
00:30:43.060 um now next i'm gonna say dming a chick 0.59
00:30:49.540 dming hitting on a chick now 0.96
00:30:53.300 is it worse 0.92
00:30:57.620 are you guys more offended by him dming back and forth with a chick or
00:31:06.820 him dming a chick repeatedly and her not responding
00:31:11.900 what's worse 1.00
00:31:16.340 oh i forgot about i did forgot about dick pics i guess that would where would that go 1.00
00:31:28.820 i guess that would go above dming a chick i guess dick pics okay fine 0.99
00:31:34.820 and it's not great but it's not a deal breaker 0.99
00:31:40.480 is janna kind of base
00:31:44.420 okay personally if i see a guy that i'm dating is dming a chick over and over i think i would
00:31:53.940 be more offended because it's like do i make you feel that bad about yourself that you have to dm
00:32:00.040 a chick over and over and over again like i mean and it's like who am i it would make me question
00:32:09.100 in my judgment. You know what I mean? Oh, here. Oh, I didn't realize I was sharing my screen.
00:32:15.920 I'll make it bigger. It's okay. It's okay. It can stay up. Um, what? Oh, okay. And
00:32:24.820 yeah, I think that's pretty much it.
00:32:30.580 oh i guess what's worse him getting nudes or sending nudes
00:32:39.160 oh i don't know that one's really hard for me i don't i'm gonna i'm gonna defer to the women in
00:32:50.660 the chat getting nudes or sending nudes he says sending oh steve you're a man
00:33:00.560 sending, okay, fine, sending nudes. Okay, now let's go to female cheating. Now, female cheating, 0.60
00:33:08.100 we all know, is completely worse than male cheating. Now, all of the simps out there 0.89
00:33:13.080 will pretend. They'll play pretend and say these are the same things.
00:33:19.620 It's truly not. Now, women, a lot of women want to cry, they want to scream, and I get it. 1.00
00:33:25.620 when I first heard this information, I wanted to cry and scream too. I was like, what the fuck do 0.99
00:33:30.960 you mean? The guys can cheat and we can't cheat. Now it's not like I wanted to cheat, but I'm like, 0.99
00:33:36.700 what the fuck? Really? But then you realize your other option really is dating guys you're not 0.99
00:33:46.120 attracted to. Pick your poison, bitches. We can't have it all. It's all right. You know, 1.00
00:33:51.860 pick your poison. Life isn't fair. Get a helmet. Buckle up.
00:34:02.860 So the worst form of female cheating is actually female indentured servitude. 0.99
00:34:09.340 It is getting pregnant by another dude and not letting the guy who thinks he's the father know.
00:34:17.520 i can't think of a it's not only cheating it's also fraud that is the worst type of cheating
00:34:27.160 it makes it especially bad
00:34:31.600 if he goes over 18 years without knowing that's the worst right right yeah
00:34:44.660 So the second worst type of cheating is cheating while a man is deployed.
00:34:57.620 Yeah, he's serving the country, and you said, you know what? 0.92
00:35:02.360 Let me go screw another guy. 0.88
00:35:05.220 Okay, that's number two. 0.98
00:35:08.900 They said, Corinna says, remain honorable, lady. 1.00
00:35:11.540 Stop selling dreams. 0.99
00:35:12.560 We won't. 1.00
00:35:14.660 I mean, when have women ever been honorable or good people? 1.00
00:35:18.080 Ever. 1.00
00:35:20.260 Good luck.
00:35:24.040 Number three, and I want to hear from the men, okay? 0.95
00:35:27.960 Is it worse if a woman blew another guy or had sex with another guy? 0.92
00:35:38.700 What's worse? 0.94
00:35:39.700 Put it in the chat.
00:35:40.360 from what i saw next the guy said sex is worse
00:35:45.020 maybe can i make this a poll in the chat
00:35:50.140 chat filter oh i don't know i don't remember how to do it just you know i'm just gonna overwhelmingly
00:35:57.840 look they said what the f both oh my gosh they said the same i i that is not the question what 0.96
00:36:04.320 are you guys women answer the question not don't now i said she cheated on you you 1.00
00:36:10.300 found out she cheated she did one or the other she didn't do both she either had sex or blew him 1.00
00:36:17.420 oh but you can't have sex with him but if she had sex with him then she blew 0.99
00:36:23.080 that wasn't my hypothetical scenario all right can we both both but i hate you people all right set 1.00
00:36:32.980 both okay bj really they're saying the blow job's worth wow 0.99
00:36:43.440 did she spit does it make a difference 0.98
00:36:55.900 if you guys keep like are you kissing her after 1.00
00:37:05.400 no let's say she brushed her teeth all right like
00:37:11.220 you guys are asking like uh all right so wow i'm shocked by the
00:37:24.600 I guess the chat is saying BJ. Okay. All right. Okay. But either way, it's sex, right? So
00:37:33.280 who, again, who did she cheat with? Now, the worst thing you could do is cheat. If you really
00:37:42.240 wanted to hurt dude, right? His best friend or his brother. I can't think of anything worse.
