Pearl - June 10, 2025


Mothers are the problem


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Length

6 minutes

Words per minute

174.01161

Word count

1,049

Sentence count

86

Harmful content

Misogyny

19

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Toxicity

13

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Hate speech

11

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In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the sit down and talk about what it means to be a single mom and how it affects them and their kids. They also talk about the benefits of having a deadbeat mom in your life.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I would love to see a world where there's more deadbeat mothers. 1.00
00:00:03.340 And I think it's actually amazing because if the mothers are deadbeats, 1.00
00:00:08.920 the women can go be exactly who they are, 1.00
00:00:11.040 which is whores that want to go live sex in the city lifestyle, okay? 1.00
00:00:14.980 But that's great for you young guys out there trying to get laid. 1.00
00:00:18.300 So it's really a win-win because they can give birth,
00:00:21.140 they can give the dad the kid, and they can F off.
00:00:23.760 They don't have to ruin his life.
00:00:25.480 They can go ruin some other guy's life who can just dump him. 0.51
00:00:29.360 Like, they can just dump him.
00:00:30.920 Actually, I do think we should have a talk about public things.
00:00:36.060 I don't mind being recognized and saying hi,
00:00:40.340 but if I'm ever somewhere where there's a lot of women, 1.00
00:00:45.540 do you know what I mean?
00:00:47.220 I just, I kind of tread carefully because I don't, 1.00
00:00:51.240 women are crazy. 1.00
00:00:52.520 I don't know what they're going to do to me, you know? 1.00
00:00:54.580 But, um, you're like, I fear women a little bit, you know? 1.00
00:01:01.120 I'm like, I don't. 0.96
00:01:02.140 But anyway, so the single dad was telling me about a situation impregnating a crackhead.
00:01:08.340 And I looked at him, I'm like, your situation sounds great.
00:01:11.660 So the mom left, she doesn't want the kids, you're not dragged to court,
00:01:17.340 and you get to raise your kid on your terms?
00:01:21.360 Do you know, I looked at him, I'm like, do you know how lucky you are?
00:01:24.080 And I asked him, I'm like, is your kid, is he like mentally, you know,
00:01:28.320 because of the crack?
00:01:28.980 And he's like, no, he came out healthy.
00:01:30.320 I'm like,
00:01:30.660 you got so lucky, my guy.
00:01:36.660 You got so lucky, I told him.
00:01:39.140 So, you know, I don't know if a deadbeat mom is the worst thing in the world. 1.00
00:01:43.520 I think it almost gives the kid more, a better shot at life.
00:01:48.180 Because women, it's like, do you know what? 1.00
00:01:51.020 You'll be just shooting for the stars.
00:01:53.360 Do you know what?
00:01:53.900 This is what happens.
00:01:54.800 Like, you'll be trying to improve something about yourself or in your career or whatever.
00:02:06.060 And the women will just nitpick at everything you do. 1.00
00:02:08.800 They do it to me all the time.
00:02:10.080 I'll be trying to improve, you know, the show or whatever.
00:02:15.460 They'll just nitpick, drag you down.
00:02:18.000 And that's what mothers do, right? 1.00
00:02:19.680 It's like, they're always telling you what you're not doing.
00:02:21.760 They're always freaking out.
00:02:24.800 Yeah, so I would love to see a world where there's more deadbeat mothers. 1.00
00:02:30.780 And I think it's actually amazing because if the mothers are deadbeats, 1.00
00:02:36.360 the women can go be exactly who they are, 1.00
00:02:38.480 which is whores that want to go live sex in the city lifestyle, okay? 1.00
00:02:42.620 But that's great for you young guys out there trying to get laid. 1.00
00:02:45.740 So it's really a win-win because they can give birth.
00:02:48.600 They can give the dad the kid and they can F off.
00:02:51.200 They don't have to ruin his life.
00:02:52.940 They can go ruin some other guy's life who can just dump them.
00:02:56.980 Like, they can just dump them.
00:02:59.160 Yeah.
00:03:01.600 Demonstrated or shown any emotion.
00:03:03.600 He's, it's almost like it's just sort of gone over his head.
00:03:08.260 But my daughter, it's been had the highest impact on.
00:03:11.580 She's very emotional and she gets really upset.
00:03:17.960 You know, she misses me.
00:03:19.500 And I have to watch myself.
00:03:21.060 I have to check myself to make sure that I don't allow my emotions to reflect onto the children.
00:03:28.200 Like, I don't upset them because I'm upset.
00:03:30.400 I have to be really mindful of that.
00:03:32.640 And it gets really, really hard.
00:03:35.120 Because I just want to tell them, I'm trying to make this world a better place for you.
00:03:40.480 And I want you to be proud of me.
00:03:42.820 Yeah.
00:03:43.040 And mothers care more about looking good to the world than helping their kids' world. 1.00
00:03:49.360 They just have a tendency to care more about looking good to the planet rather than, like, you know, being there for their kids.
00:03:57.820 And I love them so much.
00:04:01.600 Yeah.
00:04:02.720 It's hard.
00:04:03.600 It's hard.
00:04:04.680 I'm sorry for crying.
00:04:06.240 Don't apologize for crying.
00:04:08.100 It is still raw, but.
00:04:09.500 Michael says, my daughter was raised by me after the divorce and my ex-wife, she turned out pretty good.
00:04:14.960 Away from my ex-wife, she turned out pretty good.
00:04:17.100 She graduated high school, didn't get knocked up as a teenager, and wasn't a stripper. 1.00
00:04:21.040 I've never met a kid raised by a single father that didn't turn out pretty good.
00:04:26.640 I mean, one of the reasons I wanted to come and talk to people is to help me.
00:04:31.880 To help me feel more better in the decision and to know that I'm not alone. 0.99
00:04:38.320 What kind of bullshit is that? 0.99
00:04:40.940 I came on the news to rationalize abandoning my kids to make me feel better. 1.00
00:04:47.100 about the decision.
00:04:48.060 Men don't need that. 1.00
00:04:49.420 If men, men are okay with being the villain, they understand sometimes you're just the villain
00:04:53.840 in some people's stories.
00:04:55.480 And they don't have to justify it.
00:04:58.040 They just take the L.
00:04:58.920 They don't have to prove that they're a good person.
00:05:01.080 They just say, well, maybe I'm a bad person.
00:05:02.980 But to speak out, I think this is a really important issue that we're not hearing about.
00:05:07.620 Why did you want to talk about it tonight?
00:05:09.240 But for me, I feel, I thought this would be really good for me because it's early days.
00:05:15.620 And I thought it's part of that process in trying to cope.
00:05:20.560 I wanted to hear what other people's stories were and form a bit of a network so that I'd
00:05:27.900 get some support.
00:05:29.880 But I also think it's such a taboo topic that I've really wanted to put it out there.
00:05:35.100 And I wanted to say to people that have been knocking me, this is where it ends.
00:05:41.180 I'm not going to justify my decision anymore.
00:05:44.700 You know, this is it.
00:05:45.880 I've backed myself 100%.
00:05:47.880 And this is what I've chosen to do.
00:05:50.320 And just put it out there.
00:05:52.100 And I'm not going to talk about it anymore.
00:05:54.120 And that's other people's worries.
00:05:58.260 Take that out, ladies. 1.00
00:05:59.760 Take it.
00:06:00.540 Just take it.
00:06:01.640 Just take it.