Pearl - October 05, 2026


Mothers Are BLAMING Their Children for Their MISERABLE Lives

“Men Stay With Women They DON’T Want Because They Feel Guilty” @JustPearlyThings “Your Entire Life Is Shaped by the STORIES You Tell Yourself” @JustPearlyThings

Episode Stats


Length

6 minutes

Words per minute

203.15

Word count

1,230

Sentence count

9

Harmful content

Misogyny

4

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Toxicity

10

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Hate speech

7

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Transcript

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00:00:00.160 What's up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. So today we are talking about women regretting things.
00:00:06.780 Now, women regret everything that we do. We are completely insufferable human beings, unfortunately, 1.00
00:00:11.400 because we've never been told no a day in our life or required to do anything. 1.00
00:00:15.080 So basically, since we were kids, we're these big, fat, giant slut brats. 0.99
00:00:19.140 Obviously not as a kid, but you know, once we become adults. 0.99
00:00:21.980 And so there's no consequence to anything ever. 1.00
00:00:24.300 And so what happens is women can't manage our emotions.
00:00:27.620 and so we think it's okay to um like post online that we regret being parents and so but it doesn't
00:00:34.560 matter what life choice we make we regret it always so please hear me out for the longest time
00:00:40.080 i didn't want kids my husband and i were on the same page and then we got to year 11 in our
00:00:45.940 marriage and through some discussions and things we decided we did we did want to start a family
00:00:50.960 we changed our minds as people do and i think we went into it thinking that it might not even
00:00:57.200 happen because we had some friends with fertility issues and things like that so we thought
00:01:01.360 maybe this might not even happen for us so we're just gonna go ahead and try anyway instead it
00:01:06.080 happened very quickly and i think that kind of shocked us a bit and for two straight weeks i
00:01:12.560 cried thinking about it because i was like what have i done reproduced with a low status male
00:01:17.520 basically done i've ruined can you imagine scrolling through tiktok be like mom what the
00:01:22.500 did you post my plans i what am i doing i got over it after the initial shock of it all and
00:01:30.360 then the pandemic hit and we had our daughter and i thought great now this is not going at all as
00:01:37.960 what i thought and it was hard but i love my daughter she is hilarious she is so sweet she's
00:01:46.840 so smart witty i can be having the worst day ever and she knows that and she'll give me a hug and
00:01:54.120 she brightens every part of my day and i love being her mom and i love being a mom but they
00:02:01.840 were oh my god there's a but you that should have just been a period oh my god we always focus on
00:02:07.560 the negatives a lot of reasons why i didn't want kids and one of those reasons was that i didn't
00:02:13.260 to bring a kid into a world that was declining as it is and i don't know if this happens every 0.91
00:02:21.020 generation i don't know it's declining for you guys i'm gonna kill it you know what i mean i
00:02:25.740 don't know if every generation has thought what am i bringing my kids into but especially with
00:02:30.620 the state of things as of late i look into her eyes and how bright it is and how wonderful she
00:02:37.180 sees everything and i just think what have i done because one day it's not going to be as right for
00:02:44.200 her and look at everything that's happening so in that respect i regret being a parent even though
00:02:51.780 i love being a mom yeah oh my god okay am i dramatic to say i feel the same way about becoming
00:02:58.240 a dog mom oh my god i don't have kids in fact i love them but because i love them i can't bring
00:03:05.100 them into this unless you can grant your kids generational oh my god i found out i was having
00:03:10.040 a girl and i woke up in the middle of the night and cried because of the world she would live in 0.95
00:03:13.340 as a woman women see themselves as such victims or what does this guy say see that mom that says
00:03:18.060 she regrets being a mother and blames her two-year-old son for wrecking her marriage and
00:03:21.960 saying that he sticks out like a sore thumb check it out i don't want to be a mom anymore
00:03:26.700 i never wanted kids because i didn't i was selfish i didn't want to give up so much of myself and i
00:03:31.840 didn't realize that i would have to give up a hundred percent of myself my soul my body my sleep
00:03:38.140 this is the least fun thing i've ever signed up to do and i didn't sign up to do it it was an accident
00:03:42.280 i can't always show up and be the perfect version of myself with no appreciation how are all these
00:03:48.460 other moms out here being like oh my gosh this is being a mom is such a blessing i can't wait 0.95
00:03:52.600 to get pregnant with number five what the fuck i hate being a mom i want to be a dad i want to go 0.97
00:03:57.980 to work be respected only have to put on deodorant and like maybe brush your teeth i don't want to be 0.99
00:04:03.380 a mom anymore nobody appreciates you your kid doesn't appreciate you i have a two-year-old
00:04:07.200 he's wild crazy and feral every single time he's two he cries the entire time he wants to be held
00:04:12.180 he does that's bad with liberal men like this looks like a liberal i don't know if he is but 0.99
00:04:16.120 he looks more liberal but they're they're looking at each other saying what the fuck is wrong with 0.96
00:04:20.640 women even like me so the fact that he wants me to hold him the whole time during soccer okay 0.97
00:04:25.740 we're not doing soccer again ever when we go to gymnastics he doesn't look like the other kids
00:04:29.880 he doesn't act like the other kids he's a total stick out sore thumb it's fine i want to give my
00:04:35.680 kid the opportunities in life to do things to experience things to go to parks to be in a sport
00:04:42.660 to go to the splash pad to go to a water park literally whatever because we're impatient because
00:04:47.720 everyone has to be patient with us we don't have to be patient with anyone else but i'm giving you
00:04:52.380 experiences and you make me wrecked my marriage so you blame your kid for ruining your body for
00:04:56.580 ruining your marriage and then you're calling him ungrateful when he's only two years old
00:05:01.460 and then you say he doesn't even like you which i think falls on you as the parent because you
00:05:07.580 should be fostering a secure attachment style with your kid and if it's an insecure or avoidant
00:05:13.200 attachment style that's your fault okay honestly i can't believe you got online and spoke about
00:05:19.420 your two-year-old child like this is this a liberal guy oh maybe she maybe he's not maybe
00:05:24.460 he's not i was just wondering damn all right let's keep going well here's why i regret having
00:05:29.360 a second child regret having a second child and here's why
00:05:33.700 thanks for watching okay she actually maybe likes her kid i was like you can't say this online and 0.90
00:05:49.200 i needed this but it's crazy this got way less views than the ones about women complaining
00:05:54.280 so women love complaining so anyways i love you guys thank you so much for watching please like 1.00
00:05:59.740 the video if you can and subscribe to the channel bring the notification bell i'll see you next time 1.00