00:37:51.860 I really can't.
00:37:55.400 Now, if it's a work husband, I mean, I think men are kind of practical.
00:38:00.740 They're like, yeah, I could have seen that coming. 0.99
00:38:02.320 They know when they send us to work that there's a chance we'll do what we do best, be whores. 1.00
00:38:09.580 There's nothing that women are better at. 1.00
00:38:16.280 What about his enemy? 1.00
00:38:17.680 Oh. What would be worse for you guys? Her cheating with an enemy or his best friend? What would be worse?
00:38:38.200 I hate these people. 0.99
00:38:39.940 all right um 0.99
00:38:46.360 all right enemy enemy bull once it's an emotional cheat i didn't ask about
00:38:58.420 all right enemy i'm seeing more enemy would you say enemy is worse oh yeah you nodded so fast wow
00:39:08.400 um okay so
00:39:13.140 who did she cheat with the number one is the enemy that's the worst now what's worse the best
00:39:23.320 friend or brother okay someone says brother is the worst two is enemy three best friend
00:39:30.640 yeah best brother or enemy go ahead go ahead chat
00:39:36.400 i've been doing youtube so long i really should remember how to do these polls
00:39:42.000 oh i'm seeing brother is the worst i'm seeing brother okay so brother is the worst
00:39:54.100 enemy is the second worst best friend is the third worst
00:39:59.580 okay um then we have who else do people cheat with co-workers
00:40:06.720 now I want to know from the men is it worse if she cheats with a guy better looking than you
00:40:13.620 or do you not care is it just the same like if you see the man right that she cheats with 0.97
00:40:20.480 and he's better than you in every way and you know it or is it more hurtful if he's a loser 0.98
00:40:27.600 like what 1.00
00:40:29.280 no I'm trying I'm just trying to see because for me personally like if he fucked a fat chick it's 1.00
00:40:40.620 like well I'm glad you got that out of your system you know what I mean 1.00
00:40:47.920 doesn't matter a loser is worse what do you think what do you think what's worse 0.99
00:40:57.480 damn but so if like he's better than you in every way do you think well i understand 1.00
00:41:05.040 okay so i'm hearing i'm hearing a loser is worse because then you doubt you you wonder 1.00
00:41:20.320 what's wrong with you that she's cheating on you with the loser. Okay. Now, the next forms of, 1.00
00:41:33.840 now, what can make this cheating worse? Now, we all know that men and women are both accepting
00:41:40.680 infidelity nowadays. Let's not play pretend. There are many men in this country
00:41:44.960 that find out their wife is cheating and for the sake of the children they stay one example that
00:41:54.000 we saw in front of our eyes was will and jada pickett smith right jada was unfaithful
00:42:00.240 and what made it worse it was not simply the fact that they were she was unfaithful i mean
00:42:06.840 for years they were hollywood's favorite couple but what made it worse is she told everybody about
00:42:13.080 it and wrote a book about it. Yeah. Yeah. So what, what makes it worse is women that not only cheat,
00:42:27.840 but tell everybody that they cheated. I mean, men get over a lot. You know, many men can say, 0.99
00:42:35.000 you know what? It was a one-time thing. It was a one-time thing. I love you, bitch. I love these
00:42:44.200 kids. I don't want to fuck up the house. Okay, you fucked the personal trainer. I get it.
00:42:49.820 It was one time. All right, let's move on. Am I swearing too much? I'm sorry, guys.
