Pearl - May 24, 2025


Most Tradwives Are Just Performing for Male Validation w⧸ @emilysavesamerica


Episode Stats


Length

1 minute

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208.42572

Word count

376

Sentence count

14

Harmful content

Misogyny

4

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Toxicity

8

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Hate speech

3

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Summary

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In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and podcast co-host, Kelsea Ballerini, to talk about what it's like being a "traditional" wife. We talk about our own experiences with traditional wives and how we live a more traditional lifestyle than most other women.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 yeah but the one the one thing though i i did think that you were right when you said it's most
00:00:06.960 women aren't going to do that because only like 10 20 of women have like that that it actually 1.00
00:00:12.360 happens yeah i think um a lot of women feel entitled to it but like they're not traditional 1.00
00:00:20.260 you know no and that's like also like most of these girls yeah and it's kind of funny too
00:00:25.640 because the caption, which no one read, apparently said, you can do both. And I was like, so let me
00:00:30.380 get this straight. I work full time. I do my own thing. I'm my own boss. I also clean the house
00:00:37.300 every day. I also have no problem cooking, baking, whatever my boyfriend wants. I take care of his
00:00:42.320 dog, our dog. And I'm just like, I'm confused. I literally do all these things. I live a more
00:00:47.540 traditional lifestyle, even in Los Angeles than half the girls that are talking shit to me. 1.00
00:00:51.860 right no and that's what i kind of took it as i i knew who you were talking to you got it because 0.94
00:00:57.500 you didn't get so emotionally it was the well i know the type you're talking about it's like
00:01:02.160 the performative where they clearly have me like and the thing is i know what it takes to like do
00:01:09.420 a show you do too right to do a show every day to trap like if you're traveling and going on
00:01:15.620 podcast tours i'm just gonna assume you have a nanny yeah unless your baby's sitting on your 0.96
00:01:20.900 fucking hip at the podcast you know what i mean so that i think that's what you bad it's like a 0.94
00:01:26.800 lot of the where they want the clout from being like a trad wife but without the actual doing 1.00
00:01:32.260 the also half of them are like complete fucking pick me so i'm like you guys are the same girls 0.99
00:01:35.580 that like literally do your hair makeup push your tits out and make videos baking and i'm like i'm 0.99
00:01:40.040 sorry that's for your man with hundreds of thousands of followers that's literally for 0.99
00:01:45.240 for male validation.
00:01:46.240 I know, I know.
00:01:47.240 There's nothing traditional about that.