00:43:05.000 but women we can't shut up that's our biggest not only like it's like we do the wrong thing
00:43:14.900 but men when they do the wrong thing they're like quiet right I mean men will jump through
00:43:20.720 who have you seen those guys that get caught cheating and it's like the women will have
00:43:25.300 text screenshots of the guy cheating and he'll be like I don't know what you're talking about
00:43:30.600 I didn't do that. 1.00
00:43:33.260 And the women are like, I did it and I do it again, bitch. 1.00
00:43:41.280 You know, they say women cheating on me is a dumb deal. 1.00
00:43:46.580 Look, I know what you guys say. 0.99
00:43:48.000 I know all the guys say I would never accept a woman cheating. 1.00
00:43:52.800 Someone's doing it because a lot of these whores are cheating. 1.00
00:43:57.220 I don't know who's capping in the chat, but somebody is. 1.00
00:44:00.600 women will cheat on you and oh yeah I guess that makes it worse
00:44:11.520 telling everybody about it and blaming him for you cheating you know men are kind of funny
00:44:22.420 now even even myself you know
00:44:26.840 you know I've caught a guy cheating before let's like let's not play pretend
00:44:33.200 ladies in the chat who's taking an L we've all taken an L right
00:44:36.780 and when when I caught him right 0.86
00:44:39.040 he just said sorry like it wasn't
00:44:44.020 I was trying to fight you know not like physically but I was trying to argue and he's like yeah I did
00:44:50.980 but women women they said pearl can you peg me ew why do you guys put this 0.67
00:45:01.040 i'm muting you i'm muting you hi user on this channel yeah gross 0.98
00:45:06.840 but women every time i would say she cheated women always say but why did she cheat 1.00
00:45:18.540 does it matter like what if i said okay she didn't feel heard she wasn't getting her needs met 1.00
00:45:30.460 so like and
00:45:36.340 oh heidi that was a very good point
00:45:43.680 all right i need you to i need you to answer this one okay if a woman cheats with another woman
00:45:53.820 she if a woman has sex with another woman or kisses another man what's worse
00:46:02.340 ah no way okay so apparently i want to see how far i can go with this so all right woman
00:46:18.260 great thank you for the contribution today heidi a woman 0.97
00:46:23.240 having sex with another woman is next then a woman kissing another man 0.93
00:46:37.460 oh wait no that's worse I forget I forget that's higher sorry so a woman kissing another man 1.00
00:46:46.540 okay what about dming another man or having sex with another woman 1.00
00:46:52.320 wait you would rather have her have sex with another woman rather than 1.00
00:47:02.260 oh that's worse okay that's where it ends okay 1.00
00:47:06.960 janna janna you're a girl i didn't ask you this is for the men they're saying dming a man dming 0.97
00:47:19.780 another man is more hurtful guys than having full-blown sex with the I guess this is close 0.99
00:47:26.580 but I'm gonna no you're not invited to have sex with her like guys are such problem solvers they're 0.99
00:47:37.600 like well she had sex with another woman well just next time bring me like 1.00
00:47:42.560 wait what 1.00
00:47:49.180 okay well 1.00
00:47:55.520 she doesn't have a penis 1.00
00:47:59.580 I mean I I know 1.00
00:48:00.960 but
00:48:01.720 I mean 1.00
00:48:08.260 don't women get like all up in there 1.00
00:48:11.220 I don't 1.00
00:48:12.560 All right. 1.00
00:48:14.720 Next, we're going to go on the women cheating. 1.00
00:48:18.680 Now, this is things lower level, but still unacceptable. 1.00
00:48:28.940 Yeah.
00:48:31.820 Oversharing to a male friend.
00:48:33.780 Having male friends in general, but oversharing.
00:48:37.420 texting to a male friend, colleague, etc.
00:48:42.900 and DMing other dudes.
00:48:48.740 Anything else, people?
00:48:54.820 I think this might be all the cheating. 1.00
00:48:58.580 Are any women faithful? 1.00
00:49:04.460 Miracles happen. 1.00
00:49:05.640 unicorns exist but they're called unicorns for a reason good luck getting one
00:49:11.700 you know um
00:49:14.780 yeah so this is the chart and i think when i get back to london i'll make this a whiteboard video
00:49:22.080 oh i didn't even think about that oh my gosh someone put gangbang
00:49:32.080 okay where does gang bang fall i didn't even think of that you guys are wild okay so that falls
00:49:43.700 all right what's worse a great your girl cheating while you're deployed
00:49:50.020 or cheating by having a gang bang
00:49:53.300 i'm asking the tough questions
00:50:02.080 they're all saying gang okay all right I'll put that as number two
00:50:20.380 all right thank you for you guys are so helpful thank you guys
00:50:26.080 um someone put active on dating apps
00:50:32.280 where would that go i'm assuming below kissing another man right
00:50:42.680 really you would put a woman
00:50:54.920 how do you kiss a guy and not have an intention
00:51:00.260 all right jeremiah is saying dating apps is above kissing another
00:51:12.380 another man or so yeah um they're all bad as each other maybe when i make the pyramid i'll put them 0.83
00:51:23.080 all in like the different yeah oh yeah okay the sex with another dude the other questions we have 0.92
00:51:34.620 to ask is it worse if dot dot dot if she cheats with an ex-boyfriend is it worse than a stranger 0.61
00:51:50.920 okay so boy ex-boyfriend
00:51:58.900 where does it fall brother enemy best friend co-worker or ex-boyfriend is that
00:52:09.500 I would assume the ex-boyfriend will be below all the people you know right
00:52:13.820 under best friend wow ex-boyfriend okay
00:52:21.160 oh what would make it worse an std
00:52:32.720 i saw a video of this guy who found out he got freaking aids from his chick 0.99
00:52:38.840 so not only not only did he get cheated on he got aids and he knows that she fucked somebody 0.99
00:52:48.620 that fucked a dude because how how else do you get AIDS the landlord is worse oh my gosh what if 0.99
00:53:01.680 okay where does her starting an OnlyFans while in a relationship go hasn't talked to anybody 1.00
00:53:10.020 hasn't hasn't kissed anyone had sex with anyone but she started an OnlyFans
00:53:18.620 what 0.94
00:53:25.240 where 1.00
00:53:28.240 sex with another dude okay okay let me 1.00
00:53:35.220 starts and oh 0.99
00:53:39.380 oh my gosh you want to hear the word of the worst cheating stories I've ever heard 1.00
00:53:45.640 so there was a beautiful woman out of the east coast now this woman 1.00
00:53:52.760 was one of the most beautiful women i genuinely have seen in my life like she was a 9.5 and she 0.95
00:54:00.420 competed in beauty pageants now in her maybe mid to late 20s she settled down and she got married
00:54:07.700 and she married one of the top doctors in new york city i mean this man was a top surgeon very
00:54:14.700 successful guy and about five years into the marriage give or take he found out 0.93
00:54:22.140 that she was escorting while married to him and making tons of money selling her body while she
00:54:31.080 he was out of town. Yeah. So I'm assuming that would be above what, what S would you rather 0.99
00:54:51.680 get cheated on while deployed or find out your wife's a hooker i'm gonna guess that would go 0.99
00:55:03.500 as number three that's my intuition find out wife is a hooker 0.99
00:55:09.920 she was an escort when she met him yeah i don't think he knew 0.98
00:55:16.480 i don't think i don't think she knew
00:55:21.280 yeah you know
00:55:24.140 what's funny
00:55:34.340 I know the guys are really mulling this over
00:55:44.880 Pearl are we analyzing betas 1.00
00:55:47.280 i mean most guys are somebody's putting up with this shit 0.99
00:55:51.940 oh my gosh where is her divorce lawyer lawyer isn't escorting illegal illegal obviously 0.99
00:56:03.360 so yeah 1.00
00:56:17.120 I think that's the hierarchy of cheating.
00:56:25.200 I think that's it. 1.00
00:56:27.440 So what's my point, women?
00:56:29.940 I think many times we constantly talk about men's cheating.
00:56:37.760 And really in this society, men are not the ones that are cheating. 0.72
00:56:42.700 women are officially out cheating men for the first time in history we're much more sneaky
00:56:49.220 about it and we get away with it way more uh you know there was a chick I knew I'll tell you guys 0.99
00:56:56.800 this crazy story there was a chick I knew in school and this chick she had a boyfriend when I
00:57:05.180 when I first I was a transfer right and this chick dated one guy my freshman year now they ended up
00:57:11.120 breaking up, and I didn't come in until sophomore year, and I, they, whatever, they broke up long
00:57:16.500 before, I just heard they dated, right, and I heard it was kind of a messy breakup, but it wasn't that
00:57:20.480 long, whatever. My senior year, this chick gets a new boyfriend, you know, they're happy, buying a
00:57:26.660 house, whatever. This chick cheated with the old boyfriend at a party that this guy was coming to 0.88
00:57:34.940 in the bathroom. I swear, she didn't even know I knew this. I saw them go out of the bathroom. I'm 1.00
00:57:41.280 like, what the fuck? I've been waiting for like 35 minutes. I'm so irritated. I'm so annoyed. 1.00
00:57:48.840 I was like, bitch. I had to be. Anyways, I see this. This was like a quiet girl next door. You 1.00
00:57:57.860 would never freaking know you would never know so women we constantly cry about the men cheating 0.52
00:58:05.020 but women out cheat men and really we're all supposed to be virgins on our on our wedding
00:58:13.240 days right we're all we're all supposed to marry young none of us chose to do that when the men
00:58:17.700 wanted to they were like 22 and ready and we said nah let me go crazy and so really
00:58:25.420 And if we don't leave and we reward men that cheat, can we really get mad that we get cheated on?
00:58:33.680 Dump him or stop crying about it or go after men you're not that attracted to.
00:58:41.160 Take the L.
00:58:43.960 And I think as women, we just got to learn to take L's better.
00:58:48.320 We truly do.
00:58:49.460 We truly do.
00:58:55.420 maybe I should do a video about how to take an L okay let me let me let me teach I'll tell you
00:59:06.300 guys how I take L's okay so in life I've taken many L's we'll go into emotional cheating in a
00:59:15.160 second I mean I take I mean it trust me when I take an L you guys clip it and post it all over
00:59:22.560 the internet. I mean, I think one of the first thing is like, Pearl gets owned. I hate you people
00:59:29.160 sometimes. And now, when I was younger, if I took an L, I would bitch, cry about it, blah, blah, blah, 0.99
00:59:39.900 blah. And what I found the most freeing experience, right, was when I would just take that L and move
00:59:47.020 on we waste years we waste years of our lives bitching about owls living in the past when 0.99
00:59:54.320 really we should just take it eat shit and move on you know it is what it is men take an l they 1.00
01:00:01.940 get cheated on they lose a job whatever they don't live in the past forever they take it 1.00
01:00:09.640 eat it move on um emotional cheating
01:00:17.940 Yeah, let's go back to the worst.
01:00:19.800 You can pull up this on the screen.
01:00:22.400 For male cheating, guys, where does emotional cheating go?
01:00:30.180 Now, if I found out there was no physical cheating, but a guy, now what would be emotional cheating?
01:00:40.640 I kind of think guys can have female friends.
01:00:43.140 I mean, not like that close, but like a friend at work.
01:00:52.000 When would it cross to be emotional cheating?
01:00:55.580 I'd have to think.
01:00:56.420 so when they start doing phone calls that's when late night okay 1.00
01:01:14.840 so if I found a phone bill and I see three hour phone calls to some bitch at work 1.00
01:01:26.420 And she's hot. 1.00
01:01:49.980 Where... 0.97
01:01:50.620 Where would that fall for me?
01:01:53.180 Okay. 0.98
01:01:53.540 would I rather him doing a three hour phone calls for a couple months with a chick or him take her
01:01:59.360 on a date? Oh, that's hard. Oh, oh, I don't like either. I guess it would be above it. But
01:02:08.860 personally, I think the sex would offend me the most. And I think it's because I'm thinking of
01:02:16.660 it from my point of view and I'm like I couldn't just sleep you know but I know guys think about
01:02:25.860 it differently I'm gonna put I'm gonna put personally
01:02:30.660 emotional cheating is above taking a girl on a date because a guy can take a chick off a date
01:02:39.720 off of like hinge meter on the street you know there's not that much emotional investment but
01:02:46.040 But I guess when guys talk to us, like, I guess guys, I had a guy friend say to me once that, he has, like, a show, right?
01:03:00.580 And he said that men can't fathom how women can, like, have close relationships with guys and not want to have sex with them. 0.99
01:03:10.460 I was like, damn. 0.99
01:03:13.540 Emotionals number two. 1.00
01:03:15.280 You would put emotional cheating over getting another girl pregnant.
01:03:20.240 I don't know, guys.
01:03:21.740 I wouldn't pick that over like little Jimmy here.
01:03:24.540 Like he could cheat, but I have to have evidence of it.
01:03:29.760 And now if we have a kid, I got to introduce it to little Jimmy. 0.99
01:03:33.940 Like I'm not an asshole. 1.00
01:03:34.980 Now I got to, I got to see bitch number two for 18 years. 1.00
01:03:44.840 a blow job's worse because women only give them once a year 1.00
01:03:51.740 look I don't know what chicks you're dating but 1.00
01:03:59.240 um okay what if you stop hitting on her okay well I think guys we did the hierarchy of cheating
01:04:09.000 today I think we did good class when I'm back in London I'll do an official whiteboard video
01:04:13.820 but I think this was good. I just wanted to ask the tough questions. So make sure you guys like
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